@@chupchupman5859 in many dating advice if you love yourself you are more bound to have a better relationship when loving others. It is not narcissistic it is simply healthier and better for the people in the relationship.
@emxr yeah you can upload videos to be unlisted which means only people with the link can watch it, and some people might put that link on there Patreon or something
Notes: 1. 0:39 causally touch them - a light touch may make them feel closer to you (ex. a friendly nudge on the shoulder) 2. I think they accidentally skipped #2 3. 1:47 be a leader - take the lead to show that you are capable 4. 3:30 smile when you can - smiling is attractive and don't be afraid to smile 5. 4:40 maintain good eye contact - your partner may associate eye contact as feelings as love + attraction, try to look into each other's eyes ~75% of the time, eye contact w/ partner releases phenlethylamine ("love drug") 6. 5:20 crack a joke or two - using humor may make others like you more Hope that was helpful:)
Nobody can keep pretending forever. I've just got to be myself, bcz I want him to love me for me, not for a phony first impression that just wasn't me, and same for him too. What attracts me to a man is one who is being his everyday self. I appreciate honesty, and of course, a man who will be there for me through thick & thin. A man who smiles & laughs easily is very attractive. He has to be easygoing, not a stuffy & difficult type. I can't stand those. He has to be kind and helpful with a good heart. Love and trust are mutual. A man who's not afraid to show me his feelings. I enjoy the company of a man who can make me laugh and who laughs when I am being funny, instead of feeling insulted. Some can't tell the difference. After all this is how we choose a good friend also. One who understands us, one who laughs at life with us, not at us.
In my country things are weird, people have a lot of contact here, it’s normal to people when meeting each other for the first time, to give a hug or a kiss in the cheek. I’m not really a fan of this kind of behavior but it’s very common here
6 Behaviors That Attract People the Most: 1. Casually touch them 0:40 2. Be a leader 1:28 3. Smile when you can 3:31 4. Maintain good eye contact 4:01 5. Crack a joke or two 5:20 I hope that I, a time traveler, could help 💜
"Crack a joke or two" Oh trust me my sense of humor is terrible that 90% of the time I ended up not telling the joke and laugh uncontrollably for 2 minutes
4:39 is so true My girlfriend and I were on call once and I was about to fall asleep but then I saw her staring at me as if I was her entire universe at this moment.. I have never felt that much butterflies in my entire body and mind She made me smile and when I think about it again to this day, it makes me feel so happy and light.. I love her so much and I want to wake up to her beautiful face every morning for the rest of our lives, looking at each other with all of the love in our hearts ❤️❤️ Love really is a drug but dang it’s so good and worth it when it’s done with the right person and with respect
I wish I could but it HURTS, I lose feeling in my face so I don't know if I'm smiling or looking like : l My relaxed face makes me either look tired or annoyed and I think I've been accidentily scaring people off for looking so unapproachable, CURSE YOU RBF >:' (
Am so happy that i subscribed this channel. I am getting to know myself more and change accordingly and the journey is still going on. So far, so good. That calm voice really works wonders. Thanks a lot Psych 2 go team for ur immense support. Love y'all so much and thanks again 💜💜
I think "touching makes you more attractive" is because everyone is so starved of physical contact, no matter how small, on a daily basis that it's almost manipulative.
Being just *you* is, I guess, an attraction in itself, I like people who r just...them, in every place or every situation, they don't think it's necessary for them to change themselves for others or to fit in somewhere n well for me that's really attractive :)
@@gericko4931 That’s because you probably only met fake people You’re too real for that! Just love yourself and be patient, love will come to you when you least expect it oooorr you will decide to just go for it yourself when you will feel it
This channel has greatly improved my mental well-being. I learned that I was “child parentified” along with other things. Thank you for what you do for everyone
Congrats on 7 million, psychology has always been an interesting topic to me alongside science, and I've been able to understand psychology and mental health more in depth thank to your videos, so thank you
I really like people who are funny. One of the reasons I watch Omaru Polka so much is that she's an absolute clown and she has a huge range of funny voices. She can sound like an old man, a seductive woman, a bratty child, a psychopath... the list goes on. Overall, I find humor is maybe the most attractive trait.
Psych2Goers are all attractive. But even if someone does not like you, that’s ok: not everyone has good taste ❤️ from *High Living - animated videos* 🚀🌙
I've always wondered why I received so many compliments saying I'm attractive so when this video was recommended, I immediately clicked on it and wow.. omg I never knew that 🤭 thank youu!! 😂😚
Who is here before 6.99m subs? O_OIt looks like missing point #2 ran off to check their compatible personality matches on So Syncd now: app.sosyncd.com/BdNN/4Psych2Go
I literally use theses traits on a daily basis and I do it subconsciously! I kinda realize why people like to stick around me now.. Edit: Too bad I'm likeable as a friend but no one wants to date me.. even worse is when most of your friends are taken and your the only one who is single and you just supports them but then you cry inside..😔😭
This channel knows just exactly what I want when I want. Am really Thankful I got this channel. It helped me reshape and control my own life way better than before. P.s: Love from Kidus N.
I live in Australia. Believe me, touching is NOT allowed here. It is frowned upon. I once lightly touched a young Turkish woman on the shoulder when I wanted to speak, then the whole group labelled me a lesbian. The other who labelled me too was a Filippina. Unfortunately when dealing with ppl with low IQs, it's best to frown at them & keep distant from them. I'm not normally a touchy person, but this incident some 20+ years ago has totally put me off it. Ppl here are not touchy and want a personal space around them of about a few steps away when speaking, at least. When I went to SE Asia, I noticed ppl there, women esp, would intrude into MY personal space. They'd be standing right in my face and I put my arms out to stop them when I saw them approaching. Turkish men like to stand so close when speaking to women, like an inch from my face. Now that I didn't mind. They were so handsome.
Fantastic video and tips! The leader thing is very true. I don't know about attractive, but I know I've gained trust and respect from new acquaintances much faster when I tried to take the lead and take the initiative to help them. It's a great mindset to practice.
Wow, I took the test you recommended and I got INFJ/so thoughtful. It says that I got the rarest personality type and I'm best with ENTP and ENFP. Also the description for my personality type was really accurate and I'm glad I don't have to just go off of my zodiac or birthstone for my personality :)
Thanks for the video, this will be great at attracting my crush she admits she likes me but as a friend but we don’t know each other super well to be honest this year has been really rough. I’m hopping to make it up to her, her heart has been broken twice this year by two friends and I want to give her that love more than anything in the world she’s a remarkable human being.
@S.K.SHAMBHAVI I hope right now I’d say we’re just friends but I wanna move up to close or best friend and eventually girlfriend. She is smarter than me though a year older and knows more about the adult world, I barely know anything I thought it took 4 years to learn how to drive that isn’t remotely right, she said it was fine though.
lol one of my best tricks is to slowly smile while looking into someone’s eyes while they tell a story, and usually they get more excited and start smiling back
2 things I learnt now. I'm capable of pretty much all of these. I was again reconfirmed I'm an ENFP with my curiosity to check the if that link works tho I'm not interested in dating anyone now. Oh. And the third. I'm more busy admiring the cuteness of your animation than paying proper attention. I love psych2go 🤤❤️❤️
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"6 behaviour that attract people the most" Me: I don't need it because I'm not attracted to anyone and no one is attracted to me but still I will watch it..
When I was in nursing school, a bunch of the hospital nurses and I were talking. One of the males made a funny joke so I touched his shoulder in a “that was a good one” kinda way and he punched my arm so hard it knocked me off balance. I’d be careful with the touching thing. I reported him to the house supervisor. I was crying and was sort of blamed for touching someone I barely knew
I'm no fan of being touched by strangers, myself... BUT that sounds completely uncalled for... Thank GOD I have a motorcycle... AND thank you for reminding me why I love it so much... ;o)
I do most of these things with my crush. Things like lightly brushing his shoulder or back just feels natural, and he seems to respond well to it. I just wish I knew how he felt.
Omg same! I like being touchy with my crush like touching her shoulders and her hair sometimes. And I always smile at them whenever they talk, I feel like this is a 100% turn on for them because they’ll feel special. Small things matter
@@JasmINCERDIBLE Awww aren’t little touches the cutest? Us too, every time we talk we’re always smiling at each other and laughing. It definitely feels special when make eye contact and smile at each other. The little things are definitely big turn on’s.
Y’all should do a video on how to get a better personality. Every time I talk to someone I feel awkward and weird and like I’m scaring them off. Idk if I’m overreacting or not but every time I talk to someone I always think stuff like “omg I shouldn’t have said that. They probably think I’m weird. They look mad, what if I offended them? They probably hate me. I should just stop talking. I’m making them uncomfortable.” I honestly wish I could just change my entire personality. I know my personality is very unattractive which isn’t good because a good personality is the only thing that could get me a guy (I’m very ugly). I really need help. I’m 19 and I’ve never even held hands with a guy before because I’m so unattractive physically and personality wise. I want to at least have a good personality so I have a chance at finding a bf one day.
@@joegaming2583 but what about my face? You can have a perfect body and guys still won’t go for you if you’re ugly in the face. Maybe I’ll save up for plastic surgery or something. I just hate how the only way to find a partner these days is to be perfect 😞
Also, can you do a video on the Blackpill Theory? A lot of the attractiveness videos that y'all make don't address the elephant in the room: To even get to the point where these social skills matter, you have to have the prerequisites of physical attractiveness first (being tall, muscular, and NOT certain racial groups for men)
Height and race are all out of our control, so it pointless to be miserable or worrying about them. Just focus on becoming a better person, those are in your control.
I don't think that'd be very healthy for you to focus on, it's essentially ideological nihilism for the dating world. While it's certainly true attractive people get a lot of wordly benefits, if you let that fact consume your life it greatly reduced your self esteem and all your focus. God made you just the way you are, in his image, and because of that you are beautiful.
@@tvhliv2397 It sounds more like pragmatism to me. The root of all wisdom is to acknowledge the facts, to paraphrase a former Finnish president. The theory pretty much seeks to reconcile oneself to the prospect that one domain of living (finding love on your own terms) is closed off for a lot of people.
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-YxKxi8iM-lw.html The School of Life does some great videos on mental health, including how to forgive yourself
@@idreamindarknessandsleepto1475 I used to feel like that too . But now I feel guilty for every bad thing I did in the past year and It's eating me alive!
That "Eye contact" part hit me hard I used look at her all the time (during the class, recess, etc ) but she never looked at me ........ Can I call it Eye-contact ? 🙃
Thanks for introducing me to So Syncd! Ignoring the dating feature, its personality test is really TOP NOTCH! Best one I've encountered in all my life. If you're reading this, I highly encourage you to give the test a try. You don't have to date anyone, just take the personality test. It's super detailed and tells you a lot more about yourself than you might know.
Just be yourself. Touch only if you feel to. Smile if you feel like it. Lead if you enjoy it. Maybe someone will like you as you are, i think people can be wonderful just by being honest about who they are. I believe I am good enough therefore not feel the need to look fore ways to be "more attractive" but for ways to love and accept myself as I am. Each with their own unique disposition.
1) I have OCD so if I'm touched or I touch something I have to wash my skin with alcohol. 2) I'm am introvert and I don't have good leadership. 3) I don't like making eye contacts cuz it makes me feel anxious. 4) I don't have friends cuz I'm an introvert and I don't have the guts to smile at everyone. 5) I don't get jokes let alone making one. No wonder no one likes me. 😁
Ayo congrats on 7 million! I won't even lie, I could've been living with undiagnosed anxiety if it weren't for your team :,) I showed one of your vids to my parents and they took me to a therapist, I would like to stick on your journey to 10 Million ^^ and thanks for your in direct help!
I have tried all of these only to get rejected. I have never been on a date at all. I currently like a girl and I was told never to approach her and never to express my feelings towards her. Now I found out she has a boyfriend now and I can’t express my love towards her.
