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Psych2Go I used to love your channel but it seems like you're becoming more and more unserious. You could be talking about important psychology topics but instead you're discussing "5 dating tips for introverts"
Does somebody has this weird problem that when you are with people you just want to be alone, and when you're finally alone you actually feel lonely and want company. It's seriously getting on my nerves and I hate it
1. Go to events or places that reflects your hobbies and interests. 2. Be prepared to go through trial and error 3. Have Honest Conversations. 4. Only make time for people who your actually interested in dating. 5. Keep an open mind.
The worst thing is when you as an Introvert go beyond your comfort zone - and still are Single after several years. I - an Introvert - decided with 22 to just go for it. In all these years I have only been rejected by women. I am 31 bow. Never had a hug or a kiss. I dont know what to anymore.
@@ceooflonelinessinc.267 asking for dating tips is kinda like putting the cart before the horse. You have to be a person women would want first. Start off with working on yourself so that when you present yourself to a woman you'll have a better time with them. Whoever you come off as is the exact person you'll recieve back. Come off as rude and you'll attract rudeness. Come off as kind and you'll attract kindness. It all depends on how you come off as and what you do. Hope this helps
As for me being an introvert, I'm dating an extrovert. He's very kind and funny and I enjoy his company, but whenever he goes to his large group of friends, I don't feel right. I don't like crowds. Sometimes I feel uncomfortable so I leave with one of my friends somewhere open. Then I turn around and see him right there behind me, and it makes me so happy 💞
The worst thing is when you as an Introvert go beyond your comfort zone - and still are Single after several years. I - an Introvert - decided with 22 to just go for it. In all these years I have only been rejected by women. I am 31 bow. Never had a hug or a kiss.
Tysm for your this comment tbh I'm not an introvert but the guy I like is an introvert I'm not sure if he likes me or not but I have heard many times from others that he have or had a crush on me but I'm still not sure bcoz I just can't assume anything without knowing the truth but I like him very much and bcoz of covid it's been 1.5 yrs and I am not able to meet or talk to him and he is not available in any kind of social site and alsoooo upon all this I'm gonna leave this school in some months so I just want to know that how can I make him comfortable so that whenever we meet he can express his feelings to me ❤️
I make the same puny or bad jokes. If someone laughs at them cherish that person. I find if an introvert like me can make a girl laugh with these jokes then there may be a chance.
As an introvert i have found that meeting women was not the hard part , it was meeting the right one for me.. most of the women i meet ,things would start off fine but then they wanted more..they wanted me to go out more..do things in public more..so in the end the relationship would crash and burn.. but i finally found a lady who is not exactly an introvert ,but she understands me..and she is able to go out with her friends and is ok with me staying at home ..
I can kinda help with that may not have dated but I've always known how to help others in it and have it work out and yes i know this is from 2 years ago and things may have changed but in case it hasn't or those you are looking at this comment and have the same feeling just find someone you know personally and that they know you the same way it'll help with the bond introverted or not and the courage to confess feelings try not to think to much of rejection it's better to just go for it don't think about it just let it happen either in person or text it's better to know the answer officially then never knowing also carry a chocolate bar or anything in your pocket handy on dates because when asked a question and need time to think eat it and think so that the person you're on a date with won't question it too much since it's rude to eat with a mouth full and let the person know how you feel about something rather then just agreeing or disagreeing to make the relationship be a little more stable on thoughts and think before you might say something too awkward or embarrassing for an excuse to leave or something so goodluck to anyone reading this.
The worst thing is when you as an Introvert go beyond your comfort zone - and still are Single after several years. I - an Introvert - decided with 22 to just go for it. In all these years I have only been rejected by women. I am 31 bow. Never had a hug or a kiss.
Get out. Get rejected. Get free... Once you get rejected, and rejected HARD, you will not fear rejection anymore. And your confidence will boost like when before puberty kicked in.
Saving you a lot of animation. 1. Go to events and places that harbour your hobbies and interests. 2. Be prepared to go through trial and error. 3. Have honest conversations. 4. Only make time for people you are really interested in (not those who appeal to your parents or your friends) 5. Keep an open mind.
I‘m totally into an extrovert but she is so out there that she‘s kinda scary. I feel like she thinks of me as just someone she knows. But she joint the literature club I‘m in so I‘m not alone that’s super cute.
ChriH!st H! Maybe😏 Actually I‘m the leader of my schools literature club and my friends and I made fun of that when Doki Doki came out. But my sadly my name is Maxi
As a lifelong shy & sensitive introvert: small gatherings (ex: friend's house warming, a birthday party, etc...), work, hobby-oriented gatherings, and online (chat forums) are places where I've met past boyfriends. I despise small talk and like direct & honest communication. Usually at places like the aforementioned, people are already connected by something. It's easier/more comfortable to socialize. On a side note: I prefer dating other introverts. We understand each other and it's much easier to get along. I get drained by extroverts. I can be friends with an extrovert, but I can't date one.
You guys are breaking me. I thought im a unicorn with 22 and no relationship, not even a kiss. But 27, please dont let this go on for another 5 years, im falling apart..
For an introvert, We need a serious relationship to mold us to be a much better person and to help us to go through in life, We don't need One night stand or Flirt or something that just for fun relationship, we need to find our perfect match in life to experience a serious relationship, i know its hard for me to find that because im introvert but im still believe that it takes time to work that out, Well Patience is a virtue, The more you wait the more people you can meet. Sometimes you might think that introvert sucks but you are not thinking deep that on this way you can love yourself more and know what you really like, so if the person is already there you just gonna approach her/him (Well im sucks on approaching people so expect for me to be difficult on that part) to share your interest or Getting to know each other stage.
Yes, that is the first step- realizing self and what we truly want and value. Second is finding those who appreciate our views and want to be a part of this picture of deeper discovery. So mostly introverts would fit the bill. From there on it has to be patience and genuineness. See, you may not be good at the 'extrovert way of doing things', but you've a promising self-devised method that is better suited given your orientation. Now, go on to the field... wish you success.
It’s always sorta been hard for me in social situations of many different kinds because of how introverted and shy I am, but I believe I’m so lucky to actually have a bf who sees past how quiet and shy I am. I usually try to avoid social contact with people when I’m in class or in public when not necessary, but he is the only one that is able to make me change my mind on that. He has actually made me feel way more confident in myself, and I know that I am slowly changing and opening up more to the world than before. I feel so lucky to have someone like him in my life who has mutual feeling for me. :)
Thanks for being so helpful.Every single one of your videos relates to me in some way and fills me with hopes.The backround music really helps as well.Thanks for reducing my stress c:
1. Go to events 2. Be prepared to go through trial and error 3. Have honest conversations 4. Only make time for people you’re really interested in 5. Keep an open mind ❤️
I'm gonna share this to my friend since hes an introvert and he has a crush on someone ;3 And I'm an introvert :D Love your vids! X3 Tips for dating as an introvert: Idk I haven't dated anyone yet :v
Karami woah you can’t tell people that.. that’s something they figure out for themselves. If you want to have a relationship with someone, go for it. It’s something you learn from experience, not from others.
Ive found that having an extrovert as my best friend for over 8 years now has really been such a benefit for both of us, we've definitely learned a lot about and from each other, and sort of balance each other out
I’m an introvert but have social anxieties issues and a bit of other stuff going on. What really helps me is actually understanding that you don’t have to be someone else to date this “crush” of yours. Just gotta be authentic, genuine and also courageous. Learning to step out of your comfort zone, even just a little can come a long way. Compatibility and compromises are key points for relationship imo.
Both me and my partner are introverts and i have really bad social anxiety and it's almost been a year since we first started dating! Your videos always make me happy and i learn a lot more from them, thank you!
I’m 37 and I’ve given up hope. From age 27-36 I was dead set on staying that way until I gave on girl a chance. It was a major mistake which made me decide to officially “retire” from relationships
Don't give up. I'm 35. We're still relatively young. I recently approached someone for the first time after several years of being totally single. He ignored me lol but I'm glad I did it cause for the first time in my life I put myself out there without any qualms whatsoever. I was completely sincere with him. So I think I'm strong enough for the adventure now even if it means I won't get what I want.
What really helps me connect with people is meeting them doing things i like practicing like sports, music or other itenterest i have. Sharing a common goal with someone, even if it is as simple as reaching some random place by foot because it's pretty or playing music outdoors, develops your relationship with that person as well as both persons themselves. Besides all that, simply taking your comfort zone outside of your house calls for good luck. Congrats on this channel! Really wise and concious people you are
I wasn't an introvert back then, I greet everyone I meet, talk to them even if they're not close. And people seemed to like me. My friendship with people is just like a dream come true. **wakes up*
Introverts are not always closed for others. I opened up through the years, less afraid of the unknown, more talking towards others. Still I don't like talking within groups, I don't make friends, I like my alone time, can't do small talk. I must say I had some help to open up more, after that it was me to be better and improve more. Dating is still a hurdle, but I just need to open my mind more.
Wow it's really hard to se boomers on this channel. It's nice to know there are people like you around! Every time I scan through the comment section I feel no longer alone.
ı guess its related with the generation :/ your generation was more closed, there was limited interaction between the partners. our generation however constantly meets with new people, we cant get enought time to know eachother as a friend let alone as a potential partner
I hate it in an interview when you can totally see through the "boss's" purpose for having you there to begin with!🤣🤣 As if it's for my benefit when I already know they hired someone else but still interviewed me...😳
The biggest and most important piece of advice that I can give to you, is, that you should take your time, when getting to know your potential partner. Don't rush into a relationship, without knowing whether you can trust that person and share your feeling with him or her. Take your time to get to know that person and find common ground, so you have a solid basis to build on, before going any further. :3
Yo, if I am even remotely in a relationship I know what the trigger will be. The person who I will bite a brick for is the lady who actually asks me about me and listens. Only two people have ever asked me about things that I've never told anyone. One is my pastor and the other was a good friend on a mission trip who is now a youth pastor. Needless to say if a lady non pastor asks me these sorts of things I will give them some sincere consideration. Also I don't think it will be too much longer before I'm diagnosed with bipolar disorder. It would make sense if I have it. In fact it would almost be a relief if I did. I'd finally know what's wrong with me. It runs in my family and my brother doesn't seem to have it. Then again he has a girlfriend. But I am just crazy and I don't have amy problems. At least that's what I tell myself because I know that everyone else thinks I just overreact but they don't know me at all because they never freaking ask!
I’m an introvert. I was just asked into a possible first relationship from someone I don’t know much about yet, and this advice is what I’ve been looking for. Thank you and wish me luck
@@annaxd6974 Best of luck to you! My comment may be 4 years old, but I still stand by it. Always know that you deserve the things you wish for. Take your time to make sure you know someone well enough to lead a relationship with confidence. You've got this!
I’m an introvert and I have a crush on another introvert. (We both talk a lot, he a bit more than me but it’s a different thing to be talkative/shy than an introvert just to be clear.) We are friends now. I like that we can both admit being introverts so we understand if another one’s ”social meter” has gone down for some reason. Silence doesn’t have to be awkward if we don’t make it one, either. I honestly think he likes me back yet our relationship is building up slowly, steadily, not in a rush, just the way I like it! My extroverted friend is talking with everybody 24/7, and I think I can’t handle anybody, even a boyfriend or a best friend like that.
Except for football and gaming(League Of Legends) I don't have too many hobbies and in my city there aren't events for my hobbies. The only public place I go to recreate is an internet caffee(gaming zone) but I don't know if the girls don't like to show up there or just don't know about the place. And I don't think we(introverts) have too many places to go and meet people. Anyway, I'm sure most of us are fine with this and don't force themselves too much finding someone. I don't say we can't find parteners, I just say that if we are more of a retreated people its harder to find each other.
glad to have come across this video. i never thought about the first point before, but it actually makes so much sense. going to a club just isn't me and maybe by going to places i'm genuinely interested in will be helpful. so simple yet something i've never thought of, thanks!
livia absolutely! It's great to get out of your comfort zone once in a while, but when it comes to finding love, it's ideal to be in a place that makes you feel confident and comfortable. Thanks for watching! 😊
1. Socializing with people who have the same interests is a great way to go. Music, certain shows, games, cooking tips. There are places nearby. 2. Even though I internalize how I feel most of the time, I think I'm getting better and will be ready for the dating world. Trial and error is just part of the game. 3. I feel like having the hard talks first will make things somewhat easier. I'm willing to be honest from the get go. 4. This seems to be the most important part of the video. 5. Yes. Being open minded really helps. Even if two people don't always see eye to eye can still make things work.
I'm an introvert who's been rejected many times, I kinda feel like I'm a stupid person who tries to find love. But because of this video, I now have confidence to live and wait for my true love Edit: sorry if my English is kinda bad
I guess I'm both. Sometimes very extroverted, but very introverted at times. It makes it hard to date because people seem to only understand or be able to want to be around you when you're being one or the other. I've found that finding someone who is both, along with having similar interests, is best. Someone who is comfortable being around while you are being yourself no matter how you are.
I’m an introvert. For me, so far in life, no matter who you are to me, I can only spend so much time with you before I am drained of all my energy and ability to care. My family is an exception but even growing up I’d spend most of my life in my room away from everyone. Someday I just want to find somebody who I can be around for long periods of time and not want to kick them out.
Im a huge introvert, i sometimes cry,Maybe because I have social anxiety disorder, I know, Embarrassing, But i find that being with extroverts is good 😊 if you find someone who speaks up you want to be like them, Though not all the time, Being An introvert, having social anxiety and trust issues i find myself staying in groups of friends i trust and dont feel nervous around, Finding people who share things in common with you is always good but also finding changes and finding things new, Extroverts help you be able to express yourself even if its honestly baby steps or even In years to go by, They are really great to be around too. Idk how should i know. Im a single pringle
But, @Muune, it's for some people hard even being in groups. Like me, i'm often alone, sometimes with my friend. Most people call me boring, relatable, but it's just....often just sad being alone most of the time, but also k owing you're not really able being in groups (Yes, english isn't my native language)
Being a introvert has become a part of me as a identity. Its who I am. I am grateful for the tips the channel is giving. But in all honesty people are not kind or understanding of introverts. They label you as a freak. Its hurtful and uncomfortable. Even makes things strange with your family.
Oh my God. I love the tip about dating extoverts. My husband is the polar opposite of my introvertness. He is so extroverted where I am extremely introverted and it is so funny how well we get along. We have our ups and downs just like any normal relationship but we are 5 years strong with two kids. I hope they are more extroverted like their dad because it is so hard being introverted.
As not an actual joke comment to any other introverts out there my tips are 1) Never be afraid to say no, this is crucial to a relationship, don't do anything you're uncomfortable with. 2) Relationships don't work in pay-backs. It may be hard to express yourself, especially being an introvert, but this is going back to it's okay to say no. Just because your special someone gave you a gift or did something doesn't mean you have to pay them back in something you don't want to do, don't force yourself, ever, it only ends up worse. 3) Communicate. Tell them how you feel, it can be hard but this is a huge test. If they understand and respect you for your statement and show understanding then that's perfect. If they don't, then they don't have that much of an interest in you. 4) Just because they did so much for you doesn't mean you have to stay with them. People change, for better or for worse, you don't need to be afraid to break up with someone, but you can give them emotional support, especially if it's a former-friend. Well, this is really long now, but in all seriousness I wish I had done these things when I was in a relationship, when I didn't say things it just got bottled up and... I ended up exploding in emotion, we were both at fault in that relationship, but, we made it out okay, even if I'm not with them anymore, so... don't be afraid! Dating is hard, but it can be beautiful too.
I'm a really strong introvert, the only people I can handle with without getting stressed or uncomfortable are my nearest family.. Even when I'm with a good friend I think about going home and be alone (after 30min). I love it to be alone but I also love it so be with my family, so there's always a struggle. I had a girlfriend for over 1 year and hmm.. There were many moments I felt uncomfortable because I wanted to be alone more often and year.. I ended it. So now I don't know if I'm the relationship dude, but I've downloaded tinder and don't know why and yeah. That's my story. You can use this knowledge now for nothing, your welcome
I found it is substantially more easy for me to summon self confidence when I carry with me the option of using the back door in case things go a little... too far south rather than go in without a back up plan. Though it might not be the "safest" solution. I have found it to be the most effective for me as it levels out what I have to lose with reasonable incentive.
I'm so happy that the internet exists. My boyfriend unfortunately lives almost 2,000km away, and due to our age we can't actually meet each other irl. He's such an amazing person, and it's the internet that brought us together. Online relationships do count, people!
ᕖᓚ ᑕᕇᓪ makes me fucking sad because i was in the exact same Situation...but it where 400km...well everything was so perfect and it was like we where the exact same person...she broke up with me and it killed me...she was the one
I recently just got out of a relationship with someone who, for the first time, I grew to have feelings for. I tried to do things with her as much as I could because I loved to spend time with her, even though she was usually very busy. The third thing you covered, is what really got me. I was always anxious to text her. She just wanted to stay friends with me, which is cool too, but it really does make me wonder if I'll ever find someone I can call my SO.
wait, ok so what happens if you are an introvert and the guy you like is also an introvert, you both have a lot in common but never talk cause you're both too shy?
I'm an introvert, & I never had this much attraction towards any boy, no matter how handsome he is, but i never liked someone.... But now, this is the first time in my life, I've liked this guy so much!!, I never thought that i would ever fall in love with someone, but he just stole my heart, & now I don't know what should I do now?.... He just stuck in my mind 24/7, I just can't forget him..... & I'm too afraid to ask him out, and now I have no idea what to do?
I'm seeing a lot of people in these comments joking about how they're never going to date because their introverted. I get that these are just jokes, but this person put this video together to offer tips on how we could potentially find someone who makes you happy, and the fact that you're willing to let your nature prevent you from going outside the box can't help you to get very far in life. As an introvert myself, the concept of putting myself out there is terrifying as heck, but I think it's worth it if it actually means knowing what it's like to be in love. Thank you for this video @psych2go, I, and others I'm sure, appreciate it.
I'm 15 and i'm dating a girl. It was yesterday, we were chatting online when she asked "who is your crush", after a lot of incistence i told "actualy, its you". She processed the information for a while and said "i like you too". I was unprepared, i wasn't expecting that. I always lived depreciating myself, treating myself like a trash, staying away from peaple becouse (in my mind) i was bothering them and never thought someone would like me. I asked her to wait a moment and started to write a beautiful dating request. I send to her and she said " I accept Lu" (my nickname she gave me). i said "i love you", she said "i love you too". Now i don't know what to do, like i said, i never expected reaching the part i tell her i like her, it was like an impossible dream. If anyone have hints, please feel free to share!
Hey at least you were able to tell her plus it may not have worked out but maybe someone out there will treat you better than her or maybe not depends on how it is but don't think yourself as trash think of how many people were jerks, cheaters, sometimes popular teens since well too much of an ego, and those who date just for the purpose of dating not love those kinds of people are the real trash not you and goodluck on your future not everyone is like you all the way and that's what makes you great and thinking some are better than you in personality or looks or anyway just means that you're better than you think cause sometimes the ones we think are above us are actually below also if you start dating again try contacting me through this comment I have advice for many things like these even without experiencing them myself but worked for others so might as well help more with it so best of luck to you
@@joshuaperez8102 Wow, thank you very much! We are not dating anymore, but its not a problem for me now. I'll try to remeber to contact you *IF* i start a date again. Thank you again! :)
I loved that video! Sometimes I only need my space and my boyfriend didn’t understand why I didn’t want to see him. It’s not because I stop to love him but it’s just because I need my time alone or do my own things
good luck and hope for the best! LDR's can be tough especially without the contact, was in one for a year with a dude in the Netherlands lol. Just communicate and open up with eachother and be honest and trusting and I'll hope for the best for ya'll!
It’s hard finding someone who is compatible with me though, sometimes I just feel like I’ll never be understood by other people except for other introverts
Same here but that's what makes us different from the rest we are mostly more empathetic and quick tip don't just try to look for someone special right away try having just regular connections let the friendship or even just a regular hang out build on these things do take time you may not find a person now but that doesn't mean never there will be someone who will like all of you and not just because of looks or smarts but all of you and is there when you need it these things may sound like fiction to some but it doesn't mean it isn't true plus all introverts are special in their own way so goodluck to you and all you haven't found someone yet or struggling to.
As an introvert, I hate social interactions. I'm a chill guy. I don't do much and I could be considered "boring" by others because of the lack of excitement in my life lol. I found it most enjoyable when I spend time with my crush and what is said in the video is true. To other introverts: It's healthy and normal to be in a relationship.
You're right, just that you're different than the world (because extroverts define the world in their own image at the exclusion of other possibilities), you are taken for an 'unsocial and boring' individual and they don't get comfortable around you (for you to be getting comfortable in return). Not as if you'd miss something you'd find worthwhile by associating with them- for all the hype they create it's actually the extroverts who are actually 'boring' (read as "too little of interest to me", as defined by an introvert).
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Stephanie Pianowski Pianowski Sometimes it is. When I was growing up as a kid the public library I went to was kind of annoying with people talking and children and even most recently when I went there a week ago there was someone who was snoring loudly and had a loud ringtone.
"Go to events and places that reflect your favorite hobbies and interests." I've yet to find anyone just in my bed. My hobbies and interests include sleep.
About a week ago I met this amazing girl in the Belgian Ardennes. She was an entertainer there so naturally she didnt have much time to spend freely. I was far too shy to ask herout in a public place and I messed up my attempts to draw her to a romantic place and do it in a comfortable environment. Now Im home and I dont even have her number... This was the first time someone met my expectations, sense of humour and personality and I fucked it up... Melanie, if you're reading this: It's Kevin from tent 10. I'd love to take you out sometime
I can't find someone who I'm attracted to physically and personally. It's always one or the other. And don't try me with the "looks don't matter" because they most definitely do. I can't have a healthy sex life if I'm not attracted and you can't have a healthy relationship without a healthy sex life
I understand how challenging that can be, finding someone that you connect with in both ways. But the main lesson from ''looks don't matter'' is to remember that they are not the priority because being with someone you find attractive but uninteresting won't last, whereas if you find someone you can connect with on a deeper level personality wise you'll realize that attraction can grow and develop. The physical traits that didn't catch your attention at first, might become extremely endearing after you let the inside swine through. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, thus your vision, perspective and opinion can change.
how about later on in life you lose interest as that person 'ages'? looks should come second, only to personal connection. unless the other person is very appalling to be with- about average should be good enough going by physical looks, aint it so?
It’s funny you should type this because I remember replying to someone saying beauty’s only the bonus in a relationship and I said not everyone would agree with that and then he just replied back to me with things I don’t think had much to do with beauty and then ended by saying not everyone can handle the flavor of truth. But I wasn’t lying about people not having the same mindset as him about what people will find important in a relationship.
Friendships involve love. A different kind than the romantic one, but they still have it. To say love is overrated must mean you're in denial of your feelings. Love is a wonderful thing and to be in love is also a great thing. Friendship is good too, but it isn't the same nor a substitute.
we are only human and in every mistake we make in dating is a stepping stone on our path. It's definitely an experience and worth it in the end that our next relationship would even be a better one. ☺
I feel it’s hard for introverts to find the right person since we tend to be a bit picky when it comes to love. Don’t do this! You don’t want to limit yourself from your potential true love!!
I’m an introvert and people(mostly extroverts) would consider me quiet and unsociable or shy. I think if I like someone, I would like him because he is also an introvert, so he understands me better than how extroverts understand me
You're right, just that you're different than the world (because extroverts define the world in their own image at the exclusion of other possibilities), you are taken for an 'unsocial and boring' individual and they don't get comfortable around you (for you to be getting comfortable in return). Not as if you'd miss something you'd find worthwhile by associating with them- for all the hype they create it's actually the extroverts who are 'boring' (read as "what you do and talk, is too little of interest/relevance to me", as defined by an introvert). And understanding is a crucial element on which relationship is built. He knows why you are the way you are at the moment, it'd be is as if you split into two and the other half is interacting with you; you're also him and he's also you there is a single entity- 'both of you', loneliness no longer makes any sense; well, it ceases altogether.
Just left a man after 6mo of dating that I thought was going to want to take the next step with me...I wish I would’ve watched this beforehand. Thank y’all for sharing ❤️.
The majority are like that. As to why they go from depending on thier parents to relying on date or significant other instead of learning to become independent first. Figuring out who they're growing up to be
To choose the right partner you must know if you feel relax with, you have to be yourself with him without triying to be perfect personne cause he must love you with your faults he has to see the beautiful things in you, to see your heart not something not important like the appearances. So you have to know you deserve to be happy !!
