Man this is exactly what I was looking for! Trust me I have been searching the web like crazy and all the advice I found has made the situation worse. I even asked on Questions&Answer sides for advice and all I got back is 'let her go', 'just carry on with your life' which is total BS, when you know you love that woman and you want to be with her. Your videos are giving me hope, thank you Dan! I am ready to reattract her!
That's why you are the best expert in relationships out of so many frauds on RU-vid.... Your advices are based on common sense, reasoning, integrity and wholeheartedly passion to help people as a true therapist... I have been helped by your insightful videos and encourage you to keep up the good work! :) Greetings from West Palm Beach, Florida :)
Dan Bacon what do I do I she's mad at me, it's been a couple months and I want to get her back but there is someone new in her life, but I don't feel like he's much of a threat
Jeff Morelock LOL IMO I think there's a lot of women here who live in the fast lane in regards to be involved in shallow relationships... it must be because these days we have so many TV shows who "empower" women to be on top and see men as temporary fix, or disposable partners... I have seen list of beautiful women at the gym I go to and men are afraid to engage in conversation because these days women are "supposed" to make such decision if she's available... I think it's also a South Florida thing... San Diego, Montreal, Spain, Hawaii, Australia and many other places I have lived in, women are approachable and easy to talk to, unlike here in Florida...of course, that has been my personal experience.
Dan you’re spot on with all of this, much more real life applicable advice than the whole strict no contact malarkey you see everywhere. Much better to not leave her with the negative memories of how you messed up prior to break up too 👌🏻
You're the man, Dan! I totally understand now, it's really about re-attraction and confidence. I am applying your techniques, and it's really working if it will be done properly. Keep it up!
What about the argument that it can take 3-4 weeks for her to let go of her anger and be able to see you for who you are? If you've been needy, wouldn't it be good to give her space to show you're not needy or clingy?
Hi Chris - great questions. Answer: The argument of having to give her 3-4 weeks is just an opinion, which doesn't take into account the fact that everyone is different. Some women don't need more than a few days to let go of their anger, some need a week, two weeks, four weeks or even years. So many guys miss out on getting their ex woman back because they give her more space than is needed. About being needy and having to give her 3-4 weeks to prove that you're not... Again, that's just an opinion. You can trust that opinion or not. It's up to you. My opinion is that a week of space already proves the point that you're not needy. If you contact her after a week and you're not being needy or feeling needy, then it's not needy! So, you have nothing to worry about. If you want to get your ex back quickly, you've simply got to calm down your thoughts, regain control of your emotions and prepare to re-attract her. Most guys can do all that in under a week. If you don't think you can get ready in under a week and you need more help, I recommend that you watch this: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
Dan the man.. i feel im going backwards again, like i said my ex is on holidays untill the 4'th but now i managed to make the wrong attraction experience for her, the kind she dont like, she was testing me, and my response came to her as something my friend would say to hit on someone. i didn't know what to say really. but thats kinda how the interaction ended, and i dont know wether to take a break away from her, to give her space. or to write her about it, confront and take a call with her if she is open. any advice appriciated. I feel so distant, compared to when she had just gone off and we were talking everyday. she even said she was unsure of her decision to break up. how do it best prepare to get her back when she is home at our place again in one week?
This will help you: www.themodernman.com/blog/8-things-that-will-make-your-ex-begin-to-see-you-in-a-more-positive-light.html Also, here's my latest video that will help also: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-z0KZbGR_uXw.html
Me and my ex broke up today I wanted to know what is a good time to start to try and talk to her to start to try and repair it all? She has made some points that she wants to get back together.
Dan followed your advice on giving the ex 3-7 days of no contact. But no response. Dead silence yet. I'm blocked on FB don't know about being blocked on the phone. I'm gonna give her another 7days of no contact. Would it be to much to send her a small bouquet of roses and Something short on the card without seeming to needy or pushy?
Dan Bacon, I texted her a funny meme about spiders saying I know how much she loves spiders and made a specific comment to her that would trigger a funny/sexual moment that we had. Like you said I'm trying to text her things that trigger a happy/emotional triggers. Any other suggestions? She's been silence for 4 weeks now and I've sent her a emotional trigger every 7days. I'm debating on flowers now. ???
(Depending on who you were in the relationship and why she really broke up with you), she might not have seen that text as attractive, which is why I don't recommend using text as your main way of getting her back. Watch this: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-rufE8gXwKrg.html
You are the best. My ex-girlfriend broke up with me 7 months ago, wanted nothing to do with me, and even moved on. However, we reconnected as "friends" back in early December. I used the be a friend, but I don't act like a friend method, and I stopped listening to my parents' advice. We have a date next week, and we are officially back together. THANK YOU SO MUCH
Most people who actually get their exes back are being proactive and doing something about it I made the mistake of jumping into almost 2 months of no contact and it felt terrible, time to man up and give her a call.
hi Dan, so bit of a story, 2 days after our break up ( she dumped me over text) I called her and we just had a conversational about the relationship and why she didn't want to be with me anymore, and i acknowledge her reasons and respected them. so anyways she said i was still important to her and values me as a person but only sees me as friend, we then hung out a bit the same day, she seemed pretty glad. During that time, all I was thinking about was how my feelings for her has not changed at all so later that night i had a conversation with her saying that I am going to need some time to accept that you only see me as a friend. its only been a day and after finding this video I realise it might have been stupid. I am feeling more positive now , should I call or text her ( as friends) now or wait a day or two.
Hi Dan. What happens when you are in long distance relationship and she broke up with you however after some days you tell her you don't wanna talk with her ever again in a mean way and she accepts it. Then after 4-5 weeks she won't even see or answer your messages even tho you sent her only 1 message the withing those weeks in order to not look needy/clingy. How can you make her forgive you and re-attract her?
These two videos will help you: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-VDGoxOjMgW4.html ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aG3BjAs6OK0.html
You are God tier youtube, no ads, amazing coaching and advice. I am in awe, thank you so much I am using this with my SO as she has lost attraction towards me
Thank you for doing this video (and all your videos). I have been following the strict no contact method, which sort of applies because she lives four hours across Florida (in West Palm Beach -where Geo Surfer lives lol) but a couple days ago I sent a pair of my girlfriend's daughter's sunglasses I found in my truck back to my girlfriend. Hopefully that will get some dialog going. I've been tempted to order your program, but our breakup circumstances was pretty unique. Anyway, thank you again. I've also been watching your pick up videos and have been practicing... the stuff works.
Great to hear of your progress so far. She might text you about the sunglasses, but what then? Are you ready to make her feel a spark for you? That's what counts. Watch this: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-IUvbfTDc2TM.html
Hi Dan, I found your videos very beneficial. I start to use your techniques on random girls base on trust in your knowledge. I have to say that they are working, including on my ex and seems to be working Unfortunately, the situation is slightly different as I dumped her and I want her back. I wonder if the same principle apply?
You are so awesome. My wife left two months ago, we were together 8 years this September. I love her, she loves me, you have taught me so much about myself, and my faults. And yes she still contacting me, she just moved her things out this past week. She ask me not to divorce her, she said she didn't want that? Watching as many of your videos that I can. Really appreciate the help. Brian
Dan, i called my ex on Monday(August 1st 2017) the conversation went well, is it ok to say "Hey can i pick you up for a quick 30 minute lunch on Friday? (August 4th 2017)? i've already ignored her for over 3 months and proved the point of being able to do without her,. is it too soon?
hey dan i met up with my ex last night and started the reattraction process it was going pretty well i got her to buy me a coffee and got her laughing by asking her if she has being thinking about me everyday but i left my phone in the car and she looked on my youtube and saw that i had get your ex back on it she didnt say anything but she saw and i missed out on a couple of oppurtunities to get her laughing when she started to get a little testy but when i dropped her off she was confident and said maybe ill call you later i feel like she is going to throw it in my face next am i fucked?
the think is that my ex cut me completely off her life, and doesn't want to do anything with me.. not friendship, not relationship, nothing.. as if she hates me or something, without any reason. she just woke up one day and she disappeared. I had faults, but I never did anything to justify that behavior. and that is still painful at month 7 post-breakup.
Exactly. 7 months and it's still painful, which is why no contact isn't the solution. If you are ready to start getting her back, these videos and posts will help you: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-wJOHo4M4DK0.html ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-PU4LY-gkri8.html www.themodernman.com/blog/8-things-that-will-make-your-ex-begin-to-see-you-in-a-more-positive-light.html www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-re-attract-your-ex.html
I did the funny text today, and Dan was right she texted me back lol and I left it there, on a iPhone I could see her texting something but stopped so I feel like she had something to say but stopped. I feel like it’s actually working
Dan my gf say i dont have any feeling for u at the time she was hanger.after 21 day no rules contact her for dating but she doesn't want what i shall i do pls.i take these action befor i see ur vedios.
what do I do we've been broken up for a year we have a child together and every time she's sad or gets drunk she calls me over for sex and says that she loves me but then she says no she doesn't want to get back together how can I move on if she keeps doing this to me what should I do I still love her can I get her back a hundred percent
These two videos will help you: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-wJOHo4M4DK0.html ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-YKPwk9QmLn4.html
Get it done. No excuses. Man up and do what is required, or remain weak and say that it's all too hard and then watch as she moves on without you. Get it done. You can do it. Some guys take a little longer to get her back, but they still get it done. On this page, you can see a small sample of the countless success stories I've received: www.themodernman.com/the-fastest-way-to-get-your-ex-back.html
What can you do when an ex has surrounded herself with co-workers and classmates and is kept busy with them and doesn't really want to hang out with you? A million thanks!
You would need to use other techniques to attract her from a distance. All of those techniques and more are included in this: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
