5 HUGE SIGNS He’s Emotionally INVESTED In You! 

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In today’s dating scene being vulnerable is so scary 🥺

As a black woman, the greatest compliment my boyfriend has given me was telling me I bring him so much peace. If you know, you know. ❤

If I could give anyone any advice don't rush into anything just work on yourself first self development is necessary to a successful relationship I am fine being single till God says it's time. I want to be with the man God has for me but I want to be able to give him everything he never had by being the best I can be first before I get with him.

Key insights 💑 Being emotionally attracted to someone means connecting on a deeper emotional level, beyond physical appearance. 💬 Your ability or his willingness to talk to you for hours, especially when it flows so seamlessly, is a great sign that he is emotionally attracted. 💭 If a man expresses that he's always thinking about you, it's typically a good sign that he's emotionally invested in the relationship. 🚩 Ignoring red flags and allowing bad behavior to go unchecked is the real problem, not being open and vulnerable in expressing your emotions. 🗣 "If I ask you your opinion you give me your opinion. I'm not asking for the right answers, it's not about right or wrong, it's about I want to hear your perspective." 💭 "That guy who's emotionally attracted, yes, he will want to hear because again, the woman that we're really into we care what she thinks." 🕰 He's emotionally invested if he prioritizes spending time with you over sex. 💔 If you're not emotionally and spiritually connected in a relationship, it's bound to failure.

Your spot on with your analysis. I recently met a woman whom checks all the boxes for me. I was very much so emotionally invested in her. Just thinking about her gave me chill bumps. We're no longer dating anymore at this moment due to personal preferences for our lives, but man I swear this woman did it for me emotionally every time.

I just stopped seeing and communicating with someone. Listening to your videos has helped me to stay strong in staying away from him. Thank you ❤ 🙏

I like your consistency lately. Thanks for the videos you make for us

Stephan, you've covered a lot of ground in this video ... I see how important communication or (the lack of)is, and I've missed the mark at times when it comes to this particular area because of my overthinking. It's really difficult to start anew when negative thoughts of the past arise. I concur with you that if you are interested in someone ; you will never know if you are compatible or even if they feel the same until you have the one on one conversation . Great content as always . Always relatable... Thank you

Each one of your videos feels like you’re taking me to church in the best way possible lol. If god ever calls you to preach I’m your first member.

I cannot stop watching your videos. Thank you for everything, Stephan!

I'm just grateful to God for directing me to be watching your videos💃💃🤸🤸

Thank you Stephan for this video year ago I left a 32 year relationship that got toxic from both sides in the getting out of my comfort zone to being out to have fun as a single person is so strange sometimes confidence is not the problem its really getting to know your starting over again thats scary ❤❤🙌🙏

I really like the sound of your laughter, Stephan.

This all sounds like a chess game. I’ll rest my mind in getting to know my Heavenly Father instead & best version for him, him, him :)

I only attract men specifically who LOVES to hear a woman TALK FOR HOURS & CHATTER endlessly 😂 mainly because I make sure that’s something they like b4 even really going out! Lol I tell guys.. you better RUN NOW cuz I’ll talk your head off … and put u to sleep on the phone 😂… And actually, I found that LOTTS of men (especially those who r quiet or have some hesitation w/ conversation) actually are MORE ATTRACTED to me because they have told me how relieved they feel by NOT having to carry the conversation… my first husband said he had a slight speech impediment as a child, but unknowingly to me, my talking calmed his nerves!

Thanks!

Thank you for sharing this You are so right A God fearing man found me He's doing everything you are talking about Thank you for everything you do to help us !!!

Imagine a man just like this. Literally checks off everything, but he randomly has ghosting episodes. This is why I don’t like being vulnerable.

I receive These Amazing words of wisdom 🙏🏽🙌🏽

My Man is all that and more ❤. Rather live to see all of his faces than being unknown to few and then love.

I just love listening to you! 😊

He very much is. I value him a lot and so does he. ❤ And all this while I thought he wasn't

You got me cracking up. “Stop being so dam skeptical” 😂

This was good, I have been dating someone who doesn't give compliments. Well, very rarely, that he gives compliments and he doesn't tell me that he misses me. We can talk for hours and hangout without going anywhere or having sex. He seems wrapped up in his job and business to be emotionally available. Or maybe he is, but he isn't expressing it 🤔 Maybe I am just hoping he is, but I haven't opened up to him because I am waiting on him. This is complicating 🤦🏾‍♀️

Great video! Tremendous insight…. It made me see so many things differently. Helping me to change unhealthy thinking due to negative experiences from the past. Thank you!! Keep the videos coming! 🙏🏽🙌🎯

Stephan ,I find you share a great content!💫💫💥I’m grateful for this ,thank you ❤ Also I want to ask if is there possible in the future to share some videos about “how to maintain a healthy distance relationship “ or “how we can understand and improve the importance of Muslim with non Muslim relationships “?!If you can do both that it will be amazing.Thank you ❤

You helped me so much in my new relationship I have issues to work on from childhood but it's nice to have the words and context from your videos

My weakness is comparing him to my departed Husband. I will Never find another like him. And he is too busy working all the time. SEX is great but that's about it.😢 He gives me mixed messages; compliments me in all ways but has no time for a Proper date. The Red Flags have been there but I have chosen to ignore them.

You have helped me so much! This is good! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

The movie Love Jones illustrates the point of is this just a physical attraction or more - in the movie when Nia and Darius go out on a date where they Chicago step and then head back to his home - Nia request to not just hook up because she think that maybe all they have is hooking up- Darius is taken back but together the two of them slow dance .

So would it be emotionally attractive to you if the guy says, he could talk to you for hours?

I been Watching your videos a while now thank you for these it does help understand men more ,their emotions , intentions , see the signs for the right man

I wish everyone listens yo your videos

I can not stopping watch your videos! I love your energy and content. And when you know you know🎉❤

@stephanspeaks I've learned do much from your talks being in my mid 30's . So knowledgeable.

1st comment 😊❤ also thnks for the video ....

She say she wants a relationship but she still squabbling other badboy attractive guys daily what does that mean...

Sometimes the 2 people live in different states

Thank you so much for all your videos they helped so much I was with a man long distance but he only wanted to text no calls no FaceTime he was always busy tiered sleeping or not in the good mood. Then he was always complaining that he never had money but he had a job . He would get mad 😡 when I called him to say good night they he started asking me for money. I just left everything and he blocked me 😂

Yea ….. I’m pretty sure my current man is my husband lol

When a man/ woman is emotionally invested in you. There is no confusion. If u r confused, that is the sign to exit.

What about long distance relationship.

Where are these men you are talking about???😢

EVERYTHING YOU STATED

I and a guy i met a month ago communicate really well. At the beginning, it appears he doesn't want to let down his guard. We've connected really good at present but he asks for sex, which i think can ruin things cos he hasn't asked me to be his and I feel sex shouldn't be the first thing to jump into right now. He finds me attractive and I made him know I'm in for serious buz and not for "if and maybes". So now, my concern is his request for intimacy even though I know he's having difficulty in being committed. I don't understand how some guys think it's sex before any form of commitment

Wonderful advice

The greatest compliment my man gave me is that I’m super strong spiritually and physically as I’m into fitness. He’s my greatest supporter 🥰🫶🏽

My man is loving and does everything for me but he isn’t affectionate at all I get a kiss in the morning, a kiss when he comes from work, a kiss before work and during sex. But nothing else. He says I appreciate you. But I don’t get a hug unless I ask for it

WHAT MEN? HONESTLY THIS DAY AND AGE THERES NO HOPE

Its 2 am today my dear! Afrer i will go 2 sleep hmmm!

Honestly, 8:12

What if he does these things, (says im easy to talk to, can tell anything too, and i have a very beautiful personality) but still says hes physically unattracted to me?

The wife Rodel residence in America and the family are citizenship in America my men!

Woman that are afraid to let the men know how they feel about their relationship you give them the keys to grow and mature with in them selfs Darling l love the wisdom which elevates a greater love for us both each day we get closer and closer in Jesus name ❤️❤ 💕 Here's a kiss 👄👄 from afar later 💕

I love this topic ! Question are some videos like this one re-ran ?

Question? Why are u not married? Just curious?

Hello Stephen, how soon do you think it's ok to give your # to someone you've met online whose interested in you and you're also interested in getting to know better?

Have been friends with this guy for two years and we are trying to date but he does not like communicating. We don’t seem to be on the same page but he tells me he really liked and want to work on it with my timeline but it seems so difficult. I don’t want to live in sin so honest don’t want to have sex until marriage he is having a hard time with that bc I was previously married and he thinks I’m holding my past against him. I don’t want to be intimate with anyone bc I want to live my life doing things Gods way. I want to sign up for your course and get your input bc I’m at the point were I think I need to cut him out of my life bc he doesn’t see how much he is hurting me and has expressed fears of loosing me and that I will end up hating him. Can you help? He believes in God but is not actually living his faith. While I do want to live my faith.

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what if he talkig like that because he locked u

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He’s my best friend! We’ve known each other since we were 10. We laugh, talk for hours, he asks me what I think, listens to me. Next to Jesus, he’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me.

Hello Stephen, how soon do you think it's ok to give your # to someone you've met online whose interested in you and you're also interested in getting to know better?

The love of my life, the one with whom I shared an incredible connection, the one who told me he fell in love with me the first time he met me (and that was 30 years ago), the one I had everything in common with, and was so in love with, was tragically killed in a motorcycle accident last Saturday. I just returned from his funeral. To say it’s lights out for me is no understatement. I’m beyond devastated and can’t even imagine life with anyone else. Please pray for me ❤

I met a man during the summer and we both agreed we wanted something serious. So he bought me a promise ring. He calls me everyday and text. And ask about my boys everyday. Yes I agree with talking for hours. We talk about everything and can respect the other person not wanting to discuss something. I love every moment of it

Your advice is very helpful 🙂 ☺ I wish I had it 20 years ago when I was dating & before I met my now husband. I would have not kissed sooo many frogs to get my prince. 😁 very valuable 👍🏼

That's why you can't be vulnerable w/just anybody or before things get too serious. Dont move too fast

I'll be 70 yrs old soon. I still long for a real man that will love me and want to share my life. Ive been celibate for 15yrs. I've worked on my issues and want a last relationship. I've had little interest from anyone except they express strong interest in sex. IM 70 and still sexy evidently. Is it even possible to find the love of my life now? I'm about to give up permanently. 😢 I socialize in the community. I take care of my appearance. Nothing. Please pray for me. I dont want to leave this planet never finding love.

Such a good point ladies! Don’t be afraid to express how you feel towards him. He goes cold? You say bye-bye 👋

It's rare to find a good man who will love, care and provide for you because toxicity is on increase so be careful who you give access to your life because not everyone has your best interests at heart! They are not interested in who you are as a person but what you can give to them. Besides, Everyone deserves love and respect just for being alive and live a life they deserve. No one was created to be broken and live a life that wasn't meant for them! On the other hand, if someone can't consider you as important to be a priority then they shouldn't be worth your time! STOP 🤚giving your attention to people that could care less about you and never leave a good relationship because of a few faults because no one is perfect. FULL STOP.

You are AMAZING Stephan. Great video I appreciate you. Sending Love and Positive Vibes to you and all the beautiful souls out there. 🩷💥💙💥💜💥🧡💥🩵

Read this book and let me tell you I knew who exactly to cut off I wasn’t too picky i made sure we had the same morals and motives in life and let me tell you it’s been six months and got engaged in the third month of us dating🥰

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The fact in all this signs is that you have to first have relationships with God, and that relationships is not just pray for the God...to have strong faith you have to give yourself full to God...he is the one who is controlling, he know you and the person he have for you...but you have to have clear relationships with God in everything you do, work, love, friends, hobby, family....it means God is the first one...than the rest...to build relationships with God and put your trust in him take time, it means go to Church, sit close to him, stay in silence, learn yourself to pray even you don't want but do what you say to him...he will with time change your attitude and direct you to right person...and you won't needed to look for red flags or anything similar...you will be secure in God love for you and you will be able to love people around, bad or good, but you will love and than you will start recive love back and be ready for person who is for you...the person who God want for you even in your worst behavior want leave you and you him, Holy Spirit will help you both to overcome what is wrong together...and all this signs will be pointless...but to have relationships with God take more of you time, like, reading Bible, go to Church, just sit there and say ok I am here and I want you in my life...don't think what you want, just want God and God will open your heart for great things, just first want him and forget the rest like love from man, job, money, health...just want him to be with you and when you relive that he is the first despite everyone and everything you will be free. He will teach you real love and you will be able to spread around you...and God will be your true leader and you won't need looking constantly for some signs, you will be healthy with your emotions and how you accept and think about everything and everyone, you will found yourself what is the most important.

Your videos helped me identify my guy. I'm sooooo happy!

I REALLY L🥰❤️E this one! Thank you Stephen! You are amazing and sincere and I watch your videos often and you have helped me tremendously in my new dating journey to love one one day that loves me back in God’s magical way ☺️

Excellent deliverance Stephan! You do a great job educating us. Thank you🎉

3 words - LOVE YOUR CHANNEL 💡💜

He once called me, got a missed call and called back...he asked me to cut the call coz he wanted to call and he knew we was gonna talk for long...we talked for 2 hours❤❤

This is definitely a good show cause I didn't realize to even pay attention to that!!!

Stephen, all your videos are so informative . am learning a lot you are so real i like when you use yourself to explain something you are doing a great job thanks.

Yeah, it's really hard to be with your married partner and you don't have anything to talk about. 😔 I wish I knew beforehand how he was not emotionally attracted to me or simply just not that into me. A person must KNOW that they're LOVED in a relationship, married or not.😢

Great topic, I connect to a wonderful gentleman on my vacation while I was visiting my Family. I felt that we had a emotional connection and dated a couple times and talk on the phone. We agree to be Friends/with no benefits😊.stay in touched. But He had a problem with me because I would not pick up my phone when he called/// miss calls...I always return his call.he said I took too long calling. him back. Oh my goodness 😮I mark him off like a Red Flag.. Lord I can't😂

Thank you for your advice I am learning alot😊. I went on a date with this man I met 4 times already and we have long conversations and he has given me compliments and not sexual which is nice finally. He seems like a really respectful man and his friends tell me that he is a really nice respected man. I like him but one thing he can talk a bit more then I'm used to and sometimes acts like a big kid which I'm not used to. As most of the guys I have been with were serious type so I'm taking one day at a time with this guy.

Well done! #Bravo As a father of two beautiful daughters, i am very grateful your helping women better understand how to men think. #Respect

Stephan, I watch your videos and podcasts and I've gained so much insight. Thank you. I only wish you were around in my youth. I like that you speak from a spiritual perspective.

You are the best coach Stephan

Mine does some of these 5 signs but he's Short tempered 😔

I was hesitant to watch this because I was afraid to know whether or not I was talking to the right person, but now I know that he's checking all the right boxes idek what to do with myself..

Thank you so much for making us aware being so deep and breaking it down for us….

Not being able to keep your hands off each other and calling each other on the phone instead of meeting in person did make me laugh 😀

BRAVO Stephan!!! Nothing But The Truth!

Stephan SPEAK!!! I Love It!!! You Are… ALL OVER THIS!!!

Almost all your videos are about what to do while dating... But what about even getting a date? How to actually find a date? Any advice for people who don`t like online dating?

Ow 💯true thank you so much couch stephan i need to hear this topic peace and blessings✌️🙏🏽❤️

Thank you for posting this!! 😊

#1 sign - you don’t wonder if you’re a priority

Thank you Stephan! This helped me out a lot.