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5 Physical Signs of Past Trauma That Most People Miss 

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These are the 5 physical signs of unaddressed past trauma that most people miss.
Some people may not even realize that they have unresolved trauma. Whether it's due to dissociation or other avoidance strategies, trauma and trauma symptoms often go unaddressed in trauma survivors. In this video, triple board-certified psychologist Dr. Judy Ho breaks down 5 physical signs of trauma that often go unnoticed.
She breaks down....
- What a chronic feeling of fight or flight feels like and why it's a sign of unaddressed trauma
- Personal anecdotes from past patients who spotted these hidden signs of trauma and was able to overcome them
- Why chronic fatigue is a sign of unaddressed trauma
- Why chronic pain results from unaddressed trauma
- How unaddressed trauma affects children vs. adults
- How unresolved trauma affects the gut-mind connection and autoimmune responses
- Why unresolved trauma leads to migraines
About somatic experiencing therapy:
Somatic Experiencing (SE) therapy is a groundbreaking type of therapy that allows survivors to work through their trauma in a more digestible, gradual way. This body-focused therapy helps patients manage and overcome trauma through a focus on nervous system functions and physiological symptoms.
As a triple board-certified neuropsychologist, Dr. Judy Ho understands the impact of trauma on memory, and its relationship with our “fight or flight” response. In our MedCircle series, she sheds light on how somatic experiencing therapy uniquely maneuvers these functions of the human body to lead to better mental health outcomes.
Effective trauma therapy and trauma treatment looks different for everyone. This cutting-edge approach to trauma may be one you or someone you love can add to your treatment toolbox.

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@MedCircle
@MedCircle 4 года назад
Which one of these symptoms have you or someone you love experienced? How did you work through it? Let us know in the comments below - we want to hear your story. Watch the rest of this video series on how to work through symptoms of trauma through somatic experiencing therapy HERE: bit.ly/322Qi7S
@jennifermason6628
@jennifermason6628 4 года назад
MedCircle I have I question. I have all of the symptoms that are being brought up right now. But, I don’t know where this trauma is coming from. How do I work on remembering a potential event(s) that has caused me these responses if I don’t remember?
@OnlyTheBest345
@OnlyTheBest345 4 года назад
Numbers 1- 3 are what I experience. I took a screenshot of the description of the therapy and will discuss it tomorrow with my therapist who is helping me with CPTSD. It will be my second session.
@Candyliz2003
@Candyliz2003 4 года назад
Please look into sleep disturbances due to PTSD.
@RetardationAwareness
@RetardationAwareness 4 года назад
*Hey I think it'd be really helpful if MedCircle did a video on rapid metabolizers that metabolize medications too quickly to gain any relief from their disorders like anxiety, depression, chronic pain, ect. I rarely find anyone talking about this! People who for one reason or another who cannot gain any relief from medication and don't get relief from most types of "normal" therapy are VERY lost and the steps they need to take are not as easy to find as most topics nowadays, what do you think?*
@JeanieD
@JeanieD 4 года назад
All of them. Most of my life.
@terriensberg5487
@terriensberg5487 4 года назад
The dog is a good model of mental health - looks totally relaxed. Probably had a good puppyhood.
@globalvillage423
@globalvillage423 4 года назад
He discharges his anxiety with trembling and shaking.
@globalvillage423
@globalvillage423 4 года назад
Animals are not that different from humans, they have simmilar anatomy.
@globalvillage423
@globalvillage423 4 года назад
The more likes comments have, the more likely they are wrong:en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Argumentum_ad_populum
@MrDominic600
@MrDominic600 4 года назад
This comment was very funny to me. You seemed like a very laid back person to make that kind of comment lol
@globalvillage423
@globalvillage423 4 года назад
@@MrDominic600 Literarily discharges, brain sends electrical signals to muscles when you are nervous.
@mikesgirl1988
@mikesgirl1988 4 года назад
I can't remember a time in my life that I've not felt hyper vigilant, stressed, I have no idea what it would feel like to feel peacful
@Catherine-xf3pc
@Catherine-xf3pc 3 года назад
Same here. 😟 My heart goes out to you. Sending you a virtual hug. ❤️
@TessaYoung33
@TessaYoung33 3 года назад
Same
@hannahonovwakpor6316
@hannahonovwakpor6316 3 года назад
Jesus gives you peace.
@cynthiacastaneda6687
@cynthiacastaneda6687 3 года назад
@@hannahonovwakpor6316 amen
@Carriedmusic
@Carriedmusic 3 года назад
Ugh, same. 😞
@mifnp8887
@mifnp8887 4 года назад
Recap: 1. Chronic sense of fight or flight 2. Chronic fatigue (no matter how much you sleep) R/T constant state of fight or flight 3. Sense of chronic pain 4. GI distress/disturbance & autoimmune diseases w/unknown etiology 5. Chronic headaches Yep, that's me.
@manonkaufman6689
@manonkaufman6689 4 года назад
This is all me.
@fatuusdottore
@fatuusdottore 4 года назад
MIFNP Same
@katana5562
@katana5562 4 года назад
Sounds like adrenal fatigue too. Typical for chronic stress reaction.
@rebelleparrish4937
@rebelleparrish4937 4 года назад
This is me....but its all a symptom of undiagnosed autism (diagnosed at 32) and childhood sexual abuse and neglect. Fun times! I have a great therapist and a good psych cocktail, but i still keep my shoulders up next to my ears.
@dianeyoung8068
@dianeyoung8068 4 года назад
I have all of these too.
@gfleming5136
@gfleming5136 4 года назад
I want a hug from that sweet doggy.
@catherinemccullough299
@catherinemccullough299 4 года назад
G Fleming oh, me too!
@hellohello4016
@hellohello4016 4 года назад
I loved the way the dog was looking at him :D
@juliauselton4008
@juliauselton4008 4 года назад
I had to laugh when he yawned. His owner is lulling him to sleep😴
@lilyvalley5389
@lilyvalley5389 4 года назад
Wow i thought the same. I want to hug him is what I thought. Beautiful sweet big dog.
@Synth2000
@Synth2000 4 года назад
i'd rader go with a hug from that sweet psychologist
@rick3747
@rick3747 4 года назад
“If we could somehow end child abuse and neglect, the eight hundred pages of DSM (and the need for the easier explanations such as DSM-IV Made Easy: The Clinician's Guide to Diagnosis) would be shrunk to a pamphlet in two generations.” ― Dr. John Briere, World renowned mental health trauma expert
@lolacookie453
@lolacookie453 4 года назад
Rikko K 🙌this
@ericking4072
@ericking4072 4 года назад
SOMEHOW END IT?PUBLIC EXECUTIONS FOR ANY ADULT ABUSING ANY CHILD...PROBLEM SOLVED.
@MrVsteel
@MrVsteel 4 года назад
No. Faith in public health allows for the truth (people unfortunately suffering in nature), whereby our disciplined nurturing instincts can resurrect the suffering self.
@Travestie616
@Travestie616 4 года назад
@@ericking4072 The death penalty has been shown in studies to not deter crimes of other kinds. So I don't believe that it would deter this type of crime either.
@Travestie616
@Travestie616 4 года назад
@freeshavo cado Exactly right. My dad was abusive, and I don't forgive him for it, but I also acknowledge that he was very abused as well. A large part of the reason I've chosen not to have children (despite wanting nothing more than a full and happy family for decades of my life) is that I don't have faith in myself to break that cycle of abuse. I don't feel that I'm mentally healthy enough to cope with the frustrations of parenthood without verbally abusing my children, and I don't even want to think about the possibility that I would resort to something like spanking, which is a part of my childhood trauma that I still have trouble coping with at 30. Perhaps my mental state will improve if/when I get to a place where I'm consistently in therapy and on the right meds, but I still don't think I could trust myself. I would rather stick to pets than put a child through what I went through--constant walking on eggshells, instinctive terror and anxiety at raised voices, learning to lie convincingly because at least there would be some chance of not being hit, nightmares due to constant stress, inability to trust because out of the two people I was supposed to trust, one terrorized me and the other failed to protect me from it.
@alexiagrainger2916
@alexiagrainger2916 4 года назад
I just recently was diagnosed with PTSD.. 1. I have always felt, "disconnected," or always waiting for something else to happen. Not being able to live in the moment type thing. 2. My stomach hurt a lot as a child and throughout my earlier years. We never knew why. 3. I had chronic headaches all throughout my life as well. 4. I sleep a lot and I always feel tired. I didn't realize how much suppressed emotions could have in our body. I recently started reading, "The Body Keeps The Score."
@oamash
@oamash 4 года назад
Alexia Gibson it’s a great book
@alexiagrainger2916
@alexiagrainger2916 4 года назад
Ash Willis I have to take breaks in between reading it bc sometimes it’s hard but I agree. It’s a great book.
@1SavageQueen89
@1SavageQueen89 4 года назад
Alexia Gibson it’s such a great book and sometimes pretty intense but it’s worth it. I found it more helpful to listen to it on audible.
@Schizopantheist
@Schizopantheist 4 года назад
The Body Keeps The Score Trauma and Recovery Complex PTSD: From surviving to thriving. All these books have helped me
@joanlynch5271
@joanlynch5271 4 года назад
Me too 😊!
@PegasusysTarotClub
@PegasusysTarotClub 4 года назад
I do want to add that when dealing with stress (I have CPTSD) and going through all of these natural responses, like crying, shaking etc, I get really disturbed reactions from people who witness that. I get labeled "crazy", people act as if I'm a mean person, people refuse to talk to me anymore, or start telling nasty stories about me. In my opinion it's society who doesn't allow people to deal with stress, or have these natural responses. Showing emotions is acted upon as if it were a crime. That doesn't make it easier for those dealing with trauma.
@ericking4072
@ericking4072 4 года назад
DOES"TAROT"HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT?🤔
@lelandraymaley3
@lelandraymaley3 4 года назад
Pegasusy's Tarot Club I too have CPTSD. non-combat my aces score is 10 (of course it is) and I just look through bystanders in the event of my sub-conscious launching into a mechanical self defense episode. I’m probably twice as dangerous as society at large estimates. I don’t care. I get treatment weekly. Full hour of trauma therapy every single week. :Further : I’m a PA CPS (Pennsylvania Certified Peer Specialist). QPR Suicide Prevention Counselor and a Wellness Coach. These credentials I acquired to learn about myself. I’m not finished by the way, All my life people would say variations of this: what’s wrong with you? You’re off the chain
@1monstertruck
@1monstertruck 4 года назад
There’s no need to talk about or re live events to release the emotions associated. I’m ex military and had the same experiences so was determined to find better ways. Things are evolving in practical psychology where we we can do in hours what traditional therapists can’t seem to do in years. I’ll show you a video of a bunch of clients after just one session if you like, the results just don’t compare..
@UniquePhoenix8633
@UniquePhoenix8633 4 года назад
I totally agree. I have tried to hide these emotions for a really long time and I think that is why I'm going through the issues I am going through now. My family and friends made me feel like the way I was feeling was wrong and I should just get over it or bottle it up. It really hasn't helped but at least I realize it now and I'm working on it
@1monstertruck
@1monstertruck 4 года назад
Unique Phoenix 8633 here’s some people I’ve worked with over the years and this is just to show you what’s possible after 1 session. We don’t need to talk about past traumas to release the emotions they’re creating. brandneurals.com/testimonials/ Happy to chat if you have any questions and I wish you well 😊
@celestialfortuna9453
@celestialfortuna9453 4 года назад
This is incredible. i am 60 and have had nearly all these symptoms for decades. goodness this is a great resource for much younger people. this information was not available 45 years ago plus. thanks
@rebeccacampos5217
@rebeccacampos5217 4 года назад
Same here. I have gotten better with catching a blow up before it gets out of hand, but it's still work. This solution sounds promising.
@elizabethwilcox9199
@elizabethwilcox9199 4 года назад
Trauma-releasing exercises (David Berceli) help! DVD costs about $20. Most people can do these and generate a “trembling” response that discharges the stuck (frozen) energy.
@patriciawright8786
@patriciawright8786 3 года назад
Celestial Fortuna--I have come to see those of us like this. They are still alive, & that shows an incredible amount of strength.
@goertzpsychiatry9340
@goertzpsychiatry9340 3 года назад
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@blessinggibbs5170
@blessinggibbs5170 3 года назад
I’m only 22 and I’ve only just now started to learn about my CPTSD. It got to a point of being completely debilitating. This is the first I’m hearing of somatic experiencing therapy. It gives me hope to live and love again. I’m so grateful for people sharing information like this. It LITERALLY saves lives. Peace and love to anyone in the comments💗
@estephaniey123
@estephaniey123 4 года назад
Very true, I was in a very stressful narcassistic relationship that became very physical and emotionally abusive. I really thought I was dealing with bipolar disorder until I started to see a counselor and started finding out I was dealing with the trauma of the relationship with my ex.
@teadoss8853
@teadoss8853 4 года назад
Thank you for sharing. There's a significant need for education on the epidemic of intimate partner violence that should began in middle school.
@beautyalaritz3310
@beautyalaritz3310 4 года назад
Glad they're in your past. Fellow narcissistic abuse survivor here. Hugs
@Chimonger1
@Chimonger1 3 года назад
@@teadoss8853 Seriously, it needs taught to small children! Early Childhood Development [ECD] is critical to get right--or at least decent. If kids reach middle school, even grade school, it can be too late to get back on the right track--bad damage has been done. We have Billions of people who are survivors of abuse, neglect, etc. bad ECD, with Trillions of dollars spent annually to try to fix the symptoms, mislabeled as stand-alone illnesses. Treating it......good luck.......not all counselors know how, or, do not understand how useful it can be....so they might have the tools on hand, but never use them on most CPTSD clients. One nice counselor would use the tools on military vets, but not their spouses, or not their private clients. BEWARE of "counselors" who don't really know their stuff, lack proper credentials given by higher education, have not processed their own issues, etc. There are loads of "good-hearted" well-meaning people who claim to be counselors, but, are not...horrible damage can be caused by well-meaning but not properly educated ones, or, who have not processed their own issues---many are in religious communities.
@khalidababaali2583
@khalidababaali2583 3 года назад
same ! this was mindblowing; I seriously thought I had bibolar or ADHD till i saw this
@calfcalf988
@calfcalf988 4 года назад
I told the domestic violence shelter advocates that despite leaving the abuse, I feel like I’ve lived multiple lifetimes, like my body is tired down to a subatomic level. I don’t know how to live in the moment. I am constantly in flight mode. Even while I’m asleep.
@user-jh5vu5gd3g
@user-jh5vu5gd3g 4 года назад
my body is tired beyond this lifetime too and I'm trying to find ways to release the physical stress. yoga, especially yin yoga helps me to dissolve the tensions and sometimes i also have trouble sleeping. what helps me a great deal is doing a body scan meditation while i'm actually already in bed and tucked in. it takes your awareness through every part of your body and you consciously relax it - most of the time i even fall asleep before it even ends. you could give it a go and see if it's helpful for you too: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-jmQOn1EIcH0.html&ab_channel=EkhartYoga ❤️
@nedaaleryani7585
@nedaaleryani7585 3 года назад
Triple like for this comment
@rathernotsay5629
@rathernotsay5629 3 года назад
I have said more than a few times that I am tired down to my soul. I've been through a few life times of living and dealt with a lot of emotional abuse in those lives. Sounds like what you are saying.
@rein7015
@rein7015 3 года назад
I can relate it sucks for sure
@warmachine1770
@warmachine1770 3 года назад
Try meditation.
@daliaserhal3359
@daliaserhal3359 4 года назад
There r more symptoms, hyper vigilance is a big one and being extra jumpy and sensitive to noises, light. OCD can flare up as well
@vanessaouyang1220
@vanessaouyang1220 4 года назад
Hyper vigilance, and exaggerated startle response ( being extra jumpy) are my worst as well, although as I have gotten older, I am having migraines too ( not headaches so much, because I can stop that with painkillers, before the headache starts, but interrupted vision and flashes of silvery light.) Exaggerated startle response, tends to come in episodes for me, like something will trigger it, and it can take years to shake it off. At its worst, ANY slight sound or movement will cause me to put down whatever I may be holding, cower back, throw my arms over my head, and literally run away, before my consciousness kicks in, and then I will stop where I am and freeze until I know for sure of what is happening next. All of this occurs spontaneously, in less than a single second, and will occur so many times in a day, that it is almost continuous. It is at this point that I resort to medications, which help a lot, but don't stop it altogether. Outside of these episodes, I am still jumpy, but I can function.
@daliaserhal3359
@daliaserhal3359 4 года назад
Vanessa ou yang i am so sorry to hear about what you've been going through, ur not alone in this... i have the same symptoms and much much more. I am hopeful that all this shall pass as does everything in life. Praying u only get better and better with time... sending you lots of positive blessings and much luv 🙏🏻💕💕💕
@vanessaouyang1220
@vanessaouyang1220 4 года назад
@@daliaserhal3359 : Thank you. You are very kind, and you deserve better than to be going through as well.
@daliaserhal3359
@daliaserhal3359 4 года назад
Vanessa ou yang if u ever feel like u need to talk bout it wth someone who'll understand, just ping me. I'm here. Much much love 💕💕💕
@vanessaouyang1220
@vanessaouyang1220 4 года назад
@@daliaserhal3359 : Thank you. And please feel free to do the same with me if you need to. You would be a lovely person to be friends with 🤗
@niclasvestman
@niclasvestman 4 года назад
6. Frequent colds and/or infections due to body being in constant stress, and never in rest and maintenance mode. Often seriously impacts the imunesystem. Skinconditions and exemas and acne are other common manifestations of poor imune system and high inflamatory levels. That is such a common and important physiological manifestation of trauma, that I thought it deserved an inclusion in that list. (I'm not a HC pro). Thanks for yet another valuable episode! 🙏😊
@patriciawright8786
@patriciawright8786 3 года назад
Niclas Vestman-- Ever heard of LICHEN-PLANTUS? A rare skin immune system illness. Took my beautiful skin, & ravaged it. Except on my face. YEA! : )
@patriciawright8786
@patriciawright8786 3 года назад
Niclas Vestman--I would like to speak to you? What you said SO well. IS MY LIFE. Then when the doctors see the trauma I have had. They know there is some kind of connection. But, can't stop it. My dad lived to be 100 yrs. old. His mom 104 yrs. old. I KNOW IF I LIVE TO 70. It will be a miracle. My hands have had so much damage happen to them. I have to use plastic for everything. Because my thumbs won't grasp anymore, & I have broken all my nice stuff. Email: patricia.lee.wright.pw@gmail.com
@goertzpsychiatry9340
@goertzpsychiatry9340 3 года назад
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@magpiesneedle2575
@magpiesneedle2575 3 года назад
@@patriciawright8786 I have oral Lichen Planus.
@jaimelynnemiller
@jaimelynnemiller 3 года назад
💯
@dawna4185
@dawna4185 4 года назад
haha...the adorable puppy is thinking, "those humans are so complicated!" LOL....
@courtneyritter1285
@courtneyritter1285 4 года назад
So true😍🐾🐶
@loralee4779
@loralee4779 4 года назад
LOL. So true. The dog is thinking "what are they talking about? I'm ready for a nap"
@Eric-tj3tg
@Eric-tj3tg 3 года назад
Nope....lucky enough to not even think that!
@armyshope
@armyshope 3 года назад
Well it's dog it's okay!
@BG-ig6fd
@BG-ig6fd 3 года назад
Exactly! Lol
@melliness123
@melliness123 4 года назад
Yes chronic fatigue for 16 years, anxiety, hyper-vigilant, mostly from a traumatic abusive childhood/mother.
@headfullofmusic422
@headfullofmusic422 3 года назад
did u recover?
@carolhough6795
@carolhough6795 3 года назад
Thanks for the psychological help... But I REALLY like that puppy. It's great how he asks for your attention and realizes he NEEDS it, and how he needs to be recognized...just like we have to do if we're going to address our "issues". We're so good at sweeping things under the rug, and dogs don't do that.
@daisygallardo4645
@daisygallardo4645 4 года назад
OMG 😳 This is me. Chronic migraines lasting days, autoimmune arthritis and fibromyalgia, severe anxiety ...disability wow 😬
@margaretwinson402
@margaretwinson402 4 года назад
I really like your name. I believe that's the therapy that's needed - self-soothing positive self-talk, meditation, nutritious food, developing positive relationships with good people, sufficient fresh air, decent preparation for sleep, such as a warm shower or bath, listening to music or stories on audible that are read in a soothing tone of voice.
@goertzpsychiatry9340
@goertzpsychiatry9340 3 года назад
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@iergjsglsdhgoajsfjaslkdf
@iergjsglsdhgoajsfjaslkdf 3 года назад
Just so you know, that could also be misdiagnosed Lyme disease. I have Lyme AND c-ptsd. Also, the more trauma you have the more likely you are to develop an autoimmune disease. Read "The Body Keeps the Score." Take the ACE questionnaire.
@Looooading...
@Looooading... 4 года назад
This is so helpful. My body reacts very intensely to stress, from stomach problems to completely freezing up.
@lgamble
@lgamble 4 года назад
I am a SEP (somatic experiencing practitioner) in Austin Texas. This is such a gentle and useful way to resolve trauma. Our bodies always know way ahead of our heads what’s going on.
@dbirdeycapozzi9807
@dbirdeycapozzi9807 4 года назад
Glad for you! 💕 God forbid I would find an SEP here in South Carolina! Where are they?
@lgamble
@lgamble 4 года назад
@@dbirdeycapozzi9807 I've been considering a move to South Carolina! :o)
@jonnuanez2843
@jonnuanez2843 4 года назад
Going to the gym, exercise; and playing guitar, singing, etc helps to release all of my trauma, tension, etc. It doesn't and will never get rid of it. But it helps to cope with life. I don't know where I would be without either one of those.
@lukegg9025
@lukegg9025 3 года назад
I sing too bro loud asfuk
@mistimcelveen7855
@mistimcelveen7855 3 года назад
Literally have every symptom. Thankfully I'm with a Dr who's listening to me.
@Liz-sf4qo
@Liz-sf4qo 4 года назад
I have all 5.... the first time I did breathwork was the most incredible experience! It felt like I was back inside my body (after) while I was having an outer body experience... (During) . It helped me to realize how much trauma was stuck in my body. ❤️
@carolmckee8456
@carolmckee8456 4 года назад
HaHa- analyze how dogs ALWAYS get preoccupied people to pet them.
@laurenrose2239
@laurenrose2239 4 года назад
I'm diagnosed with C-PTSD, anxiety, and depression. I definitely related with all your points, and this video was extremely helpful for me!
@susandickson637
@susandickson637 3 года назад
Discovering a chiropractor has been so helpful ... My father damaged my back and neck in 1975 ... Plus constant stress still adds to body pain ...
@kaybe8915
@kaybe8915 4 года назад
Finally someone who gets it! I’m too scared to open up to my GP about these somatic symptoms, one for fear of being a complainer, two for fear that there’s no cure available through modern medicine so I’m flogging a dead worse and wasting both our time. This whole process makes me feel even more helpless and vulnerable and is triggering in and of itself. Constant hyper vigilance in fight, flight or freeze mode ✅ Chronic fatigue tick✅ Chronic pain ✅ IBS ✅ Chronic headaches ✅ This black cloud that is always weighing heavy over me - stole the words right from my mouth! Look forward to learning about somatic experiencing! Thanks so much x
@KillerCandy730
@KillerCandy730 3 года назад
I broke into tears hearing all of this. I've been going back and forth to the Drs for years now trying to figure out why my body has random weird symptoms that have now become chronic and interfering. Feels freeing in a sense to be just that much closer to figuring out my puzzle. Now to find the help and do the work. I refuse to let my trauma affect my kids anymore than it may already have. Thank you all for doing this whole channel. Understanding myself better helps more than anything else at the moment.
@caitparker1603
@caitparker1603 4 года назад
This is probably why I feel so tired all the time, sometimes I don't even have the energy to eat and move around in the first place which makes the tiredness worse. I also have already been told I probably have cptsd
@goertzpsychiatry9340
@goertzpsychiatry9340 3 года назад
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@courtneyyoungmusic
@courtneyyoungmusic 3 года назад
I cover my deep feelings of fight or flight, deep fear, anxiety and pain with like a passive aggressive, irritability and pushing away kind of thing. Especially with my beloved, because I really don’t feel safe. It’s like the one thing that disconnects me from spirit and everything good, whenever this trauma is triggered. Breathwork has been helping!
@nacarreira777
@nacarreira777 4 года назад
I want a special someone who looks at me the way that dog looks at Kyle. :)
@SuperKiddles
@SuperKiddles 4 года назад
go to a pet shelter plenty of animals ready and waiting for someone to return the look :-)
@nacarreira777
@nacarreira777 4 года назад
@@SuperKiddles I have four cats, a dog and a chicken...I was referring to a human looking at me that way.
@SuperKiddles
@SuperKiddles 4 года назад
@@nacarreira777 hmmmmm good luck with that : - )
@nacarreira777
@nacarreira777 4 года назад
@@SuperKiddles Believe me...I know!
@nacarreira777
@nacarreira777 4 года назад
@jay hahahaha...I have five children
@giovannaaguilar8709
@giovannaaguilar8709 Год назад
Chronic fatigue has been the issue for me, now I understand where it is coming from!
@angiea8022
@angiea8022 4 года назад
Yes! Vacations always make me uneasy and it finally dawned on me why... I can't look forward to it, but dread vacations. I also used to love Christmas, but now feel anxiety-- because of the verbal and emotional abuse that always comes along with it.
@kathyo3197
@kathyo3197 3 года назад
Ive never felt safe during hollidays , so much put on , exagerated kindness, fake ness
@carolpeck9943
@carolpeck9943 2 года назад
I am just now starting to deal with my childhood trauma I am 56 years old ( the scapegoat), I am in a constant state of fight mode, I had to learn how to protect myself from my abusive brothers, I am always waiting to fight. I have IBS from a very young age, I have chronic pain throughout my body. I think watching this I am becoming more aware. I am trying so very hard.
@leonardascorpius5304
@leonardascorpius5304 4 года назад
Sometimes, I'm soooo hard on myself and trained my brain to be in control all day long, having to take care of everything and everyone around me all day long, that I literally force myself to watch a sad/heart wrenching drama or show so that the tears will come out, and release all of the stress and PTSD-like symptoms. Breathing exercises, stretching, walking my dog, and eating healthy but satiating foods also help me to calm my nerves.
@leonardascorpius5304
@leonardascorpius5304 4 года назад
Kimberly Litterine That may be something you have to discover for yourself by trying out a variety of things, day by day. A good therapist has helped me a lot, too--so I don't have to "burden" my partner, bffs, or daughter with too much of my heavy stuff. In those sessions, I can let it all out without fear of judgement, or worse, being used against me later, among other things I have had to deal with when I don't choose the right person to divulge my deepest thoughts.
@theswede4124
@theswede4124 4 года назад
I have nearly all of these symptoms and have recently been diagnosed for PTSD.
@jennifermason6628
@jennifermason6628 4 года назад
Thomas Rygiel Hi I’m just curious because I am trying to figure out what is causing all of the symptoms, did you remember the Trumatic event or did it kind of have to be pulled out of you? I ask because I don’t remember but I’m pretty sure that was trauma
@theswede4124
@theswede4124 4 года назад
@@jennifermason6628 I endured a series of traumatic events. There were a couple events that happened early in my childhood that I had no recollection over, that had to be "pulled out" of me. While others were so blatantly traumatic there is no way I could forget them. So, it was a mixture of both; for me.
@remotecontrol655
@remotecontrol655 4 года назад
@@theswede4124 how are u doing now? And are those blatantly traumatic experience some what healing?
@Lion-gu7gn
@Lion-gu7gn 4 года назад
I'm always tired; 'always feel like i trained hard for 2h the day before...joints pain, but i know i had many traumas before, i was a doorman for 12 years plus i am afflicted with the inherited spirit of rejection. I had a crazy life, now i can't get out of my home. 'seeing doc soon.
@truthseeker6584
@truthseeker6584 4 года назад
That sounds horrible, and I can completely relate - I am diagnosed with Chronic Fatigue and Fibromyalgia and I had to give up most of the things I loved - like hiking, going by bike etc. I do hope that you find a good doctor and a good therapy and that you will finally feel better! I wish you all the best. :-)
@obgfoster
@obgfoster 4 года назад
I started keeping track of my gall bladder symptoms to figure out which foods triggered it, and it turns out to be a somatic thing. It has cost me work days due to sleepless nights and lots and lots of pain that nothing will help, but since I "fail" the relevant medical tests, I don't qualify for (insurance-paid) surgery. I've started trying to identify the very first twinges to stave it off, and it's getting better.
@frogbaby6960
@frogbaby6960 4 года назад
Everything makes sense putting this to my past too bad therapists don’t put these together 🙃
@whyohwhy9679
@whyohwhy9679 4 года назад
They seem to always be looking for a DSM diagnosis that they have a bias towards seeing.
@terifinnegan6649
@terifinnegan6649 3 года назад
Yes, hyperviligent and stress eating. I attending a group meeting where the councilor would talk us through "grounding" exercises
@starrystarrynight52
@starrystarrynight52 4 года назад
I developed IBS over the summer. I had GERD for years. But one traumatic and very stressful event this summer and my belly went crazy. I was a huge mess. I went to the doctor after 2 months of this crap (quite literally) and she diagnosed with IBS, and told me it can be triggered by stressful events. So here I am. Now on 2 different meds that I have to take every day. All thanks to Ms T.
@gyounce1
@gyounce1 4 года назад
I was prepared to gag and roll my eyes thinking the "solution" would be just to pump someone's body full of drugs, however, the information provided here actually gives me a calm. Suppression of one's symptoms do nothing but prolong your suffering. I am happy with the method mentioned in the video because it addresses the problem, it does not ignore it.
@cherrysdiy5005
@cherrysdiy5005 3 года назад
I never thought my intestinal distress and stomach pain might be related to my unresolved stuff. Learn something new everyday.
@bethanystanley4400
@bethanystanley4400 4 года назад
Now I want to do SE so bad. I’ve done EMDR. It’s helpful, but I think I need more and I don’t have the energy to relive those traumatic events through EMDR again.
@edelweissdebergbaldrian7696
@edelweissdebergbaldrian7696 4 года назад
Don't want EMDR anymore either. It takes too much out of me; I don't want to talk about it anymore either... I just can't keep relieving hell over and over again. I just have to make myself stop thinking about crap; then change my focus. Do my best to move forward.
@lolacookie453
@lolacookie453 4 года назад
If you have someone who specializes in EMDR they should have enough techniques in their tool belt so that you aren’t having to revisit the trauma again and again. Rather it can be done in flashes/snapshots. My therapist used at least three different techniques including tapping to see which was the least stressful for me as well as the quickest. Don’t give up, you deserve to heal and find peace in your life! All the best! 🙏✨
@Bellaaaaaaaxxo
@Bellaaaaaaaxxo 3 года назад
I have C-PTSD and as you said my whole life it has been really hard for me because I knew there was something there that was wrong but I never had the language to talk about it until the past few years. Every single one of these things I have unfortunately.. but I think it gets better.🖤
@vanidiana
@vanidiana 3 года назад
When I was little, almost every night I complained that I have stomach ache. Only nowadays I realize that it might have been caused by stress because of constant fights and argues between my parents.
@melaniezanuttig6030
@melaniezanuttig6030 4 года назад
Every single one of these. I was diagnosed with severe anxiety & depression at 16 and started medication...at 34 I was diagnosed with BPD and Somatic Symptom Disorder after taking a medical leave from work. I moved to a new city a few months ago, which means new doctors, and they didn't like the drugs my old doctors had me on. At 37 years old, I've been additionally diagnosed as Bipolar 2 and ADHD. Right now, the only treatment my doctors are offering me is medication, even though I keep asking for therapy. I'm so grateful to have found MedCircle and your videos because I've learnt so much. I just wish I could afford to pay for a membership to access the other content as well. Speaking of Somatic Experiences...Thanks to severe stress, I suffered from chronic untreatable hives for 3 years!!!
@artboysf
@artboysf 3 года назад
It makes me think of the old adage "If you're going through hell keep going."
@playdoe3275
@playdoe3275 3 года назад
ya. i like that 1 2.it's a gd thng 2 remember
@cindy844
@cindy844 3 года назад
@Louis76 basically it means if you're going through a horrible time, don't allow yourself to stay in that "space." Keep moving forward until you make it all the way through to the other side.
@cindy844
@cindy844 3 года назад
@Louis76 you're very welcome. There's an old country song that says, "If you're going through hell, keep on going. You might get out before the devil knows you're there."
@phoenixrising5088
@phoenixrising5088 3 года назад
@Penderyn Lewsyn no keep going, you can't reverse the journey when the light is at the other end hell. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
@barrykulmom
@barrykulmom 3 года назад
The wonderful thing about this kind of information is how retaliatory to small town America. The sad part is that we don’t always have access to mental help. I found that my therapist didn’t know about the things that you discuss. She was wonderful and listened to me but didn’t know the therapies that might help me. Hardly even asked questions that would have given her clues to this trauma. I do appreciate Medcircle.
@smithieboy10
@smithieboy10 3 года назад
Many years ago I was out with one of my friend's and a guy was chatting her up. I was chatting to his friends, they were soldiers or something military ish, one guy asked me why I keep checking all the exits all the time and that's when I realised, I'm hyperviligant.
@kimberlydavis5034
@kimberlydavis5034 4 года назад
I have complex-ptsd, depression, anxiety and OCD. I also have social anxiety when I have to go somewhere where there's a lot of people or certain places, things, and smells that cause flashbacks and nightmares from the years and years of trauma. I completely understand the fight or flight mode. I have other serious health issues but I find having good doctors who truly care and counselors is very important.
@carolnolen1671
@carolnolen1671 4 года назад
Yes, yes and more yes’. I would love to find what my specific “trauma” is. Once I figured out my mother was my trigger and went no contact with her, things have gotten somewhat better but still have a way to go. Thanks for the videos. They really help.
@kimberlyjung6778
@kimberlyjung6778 4 года назад
Carol Nolen check out Jerry Wise videos also. He talks about no contact, etc. This is very helpful too.
@xylenebracamonte1569
@xylenebracamonte1569 4 года назад
My father is my trigger. When I stopped interacting with him, I felt like a heavy weight was lifted. It's sad though because we all want to have great relationship with our family, but it's not my reality.
@Oyuki-Mayonesa
@Oyuki-Mayonesa 4 года назад
2:22 aww 🥰 the sweet doggy coming in to provide comfort as the man emotes having trauma 😍
@valhalla1240
@valhalla1240 4 года назад
A friend of mine was sexually abused when she was eight years old. I asked her whether she wanted to seek therapeutic help, but she declined and basically said, she didn't feel like she needed it. Meanwhile, she is always on high alert. She is the most easily startled person I know. It's so hard to watch her put it off, because I know one day she will realize that she actually needs help and of course on that day I will be there. But I wished she did it rather sooner than later, because I want her to live the best life possible.
@canduscanty8583
@canduscanty8583 3 года назад
Maybe send her this video it might trigger her to get help
@chandlerrose4545
@chandlerrose4545 3 года назад
You are a good friend!
@iergjsglsdhgoajsfjaslkdf
@iergjsglsdhgoajsfjaslkdf 3 года назад
She will process it when she's ready. I was in denial I had ptsd in my 20s, despite flashbacks, nightmares, depression, anorexia, panic attacks, self-injury, and an exaggerated startle response. More memories started to come back in my 30s, and at the age of 40 my body basically said "You must deal with this NOW." I would not have been able to handle the memories in my 20s, I wasn't ready, and I would have committed suicide. It takes as long as it takes, unfortunately.
@kenelskenels8573
@kenelskenels8573 3 года назад
I was sexually abused at 10 years old. I thought I was fine for many decades. But now (age 46) I felt the need to deal with it. It helped that my husband asked me what I went through. Describing it in detail really helped the tears flow. I had never really said more than, "Yeah my grandpa molested me". But a few weeks ago I got very descriptive about the disgusting look on his face as he did what he did to me. Maybe ask your friend out of genuine curiousity. Ask her to be detailed, and to tell you what she was feeling and thinking in the moment. I believe it may be helpful to get the process started.
@Elya08
@Elya08 3 года назад
Maybe show her these comments. I was sexually molested by my older brother, and I never got therapy until my body started shutting down and my relationships began to crash and burn. If she has any memories at all of her abuse, she should process them, as hard as it is and will be. I personally understand how hard it will be. My processing journey had to go the way it did because I didn’t have the emotional/social/coping skills or support system to go through it earlier. Now, therapy has taught me to be stronger with or without others. Learning to be able to rely on healthy others instead of just myself. :) I have CPTSD, btw, so understand the hyper vigilance, the easily being startled, and have nightmares and flashbacks. Anyone who takes that courageous step to heal, it is possible. You CAN heal, and even if you’ve been through Hell, you can come out on the other side and find out how to truly begin living life.
@eyesontheprize6637
@eyesontheprize6637 3 года назад
My IBS went away when I stopped eating tomatoes. I went for food allergies and eliminated all offending foods and I was soaring physically. The allergist told me he had helped ppl that psychiatrists could not help. I believe it. I became a new person in 2 weeks. Consider seeing a food allergist as part of your treatment(s).
@kimberlyjohnson8409
@kimberlyjohnson8409 2 года назад
This is exactly what I need. I blocked out my trauma from 17-33. I’m now 45 and it’s still going through this. The firs 4 years I thought I was going crazy, b/c how could I forget it if it really happened. After 4 years of thinking my mind was making things up that felt so real. I got the memory back on why I had to block it out.. I was so disgusted..I couldn’t handle the thoughts in my head and I felt the emotions as the memories came back. I’m still dealing with it at 45 b/c my mom and sister still think my mind has made it up in my head some how. Once I felt the emotions, I new it believe in my mind like my doctor told me to all along. My therapist couldn’t help with the ptsd.. I did EDMR, but it didn’t work. The constant thoughts just won’t stop. Not sure if it’s b/c my mom and sister say they believe that I believe this happened, but they don’t think it happened or because I pretty much have no choice but to keep my thoughts in my head for my mom and sister otherwise they look at me like I’m crazy.
@tbunnyshy1
@tbunnyshy1 3 года назад
What is really hard is growing up severely neglected and then watching your own child suffer through the hands of the other parent. “Secondary trauma response”? This pain will never go away. EMDR reduced physical symptoms, yet the inner anguish and MEMORIES NEVER GO AWAY. Living is just “serving time”.
@wutz4tea
@wutz4tea 4 года назад
I have a lifetime of trauma...diagnosed w fibro...cptsd, etc...interested in this..
@bobbiesoales4149
@bobbiesoales4149 4 года назад
wutz4tea SAME!!!!
@flamingsword777
@flamingsword777 4 года назад
God bless you both. Please don't wind up like me.... I stayed in an abusive marriage for over 2 decades and almost died twice due to unknown thyroid cancer i had devolped. I am healed now, thanks be to God, but this was ABSOLUTELY my wake up call....
@wutz4tea
@wutz4tea 4 года назад
@@flamingsword777 Had abusive childhood to start. I left after 33 years of psych/emo abusive marriage, bought the house we were living in, now recovering in peace. I have pieced together my own plan of recovery, what is working for me, but this topic is very intriguing to me. You can get through this, too!💜Best wishes and peace to you!😎
@flamingsword777
@flamingsword777 4 года назад
@@wutz4tea with God's help, i am doing the same. I empathize with you and your childhood. I was born 6 weeks early due to failure to thrive. I have sustained a LOT of trauma throughout my 41 years, but i am a fighter and always have been. I LOVE living because i had to fight for it since day one. What has helped me throughout life is the very first memory i ever had and that's when i died. Jesus held me and spoke to me through my spirit. I remember what i felt, heard and saw. I didn't know it was "Jesus", i knew Him as Unconditional Love, acceptance, peace and healing.....the only reason i knew later on it was Him was because i remembered seeing the holes in His feet. I couldn't see His Face tho, lol...i pray that The Heavenly Father continues to bless, guide, uphold, strengthen and give you more and more of His wisdom, grace, protection, abundance healing, joy and healing in Jesus' Holy Name...... I am super happy for you and how you are healing! God BLESS you!!! God is awesome ALL the time!
@cv1360
@cv1360 3 года назад
Check out flobility.com
@lisaharding3377
@lisaharding3377 3 года назад
Wow. I quite recently have experienced healing my physical body in a way that is releasing old trauma. Discovered that I was repressing my own early childhood separation from my entire family at 5 years old. Like being reborn to release .... you should be on a board for addressing the needs of the separated - orphaned by force - children in immigration detention camps - this trauma can only be healed through physical play in nature therapy.
@oneofthosecreativetypes24
@oneofthosecreativetypes24 4 года назад
The lab yawning at 3:37 🥰 And we even get to hear the "doggie yawn noise". Bonus. 😍
@kenelskenels8573
@kenelskenels8573 3 года назад
OMG, I must rewatch this with the sound up! :o
@KatelynMrsBamaIngle
@KatelynMrsBamaIngle 3 года назад
Yessssss! Pain, I freeze and clinch my muscles all over.. extreme fatigue always feeling on edge easily startled. I was diagnosed in 4th grade with IBS. I’m under a psychiatrist care.. and ocular migraines YES. I have horrific neck pain.. this woman explained all my symptoms. I start therapy soon as well and practicing self care hard by 30 I’m gonna resolve this! No doubt!
@bethanystanley4400
@bethanystanley4400 4 года назад
I’ve got all of these. PTSD right here; the Army sure can mess up your life. My sleep issues are so messed up. I’ve almost fallen asleep while driving, even short distances, many many time.
@jenniferbloh-michael8662
@jenniferbloh-michael8662 3 года назад
My friend couldn't handle being near insects because of his training for the army.I can handle insects better and I do not like insects ....
@kenelskenels8573
@kenelskenels8573 3 года назад
I'm glad you didn't die while driving! You mentioned falling asleep many times. It happened to me a few times years ago. But was due to my dumb choices (thinking I could go for a 3 hour drive without sleep). I'm sorry to hear about yours being related to PTSD. It's scary when you fall asleep behind the wheel. You hear the horns of the cars around you and are thankful they woke you. But part of you is so tired that you don't actually care. You're so out of it that you're not even aware of the danger. :o
@TheYoonaJ
@TheYoonaJ 3 года назад
Experiencing three: fight, flight, freeze and exhaustion and I have IBS. I need to be very mindful to be able to relax. And quickly tense again.
@racheltarentino3314
@racheltarentino3314 4 года назад
I have " fibromyalgia " and I've been looking into the connection between trauma and chronic pain and this video has helped me so much!!!! Ty
@cv1360
@cv1360 3 года назад
Check out Flobility.com
@chandlerrose4545
@chandlerrose4545 3 года назад
My trauma came from being ill and growing up in Boston Children’s. I’m 26 now and I’ve had 59 surgeries. My whole life I never known what it’s like not to be in pain.
@moniquekruissen3827
@moniquekruissen3827 4 года назад
Chronic fatigue check Chronic pain check Ibs ,crohns, chronic diarhea without explained case check Fibromyalgia check in and out off therapie sinds i was 18, i am now 40. Nobody ever said this could be from trauma....
@maryfrady7149
@maryfrady7149 4 года назад
Yes I'm always tired. I have dreams and I'm so tired when I wake up. Like uve been working all night long.
@Mikaylap713
@Mikaylap713 3 года назад
A sign of PTSD or C-PTSD. Definitely get meds and help if it affects your REM sleep.
@michelemurphy3541
@michelemurphy3541 3 года назад
Excellent information. Thank You! I am in fight | flight often. I can get my system back down to a calm state every couple weeks then I get targeted and picked at for several days until my fight | flight is super high alert-startle response is so bad, when the laundry buzzers go off on the washer & dryer, it throws me into a panic. It’s ridiculous. My sleep schedule was purposefully flipped a couple years ago and every time I get it back to my regular way *(early to bed, early rise), I get derailed. I got an infection that went systemic so I had to take antibiotics for almost 2 years, in recent months, I have collapsed with what starts off as blacking out, then goes to nauseous feeling and my lips and tongue go numb. I am under a huge amount of stress daily-very crazy stress on top of it, as in, not normal stuff/targeted constantly by a bully predator. These type videos have been life saving. Thank you again.
@kardinalempress
@kardinalempress 4 года назад
I think it's an important point that most people who've experienced childhood abuse are not only encouraged but expected to develop our own ways of coping... This (in my opinion) is the beginning of the disassociation between what helps and what harms.
@peepatch101
@peepatch101 4 года назад
Wow... I have been having all of these issues. Recently I had the dr check me again with no medical issues. In addition the Dr told me the stress is also the reason I am having first time weight loss issues and beningn breast lumps. I appreciate this video, thank you!
@jemgem9593
@jemgem9593 4 года назад
Yes that's me summed up .Unresolved trauma, battling it all. Stuck. Life feels hopeless. Ah well 🐬🍀
@mirandajohnson7639
@mirandajohnson7639 3 года назад
I'm 32 and just recently discovered this is an issue for me. I love a man and pushed him away from me without the knowledge of what was going on with me. This is a huge problem for many in this world. Trust issues come from this. Not really knowing who you can trust. This is horrible.
@tamiasaavedra5881
@tamiasaavedra5881 4 года назад
I have all of these. Diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and C-PTSD recently. Been working with a therapist for over a year. Been slow progression as I dissociate a lot in session as well as in my everyday life
@isabellamaria5632
@isabellamaria5632 4 года назад
tamia saavedra holy shit you described me in a paragraph, also here is a link about disassociation disorders www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/dissociative-disorders/what-are-dissociative-disorders If you need help navigating the page let me know, it confused me at first.
@ryankelly8077
@ryankelly8077 4 года назад
The second symptom you mentioned - chronic fatigue- has many potential causes. Thyroid imbalance, hypersomnia, etc.. it’s important to rule out disorders that we have bio testing for
@jennifermason6628
@jennifermason6628 4 года назад
Thank you Judy and Kyle! Amazing episode (as usual). Love the lab 😍 Kyle you are a godsend, please don’t stop. You are doing a service that helps people heal & learn to actually look forward to living. Much love. ❤️ ❤️❤️
@N3gativeR3FLUX
@N3gativeR3FLUX Год назад
My father was a violent alcoholic. I was recently diagnosed in my 40s with childhood trauma induced CPTSD, severe depression and anxiety. Also testing for potential diagnoses for ADHD and ASD as well with a psychiatrist. These were all physical symptoms, there was a bunch of other symptoms as well most notably severe insomia (like right now yay for RU-vid or I'd be playing cards) and an inability to regulate my emotions. My therapist is currently building a "coping toolkit" with me to help me regulate when I experience my various triggers. It's helping. Things in my toolkit include grounding exercises such as the five senses, listening to myself play music on the guitar as well as birds I've recorded on headphones, exercising, doing yoga and meditation and having access to specific smells I associate with good things like a handkerchief in a ziplock bag that's been rubbed in baby powder (strange maybe I know but it works). When I feel like I'm losing control (I usually freeze, become dissociative and shut down but occasionally fight and have aggressive outbursts when im especially overstimulated) I can use something in the toolkit to help regulate my emotions. The interesting part is almost always I feel a need to "shake it off" and notice a somatic component, for example shaking or crying, after regulating, interesting discussion. Thank you for sharing.
@jaime9353
@jaime9353 4 года назад
I have all of these the hard part is trying to find out what trauma causes it and how to resolve it. Like where do you start?
@user-vp7yg8qb8g
@user-vp7yg8qb8g 4 года назад
Yes
@saiikik2727
@saiikik2727 4 года назад
Self esteem
@articlight737
@articlight737 4 года назад
100% a good therapist will help you uncover what it is
@aitzi6732
@aitzi6732 4 года назад
They said that with the somatic therapy you don't even need to find out or talk about the trauma, is about to allow your body to go through the natural response to the trauma to release it... I think that's very interesting.
@kardinalempress
@kardinalempress 4 года назад
The beauty of the therapy is that you don't have to think much Our body tells us the answers 🙂🧡
@marcey1850
@marcey1850 4 года назад
I have actually sort out this type of therapy. It did wonders for me. I still utilize what I have learned when needed.
@callmequeen17
@callmequeen17 4 года назад
Thanks for having the dog on your videos. Its nice to have calming, carefree visual when watching videos about heavy topics like this
@Peabutter763
@Peabutter763 4 года назад
I have been diagnosed with PTSD about 11 years ago. I am still learning what it entails, symptoms and behaviors. Currently trying to decifer if its C-PTSD or PTSD.
@edyeU2oob
@edyeU2oob 3 года назад
I say this in my essential oil classes....”The body will cry the tears the eyes refuse to shed.”
@GuidetteExpert
@GuidetteExpert 3 года назад
I have horrible IBS and that fits with all the horrible past traumas I have gone trough!
@jeanettesieja819
@jeanettesieja819 4 года назад
Wow! Loved this video. So what can I do at home to "fix" myself? Im on a very limited income right now that Im disabled & that's about the only way I can do things is if they are free. I was molested by my father from the age of 4 till 18 when I was able to move out of my parents house. I have tried forgiving him. But there must be something still inside me that Im not letting go of. I still have a big problem with trust & it seems every man in my life steps all over me. I heard you say ground. I live in upstate NY so most of the year is to cold for me to even go outside. How do I ground inside? I have been trying to get in touch with my feelings more when I notice problems arising but it's not enough. I have tried meditation but the bad always keeps coming up. Please let me Ono if there is something I can do at home to help myself. As a child going through this my copeing was to just pretend it wasn't happening. I blow it off whenever I was not around it. At 55 years old I want to be over this already. Im tired of pushing everything away because I cannot cope. Help please!
@bobbiesoales4149
@bobbiesoales4149 4 года назад
Jeanette Sieja I think what you are talking about is called “grounding” and you can do it anywhere! It helps keep you in the moment without dissociating- At first, it is a bit harder because we have gone into survival mode and have just stayed there- as a way to stay “protected”. Once you get through- all the way through having these thoughts and feelings, then it becomes a bit easier every time. It will always be with us- but it helps us actually cope with it ❤️ Smelling the hand sanitizer lets my body/brain go through the onset of emotions while also letting you body know that- its ok to finally process this because you are safe now. Some people chew or click a pen, others might prefer touching something soft etc. anything that helps keep you “grounded in the here and now”. Working through it isnt easy and as one extreme trauma survivor to another, I really would suggest you begin this journey with Drs specialized in dealing with this. Since our trauma happened when we were young, there is a chance pieces of your personality split- as an amazing way to try to “protect” any part of you brain you could so you could survive! This does make it extra complicated so I do urge you to look for guided help from a trained professional- You can find free group meetings for survivors of rape and incest for free. It feels like a safe place with people that can actually relate or that have gone through similar things- it lets you know that you are not alone, that it wasn’t your fault, that you did what you needed to at the time to survive! Write a letter to your abuser -a long long one- say everything you want to say to him- you can then say goodbye and go outside and burn it- the burning represents an act of letting go. They may do things like that. Lastly, forgive yourself!! We always blame ourselves in our minds but we do not carry that burden- its theirs. If a person abused you and manipulated-you *Especially at the age of 4* There was nothing you could have done and you survived. Its not your fault. If you have medicare- try to find places for therapy,counseling that accept it! I am not sure if this makes sense but trying to share from personal experiences. I wax and wane- I will be doing great and then if someone anywhere around me uses skoal and I can smell it- My entire body shifts almost instantly. My personality changes - I instantly become irritated and ready to lash out in a rage fury and I immediately get nauseated and get a migraine- I never knew why but now believe it is from a trauma so bad I repressed it. Some places take Medicaid but you would need to call (another thing that gives me intense anxiety). If you have the internet you can look for videos on RU-vid that can help you do it yourself or last idea I can think of is going to your local library and browse the self help shelf for topics on trauma that relates to you. I do hope something in this that I have helped somehow
@futureshocked
@futureshocked 4 года назад
Learn improvisational contact dance. I've done contact dance with wheelchair bound people before. In general, dancers know soooooo much more about somatics than therapists do. Therapists are just now catching up to dancers.
@jeanettesieja819
@jeanettesieja819 4 года назад
@@bobbiesoales4149 thank you so much for the info & taking the time to write it. I know exactly what you mean about smells. Mine is Old Spice aftershave. I get the same way. And I also know about phone calls. It is one of the hardest things for me to do. I truly hate how I can be fine & happy one minute & just like a light switch something so small can change it all around. I have tried counseling before when I was in my 30s. It helped some but I just want into pouring my heart out to a complete stranger. Might be different now though. I have been trying to get into some self-help stuff on RU-vid but I still fight everyday to make the day count enough to get out of bed. Im gonna work on the "grounding" thing. I actually just found a really cheap chakra dance grounding course through "DailyOM". I literally just got it & haven't tried it yet but it seems promising enough if I can get myself up to do it. Im hoping I will be attracted to it enough that it will keep my interest. I really appreciate all your help & I wish you the very best. I truly believe when people come together all things are possible. Thanks again for everything 💜
@jeanettesieja819
@jeanettesieja819 4 года назад
@@futureshocked thanks so much. I will look into it. 💜
@bobbiesoales4149
@bobbiesoales4149 4 года назад
I can 💯 % relate to all you have said.
@christymckee8133
@christymckee8133 3 года назад
Its like grieving the loss of a loved one. Its a natural neccessary process that ya have to let run its course. One of the worst things to repress. My brother hasnt cried or mourned the death of our mother, 11 years later... Which comes from repressed things from growing up. We werent to cry, it was weakness.... Ive tried to help him with this but its not something i can force. I just know that one day, its going to come out and its going to be very rough on him...
@whisped8145
@whisped8145 3 года назад
When I had my first big leg-tremor from this... stress... it was scary and alien. I was lying in bed after an exhausting day, and my head was still trying to process the unprocessable. It's rare to happen, but it still does. Something so weird became something I just wait out with more annoyance than anything else at this point. It still is eerie, but... at a much further back corner in my mind. How can such things become "normal"? This never happened before... the things happened.
@lizziegeedee
@lizziegeedee 4 года назад
I’ve never heard of this before but it makes perfect sense. I wish more mental health providers would look for trauma before diagnosing and prescribing meds. I tried to bring up childhood experiences with several different providers but they were all more interested in current “symptoms” and what pill to try next. I wish I could explore that unresolved trauma but I can’t even pretend to know where to start. I think it would be tremendously healing.
@kenelskenels8573
@kenelskenels8573 3 года назад
-Write a timeline of your trauma -Keep it chronological -Add to it as you remember -Decide when and where you're going to blast through it For example, I've told my husband most of my memories. But I haven't let all my feelings out out of fear of embarrassment or appearing over dramatic. I can't afford to visit a therapist (no insurance). But I don't want to feel like I'm talking to myself in a room alone. So I decided to record myself with my phone. I'm going to look at the camera and talk to my parents. I want them to know all of my bad memories. How they've hurt me and affected my life. I don't miss my childhood. I'm glad I'm not a helpless child anymore. I got the idea from a video where a therapist was instructing other therapists on helping patients. She said to talk about your memories until you can express them without emotion. Next you need to analyze any wrong thinking and beliefs you have. It's important to work to correct wrong thinking. I will enlist my husband's help with this. Please contact me if you'd like to exchange ideas and tips.
@tori3158
@tori3158 3 года назад
First loss of my dear mother when l was 15.. after an abortion at 18, right on my b-day, never could trust or rely on my dad or brother, they very similar. Dad drinking, spending money, demanding money, fights, desperation.. from unpayed bills.. often was without electricity or water.. grew up with anxiety from my dad was creating daily. I felt so alone and powerless. As a sensitive individual developed a sense of being scared of the world, people. When my dad did rage or being drunk l locked myself in my room, music on with headphones and " l am not there " mode. Avoiding to move even, l was in such a " rigid " state. How many times l saw a nice, warm lady and so wanted to be adopted somehow while l was in younger years. Yet l was too ashamed to talk about what was going on in the house and expose my deep sadness, fragilities and sense of being lost. They diagnosed now fibromyalgia and some other things.. most hard feeling to live with was and still is.. to not being able to trust or have at least 1 person u can count on and be open and sincere with, without expecting a knife in your back after. Only users. Broke my heart when l realised l wasn't loved for who l am but for what l can give only. Become a loner.. l kinda like it as l feel safe yet sometimes is very hard to deal with all these things. Crying often, still for the loss of my mom after all these years. Feels like having such an void, nothing can fill that up. Not even myself. At least l have peace as away from my dad and bro, but... Consequences are here. All negativity, fights, feeling alone, never protected, never a nice word, trying to make my dad understand that he is doing wrong things and making terrible decisions. My bro moving away from everything saying " l am 2 sensitive to deal with this " , leaving me alone in despair, fighting, trying to make things better, shaking, developed heart palpitations even from all the daily stress.. now l hate fights, have some buttons someone shouldn't push, l don't want marriage or kids, l avoide people as much as possible, negativity in all.. as l react on my body directly.. yet always try to smile and bring others up (co-workers, trying to be strong Infront of partner). Little do they know how l feel for real.. Let's try to maintain some positivity, balance. Exercising, eating correctly (according to each others body), really helps. Relaxing book, music.. little things :) Stay strong everyone.
@melaniehamilton6523
@melaniehamilton6523 4 года назад
Great info! Very first time ever hearing about 'somatic experience therapy' and I plan to look into it more. Will be very hard for me to do especially when I grew up being told, "I shouldn't feel that way". I will first need to give myself permission to feel anything at all and give myself lots of grace.
@kenelskenels8573
@kenelskenels8573 3 года назад
I just wanted to mention for anyone wanting to avoid therapies based on Buddhism. They are: -Somatic Therapy -Schema Therapy -Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) It's too bad, but a good alternative is: Cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT) which DBT is based on, but without all the mumbo jumbo :)
@aidyn215
@aidyn215 2 года назад
I have chronic pain, n I am ALWAYS tired! I would give anything to feel normal again!
@warriorhippie
@warriorhippie 4 года назад
This happens to me too. I was diagnosed with CPTSD with depression, anxiety and dissociative tendencies. This is due to childhood trauma. I have chronic upper back pain and reoccurring BV.
@delaineymacphearson6850
@delaineymacphearson6850 3 года назад
This is what I was diagnosed with as well. Kinda strange how our symptoms are so similar. The dissociative parts that have been giving me the most distress lately. That damn fight or fight is always on, always. It’s exhausting. I find myself sitting completely mindless only realizing it when I come back. My partner has been asking a lot lately, Are you ok? I immediately answer yes but he can see it happen. I feel bad for him, there is nothing he can do, it just is what it is.
@francescac7925
@francescac7925 4 года назад
I am always feeling exhausted mentally, physically, and spiritually...chronic pain....GI issues...ulcers...tension headaches I could be the poster child for unresolved trauma😣
@ritacummings2310
@ritacummings2310 4 года назад
Thanks . I've been in Therepy off and on for years . Never did any good . I am now 64 years old and realizing ONLY RECENTLY I have had a lot of crap that was never addressed . I told my worker the other day out of sheer agsaserbation ( can't spell either ) that I need to talk about a " few things " , I'm pissed off . Been through a lot and it was never addressed . So , thanks . Realized this a few weeks ago and you validated it !
@patdaniell5528
@patdaniell5528 3 года назад
Yes I many people our age me being 70 year old are realizing things about our illness and brain problems and reasons the very same way as you. ,pray for your well being x
@azinkspot
@azinkspot 4 года назад
I was raised by a very cruel narcissistic mother. And this makes so much sense. It explains so much for me. Especially with the gut issues. Thank you so much for this ! 💖
@drazicmilosovic1065
@drazicmilosovic1065 4 года назад
Pupper: “Cuddles fix trauma. C’mon Daddy; smooch me up! Never mind this girl you’re chatting to.” Seriously though, great vid!
@lilyvalley5389
@lilyvalley5389 4 года назад
Lol iknr ?! Just what I though he was think or saying with his paw action.
@Claymoreinurface
@Claymoreinurface 3 года назад
I got my first ulcer at age 13. I had knee pain, celiac disease which cause optical migraines, GI issues, auto immune disease besides celiac, and pain all over throughout my life.
@deannealcalde957
@deannealcalde957 4 года назад
When do signs of past trauma start to manifest? If trauma happened at age 6, does it manifest all throughout ages 6 to adulthood?
@micaelacarbajal8338
@micaelacarbajal8338 3 года назад
I have ADHD and suffer major major major depression. Honestly, I used to be able to not show it you know, but it's gotten worse and worse and worse, to the point where my loved ones and complete strangers as well are able to see.
@michellec6336
@michellec6336 4 года назад
Wow, I quickly said yes to 1 out of 4. My history of having to take pain (physical and emotional), but not allowed to say ANYTHING has played some part in my chronic pain today. I hope this new technique can be used to help many. It would be great if it can start with the military coming off of violent deployments. Thank you for the info!
@michellec6336
@michellec6336 4 года назад
Adding...I take motrin for headaches and back pain a lot. But I'm not on migraine medicine. Perhaps I should actually answer 1-5.
@caramellique
@caramellique 4 года назад
Kyle I feel like you were much more yourself in this video. I can tell you're healing. I'm so proud of you
@kenelskenels8573
@kenelskenels8573 3 года назад
Kyle is the best in this video! I loved seeing it also!
@timdetmers3240
@timdetmers3240 4 года назад
Wow, now I know why I feel so fatigued most of the time. I can sleep for 18 hours and still feel tired. I know I have suffered a lot of trauma in my life, so the challenge now is how to resolve these traumas.
@msPranksterPixie
@msPranksterPixie 3 года назад
There's a school of thought of treating trauma via osteopathic therapy, as you haven't got someone messing around in your brain. It releases the trauma from the body. It's known about in the sadistic abuse / dissociative disorders therapy professionals groups.
@luckey29
@luckey29 4 года назад
been suffering since 2010. First they diagnosed Addisons disease. Now, coming up a year ago they changed their minds to Fybromyalgia which I still don't accept. I have been a pro dancer and singer most of my life, I'm now 41 and can't stoamach singing live. As a kid ive always lived off my nervous. As I've older my anxiety has gone through the roof, making me agraphobic at times. I know this is more to do with my past and there's huge chuncks of memory that have just dissappeared plus my dyslexic which really doesn't help!
@goddesslv1
@goddesslv1 4 года назад
I can relate
@luckey29
@luckey29 4 года назад
@@goddesslv1 Thanks Laura x
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