ah yes, let me get surgery to fix my ugliness, let me go to the gym for years to get ripped, become a millionaire, learn game, social skills, secure status, have my own home etc. just to attract women, and then after all that I'm just supposed to take 1 entitled single mom with 25 bodies, who can't even cook and whose entire personality boils down to "I like to laugh" and "I like food", while I risk getting all my hard work destroyed in divorce court after she leaves me for a guy who's 2 inches taller than me. Yea gee, I wonder why men don't date anymore, sounds like a great deal
Women have no idea how much of an investment an average man has to make in order to attract even a single woman. And they don't care either. They have so many options for just being born a female that they can't even conceptualize a man's reality.
When she's saying "men", she's talking about a very small sample size of men; the top percentile of men that hold all the cards and have neither incentive nor imperative to commit to a single woman.
5'9 is my height I know it isn't short but average (I have a model tier jawline and side profile, genuinely my side profile is better than most Hollywood actors. and I have a P size of 7.8 inches last time I measured. I could be at 8 inches now, since I just turned 18 and haven't measured in 5 months. (Black genes I guess) Is it still over for me with an average height?
@@jayandjlps8022 no it’s not over lol. You’ve been listening to too much black pill. If you’re at least average in looks then you can use game to get girls.
@@Jaccobtw More like you just keep approaching women until you get a yes has nothing to do with game lol you just find someone you happen to meet the looks threshold for
@@cordfortina9073 You are right, but they shouldn't be blamed for playing with the full-of-aces set of cards that received at birth. Blaming them is Biiig Cope, man 😔
@@ultimateloser3411 You being tricked to raise that Chad kid like 200 years ago would be the real tragedy. Nazis at least tried to manage this brutality with a Lebensborn. I would support a Lebensborn program with the condition that Chad himself pays for all the expensives his kid will cause seeing how most ofnus here wont breed.
I wouldn't say it's good for men to watch these videos. It creates the man to have a depressing personality around woman, and for average looking man you need to have the most attractive personality possible for natural attraction to happen
It's actually much simpler. Chad that she wants has options and is tired of her shit as soon as he gets what he came for, but he keeps her around so he can show other women he has abundance.
This falls under the fifth point that makes modern dating horrendous: The fact that modern women want men to be traditional, but don't want to be traditional themselves. This gets pointed out by the redpill community often, as well. Women still expect the man to pay on the first (second, third, and so on) date. Being a man with a good number of female friends (some of them with benefits), I can tell you it's a WHOLE lot better than being in a committed relationship with them. The expectations and demands of modern women are just not worth the investment, especially if you consider WW's first point about being easily replaceable. Stay safe out there, guys. Most of the time the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
@Neon Exactly! Women Do NOT Treat Their Female Friends (Girlfriends) In This Fashion. Their Female Friends Get Reciprocation. That Is If They Want To KEEP That Woman As A Friend. For Their "Boyfriends" Women Reserve The Role of Romancer, And For Themselves The Role of Being A "Romantic" No Work, or Expenditure of Money Required. Then They Play The Victim, And Say Men Have "Commitment" Issues. Men Don't Want To Get Married, ETC. Where Is The EARNING of A Marriage Proposal Requirement on The Woman? Answer? Nowhere In Sight. "Women Are The Table"
My GF pays for a lot of stuff when we go out and it doesn't bother her. And the woman has to buy gifts too on special dates. Tbh, I don't think I would prefer to have a traditional woman that doesn't work and whom I have to support.
I cant imagine being a young guy or girl (below 30) in this day and age. The world, the social interactions and the young people today are so messed up it must be hard to find someone that's right for you, not to mention maintain a healthy relationship
The replaceability and the amount of low quality women are enough for us to stay out. My own gf told me in an indirect way that she would doumb me for a better looking guy. No joke. Also, how often do you see women getting bored of their boyfriends and dumbing them in search for new experiences. I see it all the time. As a man in the modern society if you get into a relationship you are expected to entertain her and pray she does not cheat on you or dumb you for another guy. You are expected to deal with a lot of double standards. Also asking your gf not to go out with other men is viewed as oppression and you are sexist. Basically asking for loyalty is viewed as oppression to modern women. And if you do everything right zthen there is s SMALL chance that she will stay with you and not dumb you after she gets bored. You are basically viewed as a decoration object that women can replace anytime they want with no remorse. All that just to get some intimacy. Chad gets this intimacy without dealing with this nonsense.
That's the cycle now-a-days. >Guy gets girlfriend and feels lucky >Guy receives narcissistic abuse from said girlfriend due to him being easily replaceable >Girl gets bored of guy and monkey branches with no feelings whatsoever >Guy is left devastated wondering what just happened >Guy then becomes a womanizer and doesn't commit to anymore women >"where are all the good men?" "Why are guys all players?"
I'm a modern, liberated, independent man. I make my own money, have my own house, and I cook and clean too. I don't need no woman. And when I want a break from cooking I can go to Subway where female workers make me a sandwich. Life is great.
The average dude knows how futile and delusional it is for a woman to expect the local casanova, let's call him Joe Bigdick to suddenly settle down with her and become a one-woman man. It just does not work that way. Consequently, knowing this it would seem quite irrational for men to expect Sally Sleeparound to suddenly become the reincarnation of virgin Mary just because she's decided she now wants the status, convenience and support of being a married woman. Again, it just does not work that way.
Good point - well made. Young men need to relate to this and watch out for 'Sally Sleeparound' - let her do IVF or get a surrogate if she wants kids...
Finding decent single women in 2022? Playing the lottery would be a better use of your RNG, not to mention that because of their rarity, they can afford even higher standards than their damaged counterparts.
*Alimony, Child support, Shes not yours its just your turn, Shes for the streets, Women are not worth the investment, I don't want to pay premium price for a used product.......You're Welcome.*
@@ultimateloser3411 people in the US don't realize that they are indirectly beta buxx. Since 90% of the welfare wealth goes to single moms. God, I hate sexual liberation.
I guess this question falls together with the question why men don't want to marry anymore and why divorce rates are skyhigh. As good as expected. Never disappointed from your insights and always learning more how to apply the black pill in real life.
There is also the fact that having a girlfriend can be extremely exhausting. And when I say extremely, I mean it. A few years ago I was in a relationship with a girl, which lasted two and a half years. I made the huge mistake of trying to save her. She had a broken family, a complicated past and a lot of trauma. I am a 7.5/10, and she is a 6/10. Before I dated her, I always had time for myself. Excellent musician, brilliant at university, very active social life, a lean muscular body. During the relationship she would often yell at me for details, the neighbours even thought I was hitting her. She was always asking me weird questions, giving me ultimatums for nothing. The worst was when she scratched her face and threatened to call the police on me, even though I had never touched her. She managed to create tension in my family, while on the other hand I gave everything to get her to contact her family again, which I managed to do in the end. The more time passed, the more she wanted me to prove my love for her. I wasn't allowed to go out anymore, just having a student job drove her crazy and she cried because she said I was leaving her alone. I ended the relationship when she started hitting and biting me in the middle of a party with her friends. She even convinced them that I was to blame. She even spread the word in all my social circles that I was a monster during our relationship and that I often hit her. I ended up gaining weight, distancing myself from my family, developing self-confidence issues. I lost friends and fell into very bad habits to forget what I was going through with her. (drinking and gambling) Oh yes. Fun fact. She found a guy a week after we broke up. :) Obviously, I'm at fault for giving up everything for her. But I'm writing this in case someone is going through or has gone through the same thing as me. ALWAYS put your interests first and make no concessions. Follow your animality, have fun, because despite their cute appearance, many women are freaks. (I don't hate women at all, I love their organisational skills, their sensitivity, their bodies obviously, etc.) This is not a message to put all women in the same box. I've met some very nice girls too) PS: Today I'm back on track, I'm getting my Greek god body back, I've resumed my projects, and I'm even moving to the US soon. Thanks for reading, take care of yourself kings! => I speak French, so MAYBE there are some faults in my message :)
@@cordfortina9073 Well, at the beginning of the relationship, she bombarded me with love. I loved her deep kindness when we were at the friend stage. It was only after the honeymoon period (that lasted 3-4 months) that she turned out to be dangerous and evil. I was convinced that if I took a girl a little less pretty than me, she would be nice to me. Well, no, it wasn't enough. Yet I am a good person, attentive, available, understanding, I do all the tasks, and she was the opposite. My example is certainly extreme, but I'm sure I'm not the only one who has experienced this. We don't see it all happening at the moment, and with love, we forgive a lot..
@@ryanveins3980 Typically, after 3-4 months of living together, women that are very manipulative will begin to pull the change of heart tactic/s**t test out of the blue. One minute she's happy, and the next minute she's downtrodden about the relationship- usually the silent treatment. This is typically used by her to start exerting control over the relationship and to probe asee how her future agenda may play out. Most men will be willing to sacrifice/compromise some aspect of themselves to steer the ship back to the former pleasant waters and this starts the process of more give and more take. Any woman that plays that 3-4 month "I'm not happy" card should be immediately and gracefully sent packing and men should NOT look back, or allow those women to try and wedge themselves back into your life.
SMe bro 😢 my ex went to a party town and I got mad at her for going . She then preceded to make a false allegation to break up with me and had sex with another guy the same day and blocked me on everything. It hurts till this day
@Ozone I remember a woman In a hospital where I did not, I DID NOT HIT a girl, and then a young woman just had the balls to just insult me and call me lies. Then everyone laughed at me(Young men included) and one man told me to respect the woman that just talked trash at me. Then he stood up,punched me two times in the face and the doctor had to control him because he was very aggressive with me. I was in a hospital of young people and EVERYONE,I repeat,EVERYONE just talked $hit about me. That's the whole story. And then I was forced to sleep in a confined and prisoned sleep in the hospital. Yeah I know,it's chaos
Point 1: I tried playing the divorce chicken game when she was getting too brazen with the "just a friend" guys in the DMs. Her response: go ahead. Point 2: Definitely not me. Got a single 3/10 in the three years since my divorce. Point 3: "Virtual media" isn't the same. It works with virgins maybe or to hold you over a bit. I've become a believer in P4P. Point 4: They're all unattractive (fat, tattoos, piercings, crazy hair) or $luts, often time both. They're nice people, but terrible potential partners. Point 5: "Pay attention to meeeeee" was the ex wife's favorite slogan. Always bitched I never bought her things, forgetting I covered the mortgage, paid for her health and car insurance, paid all the utilities, bought groceries and dinner outings the majority of the time.
P4P is the way to go. Ever watch "The Wolf of Wall Street"? Was he married? Yes. Who did he sleep with? P4P girls. The wife (or any permanent chick) is therefore redundant.
As a high tier normie…..why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Not to mention most women in the U.K. have poor traits for relationships and my smv match would think they are above me
its about neither UK or US, the problem is acces to social media, and almost every country has it. Also by slavs that is a problem ;) (we drink so much vodka that it cant bother us, we dont really care that much
Getting the milk "for free" requires a shitload of work, and a reasonable amount of money as well. I mean unless you're a chick magnet, you're probably paying a lot more for dating and going to night clubs than if you just pay a professional. And there's no guarantee you'll even have sex on these nights out, so...
@@ultimateloser3411 They only have that to secure the bait. I have seen many laugh here in Northern Europe how easy Chinese women in particular seems to be.
Well done. I wasted countless hours hoping and pursuing women, and wondering what was wrong with me. Now that I've heard the black pill, I realize the vast majority of my effort never had a chance. Had I known then what I know now, I could have put out 10% the effort, been a lot more successful, and saved immeasurable heartache.
Just recently i went out with a girl. We found we have a ton in common, we went for a long walk, great conversation, we both had shit to do in the evening though, so we agreed we'd meet again in a few days and make it longer. She seemed excited, me too, obviously. We exchange contacts and part. I message her the day after and I've been ghosted since then (5 days ago). Sent another message in between but no replies. No fucking clue what I did wrong, best 1st encounter I've ever been on and she still bailed out. I can't even imagine how much abundance women have nowadays. I've become best bros for life with dudes for way less, but I can be almost a carbon copy of the woman and we have a great time and she'll still be like "meh, there's probably something better out there".
Women don't want similarity, they want better. They want to have a lot in common, but whatever you have in common with her you should be able to do better.
Brutal. You know, you could potentially just have had the wrong impression. Girls will smile and lie, saying they had such a great time, and then never message you again. It happened to me. Be careful
She had better options. Your clue should have been that she had "shit to do" that night. Also, always wait for the woman to text YOU after 1st date. ALWAYS.
In Japan (and I think South Korea too), February 14 is Valentine Day and March 14 is White Day. On Valentine Day, the women gives the gifts to the men. And on White Day, the men gives the gifts to the women. This is something the West should take into consideration.
Women in JPN are holding out for the 3 H’s - height, degree from a ‘high’ (well respected) colleges, high salary - men. JPN birth rates are terrible; women’s families spoil them; so they can blow their money on clothes and other material things. Last country we should emulate. Southeast Asia still has traditional women - but plenty of gold diggers too.
North AND South America women have FAR too much competition from OTHER countries' women...GOOD. The Chads and Tyrones will NOT make it to OLD age...NEITHER will their ONS,FWBs and 304s. Now to get 🇮🇹,🇳🇱,New 🇳🇿,🇩🇪 & 🇯🇵 women...it makes MORE sense to date ONE woman of ANY of these countries( First date...first engagement...First and ONLY marriage years later.). I'm leaving with passport to ONE of these areas.
For a men to want a relationship with a women (not taking looks into consideration), these 2 things MUST be met; 1- She cannot be hostile (aka, a beatch) 2- She cannot have a reputation of promiscuous If one of these 2 things are not met, then he will only want to ONS or FWB, but not taking her on dates.
5'9 is my height I know it isn't short but average (I have a model tier jawline and side profile, genuinely my side profile is better than most Hollywood actors. and I have a P size of 7.8 inches last time I measured. I could be at 8 inches now, since I just turned 18 and haven't measured in 5 months. (Black genes I guess) Is it still over for me with an average height?
She is messing with Chad And Tyrone And They will never Commit, They have to many options, The Black Pill always Win, I Been Black Pilled Since 1991 Before The Matrix Movie
As a divorced mid 20's man with no kids (thank God) It's because love for us men it's more serious than a woman's love, Women don't need love, us men need it, even though we don't wanna admit it, The reason I tolerate my ex for a long time was because I really loved her, and even though she changed for the worse, i still fought for us until i had enough, Like weather, people change, rarely for the best, So i took the initiative and left while she was visiting her family and left the divorce papers and a note, That was by far the best decision of my life, The next day after that happened she called non stop and i didn't answer and blocked her, Her friend which me and her were and are in good terms (she's married with kids) told me that she started dating one of her male friends who was apparently her SIMP in the exact same day when I left the house, Now She cries and regrets that she lost me, (I'm divorced for a year and a half now) according to her friend, Apparently women don't know themselves what they want, Maybe that's why men like me had enough of relationships. But that's just me. 👁👅👁🍺
"...She cries and regrets that she lost me," To women, a man's love is like air: they take it for granted and don't appreciate it until they no longer have it.
@@robertlucky781 yep, They take it for granted since they got a lot of options available. But in the end, It doesn't even matter, Us men need our freedom anyway in my opinion and a lot of excitement. So for me it was only difficult in the first months. Now, I'm enjoying my life. Well, as best as I can anyway, First covid, Now the global crisis with Russia and Ukraine, Ww3 is a possibility, That is why we have to enjoy our life friend.
My gf told me the other day she was not happy because I wasn't paying for the things she was buying for her work. I told her I knew that but I would only pay for OUR stuff and not stuff that has nothing to do with our relationship. She admitted she was wrong but insisted that she forner bfs paid for ALL her and her friends' stuff. I thought to myself, what kind of simp was that? I have no respect for who ever those men are, and on top of that, you are not in your twenties anymore so you had better start getting used living without your privilege.
Wtf? She wants you to buy stuff for her WORK? Tell her that when you go to work there's this thing called a paycheck and that you can use it to buy things for your work.
1- I knew a girl in high school, and she ALWAYS had a boyfriend. She was never single. Its like, once the relationship with her current bf ended, in like the blink of an eye, she was dating another guy. I couldnt believe my eyes. 2 - I do agree with you Wheats = the vast majority of men want a relationship with a women. The vast majority of men dont want to be players or have a harem, etc. Its only the Chads that have a reputation of players, because they can get away with it. And because women only want Chads, for them, Chads are all men. I always say that Chads (and not women) are the ones damaging the dating market and making all men look like scum in women's eyes when it comes to dating. 3- If youre in a relationship with a women, you better hope that a more handsome men than you doesnt walk past her. Because if that happens, then her looks-hypergamy instinct will awaken. You better be sure to be the big fish in your pond.
Chads AND women are destroying the dating market. Remember: Women would rather share a Chad than have a normie for themselves. Sad but true. Other than that I totally agree with you.
Bs. Chads just enjoy. They are the least problem. Simps (normies and inkwells) are the main problem! Only because of them whymen think they are so much better than they truly are. Ofc chads are also responsible for hypergamy, but the main cause of this problem are S…ps. And second responsible are foids themselves. At least a Chad can hurt a femoid, what does an inkwell or normie usually? Spending money on foids in return of nothing. Also it is c ucked If you say foids aren’t guilty but men are. A numale/beta trait.
I've never had trouble attracting women, but I no longer seek long-term relationships because women today want to make the relationship all about them. There's no give and take, no reciprocity. My last serious girlfriend, who I liked a lot at first, wanted to quit her job and move in with me so she could "focus on her spirituality". So, stay home in her jammies while I worked and paid all the bills. Yeah, sign me up for that. Not into being used as a walking ATM and then blamed for everything that goes wrong in a woman's life because of her poor choices. Do better, women. Whatever you're doing now just isn't working.
Why do men refused to commit to a woman, When she’s only using you for financial and emotional security while looking for a better relationship opportunity? Wow, that’s… that’s a really difficult concept to comprehend. It’s like, men are human beings Concerned about their own physical and emotional autonomy or something🙄…..
🙏 To all men out here.. Have your own: - Life - Hobby's - A nice job - Friends/familie - Passion - HAVE A OWN LIFE, FOCUS ON OTHER THINGS, HAVE STANDARDS AND CREATE YOUR OWN LUCK If you have your shi together you notice you DONT need a woman after all. A woman is a bonus.. and nothing more than that.. they are not that important and stop doing everything for them and you will see it attracts women instead of being thirsty and scare them away. If you are focus on multiple things in your life you forget to think about woman and when you dont give a women (that you date or text) too much attention.. THEY will be needy and thirsty and thats why its so important to focus on yourself. I see them as a sexual hobby rather that something sooooooo important that i will do everything for the women wich i date. I dont know how it is in your country but a lot of people are getting a divorce easy when they are married when they have a hard time or when the relationship gets boring. Love is not what it was anymore so you dont miss anything.. remember that. We need to stop giving women that power so they are not able to control the happines of men.
@@lima9313 true. Im not gonna lie.. i was also that type of guy but now i know "the code" how to be happy without a woman it feels like freedom. Its feels powerfull to be happy without the fact that somebody else is responsible for my happines. I have multiple friends with benefits dates and thats ok.. like i said i see woman only for sexual goals and im fine with that. I hope that men will follow my tips so everything is getting back to normal so we get rid of deluted women who think they can get every men on the planent. The 5 guys with the 5 girls, the normal guys with normal woman and the 7 with the 7 and the Chads with the model woman.
"Oh my gosh, why don't men ask me out. Are they intimidated?" Nope most unattractive guys have learned that we are better off on our own and the Chads are busy killing it on Tinder.
yeap. Find a woman outside, Western countries. Western women are so screwed up in the head. They don't want a relationship. They want a dog...until they find a better dog. They want the world and they still expect you to beg for even the tiniest bits of attention. South America or South East Asia or Euro-Asia or Africa. Then on top of all that, if you get a divorce you need to pay her for being miserable. Yeah...no thanks.
Pretty much just escortmaxx, I only talk to women if it’s business, work, or college related if it’s not any of those areas it has to be sexual. If it’s not sexual I’m not hanging out or befriending women.
This video is incredibly true. Sadly I'm a normie and all the girls I wanted to obtain, I couldn't. My last relationship when I settled with a 4/10 (I'd consider myself a 5), the entitlement, attention requirements and emotional reassurance requirements were too much. The relationship felt like hell and a chore. So now i just casually date. I get all the benefits of relationships without the entitlement and heavy financial/emotional commitments. I feel alot of men are following the same route and not settling anymore. If we can't get the girl we want, we're happy to just casually date or just be alone.
it kinda disappoints me so much that so many women got down on this level nowadays. i don’t get why you would give the power you hold away for free? being intimate is the most powerful energy exchange you could do as a woman so why doing it with just any man (no matter how good he looks)? kinda sucks what this world turned into
I can't agree more. This coming from a good looking dude. I remember when I was younger, wanting to start a family in my mid 20's with a sweet good looking girl. Now I'm in my 30s and honesty doing see it happening. Most chicks are thots, that have no pair bonding ability left. So intimacy is out the window for 90% of them, most chicks my age are looking for a unattractive beta male provider to take advantage of.
It just occurred to me these dating coaches and some red pillers actually put women on a pedestal. They make it seem like the average guy is supposed to have the best personality and social skills just to attract the average woman. A few years ago I saw a guy who did drugs and play video games yet was still having an abundance of women every week. Screw all that self improvement just to get women. Do it for yourself.
Been a long time since I talked to a woman with the goal of scoring or winning her affection. I just don't care anymore. If they come, they're welcome, if they don't, doesn't matter I got other things to do.
More great content, Wheat. Thank you! One other reason that I would add, though it applies to approaches more so than relationships is the hostile legislative environment. Here in Australia, we have ridiculous “enthusiastic consent at each point” laws that make it a huge risk to even look at a woman, let alone approach or progress to intimacy. And as a boyfriend, especially a live in, you face the risk of arrest should you be silly enough to get her angry. Womyn have weaponised themselves and, frankly, I have no sympathy. They have, metaphorically, made their bed and now they can lie in it!
This is a very important point in the Western world I myself have been arrested based on a woman's anger and lies to police months later she started to regret it
@@user-qb7ms6vs7s I hope you didn’t sustain lasting damage, D. It’s a clear and present danger to men in the West. I am an old bas*rd and used to be a senior manager, who mentored younger team members, including womyn. Still happy to give young guys the benefit of my experience (if they’re interested), but young womyn can go to the Sisterhood for their mentoring.
@@covertcounsellor6797 for sure there is lasting damage. Law makes don't realise how they are destroying families and society to the shock of even the narcissist wife
Take the escort way my friends, thats what I ended doing and you get the best possible deal if you are an average guy, you get the sex (the highest amount of money you spend in a good escort the better the service) without the stress and spending of dating. I will like to have a relationship with a good girl? Of course, but in those times thats a fantasy and when you need some intimacy the escort is the best deal out there
Women and chad don't hesitate. Commitment isn't even in their heads when in their 20s. They want to experience the best sex from the best looking people they can match with. Even if they settle, divorce or an open relationship will be their choice. They can't take that promiscous lifestyle away that easily and maybe never will.
I strongly agree with what you say at 05:41. Chads obviously don't want relationships at all, as principle, because they literally sleep with a different girl every night, so why would they. And those are the men that women mean when they say "guys don't want relationships". Below a chadlite level, I think, most men, deep down inside them, do want relationships, just then, because of things you mentioned, they stop doing so. I am especially freightened by the first one. I think no man is really safe nowadays. Should it be 10 months into relationship, or 10 years. You are so easily replacible, that you basically need to play a perfect game, or she throws you out of the window. This happened to me the last time I tried dating, after some 3 months of dating, came literally one small arguement between us. It was enough for her, though everything was going great thus far. But who cares, if she has 10 guys in my place? Similarly, I remember when my female friend told me how she was struggling in life, and how greatful she was for her boyfriend's family that they let her move in with her boyfriend to his parents' house. She was so much in love with him, posting photos together on instastory for like 2 years or so, they had a cat together and stuff. Well, after she broke up with him, it was less than a week that she started posting photos with another guy (and the same cat lol). I mean, of course I don't know exactly what happened, but no matter who's fault the break up was, the sheer awareness of the fact that you can be (and will be, if needed) replaced within a second is just terrifying.
@Xavier Behavier I understand you very well. Those endless thoughts "what if I haven't said that", "what if I haven't done that", etc. These are pointless. Even if you wouldn't have "failed" that day, you would certainly "fail" in the few next days, weeks, or months ANYWAY. If she cared, she cared, you'd eventually work it out if it wasn't a big deal (in my case it really wasn't). But then you realize that you were trying so hard to please someone to whom you were worth nothing. And for what?
Check on the laws in your state for how long cohabitation has to last in order to become a 'common-law' marriage. When that happens, it is legally recognized by the state as a 'de-facto' marriage, with all the hazards for you (and all the advantages for her) wrt divorce.
Blackpill is the reason Jordan Peterson said there should be enforced monogamy. Although he got in trouble over this statement, he didn't mean "arranged marriages." He meant a societal expectation and pressure to be monogamous. Otherwise, top men monopolize the dating pool, and men outside the top tier are left alone to become militant.
@palerider2132 the Romans drank lead-flavored water, believed in superstitions and omens, molested children, and killed slaves for no reason. Who better to take sane and stable relationship advice from?
The wait is finally over! I am so addicted to your videos. Not only are they never disappointing and always insightful, informative and straight up interesting, but they're also calming, in some way. I mean, your voice tone itself is calming, and so are the topics. You always tell the truth, so there's no point in getting heated. And most of all, it's always predictable, and that's the first reason why I feel so relaxed watching them. It's like tragedy: unlike comedy, you know from the start that there's no hope, that something bad, unavoidable and unalterable is going to happen. No suspense, no false promises, no delusional hope, just helplessness and hopelessness. Because life can also be like that and only by accepting its reality (unalterable unfairness) can we find peace of mind. In tragedy as well as in your videos, the tone is already set: we accept the hopelessness of the situation right from the start, without hoping for a miracle, and that's why we (or at least I) feel at peace. (By hopelessness I mostly mean the unavoidable importance of looks/ genetics and its repercussions in the dating scene, given the current circumstances and the behaviour of women.) In other words, keep up the good work. I enjoyed watching all your videos: this one is no exception and I am already looking forward to the next one.
Another problem with relationships, the gf won’t let you enjoy your hobbies such as gaming, anime/netflix, RU-vid, or anything that isn’t “productive” according to her. They’ll constantly try to control and change you in order to turn you into their “ideal bf” which they can show off to others, especially if you weren’t her first choice. Also, congrats on 70k subscribers WW, this channel is exploding in views just like it deserves 👍
That's mainly due to a social engineering which has caused a very drastic change in most women mind who wrongly assume they're 10 out of 10, eventhough many of those women do not fulfill the genetic nor the adecuate aesthetic requirements needed for them to start demand. But keep in mind that you will be replacable if you're not a least a 'chadlite' who could be able to make her feel in a certain. unlike the other participants who might not be that genetically blessed and will not be able to make this woman develop a emotional clinginess toward that man . If you're in a relationship and the woman who you're being with does not develop any sickly obcession over you. then it's more likely you're there for her entertarinment until she finds someone who truly wants to be with! SUB5 wants to be in a relationship but CHAD just want casual sex!
Interesting that "waiting til you are too old for men to sexually desire you (not just intellectually or spiritually) to start looking for a serious relationship" is not a point. With men the problem is the exact opposite, impatience, rushing, trying to engage before you polish your rough edges, before you got yourself together and your life together. "Women are born, men are made" means, among other things, that a woman (usually) is ready for a committed relationship soon as she turns 15 or 16, but a man may not be ready until he´s 25 or 30.
This guy got most of the reasons. But I'll add a few. From My personal experiences and perception , I always drew the conclusion that it is more risky and troublesome to approach in real life. The reasons being labeled a creep, and harassment.
When she says "men" she only means the top 20 percent. Maybe even the top 5 percent. The bottom 80 percent aren't seen as men. They aren't even seen as human. 6:10 ha, one of my first videos was about this!
Men's commitment can mean the difference between a woman living a good life in a warm home with food on the table or having to sell her body on the street. Never give your commitment up for just any female in your life trust me it is your strongest asset as a man.
I have seen men who get free sex and even free babies (!) from women. This way, those types of men get to continue their lineage without having to commit or put in resources. Amd when you see that, you will think yourself "Why society keeps telling me to chase and commit to a woman, when right here I can see women give free sex and even their womb for free?" Those examples you can give even to normies. And that's why I'd rather be sent my own way than conforming to society that gives me nothing.
Their children often end up dysfunctional, and many opt out of having their own offspring as their childhoods were too traumatizing. So, in that way, their genes do not pass on. Don't envy these scumbags.
Even if Chad commits to a woman, as soon as she has that commitment she will start to lose interest. Hypergamy makes it so women can never be content and the routine familiarity with one partner will subconsciously push her to look for other options.
Holy shit this makes it seem that it’s over for all non-chads in terms of finding a stable long term relationship with a woman ,if even chads can be replaced for others chads
@@domino3554 If a non-Chad wants to be a faithful beta and put up with his wife's bad behavior, he can have a long term relationship. Not all women will cheat, but if she has options, he will always have to be looking over his shoulder for warning signs. Not my idea of a good relationship.
@@chadgaston8615 literally moneymax Can't say it didn't work. Look at Elon Musk, a tall and rich normie. 20 years ago, he could've easily competed with chads in terms of body counts (with a fixed hairline though).
The incentives and the motivation just isn't there. That's for sure. Let's assume you are the average guy - average face, height, body. You have to work out for 4-5 years consistently with your diet on point to get a great physique, unless obviously you are willing to start injecting questionable substances into your body. You have to study hard in school, get into let's say med school, then get into residency, then finally become a doctor or something to finally make some good money and be somewhat respected in society. You have to talk to tons of girls, get rejected a lot, just to build "confidence" and social skills(or more precisely seduction skills, because I've seen very social guys who suck with women). You have to always shoulder the burden of performance, you have to plan the dates, you have to try your best to entertain her, whether that's outside or inside the bedroom, basically you have to be a monkey on strings non-stop dancing. And you know what? The dance never stops. Or more precisely it only stops when you die or she leaves you for a better guy. And all of that for what? An average looking or a little bit above average woman who has probably already bedded 20, 30 or even 50 other guys. I mean if I am to end up with a meh looking girl I don't even particularly like, why even put that much effort into anything? The juice ain't worth the squeeze.
Would be interested to find out why there is a higher satisfaction with women of over 21 bodies as a opposed to women with 6to 10 bodies. Is it because they are desperate? Also, why does the satisfaction with men that had 6 to 10 bodies suddenly rise and then drop again? Is it because of experience or just because of other variables playing into the interpretation of the study?
Probably because after a certain point you don't care. I feel like age should also be a factor. A 22 year old spinster will likely be more happy with a body count of 25 than a 36 year old one with a body count of 6
They think they’ll lock Chad in if they give it up. Logic isn’t their thing. If it was they’d know Chad’s already had a hundred or more; can get another 100 in the next yr with little/no effort. But they still lay down, then get upset at all men when he ghosts them.
As someone who has been married for over a decade, we are not obsessed with the gift giving stuff. Valentines is a candy only holiday for us. Some years we get each other Christmas presents, sometimes not. We don't do gifts on our anniversary, just dinner somewhere. My birthday is the only required gift day on that list, but so is his. We like to keep things low stress, so our goal is that family traditions should be fun. If its not fun, what's the point of a holiday?
you should 've use your voice to speak about the most relevant point of this video. The rise of low quality women. I'm currently datin 3 girls and will never pay for anything
Carole, that's exactly the attitude that a loving, caring spouse has. It's what you can do for each other, not just what your partner can do for you. So many single women have long lists of demands and never stop to think of what they have to give.
Hear hear! Such occasions have been commercialized to the point that they're just another way to part you from your money. In our family, gift giving is not compulsory, too.
Even with a girlfriend you're always in competition even if you think you've won the game. This is why they say she's not your girl it's just your turn. I'm just hoping that one day I find that woman to my desire where I'm her last turn.
You're never the last turn. That's why you have to stay on your game. I know women who cheat on some of the best husband's they'll ever have at the hospital I work at with doctors.
@@mikeprice8307 I also know women who lose their minds (and open their legs) when a good looking doctor needs to release genetic fluids, no matter how good their husbands are...
@@RR.LL.3B agree it’s soooo damn pathetic you guys have no idea how you’re just creating your own problems. If you are not 100% the best you can be then how can you expect to find a good woman? We both have to give our 100%, yes some may cheat but some have got the right attitude to make it work. My cousin met his wife on bumble married after a year. He’s a good guy and she’s a good woman. It does happen believe it or not.
I thought the "sex doll" meme was just a joke, but it seems there are genuinely men out there who would be content having "sex" with a rubber doll rather than an actual woman.
The best intimate encounters i had, was with single mothers. Just saying. But i know what you are implying. Don't date seriously or get involved with the kids.
The fishing is good fellas, you live in an ocean full of fish, never commit, buy sex if you have to, is the same as a gf EXCEPT with a 304 sex is certain while a gf is not
In regards to 5:45 there's one thing I've noticed is that when women refer to men (in plural) they generally mean chads. "Men are not commiting anymore", "women like older men", "women care about guys with a personality", etc. Subconciously, they think of chads because the other 80-85% of guys are invisible to them.
These women want men to tackle burglars that breach the house (protector role) but in the same time don't want to respect them. Them expect men to be traditional, and in the same time don't want the traditional role for themself.
I like your videos. But in this one I guess you'll want to redo it years later. Because I guess you didn't really get her genuine question. I can explain further, but I guess nobody will ever read this, so I'm not wasting my time. Anyone wanting it, DM or give a signal, I come back to this.
WW: "Whenever I've asked women about the challenges they face in dating...." Me: No stop. They face no challenges at all whatsoever. The only challenge they face is getting out of bed and deciding if they're going to text back 🙄😒
Their only challenge is to keep their legs closed until the guy is actually committed to them for the long term. Literally their only challenge and they complain to men about it...
I've watched a couple of your vids and always left wondering...what woman stereotype are you basing your assumptions on? I literally know NO absolutely ZERO Female who acts that way about their couple. On the other hand that description you seem to make matches with the guys outlook on life and a guys fears. But definitely no woman thinks her couple is replaceable but 99,999999% of guys see women in that way
You don't need someone to feel special anyway. You have yourself and that's more than enough. The chances otherwise are very, very slim even for me so why bother then? Don't get into emotional agreements with someone who can/will be rewarded for breaking them.
Forget asking men why do they do whatever i think there's some much more pressing questions such as. What have you done to your eyebrows? Why would anyone stick pointy looking fake lashes into their eyelids? What industrial strength adhesive did you apply to give your skin the ability to deflect military grade laser beams?
This is such an intelligent channel. It communicates perspectives that other red/mgtow channels just don't offer. The concept of relationship power is so important. For these reason, I believe it is a mistake for most men to pursue women until they are about 28. At age 28, if a man has been on their path/purpose, they should be in a financial situation where they could support a family. They are more confident and bring more to the table. Conversely, I think a young woman is making a mistake to mess with any man younger than 28. An 18 year woman who messes with young guys is risking becoming a single mother which is a disaster for both the young woman and her child...
Wheat waffles is incredible. Of course, as with ANYONE, not ALL his points are home runs and I downright disagree with some of his points, but gahdamn If he doesn’t hit the nails perfectly with a hammer 98% of the time!! Wish he posted 3 times a day lmao
Is sex the only thing men want to obtain from women? If this is true, what is said in this video makes sense completely. I am asking with honest curiosity. If that is true, it's obvious having a relationship is not necessary nowadays.
At 35 having had a few longer term relationships it is quite alot of effort /time to expend when they don't work out. Not saying don't go for it but failure puts you at square minus one.
2:26 womn like this will lash out and blame the fragility of men that break up with them. Since they don't think rationally the conclusion they come to is insulting the man without taking in consideration this fact (that they chat to so many othwe guys
All it's good talking about it and helping other young men not blame themselves as they now understand it's just their own looks, but what can actually be done about it? nothing. Infact it's only gonna get worse. Hypergamy is out of control, status based society, it's not good enough anymore to be average and more men will just rope, but maybe that's what governments want. Less men.
@@bateman8688 I remember that this is sexual selection rather than the normal one if I'm right. That's why some animals have been hypothesized to have gone extinct or endangered because looks have been selected more than important traits for survival