5 Reasons Why Homeschooling Is Better Than Public Schooling 

Your comment about fear reminded me of an experience my homeschooled daughter had when she went to college. She called me one day and said, "Why is everyone so anxious and freaking out all the time over every little assignment?" I had to explain to her the fear associated with public schools. She thought it was completely bizarre. And just to show that fear isn't necessary, she earned an academic scholarship, won a writing award, and completed her degree in less than 4 years. No fear.

I was in public and private school until 3rd grade when my mom decided to quit her job and homeschool us...best thing to happen to me. Besides being able to eat whenever you want, one of the best parts was being able to advance in things we were good at and loved. By the time my brother and I went to college, we were at the top of our classes because we focused on those certain topics we went full force in. Great vid, guys!

I quit my job of 14 years to homeschool (traditionally) my two boys during the pandemic and I debated whether I would send my kids back in 2021-2022 school year. Although it goes against the majority I made the decision to continue homeschooling. For some reason I came across this video and gave me so much encouragement. Thank you this is sooo much.

I understand about the fear factor. When I started homeschooling my eldest son last year there was an incident that just about broke my heart. I give class to him and his sister at the same time because they are both in high school. We went over the work and I gave them an assignment. When the time was up I saw that my son didn't do it. When I asked him why, he told me he didn't understand. When I asked why he didn't ask me for help (I offered it at the beginning), he told me he didn't want to get laughed at. This confused me at first because he and his sister get along great. And she understands that he is learning disabled. I asked him who would laugh at him? And what broke my heart was the relief that suddenly came into his face when he realized that it was just him, his sister and me now. I can only imagine what he went through at school because it's common knowledge that kids with behavioral issues are put into special education even though they are not learning disabled. Now he doesn't hesitate to ask for help when he needs it.

I was homeschooled & now I’m homeschooling my children. 👍🏾✌🏾

Can you interview your mom & ask her for tips on those starting?

You guys are the embodiment of how wonderful homeschooling can be. Your parents must be so proud. Well done. 👍

10 years into homeschooling and so thankful! Kids are thriving in every way, kids are close, family is close. God honors our efforts!

I was homeschooled until college and played sports growing up and even in college. Graduated magma cum laude and finishing my masters this year. Parents raised us to work hard, treat others with kindness and respect, and be teachable. Worked pretty well if you ask me

My daughter went to public school until grade 3. She's homeschooled now and going into grade 6. Bullying really ruined her self confidence. It's taking a lot to build her back up.

I'm homeschooling my son after being in traditional public school up to 3rd grade. I've noticed a couple things from homeschooling. First,he has learned to self regulate. He has his own personal schedule,knows what to do and does it without alot of parental oversight. Second,he is more creative. He pulls things out and makes his own crafts and inventions now that he has time and free to do so. Third,he has learned better communication skills.He is overall more respectful and I feel has more control over his emotions.

My mom homeschooled my younger brothers. They turned out great very creative and independent. Now I want to homeschool my daughter.

I homeschooled my two daughters for 14 years. They are adults now. Everything you guys said was their experience too! Their friends tell them all the time that they wish they had the close relationship that my daughters have with my husband and me. One of my biggest blessings about homeschooling is the closeness we feel from being with each other as a family. I’ve also seen this with other homeschool families. Both of my daughters went on to college at well known universities and did really well! My older daughter got her Masters at MIT. The sky is the limit with homeschooled children (and families). Thanks guys for the plug!🎉🎉❤️

You can "mold" your children: Impart your values and expose them to subjects they would not get in school.

I love this! Started homeschooling my kindergartener this year & I needed some encouragement. You guys made great points.

what you said about fear is so true. my school acted on open days like it was a haven for learning and education focused but the message once you were inside is: "conform and obey, if you dont then you should be ashamed and afraid for your future"

I'm a former public school teacher, and we home school our four boys. I totally agree with you about the pressure on students in public schools to achieve academically, although so much of what is taught is extremely watered -down, and that there are high levels of anxiety and other unhealthy things like drugs, sexual activity and confusion, etc. Most of my public school students had no desire to actually learn anything other than to get a good grade, to pass the class, and go to college in order to get a job. It kind of broke my heart because I genuinely love to learn. It's really great to watch my own kids as we home school. Of course there are things they wouldn't choose to do or learn about that we require, but as they get older they like the flexibility of their schedules and that they have more of a say in at least some of what they're learning and doing. It's great to see older home schoolers and those who are now past that stage. Thanks! Also, you both make me laugh and remember how much I really did love working with teens. It's a great time in life if people have the kind of attitudes and perspective you both have!

I was bullied a lot at school. I agree with everything in this video. I think homeschooling would be better for my own kids one day.

I homeschool my 7 year old, and will continue this with my 2 year old. The school industrial complex crushes a child’s natural love of learning. It gives the impression that teachers are the one to ask questions, not the students. It is more about creating obedient, subservient followers.

I am a product of public school, but I am highly considering homeschooling my own kids. Both my husband and I agree on how much time gets wasted in high school and more than half of the things we are expected to "learn" is not even interesting or useful, or thought provoking. Thank you for this video guys!

I was homeschooled 5th grade until I graduated and I LOVED it!!! Played competitive volleyball for 11 years so it really helped me focus on that and being able to travel!! Also was able to go on missions trips around the world since I was 13, which was a unique opportunity that I would’ve missed if I went to school on a normal schedule!!

I started this video and had left a comment before watching the whole thing. My 7 year old went to 1st grade and in his first 9 days his teacher yelled at him for writing too slow and called him slow . His friend told me this and I asked him about it and he told me it was true. He is now homeschooling and can work through 2nd and 3rd grade lessons and has even helped his sister with 6th grade math problems. He is far beyond 1st grade but he writes very slow and has to make everything he writes perfect and bold. I am beyond thankful I pulled him from the system that would've eventually made him feel incapable. My 12 year old went to 6th grade for less than 10 days and she said girls were selling vapes in the bathrooms and boys were talking about doing inappropriate things to her. I talked to the principal and he said "if you want to shelter your child from these things you better pull her back out and homeschool again because middle schools are wild and no matter how much discipline I give it only gets worse because parents no longer have control" pulled her out immediately.. my 4 year olds will hopefully never experience the system. Thank you for posting!

My first year homeschooling and I was having doubts about my ability so I looked up reasons to homeschool! Thanks for the video!

Oh, I love this! As a homeschooling mom of 5, seeing these two incredible young men is very encouraging. I have two boys that I can only hope are a lot like you both! Keep it up guys!! You had some great parents!

Thank your for reassuring that I have made the right decision. I started homeschooling my pre-kindergartner and my preschool this school year but was bombarded with all the negativity from my family. They keep saying me that my children are going to miss out on socializing and will get behind and that my kids won’t become independent and will struggle in the future. All this made me second guess my decision. I’m very thankful this video made it to my feed! Thank you for all your hard work!!

After this school year. I have made the decision to homeschool my son, going into 4th grade next school year. There are many factors at play, but the biggest thing I hope to acheive is getting him to love learning, as his education will be largely geared towards his needs and desires. School is a chore right now for him, and he has hated it ever since kindergarten. Hours at school to come home to a couple more ours of homework, and those needs can be met at home in much less time while finding a love of learning through things that actually interest him. This video has confirmed for me that this is the best decision I could make. I'm excited to be able to give him this opportunity! Thanks for the video!

I agree with your premise. My grand daughter started homeschool in 9 the grade and did so much better than when she was in actual classes. However it was remote from the school because of Covid. 10th grade she wanted to stay home again so her parents bought into the Accellis program and she did even better the second year. No distractions, she goes at her own pace and it's so flexible and we know what she is learning and she is not being brainwashed.

I just wanted to take a moment and thank both of you for making this video. I am a homeschooling mother of four and have been homeschooling them all along. I absolutely love homeschooling, but sometimes there is a rough day and us homeschooling parents need someone to lift us up. I cannot express in words how inspiring it is to speak with or hear from adults who have been homeschooled and hear about their experiences. It reiterates to me that I am making a good decision and that I also can help my children grow into confident, kind, intelligent adults. Your parents sound like wonderful people and you are a testimony to why I believe in homeschooling. Thank you so much for taking the time to share your experiences with us. Good luck to you and all of your endeavors in the future!

This was super reassuring. Hubby and I are talking about homeschooling. The way of the world now is frightening and I don't feel safe sending my kids to public school. Thank you for this video.

I'm 27 and have been looking forward to homeschooling my future kids for a few years now; this video definitely encourages me to do so. I never questioned it, and you guys are so articulate and chill, you really speak to the attractiveness of being homeschooled! My favorite teacher in high school (RIP!) always said he hated standardized tests and showed us the comic of the schoolteacher asking different types of animals, bird, fish, dog, elephant, snake, whatever, to climb a tree. I had so much respect for him and his commitment to accommodating people's different learning styles. This is a great testimonial to that. Thanks for the video!

Bullying was one of the main reasons we took our son out of public school. What grade did he go up to you ask....1st yup 1st grade and the bullying was starting to change his attitude. We have been homeschooling for 3 years now.

Great to see 2 successful guys come out of homeschooling. I just pulled my 10 and 13 yr old from public school to do classical conversations homeschooling.

You guys have helped me concrete my answer! Due to Covid, I was forced into the option of virtual learning. Best thing that led to an epiphany...my child learns better at home and I cater to what I see her potential as. Because of this, we discovered a passion for coding, culinary, arts, woodwork and so much more. The personalized learning take is great information. Well, this whole video was well informed. Her public school experience was of uniforms, standards, and lack of creativity. At home, she gets to learn at a pace that the school limits. She doesn't have to wait until junior high to learn another language, of the importance of financial literacy, etc. I would love a video from your 'rent's elaborating on this method. Because this correlates smoothly to pushing out the best human possible as oppose to docile species backed by standards lacking creativity. 👏👏👏👏👏Shoutout to execute decisions parents, I know you are proud of these babies💯!

I’m sending this to all my public school friends that call me dumb for being homeschooled 😭🤣

I was home schooled from 5th grade off and on until 9th grade then went to a community college and eventually just got a GED. Homeschooling only works if the parents are willing to actually teach. I am homeschooling my children but we had a rough start off and on in public school but always ran into issues at the public school. I have five children so coming up with a routine or schedule of some sort works sometimes but otherwise its more of an un-schooling approach. So long as work gets turned in they can do it on there own time in any room. This way its at their own pace and away from siblings so no issues. If anyone needs help with anything I am a full time mom so I am here to help and my husband on his days off or when he gets home. We all agree on the decision to home school. This makes trip easier and a learning experience. Its not as expensive as some believe I use my old college books and second hand or just buy what we may need at that time. I am not shelling out over a hundred for a set course. We take advantage of online programs and RU-vid. Homeschooling doesn't have to be stressful it can be very relaxed. So long as they are learning. A trip to the store where you have the kids do the math and check weight vs price for best value and count out the money or get comfortable using a card and talking to the cashier these are socializing and math skills that will stick with the kids. Rather than learning it in a classroom. Some things just can't be taught in a public school. With smaller classrooms and more one on one more kids learn rather than being ignored and slipping through the cracks in the education system. Take what you will from that.

I don't have kids but I'm planning on home schooling my future kids. After seeing you guys I'll definitely be home schooling. Thanks bro.

I agree that homeschooling would be better. I've never been homeschooled but you're right about saying that school is a "system". They teach a systemic curriculum and one size seems to fit all for the most part. Kids are pressured to conform academically and socially, I think it's completely unhealthy and not the way things are actually supposed to be. I would think that kids who are homeschooled probably do way better academically, socially, and are generally more mentally healthy.

I've been going back and forth for a while about homeschooling my kids. I've decided to put my oldest in pre-k in a public school but it's been such an awful transition for both of us. I stumbled upon this video and you guys have opened my eyes. I was crying throughout it because I went to public school and the things you mentioned (bullies, anxiety, pressure, etc) are legit! I don't want my kids to have to go through what I did. I have so much anxiety and I think it stems back to testing and trying to "keep up" with the smarter and athletic kids in my school. Thank you so much for this video guys!! Y'all made my mind up for me!!

It was so cool to hear your opinions on homeschooling! My son is 9 and I will be homeschooling him next year - this video was encouraging to hear from a guys point of view 👍

I love what you said about parents teaching their kids at home their values not a teachers values. Huge difference. Also, no bullying and that is a huge plus in todays education. Thank you for your video.

Love this video my 3rd grader was is so fearful of losing contact with friends but slowing been trying to expose her to this perspective to homeschooling. I wish I wouldn’t had swayed away from this when she was born but it’s better to start now than later ! While she’s been in public school though I have worked at her schools and substituted there. We have such a shortage of staff and don’t even get me started on the shortage of bus drivers. Whew Thank y’all

Very encouraging for parents. This conversation reignites those homeschool thoughts and uplifts you to keep going.

I was blessed to have worked my dream job in television working in broadcasting as a technical director. Unfortunately, having to be the first person to view the news before putting it out was traumatizing at times. Especially, with news reports on school shootings, teen suicides, and bullying. I’m terrified to even think about putting my son in school and have been wondering how homeschooling would effect his growth. Thank you for sharing your experience. It really makes me feel that maybe homeschooling is better and safer.

Super encouraging! As a homeschool mom there can be a lot of what ifs and pressure. We will keep pressing forward! Btw totally agree on the comment about introducing children to books on business, global issues, etc. I feel like homeschooling gives kids more of a well rounded mindset. They see so many varying perspectives on different issues it's really neat to watch...I learn so much myself! Stuff we never discussed in a classroom.

We have homeschooled our children since 1988. I had a lot of kids. My children went to public school sometime in highschool. I am on my last child now, out of 13, and I need to decide whether I should send him to public school or not. Pray for our decision. I loved your video!

I homeschool my children who are all in Jr High now. They love learning. They love reading. They're good at sports. They're creative. They have sound plans for the future. We have lots of homeschool friends that we regularly hang out with. Great video. I went to public school in Idaho. I had many great teachers in highschool. Elementary was the worst, though. I begged my mom to homeschool me. I can't imagine what children go through today. The pressure is real, too. My kids are joyful, they make friends everywhere they go. Thanks for the video!

We decided to homeschool 3 years ago and never looked back. We travel the world and my daughters are so close. They could have been strangers if they were attending public school. We have precious family time. We know each other very well. That could not have been possible with public school.

Thank you for the video. Decided to homeschool my daughter. We are getting some backlash so any encouragement is great! Ive heard and seen first hand , teachers imposing their political views on our children, that was the tipping point. Now we can teach with a biblical worldview and fear her learning towards what shes most interested in. For example, she loves the weather and how it works so for science were learning all about the weather .

This helped me hold on to the homeschooling idea for my kids. I'm from Russia ans immigrated as an adult. It is super sweet to see two people that "went" to homeschool. My kids don't want to go back. We tried public a few times in and out 3 different schools. Kept taking them out, for various reasons. I've been a bit of a slacker as to making a program or a curriculum for them, having a conventional Masters of Teaching degree...still rebuilding my brain from that one 😄 thanks for the video!!

What a joy to see what well rounded young men you are. I am a home educating mum of 3 in the UK and constantly battling with fear over whether I can really manage this. My absolute ideal is to educate the kids this way but it's big challenge and I don't want to screw it up. It's encouraging to hear you both speak about your education and how that has impacted what you're up to now. Well done to you both & to your parents!!! 😃

I keep coming back to this video, because you guys are so respectful, and such a good representation for the homeschool community. Thank you for making this!

Excellent video! I TOTALLY agree with you guys. I homeschool my 4 kids & I’m all about tailoring their education to their interests. Thanks for sharing guys! 👌🏾

I'm debating whether to home school or not. I have a fear of not being able to provide enough, and the thought of being responsible for how much knowledge my kid receives is daunting. Overwhelming. I will always question in the future did I do him justice or injustice and blame myself if he fails at something.

Thank you so much for sharing. I am currently homeschooling my kids. The oldest is 7. It is so nice to see your perspective and it is encouraging to keep us going. I hope my kids have the same thoughts you shared in this video when they're your age.

My husband and I have a six month old and we want a second baby within the next two years. We are doing all the research we can about homeschooling. I look forward to teaching our children and adding things like animal husbandry and gardening since we live in the country.

I've been homeschooling for 6 years now, and I love hearing from other homeschooled kids! Such an encouragement! Thank you for this video!

Family Unit. Yes. Exactly. Anxiety, pressure. Agreed. Conformity. Yup. Self-directed learning. Yes. These are all reasons I am homeschooling. Great to hear this from homeschooled kids experience. Love of learning! Yes!

This was so encouraging! We’re starting our homeschool journey next year!

In school I was taught that while we should attempt to avoid failure we should accept it when it comes learning how to learn from failure is possibly the most important lesson to learn.

Awesome job! I’m a homeschool mom, of 4! My kids watched and were encouraged by this! Keep up the good work!

Loved everything you said!💜 I am homeschooling my two boys and I really hope they grow to be this close to each other and grow to appreciate homeschooling the way you do. Because now, they totally don’t😆. But they are in kindergarten and 2nd grade lol. So that is to be understood🤣 I’m positive that will change though….or at least hopeful 🤞🏼😆

Love this!! Homeachooling my 3 boys, on our 2nd year, your points were all spot on!!

I love this! We are planning on homeschooling our kid. It’s so good to see it from your perspective growing up in it.

We are looking into homeschooling our kids through this pandemic and just found you. Its wonderful to see you both said positive things about it. My daughter said you guys are so funny... thank you very much for sharing. We wish we would be proud parents like yours in the future for decision to make soon with homeschooling for our kids this school year 2020-2021. Be blessed.

Thank you for sharing. I am currently considering homeschooling both my boys and working full time. Hard decision but this video gave me some real positive points to think about.

I love this video. You two are so well spoken and CRUSH the stigma of home schooled children. Great way to give your mom/dad, whomever taught you, a big pat on the back! I agree with all of this. We have successfully graduated 2 out of 4 children, have been traditional home educating for 20 yrs and wouldn't change it for the world. Education isn't all about the sit down book time. Nice job, guys!

I want to be homeschooled but I‘m living in Germany. In Germany you HAVE TO go to public school.There is no other way.I hate public school, it‘s making me very depressed.

This video has helped me no end.. The issues you discussed were very informative an answered a heap of my questions.. We're at a crucial point with my 9 Yr old daughter as I am about to take her out of school and homeschool her but I have been quite nervous about it. She is so unhappy at school, the bullying, the type of lessons, the teachers constant opinions and there general attitude toward her and the other students, ,the constant drama in the playground, all things she just can't deal with. She's the best kid, super smart and very creative and schools making her life a living misery.. When she's not in school she's just worrying about when she does have to be in school.. The subject matter at school is dull and restrictive an if she can't do it she's singled out for negative attention.. For example one of her loves is comedy and to make people laugh, she does characters,funny skits, pranks an makes movies an comedy sketches but her pre chosen school freinds and the school do not support it so she's stopped doing it so much. Being home schooled has clearly been only benificial to the both of you and the points you made have really put my mind at ease.. An meeting another home schooler skit was super funny, we watched it a few times 🤣🤣🤣. Don't think I've ever thanked anyone on RU-vid for making a video before.. Thanks guys👍

All great points guys, thanks for sharing!

Wowwww I am SO glad I came across your video!! Thank you so much for sharing this. I’ve been researching into homeschooling my son for so long and gave in to the critics and sent him to school. His 4 days in this week and has already changed his personality! I’m so upset and ready to pull him out and follow my heart into homeschooling him. Your video reallly helped. I only hope my son can grow into an amazing man like you both! All the best 😊

Subscribed. So thankful to have found some encouragement to homeschool my kids and hear these positives. Great video!

Thanks guys for this video! We just started homeschooling here in the UK and we just moved from the US last year. The kids like it better as it relieves social anxiety and stress. Hope you can do more videos like this to encourage homeschooling families. 👍🏼

Love this video im homeschooling mama this is our third year i completely agree i feel public school was failing my daughter

Yess! You are inspiring! Way to promote homeschooling and be a great example to kids trying to be the change we all need. I'd love to hear from your parents! Sounds like some smart, inspiring people

So great! I love homeschool for all these reasons and more. I love the lifestyle and I love making learning just a natural part of our daily life.

I started to homeschool my daughter after COVID. She was on remote learning from 2nd grade till Christmas of 4tj grade. She didn't want to go back . She loves being home and has more time to take. In public school she never had enough time to finish or enough teacher time. She does a lot better at home. Like you said we love our family time too. Thank you for the video

so I was homeschooled my whole life and I am so grateful! I look back on it and it was truly amazing! some of the best things are... you can get done with school at 11 am instead of sitting in a classroom all day... you can even do your school outside... and being taught by my mom... and being able to go anywhere random when needed like field trips and family stuff... and most importantly you can learn baste off of your interests instead of conforming to what the government wants you to learn... last thing you can learn about and freely glorify God!

New to homeschool and I feel like we've broken out of the Matrix. Wish I had homeschooled my kids from day one!! The educational opportunity is so much deeper than even a private school could provide. I can bend lessons by incorporating his interests in a way formal school can't. Thanks for the great video. Appreciate the links too.

Great video! I love to see these from homeschooled kids. I went to school for Biology and then decided to get my teaching degree for High School Biology. During the teaching program it made me realize I wanted to stay home and homeschool my kids. My studies had me learning how to teach/handle kids with autism, ADHD, dyslexia, anger issues, kids who's first language isn't English, etc. While it is beneficial to learn that stuff, it just made me realize that there is NO WAY I could give a classroom full of kids the attention they need. There is just no way for a single teacher to be able to properly teach a classroom with gifted kids, average kids, and kids with learning disabilities in such a short time span. My first child is preschool age so we do a lot of play-based things but she is thriving! She's not even 4 yet and knows her whole alphabet and the phonics. She could also tell you all about bugs though too! It is amazing the flexibility that homeschooling provides. The only thing I struggle with is thinking "should I be organizing more playdates? Are they socialized enough?"

Thank you, fellas. I shared this with my daughter as we gear up to switch to home schooling.

Its hard going against the mainstream grain and making the decision and sticking to home schooling. You 2 have obviously turned out well along side many others who had home schooling. I love homeschooling my 2 kids, and we all love being together. I dont have support doing homeschooling, and it has been awkward and lead to some bad things happening with family members who use this lifestyle against you. However, i can't go against my gut or the fact that we're bloody happy together and I can educate them in ways that interest them, or dont in some cases. But we learn any time of day or if they have questions randomly, I can talk about it and make up games or whatever helps them understand about the world, life, subjects etc. And i can correct behaviour instead of letting others influence them when theyre not with me. They have bad behaviour habits, but some natural reactions take time to improve. And if I need a moments peace and theyre happy playing, i can have that too.....sometimes... If they want to go to school at some point they can, but theyre happy so I continue. And just grateful Im in a situation to have that choice.

You two guys are great!! You seem super well adjusted! Thank you for making this video! I raised my children in a world that did not embrace home schooling. I wish I could go back and homeschool them maybe, my daughter would still be alive, today! I am now considering homeschooling my grandson. Your video has made me decide to take on the challenge and do it for him! He is an only child, and I was concerned about him not having the social interaction with other children. However, he is only 5, and it seems as though the “bullying” is already started. I know, when I was in school, I loved to learn, but I disliked school soooo much! Luckily, it didn’t stop me from learning. I want him to love learning and education. Your video was great!! Thanks again!

Thank you for posting this video. As a homeschooling Mom it is great to hear from those that were homeschooled.

Thank you so much as a homeschool mom this was a pleasure to hear!!

you guys are hilarious!!! thank you for your view!! much appreciated

Excellent , from a mom homeschooling 13 year old twins...will show this to them, Thankyou!!!

Incredibly valuable to hear about your personal experience from the student side. Thanks for sharing.

This is very encouraging. Thanks so much!

Homeschool mom of 4 here and this video is very informative and absolutely hilarious.

Two handsome young men, I only hope I do as good as your mother! I have 3 boys and a girl still young! Way to go! Such encouragement for.myself and my kiddos!

Thanks for sharing. I will be homeschooling my three children this Fall.

Thank you for highlighting the topic of bullying !!

This video was great! Thank you so much boys. I have watched videos from the mother's side and wanted the 'other' very important side of the homeschooling journey. This was very informative.

Adorable, luv this vid. Will hv my kids watch

Great Job, guys. So encouraging. 🙏❤️

Loved the video and tips! Started my 3rd year homeschooling

Thank you for this, I’m going to show this to my boys, they are homeschooled. Good for them to see other guys that are older that were also homeschooled.

I love this! Thanks for sharing!

This is really good! Thank you!

I've been to public and private school good advice I'm currently in college sometimes I wish I was home schooled because teachers have lost etiquette and communicate bad today.