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Entrepreneurs in Cars " Sperm Wars" is a mind blowing book it's pretty much the reason why I don't settle and when I have a kid I'm gonna get a DNA test no Matter what. "Sperm Wars" is an eye opener.
I actually always thought the opposite from that. When a guy cheats I think that he had a good reason since the woman seems to want to make such a big deal of him cheating. But when a woman cheats she acts like she doesn’t care and is justified to cheat and it makes me feel like she only did it because she could.
To this day I can't comprehend how easily they can just ghost from a long term relationship like it was never anything. They really don't care about us at all. All they care about is themselves. Never forget that guys.
She had a boyfriend for 4 years, and a month after break up she came too me. I never knew I was her rebound till I heard it from word of mouth. The whole time I was with her, she literally showed no remorse.
Anything you may feel will just make you look "weak" to them. Wanting to know how you feel is just another shit test. They're plumbing for weakness when they ask you about your feelings - it's a trap to see if you express any of the qualities they claim they want in a man, and if you indicate any, it will lower your desirability ever after. Everything is deception with women - nothing is straightforward or what it seems on the surface.
I was married for 9.5 years, that's when my wife decided to confess to me she had a boyfriend for over a year, I was shocked that she hid it so well. I divorced her because of it, and I've been happy ever after. I've had girlfriends and friends with benefits, But I've never gotten to the point where I wanted to remarry. I'm older now and time has taken it's toll, So now I can sit back and watch and see how they work. It's interesting to see how they work men against men, for a prize not worth keeping. Thank god I'm older, single, and wiser. I love being single, can go and do whatever and whenever. Good luck to the young bucks out there, maybe they should watch this video?
My best sexual experiences with women was when I took charge and assumed the Alpha role... since by nature I'm Beta it was a I opening experience. I don't agree everything in this video but take what you can use and discard the rest... thanks for some great free content
The 5 Commandments every man Should live by. 1. You can love women or you can understand women, but you cannot do both. 2. Nice guys don't finish last. Nice guys are not even in the race. 3. If you treat a woman like a celebrity, she will treat you like a fan. 4. No matter how solid or stable you think your relationship or marriage is, she will always have a man on deck. 5. She is never truly yours. It is just your turn.
I'm sick of so many alpha seeking, beta training, validation loving, personal gratification motivated women who want the power of a man, the privileges of being female, and the responsibilities of neither.
@@CarolinHauser what a load of rubbish only old woman think like that, only very few I mean such a small percentage of young woman even do what you are suggesting they are called real wife's, not these fake imitation we have running around trying to play house.
Very good insight. Another thing is that women initiate much more physical violence than you think. Two reasons:1. Most guys won't hit back. 2. Most guys won't say anything.
I finally got enough of that BS and I hit back knocked her right on her ass, something I never thought I do but enough is enough you can punch me in the face over and over out of scratch my eyes out you're going to get your ass kicked. I don't care who you are. And all she wanted after 21 years is the ability to get a restraining order and everything that we put together in that time frame. And give a damn about anything else. It's worth getting knocked on her ass
@@raydeal5777 You do the right thing, my friend. You should smack back. Never understood this "never hit a woman, ever!". BS! If a rude child, fruit of bad-parenting, was to slap me on the face or start punching me for absolutely no reason, or just out of unjustified anger, I'd show that child how to respect an adult. Obviously, with the appropriate force for a child. I do the same to women. I hit them back in the same proportion they hit me. I'm no punching bag. GTFO here. If I don't accept such behaviour from a child, that usually knows no better, I will do it from an adult woman? If I'll educate children, I will educate women. Women are over-grown children, anyway.
On point number 4, decreasing of desire: every wedding I’ve been to, the guy cried with happiness and the woman didn’t. In most of them, the woman looked kind of sad. Like sad to be cashing in her chips. In the wedding vows of one of them, no joke, the girl said “sometimes marrying you will feel like the hardest decision I’ve ever made, but I promise I’ll try my best to work through those moments with you”. Wow, how romantic, thanks honey.
@@nc0849 Maybe she's a gold digger who suddenly realized that looks don't last forever and she'd better get married now before her face starts looking liker her feet. Even still, that's no guarantee the marriage will last five years. If it's a struggle for her to stay in it, she will bail out of it at the drop of a hat. All she needs, in her mind, is the flimsiest of excuses to gain back her "independence." Besides, how could he possibly pressure her into marrying him? Is he holding a gun to her head? Remember, 80% of all divorces are initiated by the woman.
I learned last year the hard way that there is no relationship equity for men. What you did during the relationship has no value to a woman. Only how she feels at that particular moment matters to her. Your effort during the relationship means nothing to her. In fact more often than not they resent you for being good to them because when they end the relationship for selfish reasons they are inconvenienced by the microscopic amount of guilt they feel for screwing you over. They get over that guilt VERY quickly though.
kuunami ..Yeah that's why it's best to look for balance or not put in too much work.Whateva just as long as the man didn't spend too much money,let her ass find her own way it gets their attention real quick and never will be forgotten by them even if they find a simp weak wuusy.
ZedZedski I’m a woman and I agree with you 100% 🙁 Sorry to read all these comments from all you guys, don’t date mean insecure women specially the “10s” they are usually the worst kind of women.
It took me decades to realize there is no such thing as relationship equity with a woman. A woman's reciprocal input ends as soon as the benefit has been given to her. It's Briffault's law...
So true we live in a different world today . There is no loyalty anymore. Woman are so different today . We have to read books and have dating coach's . What the hell happened to our society in the old days men where men and a woman was a lady and treated a man like a man . Now We live in a superficial world . Thanks for the great advice . Very true .
@Elle D Why would any man want to please a disloyal harpy like you? Why would a man want to buy your affection, your loyalty, when he has no guarantees in return? When there was a semblance of a binding contract, you might have gotten away with this selfish screed, but you idiots have destroyed your own agency. You learned from the historic well poisoners (the mother's and daughters of your whole civilization destroying ideology), but you failed to learn the most important lesson, that even the most based of them know; you don't poison your own well. You poison the enemy wells. No man want's to pay to sleep with someone who has set themselves up as the enemy.
nope.it's bad to generalize.been with a lot of girls and always knew them pretty well..i had those pussy on lock..if you know what i mean..they never NEEDED to have a man on deck cause i satisfied them in that department plus others..having fun and all that..no boring times....the reason for breaks were always women and their sudden mood changes and their need to change me...hell no..sorry that you had those experience BUT speak for yourself man..don't generalize like it's like that for all..learn from your mistakes man..cheers
Goran Hrastovik shes always ready to jump just flash the greenback and the booze and show where the parties at and she’s flat on her back showing you her crack!
@@goranhrastovik5364 Just because you just never knew about Plan B doesn't mean it wasn't there. Those sudden mood changes occurred when she was ready to execute Plan B. You were in the dark.
@@learnnottogiveaf8747 I believe he would say something like that. I remember reading in his autobiography how he specifically said that he learned essential lessons from his pimp friend back in his youth
So then I want to ask honestly, what is the point of even being in a relationship if 99% are just messed-up self-esteem draining head games, which women are better at? I don't like the prospect of living without a lady in my life, but the head games and double standards make me feel that it is the better choice, rather than losing my mind to the manipulative dance we call dating.
Us older guys have to go after the younger Barbie Dolls under the age of 18 to even have a real good chance for TRUE love is the ONLY way I see it otherwise I give up at the age of 58 still lean strong and in great shape for my years !!!! The young Barbie Dolls haven't had they're minds distorted by BAD BOYS and haven't slept with every John, Dick and Harry in the dictionary from A to Z !!!!! Now I know trying to do this sounds perverted and wrong but in reality it is what parents WANT for they're Barbie Dolls is a real GOOD Christian MAN who will be true and loyal at all times !!!!
This guy has tremendous insight! As a 60 year old bachelor I've dated every type of woman out there.....I find myself agreeing with this guy nearly 100% of the time.
#2 I learned the hard way. Never, ever, EVER think white-knighting gets you anywhere with women. I know a couple of women who secretly call white knights "fart catchers," and laugh at them behind their back. My 2 cents: Factoring out the allure of intelligence and talent common to both sexes, here is the primary difference between men and women: A man's lust is fuelled by physical beauty. A woman's lust is fuelled by physical beauty AND wealth. When a man suddenly loses his money, in the eyes of a woman, he goes from Kirstie Allie 1982 to Kirstie Allie 2017. While most men have the honour, integrity, and deep soulful love not to leave, women are not beholden to these 'male' values, and will ditch you like a used latte cup in the blink of an eye.
There's a very true fact you mentioned. I for one have noticed that one of the biggest misconceptions we men make is assuming that women in general have the same set of ethics that we have. Sad fact, they don't and mostly never care about the crap called "ethics" They know only "I can vs. I can't " and not "It's good vs. It's bad" Finding a good women is difficult, defining what a good women is is even more difficult. ( or I may lack enough experience so far )
So weird what experiences some people gather.. Though, it might depend on where you live. In any way.. I don't think this is how genereally all women in the world are. Also, the way you describe it, it almost sounds like they must be less of a human than you are. The values you spoke about aren't just "male values", those are general values that human can have or not have. It's most likely that those values can be found equally much or probably equally rarely in both genders. If you truly believe that the way you described women, is how they generally are, than maybe you should do some social experiments on that or probably better get some well approved scientists to do them for you.
Harley Quinn No way we men think of woman as less of a human. You are making a wrong conclusion that came from you own pattern of thinking of judging of people: they're either as human or less human. Your premise is your own, no one suggested that. No, not at all, we adult men think a child is immature, sensitive, and irresponsible, fragile, and needs to be taken care of and never given full power so that he doesn't harm neither himself nor the whole family. That never resembled thinking of the child to be less of a human. Once human then a full human. Whether he was a rational human or not. Women, are wise, responsible, and full of mercy, forgiveness and understanding, only after their hormonal storm is gone i.e. after menopause or let's say in middle age. Those are among the wisest people of the whole society. Young women are non of that. Actually, women due to their emotional, and physical, ( and I may add ethical ) weakness as young growing girls and young mothers, they end up very "diplomatic", rational and fully wise, and ethical individuals as middle aged women. It's the weakness of a female, or rather her insight into her weakness, is what makes her the good individual that she ends up being. Current gen liberated girls and women just keep fighting their own weak nature by denying it, instead of getting around it and learning from it. They've never known that the greatest strength is knowing one's own weaknesses. They never self-criticize and never actually grow. They may never get to be rational responsive ladies at all, even at a late age, or they may but with a bitter taste in their mouths, which bad but better than not. I'm of course not sure that I'm right, but this is how we traditionally (and may be evolutionary-based) tend to think of women, and that may be very useful for balancing family structure that's being broken today.
After being married for 17 years and in 2 relationships in the last year I’ve learnt that society has changed and everyone is selfish. There is no good old fashioned love anymore. If it’s out there then it’s very very rare..I’m just gonna concentrate on loving myself from now on cause I’m done with relationships. Period!
It still exists and it is rare when it's truly real. But believe its still out there and real. And if you have the qualities that you look for in someone else I believe that you'll have it. But we can't expect to find qualities in others that we don't possess ourselves. You'll be more likely to find it. And don't ever take it for granted or take advantage of it when and if you do.
so true about women being bored quicker in the relationship. Notice how most women say they want a man that can make them laugh? they want to be entertained.
There is a second version of Monkey Branching, which i would call "Reverse Monkey Branching" it's basically when a woman tries to use you as a backup if the situation with the new man goes bad.
EX gf tried to put me in the friend zone after dumping me,i of course cut all contact, long and behold two years later, i bought a nice car, nice sport bike and make much more than when i was with her and suddenly she starts messaging me that we should go out etc. Perfect example for what you said, ive never even answered her, now whenever once in a while she sees me in town she has the face like i killed her whole family, women take rejection much more worse than majority of men i know.
Once i was daiting a girl for about 6 months, at some point she told me she had the desire to start living with me to support me, help me with my business etc... i answered i wasn't interest to take the frequentation at that serious level, one week later she posted some pic of her in vacation with an other man, i think she had this loser as a backup for a long time waiting to see which branch was the most solid for her to grab.
Monkey Branching is more like skipping fast from a man to another, or eventually holding on 2 branches at the same time waiting to understand which one is more suitable.
Man, everything you've said is so true. I find myself at the very same spot when I was dating a girl a year ago and went through some problems, but I never break the relationship for real with her (anyway, she choose to understand what she wanted to understand), but to my surprise she shows up with some new guy between one or two weeks later without a notice (she kept it in secret from me, but I figure it out). Two thoughts came in my mind, she was at least keeping conversations with the dude at the same time she was with me and kept it secret for the same reasons you listed above. I didn't know the "technical term" for this at the time, now I know... and the behavior seems pretty standard... The more reseach and test, the more I figure that womans (men too) are all about basic patterns, it's not an one size fits all (but definitelly there's a pattern).
I have to disagree a little bit on the monkey branching. Women tend to have a relationship already set up before they end it with you. I've seen it with friends of mine and their ex-wives, and I've experienced with with my ex. Women like to create escape plans months or weeks in advance of leaving you, which is why marriage counseling is a joke. If you've gotten to the point of needing marriage counseling, she's already decided to ditch your ass, and likely has a replacement lined up.
My ex cheated with my best friend a few years into our marriage.(a long... long time ago). The emotional pain of being deceived by two people you deeply care about is life changingly debilitating. I will probably never whole heartedly properly trust people (male or female) till my dying day. It leaves you severely fucked up for a long time. Best to just keep relationships with women light and fluffy;) Out of 2000 women in relationships in a poll (onepoll.com), 43% had a backup man in case current relationship ended, 8 out of 10 are in contact with the backup man, 15% said their feelings were stronger for the backup man, 50% said their partner was aware of the backup man, 1 in 5 admitted it was a friend of their partner, 1 in 10 said backup man already confessed his undying love to them. (What a good guy;) This is based on assuming women were being completely honest in the poll...The actual numbers are probably much worse if all women in the poll were actually being whole heartedly honest. In a digital world with ego inflated, entitled "girl power" bitches and thirsty white night orbiting simps at every turn...what kind of results do people honestly think they're going to get in serious relationships or marriage nowadays? Keep it light and fun and treat her right, but don't get all shocked and butt hurt if/when you find out she's just another disloyal tart, cause loyalty is a dieing trait in modern women today.(and in many men as well) Unfortunately, there is absolutely no shaming allowed of the modern strong women of today, regardless of the shitty, disgusting things they do. When shit turns sour it's always the man's fault, (even if its simply because she got bored and decided she now wants to go "explore" her sexuality after watching "eat, pray, love".) These are simply the sad facts of modern society today. Guys...just don't bother with marriage....ever. Anymore it's all just a game to most women, and they've generally got nothing to lose and only stuff to gain when they decide to do it. And if you ever find yourself saying "my girl would never do something like that"...well...go ahead and throw the dice and marry her and see what happens. Maybe you'll get lucky.
The only power a male has in a relationship is the ability to LEAVE, dump her, WALK OUT. Therefore it is VITAL that males NEVER form any financial entanglements w women unless they ALWAYS benefits from them. But don't fool yourself: Hypergamy is a BITCH, there is no tricking it, no reasoning w it, you have to just lay it out there, up front, at the beginning. So, good fuk'ing luck in the dating pool, because there is no chlorine to cure the outrageous shittiness of 99.99999999997% of women.
The monkey branch is so true! Know a girl who i have known for 9 years and in those 9 years iv never known her single for longer than 10 days. And each new man has always higher on the social ladder than the last.
I had a two years relationship with my first girlfriend. After 3 months, she got a new boyfriend. It took me a couple years to move on from that, then started dating again.
#4 she drags you into marriage and then cuts off the faucet of what you got married for. And feels totally justified. can you imagine as the man if you just quit your job and said I'm not going to provide what you married me for? And felt totally justified in doing so she would divorce you in a second.
That actually sounds like a great response to a frigid wife. "Honey I'm home... I quit my job" 😎 (Obviously "gift" away your money to friends for safekeeping first) Then explain that since the wife isn't feeling in the mood for sex, you aren't feeling in the mood for work. Bwahaha
Number Four; Baby making machines, you gotta have some pretty fancy plumage to keep a girl around, & i just don't have the energy for it any more, it seems all the ladies iv'e met in the past few years, anything sets them off; screw it, i'm learning how to be happy with my self..
Karl Buttler #1 - Always protect your heart and never give them 100% of urself. #2 - Get everything you can from them sexually, financially, and emotionally. #3- Decipher when the relationship is no longer useful or becoming too much work and know its time to move on. Leave all the emotional baggage at the door and start as a new man.
1keykneedeep I made the mistake of giving my heart to a woman and a year after the breakup I'm still struggling to get over it. I won't make that mistake ever again. Always have one foot out the door when it comes to women. The second you go "all in" with them, you're fucked.
I really wish I had a dad like you. It would have saved so much drama/headaches/confusion, but at least I am redpilled now and still soaking up vast amount of knowledge everyday. And I have no babies, still in early 20s, so I can build up my future. Thanks so much. Cheers.
@Nathanb B I didn't call him dad necessarily, I just said it would have been amazing if I had a father figure like him. I grew up without my dad. I don't think he is just another dude who is older than me, he is one of the biggest red pill youtube channels out there right now that I can resonate, if you really think his advices are not that great, why are you on his channel? Maybe you had your dad when you were growing up, but I never had a strong father figure growing up? Thanks for your consideration, but stay in your lane please.
@Alpha Lion Its like women are incentivized to feel entitled with men to get what they want. Unless a woman has really examined herself (shadow aspects), I can vouch that this traits are very common with women. Most women are trying to see what they can get and how they can benefit by being with a man. I think it is a recent thing that women began to marry for love instead of it being a financial/support thing.
Ive been knowing this most woman i talk always end up telling me some dark personal things honestly i dont take it personal i always try to get to know the mom more cause how the mother is the daughter is
I'm married to the wife of my youth for almost 44 years. My mother introduced me to her. Our parents know more than we do about people and can direct us wisely in the area of lifetime spouses. My wife is a Christian woman that I can fully trust and not have the kind of problems that I see in relationships around me. Praise God.
That or they USE YOU to improve thier relationship with thier boss. My father was famous for trying to set me up with HIS BOSS' DAUGTHER. Thinking that by my dating the daughter, he might get on the in track for the next big promotion.
You got very lucky my friend, psychological science actually dictates parents are horrible, the absolute worst judges when it comes to setting their kids up with someone. I'm glad it worked out for you but please don't give that advice to anyone! To often parents get in their kids relationship business and screw things up, horribly!
What I find most insane in my 27 years of living is that back when I was a player and cheating on girls I found girls respecting and chasing me more, but as I grew older and saw the damage I did and hearts I have broken and finally deciding to put my best foot forward and be a loving, loyal, and respectful guy I find I have been attracting girls with very narcissistic characteristics. It’s sad to admit but I felt I lived a happier life being a disrespectful cheating asshole to girls than I am now being loving, caring, and loyal...
Those girls you are attracting now, love them with your heart. Be gentle to them. That's what they want. Give them the attention they want. All the time when together with them.
@@BieluChukwu9 .. what? Hell no. Give a narcissist attention? no way is that a good idea. OP... Maybe change where you are picking up girls. If you could pick up young girls for hookups... That place is not where you find girls that are ready to settle down with loving good men.
MD M ....you're actually not supposed to get into relationships with ladies of the night ....it's really hard to compete against professionals;) (Fun fact: the brothel in Deadwood SD was active and open until the early 1980s. It was technically illegal, but local authorities turned a blind eye. I'm in Deadwood as I right this, so it just kinda popped into my head. There's only gambling nowadays:(
It's also a proven concept that women will prefer a man who is proven to make other women happy. It's called preselection, and it's commonly used by pick up artists.
@@annaf.1 Oh you don't? Cool. Actions speak louder than words and has been proven over and over again women speak such things but do the opposite. You're not fooling anyone. Also, typical woman reaction. Resorting to shaming. I guess all women really have been biologically programmed to shame which is a shallow trait for a human. Also, "vice versa" is what you're trying to say? At least try to sound knowledgeable before you criticize others. Otherwise you just look dumb. You got nothing going on on you.
@@annaf.1 Aw again with shaming? Do you have anything better? My uncle got divorce raped by a bitch and took my cousins. You're delusional. Yeah sure "my experience" is mine alone - yeah as if other people don't experience what I have seen. Have you been living on a cave? Or you just don't want to accept the evil women are capable of doing and are still doing today? No man in this world need a scientific mind to realize other men's suffering and just be blind about it and preach women for the angel that they are not. Take your own advice. Your sweet words don't mean anything if your actions say otherwise. Pretty sure that the thousands if not millions of men who suffered from false allegations and divorce rape are not shared with other men right? Right?
Rich, I've been happily married for almost 14 years to a phenomenal alpha man and we have 2 young children, our oldest being a 4 year old boy. We have a 9 year age gap, my husband being the older one which I think has been key in making our marriage so successful. I feel unbelievably blessed to have such a great alpha male example for my son bc as we all know I have no idea how to properly raise a boy. I came across your channel and have been binge listening every chance I get. Your videos are so relevant for both men & women.... you are killing it with your content and you are doing a great thing for men everywhere. I've always been worried about the young men in this country; growing up with radical feminist societal ideas telling them its not ok to be men, let alone manly men. Just wanted to leave a quick comment & let you know that your info is great !
Not surprised about the ovulating thing. But ladies...just because you find someone attractive, and he's interested and willing, doesn't mean you should sleep with him.. control your urges. Or, break up with your current guy. He deserves someone who wants only him.
Agreed, one of my best friends Just now decided he wanted to be single he told her he wants to be single.. what does she do? Accuse him of cheating, take to Facebook, and get everyone’s sympathy, now he’s an asshole not just for leaving her but she made up So Many Ridiculous excuses as to why he left like “My birthday is in a week” “It’s the Holliday’s and he left me” now everybody scorns him. He is an outstanding guy and me and all of the other guys 100% understand his situation and support Him.
If a man cheats on a woman it's bad, he's at fault, there's no excuse. And if a woman cheats on a man they'll always find an excuse to justify their cheating. That's all there's to it.
I'm 20 years old, Canadian architecture student. Was with a girl for almost 2 years and was fairly happy with her. She was a little bit "slow" but hid it very well lol. The reason I stayed with her is because she didn't show any of the traits of an interest in hypergamy and seemed to love me for me. had to end the relationship due to moving across the province for an 8 month student job with the government. A few days after we break up she invites me to her house to see her one last time before I leave. She asks me if construction workers make more $ than architects (They do according to a "friend" of hers) gives me a watch as a parting gift and asks me to leave. 1 week later I find out shes seeing another guy who just so happens to be a construction worker. She was talking to the guy 2 days after we split up. Not even mad at her. I'm pissed at myself for letting her fool me. A one man band from here on out.
The "emotional bank account" reference really hit home with me. Some motivational speaker I listen to years ago taught that concept and I bought into it hook, line and sinker. After many years in an unhappy marriage it became evident that the bank account didn't exist. It was just a bottomless pit they could never be filled.
Completely right on point. They are always looking for the next upgrade, even if they Dont know it. Can't trust any woman. Its not your woman.... Its just your turn!! That's what I tell myself.
All of you listen up to this old fart. I was married for 51 years. She never cheated and yes up until she got sick we had sex. Take your time and look beyond her bust line. How does she keep herself, her place, and does she treat people well? Is she kind and generous. Is she honest and does she managed things well. Is she lovable.
I’m married for 20 years to an amazing lady. But before meeting her, I had my share of emotionally debilitating heartbreaks. Realizing that the quality of women are getting worse by the day, I am here for my son. And I am teaching him these things.
I am a Turkish Canadian who lives in Canada since the end of 2013. Now I am 25. My friends from both high school a d college would find this guy "sexist" This is how weak my generation is. Completely pusified
I wish I'd come across this site years ago....my mate was brought to the brink of suicide with his wife of 20years which nearly broke him. Your common sense and truthfulness is spot on and I hope it reaches the men that need you
They make you think they want to be your friend, but really they just tell you what you want to hear so they can get what they want out of you. They realize the grass actually wasn't greener after all and now need YOU as their crutch. And when the guy caves in they'll give him enough bait to keep him around until they find "better" again then they'll break his heart AGAIN and expect him to understand. I was already with my boyfriend for 4 years at the time and his ex gf randomly hits him up after not talking since we've been together thinking he's gonna drop me for her or cheat on me with her just bc she wasn't happy with her boyfriend anymore who she was living with at the time, and thought her ex who is now my man thinking he's gonna be her back up. He blocked her. And shortly after he blocked her she met another dude after she left her boyfriend and got knocked up. I swear girls waste no time. I can't monkey branch like that. I don't get it. I wouldn't be surprised now that we're in our late 20's and she isn't as pretty as she use to be and started running out of options I wouldn't be surprised if she was attempting to trap my boyfriend that way he could never leave her completely again considering how shortly she got pregnant afterwards and with a dude who was also in the pic while she was living with her boyfriend. They always have back ups whether he's just a friend or apart of the family. They never leave the relationship empty handed, they always have guys lined up so they don't have to face their break up alone. Selfish bitches.
spot on! I remember a lady friend of mine, who was so miserable when she found out her guy was cheating on her and she approached him crying how he could do this to her. And his response was "You have cheated on me a dozen times, every time I am away you fuck someone else". And it was true. Only in her mind it does not count, because she never got confronted about it.
Painful truths that have to be said As a man you have to make sure that you're stable in all aspects of your life so that you'll have options when it comes to women / dating. Have ZERO TOLERANCE for 🐂💩
the kicker is the buck doesn’t stop there my friend. you can be a pretty noble & selfless stand up guy with your head on straight, all your shit put together, know exactly what you’re looking for as it’s compatible with who you are as a man and still get the short end of the stick in relationships with women all because somehow “you just aren’t cracked up what I thought you to be” or “this isn’t working out because I’m booooored.”
Monkey branching is absolutely a thing and it sucks In the middle of my 5-year relationship my girlfriend met another guy and she hung on to him for dear life. She wanted to keep having sexual interactions with him while still dating me but I had to break us up but just like you said she wanted me to keep me in the friend department and it was probably just for backup.
I've had four serious relationships (I'm 32)... three of my girlfriends cheated on me. Got red pilled at 30 (too late if you ask me, but better late than never). My current girlfriend wouldn't dare cheat on me... and if she does, oh well, piece of trash I didn't try much with anyways lol.
Most men need to be aware that they generally become more attractive as they age and the reverse is true for women. As for my first ex-wife, my mother and her friends all told me up front that I was too attractive for my fiancé and that they were shocked that I would lower my standards for beauty with a woman. Of course my comments were that I loved her. Of course, after my ex-wife tried to emasculate me over time this also came to my mind as to why I had so lowered my standards. After my divorce, and having watched my ex age over a period of over ten years, she is just butt ugly. I at this point often have women hitting on me and telling me how handsome and regal I am. Go figure.
Sadly, it's not about finding someone to share it with, it's more like which one do you want to sponsor... since i'm not an AA member, i'm not doing it.
I’m reading your book and it’s definitely filled with the uncomfortable truths that I’ve needed to face and accept. That’s how I know it’s true. Thanks so much for what you do. It matters.
" desire tanks in women right after marriage" That was my experience. I dated my first wife for 6 years during the college days and shortly thereafter. She chased me hard and hung on tight, mostly because I was going to be a doctor. Within two years after we got married, she had her first affair. She got pregnant and didn't know who the father was. She kept that secret from me. I demanded a paternity test for our first child to determine who the father really was. Her pregnancy was stressful and difficult for her. Now I know why.
I am a woman and I have seen so many my girl friends yhey cheat their partnres and still yhey blame their bf and also so many guys do the same thing.......better to remain single and happy😂😂😂😂 Sorry for my english
My first gf in high school was with me for a few months. Broke up and got back together another few months later. She got cancer, went through chemo, I stayed with her and now two weeks before prom she broke up with me. I should’ve known from the first breakup with the abruptness that it would happen again. This just highlights the bank analogy. Even sticking with her through cancer doesn’t mean shit
@@juanmunoz198 she never owed me anything. She shouldn’t be forced to stay with me just because i wanted to stay with her. I get where you’re coming from but you can’t view it from a place of anger. You’ll just become bitter and get nowhere.
As the owner/operator of a one-man business (trucking) I personally get tons of value from what you offer on your channel. In addition, the value I get from your material on intersexual dynamics and a healthy mental approach to money is absolutely invaluable and serves me well. Thanks for what you do. Cheers!
Trigger Warning The minimum age should be raised to 25 in my opinion, only men who own property, if they served in the military they don't have to own property, and there should be some simple tests to make sure they at least have a basic understanding of what is going on, what each candidate stands for, shit like that, to weed out low information and/or single issue voters. That would be ideal for me. No women though, at all. They also wouldn't be allowed to serve in the military in my perfect society.
Recently experienced about 80% of these behaviour patterns in a long term (14 month) relationship. She was plate spinning and talked about an open relationship, but then she went on a date with another guy (I knew she was doing this, and I had laid out my boundaries on paper; mistake one). She told me that the date was casual and that he would be just a friend. I asked if she told him about her relationship with me and she said “no, it didn’t come up” I called her on this, and she simply set me up to do the breaking up. I was so heartbroken but when we talked two weeks later she said she was in another relationship with him. So I did my best to move through the feelings of heartache, and one month later she texts and wants to be friends. This is the same exact scenario that she was in when I met her. It’s a test to see if her new boyfriend can handle it and pass the jealousy test. I called her on this and she would not address it but only would tell me that she didn’t feel like she did anything wrong. The new guy makes more money than I currently do And I see where she was simply monkey branching to a more affluent opportunity. Definitely going to keep my eyes open to these red flags in the future.
yes, totally understand you body. I was there once and it is horrible. You just cannot see the bad cold person she really is. The best you could do is write a letter to the other guy telling him 'he is next on the list'... that could help you get even...
Anyone wanting an open relationship is not serious about you, so if it is a serious relationship you want, get the hell away ! Don't even think twice, run!
My gf of 4 years who I was gonna put a ring on this year dumped me for a guy she met just a few weeks ago. She said it wasn't bout other guys, but went and banged him the very day she dropped me and told me he was much better than I am at everything Never in my wildest dreams did I see that coming. I did everything in my power to keep her happy. She always insisted on marriage. And out of no where she turned around and said she was seeing other guy and can't marry me And the worst part of it is, she gave me herpes Now I feel too tired and too old to get back into the dating game
Don't worry about the Herp, its not a big deal. It is a skin virus from the same family as chicken pox. 8 out of 10 people who have it don't even know they have it. I have HSV1 for about 6 or 7 years before I realized it. As for her, she did you a favor. Its better to be the guy getting monkey branched from then the guy getting monkey branched to. How would you feel if you started dating a girl and she cold heartedly dropped the last guy for absolutely no reason other than the fact she was bored? If she does it once, she will do it again.
That is why you shouldn't ever give a chance to promiscuous people. They have highest potential of leaving you for someone and leave with an ugly painful scar of STD or HIV AIDS.
It really depends on the woman.Women do not need sex as much as men but the woman that NEEDS sex will approach sex more like a man. She will have a sexual hunger as intense as any mans sexual lust and she will not be satisfied by any one man.A woman will fear the man that can make her sexually dependent on him because he is able to give her sexually and emotionally that which other men have not been able to. A woman that uses her body/beauty to pull a man into here sphere of influence (uses her body like a tool) will be calculating and often predatory with lose morals. Understanding a woman's relationship to her own body is critical in understanding how she relates to men and sex. A woman that can not tolerate "not being in a relationship" will have a relationship in place before she leaves the other one.A woman that sees men as walking wallets will have a relationship with his wallet and will not see him as anything beyond this.A woman who feels safe in a mans arms will look for the man that makes her feel safe.Most women feel inadequate to men and this is why they often are combative, argumentative and stubborn for irrational reasons. The constant feeling of feeling "less than" makes them competitive and conceited. They act like they are everything because they feel like nothing on the inside. This is particularly true for attractive women who believe their only value is from their appearance. The inverse is the obese woman who acts like every man wants her. They do but only because she is easy and she knows it is only the easy sex and not really her that they want. The more she allows men to use her the more worthless she feels and the more superior she acts.Women act cold and superior when they are afraid. Western women have been indoctrinated into believing men are dangerous to a degree far in excess of the reality. They are so afraid of being used that they are sexually aggressive to control who uses who. They fuck men over before men can fuck them over. Dating/sex is war for these women. Most of what women do that appears irrational is a defense mechanism to protect her fragile ego. They are reacting to deep feelings of worthlessness.Western women have been taught that to be crude and rude proves how liberated (cool/hip) they are. Most women are simply echoes of the current culture. They swallow it (absorb it) and than vomit it back out (act out/mirror). They are obsessed with appearing as individuals but are to afraid to leave the herd to truly become an individual. Only the woman who is a true loner becomes a fully self actualized human being. These women tend to have a masculine energy.Feminism and women's liberation has taken from women her true power leaving her feeling like a constant failure and she blames everything except feminism and women's liberation for it, particularly men. Todays woman is trying to be equal to men by becoming like men and they hate men when they are not able to be his equal because they have been taught men are to blame for this. Women refuse to accept the limits that come with being a woman and this is causing self hate projected as hate (blame) onto menSmart women completely reject current western cultures values. Some men call them red pill women but they are simply women who see what the last seventy years have cost women and they want no part of its corrupting influences.
The intelligentsia have created what women currently are. Women are a product of social engineering because they are more likely to embrace whatever cultural values they are born into. The intelligentsia use women to disseminate their message because biologically women are natural Marxists, socialist, communists. Women are very attracted to collectivist structures because they see these structures as giving them protection. The TRUE western women found this protection through the men they aligned themselves with but increasingly they are replacing men with the state. Women have adopted the values of the ghetto because of the state. The state has corrupted women because women are easily corruptible by their natural inclination to mirror whatever values the current culture embraces. Women are being blamed for what they have become but the true blame falls onto the intelligentsia. Women are natural followers because they are hyper sensitive to their own survival as individuals who find safety in the collective (herd) Women are risk adverse to a degree far in excess of men. Risk adverse people want the guarantees of socialism. The true enemy of men is not women but the states influence on women as the political culture created by the intelligentsia. Feminism was created by the intelligentsia to serve them, not women but sold to women as "Equality" and "Civil Rights" Look at what the state " as civil rights" has done to the black family to understand the devastating effects socialism has on peoples morals. The state using the products of the intelligentsia have corrupted western civilization in general but women in particular. Trickle down theory but with ideas instead of money. Make people think they are victims and than offer to rescue (protect/ fight for) them is how socialism sells its ideology. This morally weakens them and cements their dependence on the state. Socialism creates infantilized adults who remain egocentric, neurotic and suffering from the existential nihilism that their anxiety keeps them trapped in. The child is trapped in all the fears and traumas of childhood as "Victim" This is why so many men increasingly experience women as overgrown self absorbed children. Feminism feeds the ego of women as both victim and powerful, creating cognitive dissonance that results in hate of men and dependence on outside power structures.
+Katherine Kelly Wow, your comment was really interesting to read. hands down best comment. Really well thought out and brings up a lot of important things to acknowledge as well. I have such a hard time trying to figure out exactly why women are currently acting the way they do. As a female, I'd think I'd be able to see their point of to SOME extent but I just can't wrap my head around the most common behavior at all. And yet you summed it up just about perfectly.
One thing that is driving me crazy: Since I hit forty years old I meet more and more women that are between 35 and 45 who are interested in something on the side. They are married and for some reason want to cheat. Crazy. At first I thought this was cool but I did not know these women are married. Now I do research. Some of these women are not what you would think as a cheater, they appear normal. I think their uterus is going end of life and they are looking for a last child by someone ...else. Sick. not sure what to do. I just make sure they are not married. One woman shared texts with their husband and passed him off as an a-hole. I read the texts and he was concerned about her distance and was wondering what was going on. Seemed like a good guy in my book. She ranted about what a pussy he was and he pissed her off. Made no sense. I ran from this harpy. Fuck that. Just sharing. I hope my experiences is not the norm. But it seems hell will be stacked high with women.
Nick Monroe It's both genders. I get asked out a lot from married men, some even lie and say they're separated or divorced. They just want to have their cake and eat it too.
Nick Monroe ... there's many more women doing this because if they do get caught it's no real loss for them. They will still most likely get the kids and half the assets, so there's no fear of loss, or fear of being shamed for their unethical behavior. Was hanging out with a girl a couple weeks ago who's fiancé called worried about her after he got home to there 2 little kids at 3am after working his night shift. She tried to paint him as an asshole for trying to tell her what to do. I said "yeah, he works all night while you party it up all night with random guys, the nerve of that guy being concerned about you, what a dick"....she sensed my sarcasm. Where there is no accountability, there is no responsibility. Modern women have no accountability for their shitty behavior, because sadly there's enough thirsty guys constantly pandering to them that they truly feel they're entitled to continue behaving like entitled little shits. Part of me wonders if maybe hate fucking them and then verbally assaulting them after for being such ungrateful, disloyal, slutty whores would possibly make them appreciate their husbands more, but sadly it'd probably just make them come back and want more;) Bitches be crazy!!
Matthew Maranell Well, maybe the scales are finally even. Men have been playing around on their wives for heck of a long time and still do. I get asked out a lot by married men at work. It really pisses me off. I even had to go to HR to get these little shits away from me. So even though the men have consequences they don't seem to give a damn.
Matthew Maranell If I'm ever in Minneapolis we will meet up. You're one of the good guys. You've just been bumping into the wrong people. Also, you're part Italian like me. You get extra points for that one. :)
Moral of this video my fellow good men: Build yourself first. Create your own brand. Focus on YOU first financial/emotional/physically and spiritually in order to thrive in this environment while on earth before you start dating. Because if you dont, dont expect a woman to provide that for you/go 50-50 with you AND do not expect her to stay a very long time if you dont
The truth is, building yourself up doesn't really matter when it comes to women because no matter what, there will always be a smarter, funnier, richer, more attractive man out there. They will ALWAYS be looking to upgrade no matter what qualities you bring to the table. Your intrinsic value means nothing to her. What you do or have done for her means nothing to her. Only "upgrading" matters to them. So my advice is to never allow yourself to get emotionally or financially tied to a woman.
If you invest in yourself and create you life and do everything right your ganna have a good life and if your smart you won't include any rotten women in it.
Gosh. After watching a couple of your videos I sure am glad that I was a lucky lady with my 21 year happy marriage before losing my husband to cancer. Back out there dating after a ten year wait to raise the kiddos. This is brutal - I don’t even know where to begin with how jaded people are now!
Beetleything I believe it was Lana Turner. "A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find and hold onto this man." But I'm sure Bridget Bardot agreed.
Soul searching with Stina you are really trying hard to enslave our minds, sex object. We are awake now. And in the future you will be nothing more than sex objects and food preparers for men. Fuck your existence.
Relationships are so complicated, why even bother anymore? People get in relationships to fit in society standards anyway. All those problems make you wonder if humans are made to be in a relationship.
Good , on basic percentages, makes sense.. Im 49 n been married 3 times. Get bored really quick , i only date women in there 20's , im not rich or nothing , i dont even own a vehicle.. I just do the best i can, if not then oh well..at 40 you can sense if a female is into you .. Time spent, sexually, financially, meeting friends/family..
Very well spoken! I think that humans are meant to be in relationships, however in this day and age of unrestrained entitlement it seems that humans simply refuse to grow up
Control Room Generalization is pretty dangerous. Relationships aren't complicated for everyone and neither does everyone have a relationship because they want to fit in.
All of this is true, but I choose to grow old together with my husband, even if there are "better options". Growing old together in this day and age would give me a great sense of pride and legacy, which is worth much more than some temporary pleasure.
@@SonoTom Thank you! I can only talk from my experience, but I'm a LOT happier after having stopped worrying about if I should be with my man or not. It's much more fulfilling to grow than to exchange. PLUS it's what's best for the kids, and I'm going to be much more happy with myself being an awesome mum than an ever-less-wanted slut.
Firstly, as a nurse and I must say your veins are every nurses dream lol Another great video though and I completely agree with your 5 secrets! With respect to women losing interest in the men after X period of time, I very much believe that to be true, simply because it happened to me often. With age and with knowing my own behaviour and being willing to recognise reoccurring patterns,I decided to take ownership for my emotions and acknowledge that sometimes it is you and not them. When I feel as though I am heading down that sloop I swiftly make attempts to re-interest and re-orientate myself back to my parter, I believe that's what makes a successful relationship, a willingness to be VERY honest and upfront about your emotions and then find solutions either in solitude or in the confinement of your partner. Most women, and I can speak on behalf of my female friends, reach the downward slope phase and just slide the hell on out and onto the next Mr Grass is Greener. There are 2 type of people in life, those willing to work for something or someone and those always seeking the greener side :)
Those people who are looking for the greener grass will never find it. True happiness comes from within. It’s an extremely simple concept but it’s 100% accurate. That’s the problem and that’s what these people (men and women) don’t acknowledge. There will always be new and different problems around the corner. If you never stop to acknowledge them and do what’s right to fix them then you’re bound to continue making those same mistakes again and again and thus always chasing your happiness. Or thinking that someone else is supposed to provide you with the magic pill...it’s not up to that person, it’s your own responsibility. Take ownership, have integrity and treat others how you want to be treated.
I have told people multiple times that love is about commitment, you have to decide to make it work. Unfortunately both sides have to believe and do this (Not lie about being committed).
If she's using you as a piggy bank, RUN. I can't stress this enough, a relationship should not be focused around material objects and money. Don't let yourself get played.
A while back I started a new job and my work partner was a young pretty mixed race girl, she had kids but said she was single and needed this job and didn't want to mess with any of the guys there. So I talked polite with her and didn't flirt. 3 weeks later she went to a different shift and one of my friends from that shift calls me from her house, I said what are you doing there, he said what do you think! So much for not messin with any of the guys.
Dude that what they all do. I hawe a bestie for some 5 years and last summer she split up whit her bf for cheating on him! I was at sea working 6 months away and after she split up i got an chance to go ashore for 3 days wanted to meet her and mabey hawe some fun whit her, she was also down whit that, we had agreed to meet first thing Im home. Guess what happened when I got home on the first night. I meet her dressed like a slut whit some random dude she knew for like 3 days and acting like am bareley ewen there next to her ofcourse she fckd him that night and left me hanging! Then she hit the wall cuz the guy just forgot about her after walking outta door and after like always she comes crawling back to me telling me how it hurts and she feels bad, but after that I didnt feel nor view her like I did before so that kinda ended it all cuz I just didnt give a shit anymore :) Newer take it hard bro or think your at fault its just them not ewer using their heads and when they get some connection finally its "already too late." Say that next time this happens to you and head up high walk away fuck it!!!
@@MidNightFreakOZ yeah I've seen alot of women act like assholes like this. They love you as long as they can use you, but once they think they can do better they start treating you like you never really mattered. They'll tell you enough to keep you around, they still want to be "friends" in case they need a 'back up' later. In case their other relationship fails. My friend was dating his gf for almost 3 years, she cheated on him twice and he forgave her bc she "admitted" to them. But then one day randomly breaks up with him saying she wasn't happy anymore. She said she needed to "work on herself" and they remained FwB since she was the only vagina he was getting and she promised him they were gonna work on their relationship to find out later she'd been monkey branching and sleeping with a bunch of other dudes, whenever he confronted her for it she always had an excuse for her actions and lies. Plus whenever we were around her she'd always eyeball my fiance, making him uncomfortable. Making it so obvious, just being disrespectful. So young, yet so stupid. She wanted to apparently get back together with him but he couldn't trust her anymore and she failed to meet her expectations so she started dating a new dude she tried to pull the whole "but.. I still wanna be friends" card. He told her no and blocked her and kept her blocked ever since. It's been about 8 months now since she's been with this dude and she's always positng how much she loves him and wants to be with him forever yet still tries to text my friend at random #'s asking him to unblock her, and that she still loves him and wants to smoke and chill with him again. He asked me what it meant and I told him "her boyfriend isn't making her happy obviously so she wants you as her back up". He agreed and still isn't talking to her. I'm ashamed what my gender has let themselves become. It's manipulative, and sad.
A woman had the courtesy of doing a video response to this video. Regarding #2 (hypergamy doesn't care about relationship equity), she said that "women do not even know that this bank account exists." This is very, very important for all men to understand. Again, it is #2 that completely baffles men, because it's so antithetical to male nature.
An older man told me once that if you put a bean in a jar every time you have sex the first year of marriage, and then take one out every time after that, you will never empty the jar.
When I was 24 I was in a relationship with a gorgeous blonde and we had sex 4 to 5 times a day for over a year but I grew tired of it. When I went to end it the girl just fell apart and of all things she said "I never cheated on you!". I blamed myself for that for years but it always sounded strange.
I would like to know if you have dated any millennial women, and if you have, how they compare with baby boomer and gen x women. Provide details of your experiences!
Alvar Harkonen ...I was seeing a younger woman who I didn't know came from money. She was fun, yet a little OCD & moody at times. Quite nieve as well (most young people are though). I sometimes think rich kids grow up in this entitled bubble that keeps them from properly learning how to empathize with others. Have also learned that vegan chicks can be extremely difficult people to be around for long periods of time...haven't met a sane one yet, but I'm keeping my fingers crossed! (especially if she knew how to cook...I would have no problem being vegan/flexitarian if I found a modern vegan women that actually knew how to cook) There's really no use in trying to describe an entire generations qualities though, because everyone is different and has been raised differently. I do however think a lot of the younger generations have gotten a little spoiled when it comes to life, mostly from the modern luxuries that previous generations never had... but that goes for both genders. Best advice is to try and find people who you share similar interests with, and to grow from there. Age really isn't all that important if/when you connect with someone, especially if you share multiple interests.
Went to my dad's 80'th birthday last weekend. He brought out some family memorabilia and gave me a box full of stuff of my grandfather's. He said that maybe if I "get busy" I might have some kids of my own some day to give this too. My step-sister said something like "Yeah, that will never happen." I want to find someone. I'm willing to put in the work needed to be whatever unreasonable characature of a man women want me to be, but I just don't see a pay off. Aside from children, which I really want, the cost and risks are just too high. I'm 47, financially stable, fairly content, and the idea of inviting some woman who has been cop hopping the last 20 years into my life and becoming her property in marriage is not very appealing. My dad just doesn't understand. I think most women are incapable of understanding. It's gotten to the point where every woman I see looks hideous to me no matter how young they are. It's like I live in a country full of Gollums all running around just trying to get whatever they want and living without a conscience or concern for anyone else. Why would I want to be married to someone like that?
The.National.Blade a strong personal relationship with God (Jesus Christ) can set you free from this mind prison that many of us have also experienced. If your already closed to the one true God then ask Him for His guidence.
" I think most women are incapable of understanding" So you think women are too stupid to understand? Your negative opinion of women will drive away any woman who meets your criteria..
This place as you mentioned with girls who cheat on men with cops will never backslide into nuclear family values again. move away or adopt a child as a single male.
Hypergamy is probably the most important because biologically a woman is looking for the guy who is gonna support their future children together. Even if she doesn’t consciously want kids, her attraction and relationship behavior will be as if there are gonna be children in the near future. In fact, every time a woman has sex with a man, her body thinks she’s pregnant with his child and that’s why they become very attached to the guy. But no matter how attached she is, she is still looking out for the imaginary kids and if a better provider or stronger guy comes along who wants her, she’ll at the very least be tempted to trade up. Also, I can confirm the point about women losing interest faster in a relationship. I think it’s because we constantly review the guy we have with how events will turn up in the future and where he stands among the hierarchy of men (that we can realistically have). It’s all purely on a biological level though, just as how a man is more tempted by a beautiful woman than an average one. It’s harsh and it’s true, but some people manage to tame their urges, be more conscious of them and exercise more empathy for others.
Jay Johnson right.. and you must be the type of sucka to carry your girls purse 👛 thru forever 21. Whattaman lets give this anti-shill a round of applause 👏
"Why don't men want to commit anymore?" I should send them the link to this video..... It does nothing but waste time and resources for a man to get involved with a woman and her to do list nowadays.
I thought that this was a pretty interesting series of points. I don't know if I would attribute so much of women's duplicity with slut-shaming though. Yes, slut-shaming happens just not in these instances. In the examples here, women are being duplicitous as a way of securing services and or resources from a guy. That's just the nature of anyone that is trying to get over, they want to keep others in the dark for fear of the other person re-evaluating things too soon. For example, when person is planning on changing jobs they keep it to themselves until a new job is secured and they have to give 2 weeks notice. If they announced their job search earlier then your employer would also start looking for your replacement or maybe even fire you outright with only 2 weeks severance. Same for monkey branching, if a woman said, "I'm leaving but haven't secured the new guy yet" There's a pretty good chance that most guys will just leave her in the lurch, not take her out and stone her to death.
My father always told me this tip when I started dating. Don't marry a beautiful woman bc then you'll be miserable all your life. Marry a slightly 'less attractive' woman and you'll have a happy marriage. He always spoke in these parables. It means if you if you marry an attractive woman, you'll always be worrying if she's cheating, and trying hard to "keep her" attention. Asia premise, have the girl chase you and you'll have a happy marriage. I of course married a gorgeous woman and she divorced me after 5 years. Never once did she care to apologize or be sorry, took 90% of vacations with her gfs, no compassion etc. I now understand.
Your father was right. Never marry a beautiful woman. There's just too many swinging dicks out there. You may be better than all of them some of the time, or some of them all of the time. But you'll never be better than all of them all of the time. Its only a matter of time before she sees one she likes better than you. Then you're doomed. She'll find a reason to divorce to you. She'll fabricate one if she has to, but it will happen.
I tend to agree with this and practice, but - better is good for a reason, because it's better. And if you don't challenge yourself constantly you are not doing the fundamental thing that makes you male and makes you more attractive - COMPETING! Being human is a constant process of curiosity, discovery, and survival - if we stop learning we cease to live and only exist. Rise to the challenge of living - just remember to never be afraid because there are always plenty more where she came from - and if you feel that way she will sense it - women just know when they have a guy who doesnt need her quite as much as she needs him.
@Skyly because they can, and guys fuck everything they see, and that's why it has to stop finaly. Be a man and get your drives under control, it's about time.
