Yup this is me...been with this person for more than 11 years😕and i know for a fact this is not the person God wants for me. I have three children, two of which is his and unfortunately i am financially dependant on him...i know, it's bad. Staying just because we got nowhere else to go. No love, no respect, no helping with the kids, no communication, no commitment, no nothing. I'm the only one willing to grow in God. Should've left years ago. Hoping i can come back to this comment in the near future and edit it with a great testimony🙏
I don’t think we should be divorcing because we are not equally yoked. There are a lot of scriptures about divorce, but this one sticks out most to me. Matthew 19:9 And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.
1 Corinthians 7 speaks alot of marriage and says not to divorce just because you're unequally yoked as well. For that person who is an unbeliever could become saved through their spouse being used by God.
Mark 10 says this also. In fact this is the verse that God showed me that confirmed I wasn’t gonna marry the right partner. It’s best to not get married than to divorce because the covenant never divorced til death
I’m getting read tonight by binge watching your videos 😑 this was me!!! I stayed with my ex for 5 whole years and the IGNORANT and flat out stupid thing about it was I KNEW THAT our relationship wasn’t God ordained THEE WHOLE TIME!! We didn’t talk about God and when I would bring Him up, things got tense. Ay yai yai… what was I thinking 🤦🏾♀️ and we always argued about premarital sex. He wanted it while I didn’t and knew it was against God. I felt trapped because I thought “I don’t wanna date” and that my time was running out and he was as good as it gets. Whewwww, I wish you could have special guests on your podcast because I would love to share my story as well. Thank you again, Nick, for these videos!
in response to point 1: Its sooo true, you'll find yourself bickering a lot more and any advice given by them during times when you're in need, falls flat as it's never rooted from the Word of God
mere truth my brother. I also feel that I walked out of my previous relationship because it was according to God's will in order for me to serve Him fully.
I just left my relationship it hurts God told me to move quickly it was a huge burden in my heart but thank God I’m free from that bondage I’m save in Christ.
I feel like this but in friendships. I've struggled so much over the past year because I didn't want to leave anyone behind or turn my back on any one. But I feel God changing my path and I've planted seeds but all the signs that you mentioned I felt in some capacity to friendships because they are not growing in Christ at all and encouraging me in sin. They're blind to what they are doing which caused me to feel so sad and depressed that I turned to things that God wants me to die to because it's the old version of who I was. God isn't allowing me to walk in my purpose because I'm not letting go and allowing him to heal them and turn them to him. I'm trying to save them but it's not my battle. It hurts so much but I feel alone already in friendship plus it's not like they did anything which makes it worse. But I'm full in Christ when I gravitate to him . So I know he's the ultimate choice. I'm not alone with Christ. But I don't know what's ahead and it's terrifying. But I want to chose what will matter for my eternity and the people I feel deep inside of me that God wants me to reach. Just anyone who sees this and reads to the end please pray for me and this battle I'm in and for victory over this.
I need help and prayers. My wife and I have fit this criteria for a long time. I have absolutely felt trapped and miserable. I feel like I am unable to connect with God in the way that I crave, and part of that is because of my marriage. But I know that the Lord hates divorce. So I really don’t know what to do.
Pray about it. Pray for restoration and salvation over them. If you both started out not saved and then got married, God doesn't say to leave them for by you that person can become saved by God using you. You just never know.
I think you were maybe talking about a spouse, and that's sort of where my thinking started. But so far these actually speak to a friendship that I had. For some time I have been told it is toxic, and unhealthy and just bad and for the sake of her soul I tried to endure with her, to show her Jesus. The friendship kind of ended in a ball of flames, and it has more than once, and somehow she has just creeped back in time and time again. And recently 2 people I care about just got real with me about needing to just move on from her. That the friendship is just too toxic. And the points you have made have kind of been answers to my prayers about her. I was praying that God would show me what to do. And the last few days I feel he has made it clear that I need to move on from this friendship. And this video is kind of the nail in the coffin. So thank you for sharing Nick. God Bless!
Hey Nick can you pray for me. I usually don’t ask others to but I have deep respect for you. You are more Christlike then anyone I know of in the elect. I am desperate and blamed God for all of the evil that I have done and still have denial in me. It’s deep I don’t have the words to explain but maybe could use a brother for help: I’m a wolf.
Thank you so much for this video. It was like I was going through a play by play of everything I've been feeling and dealing with. I know what I need to do now. Please pray for me I love we this woman but we just aren't right for one another 😔
What if it isn’t clear? What if at different times I have opposite answers to each of your questions? What if sometimes we have amazing conversations about God, and then sometimes we get in such intense arguments that I feel like I’m being pulled away from God? Nothing is clear to me. Every answer is a gray area and it’s been that way for years and I have no idea what to do with it. I don’t have that “gut feeling” that God gives for either direction. What if I waste my life away because I couldn’t figure it out?
I haven't been in a couples-relationship for several years and I have sinned a lot before God got me. I still have bad relationships to my family members and it is so tricky. There are issues with bounderies and trust. I can see that some of that is causing me to gamble and sin in other ways like gossiping and being angry. These messed up family relationships and unforgivness is the reason I don't have a husband as well because it takes up the space that is supposed to be his. I am seeing it that way but maybe I am wrong. Please God help me change myself and the situationships. 😢 I want to be a bride and there needs to be a clean-up of the space for this to be able to happen. Mother-daughter issues.
I get you. I do. However, that's tye reason we are to date before marriage. Because, doesn't like divorce either. I'm happy you're happy now and have the chance to do it right thus time ❤️
2 Corinthians 6:14-18 New King James Version 14 Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what [a]fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what [b]communion has light with darkness? 15 And what accord has Christ with Belial? Or what part has a believer with an unbeliever? 16 And what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For you[c] are the temple of the living God. As God has said: “I will dwell in them And walk among them. I will be their God, And they shall be My people.” 17 Therefore “Come out from among them And be separate, says the Lord. Do not touch what is unclean, And I will receive you.” 18 “I will be a Father to you, And you shall be My sons and daughters, Says the Lord Almighty.”
Im a sex worker n iv been wit my "man" for 11 years now, but iv been really wanting to leave the situation... please pray for me! I kno my testimony would touch many ppl, if i could only break this soul tie!
Your a beautiful rose 🌹 and a child of God. Don't be afraid of leaving behind what you know is killing your soul and purpose to be you. You deserve to be respected, protected and taken care of by a genuine and a emotionally mature grown man that has God's love in he's heart. Other wise us women become victims to broken men .. I pray you find peace and happiness and strength 🙏🏻 Jesus had he's beautiful hand on your shoulder guiding you
After almost 14 years, my boyfriend and I just stop talking to each other, a lot happend before that, we were not in the same page, even though I loved him so much I knew deep inside of me our relationship was not the best for neither one of us. I wanted him to be happy and I was not what he needed, how did I know that? Little things through the last couple of years of our relationship. I wanted to be his wife, he kept given excuses why it wasn't the right time to move forward, I felt guilty and ashamed with God, because I was living a sinful life . We did let go of each other, I got closer to God, but my heart still aches for him, I know that makes me a baby Christian. Pray for me. Thank you!
What if it isn’t clear? What if at different times I have opposite answers to each of your questions? What if sometimes we have amazing conversations about God, and then sometimes we get in such intense arguments that I feel like I’m being pulled away from God? Nothing is clear to me. Every answer is a gray area and it’s been that way for years and I have no idea what to do with it. I don’t have that “gut feeling” that God gives for either direction. What if I waste my life away because I couldn’t figure it out? My situation sounds very similar to yours. I’ve wanted to be with him for years, and there have always been reasons why he hasn’t been ready.
What if it isn’t clear? What if at different times I have opposite answers to each of your questions? What if sometimes we have amazing conversations about God, and then sometimes we get in such intense arguments that I feel like I’m being pulled away from God? Nothing is clear to me. Every answer is a gray area and it’s been that way for years and I have no idea what to do with it. I don’t have that “gut feeling” that God gives for either direction. What if I waste my life away because I couldn’t figure it out? My situation sounds very similar to yours. I’ve always wanted to be with him, but there’s always been reasons why he hasn’t been ready. It’s been 9 years now
The guy I've been with for the last 4 years I literally have to beg him to talk to me about God he is the kind of person who would rather talk about I don't know the newest Pokemon game instead of God. Yeah literally doesn't even believe that we're in the end of days right now things that we still have a thousand years before the end of days. Also another way is the Lord can talk to you in like in my situation this is what he told me he said that I could stay if I want to but he doesn't think that I should because he believes that I am worth more than what I am putting up with and tolerating and that he feels the way this man treats me doesn't add up to my worth
What if it isn’t clear? What if at different times I have opposite answers to each of your questions? What if sometimes we have amazing conversations about God, and then sometimes we get in such intense arguments that I feel like I’m being pulled away from God? Nothing is clear to me. Every answer is a gray area and it’s been that way for years and I have no idea what to do with it. I don’t have that “gut feeling” that God gives for either direction. What if I waste my life away because I couldn’t figure it out?
I felt compelled to respond with this. God is not the author of confusion. We usually know the answer in our soul but desperately hope for another. I spent 7 years in the same situation. Praying for you.
@@ashcastro4841 but I don’t know the answer in my soul. I truly don’t. I have wrestled with it a lot, never truly knowing. Several times I have asked God for a sign, saying something like show me this sign for yes, or this sign for no, and then I get both
Last way to know: u have a dream that u are fighting demons and that he is one of them....for the second time! Man, i'm out! God show me the way out of this demonship. 🙏🏿 😂 Also the night before that dream, i had a dream i was trapped in an elevator. 😅so yeah, I FEEL TRAPPED!!
I guess the question is if it's God (and you're sure) why are you resisting it? Jeremiah 29:11. Don't get me wrong, test ALL spirits but if God is the one that is moving you in this direction, then it's probably best to yield. And If you are resisting because you're not quite sure it's God, then stay in the place of prayer until you have that revelation 🙂.
@@honeydale3646 What if it isn’t clear? What if at different times I have opposite answers to each of your questions? What if sometimes we have amazing conversations about God, and then sometimes we get in such intense arguments that I feel like I’m being pulled away from God? Nothing is clear to me. Every answer is a gray area and it’s been that way for years and I have no idea what to do with it. I don’t have that “gut feeling” that God gives for either direction. What if I waste my life away because I couldn’t figure it out?
These 5 things are criteria or rules or conditions, not signs. Attributes, rules, criteria, or conditions are not signs. A feeling or life situation is not a sign from God. None of these 5 things require a God, except #5 "Is your relationship with God stagnant or improved?". If the title was rules instead of signs, it would be more accurate. Otherwise, you are giving the impression that God is giving you a sign to do something (e.g. to move on from a relationship).
