Some men are trying to find a way to heal from being cheated on. Sexualizing the act of a partner with someone else other than you sometimes quells the pain from infidelity. Some men discover this kink; heal from trauma, and then discard the kink altogether. The most fearful image a man can create in his head is his romantic and emotional attachment being taken away from him because hes viewed as inferior. It is a very real fear thats rooted in loneliness and lack of emotional security through no fault of one's own. Many men are hurting and trying to find a way to create a reality where that hurt is processed as pleasure because theres seemingly no other way to heal, or forget the images in your head of a loved one cheating.
Or finding out my gf was spitroasted by 2 huge dicks before I met her was what started the idea of mfm fetish. Just as you said above. Was traumatized and then found a way to shut off the pain. Been 20 years since and I'm still setting up mfm 3 somes with my girlfriends.
Bro really looked up "5 signs you're a cuckold", found out he fit all of them, got angry and changed his name to "Proud European Male" and started idolizing facism hoping it's going to come and help him. That's so fucking funny.
I can remember being at a bar and this woman started talking to me and she was very touchy feely with me then she introduced her boyfriend,but he was being all quiet. For me it felt awkward, but thinking back I think he told her lets go out to the bar and bring a guy home and you sleep with him.
@@KyleC0430 No it was a blonde chick talking to me being all touchy feely why he was just sitting there being quiet. She introduced him to me as her boyfriend. I was weirded out and when she got the idea I wasn't interested she pulled out her make up mirror and started fixing her make up and proceeded to look around at other men at the bar. At the time I ain't even know about this fetish. If I did I would have been interested.
@@user-nu4um2gr3d haha I was just messing with you man but yea it’s actually very prevalent more so then we realize!, a friend of mine met a lady at the bar went back to her house after bar hours and when they arrived at the house as they went in the husband was there making drinks and my buddy was very surprised and did not know what to think , he thought like she was cheating and caught but she proceeded to ask and explain the situation so buddy agreed to it and the husband set back and watched them, that night and ended up being several more occasions he got off to it
I'm not sure that everyone is the same, or that we can reduce this fetish to a few "signs." I think these 5 signs can apply to some men in some situations but not in all cases. But for example, I don't think you have to be secretly gay to have a cuck fetish, or that watching porn gives guys the idea. I'm not even sure it comes from a sense of inferiority. For some men, it could be the thrill or fear of their partner having sex with another man,. Jealousy can be a powerful aphrodisiac. Cuckoldry can just be a way to spice up a relationship. Or, it can be a way for some men to sexualize the fear of losing someone.
Disappointing, truly disappointing. Trying to justify your weak as$ and leading people astray. Don't try to justify you weak actions by making people do it as you do.
Agreed, I unfortunately had a very large ego years ago and never felt inferior to most men, just saw them as other people and not competition, but the thoughts of sharing a partner was definitely a fun idea, but not exactly to the extend of belittling myself and inducing potentially toxic behaviour in said relationship.
There is a point every video fails to recognize, and is that a man may like his women so much and is so obsessed with her sexuality that he fantasize with watching the whole scene from a 3rd person view, without involving any of the points most videos explain.
When a husband is excited and enjoys his wife having sex with another man in front of him, the encounter may gradually graduate to the wife asking the husband to do certain things for the other man (the bull) such as fluffing him for her (I hope you know what fluffing means). I have heard of cuckolds who are not gay nor bi, but when they get with the wife and her lover acts gay for the bull's pleasure@Syphon-hw2hj
This is impossible. Porn only makes what exists come to light faster. Even if a non-gay person watches thousands of gay porn, he will never become gay. He won't watch it anyway.
Guys ignore all of this it’s utter bullcrap. You either have the fetish or you don’t, it’s really as simple as that. These “signs” are irrelevant and really oversimplify things. You can show all 5 signs and NOT be into it or you can show NONE of these signs and be totally into it, or anywhere in-between. I’m not sure if these videos are even meant to be taken seriously or not anyway, they may just be for entertainment purposes only but either way, ask yourself if you’re really into it. Fellas, take your time and properly think about it. If it makes you feel depressed, anxious and insecure, you probably aren’t into it. If it really gets you going and you get all hot thinking about it, you probably are but trust your OWN instincts and don’t let anyone else decide for you cause you’ll know yourself better than anyone else. Your brain is powerful and can trick you into believing things so be very very careful what you consume
If not being competitive is the way then basically an average joe can assume superiority or even a low level deadbeat. When you are competitive then you actually let the superior establish themselves.
cuckold is a man who understands that WOMEN are the REAL GODDESSES and THEY deserve all the possible pleasure. cuckold works very hard, with all his strenghs, to pursue a noble purpose: the biggest pleasure and the biggest happiness for his WOMAN, not only in sex life but also in other fields. cuckold fights for his WOMAN so that SHE obtains all SHE WANTS. he freely, and very smartly, choose to be HER doormat. So also him obtains the biggest happiness too.❤
I did the cuckold thing twice. It was strange. She dressed me up as sissygirl. I watched her have fun with a guy. When she was finished she told me thats how its done sissy.
you must already cheat on your boyfriend very quickly. sleep with friends and acquaintances, virile males. always be sexy in public. deprive him of relations with you. and let everyone know it.
I think this whole fetish is a psycological coping mechanism people experience either because: 1) feeling very inferior to other man 2) having had bad experience of women not respecting them 3) having had bad experience of women cheating/flirting with other man. Or getting rejected often by women to be with other man 4) feeling a pretty women is very superior to them. Almost like a goddess Also that fetish is most of the time only fun in imagination. In real life, the guy gets hurt, sad and depressed. He doesnt enjoy the whole cheating in real life, but do enjoy it in imagination mode
its not something to be proud of, cuckold is the opposite of a real man you know that if you got a gf and someone harrasses her in front of you and do nothing about it then youre a cuckold
She is something like 16 years old? So weird. Kid is talking about such degenerate topics like cuckolding. Anyway it is quite alarming amount of coomers, pedos and simps in comment section.
Big facts. Straight weirdos in the comment section. LoM brought me here. One question, where is the father in all this? I bet he’s super proud of his 16 yr old daughter 🤣 🤡
Hi Bella, I'm an INTP-A Sigma Man. Strong and confident, HUNG and healthy. I see it as so erotic, and the jeleousy comes from intense love. A women seeing the pain knows how hard you love her and thats feels so good for her. The issue of other guys having to be involved takes strength to not dwell on. So much trust and confidence is required to play this.
@@AdamBoomer11 Betas don't have such trouble reading this stuff, they don't care or get so twisted by it. My need to figure things out can drive me nuts. Red Pill has me second guessing what I though I had figured out. Reading about others doing stuff is not always a safe test of our own reactions. This is playing with fire if you play this crazy .If you cook off and hurt the perv she is teasing you with it can't be undone. It's like using a 4ft plank to bridge a 6ft gap. I we perv out with her she will try and take over the control. P whipped in a flash if you play this nasty game.
No, the sissy has no place to do anything, because if the bull shoots early hes most likely gonna do plenty more rounds, shut up and watch sissy you don't get to touch her anymore.
Many of these fit exactly on someone I know! 😝 I think it's really nice that guys who are cuckolds realise it and can live the way that makes them happy!
@@heh6731 no sense denying yourself some of the most incredible sex you will ever experience as a willing and consenting cuckold. It really be mind blowing!
5:28 doesn't necessarily have to be sad... It's a mix of communication and most importantly seeing boundaries and enforcing them. Basically loyalty and respect which say what you will is hard to keep up when you're cleaning up in between or adding the humiliation aspect which isn't everyone...
If anyone wants 5 signs about cockhold, I'm all be too well, I'm too sentimental and not mean forever, so be dreamed about love by improving romantic stuff, I was not giving up, so thanks for requesting that idea
Me pregunto cómo será el toro de mi mujer con la esposa de el si sabrá k se está comiendo a mi mujer. Por lo de sus amigos parece kvson muchos de ellos toros. En díaz pasados hicieron una fiesta y cada uno llevo a su mujer. Mo a la esposa sino con la k estaban viendo el de mi mujer la llevo a ella para lucirla. Escotada y sexi. Toda una p.....ta..a ella le encantó y yo la apoye. Después de todo le dije a ella. Eres su mujer. Y así es
That has worked for me in the past, although I would rather do the cuckold role. Just as enjoyable and you don't have to worry about your macho performance.
This video seems to be more "redpill" than majority of self proclaimed "gurus". This video could save you money on buying ridiculous courses on how to be "alpha".
you must already cheat on your boyfriend very quickly. sleep with friends and acquaintances, virile males. always be sexy in public. deprive him of relations with you. and let everyone know it.
Il willingly treat you like a doormat 24/7 and expose you to your family so they can see your true colours, your tough guy act will be gone once i'm around, so you better know your place really quick.
Wow Bella, I have the exact 5 signs and never thought they were signs I thought I am just made to be a cuck. I really appreciate your explanation as it makes it more understandable ❤ much appreciated ☺️
I match all these but I don’t think my girl would Cu¢k me .. she says she doesn’t want other guys but it think she just thinks I’d ask for other girls… if I could explore guys with her and watch her do the same I’d be the happiest guy
Talk to her about it while assuring her that you don't need reciprocity. I have been the third party/bull many times after convincing men to have sincere conversations with their wives. Both the cucks AND the wives thanked me.
My wife would not go along with it for fear that I would retaliate and want sex with other women. When I finally was able to convince her that it was not the case she totally went for it. She has enjoyed the company of several men with my full permission. To this day she loves me like never before and would never cheat on me unliess I gave her the approval first.
When we first got into it. My wife (who is very jealous) feared the same. I went out of my way to reassure her that I had no desire to be with another woman, but only wanted for her to experience other men. I made her my queen and showered her with love, gifts and affection each time she would just flirt with another guy. Eventually she figured that my enjoyment came from watching her be sexually active with others.
I think you are only talking about the men you know of. I enjoy cockolding before I know there was a name for it. And I enjoy it because I love seeing my woman being pleased. Either by me, another man or another woman. I competed in sports. I don't think some man that may be bigger than me is going to take my woman. And I'm not in the closet. We don't do it on the regular, more like something to spice up our sex life. Sometimes we use toys other times we use people.
@@alwaysright3943 I bet someone being honest about his fetish within an open (youtube) conversation (malone) would beat a keyboard warrior beta who is barking in the comment section (you) anyday in any discipline (especially in the discipline "your wife / girlfriend") without even trying.
@@FelixS. Lol I’m sorry you got personally offended my dude. I realize that there are hierarchies to men and some are born to watch better men do what they never could, but I don’t know why you feel called out and seething in impotent rage? It’s not like I forced you to become a kuk lmao.
TODAY I WENT PUBLIC IN MY SKIRT LIKE DRESS! SO BEAUTIFUL FEELING! FELT SO FEMININE I WANT TO LIVE LIKE A WOMAN FROM NOW ON! SO GOOD FEELING IT WAS! 🎉❤❤❤❤
Miss Bella.. you do a very good job with your POV/ASMR Femdom videos and I wish you would create more of them, but as much as I don't like to criticize, ( and don't like the "alhpa" and "beta" stereotype labels ), ..and with all due respect,.as a so called "beta male" with a submissive AND cuckold fetish, I can confidently tell you that your psycho-analysis of "beta males" and those with sub of cuck fetishes ( not only in this video but in many previous videos ) is SO wrong on SO many levels and to be honest, a little insulting and hurtful. It would take entirely too long to respond to all of your opinions in the comment section and I have never made a RU-vid video, but I may have to make one just to respond to all the "anti-beta/simp" rhetoric I've heard spouted by so called "alpha" macho-ists and the women who worship them, on RU-vid,.. and to stand up for "beta males". Just a few quick points I DO wont to make right now... 1) I have had a "beta" personality all my life and I believe I was born with it. My choice of erotic media feeds my fetishes, but DID NOT create them OR my "beta" personality. 2) I can be the most submissive of submissives to the right deserving woman when we are engaging in such an interaction or relationship, but I am NOT, nor do I FEEL inferior to ANYONE, ( ESPECIALLY not to "alphas"), and would NOT let ANY random person order or push me around. 3) I have been a so called "beta" all my life and I've done MORE than fine with women...even some who were in relationships with "alphas" who neglected them at the time, and have gotten the "why can't all guys be as sweet as you" line more than once by girlfriends and wives of self-centered neglectful "alphas" who were just far too "manly" to give their women time and "girl-attention". 4) This " super hero/salt of the earth" status you give to so called "alpha males" can be disputed and debunked on many levels and with much evidence. 5) There is a fine art to being a good Dominatrix and knowing how to give the client the kind of domination and humiliation he desires when he is willingly in the submissive role, without actually belittling him in reality and making him feel "less than" as a human being or like the "incorrect and unwanted" type of male who is a "threat to society". Dominatrix dominating and personality shaming are not the same thing. Please take what I have said as the constructive criticism it is intended to be.
you must already cheat on your boyfriend very quickly. sleep with friends and acquaintances, virile males. always be sexy in public. deprive him of relations with you. and let everyone know it.
you must already cheat on your boyfriend very quickly. sleep with friends and acquaintances, virile males. always be sexy in public. deprive him of relations with you. and let everyone know it.
I match all these but I don’t think my girl would Cu¢k me .. she says she doesn’t want other guys but it think she just thinks I’d ask for other girls… if I could explore guys nwith her and watch her do the same I’d be the happiest guy
