@@michaelbanks7803 Exactly, they say all that tough stuff but homeboy had at least 26 women during this relationship. So yea, bro is toxic, BUT why are so many ladies attracted to these qualities in men. Then they wonder why so many men strive to be like this dude...they get all the women.
He was honest and told her he can't give her what she wants. She needs to move on b4 she gets something she can't get rid of. Sorry but I'm leary of grown men over 25 w gold teeth.
To the first couple: Ma’am in the red, LEAVE HIM & go get tested.. the entire panel of transmitted disease tests. He’s not going to change no time soon. You’re hurting but you need to focus on yourself, I thought you was working on yourself anyway.
Absolutely how triflin!!! You exposing her..and I know u can't tell by looks but he don't look like he wraps it up...just reckless all across the board
Especially 25 times smh, he ain’t her guy but she can’t see it, she has to see her worth and know what she deserve. Man peace means everything to me I ain’t retaliating I’m just gone bounce smh we got this life so LIVE it.
His revelation made me puked in my own mouth! This girl is frickin' gorgeous! Men will be scrambling around to line up to date her! She clearly has business acumen and education - so, she is sexy and intelligent! Why the actual fcuk would this delightful, stunning, utterly sweet young lady need to attach herself to this pile of steaming dog shit? Hun, you can do better. So, do better. Sending a mother’s love all the way from 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
The first woman 👠 is soooo beautiful. I bet she's such a great woman.... just might be a tad bit insecure & unfortunately in love with a disloyal person. I hope she sees her worth 💔😔
As a Nigerian, this makes me sad because these are the kind of unscrupulous people that make us look bad. You dont need no visa to travel from Nigeria to Ghana and it is just a day trip by road so if he truly loved this woman, he would have made the trip. It is such a shame to see people like this parading themselves out there trying to scam people not only of there of their heard earned money but also their hearts, emotions and time. SHAME!!!
It breaks my heart and makes me dejected when i hear and see disoriented,demented and ignominious Nigerian scamming people and given us bad name and image with.unscruplous love. This is scandalous .Anyway there are still credible Nigerians out there in the States doing great work that will help to cancel out this idiotic man's antics. He cant even go to ghana that u dont need a passport to go. Terrible man
Well said !!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I agree with you 💯💯 everyone know that is the biggest scam that come out of 🇳🇬Nigerian are KNOWN TO HAVE ONLINE SCAMS !! BUT YESSSS I DONT BLAME YOU !! It’s makes your country look bad , I know lots Nigerian men & women that are BEAUTIFUL SOULS , BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE!!! ❤️ NOT ALL NIGERIANS ARE SCAMMERS !!! Love from Toronto Canada 🇨🇦
LADIES!!! Never let a man drag you. It breaks my heart to hear this young lady say he is "breaking her down". When a man lies and cheats on you it is a form of abuse. It does break you down. Been there and done that..but never again. I will NEVER give anyone that type of power over me. If you can't be the man I need and deserve...keep moving. I don't have time for the bullshit.
I understand we're coming from cause I have been in a relationship recently we're I was feeling like I was in a relationship but no body was in love but me you no when a man call's you out your a try to belittle you and I had to get out of that relationship cause I was feeling myself losing my self and becoming some body I wasn't an almost on the breaking down I was starting to feeling myself won'ting to flash out and black out at the same time and I knew if I would not have gotten out of that relationship I probably would have ended up in jail or something and I no that is something I don't won't to be so I decided to just get out of it and give him back to the streets and let go and let God redirect my self and I have feeling free every since the day I walked off from that relationship.
It's annoying when people say they stay with someone who blatantly disrespects them and say it's due to love. It's never due to loving someone so much it's due to the lack of love for self.
CHEATING IS NOT A MISTAKE.... IT IS A CHOICE. A CONSCIOUS DECISION. Men and or Women, STOP USING THE WORD CHEAT. You made the DECISION TO BE UNFAITHFUL TO YOUR PARTNER..... PERIOD.🙏🏾👑🌹
After a man says he cannot commit to one woman or women only get one physical piece of him....NO NEED TO CONTINUE. Girl, dry your eyes, fix that crown and WALK AWAY!!
This poor women who lost her husband and her son is blinded by grief and I pray she finds a good man who can hold her and be her companion she does need these types of brothers!!!
@@angelaburse6485Wtf do you mean 'all men from Africa are scammers'? I'm typing this from Kenya, East Africa and I know I am an upstanding citizen in my country and I earn my income legally.
Let’s NOT normalize BUYING dudes! My grandfather told me this & every time I went against his advice I suffered: “A man will take a hand up & when he’s up he’s going to repay you in some way! F-boys will snatch handouts & believe ONLY their PRESENCE IS SUFFICIENT FOR YOU”!
Karamo I love how you are not judgy. You deal with some sensitive topics that are not to be taken lightly. You do a wonderful job at that and you have a great way of finding the words to help make a person feel like they are not being attacked. Great job!
In the first case, the woman seems to be supporting the guy financially so that's why he is with her. He is playing mind games but she is not going to leave him.
It's definitely not a mistake, that's just who he is, and it's never gonna stop. I really hope that she'll get the strength to move on, he's just gonna keep doing the same thing, and she'll just continue getting her heart broken. He will never be faithful, it's just a lost cause.
My sister flew to Nigeria, married him, came back… this man waited the whole 5 years and soon as he got his citizenship he left her. She came home from work and he cleared out his side of the room and even took his African food yall smh. Do not talk to these people online. I worked at western Union and money gram and I would see women coming in every couple of days sending thousands of dollars to these men in Nigeria. They will wait 20 damn years if that’s what it takes to get their green card. Also, after they get their green card they will fly their African wife/ family down to be with them. My sister met his family which had already lived in Phoenix Arizona…they were all in on it.
They do the same in South Africa, they target women who always codependent and use them to collect cash or marry them to get the ID.after few years in SA they then apply for Visas to Canada mostly or other country as it is easy to approve applications if its not from Nigeria. Ghanaians are exactly the same
Karamo, you did a fantastic job in this segment! I love how you speak and articulate the matter and help guests find a sense of resolve in their personal lives, it's so refreshing.
It’s hard when you want to be open with someone but you have to reserve something. Telling someone your entire history and what you’ve been through can sometimes give the wrong person the blueprint to say and do what it takes to get you.
My mom is been dating a iNigerian and he doesn’t want to FaceTime . I am against as well as my other siblings . I feel like he’s scamming her . She’s sent him money and he’s never even given her a dime . She believes a he’s going too come here and marry her . He’s called from a Broward county number. My prayers that this lady listens. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I've dated Nigerian men and they're scammers one asked me for money and I told him no and he got mad at me actually a lot of them asked me for money and when I said no they got mad at me I was supposed to go on a date with a Nigerian man who was a car salesman and he lived in my city and state so he said I got dressed up and he canceled on me saying that he didn't feel like driving to my house
Why are these women out here buying clothes and cars for men ? The more you do for a man, the more he’s gonna take advantage of you and disrespect you. I’m embarrassed for y’all. Have some self respect!!!
A year ago today my best friend in the world suddenly passed away and I'm still devastated. I still cant make it past a few days without crying. However, friend suggested that I see a grief counselor and I will go see them after the Labor Day Weekend! Thank you for the grieving advice.❤
God bless you. I too lost a very best friend the beginning of the year. I think I need counseling as well. I know exactly the pain you're going through 😓
First guest is super funny. “I used to date toxic guys.” Current guy is a toxic guy. Haven’t learned anything. She never wanted a nice guy to begin with.
U NO ITS KRAZI, WEN PPL COM N UR LIFE PAINTING DA PERFECT PICTURE, JUS 2FIND OUT A YEAR LATER HE AIN'T 💩 NOW U GOT 2FALL OUT V LUV WHICH IZ 10X'S HARDER 2DO, THEN IT WUZ 2FAIL N LUV? SHEESH JUS GOT 2PRAY ON IT & WALK OUT ON FAITH 🙏🏾🙏🙏🏿💯💯💯
Tameeka needs to run from that 5 year relationship with the man in Nigeria, who she has never met. He is definitely manipulating her. It is very possible that he is already married with a family already. I hope she reads this. Run, Tameeka, run!
It not low self esteem did you hear her say she lost her husband of 13 years and he Son got kill she is grieving she probably need help counseling nothing to do with low self esteem but you will come on here and judge her like your life is so holy only on RU-vid.
@@MarkJohnson-xs1ql…she also has low self esteem. IN ADDITION to complicated grief and loneliness. Multiple things can be right at the same time. Relaaaaaxxxx❤
Cheating 25 times to break the person you claim you love. You only stop when they are dead and gone. What will you do about it. Then another vulnerable woman will fall in the same trap? Girl run for your self. He’s selfishness PERIOD!!!
If someone cheats once, leave; the trust is broken. You can forgive them, but you'll never forget. 25 times? God forbid he brings back an STI or worse; something incurable.
Karamo, you're spot on. Lagos to Ghana is about 5 to 7 hours drive or 45 mins by air; and for a Nigerian who owns a passport, movement along the West Africa region is visa free. For her to have come all the way to Ghana and the guy didn't make the effort to go see her is a huge red flag! She can't marry who she doesn't know very well. In Africa, we rarely jump into marriages until we know each other's relatives / background, and get approval from our elderly ones who bless the marriage with their prayers.
My mom is in the same situation lost my dad in 2020 her husband all she does is go online and Nigerians have groomed her to a point that she trusts anyone more than her family even after warning her so many times she speaks to these scammers sad really
@@shineright5818this actually is true. Obviously not everybody in Africa. But there’s people that will admit they learn from an early age to catfish and scam
Tomicka, you are way too beautiful, classy and smart to put up with this. You deserve a man that puts you first. ❤ I know it will be hard but please find a real partner
To the woman dealing with the Nigerian man, sorry to tell you sis but you’ve been duped. And thank God your family cares enough to stop that nonsense before it got too far.
I can tell he cares for her by the look he gives her however, he has a sexual addiction and that's a recipe for disaster. She appears to be a Queen and hopefully knows her worth. I wish them both the best 💞
He does not geniually care about her. He may, in fact, have a sexual problem. But the brother does not care for her. That's NOT LOVE! LOVE NEVER HURTS 😢
She needs to leave him she needs to run really fast away he doesn't see what hes doing is wrong therefore hes not gonna change she's worth so much more she is not deserve it and he is a clown !! He deserves ANYTHING SHE DISHES OUT ! Nobody wants a cheater I don't care if you can cook or anything else He's wrong He don't care He's hurting her He don't really love her.
I agree, she is still grieving and the Fake lover is manipulating and taking advantage of her in her time of vulnerability. You can't love nobody you have never met...and in 5 Years!! No effort to do anything for her or meet her. He has nothing to offer her but lies, lies and more lies!!! Wishing Tameeka the best!
What Men don’t understand is that once a woman gets to the point of giving her body to another person IT’S REALLY OVER for you. She was ALREADY mentally checked out and the physical was all that was left.
This! Cause majority of the comments about double standards are from men but they break women down and cheat then look shocked and hurt when they play the reverse uno
I am confused, so the first woman wants to be with a man she has had to help purchase clothes, tires etc….???? What is he bringing to the table? A real man would never depend on a woman for these things! Why are some women so desperate and thirsty?
Why are you still with him. He is a cheater and he can’t stop cheating. Don’t be a doormat. Multiply that number he gave by 12. Let him go. He is telling you that you are not enough for him. Just say bye to this relationship.
And his sorry a** been keeping up with the number of times he’s cheated? Sheesh if that isn’t lowdown idk what is!! At this age and stage in life you can’t blame nobody but yourself 🤦🏾♂️ hope this dear woman can find peace and solace. Very sad situation!
Second woman is being catfished. I feel for her. He is scamming her. So sad. He took advantage of her grieve and she is now hooked in. So sad. Hope she moves on, gets therapy and dates someone from the same country as her
It's a lot of people rockin this style and I have to say I agree with you. It's not cute at all.. They are trying to hold on to a fade with dreads but it's just not givin😭
Why cheat? Just be single! I will never go through my husband's 📱 not because I don't know code but it's invasive to me personally. Everyone is different
Never ever trust a man 100%….. even when things are good….do check their phones regularly n they should be able to go through yours too, why secrecy in a relationship???????
That last story is so sad! Now she has to grieve this fake relationships - some people are so cruel to take advantage of a women at her weakest. Makes me sick and hope for karmic retribution.
Luv luv luv Karamo!! He is so fine. The guy in the velvet jacket is a waste of her time. He's for the streets...let him enjoy the trips to the clinic for his Std's
The lady who fell in love online. This is only the beginning, he is gonna cause more harm to you, ask me. I even believe that the lady hasn't disclosed all the info bcs she's protecting that guy. There's no way that he found it difficult to come to see her when she was in Ghana. That's a pure 🚩
The young lady spoke of the fact that in the States we can freely travel from state to state, but she doesn't seem to be aware that Ghana and Nigeria are two different countries, so of course you would need a passport. 😶
They need passports but they don't need visas to travel between countries. If he's an African citizen he can travel to most African countries visa free. I know the visa offices be trifling but I've never heard of a passport being held up unless they didn't have their papers
I’m tired of hearing the “there are no good women out here or none left at all” then once they find one they treat her like 💩. It doesn’t matter how good you are to a man or woman they will do what they want to do regardless. You cheat once you will do it again.
