Every time they say like oh, hes no good. I don't want him, but if it's Chad, they want that guy, you know, hes the millionaire. And what happens to the good guys? They say fine, go with Chad I hope he take cares of you nicely It's not gonna last long mgtow is raising. 😎💯
@Tauraaa Act like a wife and you'll get proposed to. act like a husband and you'll get proposed to? Really? Women about to start proposing as often as men?
@@tauraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaafunny many of us men dont act as such, we are as such. Its how our values are, to our core. Yet if you dint know most women dont like good men, those who put the time in. Those who take thing slow. Those of us who dont sleep with ya'll on the first date. We are getting ignored by ya'll out on the streets and we are happy because we dont have drama in our live. Your life choices did this to you.
If you're a westerner and paying for your dates, you might as well just date abroad lol. There you still pay for your dates...but at least the women are hotter and more traditional.
@@LillyMarzSheps If he was any older than 17 when he married you, nowadays he would get accused of being a p3dophile for that and you'd be considered some sort of victim. -_- Marrying when young is actively discouraged in multiple ways these days, despite that arguably being a much better time to get married especially for women, and ESPECIALLY if you want many children.
I told a girl, who liked me, that I wanted to marry her, when I was about 20, and she was 18. She said to me, "Oh, I love you, and I'm sure that that would be great, but I am just now entering my early 20s. This is a time for girls to explore, have sex with a lot of different men, and party. So that's what I'm going to do." And that is, indeed, exactly what she did. And I see that her decision is not all that different from what most young women her age take up, both then (about 25 years ago,) and today.
Next thing you know your 30 and your still hopeful but more than likely a blind idiot and you'll try to settle down but actually you'll fight for love till your 40 and then the menstrual cycle starts to happen and high levels of depression and then bam your 50 year old sad sack of crap. And this is just for the ones who survive this long.
Shouldn’t dudes take accountability for being promiscuous also? If everyone stopped sleeping around with everything that moves wouldn’t that set the standard?
@@lacarpetrondukemarriottSure. But women control access to sex, so the bulk of the responsibility does lie with them. Anything otherwise is a crime. Not to mention it's drop dead easy for women to get sex, but difficult for the vast majority of men. Therefore the vast majority of men aren't even participating in hookup culture. It's a small percentage that all the women are hooking up with. Thus, the onus is once again moreso on women.
@@blubirdhill2608 no bro. Both need to practice self control and also choosing partners wisely. Stop acting like men have no control over themselves. That makes men sound powerless and pathetic.
More stock in victimhood…at least that’s what they’ve been taught in school and stupid American society. The real world doesn’t give a shh it about that.
"Why aren't they wifing us early?" Heffa, y'all are not passive in all this. These women repeatedly make bad decisions in their youth and then try to blame men for not marrying them.
What was the word that women put on men who do that again?? Oh yeah, grooming... Funny how that word disappear when they complain about not being wived at young age
That's about it. Is one of then supposed to stop halfway and say "you know, I like you. We should get dinner sometime. Get to know eachother." Just mid pump.
It's just like what the late Tony Stark said to Peter:"if you're nothing without your suit then you shouldn't have it." If your woman isn't a wife without the ring then she shouldn't have it!
Most of them will probably discover tye ring doesn't magically give them self-control and self-respect, to the detriment of themselves, their husband, their marriage, and their kids if they have any.
yea it's like strategic investment for young women who want to be a wife to someone their own age. You gotta find the guy who has potential and stick with him while he's broke. The only chance of you finding a trustfund kid in your 20s is if you're also rich. Most dudes in their early 20's aren't looking for a wife either unless they're amish so her point is pretty valid. Young people have the least patience and the most impulsive behavior. Don't start dating until you're 25 and your frontal lobes are developed. Or 18 year old women if you want to be a wife now, date someone who is in their 30's.
That guy at 20 is probably still in school and still trying to decide his life path. He probably doesn't want a serious commitment that could change his goals. After 25 I think would be better. Even a woman at 20 is too young and immature.
What's funny is that one point it sounded like she was trying to speak three different ideas in her head at the same time, she has a lot of chaos in her head.
From a spiritual-science point of view, that is exactly what is happening. It is said that we form a spiritual bond with everyone that we have sex with. So promiscuous people are really harming their psyche. Almost like multiple personality disorder. Watch an interview with one of the retired porn actresses. You can see what I mean. Just like you said too
I met my husband when I was 21. I found him by looking for a good man, not a good paycheck. He supports me and I look after our kids. But when we met, he was a caterer at a hotel and didn't make very much. He was 23. We grew together, we challenged each other to be our best. We messed up together. We laughed our faces off. Next month is our 10 year anniversary .
That has nothing to do with what she just said. Most men at 20 AREN’T looking for wives but you want 20 year old women to get married? Why are 40 year old men even an option.
@@adenise676 When I was 20 I absolutely would have loved to find a woman who was wife material and absolutely would have committed. And I know for a fact most other men would feel the same way if they found a good one. But it took me years after that to find one who was wife material.
@@shanedude91 you are a MINORITY and you know it! So you’re really sitting here saying that majority of men at the age of 20 are ready and want to be married at that age, tied down to one woman?! You’re saying the majority of young men are looking for a wife to marry at age 20?! You can’t expect the young women to be married & not expect the same from our male counterparts. It’s not making sense.
@@Someone_Unknown90 you’re missing the point. Not everyone is capable of being in a committed, long term relationship. If you are, you will find yourself in one. If you just THINK you are, there’s a good chance you’ll end up alone. Simply believing you are good enough has never made anyone good enough.
@@THExMRxLOKKI bro that was literally a whole lotta of nothing lolll, I’ve seen people in long term 20+ year marriages screw it up over nothing, I’ve seen relationships end and those people were literally destined for each other since childhood, I’ve seen two people beat each other up physically for 10+ years but they’re still married and have three wildly successful children. Your pretty naive to think relationships are that simple and that’s the problem with these podcast. These nerd dweebs think they can solve simplify everything including the most complicated concept known to man. A successful healthy long term relationship, it’s a very hard concept, you can’t just “be morally good and not a hoe”, It takes more than that and actually, every grown woman I know who were hoes in their hay day have fantastic daughters with beautiful families, and every traditional conservative mother I know has absolute hoes for daughters like………Hoes bro, see how that works?
Of course she is cause the only men that want her only want her so they can have some adult fun with her and that's all that the guy wants from her and she rejects any guy that would want to possibly marry her so she can say that all guys are the same cause the only guys she has anything to do with her only wants sex and the guys she thinks are too nice or she friend zones them so she can have the argument saying that all guys are the same when she doesn't give the guys who want more from her then just sex a chance. It's her and all the girls who use that argument fault for rejecting all the good guys who want a relationship with her and would marry her possibly so they can feel justified in saying all guys are the same when in reality all the guys she let's have sex with her are all the same.
She's got a point. What she says is men (supposedly) don't want ho3s, but then WHY MEN bang them? A girl with a hoeish attitude wouldn't get NOWHERE if men didn't like to have sex with them
“I don’t know how to….” Girl. I started dating my husband when we were 15. I remember friends asking me about my dating life through high school and some got so angry w me that I wasn’t having sex. One girl told me, “guys don’t like girls that play games” I responded, “I’m not playing hard to get. I AM hard to get.”
I married my high school sweet heart. We been together since 15 and 16. We are 26 and 27 now. The amount of hatred we get for only wanting to be with each other is sick. I get it, yes every relationship has a change at ending. I still rather have it this way than spend my life going from guy to guy to guy. We are not even the type to share views on other couples with people because they instantly think we are judging. Look we don’t care if you been with 1 person or 50. My life isn’t yours. Your life isn’t mine.
Whether you think you can or whether you think you can't both people are right. We operate in life through filters some are better than others. A simple example of this would be I recently bought an older Honda CRV. My son never bothered to mention the car but now he points out every car that looks like ours. You become good and develop a taste for whatever you fixate on . To be completely transparent there is a high to sleeping around and cheating but it is short and fleeting and when compared to the cost it's not worth it. We need to bring back shame and social ostracization to restore the quality of women meaningful numbers like you. But this approach is only effective when everyone in the community holds the standard
Imagine someone telling you people you've never met are going to judge your worth as a mate based on how you've acted with people who you had no plans on settling down with. To her, the context is not the same so that's an entirely different topic, one that she can't accept she's chosen for herself years ago (albeit unknowingly) against her best interest. I'm not surprised if she finds it unreasonable because it kind of is. But marriage is one of the most important choices of any person's life so men are more than justified to be picky for who they want to wife up. She's just mad she's maneuvered herself into such a bad position commitment-wise.
@jokhard8137 Bruh, I don't need to imagine. My mom raised me with such messages as 'Who buys the cow when they get the milk for free' or 'most men just want to get between your legs' 😂 I heeded them but still goofed and picked the wrong guy (I thought we were gonna get married and settle down, he didn't). But my solution wasn't to go get ran through as much as it was trying to establish a new relationship. Then I met my husband a year later 😊 I got my happy ending.
imagine youre eating a sandwich. would you rather eat a sandwich that 100 dudes have fucked or a sandwich that no dudes have fucked? pretty simple concept really. crazy how many people dont understand such simple things.
Getting married at 23 sounds horrific, most people run out of annecdotes in under 6 months. At 76 as the average life expectancy, she’d have 53 years of listening to some dumb ass moan about his favorite team every Sunday.
Also women after she's outstretched below the belt line and has 30 kids running amuck trashing the house: Why can't I marry a reasonable guy? Cuz you had your chance and used yourself up. Now you lose!😂😅
I mean... both parties are at fault. Men and women. Of course women have the last say in this but it's a an issue of the whole society. This madness you see mainly in the western countries, especially English speaking. Some EU countries are not even close to that level like Americans or Brits and the Asian countries are as far away from this bs as possible. You can blame women for giving the access to s*x too easy and you can blame men for allowing a weak society with no values.
I don’t agree, in my 20s I was a virgin, never been asked out, quiet , good girl plain Jane girl. All wifey material are not always found. You have to be available and seen. The guys in my church wanted a certain type of girl which I wasn’t. I’m in my late 30s and get more looks. I felt invisible in my 20s. It’s strange. I felt jealous if the 20 something that was getting married, but they were all good looking…it is LA though.
I’m very skinny, 5’7 130. I was actually 10-15 pounds skinnier in my 20s. You didn’t have to be rude with it. I was just mentioning it doesn’t happen to all the good women. We miss out if we are too shy and timid. I mostly went to church, I’m learning to go out more, that’s why I get noticed more and I start to dress really nice and it helped. I’m currently dating, I just simply disagreed with his comment.
And I don’t have baggage, no kids, no trauma from previous men. Just very unlucky. Again, not every good woman is found. Some may be old maids (I know several in the church).
@rachelcrawford9174 honestly you're probably a good looking woman but perhaps just spent too much time in the wrong niche. Maybe you could've tried going to a different church or putting yourself in a different environment where you could've gotten more appreciation. You sound like a catch, even based on how you treated to the rude commenter. Hopefully your situation works out for the better.
Yeah, women in their 20s acting like it was their teens. l've seen teenagers act more mature at 18 than many women at 28. They act like it's a valid excuse. Women who wasted years of my life were in their mid 20s doing so. The only girls that wanted to settle with me were literally 19 & 20. They were immature & dumb unfortunately, didn't understand long distance (2 hours of driving to meet wouldn't work), but they actually desired me & a relationship. Now I am in my 30s and don't have time for that crap anymore after the years lost.
These the same “I don’t live with regret…” bishes. My ex was one of those, and the only thing making me wish I never met her is the absolutely awesome daughter she gave me… Who, I might add, has turned out to be NOTHING like her hoe ass momma….👍🏾
@@Jayremy89mate, sheet is awful... If I give up and start rampaging I feel like a piece of "sheet". If I try settling get insane-style rejection (after ploughing a few times), if try youngsters can't stand their stupidity, if she seems level headed, she's close to expiration date... Awesome times we live in... (And yes, I'm a broke decoy Chad)
They can't accept that the things they LOVE to complain about are all literally caused by their own decisions and actions. In their mind "iT cAn NeVeR bE bEcAUse oF mE! EvErYtHiNg iS aLL mEn'S fAuLt!" 😅
I was married in my late 20s and again in my mid 30s. Both marriages last 5 years and both women changed on me and were mean and crazy. I stayed single after that and dated. After 2 crazy episodes from these women I dropped them. I have had to rebuild my life 3 times and I am not doing that again. Protect my sanity and assets from now on !!
To some women my bro. I’ll point out - these aren’t women - these are girls that have been on 5000 hours or insta and Tik Tok. Don’t get too hateful and find the women.
They can’t understand that the men they are attracted to (“Chads”) are the ones running around town.. because these men are young and have options, they aren’t looking to settle down. There’s plenty of 20-year old men who do want to get married, but these women are not attracted to them. These men are literally invisible to women.
Woman - tasts 3 cups of Pepsi in a row, then sees a glass of orange juice, "but I don't like orange juice," then tries 2 more glasses of Pepsi, "oh, all men are the same". Nope, got news for you girls, you pass up on the good men, then settle for a cat in your 40s, leaving thousands of good men depressed, living meaningless lives with no kids to raise and no one to love.... It's just civilisation ending all round, feminism and womens liberation has literally killed the west.
Nah, I would have been but still no one married me so it goes both ways. Men are running after these girls who don't settle and ignores those who want.
Yes, it is %100 a woman's job not to be run through, If a man does not take it by force, you gave it away. Your body your choice really does mean something.
Oh? He just confirmed her worst fears and shut her up real quick, but you go ahead and die on that hill though. When woman walk around with their legs open men will leave just as fast as they come (no pun intended). You want to keep a man? Keep your legs closed so that when he does manage to squeeze in he can’t just slip right back out (again no pun intended). Everyone men and women slowly loses their ability to bond with each new partner. Tie that together with how easily any woman can get laid and you’ll note that female promiscuity is a bigger problem than male.
@@Kaligoddie that’s false. Now every every woman who gets married is suddenly wife material? A lot of women out there are being wifed up by horrible examples of men, simps and sadists and all manner of feminine and foul men. Most of those women were and are wifed up for the sake of opportunity. There are thousands of flaws on both sides, the difference is every time someone brings up the shortcomings of women, either men are to blame or suddenly every woman wants to defend their worst assets. Also their divorce rates are through the roof, either because the man can’t keep dealing with them or because the woman no longer wants the man for a variety of reasons, most commonly having to do with money. Not all wives are wife material, but all wife material is found.
I see too often women get called sluts for having sexual partners , but there's no shortage of men that will try to sleep with them. It's so crazy how easy the hypocrisy is overlooked. If a woman doesn't value herself in your eyes bc of her sexual life then why would you sleep with her? That makes you just as easy as her and clearly you aren't respecting yourself just like her. It's hypocritical that woman are deemed sluts for willingly sleeping with men that wanted to sleep with us. Double standards exist everywhere, and I'm not sure why we don't point out the illogical thinking in them. It's funny, men say they are the logical ones, I guess on this topic their logic went right up their behinds
@@amolano6830 I'm not a fornicator. Fornicators who get married are only playing house until everything falls apart. Matthew 18 tells us we are to treat unrepentant sinners the same as pagans or tax collectors.
You know what that guy’s been up to? If they want a committed relationship not having commitment standards is very bad for them and they should change their behavior. Many men will tell you to have fun with the 304 until you find your wife. They’re from different pools though. If you don’t post anything on line then move you can hide a bit or just keep it quiet. Some of these girls seem crazy though and should probably disclose because of it.
This. Self entitled deluded modern women prefer partying to committing, what they don't get is that they can party and have fun with one of their friendzoned boyfriend-to-marry, and prefer fooling around and whining about gender disparity and other bs.
That's so true. In my early 20s, I was too busy chasing after bad boys. In hindsight, there was a huge selection of husbands I overlooked, thinking they were boring. In the end, I found a nice boring guy.
Facts to the MAX. I consider myself to be decent husband material. But thanks to the same mindset of all the girls I wanted to establish a relationship with, all threw me under the same label and place. The friendzone. Now, I completely stopped looking and caring. I got the main qualities women want, but now they will never have. I rather preserve and maintain my peace.
@@catherinejohnson-wf8odsounds like a simp wifed up the ran through version of you. Too bad his self respect wasn't strong enough to pick a better partner.
@@PayNoTax-GetNoVoteno they aren’t, unless a man’s standard of a valuable woman is controlled by a woman’s standard of what a valuable man is. Women want men with money and who is strong for example, that’s valuable. Men value women who will follow and are slim. The standards are different, men are only dating down if they are not getting those things out of women and accepting it, otherwise, if you are going to say that men are dating down meaning women who are low income and not strong (as I have been hearing the actual argument to be) then you are saying that men find those things valuable in a women and if they don’t pick strong and high earning women then they are dating down.
For the first time in history, men will soon have the upper hand. Women are naturally inclined to want to have children. Many realize this when it’s already almost too late in their mid to late 30’s. A man can have kids when he is 50 if he wants. The thing is high value men don’t want a 39 year old woman who has baggage and now isn’t able to get pregnant because she missed her prime
Not really. I saw it right away. So she can't be hiding it too well. If women kept their legs closed in this country, they wouldn't have these problems. We are all responsible for our behavior and of course that's men included.
Yeah, that's funny - all the nice girls that were in the Honor Society and went on to college from my class - all ended up pregnant (and mostly single) before they finished their first year in college. These were the girls considered smart, but they were all dating guys with the lowest grades in high school like it was a badge of honor to be with a moron.
I've told women the very same thing. If you want to be a wife, then be a wife. Start acting like a wife and you will attract a husband. I can't understand why this simple logical paradigm escapes most women.
I mean… meh they are about 70% right. It’s not as black and white as that. So many girls stay with their boyfriends for 5+ years and those boyfriends are never ready to marry because they’re too lazy or too scared or deep down don’t think she is the one. But another man would happily wife her up. It doesn’t mean she was never wifey material, she just was in the wrong relationship xxx
This is the real one, she's pissed because she wanted CHAD to marry her, he wouldn't so she went for CHAD #2... She aimed high but instead of dropping her aim when she missed she used all her arrows...
Really? I don’t think you understand how immature younger guys are. Women are legit thinking family , career, etc early on. Guys are usually pretty shitty at that point, so yeah guys are at least 50% to blame for the girls just marrying right away. People grow apart. Look at the divorce rate. There are for sure crazy controlling cheating guys just as many as cheating controlling cheating women. This mgtow shit is so creepy.
Be accountable ladies .yur not worth the gamble anymore .men have everything to lose . I've lost more than most women could ever attain .if I could get back what I gave of myself .,my time ,effort and commitment, I wouldn't feel so broken .
"Why are men running around and not settling down?" Those guys? They're called Chad. They are using you for sex. But there's all these other guys.... Never mind, you just go ahead and get run through
@@200130769 no. he probably can't run through girls. That's the whole point. 80 percent of men are either invisible, or considered 'creepers'. Y'all wouldn't date most men at gunpoint. You keep lining up for the same Chads and Tyrones and then have a tantrum when they don't stop what they're doing and wife you. It's simple really. Find a guy who won't leave you and don't leave him. Your ancestors figured that out for countless millennia. Delusional Modern women have destroyed the very fabric of dating and courtship in like a decade. Just let that sink In.
@@200130769who said they was running thru the girls??? Naw most men want a non-bitchie no baggage no baby daddy no 30+ body count wife and most of the men who are running thru girls are literally Chad and Tyrone and I bet you most if not all men just want a wife in this comment section bc they are tired of being rejected and lonely. It's time to be an adult and wake up to the truth I know this will be very hard for you to read without being angry so I will pray for you
You don't find your husband in your 20s because you want someone with money that's established. Back in the days a couple would get married super young and they'd BOTH BUILD TOGETHER. These days women don't do/want that. They just want someone that already has money. Women are the issue with this not men.
ah yes men who get angry when you tell them porn use causes brain damage aren't the problem. its the women trying to become a porn star lookalike for them that are the problem
If you’re 40 and dating 20 year olds, You are one sad mutha. 20 year olds aren’t hard to be with and don’t contribute much to a relationship. Except to your debt.
I completely agree with this guy. If you are a wife you will be found! Nice! Its a shame people have not taught these beautiful young women this truth earlier.
She thought she had an argument going, until she realized that everything she was saying women do and learn in their 20’s REDUCE her value in a man’s eyes.
She's the typical white girl that got ran thru by Pookie that stands outside of 711 every night. Now, she knows her "worth". Foh, ain't nobody tolerating that.
@@Itsmeagain828 In this case, it means something like "Why go through the time and effort to date/marry these girls when you can see them naked for $15 and possibly hook up with them?" Edit: Neither of them are actually free, but one is vastly less expensive
And this is why redpillers should be held accountable for encouraging semen sowers and men to be promiscuous on one hand and demanding absolute virginity from women on the other hand.
@yasminogbu8929 It's really not, but these women that want headpats for existing in a marriage think they should get props for being the wife that they agreed to be. What I find sad is that her parents were probably fully supporting that decision.
Its real simple. Young guys aren't established financially and that is what they want. Established guys aren't young most of the time. They want a finished product instead of someone they can grow with and make each other better.
@@sjnix7044 They want the fruits of success without any of the labor or the risk of failure that went into it. And of course who wouldn't want that? But it means she is no part of the struggles and achievement. She is an addon to his life, and therefore an easy cast off.
@@buybuydandavis as an older man, i felt a stab wound from what you said, because it's true. the formula should be, both should marry relatively young because they grow together, are invested in each other. to some limited degree, younger women might be attracted to the maturity and financial security of older, but you're exactly right that then she is not invested and will, therefore, eventually monkey branch from the older man with a lot of money to a younger man with good money. alas, looks like i'm out of the market which is heartbreaking but then marrying a modern woman is even more heartbreaking so was there ever really a chance for me
Lol you can be the best wife and still have your husband cheat on you, don’t act like it’s a one sided thing when this goes both ways. Men want sex and see women as bodies to sleep with. That’s why these guys don’t get married. They just want sex. Eventually, they will want a wife but it’s under their terms and I guarantee you a lot of men still sleep with the “hoes” they claim not to like while being married.
Women completely control access to any type of sexual activity. If they collectively forced men to wait until marriage, they couldn’t complain about Chad and Tyrone
They want their cake and eat it too. It happens especially to the ones who show dum dum signs that they're not wife material and the guys they stay with knows this for a year or 2 situationship tops.
The 304s ruin it for those of us who do make a man wait till marriage. Because men are desperate to get laid, and because men know sex is readily available, they leave the waiting woman for someone easier who will put out. No guy wants to wait.
Wow ! It's like she thinks that's her only choice. And still blames men . For not stopping her earlier. Fatherless would be the answer. Mother did nothing.
If a bar was handing out free booze, it's not the responsibility of the patrons to turn it down so that the bar doesn't go bankrupt. Her reasoning is silly.
I mean, she thinks fucking around is gaining life experience. It's hard when you only have 2 braincells that are rubbing together to get thoughts formed.
