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@@Psych2go bro, your voice in your videos is relaxing to me, and I can relate to these problems in my life and I take these steps, now I don’t have these much problems! :)
1. You are waiting for your dreams to come true to allow yourself to be “happy.” 2. You work to fulfill ONLY your materialistic desires. 3. You ruminate on fictional negative scenarios that likely won’t happen 4. Blaming yourself for something that is out of your control. 5. You’re holding onto grudges or anger 6. Judging yourself too harshly. To whoever is reading this: keep your head up, it’ll all make sense soon, don’t lose hope, you got this ❤️
@Psych2Go Well they are Dr. STONE, Haikyuu, Amazing world of Gumball, Adventure Time, and Gravity Falls for me (She actually responded to me, amazing!)
One reason I'm not as happy as i used to be anymore is a girl i knew 20 years ago came back into my life in August 2020 and she broke my heart by telling me she wanted to meet me IRL in a neighborhood park. I realized she lied and broke my heart. I never really had much trust in women, but that was the straw that broke the camels back
I was talking to this lady earlier today and i couldn't get her to stop talking about her ex-bf. They broke up a year ago. Shr kept interrupting me and was talking so loud im sure every one there now knows about her break up. I just walked away cuz i couldn't talk anyways.
I'll admit, the "I did my best!" bit was nigh impossible for me 2 years ago. I've been forcing myself to be positive to try and kick this funk I've been in since forever. It gets easier, and more powerful every time you believe it. You did your best. I did my best. Thanks for the video. Great as always.
To anyone who is out there and needs to hear this you are here for a reason dont let people get to you get out of that shell you've been in for so long and be yourself
I related to almost all of these. I just keep punishing myself for not achieving my dreams, blaming myself for not achieving my supposed happiness, and wasting energy feeling bad and punishing myself more and more
No you are not. You are a human beeing like everyone here and you are just living through a difficult time. But trust me, it is just a phase, and it will get better. I want you to know that you are not alone in this, and that you deserve the best, everyone deserves to be happy ❤❤❤
I was honestly feeling so sad and anxious all the time, i was hopeless... This video gave me a bit of peace... Even though i fear the time i relapse again... Where i'm sad and crying for no reason, when I cant feel happy doing something I like anymore. I can't be sad around my family because they'll be "worried and scared" because im crying, and i just pretend to be happy when i'm really not.
Getting some physical activity in everyday, not just working out but also more fun things like dancing or stretching or taking a walk while listening to good music. It helps my physical body which then helps my mental and emotional state too 😊
Thank you for recommending me this video, lately i just felt unfulfilled like everything i do isnt enough, and it doesnt make me happy anymore, it even destroys my relationships with anyone, i just have this anxiety, i keep worrying about my future and for my family, i just want to make my family proud, and give them a comfortable life, i want to become successful in the future to help my loved ones, and myself, thats why i everyday feels like a never ending loop, i keep pressuring myself to do more tasks and to work on my job, even if im still a student, i kept thinking i dont want to retire at an old age, i must work harder so that i’ll have more rest in the future, i never realized its making me feel so tired and drained everyday.
I used to trust an old friend of mine, she was a nice person but now she's decided to stab me in the back and has gone quite. I shouldn't have trusted her. I showed her kindness and she showed me how it feels to take a knife to the heart and my mental health. I don't intend on doing anything, because life will get her eventually. I won't say that she deserves it but I'll say that she's earned it
@Psych2Go i love ur anxiety and depression topics, in which my feelings were described so precisely in a way that touched me and even i couldn't talk about myself that way. im doing a lot better now and i have learnt to accept the way people are, the way i am and the way my surroundings are. i am working on things im passionate about. and im in total love with your daily reminders they're so nice :)
It feels like the unhappiness I feel is in part of the mistakes my mind thinks is so "bad" that they are unable to be atoned for. Its difficult to move on knowing that you were the asshole and still probably are from time to time...
I relate to most of these, this youtube video really suits the way my thinking patterns have been lately, and why i've been so hard on myself. Currently I'm also having high anxiety as well, and recently my therapist had to leave, so I'm trying to slowly figure things out while it takes practice to be easy on myself.
One thing that gets my head out of my mental rain clouds is that I personally think hobbies are the best and most healthy way in my life to deal with struggles, for example I am a artest I paint and draw digitally and physical if I feel bad I draw out my felling I believe that if yall do something you love you can think though your emotions and processes what's happening and will find joy. This is my personal way. I deal with stress,sorrow,and anger in my life
Unfortunately I don’t think any of these reasons are why I’m not happy. Having Dysphoria, being separated from my partner, working hard and passionately to get nowhere after more than a decade, losing my mum and having people constantly breaking promises have left me unhappy. I have hope for my future but I can’t say that anything is improving no matter how hard I work or anything else.
0:05 dream triangle? 0:57 dream blob, ranboo crown, minecraft chest and bed torch 0:58 minecraft diamond armor and pick and sword 1:03 elytra 1:14 lost diamonds and respawn screen 1:22 skeppy head 1:27 that one adventure time guy (Finn the Human) 1:31 minecraft house i guess 2:41 uh the Friday night funkin guy? 3:42 buzz lightyear uh originally i wanted to put only Minecraft references but it seems there are a lot more 3:49 bee(tubbo?) technoblade sleeping next to his potato trophy and squid kid, cat (the disk) 4:13 gravity falls? 4:51 pokemon ball 5:15 lmanberg flag and tommyinnit 5:22 anger from inside out 5:29 spongebob anyways im pretty sure i didn't include like 10 references cus idk what they are 5:48 Garyyyy 6:15 dream blob (also they are standing on an enchantment table 6:26 harry potter 6:43 tubbo :)
All of this is true for me but I'm working on myself and also a little tip for the ones struguling on number 3 the most like me, try not to think about it to much or you will end up focking up and stress you a lot. Ever since I have thought about that and it works
1, 5 and 6.😥 Also, feeling stuck, family dysfunction/estrangement, feeling lonely, having no friends, battling mental illness, and feeling unloved.😞 I don't think I'll ever be happy.😓❤️
@@Mike-fu3xd first of all, there's nothing wrong with being a dream stan as long as you're not really really toxic. Second of all, i wouldn't consider myself a stan i would say I'm more of a fan of his content. I also don't watch dream that much really to be honest.
@@Mike-fu3xd not everyone who likes mcyt/dsmp content is a dream stan or even watches dreams videos there are so many different creators and you're putting this whole community into one little box :/
I thought I would just get a few small advices from this video, but then I realized that every single point here fits my life and now I'm kinda worried..
I still judge myself no matter what I do, even though I didn't deserve it in a situation wasn't made by me but I don't know the "I made this stupid mistake" is always in my mind for the whole years I've been through to now
Literally me just dying because of #5. My mom tends to treat me like shit and so we both get mad at each other. My dad wants me to apologize but it’s not even my fault. He understands that she wasn’t treating me well and tells me to do things she won’t even do despite being he grown up in the situation. I try to let go but it’s hard when she’s in my life every day.
It’s been really hard for me lately I can’t wait to get out of my teasing family house and start my dream and be happy, all my life I’ve been bullied,teased,blamed,even adults hate me, I hope I’m not the only one like this, I have Autism,ADHD,depression,OCD,and bad anxiety and I’m turning 14 on the 28. Please teal me I’m not alone in this
I know it's bad to judge myself so harshly it's hard not to do it to such an extent after I grew up getting berated for hours on end over every little mistake often in front of everyone.
OKAY I STARTED WATCHING THESE 7/24 let’s I’ll tell you how I’m doing before school starts back I had to realize I am fighting demons they are trying to win but I’m starting to work on myself💓
Amazing vid. Atm I'm trying to let go of my anger towards my father for being a violent drunkard. I can forgive him for myself but not for my mother, which makes it difficult.
Im so happy that i have a "perfect family". My mom is discouraging us for our mistakes, and hurts us. Wow such a loving mother. My dad left us for another lady and has a new life with his new son. Wow such a responsible father. My family wants me to not play games, and they want to destroy my dream of gaming. You know what I quit no more dream. Im 12 wow so much life to enjoy.... I dont want it anymore, i give up. I want to rest....
Don’t you even feel like there’s just no fixing you and your gonna feel like this forever. Constantly worrying about past, present or future. Not being good enough. Never being financially stable
My 6 reasons why I'm miserable: 1.Severe mental illness 2.Severe anger issues 3.Severe trauma 4.Severe anxiety 5.Violent delusions 6. All the severe actions I've done coz of this and bc no doctors or therapists ever took me seriously before it was too late...smh 🤦♀️
One night my friends half jokingly asked me why I refuse to be happy. I told them it was because I was worried about being happy because I don't want to lose that happiness, and don't know if I would be able to handle it. Academically, I know I probably could. Emotionally, I'm still not sure. EDIT: spelling
How to stop holding grudges for people who have done you wrong? I know that by holding a space for them in my head out of anger is not worth it but I can't help it.
3 years of shock therapy because of self harm and never had any friends or supportive family nor any good relationship i can't feel anything but sad :(
@Garbagesia i'm sorry i just actually use this account for other videos to talk to people and getting some attention because i like it and this what i say is what happend to me in real life 3 years looking at the same walls never felt even more isolated than ever and i'm glad its over but i made nothing out of it :(
It took therapy to realize for me, it’s number 6. I thought I had the right amount of guilt to change and by constantly reminding myself of all the terrible things I’ve done, (in my eyes at least,) I could just not do them again. Instead, I found myself not wanting to do anything.
One more... Be mindful of your own jealousy or envy. Whilst jealousy and envy seems like an outward-directed sentiment that comes with a range of behaviours toward others, ultimately, you yourself will be at the receiving end of these feelings. Both in the sense where these initial feelings are very painful and impairing to you, and in the sense where there might be severe harmful social consequences if you act upon these feelings. So ultimately, jealousy and envy are very self-destructive sentiments. For instance, if you worry that your partner might be cheating, it is "you" who is maddening themselves, worrying, fretting all day long. Eventually you might make accusations, or try to pry into your partner's activities, breaking their trust along the way. You might end up ruining an otherwise fine relationship, all due to your fears and jealousy, thinking your partner might cheat or abandon you. And yes, if you don't worry about it, your partner might still cheat, and it'd still hurt, but at least you didn't spend a long period of time putting yourself down over it beforehand + you get to focus more on maintaining a positive relationship, which might actually make it less likely for your partner to end up cheating or leaving you, than if you go out of your way to ruin the relationship. Same for envy. Others might have skills or items that we yearn for so bad. Keep in mind that said person doesn't owe you anything, and generally cannot help or is not at fault for you not having a certain skill or item. Fretting over how unfair life is will once again just make you put yourself down and wallow in misery + if you act nasty toward the other person for it, you will make yourself look like the bad guy before everyone else, and people might drop you as a friend in the process. It doesn't gain you that skill or item you want, it only gains you misery to behave that way.
