Quite important, actually. I have been in few relationships but there was no intimacy, so I didn’t hesitate leaving them. Now, I’m in a loving relationship
Not sure how exactly intimacy is defined, but all I know is I need a partner who can reflect the amount of care and love I give them. trust me, it will be slightly difficult to reflect 100%… edit: To be honest, I care wayy more about emotional, rather than sexual intimacy. Why? Because I value emotions over appearance
I’ve experienced sexual tension with someone I ended up dating for years. The boiling point before the tension is handled is super freaking intense. Like your skin gets super sensitive, your breathing becomes shallow, your mind goes blank, you feel confident but also shy, and you’re lowkey going feral lol. I ended up making the first move by acknowledging out loud my attraction to him and then it was was on. We had a healthy, happy relationship and the sexual tension never left. We just didn’t need to try and hide it anymore lol.
@@Psych2go He broke it off due to his declining mental health and he didn’t think it was fair for me to be in a relationship with him knowing this about himself. Didn’t even know he was sick up until he broke it off and the relationship was great up until that point. We’re on good terms, I was devastated obviously but it was nothing compared to how he was feeling in general. There was no malicious intent from him what so ever. He is doing better little by little which is fantastic; actively taking steps to get his mind and self right. I don’t know what the future holds but I’ll be forever grateful for what we had.
@@87alsjthAww, I’m really sorry it didn’t work out for you in the long term, but I’m glad he had the self awareness to recognize that he was declining before he took you down with him. It’s also a blessing that you two broke it off relatively amicably. That’s pretty rare. Best of luck with your futures. Sometimes, it’s nobody’s fault when something doesn’t work out. The timing simply wasn’t right. If it’s meant to be, it’ll be, and no power on this Earth will be able to stop it. When love is real, it always finds a way. 😊♾️
@@87alsjth I've just learned the hard way that I need to remember to always walk by faith. The moment I get arrogant, and too headstrong, and think I'M in control, I lose the ability to truly understand the flow of what I'm meant to understand in my present circumstances. If I learn to just .... breathe, and give my will over to Him who created us, I'll be guided through any trial, and any hardship. I hope you find true peace and love in your life! Remember, aside from Heavenly Father and Jesus... you need to love yourself before anybody else can love you back fully. ...I know this doesn't apply to YOU... but perhaps you could pass the message along to your friend. It's detrimental to the healing process for mental health. ✌💙 in order for anyone to love
I kinda relate to that feeling of skin gets super sensitive, mine was cold around him and when he touched me my body releases heat and the breathing and my heart goes throb, basically all you mentioned
When I was having a crush on my friend (now bf), I felt the exact way. The way he held his gaze on me was very intense. His long gaze was enough for me to understand that there was a lingering sexual tension between both of us. His stares were so long and intense I blushed and had to turn away gaze elsewhere. Those days were fun 😂
dayumm, I don't have a crush but just imagining them staring at me intensely and for so long makes me wanna shrink into a ball and bury myself- how long did it take before you two made it clear?
@@JesseBrown-qf6zpYou can be sexually attracted to someone without being infatuated with them and even if you both were infatuated with eachother there might be a situation where one just doesn't want that kind of relationship at the moment or they already have a partner so they can't do anything with those temporary feelings they have for you.
@@wilmab4120 The issue with this line of reasoning is that from an evolutionary point of view it just doesn’t make sense. If there is mutual infatuation then the urge to procreate becomes an overriding consideration. Good luck trying to resist nature’s great imperative.
I’ve had sexual tensions with someone online. We started off as online friends playing video games to asking abt our socials and talking more personal. Talking became playful, and playful became flirting to the point where we both shyly admitted we were into each other. We had “moments” virtually but ofc it ddnt last long since ofc being physically near one another is easier than having to get those built up feelings without being near one another.
For me it’s like an invisible bond between two people, you want to touch eachother all the time and it’s never enough or awkward you want to be inside their body
*Timestamps:* 0:54 Feeling euphoric? To the heart races! 1:32 Holding that eye contact 2:06 Always on your mind 2:50 How do they hug/touch you? 3:29 Why are they so funny? 4:22 Awkward… or flirty…? yep, precisely *nothin‘* I could (and could’ve) ever relate(d) to xD enjoy your day! :)
I love the comment I just read that said, “You’ll start to panic around them.” Yes, yes, and more yes. It’s because your body goes into overdrive when you know they’re around or close by somehow. And you really can’t control it, no matter what you do. Deep breathing almost doesn’t cut it. It’s just a biological trait and good luck trying to calm yourself down. It’s tough.
As someone who easily attracted to guys(even though some of them have average looks)I can confirm I experience all of this. I still remember that I held eye contact with two guys(quite a while ago and different times and places too) my heart feels like it's going to explode and the way that they both smiling (while having that good-looking face) makes my mind blank and I wondering to myself why I still look in the eyes with him so I quickly looking away after realized he looked at me while smiling (after realize I looked at his direction, he smile that makes me still remember it bcz it's such a sweet smile to the point I wonder if it's a genuine smile) btw both guys smiling while looking at me(so I naturally smile back) and it's such a sweet smile, I wonder if they stole the girls hearts with that very sweet smile (like how can someone have a sweet smile that make other ppls couldn't stop thinking about it)
Oh my gosh, I have serious issues. I was in a very bitter dark place and at my addiction recovery meeting, where I did nothing but talk about how deeply depressed I've been, over a man I've fallen in love with, amongst other stresses in my life. And then it turned to me lamenting...and then swooning over him. And as we were all parting ways, one of the people smiled and made eye contact in salutations, and as I had JUST watched a Psych2Go thing on flirting that day (daydreaming of the man I love) I was like "oh my gosh...I think he was trying to flirt with me?" And then mentioned it to try to make him jealous because... I'm a douche sometimes. And I was feeling so rejected and invalidated and abandoned...and I acted like a child. To be honest, the only reason it was flattering was because it made me aware that I hadn't given up on the entire institution of love. And I thought he'd given up on me, and I was so hurt I didn't want anything to do with men, at all...for a long time. The guy in my meeting wasn't even my type... he's tall. And tall is intimidating and scary. It was just nice I think on a psychological level, to know that my own brain didn't consider myself as unlovable. Even if it was just a measly smile. I think my brain needed to reassure itself, because... I don't get reassurance from anyone but my kids. ...not trying to have a pity party. Just on my healing journey. Ok my brain can only do so much To manifest my sweet prince... Because I'm only human. ...time to pray like crazy.
@@purplerain0517 you have kids it seems, it's normal to still feel attracted to other guys(it's not cheating it's not like you guys doing something intimate) btw have a good rest!
@@purplerain0517 haha it's fine, I understand what you said(in your first comment) so I just shortened my reply by focusing on you to rest and reassure you that having crush on other guys beside your husband is fine(if it's bothering you, thinking it's cheating but it's not)and sometimes I also don't understand other ppls comment reply to me, so I had to ask them to say it more understanding (bcz I'm not that good with words too so there's some words that are still new to me)
My gym crush and I have been at this little game. We introduced ourselves a couple weeks ago and always notice/greet each other as soon as one of us pops up in the gym. So cute
@@JacobDaDJ Amanda’s amazing but I was getting butterflies in my tummy from listening to the actual examples of sexual tension scenarios & getting fantasies in my head based off that shit.
2:33 subtitles: "if you keep bringing them up in convos that really have nothing to do with them, it's called *_meningitis"_* damn guess everyone's dying today 💀
Funnily enough, I’m the same way, especially with my fictional characters , and I have an impressive collection of Anime and Video Game Waifus too. Ain’t nothing wrong with that. Sometimes we require a relationship more magical than we can get in our normal lives. Real life can be incredibly limiting. If real life girls aren’t good enough for you mate, that’s your choice and your right. You will never hear any judgment from me, because I’m the same way. Reality crises are a thing.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not completely closed off the idea of a real life relationship, nor do I begrudge others for theirs, but as standards and expectations go, mine are almost impossible for anyone real to live up to. Hold out for your otherworldly Goddess my man, if that’s what you want to do. As long as you’re happy with the idea of living and loving vicariously through your favourite fictional works, then that’s all that matters. Don’t worry about anything else or what people say.
probably had like one moment of sexual tension in my life. i walked out of it because woman in question has a bad track record of her relationships and worried that stuff might be a fetish and i noped out
Rather to do it than to be late. "Words, how little they mean when you're a little too late" It may hurt a little if your crush denies it and says that they don't want to date you, but it's just reality that hits you. It's a somehow a good thing.
It's hit me badly. I just met the guy, formed a crush, and became friends and now I'm experiencing this. I never thought this would happen at this point in my life. It's painful but I think he feels the same. Problem is he's probably going to leave so I don't want to get attached.
Make sure they’re Not a Narcissist…… Biology and Chemistry between 2 people…… Sometimes, when this happens between 2 people , they could have Very different Values 💔 Protect yourself…. 😢 If it’s a Narcissist… Run 🏃♀️ 💨💨
It's the best until all the sudden it stops and you have no idea why. 3 years later, I still wonder why it was so much the first six months and now its nothing. I am turned off anyhow now, but its important to me.
I think it's something we should just ignore. Its just the instinct to breed kicking in after all. Its not gonna serve you any good especially because true love is rare and the one who might truly love you one day may even hold physical and visual exclusivity as his main form of attraction. Its actually pretty common for men. You can never take experience away. But you can always add experience later. Atleast to me its an obvious choice because i have goals of finding a partner for life as corny as it sounds. Its proven that promiscuity in men and women both effect their future relationships. I mean some dudes will have no problem divorcing you if he finds out you had 3some or more than a couple of sexual partners.
To me intimacy is important as I have a high sex drive. If that is left unsatisfied I'd be sad. Sex and intimacy are an important part in relationships.
In my personal opinion (no judgements towards you) I don't think sex should be a priority in a relationship. Saying this as someone with a high sex drive too lol.
Man I am insanely shy, even watching this doesn’t help me think whether I rly have that… So uh, recently I’ve started to do this bridging course to hope that I can pass it and get into a university course, and this class has a small group of guys and girls. Thing is though despite the shyness, I will try to talk to both guys and girl regardless cause socialising is important, But There’s this one dude (with not a great sleep schedule) who is smart, and also is such an avid gamer I can barely keep up with him when he decides to actually turn and showcase his dmg numbers to me, on the games that I so happen to play but on a more casual basis. But for some reason, compared to other guys, idk what is making me feel like I can only talk to this guy but not the other guys in the same casual way. I seem to just find myself turning to him if I must ask for help, even though I know there’s another guy that is pretty solid with having prior knowledge on the subject and is equally available to help the other classmates understand the bridging basics. It’s only been one month tho so maybe I’ll give it some slack and try not to think too much about it, given for now we still pretty much work on the basis of “he can help me catch up in the work because he does have experience in the field but not the certification to take the university course.” Tldr; I might be crushing on him and also getting weirdly awkward for no reasons too soon, feels too strange for this to happen in one month. Damn it his friendly face is in my head >//
Not me smiling and telling him "I feel like laughing everytime I look at you and I don't know why" I said this while smiling and I didn't even know about this 😅
i felt like i just watched an anime with those interactions with the blue haired girl and black haired guy especially since all of that they never kissed :,)
I wish that those things weren't so difficult for me, that they didn't look so impossible... 25 y/o and it seems that the older I grow, the harder those things get. It seems like I've lost that time when it was normal to be unexperienced, when you could make silly mistakes or act weird without being judged. It looks like everybody else in my age is experienced or at least had some experiences with relationships, while for me It's too late, I'm too far behind...
You're not too far behind, you're right on track with your own pace! I'm turning 26 this year, have close to no experience and I don't feel like I've missed out on anything. The right person for you will appreciate you for who you are. I know this gets said a lot, but it really is true, so be proud of yourself and enjoy life until your paths cross 👍
Many people enjoy flirting and attention, which can lead to mixed signals. As a lesbian, I've found that interpreting body language isn't always straightforward. For instance, I've experienced significant sexual tension with a bisexual woman in my circle. However, whenever I tried to get her to hang out with me, she seemed to panic and avoided me. I even had made some subtle moves but nothing happened between us. Later, she had admitted being attracted to me at that period, asked why I never made a move, which left me both annoyed and intrigued. It made me believe that she may just enjoy the attention and flirting that I stopped giving to her.
She was testing you. First of all, she pushed you away and then later on, she asked why you never made a move. All along, she was enjoying all this hard to get games. She wanted to guilt trip you. If she really likes having you, she would not be playing hard to get and she would not be pushing you away in the 1st place. She wanted to make you compete for it. Don't fall for any of her manipulation tactics. What she did is played you. If she do not want to give you any sexual relationship, don't believe her word. She did not show it with actions. She wanted you to chase just so that she can take credit of rejecting you.
@@hp2546 I must agree, at the end of the day If someone truly wants to be beside you they will try harder than just flirt, right? Like, you would look forward to spending more time and getting closer with the person you like
Yeah...when some one is in crush mode, they often imagine there are positive signs to read like a form of delusion. So I wouldn't take any of this "advice" without a heap of salt and the disclaimer that it's probably just in your head. But here's a fun fact. Most ppl that are in a relationship where one was crushing on the other, the object of affection usually had no idea and didn't even consider you as an option until you made a move. So please do keep in mind that these convenient tips and tricks are only that, convenient, and really shouldn't be given much credence.
Cant you just go back to actual psychology and advice to fragile people, instead of stuff like "top 10 reasons why you have to masturbate out in the open for no reason"
I have had sexual tension for my crush for YEARS. We met in elementary school when we was both 7. I never saw it as sexual tension because we were so young. When I lost contact with him for a couple of years and it’s our senior year in high school together, I feel it every day. I tend to want to grab him and pull him into me and just make out with him. We expressed this feeling back and forth because we can’t hold nothing back worth a dang. And he said he loves me and needs me. But needs some time to think it over because he just ended a relationship with his mentally abusive ex who torments him even after the break up. I know I should wait. I known him for majority of my life. What should I do though? Any tips?
Give him that time and hang out with him: try to be more of a friend/someone who listens him out. And once he opens more up and wishes to spend more time with you, then consider it again.
If it happens, don't make those mistakes that his ex did. ever. bring him peace and make sure he will feel safe to share his emotins with you. so in short don't be a threat to him.
Timestamps 1). Feeling euphoric to the heart races 0:52 2). Holding that eye contact 1:30 3). Always on your mind 2:04 4). How do they hug you? Touch you? 2:48 5). Why am I smiling? Why are you so funny? 3:25 6). Awkward or flirty 4:20 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Unfortunately there is a guy who I have mutually chemistry with but he admitted that he's merely sexually attracted to me and not emotionally into me. We are in different times in our lives so it makes sense.
Same (though I was also only sexually interested) but he wasn't honest and he just ran away after something happened between us lmao. We were "friends", I guess, but he just stopped talking to me hahah
As an ace, I was getting confused before I saw your comment, because I experience everything with my crush, but I never wanna do the "thing". Ig it's just intense romantic feelings 😅
@@basil_official5823hey what should I do because someone has a crush on me because she always miss me and she is trying to hold my hand should I ask her out
Interesting animation change! I really enjoyed the difference in technique and especially the transitions. It's dynamic and interesting to watch, but I think the blobby main characters were too cute to be forsaken - the character design used here is gender specific and ripped whereas the previous ones were more endearing and universal, which I think make more sense for a fun psychology channel 😊
agreed, I thought I was the only one who preferred the original animations and characters for the same reasons you mentioned. These new characters are something out of a teen romcom that I would be too old and jaded to relate to lol
I had a mini panic attack I was watching this and when it came to “they are on your mind” he messaged me! And it was funny cause I was actually thinking about him too, and I also realised we have almost all of these!
I used to think for whole my life that I'm asexual but then he suddenly appeared and changed my mind since I totally fall for him. Unfortunately my crush for him is useless because he's taken and I just want this feeling to disappear so I would be in peace again.
I am in the same exact situation, always thought that I am Ace but until he showed up, for the first time in 33 years, I felt like I wanted to hug a guy. He started flirting, and I was over the clouds, but one day, he ghosted me. I heard from one of his friends that he is now taken.
If you were to obtain him youd grow bored since theres no challenge. Women would rather live in this fantasy land of what if as opposed to actually being in a real relationship.
