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I'm rather glad in this case that it does. This makes it much easier to make the hard decision. I'm still sort ing it out. But I feel now it's only a matter of time. I get tired of teetering on the fence. Time to rip the band aid off quickly and get on with my life.
The moments leading up to the end of the relationship can feel more challenging and anxiety filled because there is a lot of uncertainty and a lot of times you want to do whatever it takes to salvage the relationship but you’re really not going anywhere. Ending a relationship is hard but it’s even harder to let go of that person especially when you’ve been so emotionally invested in them.
5 quotes I learned the hard way: If they are not sure you are the one, they are not the one. Once you feel unappreciated, LEAVE. Don't play games with a person who can play better. Stop giving 100% to ppl who give you 20%. If they come back, don't forget how they left.
Exactly, my x had a sister that I know didn’t like me, you can tell I wasn’t imagining it. So I brought to my x’s attention and she wouldn’t hear it she immediately shot it down.
This is so true… discovered my wife has been having an affair for 3 years… her family knew over 2 years ago… and now they know that I know they have showed no interest in my feelings just an interest in how much money their daughter can squeeze out of the divorce. My soon to be ex wife won’t accept that her family are leeches that only contacted us when they wanted money - they live on the other side of the world. I even paid thousands towards her father’s heart operation… only for them to accept her lover who contributed nothing with open arms.
1. You lack trust in eachother 2. You dont like eachother anymore 3. They have no respect for you 4. They are selfish and make everything about themselves 5. You have drifted apart and no longer want the same things. ( Dont have same values and goals) 6. You are the only one putting efforts and you are trying very hard.
This vid really hit hard from my first and only relationship. If your partner gets on your nerves, they don’t put any effort into the relationship, or they only care about what they like and how they feel, it’s not a relationship worth keeping and it’s best to just let go. I didn’t, and I only wish I had sooner
You just described the relationship I was in for 3 years I just ended it. I'm so angry at myself that I allowed that relationship to literally drain my life force from me. I'm so miserable and depressed now I worry that I will never heal.
it's been a year, and it's still her. she was so much different than any of my other past partners, i could feel that she truly loved and cared for me. it's so amazing that a person like her somehow saw a future with me. when we broke up, she just dropped everything we had. i don't think she'll ever come back soon, and i don't think i'll be better any day now. i love and miss her so much, sometimes there are periods where i can't find the strength to get out of bed due to these heavy feelings. i wouldn't wish this heavy state to anyone. so please, for anyone reading this who broke up with someone recently, please try to move forward, no matter how painful it may be.
i dont wanna lose a girl i love, we both love each other. i cant imagine my life without her, we have never met irl tho, but we know each other since 4 years. idk how people let go their partners so easily, i burst into tears or get so much depressed whenever i think about breakup or divorce things. without her, my life is boring,lonely,useless and depressing.
This video hits home. Lately I’ve been feeling less respected, and when I bring it up in the moment, like she wants (even though I disagree with this idea; time and place) it gets thrown back in my face as a “me issue.” I’ve been questioning our compatibility for a while now and it seems like with each passing day I’m reminded that we’re not.
Dr. Orion Taraban from PsychHacks gives a good framework for evaluating whether you should be in a relationship also. the video is called "Listen to YOURSELF: you likely already know the answer". It's a good listen.
If you find she's disrespecting you, you should leave if she doesn't see her as being part of the problem. Tolerating her disrespect means you don't have enough self respect. If she ever dumps you, you're going to feel much worse than if you'd ended things yourself. Much much worse.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Right you are.Absolutely right. I wanted validation & you gave that to me. I am being torn apart. But, I have got the answer. With tears in my eyes, I thank you, dear. Deepest regards.
I related to number 2. I had broken up with my gf today and number 2 kinda hit home. In the beginning of the relationship it grew into us thinking we’d be together forever. But, then things drifted apart. I felt myself getting upset at the smallest things she’d do and I made things worse. I felt a lot worse before this video but no I feel I’m not alone. Thank you psych2go, for easing the pain a little. Maybe the relationship wasn’t the one. And if you’re just some person scrolling in the comments and you somehow find mine, thank you for reading it and if life is hard, I’m there in the same boat with you. God bless🙏❤
The last time I called myself attempting to establish a serious relationship, the person was a covert narcissist I had to take to court after he assaulted me, cheated and traumatised me/my loved ones among other things. I’ve been single for a year almost two, however there’s someone I’ve been talking to for 5 almost 6 months and things are gradually developing which I enjoy.
I love this video it's great for a younger generation for there first love, it was basic simple and to point and stayed on point without alot of words, cartoon effects and voice overs were presented at the right time.
We were just dating but boy the timing of this is crazy lol saw this video right after she decided not to continue and I was feeling it too. Def felt some of these feelings in the short version as well
Does anyone else watch these videos thinking about a specific recent relationship, and then as soon as you hear "NUMBER ONE…" it’s followed by the most exact thing that led to the end of your relationship with them? Well… me too. My two closest friends last year (one was more of a situationship) began to lie to me… which meant I stopped trusting them… which led to the end of our friendships just a few months later. But time really does heal all wounds, people! I feel great, I focused on bettering myself, I have a great new job, and I’ve even been on an ACTUAL date this month. Be brave, be patient, be gentle, and choose love every time. I'm rooting for you, just as I rooted for myself so much last year.
Thank you for your advice “to move on from this relationship “, I ticked all the boxes there and want to go, but he won’t let me go, I always end up back. I’m not happy there, I want out but I don’t know really do it!😢
Letting go is really hard to do when looking at them makes your funny parts all tingly, but you gotta do it. There will be other sexy people who are better for you
The last good relationship I had (at least I thought it was), was some 20 odd years ago. Loved enough to have a little stinker from him that he couldn't care for. I lost all his attention and I noticed he liked his women a certain way. Now I just love my kids, grands and cat. And loving myself.....
if I watched this last month I would've cried knowing i related to half of them. but me and him worked everything out, and we're back to being lovey dovey and coupley
I used to be in a relationship with this boy four years ago. When we decided to date, I found it incredible that I have found someone who stood to every belief and goals to dating, but because he lived in a different country, it was really hard for us to stay connected (wifi connection was the issue), but he and I started to drift apart. We barely communicated and even if had the chance to speak through face time or call it was only to be sexual to each other. At one point I got tired of it. While I do enjoy having a sexual relationship with him, I still felt that our connection was another must for us both. So after three years, I ended up having to break things off with him. It was one of the hardest things I had to do, but both of us knew it wasn't going to last due to our distance. We are still in good terms, however, it's already been a year since we last spoke. I still miss him time to time, and even he admits the same, but there was nothing both of us could do.
These aren't always signs that the relationship is over. You might drive eachother absolutely insane, but there's a little thing called love that can keep you together forever. So not liking eachother isn't a sign, but not loving eachother is. Of course I know this channel is for younger people who don't even know what love is, so maybe these are signs for their relationships. If you don't know what love is like, I can tell you now it doesn't always feel good. It can often manifest itself as feelings of anger and sadness. You'll understand when someone you love refuses to wear their seatbelt or gets a speeding ticket
I am stuck in one and I don’t know how to get out of it. I’m holding my tongue and biding my time, and simply going through the motions at this point. I would say it’s beyond repair but it was never put together to begin with. Like a Lego set you tried to put together just by looking at the picture on the box rather than following the actual directions. I am by no means perfect, but I’m also self aware and have emotional intelligence. She doesn’t. I’m so unhappy.
When the hormones settle, the honeymoon phase is over, all that is left almost feels like a metallic business partnership. Allow yourself to think rationally. Also bear in mind you were completely happy before this person and you will be again. Under that lens, you can list the pros and cons of moving on. When you do, there is no going back. Cherish the good times you had but realize the more time you spend wondering what to do, the less time you are spending actually living.
You can give it the good old college try, but you can "fix" people if they aren't willing to put in the effort as well then move on, I know it's hard I've been married for twenty six years and am going through it. Been separated for a year now and I get down some times and miss her but shit i am happier and don't feel all stressed out. It gets better
You need to help each other, like when Jack and Rose talked about themselves without interruptions; like when they shared the floating door after the ship sank... Oh, Rose took the door all for herself! Then Psych2Go takes them as an example of reciprocity. Sad.
if i remember correctly, the MythBusters once proved that this door would have carried Rose and Jack together.... nice scene of her "dipping" his head in the water 🙂
Sogns its over 1) You dont trust each other. 2) You dont respect each other 3) You are making all the effort to keep up the relationship. He doesnt care enough to make it work. 4) He is selfish and always makes out for himself only. 5) You are not interested in the same things anymore.
I am going through a situation where only one of these applies. He left me a week ago, but I still dont even understand why. He kept saying he can't do long distance, and putting himself down. Long distance is just a temporary thing and it will be worth it when we can live together. I still love him so very much, I don't want to move on because it doesnt make sense. I thought we were doing great. With him, I felt so safe and secure, I didn't have any trust issues. I always told him he could talk to me about anything, asked him how his day was and what he was doing so he wouldnt feel like i was just talking about myself, I really tried but he just quit on me? I dont understand at all. I'm so lost and confused
Thank you Psych2go, you helped me alot throughout my relationship, it was so painful to be the only one on the other side of the relationship, but, finally, it's safe to say: I broke up with her🎉 This channel saved me alot.
I really hope somebody reads this. A relationship is like dragging a couch down a dirt road. if you’re a single person. there’s no one sitting on the couch. If you’re a single parent, there’s children sitting on the couch. A helpful partner is caring the other end of the couch. A selfish partner is sitting on the other end of the couch.
I had to break up with my (ex) girlfriend because I didn’t feel feelings like that towards her. I found out a few months ago that I am aro/ace, meaning I feel little to no romantic and sexual attraction towards a person. ❤
If they can't breathe without their cell phone,social media,text,talk etc........but u can work an 8hour day&they won't call or text u............surprise they are very active on that phone........just not with u😮
Every one of them my husband help me raise my children from babies though and that's what makes it so hard for me to leave we've been together 16 yrs I don't know what to do
I am very sad about everything I ever did not know what to say or even talk when I get the feeling of this rage against my self.i hate the way I am had become.i never thought I would really turn into the way of how messed up I would think I would never turn out to b.i did not like the way my dad was to me now I end up with the same way my dad is still to me for all that I am going through it seems like I am very proud of what I do for a while until people are so much better off with real like ordering or even tell me how to be as if I can not do anything else but my self properly as if I remember correctly never
Psych2Go, could you politely answer from which window of my house are you watching my life? (another amazing video btw, but tell me why EVERY video you post has to do with something I'm feeling?)
Not in a relationship but watching this to try work out if I like my friend who has confessed to me😅did it help well... Still don't know maybe I just see him as a friend, guess I will stress over my feelings for a while longer
Why do you guys post videos about the exact issues in my life right on a dime to that exact moment. Idk i think P2G is watching us friends and observing out every moves or something, should we be worried? Are you worried!!
Im in a relationship 13 yrs out of six year no love words no feelings and no bed feelings that goes both ways for 6yrs should i let it go if theres nothing
Trust me, Titanic is a a** movie. Tell me how a woman can ruin a whole relationship for a fling on a boat. That was over in 3 days, but she held on to it for 80 more years
Trust me you don't want to have one even in this economy just be glad you're single, you can enjoy your favorite activities and not be bothered by someone who will break your heart
There are many different signs. These include spending time on phone that was not spent previously, withholding sex from you, withdrawing in communication with you, agitation or anger over Petty stuff or making up situations to get angry or agitated over, lying, being secretive in any way, randomly spending more time caring for and pampering oneself such as putting on makeup or wearing cologne or coloring hair etc. Any type of changed behavior that is not aimed at pleasing or benefiting your relationship. With all of that though, follow your gut. your gut is telling you that something isn't right and it's telling you that this could or is happening, therefore listen to it. Just Free yourself from all of it! Run and don't look back. Go 100% no contact. The mental and emotional abuse is not okay at all! Do not bring anything up to her. Don't try to rationalize or have a conversation about anything. Don't let her know that you know she's in narcissist. All of that can cause a narcissistic rage. If you have not yet witnessed one of those just trust me that you don't want to! A narcissistic rage is beyond any rage I have ever seen or witnessed in my entire life. I am an army combat veteran and served front lines for a year and afghanistan. I have abuse going back from as long as I can remember, the first time in my personal memory is 2 years old. With everything I have been involved in, and my rape, other sexual abuse, their physical abuse, etc in narcissistic rage is by far the worst! If you need to contact your local police department and start a new contact order. No one can protect you like you can! free yourself from it all and move forward in your life. The minute you run and go no contact is the minute your life begins again. If need be seek out professional help. Therapy is the best thing I did for myself. The best gift I gave to me! The abuse is so deep and overwhelming that having a professional guide you through the steps of the healing process is extremely beneficial! Just remember, there is great strength in asking for help. There is great lack and strength or no strength at all in putting on a mask and hiding behind the opinions of society and pretending that you are okay! As human beings we all witness A Time In our lives where we are not okay! Those that heal, move past, and move forward, and have a brighter future are those who ask for help and do the work that is needed through the help! I'm so sorry you are going through this and I wish you the very best! Good luck! Always remember that you are stronger than you believe you are, you are worthy and deserving of better and always, and you are enough just the way you are and who you are today! Take this time for you! Get yourself again. Fix that meal that you're all time favorite, rent that movie you've been wanting to see, have a guys night out with your best friends, remodel a room in your home, go purchase that item you've been wanting to for so long, just do for yourself! Self-acceptance, self-love, and being able to forgive yourself is far more important than what anyone else can give to you! Believe in who you are! You deserve nothing less than that! You're not alone! Feel free to tag me in any other questions that you have! I'll help if I can. Additionally you can hire a cyber expert to help you get remote access to their phone so you can track them and monitor all of their activities without them knowing. You may locate the top cyber specialists locally at digitalinvestigate@gmail.com where you can engage a well-trained professional to assist you..........
Bro. Go look up red pill dating and female nature. Once you learn about that stuff, the more the merrier, you'll never cry over another woman in your life. You learn exactly what to expect from them. What they do behind your back. Their manipulation techniques they pull on you on a daily basis most men are clueless of. Trust me. It'll open doors for you that you never knew existed.
