I’d hate to be her looking at this video as a teen realizing her mom had zero confidence in her. Hopefully Dad will not tire of staying involved and keep her grounded but with extra confidence. She’s going to need it with a mom who doesn’t believe in her. I think even the judge noticed it and wanted to give her extra praise.
@@jaeshasway i think the mom was afraid of the father too though, the dynamic was def weird. the one twin WILL know the other was favored her whole life, my daughter's father was a twin and the older brother was favored over both twins and it literally haunted him until he passed.
Ashlyn is gonna have feelings of inadequacy her whole life if the mother continue this behavior. She will need a lot of therapy as an adult. I was the middle child in my family n I suffered from this feeling for most of my life.
Reality check: the "misbehaving" daughter genuinely does NOT want to be in pageants, and it seems the mother is forcing the issue. When the dad threatens to pull that daughter from the show, it may encourage her to "misbehave" more because she literally sees it as the only way out. Instead, they all need to sit down, at a time where everyone is calm, and talk it over. If she says she wants out, respect that.
Exactly... Great decision. I like how he didn't keep entertaining her daughter just because a show. Building up good character is more important than Winning the title. I'm sure that dad wins many people heart and shows the right action of upbringing.
Ashlynn giving her sister the balloons at the end was so cute. I heard the dad got full custody of the kids and pulled them out of pageants, good for them.
I don't think dad should let them be in that environment in the first place. That little girl is miserable. I would have gotten fed up and had a tantrum too.
Yes dad i love your attitude toward your daughter's behaviour if left unchecked you'll pay a heavy price later they need to learn that their are consequences. Today's children are very smart. Stay strong Dad for your Family 🖐👨💼
The fact the mom says stuff like “I NEVER expected her to win. I didn’t expect that AT ALL. I never imagined the girls winning, ESPECIALLY Ashlynn.” Instead of “I’m so proud of her.” and “She gave it her all.” is just……absolutely disgusting. The only one you saw congratulate her is her dad. At least those kids have one decent parent.
I think it's OK for a parent to be realistic about their kid's abilities. Her kids probably weren't the best performers on the day and yes one child is going to be better than the other at an activity. It's all the negativity before that I didn't like.
I pray that AshLynn never sees or hears how her mom behaved during this video. It's heartbreaking when a parent favours one child over another. Kudos to the dad for realizing personality and what's on the "inside" is much more important than beauty, or what's on the "outside". When this mom sees this video, I hope she is ashamed of how she behaved, and learns from this.
honestly she probably hears her say stuff like that all the time in the full episode she was telling breanne to show ashlynn how to do it the right way when they were practicing and it just makes me so sad for ashlynn and how she was treated
My heart hurts for sweet Ashlynn, this sweet child is going to grow up knowing her mother clearly favours her sister and is so obvious about it. But her dad is fantastic though
This is disgusting & that woman is NO Mother! Favoring one child over the other, simply because one is a "natural on stage" is the grossest thing I've ever seen. Ashlynn will do great things in her life...no thanks to her mother's love & nurturing ways. 🙄
Mom seems to have nothing good to say about Ashlyn who appears to be a well behaved sweet young lady. At same time mom is praising Breanne who acts like a little spoiled brat all day. Thankfully dad remembers he is a parent since mom forgot and is just a pageant coach.
This is just going to cause jealousy between these two little girls, competing against each other in pageants as twins they should be able to share their lives with each other not against one another I completely blame the whole thing on the organisation of the show
The mom has a hand in this as well. She has zero ability to support her daughter, Ashlyn. Instead, she puts her little girl down and favors her other daughter, who’s acting like a brat. One daughter believes in herself, while the other daughter is being forced to perform so her mother can get attention. Mom is hurting both of her girls and hurting the relationship with her daughters. It wouldn’t surprise me if she was causing a strain on her marriage either. She may lose everything. She has lost sight of what’s truly important.... her husband and her daughter’s.
@@EmilySilva-ny2en ashlyn is gonna feel like and will prob have to work hard for positive affirmations from the mom while the other twin doesn’t have to
@@heatherm7290 Absolutely, and this is damaging to both of the girls. They are going to be competing with each other and not just in the beauty competitions. These little girls will be competing for their mom and their dad. This mother’s actions are dividing the family. I went through something, that divided my family up too, when I was growing up. I have also worked with children for many years and I have seen this so many times. It’s very sad seeing children caught in the middle of their parents issues. This mother is trying to live her dreams through her daughter. I wouldn’t be surprised if the mom was very similar to the daughter she shares a closer bond with. Like mother, like daughter... both are stubborn. Ashlyn is more of a sweet, shy little girl, who is trying to earn her mom’s approval. Her mom misses how special she is every time. I think mom should pray and work out her insecurities. I also think she should take her girl’s out of these competitions and spend time with both of her girls. She should get to know her daughters. She might be surprised how much she will learn from both of them. I think dad should do the same. He may learn something as well. It’s hard when everyone is competing against one another. Family time is extremely important. They all need to have fun family time. The beauty competitions are not allowing that. There’s more tension than anything else. Family time is awesome. Mom and dad need their time together too. Date night is necessary for the two of them. The world is already crazy. Slow down and enjoy your family and friends. Life goes so fast and tomorrow is never promised. Love with all your heart and as much as possible. The world needs more of that right now. 🙏🏻♥️😉✌🏻
Mom- Ashlyn gets very little positive attention for her sweet & good behavior! All attention goes to her sister for her bad behavior! It will truly affect her growing up since being good and Mom’s obvious favoritism of her sister will cause a great disconnect & lack of self esteem! Mom rewards BAD behavior with attention! This is going to ruin her well behaved daughter’s view of life into her teens & beyond! As a Mom of 3 girls I can see this coming from miles away! Wake up Mom!
These pageants must cost the parents an absolute fortune with all the fancy costumes, accessories, hair-do's, nails, fake tans, make-up etc. Only makes the parent feel good, not the kid. The kid's expected to win every time & when they don't get a place, it's like their world comes to an end. Let kids be kids & let them have a childhood, instead of being born & then expected to compete in adult-like pageants where competition is fierce. I don't blame the twin for chucking a tantrum. That's what kids are supposed to do, isn't it?
I wanna slap the mom why does she treat her daughter that way and after she wins “I didn’t see her winning” and her winning daughter being happy and showing her the stuff she got “I’m tired” while she has the other daughter in her arms like wow can’t even be happy for her
The mum is right in my opinion, AshLynn did look very forced. But I think that the mums approach to the issue was absolutely not okay. I’m so happy for AshLynn, she deserved to win.
It was definitely time for discipline. Maybe next time she will understand that temper tantrum’s will cause her to lose more. Never mind my Mom would’ve got a switch off a tree and I got her tantrum and I surely didn’t have another tantrum in my life?
She had a tantrum because she finally lost it with all her mother was putting her through! Maybe the mother deserves that switch! Children will show their feelings eventually about being put through a circus and being compared to their siblings. Why should she get hit? Because the grown ups are bigger?... And stupid!
I loved that they looked different than any other pageant kids...no spray tan or flipper no extreme makeup. And Dad ensuring they were disciplined was a refreshing change.
You can just tell that that mom is living through Breanne. She isn’t anything special herself so she’s trying to force it on her kids and that’s just wrong.
Well at least there's one real parent the dad I can see the mom has a favorite kid No hope for ashylen saying I don't expect her to win but other twin oh she can win this
I hate this mom everyone love her daughter except mom. But I am really impressed by dad. That little girl won because she was so disciplined and respectful. She is also kind.
I see big problems in the future with the one twin who was acting out. Perhaps the twins should compete in different pageants, stagger them. Let Ashlynn shine on her own, with her sister nowhere around to bring her down with her actions.
I was blown away by the father taking Brianne out of the pageant due to her behavior. I agree 100% with his doing so, yet amazed he stepped up and was a parent first and a pageant parent second. It was a tough lesson but Certainly Brianne was better behaved in future pageants after that.
Mom is an angry controlling person who takes it out on her kids then has dad discipline them. Mom was the one that should have been pulled & then fired. They need to hire a nicer person to take & train the girls for pageants.
Finally the only husband with balls who stood up against his wife and took control and did the right thing. More men need to start behaving this way. Most men are afraid of their wives and its so pathetic.
Trying to create a princess will ultimately result in "Little Princess' Attitude." Mrs Sterling has created this, so she'd have to deal with it. Ouuups, sorry: I'd forgotten to mentioned CRI.NGE LEVEL: 27,411. 😆
Oh my gosh that’s exactly what I was saying like even though kids may have not scored as high she still congratulated them and said good job sweetheart great job and that’s so encouraging!!
The mom having the audacity to say “I don’t know why I just heard you say something ugly about your sister” when the kid has heard her mom trashing her twin sister is mind boggling.
Good for you, dad!!! Kids should not be rewarded for negative behavior. Mom shouldn’t be so negative about her daughter Ashlyn. She is feeding her other daughter with a silver spoon, and missing out on her other daughter’s ability to shine and reach the stars. Ashlyn will soon realize that and it could ruin the chances of a close mother ~daughter relationship. Mom needs to step up and be there for both of her girls.
I'm so thankful this pageant had a Director's Choice Award to reward what really counts in life: inner beauty & kindness. Not like AshLynn's not a beauty, she's one of the cutest little things I've ever seen, but too often in these pageants they reward bad behavior (even encouraging their ugly tantrums & bossyness off stage) in order to achieve a glossy, high powered performance on stage. Just because little AshLynn didn't "turn it on" like her sister (fakely, I might add) doesn't mean she's any less deserving of praise & appreciation (especially from her parents). Kudos to their father for setting expectations & doling out consequences for the twin who was behaving poorly & bratty. Hopefully the mom will begin to gage her girls on a more realistic life scale, as opposed to what's valued in the pageant world.
Mum is disgusting, how can you favour one over the other , both of them girls look amazing , at least they have dad who seems to have his head on straight
It’s nice to finally see a parent being a parent. That Dad needs to give parenting classes. And the mother should have to attend!! It’s absolutely disgusting to see how much the mom favors the one twin over the other twin.
My heart broke for Ashlyn when Jamie started comparing her *OWN* daughters *AGAINST* each other!💔 The Pageant world hard enough when you're *CONSTANTLY* being pitted against girls their own age!🥇👑👗🏆 I've been told there's some positive from the pageant world, but not enough to go into debt over!! Personally, I feel like you're teaching them *IT'S ALL ABOUT ME!* In some areas of it, *IT'S GOING A LOT OVERBOARD!* Once they reach a certain age, there's *NO GOING BACK ON FIXING WHAT YOU DID WRONG WITH RAISING YOUR KIDS!* BreAnn doesn't have to do any of the gloating when she wins. Again, IMPO, these girls know that they're getting all dolled up, prancing around on stage, & *MIGHT* win the *BIGGEST TROPHY & CROWN* at the end of the day. However, I don't think they've the foggiest idea of what it *ALL* means!! Except when it comes to the *HARD COLD CASH!* LOL 🤭🤭 I think we *ALL* learn what that is at a *VERY* young age, whether we've got any or not!! 💵💸💵 As for Barry, he's got being a #GirlDad down to the *T!* I wished more *PARENTS* would raise their kids like this! Choose the punishment & follow through with it! *NEVER* changing it halfway through B/C they've been acting right for 24/48hrs! I just hope & pray that wasn't an act for the camera, though!! He sounded passionate about his choice to remove her from the pageant! BreAnn reacted in a way that showed she has been punished like that before!! However, we all know that this is reality TV & with that, comes scripts!! So, you just *NEVER* really know *EXACTLY* what's going on inside of their home, once the cameras are gone! 🎬🎞️📽️📺🍿🧂🍻
I would never put my child through these pageants. Mothers push them, freak out on them, moms just freak out and push their kids too hard for their own benefits not the child's. The dad is right he should pull them out and let them be children.
@@Afmedic85 What do you know about them for you to unilaterally decide they’re fine? Because on this show we saw they were being raised by very mentally abusive mother.
This is a good father and this is what a good father looks like You are responsible for your children's behavior in public! You don't just laugh and say oh she's just tired.
Dad is one of the few people on this show that has sense! I hope Ashlynn grows up and stays sweet but Breann is going to be a brat. Her mom is sooooo up breanns but that she leaves out her other daughter. That judge deserves an award for doing that. Most of these judges are uptight but she saw the sweet and kind girl and gave her that award!
Barry did the exact right thing for BreAnne acting how she acted, you wanna be a total brat in public then you don't get to participate or be rewarded for it, well done teaching your kid a lesson 👏👏👏
