The Quint went out on the streets of Delhi, in the month of December at Night - to ask men why rapes happen, who is to blame, what makes someone commit rape.
@@drishyashrivastava You can not define everything that way. If I start walking in a forest and attacked by bunch of Hyena. Who is the Victim & who is responsible...? Legally I am innocent one, but isn't it also my duty to ensure my safety. I can not turn those Hyena into vegetarian creatures.
@:D How many? You think that people who committee these crimes never got the chance to learn how be well mannered? Which is why I said you can not turn Hyena into vegan.
To the man who said women invite rape, How does a woman in a burkha , how does a 3 year old girl , how does a 80 year old woman invite rape ? Men with a thinking like this are nothing but a shame for mankind as a whole .
@@souradeepdas8195 it LITERALLY depends on the rapists because a women in burqa is as likely to get raped as the one in the bikini and it is not even a hypothetical situation anymore as it has happened multiple times in the country. Now this doesn't necessarily mean that women who go out at midnight wearing hot pants are doing a very sensible and unquestionable thing but the point is, as i mentioned earlier, women in both the scenarios ARE getting raped nevertheless so how does her clothing even matter? So holding women accountable for it would probably be the sickest thing a man can do.
@@barirahusmani9522 Going out at night can be dangerous for both men and women. My two friends were out at 3am catching a train and found themselves walking alone on the road when four individuals approached them with knives and demanded money. They could have fought back, but it could have put their lives at risk. Unfortunately, in our country, there are no laws allowing citizens to carry guns, making it difficult for us to defend ourselves. We live in a society where criminals have access to firearms, but as civilians, we do not have the means to protect ourselves. As a result, my friends were forced to give up what they had on them. This type of situation is becoming increasingly common in India. There is no way to stop criminals, they have existed throughout history. Where there are good people, there will also be bad people. The best way to stay safe is to take preventive measures.
@@souradeepdas8195 this would've been a great example had we been discussing crimes in general and not a specific type of crime which in this case is rape. in that particular example your stance stands vague and irrelevant. ofc protecting ourselves is on us (for both men and women) but the same question arises again which is are the women who are not wearing such revealing clothes on a safer side? the answer to which is no. a rapist will a rape a women regardless of what she is wearing so the problem isn't clothes but the men who rape and a society which still holds the victim responsible. end of discussion
@@barirahusmani9522 In Indian society, it is not common for women to wear revealing clothing such as bikinis in public. However, now, due to the influence of Western culture, some women may choose to wear more revealing clothing in order to gain attention from others. Additionally, Rape occurs in isolated and dark places, not in crowded places, and has no correlation to what a woman is wearing. Given that we live in a flawed society, it is important for both men and women to exercise caution when going out alone at night or avoid going out at night altogether. As we discussed everyone's mindsets are different. Someone gets triggered by some dresses some by others which we don't know, so now if my chicks want to go out at night in a short dress half nude then as a man I will object as I don't want to risk my girl when I know 70 percent of people are illiterate and poor, unemployment along with ranking lowest as under stuff policeman in the world index. I love her so I can't risk her life in society education or criminal mindset. So I will request my girl not to go out at night unless it is necessary. Now if you say I am controlling her body and her rules theory then you need to come to reality. Even in modern society, In every war women are the victim of rape. Criminals have existed throughout history and they will exist forever. No punishment or education can stop them so take preventive measures as much as possible. "Hate the sin, not the sinner." -- Mahatma Gandhi
"A man rapes a stray dog in Patna." I would like to ask those who comment on girls dress or returning home late night, should these dogs also put on salwar kamij and go take shelter in your home. Please come out of your pervert mindsets.
@m amin well even if you are right, it won't change the fact that literate ppl also rape women/men and that literacy doesn't change the character of a person. Agree?
Parants are responsible for how they raise their child. Please teach your child, your lil brother, your cousins, your friend about how we have the right to dress how we want. We love fashion. When I wear clothes i don't realize that I'm wearing a short dress or maxi. I just want to know that I'm wearing a dress I love. And that's it. I don't want another good man turn into a rapist because some people didn't bother to teach him the right thing. Please 🙏
@@micasa5633 we need this reply as a comment. Comment it again!!! Cuz replies are often unnoticed! Any misogynistic parent needs to read this comment! They are ruining this world!
The one who told that women invite rape is so disgusting height be thinking that it's manly to attend the invitation. If the one is that correct then why can't he slap that girl who is expecting something else from him or question her or avoid her but who gave the right rape her! Ise bolte ki aur kuch dino mein isko haak bhi malenge shayad vo invite ki isliye apni maradpan dikhaya karke boldenge aur kuch hi dino mein!
Thd position of women has always been vulnerable In India often newfound freedom and its expressionis frowned upon by men who think those should be reserved for men only and women should be subservient.
Imagine saying "please don't rob me" to a masked man with a knife asking you for money. And wtf do you mean by Men? Women aren't some born angels. Like the guy in the video said, "taali kabhi ek haath se nahi bajti".
@@zappy9880she never said women's are Angels btw in my point of view men can't even control their lust that's the main reason for the rape cases so it's weak men prob
@@zappy9880 to teri mummy ka rape ho to teri mummy ki galti hai? rape koi taali nahi hai. no means no jo pehna jis time bhar hai sb baad ki baate no means no. and pesa to hota hi udane ke liye hai. tu compare krke ye bhaukna chahta h ki ladki bhi rape hone ke liye hoti hai? i feel sad for your mom. kahi tu bhi is "do haath ki taali" wale rape ki paidayish to nahi? jo tera baap ye bolke chupa rha ho ki teri mummy shadi me sundar makeup krke ayi thi to iska mtlb chahti ho rape karu
@@varundixit6426 yeah i agree but watching him saying things like that i wish i was the reporter i would have definitely slapped him, after his opinion
@@varundixit6426 I get what you are saying .but one girl would really wanna slap him after hearing that . speaking about myself I would definitely not because he has horrible mindset for girls and I am not physically stronger than him .he could do more harm to me .
Bhai galati na ladki ki hain nahi ladko ki. Galati in buddho ki hain. Jawan ladko se zada hawasi toh ye budhe log lag rahe hain. Ghar ke ladko ko ladkiyon ki izzat sikhane se pahele ghar ke buzurg logo ko sikhana chahiye.
I mean if you are driving at 200 kmph on a city road and then end up crashing, I think some responsibility falls on the driver as well. This ain't a fairyland kiddo, this is real life. You can't change every evil person to be good because if that were the case there would be no stealing, m*rder, assault and SA today. If you really hate victim blaming, then just start keeping your door unlocked at night. Surely if you are robbed, the entire responsibility falls on the robber right?
@@zappy9880 giving a bullshit example of car road in a case of rape does show your stupidness…. The way u blame a girl for being raped is the lowest trench that u can think….your sister is being raped don’t do fir on police station its the fault of your sister not the fault of the accused
@@zappy9880 yes you fucking dumbass, the entire responsibility falls on the robber for stealing something that isn’t his. Looks like the point went in one ear and out the other. Men like you have rapist mindset and nothing can be done about it
So when a girl wears less it said they tried to provoke, and when she covers themselves it makes 'men' curious on what is inside. Heck, women can never win here 😭.
@@diallo9668 i don't know about that but there is literally no se education in india and children resolve to porn sites to learn about s*x and stuff. and porn shouldn't be education.
@@evasingh9223 if there isn't an alternative, what's to be done? It's either something or nothing. I don't think sex Ed would never be implemented in a conservative Society like India's.
@@diallo9668 but porn should not be a substitute. Porn is like the most unhealthy and unrealistic form of sex. It doesn't teach us the importance of safe sex and consent. Porn is not education.
I went through physical abuse as a young teen. I had sworn to raise mentally and emotionally healthy children. Today, as a mother of a 19 year old young man, it has been my responsible to raise a respectful, empathetic, wise and confident man. Raise such a boy that every woman feels safe and protected around him!
Sadly you cant really control or see what does your son does, there are hidden devils among us. You can never know what kind of man you raised. Hitler was sweet with kids and has a good heart but he still did the genocide.
I am a 18 year old girl living in delhi and after seeing the first 3 mins of this video i got so scared that i started crying. I just wish no woman or girl has to face these predator men anyday .
I am so sorry. All of us are scared and we are trying our best. I hope you can find the strength in the communities that protect each other, girls who support each other. I hope you can know there is still hope for all of us.
Mehak Singh dear we are desperately sorry for these monster like they treat girls with lust. Pls learn self defense and be bold , men sould learn to control themselves instead of thinking what women wears.
This actually shows his inside. Literally all men behave civilized in front of media and in reality they thought their thoughts are same as any rapists
It's actually the problem of people's perspective... If a girl is raped she's the only one to be blamed... Everyone keeps saying that girls should not be going around wearing revealing clothes and all.. bt that's not even true.. there are such People who rape a 5/6months girls also! ! I don't know how .. those are just Little baby girls... Can you blame those babies ? The problem is of men... They think that problems are only with girls that drive them to rape.. They want them to come home early.. bt girls are also raped in broad daylight...even if a guy just randomly pick up a girl, the People around there would remain silent.. they'll just watch silently. And when the issue becomes big.. they start to protest for justice... What's funnier is that the rapist could also be protesting for justice and we don't even know... The World is developing definitely bt for women the world is becoming more unsafe day by day...
@@mahamkhan7365 "all men"? Bit too quick to draw the conclusion there. There are good-bad everywhere, swift generalisation of a category doesn't help in improving society.
*Girl: wears skirt *Guy: does something inappropriate *Guy: she was asking for it *Girl: punches guy and his jaw breaks ............he was asking for it
Huge huge respect for the gentleman who says he's an autorickshaw driver by profession. Even highly educated men from well-to-do families often don't understand this concept of equality as well as he does. If all men were like this, cases like Nirbhaya would never have happened. Goes on to show that a good society is not just built on education but introspection and self-reflection. I'm sure he must've passed on these values and ideologies to his children too. God bless them all!
@Ashkan Zahoor here im only talking about rape content. Where society blindly blame for womens too for getting raped. I Mean like yy??? What's her fault???
I'm from rajasthan, just 3 to 4 days ago i was returning back from a movie it was around 8 and summer time in a crowded area three guys were continuously honking i was on a activa they started cat calling me saying me disgusting stuff like mere saath chalogi, i love you,kitna logi and i was wearing a dress that was knee length long. I wanted to report the incident and even noted their car number down but due to lack of family support i couldn't do it. It doesn't matter what time we go out what clothes we're wearing its the men out there that need to be controlled and not the women
@Vanshika Oberoi EXACTLY. LOUDER FOR PEOPLE AT THE BACK. These idiots think a girl smiling at them is asking for it. Damn it! Doesn't matter if she's roaming butt naked(which nobody does btw). Doesn't matter if she wanted to kiss you initially. Once she's showing signs that she doesn't want to proceed anymore and you don't stop, that's rape and just wrong. No means no.
It is honestly so sad that there are people out there talking about inviting rape..Do they think we are public property? As a 16 year old girl, I am extremely uncomfortable even wearing sleeveless because old men catcall me😡
The fact that a guy said uneducated people are the cause but himself blamed girls for rape and an auto driver is much more clear and understanding about rapes
I lost hope while watching this video until I saw some of the brave men out there speaking what should be spoken. Kudos to all the gentlemen out there, thank you for making us feel a little bit safe in this country. Wish more men were like this. :)
@@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984I think you were brought up in a violent household so your mind is actually fucked liked so much fucked that you're mentally disturbed and need some enlightement because no stable human can say that even as a joke
@@playmobilegamescodm don't play victim here rape is discussed not false accusations. And secondly no one says that men should only stay at home , no outing= no female interaction = no fake allegations
If a woman is "inviting rape", then it's not rape anymore. In that case the man has her consent... That's the whole point. Do me a favor and open a dictionary will you? 😑
@@user-zh3wv2bw8x The uncle and the guy were talking about equality, though there needs to be a certain precaution to be taken for a threat like theft or a similar crime, for the topic that is discussed here, the mentality is the problem "Khali dimag shaitan ka Ghar Hota hai".
@@user-zh3wv2bw8x It is not the support of girls in shorts that make humans "god Ka avatar". It is the support of a mentality which does not see all women as sex dolls but as people with equal freedom as their male counterparts. Think a little beyond, will you?
@@user-zh3wv2bw8x Not all women wear shorts. Not all women love make up. Ap jaiso ki problem yahi hai, ek ne kya shorts pehen liya aur make up laga liya matlab sare aurat aise hi hai. Meri marzi mai shorts pehenu, make up lagau ya burkha pehnu. Aap se matlab? Aurate peeche isiliye hai kyunki unki body ke alava dusro ko aur kuch dikhta hi nhi hai. Khair ap kya samjhoge.. agar samajhte toh yeh discussion hi na hoti. 🙏
2:17 is that why a 8 month old baby, chutkki got raped by her cousin? She seduced her cousin by crying?!! Same on this man for having such midset. The only reason i see for the occurrence of rape is the nasty mindset of those pathetic creatures. They should not be called as men, cause a real man knows his value and knows how to control himself. Those ppl should be labeled as monsters. The sad reality of India is that victims are mostly blamed for the actions of the other
I respect what the driver uncle said . Lots of power and love to him ❤ He is a lot educated and open minded person . The way how he said that he gaurds girl passengers as bodyguards and how everyone should be treated equally is 🫡🫡🫡
Yea chances are there ;-(... I have not shown anger to anyone who misbehaves and will just stay away from them because I am so scared ... I will just alert elders.. A guy who is misbehaving is already a beast...a slap can't stop him :-/
@Be Yourself wtf education matters the most. If they don’t know what consent is, how to talk to girls, how to handle your emotions then these things would keep happening. Education isn’t just for getting a job. If Indian society would be more open towards the topic of consent and teach about sex these things wouldn’t happen. They are right that people from lower classes generally molest women because of lack of education but still they also ain’t wrong that people with knowledge don’t. That’s why education is a *MUST*.
that one guy said "i'm worried about my sister" and next moment he said "girls invite men for rape", i hope when his sister heard about this she must have slapped him. what double standards mannn!!!!!!
When will people understand, clothes doesn't define safety, I've worn fully covered clothes and still have been touched and groped in public, was it my full sleeve hoodie and sweatpants fault? Also was it wrong of me to be out at 2 pm in the afternoon with my friends? In the society filled with people who are still mentally in the 90's and 80's I will never feel safe:)
"She's wearing it from her own money, not ours. It's her wish. But the boys shouldn't get any thoughts about doing something wrong to her." He said what had to be said.
Guys and girls, I don't think girls will be ever safe in India until girls themselves become violent. I am no priest so I don't preach. Fuck if anything threatened me, I'll beat the fuck out of that thing. But remember girls, when you raise hand on a man, he will fight back ! So fuck the ego inside of yours , fuck the attitude and help each other. Your father, brother, cousins or boyfriend won't be with you 24/7. Learn to be humble towards each other and help each other. Girls alone are weak, but girls together are very strong. Don't underestimate your hands. Beat the fuck out of anyone who threatens you. But if you could get police on time then it's all better. Even we boys rely on police when facing powerful enemies. That's just the flaw of our judiciary system. Girls be powerful. Remember, even when we homo sapiens just started here on earth we relied on strength of togetherness. There's nothing to be ashamed of. Help each other. Atleast girls don't lynch perverts. We cannot expect perverts to change their mind by themselves.
As a psych major, lemme tell you that rape happens purely out of hate and aggression, it has nothing to do with sex. Maybe while teaching safety measures to young girls, we might as well teach young boys how to see women as individuals who should be respected.
Teach your boys not to rape instead of teaching your daughters to cover up. Literally every guy in this video who blamed it on the women for whatever reason is strongly misogynistic and no doubt have a rapist mindset. To all my girls out there: Baby girl, it’s never your fault. It’s not your fault for staying out late, its not your fault for wearing what you want, its not your fault for ‘provoking’ men, IT. IS. NEVER. YOUR. FAULT
I'm saying a lime .plz tell me if I'm wrong or right. These days these women are wearing Over short dresses... I'm not someone ordering anyone how to wear but there's a fine line between Wearing short dresses and showing Vulgarity. Over short dresses exposing cleavage show Vulgarity. I don't know from where these women studied that Wearing over short dresses are attractive. U can still be attractive by wearing Attractive Clothes. Short dresses showing Vulgarity is not equal to attractive. Do u agree with my opinion. ( This opinion is not about r@pe or it's context tho...think it as from neutral POV)
@@rohankumar9034 I think you’re entitled and in way over your head to think that all women dress up for you. They’re not, they’re dressing up for themselves and are being expressive. You need to get the mindset that ‘women are only dressing up for boys’ out of your head. And its not my place to judge women by what they wear cuz i do not give a shit
@@Sushi_Lover456 did u even read my whole comment? I already said I'm not someone ordering women how to dress but there's a difference between Wearing short dresses and wearing Dresses exposing Cleavage and showing Vulgarity. Don't u agree? Women ( even men) shouldn't wear any dress that shows Vulgarity....this isn't UD , this is India. Har jagah being Independent and Women empowerment ko use krke useless cheeje justify krna is wrong. (Even my sister agress with my line)
@@rohankumar9034 I don’t care if your sister agrees with your line. And yes, i did read your comment before. You didn’t directly say it but you certainly implied it. And you asked for MY opinion, why are you bringing someone else into this discussion? I already told you that I don’t agree with you and that your statement is wrong. Periodt
There are psychopaths like that who wear the mask women like to gain their trust and to get them into situations where they can be taken advantage of. Of all the guys you hate for speaking up what you hate, at least you can be sure they don't have ulterior motives. Be very careful of sweet people. I'm a guy who's views on such subject is disliked by women like you, and I know many black hearted guys who talk very decently with women only to use and abuse them later on. According to various stats, in India more than 90 percent of rapes happen where women previously knew the perpetrator and trusted him. So, :small clothes so raped', such cases are far less than rape by trusted fellow. This rape by trusted fellow or uncle is what gives you most psychological trauma and renders you incapable of healthy relationships by giving you trust issues for life. So please stop blaming other and take some responsibility for your own safety.
@@rudra-b3i ..... For ur kind information mr. is this wrong to trust someone... The one who breaks the trust is wrong.... So u can't say that it's our fault to trust and let that thing hppn.... The guys who take advantage of the trust of a girl should get punished for wht they did.... Ppl who don't even now how to maintain the dignity and respect don't have the right to stay in society.... We aren't disliking anyone's perspective... But those who are wrong they areee wrong.... Open up ur mind a little bit u would also have a sister and mother at ur home....
@@SwatiSingh-bn3el it is wrong to trust wrong people. And you need the skill to learn to accurately differentiate between good and evil people if you want to venture out into the outside world you you can be a stay at home daughter/mom it's not like you won't get married if you don't work, you have privilege of marrying into a good family with a good guy without any employment, a privilege guys don't have. There are far greater problems and crimes in India and law enforcement is so little and already overworked. We just don't have enough resources to put a police man in every isolated nook and corner where a woman might feel like going alone or with her 'trusted' guy. It will be more practical and responsible for women of good families to put their sincere effort in staying out of trouble, they, being an adult should learn to take care of themselves so that police and law enforcement would have time and energy for women who are actual victims of crimes and could do very little to nothing to protect themselves. The upper middle class women are taking away all the attention away from real destitute women only for their provocative dresses, drinking, late night parties and hanging out with lose character or questionable character 'friend's.
@@rudra-b3i that's totally rytt and that's the reason why women need to be educated cause when u educate a men u just educate him but educating a women means educating a whole future family..... But u must be well aware there are still some regions where women aren't allowed to study..... After that many women aren't aware about their rights law and enforcement.... Trusting someone i don't think it is wrong bcoz if u won't trust anyone u won't be able to stay in this world.... The thing is u must wisely trust anyone but still that person breaks the trust it's not our fault then..... It's that person's fault....
@@harikrishnanr1971 nah bro sex education is the first step and vo necessary hain toh hain, whether the child wants to fire the gun or not is his own choice the least we can do is teach him that firing a gun is wrong unless ofc its self defense but voh alag baat hain.
@Abin Abraham dude wtf? "U need sex for sex education" ???? U high bro? Sex education is taught in schools too.. it'll be fun in schools if ur statement was right lol
Victim blaming as usual. If someone is horny, that's their problem, no one else's. If these men with their perverted minds cannot keep it in their pants, do the world a favour. Get therapy because this is not acceptable behaviour. This is CRIMINAL behaviour. Your freedom to want to SA someone ends where the other person's freedom to walk freely begins. If in spite of everything, you can only think of SA someone, go to a prison. You'll be in good company. There are plenry of men who would be happy to give and receive. Do it amongst yourselves. Nobody will stop you.
India me sex dolls jitni jaldi ho sake large quantities me import karna chahiye. Seriously Indians ko sex dolls ki zarurat hain. Aur in backminded logo ko dekhkar lagta hain ki kam se kam 1 crore dolls ki zarurat paregi.
I mean if you are driving at 200 kmph on a city road and then end up crashing, I think some responsibility falls on the driver as well. This ain't a fairyland kiddo, this is real life. You can't change every evil person to be good because if that were the case there would be no stealing, m*rder, assault and SA today. If you really hate victim blaming, then just start keeping your door unlocked at night. Surely if you are robbed, the entire responsibility falls on the robber right?
@@zappy9880 First off, if someone is driving at 200 kmph and ends up in a crash, 'all the responsibility, not some' falls on the reckless driver. There's a reason why there are rules in place. So your analogy is irrelevant and weak. However, the issue here is someone driving at 200 kmph crashes into a person driving at 50/60 kmph well within the speed limit. Then people like you blame the second person for driving where the first idiot was driving. That's the excuse you're trying to make and I'm sorry, that doesn't fly, kiddo. This ain't a lawless country where people are allowed to let their intrusive thoughts win every time. This is real life with real consequences for unlawful actions. Second, nobody is claiming this is Utopia where everyone is well behaved and nothing is wrong. There's a difference between irresponsibility and 'asking to be raped'. A person not locking the doors at night is most definitely irresponsible but does that mean the thief is absolved of their crime? No. The thief will be punished once caught. Do you know why? Because that's not their house. So no matter how many times a person is irresponsible and doesn't lock their door, they are not at fault for being robbed. Are they stupid for keeping their doors open? Most certainly. Who keeps their doors unlocked? But can the criminal use that as an excuse? Most definitely not. Third, instead of blaming the victims for not being careful, why don't you advocate for harsher laws against SA perpetrators? Why so sympathetic and willing to present their case? Take a long hard look at yourself and do some serious introspection. If you are willing to accept such sick perversion in society, I'm sorry you are part of the problem. If you are not willing to help build a safer society for everyone and instead use energy on victim blaming and shaming, you are part of the problem. Grow up.
According to world women are tooo shy to ask like that ............women will give some signs ....men should make the first move .......in India women act like they are not interested in sex .......women won't even propose first .....how can you expect women to ask like that ?
@@sharukhkhan1317 Use some logic, she wont ask you for BDSM in the corner of the street. If you think she's interested ask for her number, if she says no stop bothering her.
1:28 completely agreed with the guy. Although he was hesitant that he might be saying something wrong people might take it in a wrong way. You were right man absolutely. Treating both girls and guys same way is a solution to this. Trying to protect girls is not an option. Teaching what is right is important. Importants of ones feelings respect towards each individual no matter what the age is.
For the equality 1st of all the man should normalise & they should make the surroundings safe for their female frnds or colleagues. Meanwhile Equality can be achieved in profession, knowledge, education etc but in safety women need some support from men to make the environment safer it might be becoz of her sensitivity, appearance, etc.
I don't think it has anything to do with the point he mentions. You'd refrain from doing such a thing out of respect for another person. This was meant to cause harm and was just a malicious act on their part.
Yes...But after watchng ur half naked dresses in roadside as well television is one of the most dangerous reason which boys cary their lust & show it to some another innocent women/child...Plsss dnt frget that there are evil spirits behind such act...Thanku
Crime comes from hate or selfishness or madness. Lack of love is common in any crime. Darknes fills the heart and burns the conscience of the one who imagines evil
Will say, that when you go from Mumbai to Delhi, you can feel the difference in culture and attitude of men to women. The confidence I feel traveling at 2-3 am in the night in Mumbai is absent in Delhi. It's sad that the capital is like this. If 90% of the city's population doesn't think like that rickshaw wala uncle, nothing will change.
That auto rickshaw driver proves that there's a huge difference between being "wise" and being "educated". He understand things better than most of the people. Our society needs more people like him.
I'm saying a line .plz tell me if I'm wrong or right. These days these women are wearing Over short dresses... I'm not someone ordering anyone how to wear but there's a fine line between Wearing short dresses and showing Vulgarity. Over short dresses exposing cleavage show Vulgarity. I don't know from where these women studied that Wearing over short dresses are attractive. U can still be attractive by wearing Attractive Clothes. Short dresses showing Vulgarity is not equal to attractive. Do u agree with my opinion. ( This opinion is not about r@pe or it's context tho...think it as from neutral POV)
@@rohankumar9034 what you consider attractive and/or vulgar isn't the same as everyone else. not just women, but everyone should be allowed to wear what they want without being judged or looked down upon for it.
Tbf if the guys and girls are both less then 18 neither of them should stay outside after 12 in the dawn India isn’t a safe place tbh, there are murderes/criminals everywhere
probably working hard to earn money so sisters can get married. Well, I'm now sure what men in your family do when they are out at night. Tell them it's bad to harass women 😎
The fact that SO MANY people blame the girl, the victim. They tell her that HER respect will get ruined. About the second fact, they are not even wrong and its the fault of our own society. The society instead of keeping leash on girls and just telling them that its gonna be their own fault, it need to be more focused on educating the boys. Teaching them what is right and what is wrong depends on the society. A guy should ALWAYS know the meaning of consent and respect it on all terms.
😁 who asked boy to drink wine then.. don't our conscience know that smoking cigarettes and drinking alcohol is injuries to our health? If we know then why do we encourage to explore the thing's were actually meant harm to the flesh? In the same way why the flesh is not adopted to moral values? Just think haven't you lie from ur childhood? I am so sry to say this, our society is not aware of moral values first. We always show other's log in their eyes but not ours. For the sake of this we say equality and all such stuff.. that stupid is saying that when boy drink wine, girl should explore that taste. Etc., Very pity about this view.
@Mohini Kumari xactly... Well explained... Ters difference between self discipline n abusing others.... U hav rights on ur body but nt over others... Which people fail to understand
@Mohini Kumari well said that was my next point U raised it...we must feed it to brain but choices are made wisely... If a made a choice to drink wine she can harm herself in the long term... Later she could realise that all it hpn bcz of what I made in past... She can be addicted, cancer, unconcious (rape can happen) etc., Knowingly no human being should feed their brains to harm their own flesh... Applauding culture is raising because of free spirit towards destruction and immorality... Pity view 🥺
To the guy with the red jacket and to all others reading this, if a girl smiles at you or talks to you then it does not mean that you have been given the access to touch her. A women is not written in brail that you have to touch her to know her. Be the change you want to see and a NO always means a NO!
@Advait Bhatkhande I agree and it's also the parent's responsibility to teach their sons to respect women and understand that no means no. If the parents aren't teaching their sons about consent that is also the problem.
exactly!A guy better know the difference between a friendly smile from a girl and an inviting smile from his wife.Its sick that behen hote huye bhi uske aise thoughts hain.
@Advait Bhatkhande hahah dude every second person watches porn. But the thing is not every second guy rapes a girl or intends to do.'sanskaar' is principle of life. If youre not familier with it, no matter you watch porn or not, no matter a girl shows off her legs,cleavage or not he will try to touch her anyway and look at her with the same intentions anway, even if she's covered her body. Examples are there. Those morons can rape anyone
The guy who said that less clothes provoke men, I wanna say 1 thing so if a man gets turned on by a girl should he just rape her? Wtf? We women have sexual desires too, if a guy is hot, should we just rape men just because we got turned on? Total bull. Where is the logic? THIS SHOWS THAT MEN HAVE NO SELF CONTROL
@@utubenagarjuna9 every father will shoot after seeing that but he won't prevent his son before itself. Prevention is better than cure is proverb that can be used here also. Please give your son's sex education as soon as possible
@@prasannapandramish4732 agreed. I was taught about what is appropriate what is not, early on and it makes proper sense to me now. It all stems from how a family treats such social issues right at home. What you seed is what shall you reap, right? That's about it!
Baccha hai abhi wo Time lagega usko samaghne me Ki ladki agar chahti hai (whatever he said) ki baat kare to baat kar na Rape kyu kar raha hai Baat karni nhi aati matlab usko
by the way aise kon se gestures hote hain jinse aise logo ko ye indicate hota hai tht the gl is saying cm n rape me... grt mindsets... actually gutter mindsets
we, for some reason whatsoever has just decided as a society that men can't be changed but women can be restricted and that's where this whole issue generates from in my opinion.
@@gammaphoenix5893 criminal?huh?...if all male is educated by there parents abt how to respect women...then why would they become criminals .....u make no logic
@@souijaboi3198 we are talking abt rapists.... Rapists don't need to have a single mom it depends 🙃a rich child to a orphan child.... everyone can grow up into anything....only the way they develop depends....tats wat i tried to say🤡
The guys who pointed out that guys were the problem and not the clothes from the girls made me tear up like... I was really not expecting that to happen and that's sad
I was being followed by five full grow men, when I was fifteen, (returning from my school programme in saree in case anyone questions what I did to tempt the predators), in broad daylight, and not a single person came out to help. I legit ran, crying, to this elderly auto rickshaw driver who then picked out a few of his friends and warned those guys and then dropped me home. Everyday, I am thankful to that stranger and have learned that the disease of this civilization is indifference.
@@dpb4481 I cannot begin to imagine the horrors you must've faced but unfortunately the more unorthodox times are becoming,the more cases of eve teasing,sexual harassment and rape are being normalized. I too am a victim of sexual harassment and that too from members of my own family. I really hope that people like this autowala uncle and the strangers who saved you increase in this world.
@@d_dimensionseye6080 the sentence doesn't mean there should be no men. it means that any place can be safe as long as the men there are good, and any place can be unsafe if the men there are bad. please understand what is said before commenting
@@Liam-ki7sw nope. I am not scared of the women in red light areas. I am scared of the men who go there as clients to the prostitutes, who also exist because men want prostitutes. Im not saying men cant be prostitutes and women cant be clients, but these districts exist because of the reason i said. And i know there are some horrible women who live there who buy and sell girls, but who buys those girls? Men. So no, even red light areas are unsafe because of men.
@@anee7558 so you are not less than the guy who was justifying rape case Lol come to NCR see yourself, what we go through once i was going through a red light area, women were just coming at us, we said No, still they didn't understood, just kept saying "we know you want it" + add the price Women talks about self-respect, then go into porn industry, prostitution, etc. Also why would you be scared of women in red light area, you are women yourself. Same as men who aren't scared of rapists but women are. STOP YOUR DOUBLE STANDARDS Both are at faults, cannot forget the misuse of article 498a, my uncle faced it.
all the men trying to put the blame on girls disgust me, but it's nice to know that atleast a few men are trying to understand the problem and trying to make it safe while blaming the actual culprits.
@@frostbite4019 grow up dumbass. In india most women still dress quite well, if u actually travel around the world and observe how women dress you'll realise that its actually indian women who are missing out on freedom. And man in ure country even kids are and perfectly dressed women wearing sarees and burkhas are still raped so quit whining
That bearded rickshaw uncle though. When a girl is travelling alone, when she looks at his face for the first time, they might think that no he does not look really civilised. He is not safe. But he is actually a really nice person. On the other hand, people who look civilised and well dressed can have a very wrong thinking. What r we even supposed to do. We can't judge by looking at their face.
This literally happened in my engineering college. We were fucking 20. Wtf. And the irony is, in school they made us sit with boys for "discipline" so that we don't talk but if we sat next to the guy who wasn't assigned to sit next to us we got in trouble
@@debayanhalder7858 lucky you, looks like either times have changed or you're in a good school or you have a good teacher. I was in 12th 8 years ago so yeah been a while :P
🤣🤣🤣but the teachers put it like a punishment and I thought not getting close or talking to girls is great person....now I don't know how to talk to girls 😂
Not in School but also some work places. A friend of mine was chatting with a lady( she was his friend ) in office, a lady HR passes by and notices the act. She immediately complained the Line Leader, the Supervisor and Enlightening us that this was unethical and immoral. The colleague had no objection.
Few men said amazing things, Like autowale uncle and few were disgusting. Still it gives goosebumps to think about that day. Please speak to people who are around you and try to understand what they think on this serious issue and try to change if they are thinking it all wrong. Video is good. This kind of feedback should be done
1:09 same thing I have read in dainik bhaskar that rape video was trending after hydrabad rape case in 2019....and I remember all most 22 lakh people have watched this....I was so so so disturbed I went through many sleepless nights after reading this....at that time I was feeling so weird that even thought of dying had come to my mind
That guy wearing red jacket has lost his mind, even though he has a sister he doesn't know the value of women. He stated that '' Girls invite rape'' . Delhi men 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Its not about Delhi men. Its about the thinking of different individuals with different backgrounds and different upbringings. The other wise men in the video are from Delhi too. But they are far more better human beings.
Just imgine if he have a sister in real than she will be so insecure in her own house.. while sitting, sleeping every time she might have to worry about her posture around him or with anyone. May be she will lock herself inside a room when he is there.
