7 Agreements We Had Before Marriage | Kingsley Okonkwo & Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo

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Join us as we share some of the agreements we had before we got married, the agreements we had, formed the foundation of how our marriage has turned out and we will love to share them with you to help you navigate through your marriage or into your marriage.
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05:20 - 05:32 - Don't Sulk, Talk
11:46 - 12:05 - Exchanging Parents
17:55 - 16:11 - Nobody leaves the house without kissing the other person
21:16 - 21:34 - We Agreed on No Passwords
23:38 - 23:53 - Joint Accounts and Joint Accountability
31:29 - 31:44 - You Look Out For Me And I Look Out For You
35:43 - 36:00 - Divorce is not an Option
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@misidee Год назад

Agreed upon over the course of the marriage 1. Don't sulk, talk. When you talk, tone, timing and attitude matters 2. Exchange parents with the understanding that marriage is a covenant. 3. Never leave the house without a kiss 4. No passwords 5. Joint account and joint accountability (if you must open separate accounts) 6. You look out for me and I look out for you (Matthew 6:33, 1 Corinthians 7:33) 7. Divorce is not an option

@horsfallconfidence9837 Год назад

Don’t you just love this couple😫😫😫how they look at each other while talking, the smiles… everything 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

@amarachukwuokechukwu2824 Год назад

Yeah... That's what gets me, most of the time...

@chiomaugwu5883 Год назад

1. Talk, don't sulk 2. Exchanging parents. 3. Nobody leaves the house without kissing the other. 4. No passwords. 5. Joint account # joint accountability. 6. Look out for me, I'll look out for you. 7. Divorce is not an option. Top notch tips PK and PM. Thank you!

@worshiphub5350 Год назад

Thank you, great work

@olgabotame6354 Год назад

You both are excellent i adore you two more grace to you ministry, family and career.

@bonginkosindlela5815 Год назад

Thank you for the summary ❤!

@sysynodum641 Год назад

Thanks for sharing.

@stephentricia2199 Год назад

I'm not married yet but I learnt a lot from you both,and I pray that I will be able to make good use of the knowledge,God bless you both immensely In Jesus name, amen.

@ipelengpali7644 Год назад

🇿🇦 With us my husband made it clear that there's no my car or your car, they are ours. And that set the tone for our marriage. That helped us to be considerate, understand sharing which affected other areas of our marriage positively. Respect is very important to my husband and it makes easy for me, should he feel disrespected he shuts down. So I have learned to treat him as my king and honor him and respect him, and that melts his heart and that makes him yield to all my needs.🙌 All thanks to you Ps M and Ps K your teachings also improved our relationship. 🙌

@olanikeogunmola5014 Год назад

Pastor K and Pastor M, i love you both. You are a real exqmple of a goodly and godly marriage. Your children are blessed to have you. How i wish my parents did all this but instead reverse is the case. I have always been scared about marriage all my life but seeing you both give me joy and hope in Christ Jesus concerning my marriage. You both made me to understand that my marriage will work and be great because Jesus is involved. Thanks for yielding sir and ma and keep being who you are. I hope to see you one day😊🙌🙇‍♀️

@ChidinmajenniferAkunyili Год назад

Stop lamenting about what your parents didn't do and strive to be a different version..

@kambugulinda1341 Год назад

I tap into this grace of a happy and great marriage in Jesus,s name.

@okonkwotina2172 Год назад

Most people paint marriage to be a scary thing for we the unmarried ones but watching the connection you both shared in this video gives me so much hope and makes me believe my own marriage will be blessed and divorce will not be an option for me through Christ Jesus.This video made my day and to everyone watching this,it’s a season of love and light. Here is me wishing us all “Merry Christmas in Advance”Remain blessed Pst K.O and Mildred love u all🌲💃🎊😘

@SherekaBrowne Год назад

It is not scary, it is hard. Marriage is hard especially in the beginning. You are seeing the results of hard work in a marriage and years of it. This marriage is a Christian marriage with a deep root in God. My marriage is similar to this now after 15 years. The trenches were the first 5 years, as that is when you are creating an new life together.

@victoriaakines9843 Год назад

Marriage is not scary, although am single bit about to be married, I never see it as scary because i know inside me as marry a man who 1) understands marriage is a convenant. 2) A man i can talk to 3) The right man. Just you for us on getting the right man first, make your own agreements and you are good to go.

@LERFWITHDOUBLEDEE 11 месяцев назад

Too much value ❤

@ntsakomavunda9018 Год назад

Beautiful 7 points agreements.we learn a lot from you both . I used this analogy of a room with no window and door while speaking at a wedding and most people were blessed .....that's how far your teachings goes...thank you Pst K&M

@Debbie_obasi Год назад

The intentionality in these agreements is amazing. I love my pastors. God bless you Pastor K and M

@dorisponi6801 Год назад

I haven't seen Pastor K and Mildred this lovey dovey 😍. True love does exist. You can see the chemistry and compatibility. Above all, i love that Christ is their foundation. I'm tapping into that blessing

@victoriaakines9843 Год назад

Don’t just tap work it out

@johnm.gakobotv7257 Год назад

They did not tap on a thing,they worked it through and out

@janetnnamani1922 Год назад

In the shortest time I discovered there were people/couple like you both, I love you plenty and I tap into a greater Grace for my future home. More Grace and blessings Sir and ma'am

@adeolaobaloluwa Год назад

It's Pastor M's unique smile for me .........Chai..........Thanks to God for the combination of you two sir and ma........ Thanks for being a unique gift for this generation......... thanks to God that U exists in my generation not before and not after.......#dancing#halleluyah# love U both.........

@Tammy-vt1vb Год назад

This couple is a blessing to my life. May God continue to bless and strengthen your union and your family.

@Gracie0609 Год назад

All 7 agreements are on point. And the fact that they are based on the covenant just makes it work.Thank you so much Pst K and Pst M. God bless you.

@peculiarokoronkwo487 Год назад

Thank you so much pastor K and pastor M, it's indeed a blessing hearing from you guys. I must confess this video is a lot more for us singles who are yet to enter into that convenant.

@ugoo4364 Год назад

This is amazing!!! When I finally meet my husband we must watch this together. This is sooo informative! Thank you Pastor Kingsley and Pastor Mildred ❤

@Diamy Год назад

I loooooovvveee the exchange of parents idea. I already had it in mind to practice. So beautiful to watch you both buttress that point🤗❤️😍

@joanneogoya Год назад

Kenya 2023!!! Whoop whoop! Can't wait!

@tieghiss6406 Год назад

I love your teaching soo much about marriage and nowadays most women believe they are going into marriage to enjoy whereas that's not what it is.

@wanjikucarolyne9307 Год назад

Nice to hear Kenya is on the calendar.👏Welcome🇰🇪

@fatimachristianaakanni6631 Год назад

I love you dearest Rolemodels🥰😍

@awodiyaibukunolamide9051 Год назад

My parent marriage is peace less so to say, I grew up having the mindset that marriage doesn't work, I was scared of marriage even at 31 but thank to you guys for yielding to God and I believe so much that my marriage will work out even as I am trying to work on my pains and move on in Jesus name but ma did you think joint account will work...hmmmm.. I don't think I can do that sha ..love you sir and ma

@ajalaayodele985 Год назад

Morning devotion must be agreed no matter how busy the husband and wife may be

@TheMacharias Год назад

😱😱😱you are coming to Kenya.... I've been praying for this yeeeeeey

@debbienike271 Год назад

Ma when you mentioned number 3 I smiled because I have always told myself this is something I and my spouse must do before leaving the house. Thank you so much pastor K and Pastor M for this video. Thank you for reshaping my mind about marriage. GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND MINISTRY. AMEN

@nubianprincess766 Год назад

I love this! Thank you for the pointers. I pray God will bless me someday with a covenant and bond as strong as yours. I thought I had someone who was ready to do that with me but he decided I was too much. So it is well. I have no anger or hatred towards him and wish him the best in life. I know the man who decides to be with me will be very happy. Pls continue to teach us and show us what it takes to have a successful marriage. I am taking notes for sure and will use all these tools in my future marriage when God decides to allow it come to past! ❤🙏🏾 Pls come to Dallas Tx so I can come out there and see you all.

@divineceleste.m Год назад

😂🤣 Pastor K say 'Warrior people' Hahaha. Aww! This was so beautiful to watch. 🙂 I'm out here smiling & loving the 7points, the outfit, how PM looks at PK & stuff... 😍 Have a wonderful Merry Christmas 🎄

@SherekaBrowne Год назад

One thing I think is also important is play. Play with your spouse. It keeps things fun. You see animals always play no matter how old they get? It is important.

@sharonlinus2195 Год назад

Best video I saw in 2022. Thank you so much, Pastor K and Pastor M. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

@ngongbengtitus6543 Год назад

I have it to never sleep in anger: that is if there is anything that supposedly I would make my partner angry about, I expect that we would talk it out before the next morning.

@nanaakua7626 Год назад

Single, so best advice at the right time. God bless you, sir and ma

@martinsenobong9241 Год назад

so if these guys say "unrealistic" things about their marriage and you feel its not tenable, practice these 7 agreements and see if you will not have outrageous testimonies.. God bless the Okonkwo's, your testimony is inspirational. This is concrete Advice

@LawryChigsMusic Год назад

Best couple i have ever seen...yes i have never met you in person but i have been following you for almost 4years or so and i feel the conviction that you are the best to me...keep it up and i pray that i will meet you in person one day.i tap in the same grace you carry...i love you both..🇿🇼

@NYBwithC Год назад

I'm just waiting, don't even trust my notification 😂

@IdoworshipBru10 Год назад

loool

@VesselofGod77 Год назад

I was TRULY INSPIRED BY YOU BOTH! May God continue to keep you in love and hide you under his wings. My husband and I will be have a very happy, successful, prosperous marriage till DEATH

@NYBwithC Год назад

I love the number 7 😇, thank you so much for being a role model❤❤❤❤

@neoneo2601 Год назад

Please make sure I get informed wen u come to South Africa, like for real. I had given up on marriage but evr since I started following u last year, look I want to get married asap. So please I don't want to miss your visit. MAKE SURE I GET INFORMED PASTOR K.

@miriamkente2462 Год назад

I am so blessed by this video🙏🏾

@ruthani2475 Год назад

God bless you Pastor K and Pastor Mildred

@aishapoloma2018 Год назад

I’m still watching but Pastor K and Pastor M you have been a blessing to me last year was the most exciting year when I saw you physically in a conference at Holy hill church in Abuja. I’m believing God for a beautiful marriage just like yours and I will definitely put in all I have learnt. God bless you more grace

@ruthmwende8989 Год назад

Kenya yesss.. we're waiting for you

@meshel4259 Год назад

Thank you so much Pastor K and Pastor M. I love you both. Merry Christmas to you and your family!!! You are both so inspiring .... Thank you for the 7 tips. Beautiful

@naomiarukulem9871 Год назад

They're coming to Kenya💃💃💃💃💃💃💃. Karibuni🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

@olumideowojoba1362 Год назад

I love that Logic behind the Kiss. Very Insightful

@blessingononor7808 Год назад

Thanks pastor K and Pastor Mildred.....you make marriage look so beautiful and lovely. Thank you for all you do.

@ibukungrace0124 Год назад

Whaoooooooooo. Very insightful. Thank you very much Pastors

@lawrenceperpetua6642 Год назад

u both makes marriage so beautiful..... pastor M, u are a perfect example of the kind of wife I will be. u are indeed a perfect woman who really understands and sees everything base on scriptural principles. pastor k on the other hand is just everything thing. thank u both for teaching our generation that marriage is such a beautiful institution. I love u so so much💕💕💕💕

@ritajosiah3673 Год назад

I just love how pastor M is just smiling and looking at pastor K 😊

@lovethamarayusuf716 Год назад

I think couples should also agree on the number of kids they should have, whether boy or girl 😊 thank you pastor K and pastor M God bless you both and your family for giving us hope and believing in marriage and putting God first in all we do. my favorite couple 🥰🥰

@imanipower2022 Год назад

Welcome to Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪. Can't wait to see you then.

@FaithAdegboye Год назад

I am not married yet, but I would love to settle differences before going to bed

@michellebutler9897 Год назад

Pastor K and Pastor M have a blessed Christmas and Prosperous New Year!

@priscillaagyeimensah7852 Год назад

Ghana will be waiting sir and ma❤

@zeeonlineworld 10 месяцев назад

💯 absolutely correct about the parents (inlaws!)

@SindaraJohnMoteh Год назад

Thank you for sharing PK and PM. Divorce is not an option is the first and major agreement in my marriage.

@destinyonuoha9468 Год назад

Am happy for you guys Merry Christmas ma /sir

@chiomarosemary8186 Год назад

Chai I just love this couple🥰”stop sulking talk” nice one👍

@glorypoetry3570 Год назад

Pastor K & Pastor M kindly come to Tanzania. 🇹🇿 come with your books also!!!!

@John99954 Год назад

Hallelujah glory to God, love you pastor Mr and Mrs Okwongo so much blessed indeed congrats and more grace in Jesus mighty name. You most welcome to Kenya 🇰🇪

@EDNACADJEI Год назад

I just can't wait to see you both post so I can watch and grow before saying yes I do , God bless you both for all your great work and love ..love you 💓

@ufonekemini8475 Год назад

Pastor M & Pastor K, thanks for this. You're the best thing that has ever happened to me. I always bless God for the day I encountered you both years back. My life hasn't remained the same since then. I pray God to keep you both in good health and may God keep blessing the works of your hands. Compliment of the season with love to my best couple

@swazi4769 Год назад

Oh yes....South Africa. Can't wait...

@pearlobenayuketah Год назад

Thanks very much for these great tips and for a lovely year with Pastor K and M. I’m grateful and it’s the Lord who is your very own reward. Quick share on agreements we should have, -1.Nothing is to be a secret -2.We might not agree at first, but empathize in the disagreement and with each other’s feelings🙏🤗🙌

@amboakwepraisesengonwie6055 Год назад

Chai you guys are just making butterflies in my belly

@SherekaBrowne Год назад

Glad you spoke about the joint account because many people don’t agree with me with that one. Then say what if…

@elizabethreward4320 Год назад

When are we seeing you in Cameroon pastor and ma'am? Can't wait to have you in Cameroon 🇨🇲. Shalom

@nenysylvia1059 Год назад

I admire the both of you and I tap into the grace of your marriage and look up to God for my own man.

@amarachidaniel1855 Год назад

Thank you pk and Pm,I listened to your message countless times when I was single, and now am married. it been a peaceful marriage... thanks to your teachings

@graciousigberase736 Год назад

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwn. It's the chemistry and the way pastor M looks at pastor K for me🥰❤️

@noraeno-obong7741 Год назад

I love every part of this video!! I am sure getting my mind prepared to practice these rules in the soonest possible time. 💃💃 More Grace to Pastor Kay and Mummy Mildred!

@raphaeldaniel5518 Год назад

Thank you so much wonderful PK and PM for driving me these few minutes into my world of fantasy🤣🤣🤣, where i had to do a deep imagination of myself entreating my future spouse with love🥰🥰. God bless you two🙏🙏

@LadyLouie Год назад

It’s so sweet the way Pk looks at PM😊. You’re a blessing Sir and Ma

@irenenasande6544 Год назад

Yes please do come to Australia. I have recently started watching your videos on RU-vid and honestly I have learnt a lot from both of your teachings. Stay blessed ❤

@preciouswogu4609 Год назад

Felt and saw the love you both have. Thank you for always.Thank you for sharing

@trymoremukwena9727 Год назад

I am blessed with everything mentioned in this sermon

@zipporahkyeni Год назад

I've been waiting for you to come to Kenya ,💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃 welcome to Kenya in advance! Karibuni Kenya 🥰🥰🥰

@mofesheruncreations9838 Год назад

God bless you and yours always. Thanks Sir and Ma for making yourselves available to be a blessing to generations.

@boluwatifegrace4092 Год назад

Thank you sir and Ma

@charlottekiberu34 Год назад

I pray l get to experience this type of love in marriage 🙏🏾

@tolulopeibitola5025 Год назад

This blessed me greatly. God bless you, Amen.

@pandulonamusha4122 Год назад

Please do also visit us in Namibia when you come to South Africa

@FrankAmexo Год назад

Ayayayayayayayaaaaa! 🔥 Points of Points 🎉

@sashamoureen9598 Год назад

If your able to come to Kenya, do you guys mind including Uganda on your list, I would be a pleasure. God bless your ministry

@ucheumoke7192 Год назад

MAXIMUM RESPECT, I WILL KEEP PRAYING FOR YOUR FOREVER AND THE ENJOYMENT OF YOUR FOREVER.

@ijehebube4162 Год назад

Wow this is really so Amazing 👏 😍 God continually bless you 🙏 marriage is really a covenant something ❤️

@franciscaanselem Год назад

Pastor K! How far?, Argentina made it to final and won ohh..... Blessed home

@aleburugideon5817 Год назад

Thank you sir and Ma. God bless you richly

@varietywithlaura Год назад

Thank you sooo much for sharing ,God bless and increase you both , Amen

@NYBwithC Год назад

We stay and fix it! Thank you PM ❤, 3pm with PM Tribe 🙌

@WolfandThreePiggysTV Год назад

I love how she looks at him 😍

@adetolaakinwande9489 Год назад

Loads of love ❤️.. thank you for teaching me ❤.. God bless you both in Jesus name

@liliannjeri745 Год назад

Kenya here waiting for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@biilungyeng5549 Год назад

Savers!! we are here @ Pastor M, Merry Christmas right back at you🤩😍😄

@enohlena5367 Год назад

We're waiting in Cameroon...🥳🥳

@doofaniordyeh Год назад

Thank you for this wisdom. Marriage is a covenant

@adegbola5194 Год назад

Thanks for sharing and it was worth listening to. I would have loved it if you had made mention on agreement on bills, because I think this causes lots of issues in marriage too. God bless you. Adegbola- Brooklyn, New York Would love to be part of the North America Tour volunteer team too.