7 habits that makes you irresistible: 1.) Quiet confidence. 2.) The social leader. 3.) Imaginary rejection. 4.) The heart of the conversation. 5.) The irresistible listener. 6.) Expressing vulnerabilities. 7.) Shifting your perspective.
Irresistible people are genuine, vulnerable & humble, relatable and have a healthy sense of themselves. They tend to have a Light inside of themselves that shines bright. People gravitate towards these people and feel comfortable around them.
Not sure how true that is. It's a mixed bag. Equally, I have found narcissistic people like Donald Trump have an irresistible charisma that have audiences fawning around them hanging on every word which turn out to be pure fake because they are trying to seize the agenda and ensure they remain the centre of attraction in plain sight.
Irresistible people are positive and passionate. They’re never bored, because they see life as an amazing adventure and approach it with a joy that other people want to be a part of.
People naturally (and unconsciously) mirror the body language of the person they’re talking to. If you want people to find you irresistible, smile at them during conversations and they will unconsciously return the favor and feel good as a result.
Being genuinely interested. Being a good listener. Asking relevant questions. Being yourself. Your words should have substance. A smile. And admit when you don't know. Non judgmental and when you don't agree on an issue - DON'T say that - instead ask how they came to that decision. No ego. No useless small talk. Asking how you can help - most times they want someone to listen.
I can agree with the first three things, if you look and smell like you didn't shower for a month or so, there's little chance people are as attracted to you, even if your character is made of gold. But money...Well, money indeed is appealing to some, but you see, people who care so much about how many colors your papers have might not be the best use of your time.
I used to have all of these qualities until I allowed people/bullies to knock each down throughout my life. If you're young and see this comment, please don't let anyone shame out of your best self. Don't silence yourself or stop yourself from being who you are. Don't let anyone steal your confidence.
🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️… find somebody or place that will appreciate it. Never put a muzzle on someone that have wonderful ideas… DON’T block your blessings!
*"Your self worth is determined by YOU. You don't have to depend on someone telling you who you are."* -_Beyonce_ Don't let other people define *who you are.* 🖤🙏
It all depends on the individual’s personality. Expressing vulnerability doesn’t attract everyone for some it could be a turn off. Good video but it’s not a one size fits all concept.
This is true. I’ve tried to be open and candid (not to the point of cringey or psychotic or anything) but some people do indeed see that as a turn off. For some reason It’s like they think that being open is a sign of desperation. It’s too bad. Just trying to open up and make them more comfortable to open up.
This video actually describes Extroverts.. Some people are naturally introverted . It doesn't make them any less confident.. Knowing yourself prevents you from trying to be the kind of person you're not... JUST TO FIT IN ..
Three and four are the biggest things I need to work on. They’ve hamstrung my social/romantic life significantly. I’ve always assumed I’d be rejected in any capacity because I feel people won’t like me nor my appearance. It’s tough to shake.
I’m very honest/straight forward. I strongly dislike when things are sugar coated or said in a beat around the bush way. I’m a 👱🏾♀️ blonde I don’t have time to play Blues clues!
@@mr2u513 aspirations, goals, strategic planning, life experiences, influential ppl and things that inspire you, books, you have evolved, mistakes you’ve learned from and how, finance, philosophy, history, etc. small talk is fine to begin with but after awhile I become less interested especially when dating or in a relationship. 😞 which is kind of my current situation why when I saw the point in the video I so related unfortunately. I get tired of orchestrating the convo or always being the one to keep ppl engaged and if I don’t say anything there’s pretty much complete silence or small talk again 😓
Shifting perspective!! irresistible people can observe the other human's body language as also their mood and change instantly their way of thinking at that moment!!joining a group of people they can perceive the surroundings and act giving their best and wise perspective!!
Lighten up.....if u think u can or not...ur right...st Paul said self contol leads to full potential but lack thereof I'd devil's workshop... keep ur face towards sun.....mysteries follow.....and like CHRIST
Very nice 7 habits that makes you irresistible: 1.) Quiet confidence. 2.) The social leader. 3.) Imaginary rejection. 4.) The heart of the conversation. 5.) The irresistible listener. 6.) Expressing vulnerabilities. 7.) Shifting your perspective. I like that a lot. Now the million dollar question, how do i do I learn to do all these things and become all these things??? Please, impress me with a feasible way to become and do all these things
What do you mean? Which part of starting is most difficult for you? I do see it's been six months since you've commented this. Are you still having this question?
I want to encourage everyone to use this message as a reminder that Lord Jesus Christ is the way and the truth. Only through him can we have eternal salvation! I encourage everyone today to pray and to repent for our sins! God bless everyone
Fun facts but I am probably doing all of these and have most of all the qualities- didn't know that I was irresistible then!! And if I can be so can you all... it's just shifting the mind set to think bout others and just be your genuine authentic self - flaws n all! I wish anyone reading this be irresistible too.
Dont even think of making a deal with demonic forces just so u can levitate, like davi blaney, simon the magician who wanted to buy the power st Paul had with the "HOLY SPIRIT"
Sometimes when you just let yourself go with the flow, and only care about feeling good today and trying to let nothing get into your way all of this comes all by itself. You should try it out
It is one of human's great downfalls to love confidence. Confident people are more likely to be bad people than good people who are tend to be more humble and quiet. Confident people are also more likely to be more stupid than intelligent people who are wise enough to be too wise to be overly confident. Confident people are also more likely to be dishonest. So, everyone, especially women as I know many girls are victims to the urge to fall for confidence, next time, ignore the confident person full of sh*t and pay attention to the quiet and shy one who is a little socially awkward-- those people are usually much better.
As a thief in the night! Let the scoffers scoff, let the drunkard, gay, narcissist, adulterer and fornicator think he stands! Lol in that Great Day of the Lord, these ppl will come knocking and asking. Lol then…..
They don't know who you are into, they don't know who anyone that is watching this video is into. The world does not evolve around single people, including you. Or do you expect them to ask everyone what skin color most people are attracted to so they can create their thumbnail after that? In the end, it doesn't matter what skin color the people in the thumbnail have. Attractiveness is completely indiviudal and second of all, it's about the content of the video and what the person tries to tell us.
@@bigmamisvea3318 the content is saying if I behave differently than what I do all the sudden women will see me differently than they have for as long as I've been alive. I think I'd rather go fishing because at least the fish will participate and engage with me.
@@bigmamisvea3318 xcellent thoughts mami...mtor sum it up .....JESUS carried the cross to calvary with help of dark skinned man, which many think is symbolic of the pain they were to endure like Jesus Christ the son of GOD for the pitiful, sad, hypocritical souls that will overflow HELL!!!!!!
@@myfirstcrappyvideobilly Then go fishing, I really don't care what you spend your time with if I'm being quite honest with you. Your originl comment is what I found questionable and that is why I started a discussion in the first place. What I never asked for and what I never cared about was if you like the content shown in the video or not, because that is something whole different. Obviously you're just here to hate on the video, so this conversation has no value for me anyway.
