7 life lessons for teenagers

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In this video, I cover seven of the life lessons I learned during my teenage years. Let me know if any of these resonate with you.
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@krakennate124 Месяц назад

Gohar is for real like an uncle giving us his wisdom from his years

@pittiebaby Месяц назад

Yeah 😂

@thex5899 Месяц назад

Gohar is the Iroh to us

@amanghozzi262 Месяц назад

i have always head it "go hard"

@MRfedi89 Месяц назад

@@thex5899finally another avatar fan, also one thing, aang solos korra

@Savage_koushal Месяц назад

True

@DinoPlays-2010 Месяц назад

Being a teenager is like a foggy road, you don’t know where your gonna go, you always fear there’s a cliff at the end.

@FlareonFacts263 Месяц назад

but if you don't keep walking, you will never find out

@theays5167 27 дней назад

@@FlareonFacts263woah

@Armandaz 24 дня назад

@@FlareonFacts263 And even if you fall off of that cliff, there is a new road

@PsychoV4 17 дней назад

@@Armandazin this new road the directions Are mixed up you must find the way home on your own.

@Armandaz 17 дней назад

@@PsychoV4 Yes, after reaching home, you have succesfully completed life

@randommatrix9 Месяц назад

The major problem, for me at least, is that I keep stopping doing things I like simply because I think I'm wasting time by not doing things that look "competitive" for admissions officers. I've realized that it is much more important to do something that you are passionate about than doing what you want others to think you do and enjoy.

@goharsguide Месяц назад

YES!! Also, the things that you do just for fun (i.e., the things that don't look "competitive"), actually tend to be the activities that stand out the most. I'm a huge proponent of pursuing fun, "quirky" hobbies in addition to the more traditional activities

@user-ku8ml1fs1l Месяц назад

This video really help me and i was always so scared of trying to stand out becuase for me i feel like the standard for me being asian, im always veiwed as "smart and noting else" so i was embarassed of getting a 95 percent of getting a b in math or lutterly doing anything wrong because i would think that im not living up to the standard as my culture and my family heritage. It felt like i was a puppet or somthing that should be represented as a avarage standard and what ever i did wrong was hurting my reputation. Im still trying to be myself with other people becauase i usally keep myself hidden and unseen and your videos help me out alot so thank you❤

@chabilanetam4116 Месяц назад

@@user-ku8ml1fs1l feel you bro 😢❤

@SkylerMShah Месяц назад

@@goharsguidedude I think ur awesome I look up to you 😊

@yaoyaoli1640 Месяц назад

it's pretty stressful for teenagers tbh. People keep thinking that we should be happy and stuff. But getting used to the new body and the school trends and everything is constantly making me stressed out.

@spaghettijeff8920 Месяц назад

Trends ain't that deep, man.

@584asmr4 Месяц назад

I agree! I’m barely a teenager, and I’m not a big fan of what’s happening around me. I was never one to wear what everyone else was wearing, etc, and I try to hold onto that

@Hp_percyJackson_twilightFan Месяц назад

@@584asmr4good I was not like that and I am still not like that I try to fit in because nobody ever notices me I spent 5th-7th grade being the one kid that never hangs around anyone books kinda started to become my friends in 8th grade i gave up hope at the start of the year I had 5 friends I ended with 3 this year I started with 5 and I am going to end with 8 1st year I have actually gained friends I’ve had a hard life I’m a military child and I think I have some childhood trauma I can’t wait to go to college and get away from my bullying brother and my parents say it’s just because he’s a teenager but me and him have just been getting more and more distant the last time he said he loved me and actually wasn’t forced to say it was in early November

@NotBlazerMC Месяц назад

@@Hp_percyJackson_twilightFan I kind of relate to this. After my father's passing, I started focusing on things other than the ones that my family members had done so far, I learnt English, I am opting for maths in 11th, I learnt programming and all that stuff. But when I talk about this to my family members, The just make fun of me. Even if they are happy for what I've done, They Just laugh at me and idk why. On the other hand, A Few friends that I have in school, Are the ones who keep motivating me to not give up just yet. Idk why but my life is just going the other way around rn

@reocraftv2822 Месяц назад

It's funny how a few of these comments are made by underaged people but they're still more mature and understanding than some adults. I feel adults are too fixated on their title as adults and undermine teens and kids in general. Lets give them a chance before shooting them down, shall we? (As a teenager myself, I've seen how some passionate and spirited peers were just shot down because they're "just kids")

@mr.vortex11 Месяц назад

I am 14 and i am constantly struggling with maintaining my grades, my health and also my hobbies. It became so much of a burden that i didn't think it was possible, until i saw Gohar's Channel. Thanks Mr. Gohar.

@pittiebaby Месяц назад

Same I'm 14f I'm almost 15 (star wars day) and health is a biggie for me. I have epilepsy, RND, hypotension, and close to everything not fatal under the sun. (I'm not saying epilepsy cant be fatal) And I miss SO MUCH SCHOOL. 😭 I constantly have to wear braces on my wrists, knees, ankles etc. I'm so tired rn😭 it's 11pm im tired and I need sleep to go to school tomorrow Im gonna sleep now. That's probably a lie. I'm probably gonna doom scroll. Ok bye 👋

@pittiebaby Месяц назад

I'm fine 😂 I'm JUST SO TIRED RN😭 LET ME SLEEP PEACEFULLY TONIGHT LORD!!! 🙏💤❤️

@user-my6nf9ud4l Месяц назад

@@pittiebabyI won't 😂

@Moneyboo7619 Месяц назад

Same but I'm 13

@vz20082 Месяц назад

@@pittiebabywish u well 🙏🏼

@devog1842 Месяц назад

0:27 Embrace the Weird (Your “weirdness” can make you stand out in a good way!) 2:28 Everything is a Skill (Hard skills: Concrete; Soft skills: Less tangible. BOTH ARE TRAINABLE!) 4:01 It’s Never Too Late (Being a teen is still a lot of time to learn something!) 5:03 You are More Capable Than You Realize (Not everything is based on innate talent!) 6:22 Be Explicit (Ghosting and beating around the bush can lead to people believing your unreliable) 7:50 Life is a Presentation Game (Presentation is important!) 9:03 Nurture Relationships (It’s up to you to talk to your parents/friends! Time will slowly go away, and you have to start putting in the effort!)

@arpro89 Месяц назад

Thanks 😮

@user-kj9kj5ht2x Месяц назад

@5ten6eight Месяц назад

yo u did his work ur a free guy

@NidhiSharma-wl7tc Месяц назад

That's a lotta work

@mlgdigimon Месяц назад

thankfully not a that ai thing that sucks

@suspatumm Месяц назад

I am only 13 and trying self improvement, you helped a lot. Thanks

@Kataguykaratenerd Месяц назад

Bro I'm also 13 i don't have friends from a another country can get your number I'll email ya

@nvvthii Месяц назад

Make sure to take your time and don’t pressure yourself, I’m 15 and since I was 12 I’ve been trying g to become the best version of myself. And make sure you’re doing this for yourself 🤍

@sajentertainment9752 Месяц назад

@@nvvthii thanx 4 the advice ❤❤

@Retro-shru 6 дней назад

The best thing for self improvement is to do what YOU want. Follow your dreams and desires.

@florony166 Месяц назад

I'm still a child , and i've liked and saved all your college videos. I'm very glad i found this channel before the harsh realities of life ❤

@delent-team Месяц назад

lol same

@danieleduardo9800 Месяц назад

Sameee

@sajentertainment9752 Месяц назад

Same here but I 'm 13( my early teens)

@AmoghRawat Месяц назад

Hey Gohar! I'm in Highschool and looking back at your videos I've learned a lot from you and have gotten more courage than I ever had before because of you. Keep going and post more videos. Thank you so much!

@jonahmays Месяц назад

Gohar you might single-handedly get me through balancing 3 sports with an IB diploma

@rouged3392 Месяц назад

That's impressive!

@jonahmays Месяц назад

@@rouged3392 if I survive it will be 😂

@rouged3392 Месяц назад

@@jonahmays don't worry you're already halfway there! College is where the nightmare begins 🥲

@justejyraph Месяц назад

This might be the most helpful video i have seen yet on this platform. As a french teenager with ADHD, i really need to rewatch this video a lot to process everything, my life is falling appart right now. Familly problems, my weirdness, my fragile social skills, adding my adhd on top of that makes it very painful. This video might help me to get back up and move on with my life, thank you gohar.

@KMYash12 Месяц назад

the never too late point really helped me, i was struggling with it recently! thank you so much for this video your guidance has been of immense help gohar please keep pumping out such videos!!

@ykdaxh Месяц назад

I'm 13 years old and this was really helpful. I have been really trying hard not only to Ace my grades but to make my parents proud. Thanks for making this video, I really appreciate this!😁 Thank you Mr. Gohar!

@rumaysaali4204 Месяц назад

this is actually so good because a lot of the times high school literally feels like a race

@WhiteMauro День назад

Please make more videos about this, it's really helpful!😄

@user-wr7xt3iz4g Месяц назад

This was very helpful mainly the point about changing your preferences to fit in with others. Thanks Gohar

@Mrtok522 Месяц назад

We need more of this type of content. I’ve been watching you for a very long time and i think this is one of your best videos so far!

@Blanketplate Месяц назад

This honestly opened my mind a lot. Advice like this hasn’t explicitly been told to me but hearing it from you it must really be important

@wolfmellow7572 Месяц назад

Thanks gohar so much I really find these tips/advice inspiring and helpful god bless you !

@SteveChristain-sf1ml Месяц назад

Yes, please make a part 2. I’m still 15 and this has been very useful

@nbaandnflhighlights4402 Месяц назад

Im 14 🤣🤣

@foatgs981 Месяц назад

Thank you for the 3rd tip and this video in general! Please make more of these types of videos in the future!

@coastuber6025 Месяц назад

Dude, the third lesson was the most helpful. Thank you so much.

@protopan7722 Месяц назад

please make more videos like this!! these have lots of values

@MadawaUchiwa Месяц назад

Thanks Gohar! This video has been extremly useful, keep it up!

@gracemcphee6852 12 дней назад

I need more vids like this for high school newbies please!

@Rorablink Месяц назад

Your informative videos make me feel happy and forget all the anxiety and stress for some minutes That is so precious❤

@muskanmohammed8561 Месяц назад

This was a great and helpful video, it will definately help me out in my daily life really appreciate it Gohar! Will always keep these in mind, and I would love for you to post more content like this ❤

@mohsinakhalid Месяц назад

This video is so helpful!! Id love to see more content like this from you

@bigboy38 Месяц назад

I really enjoy this life style tips type content from Gohar

@tired_axolotl Месяц назад

Thanks for this! I’m currently 13 years old and this helps a lot. I’ve heard some of the same advice from others and I’m aware that it works. I’d definitely like to see more videos like this since I’m going into high school and the idea is pretty scary. Your advice has already helped me a lot in many different areas, and this is great. Please keep going with your content, it’s helping so many people.

@kimayob4079 7 дней назад

I love your videos ,you are saving me with this video thanks ❤❤❤

@user-ex5cw8ox2r Месяц назад

bro keep these lessons coming man.. this are so helpful thank you so much

@Navyblue_12 Месяц назад

Thank you gohar, these tips make me useful for everything

@Daygelo Месяц назад

I'm a teen thats really into coding and I love the advice of embracing the weirdness and doing what you love. These types of tips are necessary, keep it up Gohar!

@SophistIQatedChad Месяц назад

I can really relate I am thirteen and I have a great endearment towards coding and its the PERFECT example of Embracing ''Weirdness"

@Cap_Levi_1008 Месяц назад

Do not let others judge you beacuse you code, remember it. Hope the best for both of you

@SophistIQatedChad Месяц назад

@@Cap_Levi_1008 good wishes to you to!

@user-we7bd1yx2w Месяц назад

plz upload more like this i actually learned something from this

@TheRileys3 19 дней назад

I really liked this video you should make more! You really help!

@Lawatiyasir 16 дней назад

Thank you Amazing advice

@zaraaa.m Месяц назад

thanks gohar for the awesome video! i am 13 years old (8th grade) and planning out my 4 years of high school, your videos are insanely helpful!

@adithyasworldofficial Месяц назад

Pls pls please upload more like this, its very helpful

@UL7RA-V10L3T Месяц назад

This has helped me a lot and gives more insight on things I'm slightly confused on :)

@AnonymFighter Месяц назад

Thank you Gohar! I learned so much from you!

@jac0b623 29 дней назад

Thanks a lot, that really helped me, because I’m in my teenage years

@AriLambropoulos Месяц назад

This is exactly what I am going through! So helpful!

@bloxymath1019 Месяц назад

This video is fantastic! You just reassured me in regards to the activities that I indulge in! ❤

@BlueFireStudiosOfficial Месяц назад

This is really quite helpful, would love to see more like this in the future.

@ChristopherBrownII Месяц назад

This video is awesome, keep up the good work Gohar.

@Jasminedh654 Месяц назад

Practice & Learn Repeat❤

@moongoddess9008 Месяц назад

I really needed this. I’ve always compared myself to what people Younger than me, my age, older than me. I felt like I’ve always been behind, and not doing enough. Remembering to take things slow, day by day, really helps me to live in the moment.

@protagonist213 24 дня назад

I’m so glad I found this channel

@Oshawott347 Месяц назад

Thanks for all the help Gohar’

@Veeveebear Месяц назад

As a 15 year old grammar schooler doing my GCSEs in the UK, thanks for the advice. I’d like to be able to go to Oxford for university so your videos really help!

@vasundharabhimakumar877 29 дней назад

You're so helpful to me. I'm so thankful to you and also they because of the leadership things and also told about the creativity Tennis. I am so confident about speaking in a presentation.

@potatoking414 Месяц назад

I need more videos like this

@abdullah4173 Месяц назад

Love the videos gohar, very inspiring and useful 🙏🏾

@viharkottakota1849 Месяц назад

Thanks for the advice dude

@Dinora-rp7mv Месяц назад

This video is amazing!!!! Very useful ❤

@julianslobbe7155 Месяц назад

Gohar thanks for telling me this, i am having a really hard time talking to poeple about things i really like to do. I hoop that after youre tips it goes better

@Science_exist Месяц назад

We really appreciate this kind of videos pls keepit up🎉

@user-fi9do8kn9g 20 дней назад

Amazing info you should do videos like this often

@ruslan_ushurov Месяц назад

Hi Gohar, btw you have changed my life so much!

@thepadawanrobloxian Месяц назад

Hello Gohar! You have really helped me with school this year! You are a great RU-vidr with lots of helpful tips. I was just wondering if you could make a video or short about how to get better at timed tests. Thank you!

@seb46759 Месяц назад

I like this type of videos. Definitley make more of them👍🏻

@Raymond-Z32 Месяц назад

Thank you Gohan. I hope I become the best and achieve great things 🙏🏽

@user-wg8wi1ke5m Месяц назад

Thx Gohar for the vid, I really appreciate

@kyperkon2472 Месяц назад

please make more videos like this its very helpful

@macgaming1654 27 дней назад

Yeah, please continue this type of content.

@-gruff Месяц назад

This really helped me. Thank you.

@cutepanda498 Месяц назад

that was my favourite video of yours! please make more videos like this :)

@syednabeed7501 Месяц назад

This video has been very helpful!

@Nerd101-hd6en Месяц назад

I really like that you explained everything I struggle with because I sruggle a lot with school work because of the time available

@user-ec4mz1nu1j Месяц назад

This is a wise video gohar pls do more!

@Um-a Месяц назад

Thanks gohar!

@aperson069 Месяц назад

Very nice video ❤. I will watch this every morning for 10 minutes while getting ready for school so that I remember everything 🙃

@Person.1W3 Месяц назад

yes i would love more of these

@AyniKhosravi-zv4xy Месяц назад

Very helpful! Thanks

@maritescabantug6418 Месяц назад

This was helpful thank you bro

@XxIvyxX-oz6zk Месяц назад

For someone that's starting teenage hood this is very helpful thank you

@Shadow-rk1cy Месяц назад

Im 17 and im exactly suffering from the regret of that i missed 10 years of my life literally doing nothing. I was feeling bad till i watch this video. It helped to my feelings. Thank you Gohar. Im saving this video for the days when i feel bad about my life.

@CBMXSHOTY 26 дней назад

These videos help me alot

@justachildofGod Месяц назад

This was really helpful. Especially tip 4. Ive had passions I gave up coz I was scared.

@AnnieAnn_xyz 13 дней назад

For me the problem is everything I try doing I lose interest easily and leave being just average in it. There is nothing left (among the skills I learned) where I m actually special at or enjoy doing

@xastralmars Месяц назад

same here, same hobbies as a middle schooler i love making websites with React and apps with Swift i also want to go to MIT!!!

@CyberDartz Месяц назад

Gl bro!

@user-sg9hz1ot4x Месяц назад

Good luck bro

@DevDuo56 Месяц назад

I really love your animations

@user-lx4dj9lp9y Месяц назад

bro keep this up i know people can use in their life

@rosylagoon3600 Месяц назад

I love the tip that it’s “not too late” I started on my competitive sailing team as a 15 year old freshman after Covid. I was very nervous as I’ve never sailed before or remotely even looked into it. However I worked hard and pushed myself to learn all I could and did summer programs as well as every regatta my school participated in. I’m a senior now and a captain and although I’m not amazing I can hold my own and beat college sailors and people that have been sailing since they were little. It’s been such an incredible sport and passion for me that I’m going to continue fostering my love for sailing as a summer sailing instructor at the place my team sails out of this summer!

@piercelawrence5798 Месяц назад

Thanks bro!

@SWRILING Месяц назад

As me going to high school soon, this is really helpful for me so I can do some time management thx ❤❤

@rajaakatranji2788 Месяц назад

Thank you gohar and I mean thank you alot. 💓

@eliot9217 Месяц назад

Love this video! Kepp it up!

@creative_brush Месяц назад

Loved this vid, highly motivating..

@Demon_Frost73 Месяц назад

A pre-teen here didnt know bro used to be a gamer as he is sooo good for study tips but still keep up the good work

@ihuboo6244 Месяц назад

As a teenager, I dont want to frame this video as emotional but it surely hit the cracks that made made me tear up listening to the first few tips. Its especially encouraging when he goes about to never starting too late.

@coolawesomebuilds Месяц назад

This video was extremely helpful!

@Linkitup1810 Месяц назад

Hey Gohar, I love your videos about life skills. Since I’m quite young it will definitely help me set foundations for my life. Keep it up!🔝

@paulinarozmaric946 Месяц назад

Lot of time I was spending thinking how to be like others and I tried to hide thinks I like to do instead doing them, for example I like to do math but than people often used think that I am that nerd in a class and someone who knows everything and that made me kind of depressed, but now I realise that I can do whatever I want and that I should not care about what others think, thank you Gohar beacuse you helped me and a lot of people❤❤❤

@user-sz6hm9le5r Месяц назад

thank you!