7 MISTAKES That Make Others Dislike You Immediately 

As someone with depression, I can’t avoid the last thing..

​@@Flutter_Dragonz same I'm depressed

​@@Flutter_Dragonz 🎉 congratulations you just demonstrated it perfectly

Oh how I hate when someone interrupts me when I'm about to say something. It feels like they're doing it on purpose! And I've seen couple of those who are overly critical to pretty much anything, but once they get even constructive criticism, they take it personally. But in the end, I was the bad guy... 👍

Sounds like this person has some narcissistic qualities. Actually, all of them. All these qualities are totally disrespectful of other people. I've eliminated these toxic types. My circle is small. I prefer quality over quantity. My family has a lot of these qualities. I know my limit at my mom's house ❤

How is learning an issue .

Rudeness is subjective. Where some people barely find anything rude unless it is specifically directed as an insult to them. Other people will already find it rude when your personal opinion challenges their opinions. As an example, there are unfortunately plenty of people who would find my comment towards you, rude as hell and get fuming with anger. While others will see it as informative, some agree and there are people who may disagree. Learning to listen I strongly agree with though but I would replace the rudeness with understand who you are before looking for serious relationships in any form since only you can choose what type of people you want to hang around with. A star shaped object does not fit in a cubed hole, same goes with people.

@@marilynlucero9363 I agree with this a lot. People all interpret things differently. In my experience, it’s especially easy to come off as rude in text. To combat this, I use emojis and other indicators to seem more friendly :)

⁠​⁠@@junitori6047👍🏾

Maybe, but they dont say it like this for a reason. Saying this doesnt change ass in people who need it most of the time

Thank you!

7/7 on the test we up 🔥🔥🙏

7/7 I'm miserable 🔥🔥

Thanks

Okay

I just want deep conversation... 🙄😒

Same, I don’t understand why people don’t like me. I try to be nice and I’m helpful and have other good qualities!

For the 2 comments here, I'm sorry to hear that, but I guess that's just the way of life, but I believe someday you'll find someone who will appreciate y'all

​@@supermegaawesomeultragal7820you're gonna have one eventually ig..

This is how I felt too, but it turns out I may have undiagnosed autism!

Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

Is he on instagram?

Yes he is dr.porassss.

They think that you're trying to make them look bad. Those bullies are not good people though let them hate you.. you'll be just fine❤

@@Occ881 they severly affect my mental health😢......... And there is not even a single person with whom I can be comfortable 🫠

i was kind in school and i got taken advantage of so now i dont give my kindness out for free, if people want me to be kind they need to earn it now

@@ultimatewafflegaming1018 this sounds good but being alone has been a great challenge and I am constantly failing in it

@@Vartulkumar1 the way i see it is id rather be alone than with people who make me feel that way and in turn that has filtered out everyone until i found friends who care and love me for who i am its well worth the pain they deserve my kindness and have earned it

brainfog from sleep deprivation? i often feel the same. id say try get more sleep, but i know how impossible that can be. wishing you good luck. keep trying

me too, honestly i feel more happier knowing someone out there has the same thing that i do. even still, forgetfulness isnt really perfectionism. im glad i ran into this comment!! hello! 😂😊

I'm the worst when it comes to being forgetful. I just try to make sure i tell everyone that i really don't mean it. I'm just honestly that absent minded sometimes. It's crazy to me how much people remember everything. It's even crazier that Ill remember things that people don't find significant. Some stuff sticks with me still.

​@@quinn-5243 It is honestly a relief too, it's good to know that we are not alone experiencing things as this. Hello too!

​@@iyraspusjfzifzocyoyxyoxyoxoyIt is probably sleep deprivation since it's been few years that I'm not having a proper sleep and probably stress too. The stress is mostly caused me to sleep deprivation. I really feel bad that I made everyone inconvenience for it. I wish you and everyone here are doing good well.🌸

feels good until you’re the only one around… trying to gain internal validation from external sources leads to misery

That's what's so great about giving people random compliments and just smiling at them. It spreads so much joy 😊

That’s one way to put it, and I couldn’t agree more

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Can be true. I am like that 'someone'

@@shadow1703oh man.. sorry :/

@@JustDilasX Don't be. I don't mind.

What if ur autistic lol

I was like this. Ppl thought i was trying to be superior. Reality was i was SUPER socially anxious. Just standing there and listening and reacting normally was taking all life off me. Also i was super depressed. Also family problems. Also ovrall bad life. I was bad bad. I did not enjoy walking or talking robotically but my wntire existence of living energy was being used to "look normal"

These aren't social rules, they're perspectives from self awareness lol. Reflect.

Same ! I don’t care if people like or dislike me ! And I don’t wanna be likeable too, I’m not an object to please someone ! HAVE A DIGNITY ! I don’t have a love or hate neither ! I just live my beautiful life with myself and my family ! And that’s it ! The rest I really don’t care if it’s good or bad ! KNOW MY OWN LIFE !

Exactly! You’ll expect to not be liked by everyone. It’s normal to have dealt with some haters. We’re not perfect after all, trying to people please and trying to be liked by ‘everyone’ will just hurt you mentally in the long run

@@anikamccandless8880 Spot on.

They actually paid for doing this! They do it for MONEY ! They are the queen and king of misinformation 😂🤣😂 and poor teenagers who actually believe everything they said ! Geez ! 😂🤣😂 They spy someone’s life everyday and described is as their Truth ! Any pop psychology do that actually and there are many on RU-vid ! Some of them use IA to spread those misinformation ! But my question is that they have a legal permission do that ? I mean for the LAW ! Because it is called invasion of a person’s life so it is considered violation of a person’s privacy ! So the person can file a complaint as abuse of weakness ! And besides RU-vid has already created at this moment a pact of all these pseudosciences and arrested them in some countries but it is still in progress !

The first time that I see this channel ! I already knew it : There are KING and QUEEN of misinformation ! Because they need MONEY and they paid for doing this ! Any pop psychology on RU-vid actually ! Some use IA to spread misinformation like any subject actually ! They spy someone’s life everyday and create a video to have a view and like and have a lot of MONEY because of it ! My question is this is actually legal or the government gives them an autorisation to do that ! Because it’s called abuse of weakness and violation of someone’s privacy which is illegal ! And I think RU-vid created now a law to arrested all of those pseudoscience but you have the check the law on every country for apply it ! P.S : And also I see that in this channel they love to say that this person is narcissist But in other hand They delete all the comments that are negative to them and they keep only the positives ! Now that they are treated other narcissists but they do exactly the same thing ! Where is the logic ? 😂🤣😂

Hey ur right tho, always fact check information, no matter where you get it from, whether it be social media, a person irl, or an official website.

(expresses empathy and care for you and your journey) Here's an internet hug if you need it and an encouragement to keep practicing until your intentions come off clearly. It's rough and takes years... so... you have my empathy.

@@zerg6205 thank you.

You can do it!

You are very wise 🤍

Same! It’s not hard to have manners and just to say thank you once in a while. We don’t expect praise all the time or expect anything back but at least show some kind of reciprocation that you appreciate our kind gestures. Even if you do appreciate, try to communicate those feelings or express your gratitude through your action, because otherwise you’ll be mistaken as someone that’s not humble and rude. I agree with your statement that you said, I hope that people are treating you good 🤍

Someone once told me that whenever I chimed in about personal experiences of my life, I think nothing of them but apparently they're a real downer. So I learned to just not share unless I'm asked... But no one ever asks about me 🤷🏽‍♀️ I'm incredibly lonely 😂

People: Dash, when you are down, please share your problems, a problem shared is a problem solved. *When Dash shares the problem* People: Dash drains the life out of us. People to people: guess what dash told us. Haha, such a looser.

Fascination with spiders helps a lot

That’s some thing I’m definitely working on. Not Oversharing. When I first meet someone, I just tell them my name, and the diagnoses that I have, so that way they know how to approach me. I used to talk about why I had CPTSD. But now, I just tell someone that I have CPTSD and leave it at that.

Bro ! Do you whatever you want ! This channel is pure misinformation ! You don’t need to defend yourself ! You’re the only one who knows your life ! Don’t be weak !

You do care. You're probably just angry. Its easier to feel anger than hurt.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I like you already!

Try harder😂

@@debbiechadwick861 I feel neither hurt nor anger, I feel nothing at all

@@claudiamontiel26 you probably have some issues then

Be your true self! As someone who is completely blind, on the autism spectrum, and has seaPTSD, I do things differently than the average normal person. For example, I touch and explore everything. Everything that is around me, I touch and explore and feel all over it. This was something that I wasn’t allowed to do. In my opinion, I think it’s just me expressing a feeling of true curiosity. I’m really working hard to remove the mask. To just be my true, authentic self. To allow myself to touch and explore everything, to expressed my emotions, without going overboard or losing control. And to do the other things that truly benefit me, even though society sees them as different. The real truth is, I’m not hurting anybody. And I am not out to hurt anyone.

Exactly! That’s a major aspect that wasn’t considered. Keeping this type of information in mind helps you have tougher skin, you just try not to take everything personally that said to you

Because you’re showing that you care and that you’re an empathetic person, that’s good at listening 🤍

Thank you 😊

It’s always the little things that matter that’ll end up making positive impacts in the long run 💜

@@anikamccandless8880 I agree with you 100% on that! Thanks for your positive feedback.

I'm going to assume that was intentional. 😉

It’s about finding the right people that’ll appreciate your efforts and kindness. You don’t have to change yourself. After all, it’s your way of showing your affection to people that you care about. It’s also good to notice, the difference between someone that is taking advantage of your kindness and someone that genuinely doesn’t care. That way, it eliminates the wrong people to give your heart to, but remember, it’s also okay to make mistakes 💜

That’s pretty wise of you. It’s usually best to keep your circle small. It makes it easier to know who you can trust and rely on. But it’s also okay to feel the way you do, it just takes time to find the right people that actually care about you they want you in their lives as well 🤍

being a furry helps, im sure! (sorry for my dry sarcasm, i am a furry aswell)

are you stupid also?

Last one can be ok if you are open about it... or I'm just some kind of sociopath...

People attend to be superficial over by how somebody looks. It’s just a reflection of their own insecurities. There is better off, not giving those types of people a time of day. It’s better to focus your time on better things 🤍

@@anikamccandless8880 that doesn't solve the loneliness problem. It only attempts to hide it or repress it

@@jpjfrey5673 your feelings are valid, I was saying that directing your mind helps so it doesn’t lead to overthinking. Most people are only interested in their own feelings/issues

You know this channel is mostly bulshit

Same bro

Real, man

Me too.

Same bruh 😢

They are my friends because they don't dislike me

Fr

how 😭 pls some tips

It's one of those surface-level relationships right? Where you are fairly liked by people but not really close to anyone and doesn't have a group to belong to. Basically the liked loner-ish. Correct me if I'm wrong, I'm just drawing from my life​@_ZO73M_

Same!

You are so welcome 🤗

Not really,I think we can be friends ❤

you’re wrong… MY existence is the universes’ biggest mistake which makes people dislike me all the time ;)

I remember feeling that way all the time. It took me 32 years to realize that wasn't true. But I do still deeply feel that way sometimes. It's honestly a daily struggle. But you are worth just as much love and compassion as you give others. Open your heart, take that in truly, and remember it 🤍

The only One thing that matters is that God loves you. Fudge what everyone thinks or says.You are a precious jewel in His eyes ❤ Talk to Him, cry out to Him. This world works in mysterious ways.

Don't think like that, God loves all of us and created us equally. Even if you don't feel special at all, you are!

I always love quiet life alone and with my family ! The rest are not interested in me ! I’m social, polite and respectful but no need a relationship with someone or group !