I've noticed that this is also true for me. Since subscribing to your channel, I've put alot of these things to the test in my own marriage and they are proving to be true. Wearing "house dresses" instead of my typical baggy, ratty t-shirts and shorts, spritzing a bit of fragrance on even for bed, wearing a little jewelry even on a lazy weekend. Taking my scarf off and actually doing my hair. Not only do those things make me feel more confident but I notice it makes my husband more interested. Not to say he wasn't interested in first, I just notice it's a different type of interest. The more I settle into my Feminine Essence, the more he settles in to being a "gentleman". I'm more likely to hear a "don't do that, you'll get your dress dirty" , or "let me do that for you " more often than when i was being "one of the boys", which is the premise we got married on. We click already because we're best friends but it's like he's realizing all over again for the first time that his best friend and wife is In fact.. .a woman 🤣
I could have written this; I too wear "house dresses" all the time round the clock. And I even got a romantic-looking white crisp linen-cotton flower lightweight dress that I can wear without a bra, and I use it to sleep in to look ELEGANT. It also makes me FEEL ELEGANT. My husband certainly DOES treat me like a princess
Can you do a video about how to dress modestly? Like a style video maybe for Christian women who want to dress modest, but still look fashionable. With links to the clothing/brands in the description as well. Thank you!
I don't know but something in me just connects with you.... to think this teaching is coming from someone in the western world is just so wonderful... in a society were femininism and equality are preached everywhere... thank you sister.
You are dropping so many valuable gems and lessons in this video Jasmyne! Thank you for sharing your feminine wisdom. Wishing you a long and happy marriage. 💛
Very valuable content. Love the model you provided for playful expression of frustration. Thanks for regularly demonstrating examples of your points - like this, not like that. Very helpful.
Hello, could you make a video on how to keep your femininity and maintain healthy relationship when you are in long distance. How to keep him in his masculine in such situation. ❤
Differently domestic haha My husband gets his clothes dirty at work so he was just ripping them off in the living room as soon as he gets home and leaving them in a pile by the door. Lovely that he doesn’t want to spread dirt around, huh? lol. Anyway, I couldn’t get him to simply go to the bathroom hamper, so now we have a living room hamper.
Yes, I upload many videos that are not about masculine/feminine polarity but my viewers request videos like this often and I am obliged to fulfill my audience’s requests 🩷
@@JasmyneTheodora A lot of the discussion covered in this video about what men find radiantly attractive is absolutely on the mark, however, when you discuss parenting styles and freedoms you mentioned fatherhood as a role and considerations of how men will likely pursue different tasks in the home. My question is essentially: Does this apply when the man you are with is a feminine man, or an emasculated man no longer in touch with his masculinity? If the father of the household has a feminine viewpoint on parenting, same as you, would the child still grow up well-adjusted? Would it kill attraction to the man? Things of that nature
This is a good question and would take probably a lot of time to answer comprehensively. I’d suggest for any woman in a relationship with a man with no children to leave that man. If the woman is married to that man, that’s a different story of course. I have a video about how to inspire masculinity in a man. It’s pretty comprehensive. I’ll link it: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-62OBoIOMDn4.htmlsi=XsLKDvaAaxrb2cYH The wife mustn’t try to change her husband. She must pray for her husband, must be in her feminine as much as possible, give him freedom… that video goes more into detail.
1. Dress feminine 2. Embrace his femininity - Communicate tenderly and clearly - Respect him - Keep peace - Let him free - Honour his protection and provision - Allow him to be unexpressive about his emotions - Read whichever he does to express emotions - Receive his affection 3. Handle conflict playfully 4. Express joy 5. Direct your spirit before your action 6. Be down to earth (humble, unentitled and confident with boundaries) 7. Show your love for children
Glad I found your channel tbh. Was watching some "red pill" content recently, and not a lot of it connected. There are some things that make sense, but there are too many hypocrits. Guys saying they need a wife like a virtuous christain women, yet tell young men to "smash and pass" promiscuous women, and engage in the same lustful behavior. I'm just sticking to what the word of God says. "God Pill" if you will, lol.
Yea..dont watch content like that. Like you said its often contradicting and childish. These men arent mature. And these videos arent good to your mental health in the long run. I know what im talking about.
You have the most beautiful, feminine voice. It is so soothing and nice to listen to. I too have a soft, unassuming voice and men I speak to over the phone always compliment me and tell me how sexy it is. My husband told me my voice is one of the things that endeared me most to him, he thought it was adorable and disarming.
Yes!!! It took me way too long to understand this! I hindered my husband this way for so many years. Once I really understood, it’s been amazing how much our relationship between us improved, my sons’ relationships with him improved, their behavior improved, etc. Me stepping back and letting my husband father them instead of expecting him to mother them was the best thing- and not because of what I was doing, really, but because he was finally able to do what he should have been all along. It’s sometimes really really hard to witness the differences because I want to rescue and console and coddle, but that’s not what’s good for my boys most of the time. They do need me in my role of mother, but without Dad fully engaging in his it’s a recipe for disaster.
I want to greet my husband when he comes home and have those few seconds of happiness with him and show him I’m happy he’s home! But our children beat me to it, which is wonderful! He has said that he loves it when he’s greeted at the door by his children. But I feel like if I’m there also included that it overwhelming. This could just be in my head. I have a lot of bad parenting trauma in my past where I was made sure I knew I was annoying and worthless. How do I overcome this feeling? I’m slowly learning through your videos and I’m so thankful for them. Please pray for me that I could embrace a more godly femininity and serve Christ through my life being a wife and mama.
I’ve been following your topic on this for quite awhile and even put it into practice…it works! Even male unbelievers can’t help but feel attracted to whats natural. Femininity
Haha I don’t mind cleaning up after my husband but I do have some laughs about his socks not all the way in the hamper sometimes. I have said “look how sad your socks look right now. They just want to go home” 😂 lollll
Awesome 🎉🎉🎉🎉. I'm so happy to be viewing this early. Jasmyne please could you consider doing a Video about traditional feminine quiteness and just quiteness or just the art of quiteness. Just something like that
When I was a child I used to question why my dad always egged me on to do daring things, or why he eats more than my mom or why he’s always working while my mother is not. I’m 15 now and your vids have helped me understand a lot!! Thanks Jasmyne!!! :-)) 💌
Hi Jasmyne, I’m 16 years old and recently became orthodox after being catholic most of my life! Your videos help so much. I was hoping if you could do a video on how you do your hair and makeup cause we have similar hair and I love how you do your makeup! Thank youu. 🤍
I think men and women's problems are deeper than just women dressing up. Ive been married 25 years and trust me,what I wear is the least of our troubles. And add children into the mix,4 to be exact...I think we need to focus on real issues like men not spending time with their children,not helping the women on days we are exhausted,only wanting sex but not wanting other forms of intimacy....those are the real issues ...it doesn't matter what you wear,if there is trouble in paradise...and it takes being married for a long time to understand a lot of things....just my thoughts
Of course; this video in particular just isn’t about addressing deep marital issues like those. This is a video just about masculine/feminine polarity and what men find attractive. I want to do more videos about marriage though!
This is a really good video! First time seeing one, but I really love how you ground things biblically, but also realistic and also grounded in modern life! Great work!
In my opinion, we women should be entitled and think that we are the price, BUT from a place of LOVE, not hate, for ourselves and for others.That really makes the difference. What do you think?
Another great video! ❤ Thank you so much. I would also love to hear what you would have to say about Modesty. I think it is a great feminine quality to have but I am sure you would have a lot more interesting and useful tips on how to be more modest. Thank you 😊
That's a great topic! I have 3 daughters, grandchildren and a great-granddaughter who sure could use something positive feminine but modest. Today's children (my daughters are modest, so is my granddaughter, but my grandsons friends sure could learn some basic modest ways. I have a friend whose daughter could use some guidance.
LOLOLOLOL the playful conflict is so good.. i rarely find that when women generalize about men that i resonate with their generalizations.. but 😅 i think you may have some insight...
jasmyne, thank you so much for these videos. they help me stay grounded in loving my GOD given femininity and walking in true Christlike love. i listen to you every time i do my self care. praying for you, & yours 🤍
You are amazing! I adore you! With every video I watch I start realising with tears in my eyes that I am embracing my natural femininity more and more! God bless you! ❣️❣️❣️
Hi. while all of these are true im finding it difficult cooking for a man. Most masculine men expect a woman to at least know how to boil an egg.its not that i dont know.i dont want too bc i dont prefer cooking. i love taking care of my body smelling good etc and relaxing. i resort to painting singing dancing but dont have the nerve to cook. How to keep a masculine men in terms of cooking when he cant afford to awlays buy out lol🙄🤦♀️😒🤷♀️
Well... I was all this to my ex, but my ex was very emotionally immature and manipulative. Our relationship was good but also very toxic. He would put his emotions always above me and my wellbeing, plus saying very sarcastic and mean things. Example: I'm sorry I can't be with you because I'm not okay. Him: starts spamming crying emojies? What about me? Me: well I understand your emotions but can you express them after being there for me? Him: I have the right to express that I don't like it and my emotions, and how I feel... bla bla... 0 empathy... as always when I was already going through hell... Or saying a sarcastic comment that makes me cry. Him: You're not crying because of me. Plus don't take too long. I have to go to the gym... yeah... So.... not going for a relationship in the next years... It was so bad... and the fact I endured until I went into a deep depression. Yeah... emotional maturity is a thing
I love your channel, it is one of my best or favorite recent subs. I would love to see you circle back around and do a video on your prayer or icon corner in your home if you have one. My marriage is rocky and most likely won't make it but I have been finding comfort in the Orthodox Church and though not yet a Catechumen, I am super interested in how others live their faith. ☦️
I liked all the advice except going out the way to express your needs. I should simply lovingly and kindly ask him to put his clothes away and boots and he should do it out of love and respect for his wife
I believe I said this in the video; there are scenarios in which that is absolutely appropriate. And sometimes it can be beneficial to be playful, too. 😊
OMG first time watching your video and OMG you are married!! Congratulations! I wish you a happy marriage! This is so precious to hear for some reason!
Wow, Jasmyne! Amazing topic points and excellent job breaking them all down, again. Have you ever considered writing a book? I would definitely buy it and I think its really needed in this world. Also, do you have any book recommendations for marriage/becoming a wife? I think that could also be a good video. Love your channel!!
I’m an evangelist but I have a lot of sympathy for orthodoxy ! One of the reason I convert to christianity is the Russian litterature. I have similar point of views as you ! Your videos are great 😊 Keep going we need that kind of content !
“Onion of a man” I was dying laughing while you were saying all that Thank you for this video!!! I need to work on softening myself and how I deliver things
Maybe I missed something. "men will parent your children different than you". Few men buy into this bad deal of being a stepfather today. Focus on teaching woman to marry before children and then stay married.
"You need to let your husband be a father to your kids" Says all you need to know about the sad state of affairs and why a man is foolish to get embroil in these circumstances.
A sad state of affairs is a man too scared to create a family and legacy because “it might not work out”. Your relationships create the quality of your life and there are no relationships more sacred, intimate and meaningful than the relationships one has with their family.
