To any man never be afraid of losing any woman you should be worried if you are losing yourself because your future and your destiny is not located between the legs of any woman as a man your future and your destiny lies in your hands a word to a wise is enough
Magnificent person reading this… The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! 🌟- Love, Nat ❤️
Thank you. It is hard to believe that when the heart seems so deeply shattered and wounded and you ask God, so where are you, where were you, when I was defenseless and now have to live with a heart that will not trust? Maybe YOU are his messenger, saying come on child, I got you. I am with you. Thank you.
As I think about what Jessica said, and in the order she said them, I think of something I heard sometime back, but especially with today’s topic: “Never make someone a priority in your life when they only see you as an option!”
The last 2 signs... Wow! I did the right thing to save myself more emotional damage. It's quite sad when you see what was once beautiful crumble so quickly before your eyes but, you know what? Chin up and let's do our utmost best be better than we were in our previous relationship. Thank you for clearing it up for me Jessica 🙏🏿
@@ezekielmwachi4339 I get your metaphor very well ! However, sex is not a commodity and besides being a physiological act, it has a relational and emotional aspect to it. People relate to sex a bit differently. Some people are satisfied with just the physical aspect of it while others want to take it to the next level and enjoy the other aspect too, regardless of the hassle this pursuit usually entails. 👉🏾 Always remember that one man's meat is an other man's poison.
Good day Jess...keep up the exceptional content. Yes absolutely correct.. relationships is truly overwhelming. I've already been thru a divorce in my mid 20's. Thank you for spreading the knowledge. Do have a bless week. Legend!🙏🙏
Ehh, if a woman loves and respects you, she’ll be focused on aligning with your mission and vision (if you have one) and supporting you, even if you’re going through a rough patch. If she doesn’t want to do that and is only concerned about her “happiness,” let her go. Who cares let her go be “happy” somewhere or learn how to be happy on her own. There’s no point in trying to make something work with someone who isn’t bringing real value, love, and respect into your life as a helpmeet and is only making demands or someone who isn’t accountable for their own happiness. The advice in this video really only applies if you have a truly great woman and you’re a great partner as a man. If those conditions aren’t met, it’s a waste of time anyway.
It also only works with two healthy, strong partners - if either party is focused only on themselves, then it'll be impossible for both to feel satisfied.
Everything you speak is so true ,after most women eat out some Men pocket they Dump them ,but women should member what's goes around comes around ,some time times when they have kids it will backfired on there Kids , Sins is what Travels. Men & women should member if they are not serious in a relationship don't play with Persons Brain 🧠
The very reason my relationship just ended recently. I had no problem expressing things in my relationship. She did and said she was scared to communicate. Shit sucks but its life.
Never be blind in love. Keep your eyes and ears wide open. Don't ignore warning signs. Don't live in a fool's paradise hoping things will improve. If she doesn't respond, stops texting, doesn't take your calls, doesn't want to see you, bro what more you want to know? Treat the most important person in your life with care, affection and love - you !!
I am a man in exactly this situation. Married for 17 years with two kids. I understood it was over some time ago but I can't leave my children behind. I can't do that to them. The daily and constant disrespect is so much but I can't leave because of my kids. It's almost like I am living with a whole other person I don't recognise. She is very unreasonable and constantly picking fights for no reason. I now fiercely protect my peace and am conscious of not assimilating the constant and daily diatribes into my spirit. Having to do daily affirmations to remind myself of who I am. When the other person is in her eyes always right and cannot be corrected and doesn't listen to what anyone has to say then there's nothing left. Even innocent small talk can result in some diatribe from hell. She has made herself very unapproachable and unlovable. I think that was the plan all along. I cannot fathom how someone can sit down and hatch a plan or approach to life like this by being so toxic. Well I am living it 😭
you definitly hit me with sign 3. She had gone to a law firm holiday party with her sister in las vegas and then was going to another party in town the very next day. she never invited me and i was hinting to her that i was available for both. Even said i could be her DD if she needed someone. that was the weekend we broke up
Communication is one key, of late my relationship is really messing up, she doesn't talk when unless I ask her something, she is too quite on me and is really hurting me up, our plans we keep on planning she doesn't even think on does plans again, it isn't easy given ur heart out and just little misunderstanding she holds on to that, you ask her what's the problem she tells you nothing. Thanks dear.
She's doing almost 90% of these things. She doesn't have an energy for this relationship. It hits real hard and so unbelievable that it's really happening. She doesn't see anything wrong at all.
I never understand why a woman will sideline you emotionally and leave you wondering and sweating while they can just tell you they don't want the relationship no more.. wanting to leave is not a problem at all but if you can keep me in the dark until I probably find out something fishy then it's painful
Trust me , I was in the same situation where my ex-girlfriend dragged the dead relationship. She had silently checked out 3 months ago. The thing is, she didn't want to be the bad guy .. She was waiting for me to end the relationship. It painful 💔 I must say 🙏
Exactly what l am going through now. She's been dragging this for like 8months now. I have to painfully connect the dots. She waited to get to UK 🇬🇧 and started showing it well.
This episode for made for me and I finally realized all this points lately. It's so sad we had a child together but her mom won't even let me speak to my son. Foreigner in the hands of south Africa women is a deadliest thing on earth because these people have no conscience or care anymore as long as your struggling with your biz. It's a shame people still keep falling for them, they only settle for what to gain and as long as it's no longer there they out of the way.
It would be great to see a collab between you and Coach Corey Wayne. Your delivery and vocal variety are awesome, very calm, and engaging. I'm taking notes.
I stopped kissing her and made her understand why. You can't be kissing me with lot of saliva in your month, it's my turn off. She took it personal and the blame games came in (getting it elsewhere). That was the end of it.
My lady and I been together for ten years. March the 3rd made ten. When we first got together we both lied about somethings. I was still seeing the mother of my kids and she was still spending time with her sons father. Now years later when we discuss or disagree on something she brings up the pass, that supposedly she forgave me for. I ask her do you wanna move on? Her face tells it all she can't answer me or even look at me!! If she won't confess I'm just gonna decide for her. Cause at this point we're both unhappy with the relationship. But we team drive together as truckers and just holding on cause we make good money. I'm on my last straw 😤.
Why i broke up with ma woman was a bit similar to one of the points. In my situation I was the one doing the calling, if decide not to call for as long as a month or 2 she feel not bothered, so I said to her "I can see you are no more interested and I don't want to force you so move on while I do same". I'm ok ever since and I believe she's also.
Thanks Jessica, you are the best and I appreciate your service to us all because it's very inspirational and also an eye opener for a lot of us. Love always!
Ya i can identify with 3 of those signs. My wife left me 3 months ago. I was blind to see the signs at the time. She broke with me over a phone call. Had to put her on the spot & ask if its over. She had no choice but to answer then & there. Didnt see her for 3 days. When she came home any photos connecting me & her she burned them in the fire. Total erasure of me over a period of not even a full week. Understood it takes 2 to break up a marriage but what she did was extreme. She walked out. No communication for 6 weeks. When she demanded divorce & sell the house she and her sister brought the police to my door step then i reaIised no hope of getting back together i just ran out of the house wasnt entertaining it. At least she knows now im not giving into demands. But will have to be settled at a later date. I realise now shes better off outta my life.
Ding Ding Ding! My Ex GF of 3 years just broke up with me recently. Sad part was she had to resort to a lie to justify what she did. I was blindsided for the most part but her last Ex just got out from being incarcerated. I even made a RU-vid video about it. Jessica Os has it right. My ex displayed almost every single sign. Listen to Jessica guys! She is right on the money in her videos.
I guess I Actually left long ago then.... I've felt all of those things and have been very vocal since day 1 when those feelings came about. He won't leave and says the only way out is death or him going to jail for hurting me... 5 kids, 13 years invested in a toxic and dangerous environment with my kids.... He doesn't understand we can walk away peacefully, but he wants war and has proved it 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I really loved and cared for a girl whom I’ve known for 6.5 years but she’s only denied we were never together when we were intimate daily for 2 years. It just hurts she didn’t even care for me by her actions. 😔
Omg jessy looks like u talking direct to me on all 7 reasons u said about.listen to u while driving to work at westwood LA ,I have to pullover n listen to u.i have detached myself from my partner n am doing exactly what u said .the reason is she loose focus where we trying to reach .an from ghana n will definitely come back to ghana so I can't loose focus.
If a woman won't kiss you , Talk with her about what is wrong and why there is a Lack of Kissing , if there is still a Gray Cloud in her Conversation and Nothing Black or White , then you need to pay attention to her goings and comings . If a Woman isn't kissing You , She's kissing someone else .
Mine wont kiss me because all her teeth are rotten due to no brushing but it didn't stop her from popping that cleavage and yoga pants everywhere. New gym membership? Gotta have a new wardrobe mostly consisting of traslucent yoga pants and other skimpy clothing.
Thanks so much almost all of what you said happened of late....she was cool without communication and she stopped been interested in my Company but all good it's well
Assuming you rectified all these signs happening, done all you could to save it but no avail. ''how do you get to end it to save you from the impending disappointments and heart aches''.
Wel said, well put together, your words are a light unto my path, they're virtue. I've never heard anyone speak the way you do. No man or woman not even the great matchmaker and 90 days rule guy, Steve Harvey.
Thank u jess....this video true...especially number 7. My gf ghosted me...not even aswering my question.she just dissappear dec 24,2022. And broke my heart
As a man or woman, you can do everything right, and still lose your lover, because your lover also has a will of their own, and that will can drive them to someone else. That's why your sense of fulfillment should never lie in the success of a relationship or lie in another human being. As humans we are ony truly fulfilled when we know Jesus as Lord and Savior,...everything else eventually fails or ends. Spouses die, lovers split, relationships end.
Thanks Jessica... She's been doing all this in our relationship but I didn't know what I did to her... Especially that no 7.. but I'm really in love.. but through this I think I'm gonna break up 😓😓
Great relationships are rare. I would say 80/20 rule. 20% of the are good. From that 20% again 80/20 rule; so I would say 4% are great relationships. I agree with the intimacy specially when the relationship is kindoff new...it shouldn't feel old already.
I use to kiss my woman a lots but lately anytime I want to, she drags away from me though she allow sometimes. I thought she isn't interested anymore but it's hard to believe if she is seeing someone Cox I trust her. What might be the reasons?
