The first 22 seconds I had to pause the video my mind was blown. I never of thought self sabotage as a form of self control, giving yourself the illusion to predict the future. Hit home
this is like a masterpiece. people would pay thousands of dollars for training nowhere near as good as this. You are the best Ed and the fact that you put out content at this level for free is absolutely incredible… I just wanna say thank you
The air conditioning reference is spot on. I am guilty of self sabotage. Recently seeing success with a business. Need to keep on the gas and scale! I won’t stop until I’m 6ft under..🤝
1. Focus on where you’re at (and where you want to go). 2. Focus on what you have. 3. Focus on yourself. 4. Focus on what you can control. 5. Feel the fear and do it anyway. 6. Remove your (3-4) Distractions. 7. Focus when you win. Greed is growth. 8. You belong in your Dreams.
Ed, I listened to this video 3 times. I have tears in my eyes right now cause I was self-sabotaging, I knew I was but this video opened my eyes so much. I appreciate you so much man. I’m currently pursuing a private pilot license and it’s the hardest thing I’ve done. My last flight really took a hit at my confidence and I haven’t stopped reliving that and telling myself how much I suck. 😢 but starting now. I won’t focus on the past anymore. 🙏
well done !! i failed lots of times but remember success is never easy but you have to keep working on yourself-It’s a work in progress… and say to yourself -it’s possible as sometimes the mental leap is hard but saying ‘IT’s POSSIBLE’ is believable .😮 peace🕊
I believe in God's promise, trusting in his faithfulness, and relying on him. As a single mother. I have struggled to provide for my children. I’m constantly faced with financial hardships but my faith in God is still strong! Even as I struggle to pay rent and I struggle to buy groceries. I KEEP FAITH in you LORD JESUS. Lord hear my prayers I’m so overwhelmed and discouraged my health is not good struggling with lupus daily and having a heart attack two years ago Lord give me strength because I want to give up.😢
Don't give up madame For the sake of your children and your future As your name says, you are a child of God so continue to find solutions and keep going. ❤
"Fear not the things you don't know, improve your recognition of the ill-winds that blow, people of hate will discuss mistrust! you improving yourself will provoke their disgust, discomfort is a privilege for being on the right path! now lean into it if you want your future to last."
I've listened to it a couple of times. I want to ensure this lesson always stays with me. I've found that out of the 7 symptoms mentioned, I catch myself sabotaging my efforts in 6 of them. The only way I avoid sabotaging myself is by not celebrating for too long. However, I've come to realize that not internalizing the wins could also be a form of self-sabotage. I used to believe I didn't deserve the win, so I'd keep moving forward without ensuring I acknowledged and internalized the success to boost my confidence. It's a very valuable lesson that I'll need to revisit in the future. Thank you, Ed.
I didn’t want this episode to stop! I took detailed notes and identified several things I’ve done to self sabotage! Thank you!!!!!!!!!!! I am so grateful for you. I am in isolation station!
How do you combat the sabotaging after small wins or success. Knowing what to do but ultimately not doing those things you know work? This is my biggest issue. I've tackled a lot of my personal issues to help with my growth, but this is the last thing that lingers and I can't shake it.
People always talk about the AHA moment but I’d never really experienced it until watching this!! I have always asked WHY?! Why do I always self-sabotage myself?! This makes sooooo much sense now! THANK YOU!!❤❤❤❤
25:33 about the past was exactly what I needed today. Someone got me to talk about the past and share stories about the past today. I need to monitor my inner circle. Thank you.
I needed this. This was made for me I literally just did exactly everything you said word for word. I got some success and celebrated to long. I’m increasing my thermostat I started this week. It’s just crazy that I wake up today. See this telling me exactly what I did word for word and gives me the solution. The universe provided this information to me at the exact time I needed it. Let’s go 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
Gosh, some home truths there. Self Sabotage is my biggest enemy. Thanks Ed for putting it front and centre. A much needed reminder. And thank you for your dedication and willingness to serve. God bless you 🙏
I am no longer Looking in the rearview mirror obsessing about things I can’t control. I’m turning up the temp 100% thank you so much for this invaluable information you inspire me.
At 43 I only now feel, believe and understand this. 3 months of zero alcohol has helped “a lot” with the clarity…. Things are getting better but know I must keep and work extra hard to keep the positive direction going 🙏
Hey Ed…I’ve followed you for more than 3 days…you’ve reconfigured your physical structure…congrats… you’re looking tight…you are a true leader for humanity…God Bless
Thank you Mr. Mylett. Powerful message. And actually a difficult one to listen to as well: I sabotage myself daily. I Workout, I try to do my best at my job, and at the end of the day-I give myself permission to be lazy, reckless, irresponsible. I had to force myself to listen to this, prevent myself from running from a difficult message; I even journaled on this. And I NEVER journal. I’m 46 years “young”, and I wrote about how I still feel a desperate need to do better things in my life; I had to be ruthlessly honest with myself and my tendency to fail. I’ve often tasted small successes over the years and then I completely sabotaged it. All the time. I hope to turn things around from the inside out. Maybe in five years I’ll be able to do something with remembering, and I’ll be on your show. Hahaha By the way-I loved your interview with David goggins. He’s also a hero to me (since 2017). I hope to meet both of you great men in the future. Hopefully the near future. God bless. Stay hard, in the words of goggins. Happy holidays.
Focusing on the present is key. Ed, that’s a great point, and you gave me a great question to ask my clients throughout the next year. How can you be more present? The past is history, and the future is still to be written.
This is the single most important self help video on RU-vid, thank you, I am such a believer in this, my child that the UK education system gave up on at age 7, I home educated him and got this into his head that he now subconsciously keeps moving forward and is now at University studying IT, he is so progressive bless him, my friends stood by me but thought I was crazy but we did it and they are so proud of us as a mother and son and what can be achieved if you never give up x
Ahhh 😌 this is so true!! I have a journal 📓 about this- there is so much comfort in predicting the future and staying the same, it’s predictable and the hardest person to have a concert with is self. I know this which is why I created the journal. It’s in depth and personal not just blank pages. I want ppl to succeed at self first so that they are able to exceed their goals and dreams!! God bless everyone!!!!
Wow, this is so helpful! I keep having success in my workouts and then tend to stop once I start seeing great results. I kept blaming not being organized enough but it sounds more likely that it’s self sabotage
It's so it's so simple and so forthright to love one another. Honor yourself respect each other and have conversations. I support conversations and connections. And this platform that you have inspired and created and built is very, very loved and honored. And I thank you so much and to all of your fans out there. I'm giving you high five too. Because let's all stand up for each other and hold space another. YOU!❤
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve said to myself if i would of just stuck to the plan i was on i would have been…. Healthier, more successful, my relationship would of been better. What you are saying is so true in my life! Thanks for doing what you do Ed.
Literally 5.14 into this I paused it, got up and went to the gym. I procrastinated this morning to go, to the point I drove half way there and turned around to come home and do a 20min yoga which I told myself "Go when you feel you want to go, maybe this afternoon" and hearing what you said about how you look at personal identity and what I am worth. Thank you so much!
This was amazing. I had an major personal transformation in 2023 losing almost 100 lbs so far. I have noticed myself starting to self sabotage and couldn’t get a handle on why. Thank you so much for this.
Going to listen to this every week. Thank you Ed. You are spot on with everything!!! No more self sabotage for me! Kicking the opponents ass in 2024!!! Keep shining your light - blessed are the ones who get to learn from you. 🙏🤩❤️💪
A fantastic show Mr. Mylett. I've been listening to you content now for a few years now and I am grateful for it. As an Italian immigrant that came to this the USA when I was a child, my family culture and traditions sometimes sabotages our personal growth. I broke away from a few of those points you have wonderfully shared and changed direction in my life's journey. You are a blessed man and doing great things for the community and the human race. May God continue to guide you in the direction in making a difference in the world. I am modeling you in making a difference as well. God Bless 🙏
For decades I felt controlled by the memories of my past. I also was living a life of lack and comparison because I believed that I was a weird person and felt that I was born that way. I am guilty of living a life of the 7 Symptoms of Sabotage.
Im having a gard time going through this video and not get emotional about my self-sabotages of the past. Then I notice myself getting emotional and thinking about the past and it is like I am back in sabotaging of myself. Learning to let go is hard and having courage at the right moments in my life have been the toughest. But now I see my subconscious clearer than ever. Taking my life back on purpose track.
I’ve been doing this for years, and I’m working on raising my thermostat in different areas of my life, I needed this.. I will be reading your book again.. it’s so amazing
You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free. This was loudest wake up call I have heard in my, I am exhibiting every one of those symptoms. This is the light at the end of the tunnel I’ve been looking for, been stumbling around in the dark a long time now. Thank you for this.
I like this video but I think there is also a deeper lack of self-esteem and self-love that leads to self-sabotage, which could have been the aftermath of events earlier in life. You will need to have compassion and practice loving kindness towards yourself.
This is PURE GOLD 🏆 Helped me realize a lot, become more self aware, and identify the pain points I can focus on improving to level up - THANK YOU! Very grateful. Now let’s gooooo 💪🏽
All of the 7 symptoms are very valid but it struck a nerve in me the fact that anchoring in the past is so damaging as well as let things out of my control get the best of me. Great video to start the year Thanks
i Pruda Bass realize your teachings are extremely helpful and I'm growing since tuning in. My crew digs u2. I rewind your sessions, their that helpful. Have a great everything indeed indeed. Yeah mon. New fan Pruda Bass here
Thanks Ed, I had been self-sabotaging a lot lately and procrastinating on launching my e-commerce store for months now. I am going to work on it right away..I needed this today ❤
Ed, I want to thank you and your Dad for helping all of us everyday! I know things were tough when you were growing up, but that has made you one of the most special and inspirational men on the planet. That pressure shaped you like a "Special Diamond" that shines bright for all of us everyday! You are priceless!
One of the best things you said in this is to surround yourself in people who expect the best from you. I tell my students often if you're the best one in your friend group you need new friends, you need people who "bring you up" not give you the illusion of being great, by association.
This is a masterpiece of explaining the most important truths about life. In my own life I am find my self locked within every symptom mentioned and I know it is far from easy to reprogram your destructive patterns even if aware of it...but it sure is the only way. Btw, the "inner thermostat" analogy is a very spot on way to explain all this. Thanks for these helpful insights!
Hi Ed, almost every part of this wonderful lesson is screaming my name cos I'm quilty of a whole lot of them. Especially focusing on lack of things and Celebrating for too long. I close a good deal and i get complacent till i run low on cash before going haywire again. Ans during this time, i over worry on lack and get fixated on things I can't control. My love life is another area where thermostat keep getting low as though i deserve less probably thr programming came from my upbringing cos it was quite harsh parenting and dry toxic love that i was raised in. Thanks for all you do, ED❤️
First time finding and watching this video and it makes me realize how i've sabotaged myself for 30 years ...hopefuly i can still turn it arround. Thank you so much for your work and inspiration Ed.
another very good podcast to help people with the self destructive patterns of self sabotage!!am listening again and again very carefully!!thank you so much Mr Mylett!!!
WOW, this is truth!!! I can relate to this so much and I can see where I have dropped the ball a bit in my journey. I will use this as a reference for introspection for sure.
Man i love you Ed. Your words are the best. Been listening to you non stop lately and slowly applying it to increase my inner thermostat setting one degree at a time.
thank you, i never thought self sabotage was a thing until all the things you said hit me in the head! ive been literaly destroying myself withought me even realizing it, sharing it with everyone i love, thank you again.
All of this is great advice, providing you dont suffer with a constant mental illness . Its like having a beautiful kit car with an engine thats 50 years old.
So powerful...I realized how hearing my parents unknowingly influence my thoughts by saying that If Only they could have afforded a University education for me ...😮😢💜
Great episode Ed- I love that you keep it real- success is hard work. It’s You versus You. Ed you really broke down self sabotage. Ed I especially appreciate that you talk about that it is not easy for you as well, that it is a fight each day for you- but that it is possible. Have a great holiday and Stay Great!
I want to express my gratitude to God and acknowledge Ed for being the vessel that spoke to me tonight. The powerful words you delivered have saved my life, brother. You were the perfect person to deliver them, and for that, I am truly grateful. God bless you. Remember, #FaithWithoutWorksIsDead - THAIGA
Hi Ed, Thank you for this message! It’s so rare to hear this subject being discussed. Really got me thinking. Thanks Ed! I will be listening more to your content!
