Things to give up to get a high value man to marry you: 1. Social media 2. Male friends 3. Girl nights out 4. Rubbish attitude 4. Dont be a single mom to Pookie & Ray Ray 5. Dont be overweight 6. Avoid tatoos 7. A big mouth
Got with my husband at 21. Dropped everybody! Moved to another state just us and our son for 5 years.Focused on our family and our goals. 22 years later, we look around at our friends and family and understand why we move different!
you cant get better in your time, its a metaphysical thing but your so deep into your brainwashing that its just a wash cycle, the new norm for women starts in 2024 when the millenial's will all be post wall aka 30-40 and with no free perch for women and with the term ''left over women'' going global. the new norm is women are in a hideous middle ground, more educated then their moms , of whom their own mom told them ''they will come into their own at the wall aka 28 and men will work harder for them'' and its not true its ust a single mother tale to protect their kids from making mistakes outta ego to soon in life like the mom did now we have gen z seeing this, they have to work , they have to school but they know theirs nothing waiting for them at 30 and they now have to humble up, i mean every man wheter rich or poor wants a girl from 18-25 anyways so they now have the run of the place from men their own age to 45, young an virile guys to older rich guys who at 40 are looking 30. no loner can older sisters and moms groom their dauhters with 90s phantasies about indy women and how men will try more, men have it easier today as now women must go dutch. men have taken the pill and now women around 2024 will be taking the pink pill, the new norm for post wall women= no perch. this is progress.
Supermodels are weird looking because of their even features. You guys are weird for living the American dream. Maybe we'll get back to a time where low body counts are respected again instead of laughed at. Congrats you guys! Hope you're doing well!
Kevin's gift to read people is humbling to watch. So much focus and hate on this man for his blunt honesty. But here is the thing... To be able to successfully read people the way he does consistently requires a great deal of empathy. You can only accomplish this by being able to put yourself in someone else's shoes and view their lens of the world and feelings. An amazing gift. Respect.
The way he read the lady who came in wanting to give women 4 additional tips was simply breathtaking! He completely disarmed her of her huge ego and proceeded to let her know how broken she really was when she wanted to portray a picture of someone winning. Only then could he give her tips that could really help her and ultimately save her from herself and possibly saved the rest of her life. How people could say this man hates (Black) women do not know the definition of love. No one else genuinely cares about improving the outcomes of women for a lifetime than this man right here!
This is dumb tbh. A fool is someone who doesn't learn at all. I'd say your well ahead of the curve if you have the ability to learn from your own mistakes. Many people don't have that ability unfortunately. I partially agree with the wise man learns from the mistakes of others but individual differences and nuances must be taken into account.
Kevin asks about weight for a reason and he’s spot on when he says you should be at a healthy weight especially if you want to have kids/marriage. My sister was overweight for 10 years and couldn’t even get her period and it was very irregular the time she got pregnant she ended up losing the baby because of her weight issues. I know we know of some overweight women who has kids but for the most part being overweight stops you from conceiving and or carrying full term and healthy pregnancy. Ladies stop getting defensive on weight issues stop the crap with the whole big girl movement obesity shouldn’t be normalized. We want to be healthy and spend many years with our kids and family not worry about issues like diabetes high blood pressure knee problems sleep apnea etc .
👇🏽Timestamps👇🏽 00:00 Intro Music 21:26 Godfathers power outage monologue 23:02 Candle and Fragrance of the evening 24:25 Godfathers Monologue 31:18 Likes up moment 33:20 Godfathers Monologue Continues 01:07:52 1st Caller 28yo Ilyanette 01:09:29 2nd Caller 26yo Mariah 01:30:00 3rd Caller 33yo Gladys 01:46:10 4th Caller 29yo Khandola 02:00:54 5th Caller 24yo Breaz 02:03:21 6th Caller 32yo Lynn 02:24:42 Godfathers response to superchat comment from Ali 02:30:00 Community Tab Guidelines for Content Creators 02:36:00 How to get Godfather to respond to trending topics 02:39:46 End of show special song
To the sistah who is 375lbs and more worried about keeping a disrespectful man than working on her weight: Boo, been there , bought a t-shirt. I took a hiatus from dating and started working on my health. Meal prep, gym, reading more, trying new hobbies,etc. When I meet my king I want to FEEL good and look better.This “ plus size movement” has ruined us. 😑
Meal prep? Look up "Snake Diet." Fat people can literally stop eating for over a month without fear of death. Over 300lbs you can ACTUALLY stop eating for several months SAFELY. You need to STOP prepping meals. SERIOUSLY.
My advice to you as a Man is COOPERATION, Not EVERYTHING is worth a Headache n resistance to. The more Your cooperate with him the more You'll get in return if he truly Loves you which YOU hold him to that standard.
It's good that you're working on your health and fitness. Well done for getting on the right path. 375lbs is the weight of 3 average females combined and it's classified as being morbidly obese. In fact around 220 lbs is the morbidly obese point for the average female so she's waaaay past that! She might only live another 5 or 10 years if she stays at that weight. Maybe even not 5, who knows for sure but she's created a major health risk for herself by eating that much.
375lbs and wondering why her man gets outta bed to answer a call from another woman. Please!! She's lucky to even have a man, and she knows it. No disrespect, but what's she gonna do if he leaves? Go find another man!!
As a 47yr old Man Married for 18yrs… I appreciate my Wife and realize that not only did I choose correctly but my Wife is truly worthy and the best of our Women.. I feel truly sorry for the Men out here! She did all this and more which is why she was chosen. KS don’t stop!!
@@anonymous121474 Okay, I’m just asking cuz I actually called in to his show bc he tells us black women to find a husband when we go to college like the other races of women but then tells us not to marry men the same age but older…
@@lethallines5898 he stated to date up when Women have the expectations of landing a HVM. Men reach their financial peaks around 40,. But if you’re currently a student, you should Marry a peer from school as it will be a harder pool of Men to find once you graduate. In the end, you must do what is best for you base on the outcome you want.
I’m in the top 20% of men, a man of value and the Christian traditional values relationship system. Shout out to the men that want to have a life Of value and want a healthy marriage with a woman of value !!! Marriage is a good thing with the right wife / spouse!!!
@@Compounding_King good man!! I left a job yesterday.. I was making 460k between 3 companies but had to walk out of one paying 130k year because they wanted me to quit my other roles. Told them F off they have gone mad! So get another role and double down
To the woman that’s 300+. Dont crash diet or try to lose that weight fast as possible. It’ll make you look worse and increase the likelihood of a ton of loose skin. Lose it slow but not 15 pounds a year slow. It’ll be a long process but you need to start today! Get in a caloric deficit and resistance train with heavy weight. Don’t cut carbs but cut all sugars. You’re only drinking water for now on. Also don’t follow any celebrity diets they’re a bunch of bs. To lose weight the only requirement is a caloric deficit. You got this 💪🏾
The way he read the lady who came in wanting to give women 4 additional tips was simply breathtaking! He completely disarmed her of her huge ego and proceeded to let her know how broken she really was when she wanted to portray a picture of someone winning. Only then could he give her tips that could really help her and ultimately save her from herself and possibly saved the rest of her life. How people could say this man hates (Black) women do not know the definition of love. No one else genuinely cares about improving the outcomes of women for a lifetime than this man right here!
Caller one doesn't attract older men, she pursues older men for security, a father figure, etc. She came in to give advice and got some much needed schooling.
Thanks to social media the modern woman is living in an alternate reality. In which their shit don't stink and men want to take care of their 5 kids and should feel honored to do so. I sit back and laugh.
1 Samuel 16:7 “But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
@@moneymonny The message specifically was applied to God choosing a king for Israel. This has nothing to do with selecting a wife or husband. Again, look up eisegesis... Now, if you want to suggest the importance of observing a person's heart for values etc... that's different. Values too are subjective to interpretation. For example, some Christians value pro choice others value pro life. Both are Christians, but can argue over whose interpretation is "right" Let's not take this down a bunny trail. If a man was 4"11, 350 pounds, one arm, and broke would you "look at his heart" to marry him in 6 months?
I was taught at an early age that if a man is planning to be around you for the long haul he is going to invest in you, if he’s not planning to be around you for the long haul he will not invest in you. And that’s real talk! 🤔
Your dad is traditional, but we aren't living in traditional times. These days their is a dangerous shortage of women to invest into for the long haul.
*First caller was 26 with a 48 year old boyfriend in a 4 month relationship. Before that she was 19 dating a 56 year old who didn't try to marry her. She said that she was broken. Wonder what age she was broken before that? These women know everything about nothing.*
Sounds like she was taken advantage of by older men from a very young age. 19 yo is a teenager not a woman and shouldn't be dating men old enough to be her dad or grandfather in the first place.
I told my gf to get off social media and get rid of all her male friends but I was not successful. When she turned around and started talking about marriage, she was not successful either and I moved on.
@@macman9689 and 51% of men between 18-29 are single. While only 32% of women are. There arent enough women available and they arent choosing average men.
I only found out about Kevin a few months ago and I have immersed myself in listening and learning. Although I’m married you can never stop learning. I’m in my kitchen in the suburbs roasting Friday night chicken like I do every Friday night and can’t be happier! Ladies there are a lot of amazing men in this world, open yourself and your mind and listen to them! 💜
She stopped going to therapy bcuz they were connecting the dots that she was a 19 year old dating at 60 year old. Basically the therapist was telling her she was wrong and she didn’t wanna hear it so she stopped going.
Caller #1 here. That’s false. I was in therapy for 2 years while I was with the older guy and only went for a few months after moving to Houston for a wellness check. KS didn’t ask me when I went to therapy so when I told him my most recent time he assumed that was it. It’s not even worth explaining the whole story because he’ll cut you off or interrupt.
@@titanjake8640 also my aunt wasn’t in my life at that time. Only until recent years was she around. KS takes bullet points of your life which changes the entire narrative of the story. My mother kicked all of the kids out the house when we got over 18.I wasn’t intentionally trying to replace my father but those 2 years of therapy showed me that I was unconsciously doing so.
Why do women who claim to be the prize, or call men trash have some of the most unappealing tattoos? Some tattoo locations carry masculine meaning and unfavorable connotations ie lower mid back (tramp stamp). Women will know of these meanings, get the tattoos anyways, and then get mad when a man draws a conclusion. Who decided to get a tattoo and have it placed there?
I still get surprised that women will lie about their dress size when they are on camera. We all can see and KS catches them on their lie. It makes me wonder what lies they are capable of, especially of the things we can’t see.
KS is the man! Best content on RU-vid by far IMO. Certain RU-vidrs can talk down all they want, questioning his sexual preference, but it all stems from them having no smoke for him. Keep knocking em in the head Mr Godfather 👍🏽
yeah, we love KS and protect the Godfather! I remember the great man from circa 100,000..... Now he's blowing us all away with over a MILLION. Love the man!
The 7 requirements KS stated are not exclusive to only high value men. I'd argue by saying *ALL* of the requirements are baseline to get a man in general regardless of status.
@@mr_willwhite8465 Respectfully no. Every human being has inherrent value. Guys looking for work outside Home Depot have those 7 things and much more. Think however you want about yourself; but men deserve much more than that and the worse things get, the faster women will get their mind right.
@@julesfalcone you don't get the point. We live in a free choice world. That means a b80 man can WANT a woman to get with all 7 requirements, but if SHE doesn't see enough value in him, she won't be with him. That's why the leverage is important. If women don't SEE your value, who cares what you "ask" they won't do it
I never did girl’s trips when I was single, always found them lewd. My social media is private (I make money off of it because I have an apparel business that I design for), and I was actually pretty happy to get rid of my single friends. They did everything they could to try and sabotage my marriage early on. Ridiculous.
Ladies, please think at least ten times before getting those tattoos (especially the more visible ones). Most serious men look at you and immediately put you in the “for fun” box mentally. I can take you to the club but not the gala. Is that what you want?
@ 56:27 He makes a point here. I'm french myself, but American people have a high popularity ratings overseas. Especially men, because they make a lot of money compared to every other countries
@@janelleg597 yes we do, we are seen as basically "the king that everyone in public honors but is secretly waiting for one of them to be the assassin to take him out." You will be treated well, but in private a lot look at us as thinking we think we are better than the rest of the world, ignorant, Ill-mannered, loud, and greedy. Basically the 7 deadly sins many parts of the world especially religious ones think America embodies, modern day Sodom and Gomorrah.
In addition to thinking she was smarter than her therapist, the self-taught coder thought she was smarter than Kevin too until he gave her a swift response to her unnecessary follow-up question. Kevin’s deduction skills are sharp.
Yep... slowed her arrogant ass RIGHT down... She was at least polite, while The Godfather systematically dismantled the entire basis of her argument and demonstrated in 7 minutes how broken and out of order she was... Humility is beautiful to watch in motion...
I just realized where not wanting to give up single friends comes from. "Sisters before misters". Your single friends have always told you they will always be there for you. When he breaks your heart, they will be there for a shoulder to cry on. But if they get a man, you won't hear from them same girlfriends. I will drop my single girlfriends in a heart beat. Matter of fact, most of them I already have. I hardly speak to any of them and we never hang out anymore. They know I am on a mission to keep my man permanently.
@Darkrosewine - You mean that tiny clip where he’s talking about men having other men’s backs when they wanna date out? So disingenuous. Watch the whole clip. 🙄
Ummm nope. And I've been with my hubby for 28 yrs. Been with him since I was 19. But the absolute crap coming out of this dudes mouth is absolutely laughable.
@@ray205k7 🤣🤣🤣 not masculine. Just old enough to know better. No friends, no social media, no social life outside of what hubby says is okay. That's classic isolating and coaching that manipulators love to use. So many red flags.
@@ray205k7 I didn't come to the platform. It showed up in my feed. Back in the 80's this was called manipulation and it wasn't good. No matter if it was a women or man doing it. There is no good, honest reason to isolate someone you want to be in a relationship with. If that is the standard then the relationship is doomed out of the gate.
There's a cost to having the things you want. Nothing in this world is free, accept the air you breathe so be thankful for the average things that come across your way cause cats and dogs are everywhere and the stocks for Alpo and Friskies will hit the roof
Even fresh air is not guaranteed - wait for a dust storm, smoke, or bad air pollution. So it's free but not guaranteed. And even your taxes pay to make sure it is clean enough. Not trying to criticise your point, just emphasising it more, the idea that EVERYTHING comes with a price
As a woman willing to listen- said very correctly and on point Godfather Samuels- “ Put your cape up and remember where you are at”. Needed you in my younger years!
I don't want to be a high value man...I'm not working 80hrs a week... Unless you love your job. We already work too much, this is not what life's about. I need my time to surf, mountain bike, kickbox and relax...no woman is worth more than that. Then your wife divorces you because you are never there and your kids resent you. Why can't we just both make 60k a year and live a middle class life. You cook and clean and I'll fix the car and mow the lawns. You nurture our kids, I'll punish them.
60k to 80k is cool. Everyone can't make high 6 figure income. All I say is try to be greater than average. Not for a woman's sake but yours. Because cost of living is increasing and gotta keep up with inflation.
Coming from a recently divorced HVM I actually agree with a minimalist lifestyle. Slow down your life and just enjoy it. In this capitalistic society we're taught to go go go get get get and the next thing you know you've done it so much life actually passed you by. I get it
No matter what anyone thinks or feels about the content, or if it’s “accurate” if we do a quick summary of the content, all he is saying is common sense Having a child immediately lessens your options, man and woman, it’s just worse if your a single mother because then the man damn near can’t approach you if he’s not stable enough to take on you and your kid(s) but the men who are stable enough would rather deal with someone without any children. All of this is logical. It gets worse if you have multiple children. At the end of the day, if you wouldn’t want your son bringing home a single mother with 2+ kids and wifing her, you shouldn’t expect that either Don’t be 200-300+ expecting to get treated the same as someone who is a lower number and prettier. You can’t expect to hit the top of the top if your not the top of the top. Generally those who are consistently in shape look better than those who are not. It’s just basic science Just like a man doesn’t shoot his shot at a super model if he’s broke or at the very least not in shape. It has to be realistic. There’s nothing Immediately wrong with being overweight, or having kids, but it is wrong to try and force people to lower there standards if you don’t meet them.
But shorty said out her mouth she would never be with homie if she lost all that weight that means she settling for him, when he's actually settling for her elephant hippo ass
@@solo-us4is At that point its on her to either lose some weight(which in turn will give her self esteem) and leave his ass. In a perfect world, that man wouldn't be playing her, but this is reality, and the reality is, he's not going to take her seriously, because she doesn't even take HERSELF seriously.
5’5, 375lb woman: I want a high value man that’s 6’5 and has a six pack Same woman: But he has to accept me as I am otherwise he is a insecure and shallow jerk
I met a women like this recently. Delusional. The worst part is even if they have their weight in check, they have attitude issues form being unwanted due to their obesity.
The quality and value of the content on this video and others you've produced is just so high. This applies to everyone of all nationalities but especially like folks that date black women with forever marriage in mind. Thank for putting these things out there. So many women act like us men are crazy for thinking and wanting these things that you state. It's great to see and identify with a public figure such as yourself on these topics regardless of the fact that I'm not a black man. I did grow up in a predominantly black community in the dc area and only date black women.
“She’ll be sleeping with this guy, that guy. But she’s only spending her money on one man. The man she’s spending real money, that’s the one she wants to be with” ELITE fact!
I just cut off a woman who refused to give up her social media for me. I was even second guessing if there was some validity to the gas lighting about being controlling or insecure that she was liking pics of other guys. So refreshing to hear Kevin confirm that it’s nothing wrong with a man having a standard of cutting off male friends and social media
The damage has been done. There's really no reason a man is going to take on the financial jeopardy of a marriage contract with a party that can walk and take half, plus her kids, and leave for any reason whatsoever. Put aside the fact that none of them actually bring any domestic skills. The only thing they offer, that one thing, can be gotten without marriage. Fix no fault divorce. This is where the conversation should always start because the woman you marry isn't the same that sues for divorce.
I'm actually waiting on KS to do that show but he advocates for marriage so hard yet doesn't speak on how detrimental it can be to men. Which leads me to believe he didn't have much when he divorced those 2xs. I could be wrong but as a recently divorced HVM my mind hasn't processed whether or not I'd ever do it again. From a financial perspective it makes no sense.
@@ThurstMETV You aren't wrong. You would be a FOOL to get married in this day and age especially if you're successful. There's no literally no benefit especially when women don't really bring anything to the table anymore but problems. Kevin is capping on this one.
KS has already stated that marriage makes no sense for the average guy. Pretty soon, he’ll start to acknowledge that it probably doesn’t make sense for the top 20% either.
I'm glad he talked about how many brothers talk down on marriage. I'm not married but I grew up around it. It's amazing if you find someone compatible. Meaning your personality and values line up with hers. He's talking about survival of a specific group. Other groups know this already.
Ah!? (The right person no such thing.) see we all have this self righteousness, in retrospect its so easy to point the finger yes to hear these stories/hurt truhts all us fall short and will continue to. The greatest gift in a union any union to develop communication skill and compromising. That is the 🔑
@@SuperYoyoitsme brother, you have no clue what you're talking about. I didn't say the "right person". I said COMPATIBLE. That's a real thing. Most people pick the wrong person then convince themselves that they need to just try harder and make is through the tough times enough. That's not what relationships are about. Folks pick people with the most trauma but try to force it so they don't feel like failures. I've been there. The red flags are always there when you pick the wrong person. This ain't about perfection. It's about picking someone that fits you.
Been saying it for long time, married men tend to give worst advice/opinion, & take everything personally. If you are out of market for a while, you don't understand, stay over there.
I just met a 6 or 7 who's super happy. I offer this bc it's easy to get black pilled. She works a shit job, with a shit uniform and everytime I go in there I notice she's really nice and happy to all the customers. (Mostly old people and third worlders i.e. she's not flirting - she's legitimately good natured.) She was so pleasant it got me thinking: maybe I'll stop going for 8's, 9's and 10's. This woman was pretty and her personality was really easy to be around. I could see having a nice life with a woman like that. (I live in Los Angeles, and haven't met a woman worth the hassle in a long time.)
A lot of men became loners because they took a look at the dating pool and realized that the juice is not worth the squeeze for the most part. For some of the men who do get married again there are plenty of other stories of men never rebuilding to that point again in their lives. I understand wanting to build a network and what not, but finding a woman who respects all that and her role is like finding a needle in a needlestack. No thanks.
Today’s marriage is for the upper middle class. It is for men who can stand to lose 30% to 50% of their net worth. Women change daily, according to what society allows. Men adjust to that change…. the adjustment we have made is that we no longer make plans to one day build a family. We accept that their are way more concubines than there are wives. The men that Kevin deals with runs in networks and clubs/fraternal organizations that 99% of the men in this world no nothing about. They live their lives by much different rules than the average man does, so it’s important to live by the decisions that we make. If you have a standard, live by it. As a man, if the numbers don’t add up, then stand by your logic. The cost benefit analysis is skewed one way, irregardless of the networks that are needed to establish yourself as a HVM. Follow your logic brothas.
@@Dbo_Sports divorce doesn't mean you lose 30 to 50% of your assets. That only applies to men who grow rich while they are married to a woman who does not also grow rich and especially if she has kids rather than work. But again, that is for men with lots of MONEY
The hardest thing for women to give up, especially black women, is their female friends. For men, we unconsciously cut off ours with the quickness. And the funny thing is men understand that when it happens and women don’t.
To add, men can bring that shit right back with friendship if it happened to drop off after a long time. I work hard, my closer friends work hard, so we know the rule - We handle ours and if it's 4 days, 4 weeks, 4 months, or 4 years until we hang out again, then that's what it is. Women take 4 hours personally as an attack against them
@@ronswanson1410 this 💯. Hung out with my friends when I was on leave for the first time in almost a year. Didn’t miss a beat because true friends won’t.
This comment is pure facts. I can go for months without taking to some friends but I can call one up today and we start talking like no time passed. If he needs something done I'm there and vice versa.
Giving up male friends => with social media ppl now stay connected to ex-partners for decades and now over a lifetime. They just go dormant when ppl are in relationships then they are reactivated whenever needed (dead bedrooms, during relationship difficulties, boredom, for excitement, and for post relationship rebounds)
These women under 25 are the worst with that with how addicted they are to social media and how they have no concept of boundaries. Just had a woman throw away a whole relationship because she didn’t want to give up engaging with those male “friends” on social media. They literally would rather die alone than sacrifice the freedom to seek attention and validation from other men who are even of lesser value than you
Watching this made me think okay i’m not crazy, that’s weird how i’ve done all these things only 19 , don’t have social media anymore , we are long distance as of right now and i’m ALWAYS planning for future plans to see each-other . hopefully we work out because we are a perfect match for each other and joining the military soon THANKS Mr.Samuels
The first caller is the reason why KS is successful and needed. She came out strong with all the confidence in the world and after asking questions 2 to 3 layers deep, he was able to see the real issue and hopefully saved that woman's life. I salute you brother.
People need to train themselves to do three things to make weight loss easier: 1) Stop consuming sugary and carb heavy foods and drinks. 2) Learn to fall in love with only drinking water, and drink at least 12 cups of it throughout the day. 3) Keep to a consistent schedule, of at least 16 hours per day, where no calories are consumed (Example: No foods or drinks between 6pm-10am, water is the exception)
@@shayeallmon5671 Diet is a way more critical factor to losing weight for people who are really overweight and obese. Exercise is not nearly as important. Once you shed a decent amount of weight, start to incorporate cardio, and a proper weight lifting program like "starting strength" to build muscle.
KS has all my respect....he knows all the right questions. Callers on the other hand never learn anything from the convo. I was happy when I saw the title cuz I thought ok now it's broken down easy so women can understand the 7 points....but no...women still not taking away anything it seems
I love this comment section. I’ve interacted with some interesting men today. I’m so happy I’m emotionally and mentally tapped in to have such lovely conversations 💃🏽.
Pookie needs her and its hard to leave. She can act a fool with Pookie because she controls everything, she has all the power. HVM doesn't need her money or HER advice, he is already established with direction and moving towards his purpose. I'm a successful man.When I date successful women they want someone to validate them. Pookie will, and call her a QUEEN in the process. No one is intimidated by a successful, independent women. No one wants to be around them because they are not humble or feminine. When a women asks " hows your relationship with your mother?" she wants to see if she can be the next women to control you. In my opinion.
@Lizzy Loca just this fact alone allows us to predict how your relationship is currently and how it will end. Think about that. Don't waste your prime years on a Pookie
I think Kevin is blaming education too much. I do agree in what Ali said on that education is important for women because they are your kids first teacher. It is women who is raising children while the men are away. I think the problem is that marriage is not valued.
FYI for the lady the said she got nothing from the FREE call, "You have to bring something to get something". Her intention with that comment was to hurt KS because this is probably the first time in her life a MAN told her the TRUTH!
Damn kevin read the 26 year old with ease that shit was pretty Impressive he truly has a gift I would’ve fell for her bullshit thinking she had the answers and she more lost then me damnnn bro thank u kevin u really changed the way my mind sees the world especially women
_That part when KS said about a woman who is not spending on a man_ Ladies and Gentleman. This is a gem to take note. I discovered it too late. That waste of time and money you will never get it back.
Social Media has taught our women that they are Queens without Kings, that they're time and vaginas are an even exchange for a man's time and resources. It blows my mind that a woman thinks she can cook for you one time and you should take her on a trip. This coming from a recently divorced HVM.
When Kevin told the lady with the tattoos that she is getting the outcomes she is supposed to because she has no structure or discipline was baffling for her lol. She had to rethink life at that point and come to the realization that he was spot on. Stay away from these “free spirit” & no structure types shit is nothing but caos . This is why FATHERS are important ‼️
Yea she is low class 🤦🏾♂️ in law school and dating outside my race , European, Asian and Latin . Kevin is right Caucasian women and black women in the west need competition
That caller said she gained nothin from the talk with Kevin. Was she not listening? The problem is YOU, your attitude, and your outlook of men! I’m generally amazed at how that went over her head!?
Once again The Godfather has opened my eyes to what else I need to change to get the outcomes I want! I'm going to endeavor to enlarge my network of success minded people! I'm also going to start attending events that require me to put on a suit or tux! I realize that I'm that guy who just works and sits around the house! Thanks again Godfather...U Da Man!
Mr. Samuels was damn right when he told the last caller that the audience gained a lot from their conversation . I gained wisdom about selfish and crazy modern women who expect UNCONDITIONAL LOVE from a men( women expect men to love and accept me the them the way I am) but they will give a man CONDITIONAL SUBMITION (men should prove he's worth to get submition).
These modern women are NOT worth it. I am a successful single bachelor. I am a blue collar Henry as described. I have multiple females in my life. I AM NOT SIGNING ANY CONTRACTS WITH ANY WOMAN!
Most people don't wanna take a good look at and work on themselves first but rather want to dictate to men on what choice we need to make and what type of women we should date. KEEP ON dreaming if you think you have that right. MEN are picky too and have choices OKKKKKKK 🙄
I love being married and even when I was divorced, I still spoke highly of marriage. My husband and I were divorcees and thank God he found me and I attracted him. He’s amazing and I couldn’t imagine my life without him.
Remarriage = Adultery , marriage is until death so if your husband is still alive and you’re in a counterfeit marriage you should repent while you still have time. Your happiness in your sinful state is not as important as repenting and being saved from eternity in Hell. Without repentance there can be no forgiveness of sin. If the prodigal son never repented and returned home he would have stayed lost forever.
29 180lbs Dress size 8. (*12) Two boys by two different men Studying biology and pursuing dentistry *Student loans How is a future man benefitting from marrying you? The fact that this woman isnt uncommon in our community is worrisome.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen successful women with low life thugs. They want that control they want someone that needs to be with them and unfortunately those are the consequences they get. Amazes me how if they can’t get with the HVM they’ll bypass the average guy and go to the Pookies and Ray Rays. Highly successful women are often the most insecure women I know.
It’s not about being insecure from what I’ve seen. Successful women often carry a lot of responsibility in the workplace and also have to come home to serve/others without ever getting her needs met. Sometimes (even if admittedly temporary) she’s ok with the kind of male you described because he physically tends to her and provides that uh necessary physical relief by taking something else off her plate that she has to do herself in this world. A lot of them are also smitten by the duality of a woman who can go between worlds and genuinely enjoy being around her and value her energy. It can be great distraction/relief for the modern successful woman…allegedly. 😉
@Courtney W so you’re justifying a woman being with a lowlife thug? This is exactly the problem grown women shouldn’t be worried about who is showing them a good time if he isn’t providing and protecting her. That’s HS and freshman year of college stuff. A career woman shouldn’t be messing around with a street thug I mean no woman really should , but that’s impossible to ask for.
@@thechosenone7875 I want to ensure we stay on topic. My response was provided to allow context. Your initial response is about an insecurity. I explained instances I know where this is not the case. The other men provide relief. Nothing insecure about needing your back knocked back into alignment sometimes and knowing just where to go for that service with a smile. Not all dates are fruitful, and not everyone who offers you out deserves your body. There is some comfort and relief in just what I explained.
@@courtneyyy9220 She can’t get the things you mentioned from an average man with a normal job who isn’t running the streets? She’s gotta go for a thug who is probably doped up on drugs half the time?
@@thechosenone7875 well what I know of and know about I will say this is usually temporary while she’s navigating the market/climbing the ladder, on travel etc and not wanting to sleep with a bunch of suitors. The thing about it, men say all the time that every vag is the same. But every penis does not garner the same experience or even a guaranteed outcome for a woman. This is kind of just like having a favorite coffee spot near your office. It’s guaranteed to be exactly what you need when you need it, each visit. I think as a woman who’s dated and knows other women, we would love an average man who meets our needs. However theres a lot of variables and demands that make dating and relationships for successful women hard to navigate. There’s no way to know which or who to “try” so we kind of just go with the one on reserve we already know about, during those times.
I'm intrigued by when Kevin recommends ladies get rid of their single for friends, or at least let them know you want to free up some time. See, that's something so critical. I've dated plenty of women who have assured me "Well I don't have much time at all." See, if she's a typical 40hr weekly employee, has no second job, volunteer work etc - where's her time going? Oh, right, to her friends that wish to party and have girls night out endlessly. Women like this choose to prioritize these types of friends, but what about when those same ladies get in relationships? Ladies, you have to be willing to MAKE TIME for a man you're seeing. Fellas, if she's unwilling, she doesn't care. Any genuine man knows that a wife, a family, is significantly more important than endless hangouts that won't get you any results but the same drunk ending you've already experienced. Have friends, have fun with them. But not at the expense of your own personal life and family goals.
Ladies don't settle. In fact, I refuse to even entertain the argument of "woman need to settle". They don't, the won't, and they shouldn't. Women simply need to compete. Compete for the man they deem worthy and compete to KEEP the man they deem worthy. I prefer that, because that puts the onus completely on the women. "You want a man in the top 1%? Cool. Can you beat out 99% of your competition? Have you beaten out 99% of your competition? Do you realize you even have competition? Do you know that your competition is not all the women you know but all the women he has access to?" Ladies...do not settle. Compete. Or, buy a dog and you know the rest...
When women who are average at best are given bad advice not to _"settle"_ (a misnomer; since it's really _matching_ ones complement) such is setting people up for failure… Competing with unrealistic expectations is like a non boxer going up against heavy weight champions. Not impossible, though astronomically improbable. Same with single mothers (often with multiple baby daddies) who are overweight, wanting a man of value... All things being equal, childless women in their prime feminine will almost _always_ out-compete the aforementioned...
@@jhnxavier Right ha. I call it staying in your weight class, I don't have no business tryna spar with Rihanna or a Janet Jackson in her 20s. Stay in your weight class, stay in your lane and search in there
Nice words of encouragement and all..... But you know like I know like all these people that watch this show know that women do not listen and lack accountability to say the least. They not gonna compete for nothing. "They are the table" smh
Our father taught us..."some people commit suicide quick and fast, while others do it slowly!" Purposefully living an unhealthy lifestyle, to include overeating, is a slow and steady way of committing suicide. It is upsetting to see so many of our beautiful people physically unfit, overweight/obese, and just plain unhealthy. It is upsetting to know so many of our beautiful children are not afforded the best opportunity to be loved, supported, trained, educated, prepared, and resourced to succeed in adult life. Unfortunately....the bus ain't stopping to pick up people that didn't have enough sense to buy a ticket.
100% facts at the end your commentary about fair use ! Sum lame people do videos based on your content ( JRWisdom) giving their low level POV…. Sue their asses KS . They can’t do anything unique so they try and ride your coat tails
