A narcissist thinks: Their money is their money, My money is their money, My family's money is their money, and The entire world's money is their money.
Right!! What’s up with them and money? I’m so tired of it all coming down to that. I’m slowly detaching from my family and I can see that all I’ve ever been to them is an ATM. The guilt is tremendous, though.
My ex narc hated me and barely have me enough money for gas groceries. If he he thought or I was having any fun or joy he resented it because he didn’t want to pay for it. I other words he was so hateful resentful of me not working snd if he thought I was having any joy or fun he would ruin it.
My narcissist ex and I had 5 years of relationship therapy, which didn't help at all . He said : “ I thought the therapy was only just for you “ 😢 It was a torture chamber indeed …. Don’t ever go in there !!
Reminds me of this guy who went to a therapist and allegedly manipulated her to " diagnose" his problem for issues ( suspected marital abuse ) with the least "damaging" diagnosis he said. Situational depression?? lol There was nothing situational about it but his way of getting out of responsibility. Meanwhile, still a victim. They know all the angles and are very manipulative until competent and intelligent people catch on. Sadly, some never do. Thank you and love your informative channel. You are helping many people. 🙏
How awful! I'm so sorry that this happened to you. I always say that a person's true colours come out when someone dies. When my grandfather died, other relatives went through his fishing gear, taking what they wanted before he was even buried. I know that's nothing compared to what happened to you. Just saying that the behaviour is disgusting in both cases.
Let it go, it will keep you there. Go forward, be happy in spite of your loss. I have experienced loss myself, and now i know, that it isn't worth thinking about, because the will attract more of the same. BE HAPPY!!! That's the best revenge. YOU CAN DO IT JEAN LEWIS.!!!💖
So convincing. Oh my God. The things they say that you didn't do and you know you didn't do it. And they make you crazy, but half the battles, knowing it and I tell my daughters. I know it. No I just have to get out not that easy. It's almost impossible to escape bye. I'm an empath I can do it!
It's very rare for anyone to talk about being financially dependant on a Narcissist as I was for over 20 years. I had to put up with all kinds of abuse because I couldn't afford to cut him off and walk away. These days, I have a better income but he's helped me all those years, and I feel I owe him for all his help. At the moment he's on a mental ward under a section. So that's giving me a much needed break, thank God.
It’s the worst kind of narcissistic abuse and it seems like a lot of people were lucky to not get to this point, I’m yet to see someone who suffered as much as I did😢
. I'm in that club. 50 yrs. I found out 10 yrs ago what was wrong with him. I was already devastated physically and emotionally. Now I'm non-functional and no income. They're EVIL.
I am number 7 for sure. Been married 30 years to this person I have lost my mom and dad with a year and he had me severed when I was in hospice with my mother. I feel like I am grieving myself to death and he has cut me off from everything and everyone. I don’t know what to do. I feel like there is no hope.
I am sorry for your loss 🙏🏼🕊️. I believe he gives one on one coaching (check the description box) try to find someone you trust to talk to and most importantly stay PRAYED UP. I hope things get better soon for you.
I am sorry for your loss 🙏🏼🕊️. I believe he gives one on one coaching (check the description box) try to find someone you trust to talk to and most importantly stay PRAYED UP. I hope things get better soon for you.
I was helped by a codependents anonymous group in my area. I started going because of the brain damage I received from listening to my narc husband. I became a people pleaser, an enabler. Interacting with other in-person people with similar stories has very slowly been healing me
I wish I had known this a long time ago. This is Probably the best information I could have ever known. If I could turn back time, I would do it all differently. If I'd have known it would end up like this, I would have run and never looked back. It wasn't worth everything I deal with now. Thank you for this information. This is life changing info right here!!
My ex bargained he would agree to certain things if I went to the couples counsellor he chose - the counsellor told me I'm filled with anger inside - I looked inside and - nope! I was openly angry about trying to leave a relationship and my partner using forcing techniques to keep it going - if he'd been respectful, we could have reflected & considered, but it was inconsiderate nasty coercion all the way. He never stuck to his word on anything either- not even after he shook hands on something. Such a low life. I was glad to get out.
How convenient that he demanded you see a counsellor that HE chose. He probably manipulated the counsellor to side with him - much like Danish described in this video. I'm glad that you got out, too!
@stargazer6074 thank you. Prior to that, I had already suggested couples counselling at the best quality service available (most experienced at relationships and most expensive). I knew the relationship was getting too strained, but hadn't realised it was because he had a control vendetta against me. :-( took me years to understand the full extent of it. So I went to the counselling service alone, using my salary. He blamed my counsellor for my decision to leave, but i realised when i saw her that the relationship had completely exhausted me and I was done staying with someone so mean to me.
I spent 8 years with one in a relationship. 16-24. Parental lack of boundaries with the first one i was birthed to is why i stayed so long. Married another one..... that was even darker... Escaped.... anddddddss the Last one i spent a year with... while taking care of his health, dealing with his addictions, and my own, his lack of respect for others, my own constant emotional and physical pain and they refused to let me grieve for my recent losses. Instead weaponizing everything i told them in confidence, shining light on my short comings without ever acknowledging their own flaws, fake apologies, exploiting my emotions, anddddddd calling ME controlling when i would try to use boundaries. Discarded and moved on immediately. Any time i would have good things happen to me and work despite all my problems to help myself, they would take credit also. Or try to. Once i had enough, i waited for the tears, slowly backed up to "fawn" again when i knew they were becoming violent and eventually got them back to their homestate they only left to use me and my family as a free ride. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Danish what I am aware of is that all those years where not wasted. I learned from it and became a better version of myself. Only thing is....I wiisse I heard more early about Narcissitic personality,s and there behaviour. Now it is more in the open. Thanks to Internet. Thank you Danish you are one of my beautifull teachers.
Rhe 6th on he is doing it for me now...Knewing whats in my heart,he uses very much against me as a weapon..and making me trapped in the same sitaution.Really an eye opening video.I totally stopped sharing whats in my mind.I have to go out soon.
Married to a survivor of a narcissistic mother and for the longest time I thought that she was a narcissist because of the trauma bond. She displayed all the signs of a narcissist but once we broke off all contact she became a totally different normal human being!!!! I was ready to leave and now I could never think about it anymore because she is a completely different person. This new journey has brought us closer and you my friend had a huge impact on us. We thank you from the bottom of our hearts 💕
Once again thank you for this Wise video. It's just comforting to hear the validations because my ex-husband was exactly like this. My mother was a narcissist but she could be generous from time to time. She never kept throwing it back in my face only once in awhile maybe. But she was my mother not my life partner. My husband was a male and my husband and so I guess he was expecting a woman to constantly give her paycheck. When I stopped it was very stressful until I was able to leave how about 9 months later. He complained about my 401k in court to the judge and the judge just looked at me like oh you poor thing. 🙄👍
Danish your this video is again eye opener for me...The point about finance..it is absolutely true & correct 💯. every word is a real description abt my husband with whom was since last 41 yrs..I decided to leave him & booked a senior citizens 1BHK apt..He had snached my all FD...& torched me in so many ways.. Thank God I got it through Bank ,s manager help& guidance...now I living in this Apt easily.but not peacefully.bcoz he is trying to troubling me frequently..he had Lot of money..inpite this.. really Nars r a person with out soul.. cruelty is in their blood....By the God,s grace I saved my savings for my old days... Thank you Danish as ur studies abt these NARC is approvals for my this approach & attitude for a narc.. partner
I'm living in LA, the most NARCISSISTIC Psychopathic Entitled Spoiled city I have ever lived in. Wherever you go you only meet different snakes 🐍 in human body. It's very difficult to live in these circumstances but I didn't find a better place to live. Any ideas?
I tried therapy with her, both group and individual. I had to suspend mine because I was paying for everything, and I ran into financial trouble. When I returned I told my therapist I had seen a regression in my ex and he said “I don’t see it”. 100% true
My narc parents borrowed and lost a lot of money on 2 businesses that failed...both of which they had no prior experience/expertise with. I thought at the time they were being overly optimistic....but after realizing they are narcs, it was their grandiosity that set them up for failure.
You could write a book. Seriously. I hope you do. It's not too late to use your experience to educate and help others. Then it won't be a complete waste.❤
Hello, I just barely escaped with my life, I was with my narcissist for 26 years, I need help it's been 2 years I'm still in fight or flight mode, please help me
Well, the narcissist married the man who destroyed me financially, so I guess it is a match made in heaven. When she first met me she said "you're so beautiful" and now I'm a "pathetic snagly ditch rat". LOL the insults are hilarious.
They will look a gift horse in the mouth.They will take kindness as weakness.When you show them generosity they will want more whilst shamelessly never returning the favour.
@@lemaxx2638it’s easy to wonder that why are these people still with abusers? But real life is so complicated and every scenario is different maybe they have no family support, are trauma bonded, or are biding their time.
@@cleocatra9324 I understand. I used to be trauma bonded but when I understand that I was dealing with the devil, I start my healing journey far away from this individual. But when you know, there is really no excuses to stay.
There are many different signs. These include spending time on phone that was not spent previously, withholding sex from you, withdrawing in communication with you, agitation or anger over Petty stuff or making up situations to get angry or agitated over, lying, being secretive in any way, randomly spending more time caring for and pampering oneself such as putting on makeup or wearing cologne or coloring hair etc. Any type of changed behavior that is not aimed at pleasing or benefiting your relationship. With all of that though, follow your gut. your gut is telling you that something isn't right and it's telling you that this could or is happening, therefore listen to it. Just Free yourself from all of it! Run and don't look back. Go 100% no contact. The mental and emotional abuse is not okay at all! Do not bring anything up to her. Don't try to rationalize or have a conversation about anything. Don't let her know that you know she's in narcissist. All of that can cause a narcissistic rage. If you have not yet witnessed one of those just trust me that you don't want to! A narcissistic rage is beyond any rage I have ever seen or witnessed in my entire life. I am an army combat veteran and served front lines for a year and afghanistan. I have abuse going back from as long as I can remember, the first time in my personal memory is 2 years old. With everything I have been involved in, and my rape, other sexual abuse, their physical abuse, etc in narcissistic rage is by far the worst! If you need to contact your local police department and start a new contact order. No one can protect you like you can! free yourself from it all and move forward in your life. The minute you run and go no contact is the minute your life begins again. If need be seek out professional help. Therapy is the best thing I did for myself. The best gift I gave to me! The abuse is so deep and overwhelming that having a professional guide you through the steps of the healing process is extremely beneficial! Just remember, there is great strength in asking for help. There is great lack and strength or no strength at all in putting on a mask and hiding behind the opinions of society and pretending that you are okay! As human beings we all witness A Time In our lives where we are not okay! Those that heal, move past, and move forward, and have a brighter future are those who ask for help and do the work that is needed through the help! I'm so sorry you are going through this and I wish you the very best! Good luck! Always remember that you are stronger than you believe you are, you are worthy and deserving of better and always, and you are enough just the way you are and who you are today! Take this time for you! Get yourself again. Fix that meal that you're all time favorite, rent that movie you've been wanting to see, have a guys night out with your best friends, remodel a room in your home, go purchase that item you've been wanting to for so long, just do for yourself! Self-acceptance, self-love, and being able to forgive yourself is far more important than what anyone else can give to you! Believe in who you are! You deserve nothing less than that! You're not alone! Feel free to tag me in any other questions that you have! I'll help if I can. Additionally you can hire a cyber expert to help you get remote access to their phone so you can track them and monitor all of their activities without them knowing. You may locate the top cyber specialists locally at digitalinvestigate@gmail.com where you can engage a well-trained professional to assist you..........
From one vet to another that was Very well said. I can relate to a lot that you've said. Thanks for taking the time to write that. However your last info abt the cyber person through me off bc so many of these are fake and set ups.
Thank you. well said. the last Cyber bit . Be careful of Frauds etc. Do it if you Savvy in that Area. it can lead to S'thing Ag. you. Eg. Stalking . etc.
So dying my hair, soing self care for myself, saying no to sex when i don't wanna have it and wearing makeup is a sign that i am a narcissist? What are you apostolic?
@@Yeehaw0588 I'm the only one dumb enough to respond to your absolute crazy comment. This video, and others like it, is way over your ability to grasp.
Always expect the worst from a narcissist. Never believe a word they say but pay attention to what they do. They hate being exposed because it reveals how horrible they really are and don't want people to know. Keep away from them. This video is spot on, Danish! 🎯
@@jacquelinemarie1078You can do it. You can. ❤️ I was married to a narc for 24 years. I’ve been out for nearly 12. I’m still healing (because they TAKE so much), but I’ve been SO much happier! Since the moment I decided to leave. Peace is Everything. You can do it! Sending BIG hugs! 🩷❤️🧡
My narcissistic husband just spent almost all my inheritance on a new pickup truck and fishing boat for himself. Joint bank accounts are not a good idea with a narcissist!!!
I've been with my partner for 20 years and we have separate bank accounts - and that's the way I like it. I'm sorry that your husband felt so entitled to spend YOUR money on whatever he wanted for himself. How incredibly selfish of him!
I got a small inheritance from my father ,I had it in a bank account my brothers girlfriend gave me the best advice .Put it in superannuation so your ex wife can’t touch it .Best advice I received,I never got to thank her ,she died a few years later .
In my case I could never enjoy to the fullest with my wife.. lot of mood swings.. sometimes jumpy sometimes low.. upset with the pics I take.. pics are important than enjoying the time n nature.. cant explain but it's heavy feeling..
Oh yeh, some of the most horrible things he told me and the worst times he yelled at me where on vacation. Didn't have a good time like I was supposed to, it was quite the opposite.
Every single summer we went to his condo at the sea he would tell me that he will send me back. Like I am a child. Because I wasn't following his rules. He would start in the late spring, saying :"this year you are not going with us to vacation..." What a horrible human being does something like that to his wife of 18 years? Thank God, that He has freed me from this torture.
Loaned small amount to narc, he made one payment and threw a tantrum screaming yelling he didn't want to pay me back....Keep shinning the Light Bright Danish😊👍👍👍👍❤❤❤❤❤....this was a 52yr old man....
Mine took an entire year to give me my money back. Towards the end of the year, I told him it's time to give my money back. He has a good career but resented giving me my money back. These people have no morals and no integrity! 😮
I rebuke we all have our ways, but I believe these boneheads are demonic in nature. They can only hurt us because we love so deep. Anyone else would get smart and kick them to the curb. I have no where to go, little money to get there, and old enough where I'm not employable anymore. So I have to fight until I can leave. Hope your situation is better and continues to improve each day - - - YOU CAN DO IT!!!
1. Financially, partnership. My boss , the narc, is a financial advisor (aka crook)! 2. Believe opposite of what they say . (LIARS) 3. DO NOT go to therapy with them. It won't change them 4. Do not believe their hopeless hope of change. 5. Do not believe the nasty names they call you. 6. Do not give them access to your personal life. (My boss, Narc, wanted me available evenings and weekends! I said no. He fired me!) 7. Sunk cost. ( It has only been 5 days since I was fired and already my health is improved. I am happier and more at peace.I am sleeping better! worth it . I will find another job.)
I work part time in a small office of four staff. The support worker works 7 days per week with an occasional day off. She is a covert narc. The other one is bipolar and the third is covert narc with schizoid traits. My nerves are shaken. I have to get out of there even though I enjoy the job duties. Traps and set ups everywhere.
@@kerrytaggart8206 Yes, get out, don't tell anything to anybody, make sure new job has no way to talk to them: they like to sabotage and ruin your mental health and reputation until the end. I am finding Dan OConnor YT channel very helpful.
Are we the same cause my boss was also a narc. When I refused to be used without compensation he got angry. I feel lighter. Work environment became creepy real quick.
The monster way back went for therapy on his own. Of course, and the psychologist asked him to leave the room halfway during their session, and the reason was his incurable, psychologist also said after I'm done with you, I will be needing a psychiatrist.! And guess what? The idiot thought it was hilarious.
Everything you said is spot on. Narcisists are driven by evil forces and they bring drama, trauma, chaos and destruction everywhere they go and in everything they do. We must have nothing to do with evil. Thank you Danish 😊 God bless you ❤
This is spot on and so helpful. Narcissists are so obsessed with money that they can't wait to get their hands on other people's by all means, they are not to be trusted at all, they are liars, traitors and thieves. Never show any weakness to them and avoid any exposure revealing information about yourself because they are hungry for anything to use it against you. Keep strong and safe. Thank you, Danish 🙏🏻💜
I married one unknowingly. I lasted 10 months and ran. before I ran I started smelling a rat. and quickly began closing any financial openings. and planned my escape. he drug the divorce on for a year. did everything possible to not leave my home. he left the evening before I brought in law enforcement.
Danish your fees are really high for people not earning in dollars and pounds.. people are watching you from different parts of the world.. try to make it 10 to 20 dollars for people who want to join from india.. you are doing a fantastic job.. keep it up
I did "sunk cost" for a little while, but I finally chalked up the loss and moved on. Was it easy? Fk no. Am I glad that I moved on? Only every waking moment of my life! 🎉 Thank you for another great episode, Danish 🎉
🎯 Two quick stories abt how true this is. My Narc mother bought me a car @ 19. That was my car. She literally charge me every month like a carnote $200 bucks. Mind you this like 2006 and the car was a fukin Two door grandam with no fukin air! Then she was trying to charge me every two weeks until i told her no one pays the same bill twice a month! After that i got my 1st good job at the hospital (sadly the hospital kept calling the house and she never said anything because she didn't want me too work because she knew her money train would leave and i had just had my son) So she started charging me like creatinf bills every month like cell phone, car insurance, etc. These mfs are wicked individuals, and yep 10:15 I never tell my mom anything dealing with success or my business smh.
Ikr like my ex did aloy of annoying things which I will not say on here because they are probably watching everything ummm yeah be careful with these people keep your expensive things close to you
@bella_bella85, I moved back home with my narc mom to save money because I was going out of state for college. This was pre-internet, so college acceptance letters were mailed. I applied to several Universities and never received one letter (acceptance or rejection) I was starting to panic because the fall semester was a few months away, and I still needed to move across the country if I was accepted. I decided to call my #1 pick Univ to see if I was accepted, I was told over the phone that I was accepted, and that they sent me the letter two months ago! I am sure that she threw my letters away… because who would take care of her every need if I moved! I left 14 days after that phone call! 💪🏼
@@rek8514 Shyt is really demonic! She probably opened them and knew you got in and did the same shyt my mother did and didn't tell you. These MFS are just pure evil, there are no other words to describe em. SMH
You don't fall, you get distracted. I saw an old movie where a black slave told the little white girl she was caring for, who was being neglected by her rich parents. "Repeat after me, " the slave woman said, "I is good, I is beautiful, and I is important." I think about that so many times and cry, it's so heartwarming. So - - - YOU IS GOOD, YOU IS BEAUTIFUL, AND YOU IS IMPORTANT! Believe it, it's true. YOU CAN DO IT!!!
It's my birthday today and what I'm going through, the ugliness, the abuse , the jealousy, the hurts, the pain and I look so ugly and old just after few hours I woke up, and I've been crying all day, again I couldn't get through... I feel what a fool I am I can't believe, I can't even admit how many years I've survived suffering...I can't get out
In my experience I finally connected with a real person, in person, who is kind and also tells me the truth. It took me 24 years (after narc trauma) just looking for that kind of friend. Going to co-dependents anonymous helped, since the group I go to actually cares about spiritual growth. Humans are made to get nourished from the outside of themselves
We have to create what we want. It isn't a fairy tale and some want us to believe we have no power, but we do. Think using the law of attraction. the more you focus on your abuse (I just had my second heart surgery due to nerves) the more we get of the same. Quit saying, "I can't get out." Think yourself out and happy. I just sent positive thoughts to you. YOU CAN DO IT! You and I are both - - - out! We are both living our dream, happy and at peace. Neville Goddard is a good one to listen to, there are thousands. Of course, Danish is number one.
My entire family are narcissists except for my two brothers and myself- We three have been robbed of any money from an inheritance, been called dirty names, told we should die, and my sisters all tried to have sex with my late husband, while my other three brothers have sex with anyone and everyone. My siblings murdered my little brother but they work and scheme as a group and I’m at a loss on how to prove what they did. Every single item Danish listed my father, mother, and six siblings have done and they seem to get away with all the damage they do to other people. To stop them from murdering me too, no contact with that entire group is the only thing to do. Please listen to what Danish is saying because he is telling us how to save ourselves.
A certain family member let the narcissist be on the title to his house. The day they were supposed to move in together she threw a fit over something stupid and tried to file a false police report, he said maybe it’s not a good idea for her to move in, and she threatened that she would make him have to sell the house. Definitely don’t do anything financially with a narcissist or let them know where your finances are. Tell them nothing!
My narcissistic sister! Money, money, money. She "tries to" make me feel guilty for not spending my money the way she spends her money. For example, she will buy our dad a fast food dinner. She'll make a huge deal out of it. Then, commenting on how I don't do that. I will when I choose to but if you think I'll do it when she tries to guilt trip me into it...um...no.
I hear ya! My brother tries to guilt-trip me sometimes. But I know exactly what he's doing, so I don't fall for that shit. He can take his guilt trip and cram it. I just laugh and think to myself: "Nice try."
Don't worry, there are ways to deal with that. Just tell her "I don't spend money on rubbish" (edit: or tell her bluntly: "I don't buy rubbish") and when you can buy your dad something healthy that he likes (mine loved homemade porridge and thick creamy Greek yogurts), or cook his favourite meal if that's possible, better quality nutritious stuff for his health and more importantly, it's your genuine caring love and support for your dad on a daily basis what really counts. Don't let her upset you. Everything that comes out of a narcissist's mouth is pure sh!te. Hope it helps 🙏🏻🌷
#7 was insidious for me in the marriage (17yrs). "Never give up, never surrender" is for movies and will NOT work with a narcspouse. Because of this whole "i must not be trying hard enough" mentality, i know i never would have left. It took outside factors (eg, the cops & state) to make the defining break, lest a breaking of bones and /or windows occurred. *You. Can't. Fix. It.* Whatever is in them was broken long ago, and they've plastered it all over into obscurity... which happens to be THE SAME PLACE they want to bury You.
Danish - Could you please do a video about covert narc’s ploys they use for narc supply? My Mom is such as covert narc she tells people she is “the victim” of radiowaves (5g cellular is “hunting” her, lol), victim of gravity because earth is flat and gravity is a conspiracy theory, she believes she is the victim of everything. Mom is also so highly narcissistic she is a “sovereign citizen” which means she believes our laws don’t apply to her because of her fake superiority. We are mostly estranged and only text a couple times a year and she always pushes her latest ploys on me but I see right through her delusions so I don’t participate.
wow, that's so unfair. a degree is great, but not necessary. You may miss a lot by not listening to someone recording from their car. don't put those people down, many are doing good work. I've worked with hundreds of doctors and others with a degree, and some are dumber than dirt - - - and evil. Danish is a gem, he is wonderful and his degree helps, but i'll bet you his experience is what we're benefiting from, not his degree.
Can anything be done legally about their theft extortion lies,if it comes out of their mouth I found out it is 100 % lies,I never was involved with them romantically but still used me every way he could as a neighbor,money stole out of my purse it never ends,abuse in every way
I used to accept occasional financial help from a certain narcissist in my life. OH did I ever find out the hard way just how much this eventually gets used against you and gives them a HUGE sense of power and control. Narcs are puppeteers and master manipulators. What better way than with money...especially when they know you're down and out. To be clear: I never ONCE asked this person for a dime. She offered. Big mistake. I'd much rather be broke than be treated like a pathetic charity case by a malignant narc.
Same here.. I used to take some financial help from my working wife.. she earns more than me.. I spent 80 percent of my salary at home. She spent 25 percent of what I used to spend. Not 25 percent of her monthly income.. my God, I had to hear that m a beggar and i married her for her money atleast million times in my life. She just wants to be treated like a princess. No responsibility. No accountability.. only rage abuse insult scream and victim card.. I got exhausted and ran away from her.. irony is I still care for her..
Better to cut your losses and be called a fool than to waste even more of your life and time with them and be the bigger fool! You are so right, Danish. Also, they tend to use the phrases 'frankly', 'honestly', 'to be honest' a LOT....and since it is always opposite day with them, the obvious point is made. They can NEVER be honest. Thank you for sharing your wisdom!!❤
Danish.. I m crying the hell out of me listening to the lines,' who you were, how miserable you have become after staying for such a long time'.... What i have been facing for all these years... I m using all your teachings.. You are my guide dear... God bless you...!
Please keep listening and reading others as well. we don't have the information to fight this, so we need to read and watch videos like this. I hope the best for you, a lot of us are crying, hurting, suffering in many ways. We can get out, but we need to now what we're dealing with first. I wish the best for you, you are being punished for loving too much. STOP IT!!! Love yourself first.
Yes if you stay there is decay. Well said. She would have treated me like shit and my daughter would have seen her papa being treated like that on top of her behaviour influencing my daughter. Now I can be with my daughter half the time and naturally be me and give love understanding to my daughter.
The hardest one for me to avoid was believing all the name-calling. It was relentless and ruthless and nearly drove me to suicd. (I wonder what the stats are for suicd of N. abuse victims?)
You are so wonderful. Everything I have learned from you is so valid from my life. I was married to a narssisst for 23yrs. I have been blessed to be happily divorced 21yrs. Now a daughter was married to one 10yrs. He cheated and they got divorced. He defamed her and got their child. She did not know what she was dealing with. It has been a disaster. He now abuses my grand daughter. Threatens her. And he married another girl and had a baby by her. She is the evil step mother. All I can do is pray. Thank you for your videos.
He is addicted to gambling so he steals from me he is a petiphile too I am feeling better I will say as a neighbor he has done everything everything possible to hurt me I am going to be OK but my good Ness a pure demon
At first I was astonished how far their actions were from their words. I couldn't believe such people exist. Now I remind them every day that they're living in the imaginary world in their head😊 And of course no. 5 - he doesn't know me, he knows someone with my face that's living only in his head
I really like how you explain everything on your videos. What I most like is to hear from yourself about your experience with your parents. I identify myself a lot. Thanks you are helping a lot with your dedication.🙏
