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Jose do you think relationship are based on math and research? No. There are feelings and intimacy involved so instead of incouranging people to run away and win each how about you dedicate this channel to self improvement irrelative to how another gender feels about it.
The one where you find a girl that is attractive as you are that kind of is a bummer because I'm probably not perceived as attractive at least what I think I look I look okay I don't think I'm a woman's preferred look. But most girls have talked to are attractive so that's usually the woman I want so I don't know what to do about that because I wouldn't talk to any girl that is not attractive unless I just want to be friends with her
I don't understand western country philosophy of life partner really you want life partner or just time partner ? yes video is really important lesson in my life thanks for it
Not many people want to be "saved" ... mostly bc religion wore holes into that word long ago. Every situation & woman is going take consideration. I agree with most of this advice EXCEPT #6 (the "if she says 'I love you' too soon..." advice) before you 'throw it in reverse' definitely think about what prompted the statement. Especially if you were out-and-about together when she made the declaration. Sometimes women accidentally say "I love you!" when they are actually trying to tell you (or even their family & GF's) "I love being around you." or "I love how I feel when we are together." If the declaration is a symptom of emotional baggage the words will most likely occur before, during, or after intimacy. Just don't "Throw the baby out with the bathwater," if you're getting mostly positive vibes. 💕
My now wife, never had any previous partners or relationships. I was the same. We now are happily married. Assess your compatibility and ask questions. Discover a person’s motives for everything they do and you will truly know that person.
The first tip is just garbage, dating someone who hasn't dated before is fine. Just don't expect them to understand everything immediately. My dad had never dated anyone started dating my mom, they've been together for almost 19 years now and have had 12 children with one more on the way.
1 is wrong 2 is correct 3 the diffrence shouldnt be too huge 4 wrong i want a women who loves me with her whole heart and not just likes me. I will work harder for happiness 5. Kinda agreed but could be situational 6 correct she dosent actually mean her words 7 100 percent agreed
As an indian this wont work for us. Most indians date women first and for the last time. Some never dates and marries in a arranged marraige. Family and dating culture really different from america.
Number 3 advice is toxic AF tho... Beyond looks alone, lots of people are big on sapiosexuality... Upgrade your mind, max out your own looks and keep making your money, queens will fall flat at your feet... And also, "LOVE" has nothing to do with scientific permutations... Love comes at diffent times depending on the pace of the relationship, how intentional the couple is, their age and a number of factors. Lastly, in your pursuit of stoicism let's not then minimize all beautiful women to mindless Barbie dolls. I like Jose but this video is overall such a mixed bag. I don't expect this to be upvoted in this comment section, but its the truth nonetheless.
The fact the video he shows is non-revelant of you being less-betterlooking than her is the other thing. The girls in videos are 4-5's and gets help which doesn't mean anything
follow everything in this video is going make like just the women we hate due to her testing men and having higher expectations. We will also become like them by testing women and having higher expectations, which women never like just like us men. But some and take this video as advice, knowledge you will become a better person, better man.
A queen will never get flat by only seeing ur money as she is empress and she also knows how to make money. She just checks your compatibility with her.
If she’s a 9 it’s just your turn unless you’re a 9 or a 10. And cause of reality nowadays, I doubt you are even a 7.. I mean you’re watching this video for starters lol. That, or you’re just saying she’s a 9 cause you’re biased and she’s like a 4.
If a Woman doesn't love you as you are her feelings will change as time goes on, but If a woman loves you as you are you'll grow together and That's true love Believe me
Be careful with these delusion calculators. A woman in the US who want a man of the same race, 20-30 years old, who isn’t obese and has not been married, and who makes at least 5k BELOW the average wage, scores a 3 out of 5. I mean that’s just basic standards for marriage that’s not delusional at all so be careful with these things.
The guys were so quick to help the girl who dressed provocatively than the one who dressed up classy, I once helped an old woman who was using a walker I bet these guys wouldn't do that
@@andrewfranke7669 society today out there looking for red flags, that's bullsh!t, the fact that someone has never dated no matter the age doesn't mean he or she should be rejected by everyone because you worried about red flags.
@@andrewfranke7669cap, they can be those girls who are exceptionally loyal and patient enough to wait for the right person for them and is content to being single forever if the right person does not exist, because they are the type of people in general that believe that getting married or getting hitched is one the main priorities for life to be complete These girls can be very supportive healthy to their destined one.
Exactly! And when I told a woman that if I always pay for the dates and buy the gifts without receiving anything in return . I’ll lose interest and leave
1: totally wrong, she simply could be living in a country where dating is taboo and had no experience with getting approached, Or may be she is unsure if she wants to date, maybe she is into arrange marriage. Stop the extremist mindset, at least talk and know the other person before making a crude judgement based on their past without knowing their situation. 2: 100% correct 3: partially incorrect, women make their own number in their head while men's number is given by collective society. It's impossible to play the number's game. Instead look for women's mind, maturity and personality over looks, then test that with the looks and see their reaction. 4: 1000% correct 5: Wrong, She could have no friends due to introvert personality, shy, not outgoing as much. again see how she speaks and behaves with with you and other people instead of looking at number of friends. 6: 100% correct 7: 200% agree
Well number 6 depends on religion some, for example my faith already requires you to love everyone, and it even requires you to love "LOVE" your enemies. The word in the greek being agape (unconditional love). So if both people believe in the same faith. Of course there is going to be a large difference in outcome.
I agree. A lot of what I’ve seen online about people complaining about dating is low quality guys that don’t really try being more high quality, they’d rather stay at that level and have the hot women come to them. They don’t realize that women were way more feminine and attractive in the 50s because men were in turn more masculine.
I think there is also some contrary to the rule of she has to have at least 3 friends, because if she is friends with litterally every person in the city, well then she craves attention and will eventually cheat on you
Disagree 100% with the first rule. She should have zero partners so she has no baggage, bad habits, and mental health issues from the previous guy. Women can’t pair bond if they’ve had previous partners. Her number must be zero if you’re going to take her as a serious partner. Men have known and followed this rule throughout history. It’s been embedded into traditional religion and culture as wisdom of the ages. Ignore it and you’ll be in a world of hurt.
Naah...First Point is Invalid..If she is Beautiful and Virgin and no Date experience She is new to everything and Everything will be exciting for her as well as for me...I'm winning in Life!
1. I disagree with first point because i prefer woman with zero partners i want her to experience everything for the first time with me doing new activities, exploring new places and sharing views from our perspectives etc 2. I agree with point number 2 3. Point number 3 you can date woman better looking than you but make sure you're rich enough so she regrets leaving you and you don't have to get too carried away if she tries to leave let her leave 5. Point number 5 If she doesn't have friends you can say she has hard time keeping friendship around but i partially disagree the thing with her friends is sometimes if they don't like you they work against you but if she is solo lone wolf type she will have her mind of her own if she likes you she won't leave you because you maybe first man in her life introvert girls can fun once you get to know them
I don't agree with your first point. Its not necessary who never dated is crazy or lacks emotion ..sometimes people avoid dating so that they don't invest feelings on someone who would probably not stay.
Everyone can be saved by the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ because he has given his life on the cross he took our burden for us so that we can go to heaven with him that is how much he loves us
I always agree with you but u put a girl standing still and you put another girl struggling to go up the stairs like what, of course somebody will help the girl struggling quicker
I recently broke up for few reasons I would add there: Be aware of how she behaves to others other than just you and know her friends. Consider how your close ones percieve her. (Everyone in my surroundings said that I should go away from her. I know I should not listne to others about my relationships, but when like my entire family and my friends said that she is walking red flag, there must be something true about it.) She destroys your self-esteem and swears on you. Most importantly. Sometimes listen to your brain not just your heart. Its hard reality when your ❤ loves her and your brain hates dont like her .
Also don’t think that because she offers to pay means she’s high quality right away because a lot of girls do this thing where they don’t actually mean it and it’s just to trick you into believing that. There’s a massive difference between her pretending to want to pay vs her genuinely wanting to pay for her half.
There is one thing that is just beyond me: why should you never date someone who was never in a relationship? It's like having a baby and already trying to make it study for high school subjects. Maybe this "emotional baggage" is from people who used that girl etc.?
I do not know about other points, but point 6 is absolutely true(atleast in my case). I experienced this with 2 women of which 1 said I love you on our first sex(I managed to sleep with her after a week I met her) and the other one around 1.5month ig. Both of them are not in my life anymore. 1st one had emotional baggage, 2nd one was unstable and seeking validation for sure. Believe me when I say it, the current women I am with? We never said I love you to each other for like ~8-12months. But we knew we liked each other. She is definitely a keep.
@@inspiringer6418 exactly. It's the same guys who tell that the gals should not have too many dating history, but they also have problem now if she has no dating history at all. God knows what they really want. But everything will not happen just like they want.
@@priyankarmajumder4152 you are litteraly taking serious a western guy 😆 he doesn't know outside of America and Europe other countries have different cultures by your name your Indian we Indian have our own culture and moral value we don't need advise from a firnangi 😂 here most boys and girls are middle class they don't get chance to date and here we boys like girls who never have been in relationship or just 1 just focus on your dream girl don't take this guy seriously ❤
i have been following your teachings for 3-4 yrs , and implemented whatever i could practically , and seriously I can feel the difference like how i was back then and how im now. Like i can read signs and people just by observiing them. And ofcourse just cause of you i have developed mentally . THANKS FOR ALL THAT Jose! Love from Pakistan.
I'm going to decode this shit, and separate the life from the truth. Go date someone who is close to your mental and emotional maturity level. Go get someone who is willing to share burdens and benefits. Go date someone who wants to keep you in their life. (He is distorting the study significantly, it's about how diversity, not male competitiveness) I need something more efficient than this.
so number 6 i am dating this woman and she said "i love you" in the first month of dating but to be fair we have been talking for 2-3 months before dating developing feeling in the 2 month we knew we liked each other but didn't date till a certain time in our relationship is it really such a bad thing
Bruh that axis don’t apply to life in 2024. The 18 year old had 4 partners so how many is acceptable when she around 30? The dam 24 year olds already have 7 partners
This could be a difference of culture. A woman with no dating history carries no baggage. We think highly of women who keep themselves for marriage here (especially in this day and age). It is hard to relate to the points because we operate in different landscapes
I intuitively knew those traits, the dating scaling specially and it looks challenging to see such a small margin with this broken whamen mentality. The times without social media made those things more easy to achieve.
Dang. . . . .. .. I'm literally dating a girl who said she loved me within the first month and literally has never dated anyone else. . .. . . . . . . . . . You got me worried now. . .. what should I do???
lets just say what Jose is saying right but doesn't apply all the time. Your girl might just be a diamond in a pile of rubble. Lets just say uknw, watch like 1000 videos of different opinions and read like a 100 books and read stats and researches cause of all the things in the world, love isn't something you should sleep on or be lazy about. A bad partner can fck up your life
@@shawnhere7020 She is tho. . . . like she dont got no emotional baggage and she's like a pure girl dude like she treats me like a king. Thanks for the advice man It helped a ton
I have mixed emotions about this. If you guys (men) are allowed to have these standards. Why are we rated on a scale from one to five being called "delusional" for also having standards?
"As a man, you should always increase your value as a man, so that you can date a much more beautiful woman" ma boy, all I hear is that I gotta grind to level up
@@ivymary Oh child, you are still living in your bubble. Real life. In REAL LIFE, more value does equal more love. It should be constant, but it ain't. Why? Because of their low value.
