7 Unbelievable Celebrity Deaths 

@Gypsy 2007 All the skeletons in their family closet with zero accountability has made me crazy since moving here 😆. It took my SIL years to escape the manipulation. Unfortunately, we moved BACK to my husband's relatively small town in Southeast Alabama (where his parents live) in 2013, and that's when I started to really become entrenched in the toxic family dynamics (his mom ruled the roost, dad came in second, my husband was the golden "mean" child, and his sister was the "whipping girl"). My husband and his sister are opposites; she is "sugar and spice, and everything nice" (highly agreeable, never good enough, always apologizing, always caretaking, always forgiving those who never ask for forgiveness and thus don't deserve it), while my husband grew up to be "snakes and snails and puppy dog tails" (always picking at the flaws in people's appearance, making fun of individuals with disabilities, racist, aggressive, unpredictable, enjoying creating fear in others by scaring them etc, this included animals, being retaliatory, soaking up the attention he gets from being the asshole and being considered unstable to an extent, and most agregiously: being the one who OWES an apology, but never asks for forgiveness). He is his parents' favorite. Most of those loathsome characteristics have decreased significantly, and I can tell he is actively working on what he calls "getting his head straight," but as far as I'm concerned, he's got a lot of self-inventory to take, and a lot of forgiveness to ask for so others have the chance to forgive him. For example, my SIL used to say he was "mean" to her growing up, but that word has changed to "cruel" over the years; one time their mom was so mad at my SIL that SIL tried to flee the home, and their mother handed my husband his car keys and demanded that he go run over his sister - obviously she is still here, but this story just ends there, with my SIL chuckling softly. My husband's ability to clean up his own mess is going to have to start with holding his own father accountable, too (his mother died in 2018). He also has three daughters in their late 20s and early 30s (he had his first at 17, married her mom and had two more) who have stated unquestionably that he was physically abusive to them when they were young (making them wrestle and with him and with each other until one would start to cry and have to "tap out," making them exercise for punishment, beatings, they were terrified of him). Mind you, everyone in the family acts like NONE OF IT EVER HAPPENED, despite his older daughter just now seeking therapy. I commend you on leaving the situation with your ex. I'm not a doctor, but I have two masters degrees in education and psychology (I know, not a usable degree, I'm just very nerdy), and I ignored aaallllllllllllll of the red flags. I'm ashamed of that because I should have known better. I'm pretty sure I ignored them because I was exempt from the treatment I'd watched him dish out to others. I only put my foot down once I saw those characteristics coming out to our boys. For example: once the playing started to go bad and I intervened, my husband would retaliate by saying "I wouldn't have done (insert action here) if HE hadn't (insert any slight a 4 YO might do: laughing, yelling, hitting too hard, etc). WTF dude? He's FOUR YEARS OLD. It got so bad that my older son would sit bad on the couch in silence, watching the train wreck rather than join in while our little one would kamikaze-style go back for vengeance himself. I wish I'd just followed my instincts and bailed, to be honest. I've been in the family long enough now that Ifeel complicit in ignoring the elephant in the room. But once I totally lost my shit and told him every terrible HONEST thing I thought about his behavior and his parents' behaviors (and I've thought a LOT about them over the years 😆), he said "Wow, I don't even know why you've stayed." He apparently didn't KNOW I knew everything. Once it was out, it was out, and he asked me to give him some time to address all of it. The boys are crazy about him, and he is crazy about them. Perhaps my respect for him will return. I'm not sure; a lot of damage has been done, and while everyone else may forgive him for his past cruelty to them without him asking for forgiveness, I will hold the grudge FOR them until they get a real apology. He and his father seem to believe that you can do and say shitty things, but once you QUIT doing and saying shitty things, everyone should pretend you didn't spend years DOING AND SAYING SHITTY THINGS without you ever having to own up to any of it. I am not a religious woman, but atonement is in order.

Wow Heather, I sure like you. You really sound like a decent and sound woman/mother. Happy 15 years and I hope you have many many more with your husband after he gets his inner workings fixed. You are a good wife and I wish you and the kids also very well. Hubby too of course!!

Hey Zara. Thanks for buying the book. I didn't design the cover myself, but I think it's meant to be brainwaves (from an EEG). This is say there will be another softback version next year - apparently I can have more input into the design .

@@APsychForSoreMinds just showed her (her name is Aaliyah) and she said thank you very much for responding. Shes desperate to read it too, so once I've had a good read I'll decide the right time to share ✌🏻❤🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

Ninjas

Thanks for your support as always, Gail!

If you love historical cringiness, you should see some of the haircuts I used to rock!

@@APsychForSoreMinds 🤣

@@APsychForSoreMinds I would LOVE that!! 😂🤣

It's disgusting what happened to him. He was taking care of their children and assumed that they were safe. He died a hero in my eyes.

@@mercyjokes2d696 They we’re both addicts who were actively using. He had always put her down and ridiculed her. He DARVO’d her and had just threatened to take the children away if SHE didn’t get sober when he himself was still using.

@@kiskakuznetsova503 that's fucked up. I wish neither of them died.

yeah, also imdb (not imbd) at 7:32 . intentinal mistakes to generate comments? probably not, but what a great idea.

I'm talking about the remix

@@APsychForSoreMinds that song is still gold. It doesn't need to be remixed. Lyrically genius! 😜

That was a great episode! South Park wouldn't be as great as it is if they didn't always push their boundaries!

Much love to you too, you're support really helps me!

@@APsychForSoreMinds Always willing to support you, you’re one of my favorite channels and your sense of humor helps lighten up the subject matter even though it’s kinda cheesy 🤣😆 Dr THE OMINOUS SOHOMINOUS

Thanks and welcome

Noted!

indeed!

I am a dad. My teeth are made of gold. I tick all the boxes x

i don't blame you x

If you liked jingle all the way, then I don't think it was ever going to work out between us. I have done a psychopath test on an Anna Delvey from Netflix and also the joker film. Check them out on my channel (and then un-un-sub) x

remix

Thank you so much!

Baby, I can't wait for you to operate

Sausages?

You could take it back way further than that. I used to bump A Tribe Called Quest and De La Soul.

@@APsychForSoreMinds How could I forget about Me, myself and I!

remix

I'm talking about the remix

my dude

@@APsychForSoreMinds nice one

But my Arnie impressions is why you stay?

@@APsychForSoreMinds Yeah, they’re so good they almost don’t need the pic of Arnie that you include. ;-)