Happy Birthday one day late!!! Congrats for getting this far and for looking so great! My "It IS what it is" was back hair, I never even gave a thought to the fact that I am a wookie lol
Hey Ethan, I am a year older than you, and also find it sad to look back (and do not do it often). Congrats on your 7 years. You seem very happy and in a good place.
Hi Benjamin, so you pave the way for us younger ones, huh? lol Thanks buddy, yes I am in a good place. I am so Thankful that I look to improve on a daily basis and realize that I will sometimes fail, but life doesn't end there. We just keep moving forward the best we can. Thank you for letting me know you feel the same way about old vids, pic's, etc. I'm glad I'm not alone there. You have a Blessed Day and Happy New Year!
Thank you for answering my questions, that was really nice of you! I appreciate your honesty and positive attitude. Congratulations for your 7 years journey, it's good to see people who change their lives for the better and accomplish the steps of becoming who they really are. As you said, confidence is a great part of that progress and the voice is also important. I would let my facial hair grow too, but I'm waiting for it to get thicker. I've been 2 years on T and the first year didn't matter much because I was on gel and it didn't bring radical changes, but now I see a difference and I think I will keep changing more in the next years, it just takes time. I didn't have RFF, I had MLD, but the rod is just an implant anyway, so I wanted to get an idea about it. Have you tried placing it upwards vertically (against the abdomen) instead of down or to the right? It might be better for many reasons: skin, circulation, gravitation, comfort. Also for the hair there's Finasteride. I'm not taking it but some guys do to prevent hair loss. I hope you stay healthy and enjoy every minute and every day of your new life.
Hi Chrys, As far as the rod, for me, putting him against my body straight up doesn't work because it won't stay. I don't mind for him to be to the right or straight down, just need some adjustments...I have no circulation issues and again I have no discomfort. My hair was light when it started growing, but I knew it would help with passing. I don't like taking medications, but thank you for the suggestion. My hair will be what it is and that's okay. It's just different. Thanks for your input and I wish you well as you walk your journey, Blessings Always
I have a question for you. When you were with Tony, she knew you were male. But when you were actually transitioning, did she have any moments of “Oh my God”, “I wasn’t really expecting this?” I hope your birthday was a great one. Oh and BTW. Eyebrows. Yours are good. But I never tweezed mine so I’ve got bushes over my eyes. LOL!
Robin Road thank you for the birthday wish. I have had a good day. Toni knew I wasn’t the ‘typical’ female. She always felt the difference. She supported me and has even loved the changes. However, if something was to happen to me she would be with a woman. She loves me unconditionally. I am grateful!
