He told me a beautiful response when I was a young brahmacari , I asked him if I should take grhastra, he asked why? I said Prabhupada maharaja married, many vaishnavis, he then quickly responded they are pure devotees, look at me, ,very happy, then slapped me on the shoulder and laughed, Hare Krishna he said still smilingheslipped into deep thought, Maharaja ki jai.