Agreed!! I'm so tired of this backwards thinking. Cheating, especially after saying vows isn't ups and downs. If someone stays and they keep getting cheated on sorry they deserve it.
Right ups and downs is when one loses a job and need a little help from their wife or husband or if someone gets hurt and need nurtured back to good health smh 🙄 that's ups and downs not no damn cheating... Women like her makes it hard for real women like us who won't TOLERATE the disrespect
@@Amara53 no sweet heart...what I'm saying is all of a sudden every body use in it ..like that word is trending now.. you kno wdf I be talking bout tooo...anyhow u do hv a great night
She I feel like was trying her best way to tell her close one she was being physically and mentally abused. She went extra to take away from the actual truth she was feeling so she didn't look embarrassed
Nope Because when they were in a therapy session and he was being disrespectful by while Karlie was crying that’s when I knew she was probably getting her tail beat up
I got a aunt like that she knows everybody ish and phone numbers if i need to contact whom ever u go to her for the number but my aunt a liar karlie ant lying on people lol
Because she was 15 he was 30-35 she’s been with him basically her whole life her mother let it happen she also is the reason why rasheeda is that way over him . He basically was supposed to adopt her to be with her so it don’t look like something else . She’s basically brainwashed And i don’t think she know it
@@sylvirfoxx5800 that was a "test" that was never shown or proven to be true. Mimi herself said that Pooh and Karlie got down together. That's y she's never really said anything
Karlie needs to be hired by a CIA or something, cuz she got connections everywhere on the streets it seems and can get any kind of information with receipts as quick as just a snap. lol
@@hlelatuluma1494 I understand that. But he treats her like trash. How can you constantly hurt someone who you love and adore, who you made a vow before God to honor?? Different strokes for different folks.
@AJ Martinez I said she deserves the best because even through the hurt, the pain, the shame and humiliation she stood for what she believed was right and fought for her marriage. We are all not the same, I personally wouldn't have stayed but she loved her husband and honored her vows and stuck with it. We may not like it but it is what it is. Women like her is far and few in between, we dont know what it's like in her life, only what she showed us.
@@vivelavidalivelife3617 same for us taurus, but we dont say anything until it is too late because we care that much haha but we will give you a heads up about things if we like you.
@@vivelavidalivelife3617 hahaha i know a lot, but i keep my mouth shut until it is the wrong time to say something hahaha im always late. the aquarius always know and not afraid to say it. they mean to do good, but others see it as messy. but when us taurus speak...it is all bad hahaha
natalie brady yup i agree, I’d rather you hear it from me and be mad for a little while than to not say anything and be called fake. I’m never fake, and I’ll never give anyone the ammunition to say otherwise lol
She may be messy but she gets to the bottom of everything including her own mess I rather my friend tell me the truth or what she knows instead of me being in the dark 🤷🏽♀️
KARLIE DIDNT DO ANYTHING WRONG IN THE JOSELINE PERFORMANCE SITUATION ... JOSELINE'S ANGER WAS MISDIRECTED. JOSELINE WAS HURT BY STEVIE BUT STEVIE WASNT THERE AND KARLIE WAS SO SHE GOT THE BRUNT OF IT
Shes the kind of friend you have to keep an eye on. She could be a friend to look out for you but I think she likes to be in people's business because it's an enjoyment to see other people hurting
Agree! She didn’t need to do that being on these shows seems to make the Most Gorgeous Women feel so insecure 😟 it’s so sad cause those lips don’t look good on her it’s taking away from her pretty features we all look straight at 👄
She is that friend that is loyal but doesn’t want you to do better than her EVER IN LIFE she finds pleasure in giving her friends disappointing news because misery loves company.
BGC Fights there is a way to deliver news to people you love I agree with you partly about the whole if she don’t say something she’s fake and if she do they still get hurt but look at it in this way. If someone close to you die and your friend come deliver the news to you with a smirk knowing your gonna be destort that isn’t really a friend that is a demon in a friend costume. We can use the scarp baby mom situation, she was never planning on being friends with her karlie used manipulatively tactics( as she does when she meets people, her whole amo is to gather enough ,and more information on said person with her soul purpose to infact hurt them. she recorded and kept conversation about scraps family life for a one up and she used it because that was her intention from the beginning because she is a pick me type woman and will do anything for a mans validation she showed scraps baby mom her real face in the end when she was called out for reporting on scrap but leaving out her was chopping out her crutches.. She has nasty character flaws she not only is she broken she believes everyone deserves the same. if you listen to her closely she often eludes to this, even when the scene where she dragged her friends to a cemetery to imply she is burying a child or a close friend to butter up and distract her friends from the tea she was going to spill on herself she got married and didn’t constult her friends that could have saved her from this mans antics because she was busy trying to outdo her friends and there love Life and soon as mimi called out the behaviour she said “ IM NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO STUCK AROUND IN A BROKEN MARRIAGE” that wasn’t for just sympathy from the girls it’s was to deflect from the question why are we in a cemetery! btw she said “I’m not the only “ because she made sure of that which what we have seen in every season Her breaking her necks to make her friends be miserable fall off and break up with they parents an no matter how hot the tea they don’t leave they man which frustration for a women like karli that try’s so hard to steal ( people man) kill( people’s mood) and destroy ( her friends peace and energy) If you haven’t noticed when tea gets spilled about her and she can’t control the narrative she causes chaos to deflect example her introducing Akbar and keisha to eachother at spices event knowing all it took was to make them feel uncomfortable so they could ruin spices event because she infact felt jealous. but did not want to show her ass because she can’t fight and spice would knock out her bludclart if she clocked what karlie was cooking up and then when shit went left she tried to make it about her “ if spice fighting I’m fighting” when security already dealt with the situation. Let’s be honest she has issues with control which is disguised as loyalty she is a village laywer and top notch news carrier I give her that but this trait is what makes her struggle in her relationships a hand full of these men said she was a wonderful woman away from jealousy controlling and feeling the need to compete how many times has she be left alone because she choose gossip over romance? Lyfe and Sean both cared and wanted her but they know gossip means no peace for a man or anyone matter of fact at home.
I’m mad Rasheeda started giving marriage advice after Karlie passed around the pic of the prostitute in bed 🤦🏽♀️ like sis you the last person anyone should listen to
Actually she’s the first person you listen to. You listen to a woman who has experience. Y’all be wilding thinking that someone like Rasheeda can’t help you? Don’t you see that even your FAVS get cheated on? Beyonce? Worlds fav singer has constantly been cheated on and is still married. Y’all steady tryna run rasheeda down because she accepts her marriage as is. WAKE UP. Marriage and “relationship” are different.
Tajanah Turnage I get where you’re coming from, but experience doesn’t equate to valuable advice. Just because you’re doing something the longest doesn’t mean you’re doing it correctly. If she’s comfortable with her experiences with Kirk, then good for her. However, being continuously disrespected is not a bylaw of marriage
My issue with Karlie is that she acts like she’s so hurt to tell the person what she found out, but in reality she lives for the drama. And a lot of the time she tells them when there are other people around🤷🏾♀️
They have “an arrangement” about how to handle gossip if it pops off. She was mad that karlie was juiced to tell the truth. And dumbass Stevie told on himself when he 360’d back to Jocelyn when she threw her drink. She been drained his eggs, so he was submissive to her. He definitely didn’t love mimi, he used her.
Rasheeda- "when youre in a marriage you go through things its just what youre willing to take and at what level" Also Rasheeda- *tolerates every level possible
I just feel like Karlie just doesn't like everyone hanging around each other being fake knowing damn well everyone talks about each other badly behind closed doors
Karlie was in all her "friends" marriages and relationships but then turned around and kept her marriage from her "friends." Uh huh...okay Karlie, She made sure to control the narrative so only the stuff she wanted to come out would come out. Actually, that's a genius move lol...but still, I think Karlie didn't want a dose of her own medicine.
Wait did Mo stress her out so much and had her so scared that she actually VOMITED in that flashback?! Holy shit, that man must have had some EVIL in his soul, WOW. That's frightening 😨
Didn’t she have a miscarriage around this time? She was probably pregnant I don’t think he beat her..I think it was for a story line cause if u watched that episode that counseling scene shit was mad off 🤷🏽♀️
@@tahsiyntibbs373 exactly, the way i see it is that i wouldn't have even been mad at karlie because 9/10 they did it for the show or he came onto her. it's all for tv
@ 11:20 Rasheeda reassuring Karlie to stay and that cheating is part of going through up and downs through marriage 🙄 girll noooo only u do that ! That’s not part of going through ups and downs
The only thing going up n down is every thot in a hundred miles of ur husband. It’s not just the cheating for me is that he messes up so totally and then turns around and rasheeda will take a meeting without him or use money that’s in there business account and he acts like it’s just as bad and makes her feel so inferior for it. That’s called abuse and no I don’t have to hit a person to abuse them. It usually starts with small stuff like controlling what u wear and where u go and never being allowed to do anything without them then it escalates. Kirk got Rasheeda trained to submit so young poor woman really doesn’t know any better. I feel for her bc I was in a situation like that for years with my sperm donor of my daughter and it’s taking twice as long to recover and find myself again.
It's good to have a friend like Karlie Redd, if she sees something going on with your man and you ain't around and she tells you about it that's a real friend 💯 God bless all of my LAHH PEOPLE WHILE THEIR ON HIATUS BECAUSE OF THIS QUARANTINE. THE SHOW MUST GO ON OR I WILL BE VERY UNHAPPY ☹️
Tierra is really trifflin for using her child against his father, Scrapp couldn't see his son at times because he had a new woman in his life. That's corny af frfr.
Reason why I can’t agree with Karlie being a so-called real friend because, yes she does tell her friends the truth which is a good thing, but when you’re friends with people that obviously do not like each other you should have some sense of respect for both parties to just be like I’m a stay out of your business because y’all both my friend. But Karlie is always getting information on both side and let them all know, so yes she is honest but where is the loyalty.
I think that Karlie was a real friend to certain people but was only friends for the tea with others. I just hate that she did Tokyo dirty like that and she knew damn well what she was doing when she twisted what Tokyo said.
I dont give a damn how old she is. She looks good! Everything she has ever came back and said was TRUE!!! But some people don't want to hear it🤷🏾♀️ even if she came to everyone one on one she was still getting blamed so all that talk about one on one is an excuse to make her out to be messy.
You know it does say something about Karlie's character that everyone felt comfortable to tell her all day business and show all they business around her.
I am like that and no one in my hometown would try me because of my ability to know and find shit out because once that mouth opens, GAME OVER! And I destroyed some reputations in my wake ! 🤣
I *can handle* karlies "tea", truth, realness. But it's not *what* you say, it's *how* you say it. She got to come CORRECT and not with that messy ass mindset. *I wouldn't have her as a friend though. Ever.*