@@jamesmedina6015 Oxymoron isn't it? Dating sites where there are no dates. - Of course unless your a women and then your flooded with indigestible amount of men most of which are divorced men in their late 40's and 50's.
I'll pray for you dear 🙏 give everything up to God, even your fears!! If he's meant to find someone only God knows. All I can say is just pray for a happy life for him 🙏♥️ God will do the rest 💪❤
Many prayers to you Mary and may God hear your prayers and bless you and your family. Amen, give everything to God. Pray and let Him do the rest. I've yet to be married and strongly desire marriage and children! The dating scene is challenging right now for all, especially Catholic men and women of all ages. There needs to be a return to intentional dating towards marriage. There are a lot of amazing, single Catholic men and women. God has a plan for each of us! And for those of us who desire marriage and family, we must do our best to live in faithfulness and in pursuing Holiness until God reveals our path and spouse. God bless!❤🙏😇
She spent like ten seconds covering the complaints of men, to no fanfare, and dismissed them as "their opinions", then proceeded to list like 12 complaints of women to great fanfare. This problem isn't getting solved anytime soon.
On my personal experience. I have my act together professionally, own an appartment and have a good level of education. I got at least the basics to start a family resourcess wise. I try to be always well dressed, work out frequently, keep a good and active spiritual life. I intentionally hold myself to a standard of excellence in every aspect. For the past few years I have focused on finding a Catholic lady to see if we can get together with the intention of eventually starting a family. I have only gotten rejections. One particular lady was even cruel and offensive. Some seem to preffer men who are lacking in many areas and many times people whom have very different concepts on spiritual matters. This is a shared experience we have discussed with other men in our parish so I know it is not just my own bias talking. I seem to be appreciated more by women from other ways of life but usually we do not match in matters of faith which to me are of premium importance. There could be many things I may be doing wrong that I may not be aware of but I cannot yet understand the constant rejection I get from Catholic ladies. It bugs me. It looks to me they not even take the time to appreciate the good men around them in church. The grass looks greener on the other side until it doesn't. After they go and get hurt with men from other ways of life, some of those ladies expect men at church to be always ready to provide them with relationships. I have seen this unfold firsthand. When it does not work then the pointing of fingers begins. As for myself, I am getting tired of this dynamic and my interest on dating and marriage is declining. Being intentional about it has not provided any results over many years. So it makes no sense to continue beating the dead horse. I need to start pondering that it may just not happen. And that hurts, but it is ok.
Pride is usually attributed to men, but I would argue that women have a bigger problem with it. Eve wanted to be like God, after all. A lot of currently proud women are going to suffer majorly here starting in about a decade. They will have earned it.
The challenge in this day and age is to find a woman who loves you for who you are, and not a woman who only loves your money, your status and what you can do for her. It is better to be alone than married to the latter kind of modern women. A relationship needs to be built on a solid foundation of mutual humility, reciprocity and gratitude; never entitlement. I am fortunate to have found a woman who loves me for who I am, as opposed to my money, so they do indeed exist. My advice is to be patient when dating (even if that takes years), learn to vet women very carefully before letting them into your life, and never settle for a woman who would treat you unkindly or like a human ATM. Also, avoid any woman who employs manipulation tactics or shaming language to get what she wants, which I find to be common with many Catholic women. Everyone is worthy of being loved, including you.
@@chrisl1414 The challenge of this day and age is to find one of the few men who love their wives for who she is.... and not just for her youth and beauty and status. To find one of the few men who are sober, responsible and faithful. Avoid any man who employs manipulation techniques, shaming, misogyny or who drinks too much or watch pornography or gambles too much on sports. which are common dysfunctional behaviors of Catholic and Protestant men.
@@francikeen It should have been obvious by my use of the words "reciprocity and gratitude" that respect and moral conduct goes both ways. That being said, the biggest red flag in a woman is the classic "shame, guilt and the need to be right". And an important part of vetting women is avoiding those who have the need to always be right, and who believe men and our inadequacies are solely to blame for all the problems in the world and in dating; because we will be never good enough to satisfy such a woman. Surely you believe that both men and women must take responsibility for their sins and bad behavior, or is it only men who must do better?
@@marie5571 yes for some women it does take a while and for some it never goes away and some you could never tell they had a baby because they come home just as skinny, and some the same size before pregnancy
July 26 July 26 The Light of Sirius is about to shine upon the Green Emerald of Isis located on the forehead of the Heir of the Holy Grail.😄😁Goodbye to the Tares and Children of Darkness.😛
