8 Types of People To Completely Avoid 

Does this video remind you of someone you know?

Summary of the video: 1. People who invalidate you 2. One-uppers 3. Self-centered people 4. Judgmental people 5. Self-destructive people 6. Fake people 7. Manipulators 8. People who love drama I hope this helps ; w ;

the title: “8 people to avoid” the thumbnail: “you” me: 👁💧👄💧👁

i watched this for 3 reasons: - i was curious to read the full title - to see if there's actually people like this around me - *to see if i am actually one of those kind of people*

i avoid people all together, so i’m okay

I don't have to avoid people since to them I don't even exist _gone with the wind_

wow, is it just me or is the sound design WAAAAAY above the normal standards of Psych2go? doing amazing work out there as always :D

I’m really afraid of being toxic to others.

Me: *cries* Mom: don't cry, boys don't cry. Me: *attempts to not cry* Me: *is now depressed*

"Self centered people" "People who like Drama" "Fake people" Me looking at that one person in my friend group: *I see you*

My sister is married to a guy that constantly talks about himself and tries to one up every single person he encounters. He keeps leaving every jobs he has on the basis that "His boss is an idiot" and lives off employment insurance more than half the time. Most annoying guy I know and I try to avoid him as much as possible. I feel for my sister who has to live with him.

"Have you ever met any one those people" 5:00 Me: Everyone, meet my family

Toxic and narcissistic people are the people who I avoided like COVID 19

Guys: Please avoid people that hurt you. You don't have to be their friend. They don't deserve you. Say 'em goodbye.

"self-destructive people" see? i'm doing y'all a favor by not socializing!

Psych2go: 5. Self-destructive people. Me: *destroyed in seconds*

Behaviour I can't stand being around with: 1. Constantly saying 'destructive' criticisms about a person or a friend. 2. Jealousy. It's draining. T-T

So.... basically everyone at my high school 😑

can't really avoid when you work with them, just take distance.

You are just saying everyone I know is toxic right now.

The Title: *"Types of People you need to Avoid"* Anxiety: it's talking about you Me: Definitely not "The Thumbnail" Anxiety: Definitely yes Me: *Internal sadness*

#6 is very typical of introverts. we open up to people we know, but when a stranger shows up, we get more withdrawn. so do not judge too quickly.

Last one was most frightening amongst all the 8.....this is the major cause I had introverted myself from an extrovert...& I now love being in my own company

After finding confirmation that the people I dislike aren’t so awesome I continued to watch to make sure I’ll avoid being bad to others. I know seeking out confirmation of other people’s badness isn’t great but it helps me understand I don’t need to worry about them because they’re wrong. I find seeking to improve life (of anyone as well as me) a good guide to doing the right things.

This whole video in two words : "Avoid everyone"

1. People who invalidate you 2. One-uppers 3. Self-centered people 4. Judgemental people 5. Self-destructive people 6. Fake people 7. Manipulators 8. People who love drama

I definitely had that one friend who was very self destructive. I had 2 actually. It was extremely exhausting to have to keep coming to their rescue, and they always ignore any advice I give them. They both ended up leaving, which, to be honest, has been a relief even if it was painful that they just kinda left despite everything I did for them.

Damn #3 called me out! I can admit that I'm self-centered, I do talk about myself a lot and often don't realize it. However, I think being self-centered is different from being selfish though. Self-centeredness is defined as "being preoccupied with one's own affairs" while being selfish is "lacking consideration of others for one's own pleasure or gain." I can understand what they mean in the context of the video. I think what they're trying to say is avoid people who are selfish. Sometimes people that are self-centered can empathize more because they can put themselves in that situation and see how other people feel since they know how it would feel if they were in that situation. There's a fine line between selfishness and self-centeredness, which I've tried to figure out for myself for years so I don't act like a selfish person and hurt other people.

Me: please don't be me, please don't be me, please don't be me. Number 5: Avoid self-destructive people Me: Shi-

Try to imagine all these 8 types of people being friends with each other It's really hard to imagine that

I never avoid them, I just treat them the same way they treat me and sometimes I just tell them the blunt truth. I changed many people with toxic personalities. Not standing up to them is in fact what you should not do, fleeing is always temporary as soon enough you shall be meeting again somebody else with issues. Will you be fleeing all your life and end up just closing yourself in an isolated box. Face your demons and rule your world!

Not criticizing.. but who on earth is not an example of these types isolatedly? Or the vague sum up of these traits or a whole combination of all of these ..bcoz I've never met any saint in my whole life

*Me forgeting why i cut of my "bestfriend"* Me watching this video: **checking of everything on this list** oh so thats why....

“You can practice social distancing on social media too. Stay away from people who are infected with negativity, a lack of kindness, an unwillingness to seek truth etc.” --James Clear

I think its important to mention that some of those listed types/behaviors can also be easily misinterpreted tho and that it's almost always a good idea trying to speak up and talk about those things first. Otherwise you yourself count into the "judgmental" toxic category. for example: Someone who seems self-centered at first glance could very possible be just be a person who is depressed introvert who hasn't been able to talk/open up to anyone for quite some time - enjoying to seemingly having found a trustworthy person they feel comfortable enough around to finally let out all those pent-up thoughts and feelings which very likely evolve around the own self at first. Or someone who seems self-destructive is maybe just not able to break out of certain unhealthy patterns on their own and needs some extra help by professionals while you as true friend can help by simply letting them know that you will have their back - instead of trying to fix them and their lives for them. Not everything is always what it seems.

“People who like drama” Me: *questioning my best friend*

Video in a nutshell: avoid everyone. get a dog.

"Judgemental people" This is why i generally hate people n the society.

Hey I have that achievement! “Decreased Sense of Value” I’ve actually had it for quite some time.

Thank you. I had a friend who displayed most of those behaviors and finally had to have a clean break from the friendship Your videos are really helping me to see things much more clearly.

I think I'm the self-centered one , I might need to change myself a bit Edit : I did some research, I thought that I'm self-centered because I talk to myself all the time and the only person in the world who I truly understand and know so much about is myself since that I don't have friends. I don't identify with most of the self-centered stuff and I can't imagine myself like that , even tho I'm not sure if that means that I'm self-centered or not I'm very confused.

Yeah, avoid internet trolls.

me: Oh hey I'm none of those types of... psych2go: "#5: Self-destructive people." me: Oh

this has really helped me change rather than helping me know who to avoid.. i've recently become quite a toxic person and this helped me realize what my actions can do,, i'll try to never act like any of these people

Nah, I just ignore the people that gives me bad vibes.

*To the unique person that’s reading this:* *You’re a very intelligent and adorable human! Stay healthy during quarantine*

Amanda Silvera has the most soothing, pleasant voice out of all the voice overs 🌼

i’m glad they started including credits at the end of the video. (maybe they have been before but i never noticed so i guess it wasn’t as apparent?) everyone works so great and does a great job with these. love to see your work

"Your emotions are valid and important." For everyone else? Absolutely. Me... Well... No.

Me checking to see if I am that person: 👁👄👁

you don't tell me what to do! I want to suffer with insecure people whenever I want to. Insecure people like me need to be with insecure people so we can insecure together.

Alright So, I am a furry. I remember telling my friend then she glared at me like something was wrong and just said, “ew.” I tried explaining the fandom to her but she won’t listen, that day I just- broke. While i was trying to feel better, she told other people in our school then i started getting pain physically, and mentally. I felt attacked because of something I like and I just didn’t know why.. I was so kind to everyone and sometimes i’d do their homework so they could “take a break” a week later, 75% of my class was talking about me, so i decided to tell a teacher- it was the least i could do. And you guessed it, they did NOTHING but say “you’re in 9th grade you can handle it, it’s okay.” and I’m like: “bi-“ But, moving on. I had thoughts of suicide and tried moving them aside because i thought about my family and how much they cared about me. I told them i am a furry, and they started supporting me and motivating me, i also told them what happened at school so, we moved to another and i got a therapist I’m a healthy and happy person now, the end! (still a furry uwu)

"Self centered people" *the fact one of my best friends in the friend group I'm in she always talk about herself on discord even in voice chats e v e n when someone is venting in their own channel like sis stop please-*

And all types are present in my own family!

I’d also like to add that you should avoid people who don’t know the meaning of “no” or “stop”. My old friend was like this and I just got increasingly frustrated and uncomfortable since he would always try to hug me or bop me on the head

Things start getting weird now. Like, you were emotionally burnt out after breaking up with your loved one. You needed help from other people. However, people tended to avoid you because you had negative emotions that drained their energy. Then you realized nobody could help you but yourself. You started to focus on yourself more and unintentionally became self-centered people. Therefore, people continued avoiding you. Then you realized no one can have a long-lasting relationship with you and decided to stay alone. One day, someone secretly fell in love with you but you didn't accept their love. So they were emotionally burnt out. The cycle begins again.

Psych2Go: Eight - People who love drama Me: oh no- ( *talking* *about* *my* *'friends'* )

I thought of my mum.. Always stopping me from doing my fav things like painting and baking, stopping me from making my own decisions like if i want to buy a cream which has good reviews and i can afford it she will still stop me

Just got away from a manipulator and they were so good at it. Even gaslighting me to think I was insecure or imagining things. "You see what you think is a pattern, then self destruct". They used Anger, Love, and Sadness to try to keep me under their thumb. Now I just need to be strong and not give them any more chances. That toxicity isn't going to improve.

So glad to have gotten away from someone who was toxic like some of these ways mentioned. Hardest decision to leave, but the biggest sense of relief I could have imagined. If you're stuck in a household with someone non-related who is like this, take the plunge and GET OUT OF THERE. You will finally feel relieved, and you will thank yourself!

I've hit the jackpot: My mum is an amalgamation of all of these signs. What a great revelation 😅👌🏼

i’m starting at my new college in two weeks and i hope to make really good friendships there. i have a habit of making friends with toxic people, so now i know how to avoid them! thank you, this has helped so much :)

I also have friend who is self destructive.. She only complains about everything and always pessimistic nature.. She has no ambition, hobbies or interest on anything.. And i give her suggestions, reccomrndation but she never do what i said her to do...If i says anything which she doesn't like or if i don't listen to her then she plays victim card..And She complains about her life, her friends, her crush who friendzoned her. And actually i was always like sponge who can takes negative things and radiates positivity...i convinced her so many times gave her best advices, helped her, talked to her almost for hours to motivate,inspired her but nope she again complains about everything..But after hearing her same sad, depressing stories i started feeling sad and exhausted now.. I was never like that before.. Then i told her that i started feeling sad,because of her and she is disturbing me.. And she said she was hurt that i said that.. I mean what i meant to do? Yeah i did everything to fix her but it didn't worked..And i decided to talk less, ignore her & completely focus on myself..Now she thinks that i showed my true colors, i changed... She forgot that i also have life.. I also got feelings.. I also gets hurt.. I am human.. Trying to make everyone happy, trying to fix everyone's life, being nice helpful, i left myself far behind.. Now i need to move on from negative people & start working on my own life..

After i watch this, i have reassured myself that i'm doing the right decision. Most people in my circles and environment have these traits. I only talk to people with no to less traits like that, and this is so peaceful and meaningful.

**Looks into mirror** **Throws out mirror** Begone

This art style looks so alive! Love it :o

Wow, Sam did an awesome job animating and drawing this! I love the style, would love to see them do more work!

I’m always afraid that these people are also going through something and me cutting ties with them or avoiding them would just make things worse for them.

*People who like drama* : I was having a good time, and I honestly feel so attacked right now :(

I personally do like to listen to drama but not to get involved in it. Getting involved just makes it worse. But I do have a habit of talking about myself sometimes so I'll definitely make sure to listen to myself when I talk and make sure that everyone is able to talk in the conversation. These videos are always super cool to listen to! Thank you for letting me know about my own strengths and weakness!

Funny thing I've noticed... a lot of people that I've personally met whom I've chosen to stay away from, have most of these characteristics (not just one). Good stuff, I dig the animations too! :)

I needed to listen to this. I have a toxic person whom I’m healing from and I need to get rid of fully. I found of she physically harms others and I ended up fearing my own death at work. The conviction in my mind and body is true and I need to trust it.

I have this friend who always wants me to do everything for her, one time, she wants to join my school-club, and I said "Oh sure, you wanna join? Ask the teacher because I don't know anything about it" And she said "I can't...can you do that for me?" I already said no, but she was so "lazy" to do it all, she said "This is the last one" because I always do everything for her...I asked the teacher, and he said "Oh, She can join, just make sure she doesn't be late for class." So I told my friends about the information, since I didn't give her contact number to my teacher because It's her privacy (We use WhatsApp) so I just told her to give it to the teacher herself, and She said "But I can't...Can you do this for me? Oh come ooonnn, just this one timeeee." I've had enough of her and said "You must go there by yourself, I'm not always gonna be there for you." And the most annoying thing she said to me that day was "Actually...I'm too lazy." She said that so casually! I already told the teacher, there's no going back, moreover, that teacher is scary! If she doesn't go to the class, I'd be the one who is going to be shout at. She said "What should I dooooo?" And I told her what to say, She just had to copy & paste it, "But I caaaann't, I'm too lazy! Can you do this for me?" I was so mad! "ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS COPY & PASTE IT! I'VE ALREADY DONE THE THINGS FOR YOU!" And luckily, she told the teacher and joined my school-club. I know I should confront her, or just be friends with other people...but the thing is, she's my bff's bff. What should I do?! I can't just leave her alone with my BFF! And sorry for my bad English

Summary of the video for the people who don't have time to watch: 1: People who invalidate you✌🏻 2:one-uppers✌🏻 3:self-centered people ✌🏻 4:judgmental people ✌🏻 5:self-destructive people ✌🏻 6:fake people 😏 7:manipulators ✌🏻 8:people who love drama✌🏻 if this was helpful please make sure to follow me❤

A true friend or two would be enough, since sometimes, you need outlet of your problems as well: someone who will listen to you, not to judge you, someone who's willing to involve themselves when you have problems, someone who supports your goals and encourages you, someone that makes you feel warmth when they're around, and someone who you can count on. I'm glad that I've experienced having one, but he passed away at his young age. I really am hoping I will find another one that I could give my trust, with them taking care of it atleast. 🙂

My ex-boyfriend was self descructive. He was extremely insecure, tried to please *everyone*, and couldnt contain his emotions - or anger. He lashed out a lot when he lost his temper, and couldnt just "let it go". For two years i needed to be someone else for him (we weren't compatible at all), and for two years we dragged ourselves down. I still have scars, and maybe he does too, but we finally broke up a few months ago. Its refreshing to be free from someone who made you feel bad, like a gust of wind after you've been trapped in a cave. Now that i found someone new, i struggle to show affection or be present for them. I just cant seem to let myself love again.

I love how Psych2Go explains psychology in a fun and simple way they helped me understand psychology in a better way and I showed this to my mom and she passed her mid-terms for her degree 📜 thank you your channel is amazing

You should avoid people who say first on RU-vid comments

My workplace feels like I'm in high school all over again. People on breaks just talk shit about others, and the managers treat us like kids. It's a small town I moved to and everyone seems to be family related or close friends from high school or elementary school, and don't invite anyone in from elsewhere

I've been trapped with all these vile types of people... But not anymore... The last 2 years I've been around much nicer people and I AM completely grateful

Myself, its always a time to improve some of this things in my destructive personality

“Some people are like trees, they take forever to grow up.” ― Nitya Prakash

Throughout my life I’ve encounter all of these types in one way or another. I stay away from them if possible, focus on my own like and the people who truly cared about me and I them, I don’t take crap and lastly, I refuse to be disrespected and bullied etc. so I walk away and I’m done with you, no more chances. My life has become more peaceful, happier and I focus on what and who matters.

Ahhh it hurts so much when the person you think about when they talk about toxic people, is the most important person in your life. It hurts even more when that person used to not be that way towards you. Well guess I needed this.

Title: 8 types of people to avoid Thumbnail: You? Me: What did I do?

I used to have judgemental friends and that kinda destroyed my self steam, thank god i separated from them last year. They would criticize my body, hair,.. Everything about me even in front of me 🙄 and they are very fake, that makes me so angry idk why...

Video Title: 8 Types of People To Completely Avoid Thumbnail: You Me: I know...I hate me too.

I met those types of people since birth I guess. I`ve been surrounded by them for almost my whole life. Most of them are my relatives and neighbors. Even teachers and classmates and friends that I thought were good. I develop a panic attack and even think about harm myself. Fortunately, I managed to scaped and disconnect myself from them. It`s the best decision I made in my life. I can say now that finally that I`m free. Because it felt like I was controlled by them.

Eight : people who love drama. Me, who loves k-drama : 👁️👄👁️

I feel like psych2go is just telling me to avoid myself when she said "people who love drama"

Overall I feel like the message of this video might not necessarily be ,,Avoid these people at all costs if they have one of the traits listed in this video" But rather that if these kinds of people are toxic for you, so that you feel worse about yourself after talking to them or spending time with them, that you should avoid them or cut ties with people that hurt you. Every single one of these traits that were mentioned in the video can be within a person that you like and they might not realize that, so I hope the you might have the chance to talk it out and work on it! :D You shouldn't cut contact immeadietly if they act like that because everyone can behave badly at one point. Just be aware of the signs and if these people do weigh you down and hurt you more than support and help you. Cutting ties isn't a bad thing :D Besides fake people, drama people and manipulators...They should be avoided because most definetly they are toxic one way or the other and often never change because their behaviour is deeply rooted in their lifes. I wanted to write this comment as a reminder for myself But at the same time I hope maybe one of you might get something out of it as well :D ❤️ stay safe and have a great day Psych2goers!

Just left a friendship with someone who did all these things. It was hard but I'm happier and healthier now. ❤️

Animation + Content quality + Soothing voice + Simplified complex psychology + Timing = Admirable work. Really helpful.. Much love ❤😄

Keep up the good work. I've learned so much from you guys

Thank you for that video! I actually started to sort out some of my "friends", where I realised that they were toxic for me or didn't treat me the right way. Now after a while I feel mich better after that. 😃 I am more secure around my real friends and have less drama which is quite nice actually. 😄 I wish everyone who reads this a nice day and keep on going, even if it's hard sometimes with those kind of people. You will find a way! 😊

self-destructive feels like an attack

It reminds me about the people I was with.

I hope this isn’t overused by- Psych2Go really do upload such videos whenever I desperately need them! So thank you for that:D

I had elements of being self centered and fake during the last half a year, because I had lost myself. The reason I did was because I ran away from my pain from an extremely painful break up instead of embracing it. I thought I was supposed to go away after I break up with someone, this was taught to me by my exes who might have been toxic. This led to me losing myself and being unable to be happy and unable to love others anymore and feel really strongly about anything. I ended up breaking someone's heart and losing friends because of this. yet my friends call me really nice and amazing. I didn't mean to hurt others the way I did, I didn't know I was doing so. I was lost. So, everyone who are like the people on this list are not neccessarily evil. They might just be lost like I was. You have to tell them the truth about themselves and only after that if they do nothing, avoid them. Don't leave people just because they are lost. Please. Thank you for reading.

I've met all of these through out my life. It easier and easier to let them go. It does indeed hurt your health.