80 Xyoo Tseem Yug Child Support. 7/9/24 

When you're old and the sun is setting, stop going overseas to marry these 20 years old. Freedom of choices doesn't = freedom of consequences. I don't pity these old folks at all.

Suj sum nyiam qhuav ntxim txoj me kev nej saib tsis taus peb cov pog laus. Txoj me kev uas nej ntshaw niam mos Ab hahaha

Ua cas pheej laus ruam tsi laus ntse li. Leegtwg kom koj muaj menyuam thaum laus nas. Ruam tiag li os thaub laus aw.

Yay!!! 🎉 Another one has graduated! Thanks for sharing your story.

Hmong men acting like this is something news😅😅. It's been going forever. That's the price you paid for wanting niam mos ab 😂😂😂😂😂

Hmong meeka laus yeej g sawm li os.

Our Hmong OGs will never learn.

This is what u get for wanting a young thing old man. You should have married someone your age. I don't feel sorry for you at all. You knew what was gonna happen and you did it anyway. Way to go old man.

These OG are the worst.. they will keep a young bride captive, no school, work, no cell phone because they are so insecure. They will treat their young wives really bad too.. it’s your fault for marrying someone that could be your daughter old man..

Ntuj aw, yawm txiv … cas nrhab nyob nrhab es pheej yuav mus yuav nrhab los lo yus taub hau na. I don’t pity you grandpa. You did this to yourself so live with it!!!

Yawm txiv aw... rov qab mus tos dua ib tug tshiab tim nplog tuaj los maj...

Omg, boring story... old man, oversea wife... same ending

Tsim nyog tshaj plaws! Nej cov txiv neej hmoob xyeej2 nkauj nrab hmoob meskas tab sis nkauj hmoob nplog siab phem ua nej ti ntsa nkaus. Poj niam hmoob meskas tsis tau tsim nej txaus thiab nej tshuav poj hmoob nplog nqi. Nyias txaus nyias siab.

Txhob tu siab os mog vim yus laus laus los yus xav xav tau tus hluas hluas ces kawg zoo li no xwb tiag

Dang! Hmong O.G. will never learn for sure…😩!

Pom ib co txiv liam tsis muaj zoo koob hmoov li thaub no tub ki tsis xyom yog tuag nas.

OMG your smoke alarm is still beeping?! How do you live like that? Its been a month or more!

Sim neej no es nej tshuav hmoob nplog nqi los yog ua cas. Cov poj laib no ces cia kom txom nyem twj ywm rau Tim nplog zoo dua.

Yawm txiv koj mas thiaj tsim nyog, them child support qhob noom xwb teeb meem me me xwb, tev txiv tsawb tseem nyuaj zog😂😂

Txhob tu siab vim nej toom nruab nrab ntshaw 2 niam nkauj mos ab ne

They said older and wiser but I dont know anymore. I used to work at an Asian Women Domestic Violence Shelter and worked with many Hmong women from Laos and Thailand. There are good and bad ones. There are ones that does lie and ones that does experience bad things/marriage. Its not that the shelter staff brainwashes the women. Staff just go off of what the women tell them. But i have to be honest, i have heard from a few Laos and Thailand women admiting that they purposely married old American Hmong men just to bridge over. Married for a few years to get more indepdent and leave. If the husband does not allow them to leave nicely, they will lie about abuse/domestic violence to go to court to get divorce, child support, etc. Good luck.

Peb thov nej cov txiv thaub laus thiab os yawm txiv

Saw the title… Did this old grandpa expects everyone to feel sorry for you? Did you think your second oversea wife will be like your first one? Each wife is different in their own way. I don’t feel sorry for you at all. Hopefully, your story will stop others from going overseas. However; they will never learn.

Peb cov thaub laus thiab cov niam tais Hmong laus ..Nej yeej tsis zeem li cia nyias ntsib nyias thiaj paub.. I feel so sorry for the old man ....ntse tsis txaus ces pab tsis tau....cov tub hluas Laos mas lawv yeej tsis yuav cov pog laus li lawv ntxias kom tau tuaj xwb cov ntxhais hluas Hmong Laos mas yog tus txiv neej twg yog tsis muaj lag luam zoo tsis muaj nyiaj txaus lawv siv mas txhob cia siab kiag lawv yeej tsis nrog nej nyob ib sim neej kiag😢😢😢😢😢

You have no one to blame by yourself.

These old men will never learn, they hear these kinds of stories over and over, but they think it will never happen to them so every old man keeps getting these younger women from over sea! Serve them right 😂

Marrying a Hmong Lao is like buying a product. It only comes with a 90-day warranty. Most don't offer an extended warranty. Those that do costs a $50,000 one-time fee for land, house, etc and $200/m made to her family in Laos.

Kuv ntxub cov thaub laus noj zaub mos no tshaj plaws li nyuam qhuav NTxim xwb

OG never learned their lessons ever……..

Yeej meem mus tos peb cov ntxhais tuaj nawb, tsuav zoo 3,hlis mus txog 3 xyoos ces twb zoo lawm mog

Thov nej cov thaub laus pog laus tsum thiab lod! txhob mus tos tos cov niam mob ab txiv mob ab no lawm nawb!!!

Oh yo nej cov poj niam hmoob nplog mas thiaj txawj foob thiab ntse ua nej tws kev kiag thiaj os yom

lmao I love listening to story like this poor old man you already know that you just making a bridge for them overseas to come over

OMG cov nim thaub laus ntshaw2 cov nim meb cab tim nplog ces nyuam qhuas ntxim xwb mas nawb,nej cov txiv neej yuav peb thaum peb tseem me2 yau2 ces nej tsi hlub os,zoo li kv nim txiv dev twb mus yuav ob nim meb cab tim lub nim teb chaw liam tim thb os

Aunty I been hearing your fire detector for a month ish now. The battery 🪫 is low. Do change it. For your own safety

Laj laj mloog koj cov sponsor’s cov lag luam li os

Zoo kawg cov thaum laus ib los los nkauj mos ab ob los los nkauj mos ab ce tab tom zoo zoo rau cov thaum laus xwb los maj lawv aw

Tus yawm txiv laus!! Koj muaj 80 xyoo, koj tus yawm txiv tsis muaj zog ua hauj lwm rau koj tus niam mos ab tshaib, tshaib plab lawm ces cia nws mus nrhiav noj thiab os nawb! Txhob tu siab😂.

Tshuav poj niam nqi os yawm txiv aw!

Lauj nyob Lauj tim teb chaws plog leej twg kos koj mus tos Lauj tuaj. Rua tias lauj thaub koj nas.

Down vote so she change her smoke detector battery!

You ain’t the first and you ain’t gonna be the last. Ya ogs will never learn. Sorry so sad.

Sorry old man you’re not upto the job and should not stop her from leaving.

Twb npaum li o los nej cov txiv neej twb tsis ris siab kiag li mas ib tug ua tag los ib tug yeej ua dua li os lawv es !

Vim yus txoj niag kev ruam pheej ntshaw txoj kev hluas txog thaum kawg lub neej thiaj khaub hlab tag koj mas tsis tsim nyog tu siab li os yus yeej paub yus tus kheej tom ntej yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim

Pus thaub aw cas laus laus lawm es twb tsis ua rau kom koj tej me rub me ntxhais nyiam thiab hlub li os vim koj ntshaw ntshaw poj laib tim npog ntag mas laus laus lawm cas ua tau tej yam ntxim ntxub ua luaj li txhob hais hais koj lub neej es tsam koj tus poj niam loj zoo zoo siab rau koj os

Thaub laus aws ntxim nyog qhov koj tau kawg li qhov no twb yog qhov koj xav tau ne tej tub tej nyab tsis hlub los vim yog koj xav taug txoj kev no ne twb tau li koj lub siab xav lawm kav tsij txaus siab rau koj txoj kev no thiaj ntxim nyog qhov koj tos hmoob nplog tuaj

Old man!!!! You told us you eat more and know more, but why are you complaining now? 😂😂😂😂

Zoo mad! Ntshaw tus hluas ces kawg

Peb paub tag lawm os, ib xyoos mus tsuav ntsuag ib lwm lawm xwb os thaub aw.

SMH. O.G Hmong never ever learned.

I think there are so many stories like this between Hmong Americans and Hmong Lao is because Hmong Americans put a too high expectation on nkauj mos ab, expecting nkauj mos ab to stay with the Hmong American for life because Hmong American spent so much money on nkauj mos ab and her entire family taking them out of poverty and into the US. If Hmong Americans just lower their expectations or better yet, have no expectations, these things will still happen but Hmong Americans won't have as many strokes. Hmong Americans got to understand that marriages between 2 Hmong Americans don't last either. Hmong Americans got to understand that Hmong Lao only marry Hmong Americans because of the US dollar and green card. Hmong Americans got to understand that even if the wife is a Hmong American, she too can and will still sue you for the house, the kids, half of your 401k and savings, child support and alimony. So don't expect the marriage to a Hmong Lao be any different. Go into the marriage thinking if divorce after 10+ years, then that's a win. If you set your expectation too high, you'll only be disappointed.

Thaum koj kawm tiav ces twb lig dhau lawm os thaub.

rov qab mus yuas ib tu tuam dua ma😂😂😂

Cov teeb meem li koj muaj ces 90% txiv neej hmoob laus yeej raug qhov teeb meem no, yog tim qhov lub siab pheej ua hauj lwm rau 2 ceg nej!!! Nrog koj tu siab os. Laus lawm nyob twb ywm tsam mob taub hau, cia li so xob ua hauj lwm lawm, yog tseem ua ces yog npam xwb.

txoj kev nstaw niam mos ab ces npam lawm

Ntsej muag laus tuag zoo dua

Great job! Marring someone who's the age of your great granddaughter. 👍

Txog yeeb ceeb tsis tau mus qhia dab lawm vim twb tham rau neej paub ua ntej lawm. Save some times os

Pom niam hmoob nplog ma thiaj txawj Liam.qias neeg. G tas li k9j los laus 70 xyoo ler tseem yuav poj hmoob nplog ces nyuam qhuav haum tab tom

Cov thaub laus no txhob los thab peb cov niag pog tebchaws no thiab. Nej twb saib tsi taus peb cov poglaus lawm.

Too bad. Teeb meem yus nrhiav yus ces yus mam li peem yus kom kawg es thiaj li tsim nyog txoj kev phov.

And another thing I’m just saying… why do Hmong OG’s be marrying overseas?! Like really we have plenty of Hmong people here in the USA! In my opinion Hmong people over there just come here for your money! If you broke they move on. If they see someone else they LIKE they will go after them no matter what! Not only that I hear many MANY stories where people overseas marry you then divorces you because they already have a partner they waiting for again overseas! I’m not saying all are bad but y’all know what I’m talking about. It’s just the truth.

Peb cov hmoob laus mes kas mas yeej tsis zeem tiam tiam li os lawv os

Xav2 tau niam mos ab ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb os😅😅😅

When she drop off the kids and take off on vacation call the cops and tell them she had abandoned them to you!

Neeg npam yav laus ces zoo li no xb

Lub teb chawg Mika txhob tshaw nyob og cag Mika yuav TSS saib qab saib hau li me Mika pheej ưa TSS rawg cai li sub

txiv neej xyob txhiaj ces yog tus thaum laus no. yog kiag li tej laus ib txwm hais. tab tom kj kiag . laus tsi nyob tas laus.

Kuv hais cob coos rau cov txiv neej Hmoob ntshaw poj niam hluas, twb tsis tau txaus, vim yus tsis hlub yus tus niam tsev. Lub ntuj yeej faib haum2. Tabtom hau xwb 😂😢😅

Dev noj kam dev tawb quav lawm ces txawm li los yeej peem mus noj kom tag txoj sia

Vim nej cov thaub laus hmong mekas ko tsis mag nkauj hmong nplog xyuas nej nyob tsis tau ne. Cia lawm ua ko nej ti ntsa nkaus es nej thiaj tuag tŵj ywm

Muaj zog ua menyuam ces avtsij them ma. Cov ntawv yeej yog koj coob ne. 😂

Ab ntuj yeej pom kawg ma Yog yu zoo lawm na Lwm hnub ce nw yuav tau txai ghov nw Ua Xwb ma tsam Lwm hnub ce sawv daw yuav pom nw Ua aub niaj hnub lo khawb ob ceg rau ntiaj teb pom Xwb os mog me yawm txiv aw

If you’re that old, just marry for companionship. You don’t need to have a baby with every woman.

Hmong old man never understand, that what they get

Uncle, you did this to yourself. You reap what you sow. Koj tshuav tic poj niam no nqes. Don’t complain, take it like a man.

Laus laus tsis taus txiv lawm ces poj niam kawg khiav lauj,poj niam need nev....

Thaub laus aw tsis tau txaus os tus no tsis zoo lawm tig loo rov qab mus tos dua ib tug tshiab nawb. Tus tshiab mos dua zoo nkauj dua ces yuav hlub koj dua nawb 😅😅😅😅😅thaub laus ruam

Khwv ciaj khwv tuag tsis txaus niag yob noj ib pluag

Vim qhov yus qaib tsis qua lawm ne lawv thiaj khiav xwb

If you are too old, you shouldn't keep on having kids. I do not feel sorry for old people like this. For the reasons that you're not going to live that long to see them grow up and you won't be able to take care of them at your old age. Stop being selfish and thinking short-term only. At the end, it's society and taxpayers that will have to take care of your poor choices.

Kuv ces yuav hais tias tab tom xwb qhov no yus tsuas nros yus nrhia teeb meem rau yus tus kheej xwb..

I didn't even finished the story but you're just going to let her take your ex wife's jewelry? Wth

Tab tom xwb tsis cia lawv txhom lawv nyem to nws ua dab tsis nawj

Cas nej twb laus tas lawm los castseem yuav mus thab thiab os

Don’t feel sorry for u at all old man! U put yourself in that situation… your old why have more babies to support. Just be the good grandpa you are to your grandkids! You don’t need to have anymore babies! 😂

Cov mi yawg aw Twb tsis yog yawg Lawm tseem yog yawg koob lawm Xwb Cas Twb tsis mus saib iav ua ntej Mam mus yuav tus hnub nyoog 20 xyoo CIA yus qhia yus thiaj paub nyiaj laus tsis Tau Kev rau es tseem mus lob2 tau Tus mi ntxhais xeeb ntxwv TUAJ faib koj li nyiaj laus es tshuav hmoob nplog nqi tiag2 li os mi yawg koob aw😊

kav tsij them child support os thaub aw yus ruam2 los tsis mloog tej me nyuam hais thiab. kuv ntseeg koj cov tub nyab ntxhais vauv hais koj mob hlwb tas lawm o

Thaub aw too late laib nyob laib koj mus coj laib tuaj kaw koj es I didn’t feel sorry for you

Kuv tsi hnov qhov neb hais beeping li as

Nej cov yawg thaub pog thaub na zaum no kawm tiav lawm pos,ntshaw2 nkauj hmoob nplog na kom cov thaub Laus los mloog kawm nawb haum tsis haum cov phim2 nej nyob Tim no muaj ntau nej cav xyeej os paub Lawm pos,Luag tseem hluas tshaj koj Tus nkauj ntxawm na,

Yus ua rau yus xwb. Muaj tus phim yus yus tsis mus yuav yus yuav niam me cab ces zoo li no ntag. Kav g zoo siab yus

😂 😂. That's what happens when you want a little girl. Never learn.

Hmong people don’t like to read books but sure graduate a lot.

Nej cov txiv neej uas qaib tsi qua lawm los tus twg los tug khav2 yuav mus yuav cov mos2 time ub tuaj ces zoo li no xwb mas npaum no los nej cov txiv neej twb tsi tsis siab li tseem niaj hnub mus sau cov niag ntxhais hmoob nplog tuaj thiab.

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Ntuj aw… yus Yog neeg laus laus na es xa mus yuav mos ab ces zoo li no xwb ma. Yus yeej pom thaib hnov txog Cov niam mos ab na. Thxob yws yws. Koj tus niam koj hais Yog lawm. Xav ma Yog kev npam xwb os.

Hahaha...koj tus niam loj loj yeej hais yog lawm....kav tsij ntim tej qub zaub qub mov koj thiaj tsis tau mus cook.

Tus yawg txiv, koj ces tsis txhob ua neeg li lawm mas. You twb paub you laus lawm nas. See mas kiag, xav xav yuav niam nkauj mob ab nas. Mas mus jail lawm nes.