Yeah, I thought it was cute until the part where she ran away, seems immature, and told a lot of his business, people are entitled to privacy. Also the pessimism isn't cute. If you think it's going nowhere why waste time. If you don't learn how to deal with the fear of disappointment in a more healthy manner.
@@vanessao8711 Everyone deals with things differently. These ladies are human and share their experiences. We don't know if she asked permission to discuss her experience with this person. You are free to not watch if you don't like what you see. I hope you continue to watch though because it's all in good fun!
Nobody gave Marissa’s mom enough credit when she called him out saying “you didn’t do your ex wife a favor, a divorce is mutual” bc i have not liked him since the pods he gave me ‘self-righteous, virtue signaling, f-boy energy.’ I was so sad when she broke up with bohdan
Bohdan was accused of getting very rough with a woman during consensual sex about 6 months before the show was released. He choked and spat on her without prior discussion of doing that 🫤
@@Raynebow. Ya I thought it was just someone trying to get some exposure but the post was in a private group months before his season was announced so I think she's telling the truth 🫤 And same girl, I've been with my husband for 19 years and would be terrified to date now.
They really need to up the cash offer for making it to the altar for those that are okay saying No behind the scenes and are willing to say No at the altar. A couple should be allowed to leave early if they don't want to deal with it, but an incentive to stay regardless of the mess it will be is what this season was missing in the end, but really enjoyed it up to the finale. Hannah definitely knew Nicky D was going to say No at the altar and likely guessed correctly that they would have had Nick go first so it felt like that breakup was a Hail Mary attempt to get the audience on her side and it did not work. It would have been great to see them at the altar even though we all knew they would say No. It sounds like they will be attacking Nick somewhat at the finale as the rumor is they filmed their finale segment twice as the first time didn't have enough drama. I personally hate this attitude as there is always enough drama and they can always edit it to have more drama so having it get out that they had to film it twice totally deflates any drama that I would have felt. It also doesn't give me much hope for getting answers from Tyler and Ashley if they were focusing on having drama from Nick and Hannah. They could surprise me with editing in some of the most recent videos from Bri, the mother of Tyler's children, and Bri's ex-wife to leave the audience feeling much different about Tyler similar to what they did with Cutie-gate.
Cameron and Brett were not charismatic!!! Lol. They were regular, normal guys. And Garett is precisely that. Some would call them boring but thats what safety looks and feels like.
Not true. Both those guys and Milton too were admirable guys. Guys who handled a relationship crisis with class. Garrett lacks that. So he’s dorky but doesn’t even come with wisdom. Immediately calling her manipulative just coz shes following the shows rules. LYING about his contact with an ex. That woman settled.
@@jakestroll6518I just said they are not charismatic - where charismatic is a person who influences and inspires people. At least on the show - I dont remember Cameron being inspiring. He just existed, in my opinion. He hasn’t made a mistke during the show like Garett did. But Garett minus that mistake is definetly more intresting than Cameron. And the mistake he made was bad and not defending it. I just think we have so many bad examples of men around us and on this show and we think charismatic is any dude that doesn’t lie and cheat
I’m a high-energy woman with ADHD and I’m so glad Marissa no longer has Ramses siphoning off her energy and dimming her spark. Because we have so much energy, we can carry a lot of the burden in a relationship, we can keep going through a lot of difficulty and we can stay far too long in situations that drain us, because we remember the good times and keep up hope. But we need to be with people who get and appreciate what we offer and encourage us to be ourselves. The people we hold close need to understand that we too have down and low-energy times and sometimes they need to take a turn being the support.
YES. I am a low-energy person, and I used to feel so inferior to you high-energy people. :) Y’all bring a lot of joy and energy that people need and appreciate. The world needs all kinds of people - just be yourself!!!
Marissa’s reaction shows 1. How truly CONFUSED she was over the relationship ending and how caught off guard she was for the conversation to take the turn it did and 2. How deeply she really cared for Ramses and how much trust she had in their relationship moving forward. There is nothing shameful with her asking “are you sure”, she even briefly says after that she feels like she’s crazy and did she just imagine it all (their relationship) because he literally the day before or week before was talking about how sure he was they were 100% going to say yes to each other and be married. Marissa being THIS confused and almost (if not fully) gaslit, shows how little Ramses actually communicated with her and that he was more focused on hearing other peoples opinions about their relationship vs actually talking to Marissa about whatever the hell he was thinking. It also shows how little commitment Ramses had to her this entire time for him to be able to suddenly flip like this. We keep hearing how “emotional” Ramses is but he didn’t even bat an eye during these entire scenes.
I was with someone exactly like Ramses for a couple of months and the situation was so similar. He rated himself as a bit of a hippy however he was actually so uptight…..I saw through the man bun in the end. He broke up with me and mentioned about my energy and how it was low and that he didn’t feel a spark anymore. It came out of the blue. I left immediately and then once he realised I wasn’t coming back he spent a month begging for me to come back. I actually got over him so quickly because when you see the BS you can’t unsee it!!!!
I low key can’t stand Ashley right now. She chose to be with a man who abandoned and neglected his children. She also is defending him despite all the proof.
Girls! U both have the best chemistry ever in any podcast show I have seen! I love both of youuu! Your energy, your humor, everything is perfect! Nat please keep us updated in your love story!!! I’m so excited about it
Natalie, I agree with you 💯 about the Tyler sitch. The detail differences between Bri and her ex’s stories matters not to the actual LIB situation - it only distracts the focus from Tyler, where it should be. Bri’s story tells us everything we need to know about Tyler’s level of dishonesty and willingness to abandon his own children and do harm to them in profound & foundational ways that will impact their entire lives. Bri’s ex’s story only confirms these facts. Both stories confirm that Tyler is clearly willing to harm everyone in his path in order to get what he wants - even those closest to him who he should be protecting. The fact that Bri and her ex are not on good terms only lends credibility to the details that they both claim against Tyler.
I felt same way about Marissa! When she kept saying this hurts so bad it hurts so bad!!! I was like omg I know what she’s feeling and I think I’ve even said that same thing before. It’s sad too cause it’s always because of the guys who didn’t deserve it too!
Nurse here and grad student to get dnp hopefully. Rheumatoid arthritis is very painful and has flares and she’s very young with that. I hope she feels okay and feels better. She’s got a lot. I love her even more now knowing how kind and bubbling and positive she can be with going through something so difficult.
I'm meh on Garratt too. The ethnicity freakout, the lie and the gaslighting really soured me on him. He looks good compared to the terrible men on his season, I fear!
Natalie I have. Grudge against Garrett too lol. Something was off with the whole ethnicity thing. I agree if she wasn’t half white it probably would not have worked out. His parents were falling apart over it 😅
@@joanna0988 Firstly, he’s a grown man so that would be a massive red flag of enmeshment. You can miss your 35 year old son but denying his wedding because he might leave the State is insane. And given the comments Taylor has made about having to teach him about racial micro aggressions, I bet it’s that mother of his. She’s got that racist Karen vibe.
@@jakestroll6518 Seriously enmeshment? Do you have kids? I have 3 and I know how important being close to family is. My mom lives 20 minutes away and sees my kids every Saturday. My in-laws live hours away and we see them about 6-8 times a year. The relationship and closeness my kids have with my mom who sees them often is very different than with my in-laws. It's not realistic for Garrett's family to fly to the other coast every weekend so that would be an issue for me if my kids were getting married and planning to have kids. As for the racism stuff, I won't call someone racist with no proof and that's kind of shitty for Taylor to say publicly because a micro aggression is usually no meant with malice.
@@joanna0988I don’t think micro aggressions can be considered meant with no malice. It’s just that the aggression is kind of hidden and usually based on ignorance. Usually they’re still offensive interactions
I shot my shot at 14 when I spotted a cute boy on the baseball field at the park. I had a friend ask for his #. We texted briefly off and on for 6 years and in our twenties reconnected and fell in love and now we have a 1.5 year old and been together 8 years! ALWAYS SHOOT UR SHOT!
lol I’m in medicine and when I heard that he was in a suit and it’s a Saturday and you were confused but in my mind I was like he’s probs in medicine. We commonly have interviews on weekends for residency/fellowship
I don't understand why Marissa would ask him if he's sure. He pissed on her military service and care more about his sexual gratification than her health. What is to be sure about? They don't align on important things. They are not compatible so much for cancer leo leo. Whatever the heck that is.
Ramses was not gonna say yes. He knew from the beginning and sorry I took a while for marissa but her mom saw through the bullshit and said whatever was supposed to be said on behalf of Marissa
Aww Natalie, I’m rooting for you!! 🥳 Deepti, you’re right- same city doesn’t matter! My husband and I met after I was at a conference in his city 3.5 hours away from me! I literally said to my coworker nobody would drive that far to date me and his response was “ the right guy will!” And here we are happily married with kids almost 8 years later!!!
I thought that maybe he just didn't want to deal with her health issue. Rheumatoid arthritis can be very painful and debilitating. He would never say that was the reason on camera, so he made other excuses, like about her energy instead.
I'm wondering if they got so much backlash for forcing people to stay on the show that this is how they do it now. On one hand, I think that's healthier, but on the other...it deprives us of the drama haha
I made notes watching first episodes as my sister didn’t see them yet so I wanted to consult with her later and I wrote: Marissa- seems too high energy for him? And I genuinely thought from the beginning she was way more into him than he was into her. She was soo excited about him but he didn’t seem to give the same energy.
She chose Ramses cos he kicked it up a notch when he realised she had 2 number ones. He just wanted to win over Bodhan, more screen time, more him. He was not phased by her mother and used anything about her against her when it worked for him. Manipulation much? Another ICK from S7... Marissa and Bodhan would have been amazing!
You guys missed Jessie Woo’s interview with the baby mother’s ex wife. Bri and Tyler had a relationship even if they refuse to admit it. Tyler is a big time liar. The true victims are the kids 100%.
Regarding the Bri and Tyler social media discussions, it sounded to me like Bri's ex-wife was validating the facts Bri made about Tyler, but she felt that Bri was not being as truthful to make her sound better. Bri's ex wife said Tyler talked about cheating on his ex-wife and she believes the first child was conceived naturally as well after their sperm donation attempts failed as it happened while Bri's ex-wife was away. Regardless, it does not make Tyler look the way they made him out on the show.
All this said, the real big questions for me are, did Tyler tell her this before they said I do, did production know, did Tyler ever tell her, did she discover this on her own, or did she just find out as everyone else did.
He is either a psychopath or a sociopath, his behaviour is outrageous, and the way he lies! And acts entitled an not remorseful or shameful it's not normal!
Natalie, I’m so happy you took that chance to connect with him! I’m a Canadian gal who now lives in Chicago with my husband, whom I met in Cancun while on vacation 14 years ago (when I still lived in Canada). Long distance beginnings to romances don’t always have to stay that way 😊 wish you all the best ❤
I think they definitely added the “From Love is Blind…” basketball game announcement after editing! Similar to adding the texting ding when Stephen Venmoed Monica.
One thing is true for me: If my fiancee has an ounce of doubt, there is no conversation that would convince me to go ahead. I would expect for them to maybe keep dating, but Marisa said she asked and he said NO.
Why go hard on Nick when Hannah did the exact same thing. She was disappointed at the reveal and didn't turn back. So if he told people he's not attracted to her she wasn't attracted to him 1st. She refused to see one of Leo's friends because he was 5'9. They both talked too much about appearances, the opposite of the show's concept. The ugly baby talk was cringe. So if Hannah has an ugly baby would she just throw it away or bully that kid for the rest of its life?
Garret sucks. He only seems like a decent option because of how atrocious the other men were this season. The bar is in hell, and Garret is just barely above it.
I agree with Natalie that Garrett showed a number of concerning flags. However, nothing was so glaring that it equals a deal-breaker - I think I see him as a yellow flag and we have to trust Taylor that she's seen the WHOLE picture and can figure out whether they are signs of a deeper problem or just flubs that he made that are not indicative of his character.
Yeah… don’t limit yourself to your city. My my husband in Antarctica, I am from Europe, he’s American. We have lived in 3 countries, it has been great. You need to both be committed but people move all the time. Love sounds like a good reason to me.
For Tyler I think that scene he said he didn't know if the kids know what he looks like was edited. The part I have a problem with is he didn't tell her about his kids in the pods. Whether they talked off camera or not after the pods. .. in the pods he didn't. That's a lie. Period
My husband and I met the month after I had moved home from Korea and he had just moved to town. He was a performer at a bar and asked me if I knew how to lace up a straight jacket. Not as cute as your story but still pretty fun.
this happens A lot when you are a woman with a disability RA can def be classified as such A LOT of men do not do the emotional labor to understand what dating someone with a difference actually means for their life.....they view it in the abstract and when they realize the shit is EVERY freaking day they bail......not everyone (i was married for 15 years) but It happens so often, the emotional labor of casual ableism of an inter abled relationship is unexplainable in a youtube thread
Exactly and I was appalled that he wanted sex while she's on her period, sick and having an RA flare. Her body hurts to move and he wants to be serviced 🤮
I’m with Deepti, regardless of what was said in the pods, I’m not holding over his head and I believe he truly fell in love with Taylor! I love their 💞💕 He’s a white man that’s not dated an asian woman, you can’t hold his initial reaction against him. Give him grace!
I wonder if from now on there won't be anyone saying, i don't, at the weddings anymore? That would be ok with me. It seems like it was so uncomfortable and sometimes heartbreaking. It's also more interesting to see the breakups before the wedding.
Natalie the cutest meet up. so glad you cleared up the thong drama. If Ramses is really a feminist then he wouldn’t hurt women and not have belittled her over the military issue. It’s understandable that he would have anger over the US government, but he needs to acknowledge the benefits he receives from the US government and recognize military people do what they are told.
I can just foresee Vanessa ripping into Nick and giving Hannah a pass. I find she can be biased and never holds the women as accountable as she should.
It’s become the hunger games of Love Is Blind these past few seasons! Couples dropping off at every phase of the journey until 1 or 2 make it to the altar 😅
I don’t understand how they already know they cast someone on another reality and then NOT give them a good edit on LIB? Like, if they know, wouldn’t they change? Better than gloss over the stuff they did on the reunion
Ramses has to be one of the worst people to have been casted on this show, he didn’t love Marissa, he had no intention of marrying her at all, he strung her along and even when breaking up with her he was manipulative saying “it’s not you, it’s me” I had to fast forward their scenes as it was sad to watch and I didn’t care for the weddings either as I had checked out of Tyler and Ashley’s due to the scandal with Tyler, also i wasn’t a fan of either Taylor or Garrett. If I could sum up this season in 3 words, it would be bullying, toxic masculinity and misogyny.
I hate to be that person, but I wonder if Taylor and Garrett would’ve had the same chemistry if Taylor were fully Asian. I low-key feel that might’ve been a dealbreaker for Garrett.
Natalie.. this is fate. I think this might be your person. Don't give up on this long distance relationship. Plus he is ambitious too!!!!!! That's a big PLUS.
I clocked that it was a mic pack and it didn't even register to my brain that it was anything else. So when everyone was shouting "he's wearing a thong!" I had absolutely no idea what anyone was talking about, and also I didn't know how suddenly criticizing his clothing had anything to do with him as a person. (side tangent, I'm a woman who occasionally wears thongs and I barely notice when I'm wearing them. I only own comfy ones)
Crazy take, I guess! Lol: but thongs are WAYYYYY more comfortable for me! I find other underwear so much more uncomfortable. Is it just me?!? Anyone else?! 🙈
