Young homie you got a FATHER and a MOTHER! Heed their advice. Pops ain’t telling you wrong. I was raised by the wrong mom and kicked me out at 15yrs old because I didn’t want anything to do with her dude. And I never met my biological father. I was raised by the streets. I beat 22yrs via trial with a public pretender at age 19. Got a violation and did 3 yrs. Got out at age 21, 4 months later I was shot 5x and left paralyzed with nothing, no family. Embrace yo family and don’t ever leave yo pops hanging like that. Love and respect to you and yo pops.
One thing I can say about the son, he remained respectful in his demeanor towards his father and didn’t jump in his face like some would have done. He also mentioned God and the Bible . Those are GOOD signs. He’s been trained well. Give him some time and he will be a good man to his family. Encourage him not to have any more children until he’s married. Keep praying for him.
Our kids are a trip my son the same way all I can tell him now is experience will b his best teacher and the streets will remain undefeated, keep up the excellent work 89 on up!
Man..... I remember these talks salute to all the fathers that really put it all on the line for theirs and willing to suffer so their kids can have...
If your fortunate enough to get a head start in life from your parents take advantage of it. Some of us turn 16 and realize we have to help our parents and still find our own way.
Nah! The younger generation is burnt out; and to be honest We are the ones that messed them up, trying to give them what we didn't have, the drive and the hunger just aint in some of them, Never give up on them though, sometimes arguments just drive a wedge, just like we didn't want to listen, they're double that, Not listening, just pray and enjoy they're company when ya can; shit be happening in seconds...just like you, hopefully time and luck and prayers will get him on point, RESPECT no doubt!!!
That's your twin omg I love this we don't have talks like this in the black household no more this is awesome black love keep your son in line God bless yall
He a good kid he’s still growing dad he just different because of his generation they hard headed 🤣I was always told from da Elders”A hard head ,makes a soft ass. “
Half you are doing right…. Keep talking to your son….. He better listen….. Just wait til it’s his turn with his kids…. Give a hug , and pray for him…. 🙏
Say Bruh,I went through the same thing with my Son,I had to Break Him Back Down too Build him Back Up Ya Dig,Da Young Gz Don’t wanna Listen until it’s Too Late ,Stay On Him Homie ,Much Luv n Blessings ya Dig 💯
@@89onuphomie when you said I don't wanna die and my kids pushing baskets and living in tents I felt that because I been homeless and it hit different.
I appreciated this. The son and the father both. The only issue I had with the conversation is that the mother kept cutting the son off when he tries to express himself though I get she had good intentions. This you g man is going thru what Alot of young men are going thru which is a educational system designed to teach them NOTHING useful or tangible like a trade or skill or credit creating unnecessary insecurities which can make you hesitant and on the surface make you come off or look lazy. The pops need to use less profanity his words are powerful. I can tell the young man's demeanor he is not that lazy just undecided and having kids complicates it more and restricts certain ideas but your family has to power you to get through each workday Nad year
I was this same way at his age had to get older and realize my parents was kids raising kids..nobody is perfect praying for yall bro 🙏🏾 much love from lil rich HTHC
At that age, sometimes you gotta just let them bump their head. And grow into manhood that way through his own experiences. trials and tribulations. sometimes as a dad, The best thing we can do is just Fall back. 💯
Big homie i’m going through the same thing with one of my sons he didn’t want to follow the rules of our house so he had go. Lil homie your parents love you that’z why they telling you right u need to listen straight up.
This young man is going to be good…He got way more sense than both his parents. He was also very respectful to his parents. But I can tell he dealt with a lot in his childhood.
@@89onuphomie I apologize I shouldn’t have said it that way. My apologies. But I can definitely relate with the young man. I can also see you are trying. But parents seem to have selective memory of our upbringing. They wonder why their children are the way they are. Even though he is an adult..we are ALL hunting by the way our parents raised us. God bless You and be the best father you can be Sir. And also a father is not just a provider. Much respect ✊🏾
@@89onuphomie I appreciate that..I know I put my 2 cents in…but I’ll allow yall men to do what yall need to do. God bless You and please keep this going…these conversations are very necessary in the Black Community.
Yo son wanna be you but he can’t. This like looking at myself once upon a time except we was more mature and had hustle, these kids want to be disrespectful with their handout! I pray he finds his path 89 & good parenting big bro
Having this convo w/the baby on him. Smh. I'm glad he stood calm. He setting a better example for the baby. Stop talking to him like he in the hood set. That's ya boy. Respect this kid. Calling his mom homie. Smh. That's ya grandbaby. God bless the baby. Telling his bother to press him. Smh. This could have been done by father and son only. That's all.
Some youngsters just don't understand, I didn't have my father in my life and I still think of what could have been at 50 years old... This man is droppin Jewels on his son, much respect, it's better than a father that don't give a fuck. 💪🏽👏🏽✊🏽💯🙌🏽
talkin over your father when he's talkin is first line of disrespect.. it also takes a man which is the father to be koo calm an collective.. RESPECT 89 On Up Homie..
I lost my pops recently. I know mfs without a parent or both. They never knew em. You cherish and take in everything your parents say. You have to be smart and distinguish between toxic and your parents trying to be parents. Do not ever take them for granted.
Much respect P This generation need more stand up Fathers like you Big Half pz Don't know what he has in you Blood keep pushing that line on your son and hopefully your knowledge n wisdom will register to him at some point in his life Woop Inglewood 👌🏿
You handled dat like a grown ass man! U took the time out to explain instead of jus saying fuck it & letting him go astray . It's a og call save yo son dats gangster
This was the realest shit ever! Although I’m left wanting to know more about what transpired before the camera started rollin’. I’m in awe of you my guy. I never expected to see anything even remotely like this just scrolling through RU-vid videos! Wow! I really wish that I was blessed enough to dialogue with you as a 56 year old elder from a whole other coast. At the end of the day we are all black men in America. Accountability is a huge piece of the puzzle. Your son seems very unreceptive to the tough love he’s receiving. But steel sharpens steel. Once he realizes what that means and applies himself like it’s a life or death matter….he will inherit your wealth of knowledge, wisdom and understanding. Applying these gifts will be the most instructional part of a bright future for him and his children.
You telling him right not to many of us out here, gotta father let alone of family that has your back. And want you to succeed and achieve all of your life's goals, many of us come from broken homes and streets raised and end up being bad people later on in life. Just pray for him and he'll come around.
I honestly see myself in the both of them. Very conflicted with the verbal exchange i am but the message is clear as dae. Prayers to all the fathers and sons . Stay focus.
Much Respect to you & your Family! You doing what’s right by staying on him! And he seem to have his head on his shoulders and learned a lot of game from you and the family already! So main thing G is keeping him safe while staying Sharp! Salute 🫡
They don’t realize that tough love you giving is needed in this cold world. My pops died when I was 12 I wish I had this 😔 I would’ve avoided a bunch a BS I went through
Sometimes you have to let them learn on their own. I watched my grandparents give my lil cousin everything she wanted. They tried to keep her safe etc. At 15. She had her first baby and 3 more after that. My grandmother ended up raising them as well. She later hit the streets and turned into an alcoholic. Sometimes they streets leave their mark. One thing is for sure. You'll never have your own happiness trying to protect someone from themself.
That man say you owe me a kiss son I felt that shit to the core man…little homie not dumb he just confused how all of us black ghetto kids come up but I can tell he go be ok tho..he talking about god so he on the right path it’s just his journey is his journey
Check game young homie, We as fathers aren’t always right we just want better for our sons and daughters. Listen to your Pop’s young life he trying to lace you up. You’re gonna miss having him when he gone. As one of my big homies said EAT THE FISH AND SPIT OUT THE BONES 🦴. Keep standing on business with your family and your sons. This is what our young men need a Black Man who gives a damn about his. Love and blessings keep standing on your square fam….
Shit man it ain't easy being a dad got six kids 89 ain't nothing wrong letting your kids know life ain't easy and hopefully when you talking to your son it will sink in that dad trying to give some advice that can be used you'll see one day he gonna say thank you dad
Aye Homie these kids different nowadays my son 24 and im grandpa too homie I know these talks all too well and never stop being a real father Ghalf they hard headed but they listening yo twin go be alright 💯💪🏾
I’ve been through this with my father we have our battles and I have my own family and right is right and wrong is wrong and we not bigger than the program
These kids these days should be grateful that the father is still in their lives. I think and believe communication is the key on both parts. Both of my parents are dead and I missed them dearly.
89 on up. I respect this from blacc man to blacc man brother nothing but love homie I go thru the same stuff with my son. Our ppl losing or kids cuz ain't enough blacc men giving it up to ours like what u did. I'm about to send dis video to my son. Columbus Ohio fukn wit cha. Respect and honor what this.
@@89onuphomie nothing but love bruh. I'll be bacc in LA in August. Melly mel he knows me cookey man from Ohio I come to LA 2 to 3 times a year. Respect blacc man. Keep doing ya thing
This no different than a war story on some bs we share if some of us even had this at some age we would of seen some type of extra light my channel is based on this call it what you want lov one
Toppz brobro salute to you and yours and your Fathering 💯. My honest opinion is this type of platform is a blessing and a course, it can be helpful or harmful. 🙏🏾 🙏🏾 🙏🏾
Absolutely love this video i wish my ol boi cared this much G Half you duin a great job as a father and i can tell jitt see that he just goin through his own shyt right nw😊 ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿
You a real 1 dawg I kind of know what he feeling cuz I been with it with my pops and I told him and it was emotional as fucc but a nigga would of needed a street vet and all in my life LOVE YOU DAWG. HE LOVE YOU BUT HE HURT INSIDE. THAT'S YOU RIGHT THERE but a different you you know?
Real shit I wish I had a pops shit a nigca don't even know my pops Ghalf u a real father respect I wish I knew my pops to Converse with young homie u gotta realize you dad a real one homie he keep it real with y'all this banging shit ripping and running these streets and taking care of kids anit no joke salute 89 on up 💪🏿💙
Look when they can't see thee light shining, just stay firm just speak up more and all bad thoughts don't even speak about, cause living proves your point,still standing proper ups too POPS keep pushing them pushing so he don't get caught up with that GOOFY DISEASE! Love,CHI TOWN
Half, it's imperative you stay right were you are with the situation. He's blessed beyond comparison and knows it, yet fails to accept it! Now a day's the youth want the look of whatever the world says is cool, and that's usually opposite of what the young homie has! It's a shame that this is what its come to but by right we have to hang in there and push the line...especially when it comes to our young Black men. From one Father to another the 5th of next month makes 4 yrs since I put my eldest son in the ground at the tender age of 18! That's not what I want for the lil homie nor you guy's as parents! Stay on'em and with him at the same time. I hope he comes to accept the benefits and blessing of life, helping parents, siblings, and most of all LOVE!
I can respect that i had a issue with my pops cause he live the street life and in and out of jail but he was always there because the discipline that i had he instilled it in me early as a kid made me do good in school when he was locked up because i knew those as whoopings was nothing nice, once i got everything off my chest he told me " whether i was locked up or not you still have to be a man" i was like he was right i held onto something that was my own insecurities about my life, after that I started to do better with my life and my pops, people get understanding at different times some early some later some never i can see youre son will get it hopefully its soon because you never know what tomorrow will bring, the way 89 talk to his son thats the way my pops talk to me raw and uncut just like it supposed to be, sugarcoating only enables bad behavior
What is the young dude doing where you think he off his square G-half?? Give us some more context and maybe we can give you the best advice and direction.
You absolutely right big homie. Take this down though big homie he gonna appreciate you later…sometimes we gotta check em, tell em we love em then pray for our kids then leave it alone
5tay on em Og he'll wake uP eventually. He gonna need yall, when life N full responsibility hits em hard on da chin N chest..genuine N loving words from oyg "Gorilla P".....WNH500×1600P
