One thing I can say about the son, he remained respectful in his demeanor towards his father and didn’t jump in his face like some would have done. He also mentioned God and the Bible . Those are GOOD signs. He’s been trained well. Give him some time and he will be a good man to his family. Encourage him not to have any more children until he’s married. Keep praying for him.
Young homie you got a FATHER and a MOTHER! Heed their advice. Pops ain’t telling you wrong. I was raised by the wrong mom and kicked me out at 15yrs old because I didn’t want anything to do with her dude. And I never met my biological father. I was raised by the streets. I beat 22yrs via trial with a public pretender at age 19. Got a violation and did 3 yrs. Got out at age 21, 4 months later I was shot 5x and left paralyzed with nothing, no family. Embrace yo family and don’t ever leave yo pops hanging like that. Love and respect to you and yo pops.
Our kids are a trip my son the same way all I can tell him now is experience will b his best teacher and the streets will remain undefeated, keep up the excellent work 89 on up!
Nah! The younger generation is burnt out; and to be honest We are the ones that messed them up, trying to give them what we didn't have, the drive and the hunger just aint in some of them, Never give up on them though, sometimes arguments just drive a wedge, just like we didn't want to listen, they're double that, Not listening, just pray and enjoy they're company when ya can; shit be happening in seconds...just like you, hopefully time and luck and prayers will get him on point, RESPECT no doubt!!!
If your fortunate enough to get a head start in life from your parents take advantage of it. Some of us turn 16 and realize we have to help our parents and still find our own way.
Man..... I remember these talks salute to all the fathers that really put it all on the line for theirs and willing to suffer so their kids can have...
I think he’s feeling like you have helped him with a crib and a car and situated him right in that light. But you may have not emotionally supported him the way he needed. LA moves fast then add on the street element that is being Lil G half🤷🏾♂️ the self induced pressure could be a lot for young people these days. Young man is carrying it real solid so there is No failure there, Good luck Bru!
That's your twin omg I love this we don't have talks like this in the black household no more this is awesome black love keep your son in line God bless yall
Half you are doing right…. Keep talking to your son….. He better listen….. Just wait til it’s his turn with his kids…. Give a hug , and pray for him…. 🙏
Say Bruh,I went through the same thing with my Son,I had to Break Him Back Down too Build him Back Up Ya Dig,Da Young Gz Don’t wanna Listen until it’s Too Late ,Stay On Him Homie ,Much Luv n Blessings ya Dig 💯
Big homie i’m going through the same thing with one of my sons he didn’t want to follow the rules of our house so he had go. Lil homie your parents love you that’z why they telling you right u need to listen straight up.
This broke my heart Big Half, me and my Pops had a bad disagreement when my first son was stillborn and i promised myself we'd never go bacc to that. I called Pops out his name and everything to this day one of the most embarrassing moments of my life. Sometimes we lacc a life purpose and it cause us to lash out at our Pops Cuz they the closest to us. Im hoping for the best for you and your Son Half
At that age, sometimes you gotta just let them bump their head. And grow into manhood that way through his own experiences. trials and tribulations. sometimes as a dad, The best thing we can do is just Fall back. 💯
@@89onuphomie when you said I don't wanna die and my kids pushing baskets and living in tents I felt that because I been homeless and it hit different.
Yo son wanna be you but he can’t. This like looking at myself once upon a time except we was more mature and had hustle, these kids want to be disrespectful with their handout! I pray he finds his path 89 & good parenting big bro
89 I had to learn the hard way . Had my first kid when I was 17 years old my second kid i was 19 years old and was still doing dumb shit by the time i was 29 had 4 more with 4 different women . Love my kids but i was way too young having kids my mom said u gonna figure this out i ain't raising your kids so i went down to my dad's & grandparents place right off of W century Blvd and got the same answer i got from my mom it wasn't easy shit was tough , hope things work out for your son and he can look back on this knowing he's dad Just looking out for him and wants the best for him . 89 you and all your love ones take care
I was this same way at his age had to get older and realize my parents was kids raising kids..nobody is perfect praying for yall bro 🙏🏾 much love from lil rich HTHC
I wish my father gave me something instead of a excuse , I was 18 with nothing fresh out of highschool its been a long hard 13 years i got everything my self ‼️ mom was a crackhead and dad was a alcoholic life was hell , smh i dont like ungrateful kids with parents who gave them something (apt, cars and money) I wanna give them my life then I'd understand they anger
I appreciated this. The son and the father both. The only issue I had with the conversation is that the mother kept cutting the son off when he tries to express himself though I get she had good intentions. This you g man is going thru what Alot of young men are going thru which is a educational system designed to teach them NOTHING useful or tangible like a trade or skill or credit creating unnecessary insecurities which can make you hesitant and on the surface make you come off or look lazy. The pops need to use less profanity his words are powerful. I can tell the young man's demeanor he is not that lazy just undecided and having kids complicates it more and restricts certain ideas but your family has to power you to get through each workday Nad year
RespeCt Homie. These young brothers need to Over-Stand what time it is. It's a war out here and he has to stand on business when it comes to making every chapter in his book of life account for something. I respeCt the young brother for remaining humble and speaking peacefully, now change that into a mindset that allows you to become better while doing better.
Much love Mr 89 On Up you teaching him right my brotha you a good father. Sometimes it takes a lil time before the children appreciate loving and caring parents like yourself. Peace and blessings Mr 89 On Up 🤜🏿🤛🏿 dapz salute to ✊🏿 5:17
He a good kid he’s still growing dad he just different because of his generation they hard headed 🤣I was always told from da Elders”A hard head ,makes a soft ass. “
Absolutely love this video i wish my ol boi cared this much G Half you duin a great job as a father and i can tell jitt see that he just goin through his own shyt right nw😊 ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿
I respect that g💯 that reminds me of my father an respect I have for him an how he allows me to have a voice ain’t no big him little me an I respect him as my father an he respect me as his son
Real talk homie! These kids now days have it good. We be trying to show them and school them so they won't go through the shit we've been through, but they think that they know more than us. I was just talking to my sons about the same thing last week.
Much Respect to you & your Family! You doing what’s right by staying on him! And he seem to have his head on his shoulders and learned a lot of game from you and the family already! So main thing G is keeping him safe while staying Sharp! Salute 🫡
This brings tears to my eyes I just lost my pops I wish he was here but I wouldn’t appreciate my pops social media and our business that wasn’t cool at all he’s a smart lil dude
I love the exchange between you and your son, you can tell he loves his father very much he just at the phase in life where he is trying to find himself, plus extra pressure of trying to fit in with peers and keep up with the latest trends, fashion and tryna stack some chilli. Be patient pups i can tell he will be alright he paying attention to you. Sending peace, love and positive energy to you both from London UK 🇬🇧.
He gonna be ok. As long as he takes his own advice at the end. You clearly love him and trying to tell him how this life thing works. I got 2 sons and i didnt have a dad. I be on them the same way you are on him. Keep it up homie.
You telling him right not to many of us out here, gotta father let alone of family that has your back. And want you to succeed and achieve all of your life's goals, many of us come from broken homes and streets raised and end up being bad people later on in life. Just pray for him and he'll come around.
Our children rely on phone applications, while we're still Blessing with life and love applications.... Before adversity hits me I can clearly hear what my pops would say ...... he's hearing you but the time will come when he'll have an opportunity to prove he was listening.....
This was the realest shit ever! Although I’m left wanting to know more about what transpired before the camera started rollin’. I’m in awe of you my guy. I never expected to see anything even remotely like this just scrolling through RU-vid videos! Wow! I really wish that I was blessed enough to dialogue with you as a 56 year old elder from a whole other coast. At the end of the day we are all black men in America. Accountability is a huge piece of the puzzle. Your son seems very unreceptive to the tough love he’s receiving. But steel sharpens steel. Once he realizes what that means and applies himself like it’s a life or death matter….he will inherit your wealth of knowledge, wisdom and understanding. Applying these gifts will be the most instructional part of a bright future for him and his children.
My brother on his shit period good dad he ain’t no punk he doing what he supposed to do him and my sister do to much let him be adult bro let him feel it 💯
Much respect P This generation need more stand up Fathers like you Big Half pz Don't know what he has in you Blood keep pushing that line on your son and hopefully your knowledge n wisdom will register to him at some point in his life Woop Inglewood 👌🏿
Family gotta discuss the issues n problems to get to the positive!!!! Glad my bro g half having family time discussing issues trying to get it right💯💯💯💯 Much luv to you n the family dog💯💯💯
Having this convo w/the baby on him. Smh. I'm glad he stood calm. He setting a better example for the baby. Stop talking to him like he in the hood set. That's ya boy. Respect this kid. Calling his mom homie. Smh. That's ya grandbaby. God bless the baby. Telling his bother to press him. Smh. This could have been done by father and son only. That's all.
I lost my pops recently. I know mfs without a parent or both. They never knew em. You cherish and take in everything your parents say. You have to be smart and distinguish between toxic and your parents trying to be parents. Do not ever take them for granted.
I’ve been through this with my father we have our battles and I have my own family and right is right and wrong is wrong and we not bigger than the program
You handled dat like a grown ass man! U took the time out to explain instead of jus saying fuck it & letting him go astray . It's a og call save yo son dats gangster
These kids is cut different They don't want to do nothing They think they entitled to everything then get mad when things don't go their way. Then want to blame us for all they're downfalls trust me fam a lot of us going through that with are grown ass kids.
I can respect that i had a issue with my pops cause he live the street life and in and out of jail but he was always there because the discipline that i had he instilled it in me early as a kid made me do good in school when he was locked up because i knew those as whoopings was nothing nice, once i got everything off my chest he told me " whether i was locked up or not you still have to be a man" i was like he was right i held onto something that was my own insecurities about my life, after that I started to do better with my life and my pops, people get understanding at different times some early some later some never i can see youre son will get it hopefully its soon because you never know what tomorrow will bring, the way 89 talk to his son thats the way my pops talk to me raw and uncut just like it supposed to be, sugarcoating only enables bad behavior
