90 Day Fiancé: Emily and Kobe’s Awkward FIGHT 

Different cultures, no one in my family would whip out their boobs in front of the men in the family to breastfeed

It wasn't just in front of her parents it was in front of the entire world.

I don’t understand what this man is doing that’s so wrong. I like how he expresses himself.

Sorry melicia but I COMPLETLY disagree with everything you said... So the fact that she had to say "everyone in my family knows how hard my breastfeeding journey was in the beginning so the fact that I can produce milk now is something I'm super proud of" 😒 Wtf does that have to do with anything!!! First off your kid is almost 2 and Breast milk does not have any nutritional value past 12 months, I feel like she is using this as an excuse for her and not the baby! Secondly I breastfed both my babies and I went through so many complications in the beginning as well but that doesn't mean I am going to breastfeed them until they can walk up to you and whip it out themselves! Also her dad weirds me out! Secondly I barley breastfed in front of my mother much less the men in my family I think that is so weird! Third her kicking him out of the bed pissed me off there was plenty of room on that bed for the 3 of them, It just seems like she doesn't want Kobe to bond with his son. Fourth she has been completely rude and disrespectful to him since she picked him up from the airport, Idk maybe it could be the lisp that's making her sound condescending and rude but that could just be me... Now don't even get me started on the man child Yve is with 🤦‍♀️ When he said " My perfect women in my IMAGINATION is to be like my mother" I freaking lost it 🤣 yes EXACTLY only in your IMAGINATION!!! 😂😂😂😂😂

I don’t think it’s appropriate to pump breast milk in front of your father. I think the dad could step out or she could go to the bedroom, I think Kobe is right on this one. Yes they are a close family but I think the “little girl” has grown up and needs privacy.

I agree with Kobe. There was a whole production crew there…

I don't feel he's wrong here. He was just expressing how he felt. We are all different in this world. And speaking as a woman who extremely values her autonomy, I would never pump in front of a camera crew. And the reason is simply that there is still something private about certain body parts. Once we start looking at breasts as simply what they are - means for a child to nurse - then we can start passing harsher judgement on whether or not Kobe's sentements hold validity. But until then, he has every right to express discomfort if he feels it.

Emily is realllly going to my nerves and you don't have to attack him for everything. He said it out of respect not to offend anybody

I don’t like how the dad said he was forceful when he was discussing the situation in a calm manner and she didn’t even try to understand where he’s coming from

I love that most of us agree with Kobe 🙌🏾

If Eve can’t be in the house with a plumber, Wait until Mohamed finds out what a massage therapist does.

Hell naw did they say he was forceful . He was so respectful when experiencing his opinion. I hate the way she dismissed him and told him go help my mother in the kitchen 😒. This shows exactly how any disagreement goes between them. Her parents will Intervene and step into every disagreement. He better be careful, especially with them already saying words like "forceful ".

Based off of her lack of respect for him, it seems that she wants this man due to fetishism. She doesn't respect him enough to hear him out regarding his feelings on anything. We see this kind of behavior all the time on this show. Yes, it was a culture shock for him, and she was not necessarily wrong in her stance, but she is very dismissive of his feelings in general imo

The dad is now concerned about Kobe’s ability to provide which is understandable but it’s ok with his daughter who’s 30 years old don’t have a job and lives with their parents and born and raised in US with the best education and job opportunities and she still failed to accomplish anything. That tells a lot about your parenting (parents) you know what really disappointing mom Emily is !

I’m sorry Melicia but you failed me on this one episode. Still love you girl 🤍

Emily did not nicely ask Kobe to help her mother. She’s a bit disrespectful. She’s a bit spoiled.

The fact that her father thought he was being "forceful" doesn't sit right with me. Honestly, whatever disagreements Emily and Kobe have should be between only them, because it seems like the parents will always take Emily's side and slowly push Kobe out of the picture.

I disagree, Kobe had every right to express his concern. There still exist many of us Americans who agree with him regarding discretion. Emily looks like a spoiled brat. And I think she enjoys her power. Her dad looks clueless, too. He should at least request that she has a blanket over her. And shame on you for saying people who uplift discretion need to grow up.

Don’t blame Kobe cultural difference is y he didn’t want her exposing herself infront her parents. Really easy to work out

Idk, I’m with Kobe on this one and I’m super traditional. Babies are everything and come first❤️ but he’s right. Why do that in front of her dad? It’s a lot…

I would never do that in front of my father! Or my brothers! Just like I don’t want them walking around in there boxers it’s awkward! For this lady to say it’s time to grow up 😂 so people who use discretion are children. Also Kobe can’t work right now yet the dad is putting pressure on him when his daughter literally lives off him 😂 double standard...

For me I would personally find it uncomfortable pumping breast milk in front of my father I think it's cultural for me but if she's comfortable than nothing wrong with that

Good lord...in every scene of Emily with Koban, that toddler is pulling teat. Time to wean him!

What's up with these men wanting a woman to be their mothers? Weird.

It was belittling for her to suggest he "just go help my mom cook". I'm shocked she told him to go sleep elsewhere. Shes a spoiled brat... I thought I was going to like them but... IDK now.

He is concerned about Kobe yet not ur daughter? She lives at home and hasn't accomplished anything. So how did she provide for herself all these years. Be fair

There is bound to be huge cultural shock for Emily and her family. TOLERANCE, Respect and PATIENCE IS the on.

I don’t see it as a “fight”. It was just a discussion and he was shocked that she did it in front of her parents. For me I don’t care how old I am. I not whipping out my boob in front of my father. He hasn’t seen my breast in over 3 decades, and it will stay that way. It’s natural, it’s just not line I want to cross. Like it’s just out of respect of each other’s grown bodies. Like I haven’t seen his, and he hasn’t seen mine. And the parents’ confessional comments were uncalled for

I feel bad for kobe. It's going to be hard for him.

The father is making it sound as if in the US this is perfectly normal which is not true in all families

Yve is in for a rude awakening when she fully realizes what Mohammed is expecting of her. She should’ve had her fun with the boy toy and kept it moving. You have a whole son with special needs, ma’am, and it looks like you didn’t consider him at all before moving this hypocritical man-child into your house. Smh

It's not only about Emily. She is doing it in front of her father and the father stands there staring. That's uncomfortable to watch. Kobe has every right to speak his mind. It's his fiance and his right to speak his mind. Not all American women pump milk in front of their fathers. Just because Kobe is concerned doesn't make him a bad person Melisia. The dad needs to go in the kitchen and help his wife.

Emily is even lazier than I thought! "Go help my mom in the kitchen." What! While she sits on her back side and does nothing. Oh she holds the baby to get out of doing anything. She is too lazy to wean her son. It seems she rarely changes him. Poor Kobi.

I agree with Kobe. Its so awkward when breastfeeding is used as one would with an actual bottle. Pump in private & use a cover when breastfeeding. When the child grabs at the boob & you just whip it out is not ok. Wean time

I am 100% African and I can say our breasts hang out more than American women"s. I really think the brother is having trouble with the girl changing" new body.

As for my Asian culture, we would breast feed in a different room or something. Sorry I wouldn't even do it in front of my dad. I'm with him on this 🤚🤚🤚

Dad is waiting for a fight so he can go get his gun. He is so deep in their convo's it is remarkable. Classless people often act this way.

He has a point. If you make everything normal nothing will be abnormal anymore. I couldn't do that in front of my father or mother. I am just shy and for respect towards to my parents specially my dad.

Her parents might need to stay out of their business... It may be their home but that is her relationship and child's father.

Nah you wrong that go cook dinner line was very dismissive

As an African KOBE is being honest. It’s taboo for a child his age to still be breastfeeding. However that being said these two have issues they’re not letting us in on.. Her body language and the way she looks at him says it all- Regardless they Emily needs to be more open minded -

She was very disrespectful and rude I'm shocked Malicia didn't see that she was rude

As an African, I get where he's coming from, especially in front of a male in law and her father. It's a cultural thing.

I agree with Kobi. I have known women who let their toddler nurse up to 4 years old. It is weird to me and it isn't that common in TX. I also think her father needs to keep his comments to himself and leave the room when Emily and Kobi have private discussions, but I also think they should have gone to their room to talk in private. I NEVER would have set in my parents living room and opened my blouse to pump milk in front of anyone, especially my father. That was sick. Emily could at least covered herself with the blanket in her lap. Ari's parents certainly surprised Ari! Personally I feel Ari needed to be on her own and be brought down a notch. The lady who stayed with them was supposed to be their nanny. Why was she styling Ari's hair? One very spoiled, grown woman is about to meet reality. Her parents have done a lot for them, mostly her. My only problem is that Bini can't work for many months. I don't remember what kind of degree Ari has or if she has one. But I hope she is capable of getting a great job for now.

Kobe is right. She needs to stop. And also stop brestfeedig. He's old enough to eat. Grow up Emily

I dont like how she ended the argument by saying "see my Dad agrees." As if his opinion matters more than her husband. & Then bossed him to go cook in the kitchen. As a black man, I think he should be beyond insulted!!!

An African woman would never do that in the presence of her dad, unless they’re a very westernized lady/family.

But why is she not cooking with her mother smh... I agree 100% with Kobe, she was trying to boss him around because he is in her territory. I can see more arguments on the way for sure

How can you leave your child with someone you don't really know yet

I think it’s inappropriate because whether we like it or not, womens breasts are seen as sexual, that’s why men or women will pay money to see them. So let’s not act like this is not a big deal because it is. I wouldn’t want a family member exposing their breast like that in front of my husband.

where is the problem if he was telling her to have some privacy when doing this? I find it normal. Like if they can't have this discussion, then how will they live as a married couple?

Emily needs to wake TF up. Kobe wasn’t unreasonable by raising his concerns. It appears that Emily doesn’t like to be told things that aren’t complimentary to herself. Oh - and get a bigger bed before he finds someone else’s to sleep in.

Emily is already being rude to him and his culture. He just got to a whole new country and she is being childish and disrespectful to him. .

I'm latin American and it looks so awkward for me I couldn't do something that expose my body Infront of my parents or siblings!!!

Honestly I'm totally agree with him 💯 cos I'm from Africa we can never let our parents see our body parts as a grown up.

I agree with everything except Emily could of been a little more sympathetic about Kobe leaving the bed..

She’s 48 years old and he’s 25 years old! That’s not going to work out. He probably won’t mature for another 10 years.

Omg listening Mahommed talk, drives me nuts. How does she live with that everyday?

I agree with Kobe. She should have at least covered up while pumping. Very awkward for her to do in front of her Father AND a camera crew.

My dad knew I pumped and nursed. I was modest with it & did it in another room while visiting my parents.

I can relate to Kobe, it's inappropriate! I can see pumping in front of my mom, but not my dad. Ugh!

Emily is what some would call a masculina. I’m sure Kobe knew that going into this. This is what he signed up for so… 🤷🏿‍♀️. If he wanted someone submissive, Emily ain’t it bruh…

I mean I kinda get where he’s coming from, like back when I was nursing my daughter I would only do it in front of my female family members, but if my brothers were in the room I would go into another room or I would have pumped a bottle in advanced and gave my daughter the bottle. I think it’s a bit strange to do it in front of your dad, but then again I’m not her. I also found Kobe being weird when he said that he wasn’t comfortable sharing breasts with his son. That’s weird, but yeah I mean I wouldn’t nurse or pump in front of my dad or brother, I would just go in the other room

To each it’s own..I wouldn’t breast feed in front of my dad but if she feels comfortable and dad is okay with it then hey why not!! Breast feeding/pumping should absolutely not be sexualized at all 🤦🏽‍♀️

I feel so bad for Kobe. He deserves better. Koben is soooooo cute!

Emily is annoying though.

Emily shows no respect. Kobe should have had the conversation away from the parents. And Emily should learn how to talk to people nicely

i 100% agree with everything kobe is saying

Yve has to be desperate if this is what she accepts and desires. Muhammed needs to go back to Egypt. That relationship is not worth it.

It seriously unbelievable that Muhammad would pursue a relationship with a woman who is caring for a special needs child. If he's looking for someone to take care of him he should go back to his mom.

Breasts are body parts and shouldn’t always be sexualized. And we shouldn’t be ashamed of breastfeeding.

How dare her asked him help her mum in the kitchen soo disrespectful 😳

I agree with Kobe also, he is so respectful even the way he is talking to her. He is expressing himself team KOBE 100%

My heart goes out to Koban. Emily should have to understand Koban's culture. It's nothing wrong with him feeling the way he does. That's what happened in his family. I think her parents should allow them to figure it out. I feel everyone should be more tolerable of Koban beliefs. This couple has a lot of compromising in their relationship.

In Africa, you would not often see a woman exposing herself and breastfeeding in front of her dad.

Im loving the format and the newflash little music you got going on in the beginning hon.

Kobe is absolutely right. Aside for the dad being there, the camera crew are also present. In Africa, breast feeding is actually done in private

idk I feel Emily way of addressing Kobe's seems somewhat degrading, the way she speaks and her tone

I’m sorry to say I would never pull out my boobs out in front of my father , father-in-law brother, brother-in-law or grandfather my family grew up breast-feeding as well but it was something that was done in modesty either with a blanket or at least covering ourselves not just sitting out in the open bare breasted

In West Africa it's completely normal to breastfeed infront of your parents and we breastfeed normally up to 2 years especially girls but boys atleast a year and few months.

In the first instance, 17 months is too much for a child in Africa. It is believed that breastfeeding a child for that long could make the child lazy in the future. But it varies though as some mothers do it for a year but that is rear. 3 - 6 months is the common standard.

I don't understand why she keeps breastfeeding him now that he's older... especially in front of her dad.

He is not forceful...he is finally somebody that doesnt let her just have her way no matter what.

Kobe should say how in his village do, not what Africans do. Africa is a continent of 54 nations, thousands and thousands of languages and cultures. Where I am from, women breastfeeding their babies in public without covering. Breasts are for babies, not for men. Moms can breastfeed until over two years olds. I was breast fed until I was four years old because each my mom tried to winy me, I would refuse to eat anything else, not even water and I would cry for weeks. When my mother is telling me the story, I feel so bad that I was a not easy baby, but it felt like I was smart since birth 😜😜😜😜😜

I wouldn't pump infront my dad but if they're comfortable 🤷🏾‍♀️

Cobe has a point.

I would never pump or breastfeed in front of my parents. I have always done it away from family for privacy reasons. That moment is for me and baby and not everyone. However, she can pump and give her child milk but after 1 years old that’s a little weird for me.

I think it’s about culture, I was raised in a Mexican culture I have two kids and this was a definite no go🙅🏻‍♀️ I’m a daddy’s girl, but nooo not with out a blanket over baby & boob… And being with an Arab man both cultures still play their man / woman roles, it’s not oppression when also means you as a woman get treated as a gem!!! They are very religious, but he could use a pot to wash it’s what they use in poor Islamic countries.

I agree with Kobe and Emily is comfortable with her family, it’s her duty to make Kobe feel good bcs there’s is nothing more fucked up than coming to someone house to live there and the person who needs to have your back is acting up bcs it’s her house with her parents

She really is switching up now wow idk it seems ok she kicked him out of bed the first night with his son but idk

It was absolutely 110% RUDE of her to kick him out of the bed!!!!!! That was VERY RUDE & DISRESPECTFUL!! She knew he was coming, so she should have prepared!!

I would never want to see my daughter doing this infront of me.

Let’s be real tho . It’s awkward to do that in front of your dad . And when her dad spoke and she kept saying “see” pissed me off . I doubt she’ll be willing to compromise her own family said so

she wanted a black man and got a African 😂😂💀 he’s NOT African American they’re different!careful what you ask for 😏🤷🏾‍♀️🤣

Emily and Kobe do not know each other at all. SMH. Sad!

The thing with this show that people fail to realize is that there are cultural differences for each and every couple. It will not be easy to understand the things they agree and disagree with. For me it would be weird pumping in front of my family but I am a shy person in that regard. Y’all already know she is free spirited so for her it’s nothing. And I’m sorry she did not nicely tell him to go help his mom she was literally trying to brush off the situation by telling him to go help the mom. Either way very awkward interaction. Lastly Yve needs to send him back lol..

I understand Kobe about the breastfeeding stuff. That doesn't fly in my family, you need to that in a separate room alone. But honestly this is just a difference in culture.

I think Cobi was more bothered with the video group in the back watching and he used her parents as an excuse

At this point, Yve has two kids.

Is Emily able to provide for herself, did her father ever cry about this or did he think she will find a man who will overtake this task?!