A 18-Year-Old, HyeJin, Living With 3-Year-Old's Body and 1-Year-Old's Mind 

Would you like to see your child having hardships that Its not hers?? She's already dealing with a family with no husband and then accepts to take care of an disable child! She cant work so should her mother be happy?? Its great what she does but that doesnt mean people should feel OK with it! Its not something you should point out as a bad thing!

@@ΠαρασκευηΚωστελιδου agree ❤️👍

@@ΠαρασκευηΚωστελιδου there will be more to the story. It's likely she was paid to look after the child. No where does it say the care was free. It's still a vital thing to do.

@@sharonhobbs4144 maybe but how much money do you think she has to be paid to look after a child that needs her full attention...?? And as you saw in the video the father works out of town! If he had money,he could have provided to his kid a professional help in a special clinic!! He could have spent 10,000 to buy her the ear equipment... So I guess there is no payment at least not one that worths all this trouble...

@@sharonhobbs4144 but u also don’t know that tho some people will gladly take care of disabled people no questions asked

Oh you mean the man that threw his little girl out cool

@@skytaylor9767 He didn’t “throw out his daughter”He just wanted someone to watch her for awhile since he was recently divorced 🤷🏿‍♀️

@My Story It was a silly excuse,but he did start a relationship with the woman who was watching over his daughter.(Well If I heard correct).

@@oiikqp6079 not for long? 5 years! and in response, only regrets that he can’t pay ... he can’t do anything, neither take care of his daughter, nor pay for a hearing aid ...

You mean how fortunate to have found a Patsy?? This is just a big Mess Hopefully someone will call proper authorities to remove her to a suitable education facility where she can also live there. She isn’t being trained or worked with so she can reach her full potential, whatever that may be. But just hauling her around all day & night isn’t helping anyone.

There are people who are angels on this planet. Fortunately ! But it must be so so hard.

No one im not sure about that crazy people wouldn't do it they wouldn't know what it's like to be disabled

@@skytaylor9767 they do not know that they are themselves disabled. Of a heart and soul. Disability is not just the functions of the body. It’s the functions of the heart and soul metaphorically.. if you do not know that these are handicaps too THEN !! You would think that abuse is normal. Making someone because disabled is the problem.. not the disabled person or the disability. No one chooses to be born this way.

Some people know better than to take something like this on themselves, with not much thought for the other kids. Should find a specialized place that has experience with these cases.

Also want to commend the brother for being so understanding. It can be easy to resent and hate someone who suddenly comes into your life, and changes things so your life and mom’s attention suddenly revolves around them, but he seems to be dealing well from this short clip. I hope his mom is still able to spend special time with him

May god shower you and your dad with his blessings. You both are an amazing people

Thank you for being a wonderful human being

It must be hard for you and her too. I wish you both happiness.

Wishing you and your daughter all the best❤️

Bless You and Keep You In Constant Comfort!

Зачем!??? Какая мать века?Это садомазохизм!Сложно назвать это существо человеком! По-моему, этой женщине просто платят за уход и ее это очень устраивает.Есть более сохранные дети,которым нужна подробная помощь.

@@SamsungSamsung-cm3in То есть, вы не считаете её за человека? Почему бы вам не помочь тем детям, которые нуждаются в помощи? В жизни бы не сделали, если не можете принять человека за кого он есть, или вообще хотя бы посчитать за человека, а не так называемое “существо”. Попробуйте проследить и вырасти “здорового” ребёнка, сможете? Верно, нет. С таким характером, я думаю к вам не то что ребёнок, но и взрослый не подойдёт. “Мать века” эта женщина, потому что смогла вырастить и продолжает это с терпением и любовью к человеку. За труд, не обязательно платить деньги, просто чтобы кто-то это продолжал делать (очевидно вы исключение). Думаю, перед тем как писать бессмысленный на подобие вашего комментария, нужно подумать головой, а не затронет ли это кого-то. Хотя чего ожидать от такого двуличного существа по типу вас.

@@lefj ах, оставьте -все слова, слова человека на трибуне.Болтать всегда легко!Я не нуждаюсь в Вашей оценке.Или Вы как мать Тереза?Почитайте о ее любви к роскоши , лечении в самых дорогих клиниках Швейцарии и т п.И откуда к нее такие финансовые возможности.Оставьте свои проповеди для себя.Подобных демагогов в мире очень много!Позвольте совет Вам посетить детский дом для таких деток, чтобы пелена с глаз упала.

@@SamsungSamsung-cm3in Если у вас не выходит финансово поддержать себя или кого-то другого, это не значит что другой человек тоже не имеет возможности, либо делает это не своим трудом. Эта женщина имеет полную возможность и финансово, и по желанию продолжать смотреть за девушкой. А вопрос как это вас должно касаться? Да, у меня такой же. Вашего мнения и она не потребует или хочет, а безжалостную дискриминацию можете при себе оставить. Их жизнь и их выборы не должны иметь какое-то значение вам, каким образом вы здесь оказались? Какую-либо оценку я вам не предъявляла, ибо если бы оставила, это всё равно не было бы причиной конца мира. Не быть настолько драматичным, либо к моему комментарию, либо к поступкам других, не сильно, думаю, вам мешает.

@@lefj Я не понимаю Вас!Вы о чем?Мне много лет,в течение которых работала с тяжёлой неврологической патологией в обстановке человеческого горя.Поверьте,я знаю эту тему,когда в семье появляется такой ребенок.Финанансово меня не надо поддерживать,но в большинстве случаев такие семьи нуждаются в такой помощи,а матери таких деток остаются одни на руках с больным на ребенком.

What happened to her real mother and father?

Except she isn't a stepmother. This amazing lady isn't married to her father and has decided to take on the full role of being a mother.

She's a true mother. Not stepmother.

Du wirst nicht durch Geburt zur Mutter, sondern durch Annahme der Aufgabe, Mutter zu sein.

@@lala66542 The video said her parents divorced. I think in China, assuming that's where they're from, the father automatically gets custody of the child in a divorce. That's been changed recently though.

hi yes its make me cry also it make me cryworse i ever seen this she is age 18 year old also hermind is like 3 year old but she is beaultful young lady...

@@tiffanebull1944 so who is hyejin's biological mother

Wishing u and ur son all the best❤️

Dank eurer Liebe war er stark und hat dieses Wunder vollbracht. Irgendwann werden eure Seelen wieder glücklich zusammen sein.

@@julesoxana3630 the boy passed

There’s something called “Quality of Life” which in this girl’s case is quite poor.

@@scarlettgallegos5812xactly, in fact i find it quite cruel. they should really consider putting her down (sorry idk how to phrase it nicely) instead of letting her suffer like this. its terrible. she looks like shes in a vegetable stage and she most prob is going to be soon. so so sad they’d give her such poor quality of life simply bc they wanna ‘save’ and ‘take care’ of a child.

Of course we need. You can become the one as well 😊

God bless you too, for taking such great care of your son. We need more people like you guys!

My son is also severely autistic

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME I AM STRUGGLING A LOT FOR FOOD AND MEDICAL HELP PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

I know

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME I AM STRUGGLING A LOT FOR FOOD AND MEDICAL HELP PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@@muthuarasugopal3745 really

@@Akaynat yes can you help me

"Allyah Anderson" I wish Hyejin herself could talk to say what is really on her mind.

Sure, loving fathers could never reach up to them 🙄🙄 Some dumb people think having a vagina makes them better humans 😂

The amount that she whines and cries combined with all her health problems, does suggest that her existence isn't a comfortable one.

This mother seems to spend 24 hours a day lugging this kid around. If she's truly like a baby let her cry.

@@maywalker997 That is what is really sad. It seems that the hospital facilities in that kind of culture is not meant to deal much with permanently handicapped persons.

She is most likely in pain all the time

U don’t know his situation tho he might not even be financially stable to take care of someone with that much care and she wasn’t forced to take her in

@@jesin0005 her story didn't add up. Pay attention. And grandma knows something.

I believe he still has to work to support.

I actually worry that what is presented in front of a camera is not what it actually is without a camera around. The dad did say that he feels more sorry than thankfulness (regarding giving the girl to the adoptive mom and the mom readily taking in the girl) because taking care of the girl is a burden. Not to be unrealistic but that alone says something. The girl cannot talk though she may be trying to. Who knows what she knows or feels?

She isn't her biological mother. She took her from her parents who struggled to care for her.

Rightly said !

I’m very sorry about your sister, I hope you will find peace.

Lord, have mercy!

"zirconium" nothing wrong with saying "adopted"

​@@obscurelyvague adopted sounds harsh apparently lol. Can't hurt any feelings or else ....😓😓

The most W mom of the century

Thanks lol we didn't really need to know about the nursing

why did u say pathetic that just sounds rude.

The only pathetic thing in this video is you and your comment. Extremely rude use of words

Pathetic wtf?

Why would you say pathetic

@@canifartinyourface8777I don’t think English is their first language so they didn’t know what word would be most appropriate

i guarantee he only sees her like once a month. notice he’s no where to be found in the video. everyone but the person who’s actually related to the child is here but him. a deadbeat who’s only “dating” Sunhwa so she can be a nurse.

@@fvnaticbychoice his wife passed away.. clearly he was going through it rough with them together as a team could deal with her no problem but how the heck do u expect to deal with losing the love of your life then your highly special needs daughter .. that seems very hard… u don’t know what the dad does how do u know he doesn’t work? Makes money for her!?

@@fvnaticbychoice he works out of town...he came in at the end of the video. Its not uncommon for people to be away from home in some countries. Some people in china (as far as ive seen) even leave their toddlers for years just so they can send money home. Seeing their house, theyre not really the wealthiest, they cant even replace the cochlear implant. The father takes whatever jobs he can, even if it means out of town and coming home once a month. Moving isnt possible in a densely populated work area, and the price of the housing there are more expensive as well

That helps. If she was adult sized it would be a completely different story

@@sharonhobbs4144 thts completely true 🤷‍♀️

Yo también y de verdad es una bendición ❤❤❤

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😥gran sacrificio. Es el amor que tiene en su corazón.