Comadre don't let yourself go in order to put your husband 1st . Take care of yourself.rogelio can do alot for himself you don't have to do everything for him your not his maid. you have lots of time on your hands. Just find something to keep you busy. Like organize, workout,work Etc.
Yesss. When i first got married I got burned out quick cuz my husband would expect me to do everything. Ahora im trying to put myself first. I try to exersize, get ready, have me time.
Same here , when i first got married I used to do almost everything for my husband 4 years later everything has changed ! I started feeling like I adopted him he didn’t want to do anything for himself then i started getting very sick 🤒 and couldn’t function the same anymore but he still expected me to take care of him! That’s when I started to realize I had to take care of myself so now 4 years later he’s lucky if I pack Lucy for him 🤣
Y eso que no vive en el rancho en Sinaloa. Ya vieron todo lo que hace su suegra lava,plancha,ordeña,hace queso etc, sinceramente la comadre no podría con eso. Y también ella tiene muy chiqueado a Rogelio y eso no debería ser porque el día de mañana que Rogelio ya no quiera estar con ella se muere Lulú. Si que le dio duro el agua de bóxer a la comadre la tiene bien domada
The señora life is real comadre.. bienvenida! lol pero in all honesty I hate getting up early to do lonche pero me pongo a pensar y digo mi esposo se levanta temprano pa chingarle todo el día so he deserves a warm breakfast and new warm lunch ❤️
I thought I was the only one that felt like January took forever. January was such a weird month but let’s leave all that in the past and is our time to shine 😌😌
Sameeee I thought I was the only one 🥲it’s crazy that a lot of people felt that felt the same.. but it’s February and we gotta get back to the grind and make this our year!💓💓
This I mean in the best way possible... it also seems like Rogelio is your whole life, like everything revolves around him. Do you have friends? It would be good and healthy for you to have friends... not necessarily your RU-vidr friends, maybe high school friends etc... Maybe, the gym, with some company (friends)... I see you also have your family, but what I mean is out of your household! Nose, think about it.... take care....
Totally agree. She seems que depende mucho de él para su estabilidad. Eso no es bueno. Aunque ames a alguien you don't put him first what if that or the other happens? You will fall apart. Y no estoy diciendo esto just because is part of a general therapy que tuve tambien. :(
@Mia Normalmente eso pasa. Las personas que dependen de su estabilidad de otra persona no lo veran y se sentiran atacadas o juzgadas. A veces solo es una observacion de personas que ya pasaron por eso o que estan fuera (terceros) y se atreven a opinar. No para juzgar sino para ayudar. Pero si recuerdo que una vez alguien le dijo algo y comento que nadie los conocia como para darles ese tipo de consejos. Y que ellos eran felices y fin. Aqui el problema que veo es que la depresion es muy frecuente es su hogar. No puedo apuntar cuantos videos de la comadre he visto sobre este mismo tema. Y es que como inicio de recuperacion siempre el terapista te dice "no puedes amar a alguien de verdad sin amarte a ti primero". Asi que en lugar de dejarlo pasar yo buscaria ayuda para de una vez por todas lidiar con el problemaque en su familia biene y se va. Todo sera mas saludable. Y no lo digo por ofensa sino porque a veces es facil reconocer esas "red flags" en las personas que se exponen si pasaste por un proceso.
@@na-ye-li1047 , it usually happens 3 to 4 times a year. It usually means that that the planet is moving in the opposite direction to earth. And it's said when this happens; it has you feeling unfocused as anxious and even in dispersed energy. For that reason, you shouldn't make important decisions within this time 😊
Oh wow! I been feeling off as well but I just thought it was just me!! Lol. But now I see alot of ppl has been feeling down lately since I seen a few RU-vidrs talking about the same thing! Makes sense!
When u feel like that get up and get ready because u will get depressed and it will be hard to get over it drink manzanilla tea and when u feel like that don't drink alot of coffee glad u did what u did be positive girly 🙏💛🙏
That is so true. I’ve been working from home since March and was completely depressed. It’s has actually helped a lot that I removed coffee completely and yea it is. Highly recommended by my PCP.
I started feeling the same ... and what helped me is that I started going to the gym... it not only gives me something to do but also i get so much energy from working out
It’s true girl. like i would sleep all day and like it would just make me even more tired and unmotivated. now I always make myself wake up early so I can be productive all day.😅 stay motivated girl!!💓💓
am happy for you comadre , I know sometimes everyone has rough days & am happy you made this video because it motivated me to get up & get back to my routine & feel better 🤍
Same!!! I felt OLD idk so weird lol I almost went blonde again too!! But before I did I retouched my black hair again after 2 years lol .. I feel my prettiest when I have black hair too. I feel like black hair just suits me more
I recommend to pray when you feel like that’s and every morning do a gratitude journal every morning have a routine and do something kind for someone daily 🙏😇😍🥰 Dios l bendiga comadre
Ya vez comadre. We knew you had something q no era normal como salias en your other videos y tú dijiste q no. We can tell. Te conosemos !! Pero im happy your back !! 💚💚
Hay comadre I feel like Most of us can relate that January was just a rough month for all of us. Pero inspiras a que no se deje uno caer y tener esa motivación to look and feel good 😌 love you so much comadre que bueno que ya Estes mejor ❤️
Self care and your mental health is very important. It doesn’t just affect you but slowly starts affecting the people around you. Cuídate and always remember you come first so that you can live a happy healthy life.
Thanks for this reminders! I’m a stay at home mom for 9 years now and I’ve been feeling like blah too. Some days I just don’t feel like getting out of bed to do the same thing over again. Cook, clean, homeschool my daughter, cook clean 😏. Hate this funk!
I can relate I’m a stay at home mom , and I get like that some days , I have to get up and just even just go to the dollar store just to feel like I’m doing something . Stay positive we are in this together
I’m honestly so proud of you comadre. Sometimes people don’t really understand how hard it is to get out of a funk. But I’m happy you got passed it. 🙏🏼💛
U couldn't said it any better...I have 2 boys that are in school and on top of that I have to do everything cook, clean ,washing ,doing homework with my boys..and ppl still talk that's it's easy...
I understand you 1000000% comadre!!! I’ve been a stay at home mom for a year and I’m finally going back to work & I am soooo excited cause I felt so depressed at home. I love being with my daughter every day but I also miss having that free time at work for myself and not only being home all day. I hope you feel better don’t let yourself feel down 💕 Sending you all the positive vibes!!!! 🙏🏻✨
I really needed this video Comadre you’re not the only one!!!!!!!!! Self care is so important!!! More than we realized!!!! I hope you know how much lives you saved by sharing this video!!!!!!!
Rogelio was all mad at the alarm 😂😂 I love when you upload long videos! 😍 I’m so happy you are feeling much better comadre I feel like that sometimes too but honestly talking to God helps a lot! 🤍 (small RU-vidr)
I get you girl I felt like that these past months. I am unemployed and my husband is the only one working. I was just counting the hours for him to get home. It is just me and my baby when he is working and on top of that I don't know how to drive so I wasn't able and still not able to distract myself only when my parents come visit. But now that I started school is a little different. I have more stuff to do, but I know how you feel. It's not sadness or depression. but its like an empty space in yourself that you don't know what it is or it can be pre depression.
I always wake up early to do my husbands lunch so he can have it fresh! I personally hate eating comida recalentada. He doesn’t mind it pero como a mi no se gusta me levanto temprano y lo ago 🤣 He’s such a hard working man y es lo menos que se merece! ☺️🙏
Comadre last week estaba depressed, sad, todo un poco Friday-Sunday.... no sabía porq.... Yo siempre disimulo cuando estoy triste. Estaba vez everyone se dio cuenta... en las noches lloraba.... No quería my bf next to me pero a la misma vez si para q me abrazara weird feeling. No quería hacer nada . I have to 2 kids. Yo trataba no estar de mal humor. I’m glad you doing better comadre 💜
I totally understand that feeling 😞there where times I felt so worthless just being home and the routine was killing me like I was slowly loosing myself. So I applied at Target 🎯 lol a place that’s very therapeutic for me 😂I work partime only some days full time but it has helped soooo much it’s crazy. Makes me feel like I accomplished something and it feels nice to make some money jajaja and it was so crazy how attached o was to my house I literally cried for a whole week because I had to leave my safe place and my kids but I knew it was for my own good like I need it this and i actually love working the people at work love me they are the best coworkers ever 😂my husband finds it hilarious and my kids are happy for me no more crying at my house for no reason no more fear. To all the stay at home people please don’t forget to pamper yourself YOU ARE WORTHY YOU ARE ENOUGH YOU ARE VALUABLE.
Thank you for showing us when you are at your highest and talking to us when you are feeling low, because we are human and go through things, but comadre you already look like you are glowing in this video and keep your head up! ❤️ manifesting you continue to be healthy and glowing! Love you 🥺
Comadre I have felt like that in the past it's not a nice feeling it can take over you and your life...levantate every morning first dandole gracias a Dios por las Bendisiones que te ha dado....take life in your hands and control it don't let your feelings take over you y para delante Comadre hechale ganas and keep moving forward nada para tras y para delante...reading and writing helps a lot...Blessings Comadre..❤️
Girl yes! January was definitely a hard month to get through, glad to know I wasn’t the only one! Glad you’re doing better comadre and taking care of yourself 😘
🤗You are so SPECIAL! That's great that you recognized how you were feeling and wanted to make a change. YOU are not alone...It happens to EVERYONE! I always ask GOD to help me if I go there and HE never fails!✝️ GOD IS GOOD! A journal is AWESOME!👍 Take a nice walk! Thank you for your honesty and transparency! So sweet!😉Don't forget you are a blessing to many!🌹🕊🌹 Your hair looked so cute in the socks...then wha-la it was curly!🙊 Very pretty!☺♥️
I had my hair blonde too and went black. I don’t regret it at all especially now that my hair got super long. I got tired of the blonde too. Comadre you would look beautiful in dark hair. 🤩
Te entiendo comadre yo igual me levanto temprano y ago su lonche fresco y a mis 2 niños igual para su escuela y TODO LOS DIAS ES LO MISMO pero GRACIAS A DIOS ESTAMOS CON VIDA. Saludos al compadre ✌
I feel you girl. I work from home and I'm supposed to be traveling (for work), but you know, germs 🙄. I was so uninspired the last few months of last year too so I finally made an executive decision (😜) and moved to a bigger and much nicer place 🤩 I also set up my office and my sewing space and I couldn't be happier to start with my favorite hobby again 🥰 Hope you find your motivation 😘 Keep pushing yourself every day! 🙌❤
Omg comadre it’s so good seeing you happy and feeling better! It’s a new month and let’s make it better than the last!! You look good and you’re glowing!✨ We love you comadre!!❤️
I wash my hair 2 times a week, and dry shampoo is my bestfriend ! It really helps especially since I have such oily hair. I definitely recommend that comadre if you don’t already use it !
At least I wasnt the only one, honestly I been feelin asi where I wanna sleep more y da mucha hueva to get up 😭😭 Bt yes, fhis month is our month comadre 💗 You shld do more vlogs like this, truly love watchin 💕 Much love to you comadree 💖💖
Yess comadre I been in a funk my self . To the point I made a appointment with a therapist and was diagnosed with depression. But I won’t let it defeat me and I will over come this. I also started a journal feb 1 and it helps SOoO much!!! Thank you for sharing comadre and been realistic. We all have bumps on the road.
Lol I did it at the beginning then I like ah hell naw bahahah so I just do it a day before and set the coffee pot to start 30 min before he leaves for work! 😅😅
@@MaribelMartinez-db3gl lmaoooo yess I can relate to this so much plus when you have babies you hardly sleep at night! So imagine waking up early and cooking a whole meal nawwww lol
I’m so glad you posted this. January was such a crazy vibe. I thought I was the only one ! 😭 Gracias comadre por compartir con nosotros tu verdad 🙌🏽✨❤️
Try chocolate brown comadre, or even a semi permanent black hair dye, test it out first because guuuuurl I’ve had black all my life and I’ve tried going lighter and my hair gets so damaged 😞 so i just stick to my black hair. Don’t get me wrong I love my black hair but change is nice at times 😊
Aw it’s okay girl we all go through days like these but, we can’t stay in the funk como tu dices lol Siempre tener Fe en DIOS que todo va estar bien🙏🏼 We have to get up and do what makes us happy☺️
So happy you uploaded! You are my motivation your such a caring and loving person. I need more recipes you make. Lol. I recently got juntada and started having to make lonches. Love you lulu! ♥️
Try to do a lunch date with friends do a spa day or try to exercise not so much to lose weight but to help with depression. Take care of your self and yes we all can get like that it’s not just you. Thanks for everything you do🥰
25:19 was the perfect quote for what you’re feeling, no estas sola ni eres la única que se siente así, sending you the biggest hug from a new comadre viewer 💕
Solo piensa que tienes salud, en toda esa gente que ha perdido familiares, amigos en esta pandemia que no han podido ver a su familia por mucho tiempo , piensa también es aquellas personas que están enfermas sin alguna esperanza y están luchando por salir adelante , tu estas bendecida con tu familia cerca de ti, con todos unidos y sanos . Esa es la real y verdadera motivación que debes de tener .
Mirar este video me identifico mucho, con todo esto de la cuarentena las clases solo son en línea, ya no es como que tengo una rutina, y después quede embarazada y me sentía demasiado mal y el viernes 29 de enero me dieron una noticia muy mala, que mi bebe dejo de latir su corazón así que me hicieron un legrado, pero desde semanas atrás dejé de cuidar de mi, de mi cabello, estaba sin ánimos todo el tiempo, me sentía fatal, ahora me estoy recuperando de esa pérdida, y mirando tu video hace que me den ánimos de cuidar mas de mi, i love you comadre ❣️
I love you Comadre. You were not alone I feel like January always feels like forever and sometimes we need to pause and recharge ourselves back up. Stay positive, love yourself and even 5 minutes of meditation daily gives you hope to start fresh daily. 💖💖💖
Omg yes comadre 42 minutes long video 😍 and yes there some times that your not yourself that happens to me all the time y mas me with two little boys 😱 driving me crazy 🤪but I got to love them 😄💞
That’s what I love about you Comadre que eres bien transparente y no pretendes q siempre estas bien. I been feeling same way Comadre no lie but you motive me 💖💖💖
Good day, it's ok to feel glumy, feeling down. It's life, drink lots of water, sleep. Take time for yourself when you can. I love how you are such a wife to Rogelio, cook him his lunch, how many of us women do that? Thanks for information on the products, for hair, face. Much love to all,
Hechele Sal al hielo para mantener el hielo mas frio y las bedidas tambien. Dura mas tiempo para desconjolarse el hielo. Put salt over your ice to make the drinks colder and the ice last longer. Love your videos!
I felt like that for a good few months, which sucked :/ but I started working out and going on walks & I even took a break from social media, and I think all that helped me and motivated me everyday. Just bc sometimes I would just be in bed crying all day. And although sometimes I have those sad days, I’m glad is not as bad as before. Basically I know what u mean! & it’s the worst! But like you said you WILL conquer February :) sending you much love 🤍
I can totally relate to the early alarm ⏰... and not wanting to get up. My classes start at 7am, so we need to get ready early. I'd get a lot of stuff ready the night before=sleep in more~30mns in the morning. Rogelio chiqueado and fortunate. Not all couples are fortunate to be able to have their coffee and lunch made by their partners, so enjoy it 😊... you're a good wife Luluxx. Let me continue watching this video 📹
Why don’t you spray pain the rack gold or rose gold so it could match a little better with your office. I hate when everything looks good and there’s one thing that kills it 😭(on my room)
