A Day in the Life: Navigating autism into adulthood

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‘A Day in the Life:’ Navigating autism into adulthood by Phil Martin
Phil was diagnosed with Asperger’s, school phobia, and ADHD as a teenager. Today he currently works as an Emergency Dispatcher and photographer. For more information on Phil, go to philmartinjr.com/
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@G-host0069 2 года назад

Diagnosed at 34, after failed relationships, failed careers, feeling like a failure my whole life. Being seen as different, weird and funny and then choosing to accept myself and not fit in was the best decision I ever made. I was a triangle trying to fit into a square hole 🕳

@johnnyalexis459 2 года назад

I'm so grateful to Doctor Isibor Alternative Herbal supplement which has totally improve my Autistic son with speech delay, these supplement works very well in just 3 weeks .

@mistermister0vich534 2 года назад

A triangle can still fit through square hole tho

@G-host0069 2 года назад

@@mistermister0vich534 now you tell me, have you measured the dimensions of these particular squares and triangles?

@liviwaslost Год назад

@@mistermister0vich534 they have to have the right measurements to fit.

@caseym2888 Год назад

So how do you get by and make a living now??

@AndyFeliciotti 6 лет назад

Phil is one of the kindest people I know! Happy I got to film his story

@LUCIFER.LUX666 5 лет назад

Thanks! 😎🕯️💯

@drasweet1 2 года назад

Amazing, thank you for this story and life experiences

@juniormako6184 Год назад

I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.

@event__horizon Год назад

That's good that you can see kindness in an autistic person, thanks. Too many people say we are bad people because of how we interact differently and sometimes have fits and panic attacks. Oh well.

@SanctifiedLady Год назад

How old is he?

@justinadventures3837 3 года назад

I'm 27 and never considered myself autistic, have struggled everyday of my life to be around people and engage with people, I learned quick how to fake it but never felt I fit in anywhere. I always assumed I was just different and everyone was, it got so bad I started abusing drugs, became addicted and just couldn't handle life anymore.i have found great coping mechanisms but to relize I am not alone and this is a thing others experience has forever changed my life.

@sarahluna4163 3 года назад

Coming from someone who has selective mutism since birth and learning disabilities . (Possibly undiagnosed autism) I relate so much, trying to fitt in and wanting to be normal ..just gets you into more trouble than just accepting yourself. There’s still this empty void and loneliness regardless if you manage to pull it off. I’m glad you were able to find others to relate to and overcome addictions..so we feel less alone.

@everydayvacaytaj 2 года назад

Same here and I'm just realizing this at 38. My parents and other people have always just thought I'm an asshole and call everything my "drama"

@limitedcanada9104 2 года назад

i feel u. im 28.

@BigBishop609 2 года назад

@@sarahluna4163 I also have selective mustism at 34

@MrsCooleygang 2 года назад

You are not alone. ❤❤❤

@Jaskal17 Год назад

i am a 25 yo black woman & was just diagnosed recently. i was shocked at how much of a spectrum it really is across all types of genders/ages/races/etc and how it can be similar/different for each person. i dropped out of high school & got my GED in a weekend. i am now in college. academics were never the issue…. it was everything else about school that drove me into meltdowns and ended me in the psych ward multiple times labeled “moody” and given 17 different meds from the age of 6-23 and not once did that ever think to test me for autism… they failed me as they do so many other minorities. glad i understands myself now. glad you do too.

@brharding8888 Год назад

Yeah, You can’t tell someone’s race by the way they speak on the spectrum

@spenny6007 Год назад

@@brharding8888 You missed the point dumb@ss. Shes saying that minorities who have learning disabilities have it harder as they dont think to test for autism and assume its behaviour, to which i can relate to as i have been discriminated against and haven’t had any help when it comes to my autism diagnosis consistently

@Namarrr 7 месяцев назад

Hey, I’m 23 I think I may be on the spectrum but I’m not sure how to get diagnosed. I literally been suffering by myself in this. Nobody in my life has a clue, they know I’m different but they just think I’m weird and are very judgmental. I have never told anybody about my internal struggles and it’s super hard. How did you learn to cope?

@Andy-kj3fp 7 месяцев назад

@@NamarrrI hope you find the right support team to help you understand it better

@Namarrr 7 месяцев назад

@@Andy-kj3fp thank you 🙏🏿 It’s so hard but I’m finding a way to cope, this is how I’ve been handling it my whole life so I’m used to it. I just don’t know where or who to go to about this. I’ve tried to seek help from people online but nobody replies and I understand people don’t have to help so I’m just tryna figure it out.

@FrescoStevens 3 года назад

I didn’t even finish school man it was too difficult, I couldn’t even walk past large classrooms, the lunchroom, I would skip school everyday just like you man.. except I never went back or finished I kinda just dropped out & stopped going & without a mother or father I just kinda did my own thing at my aunt Gloria’s house & started making beats.. luckily I started making good money with my beats.. I don’t date or leave the house I just work on my beats day in & day out💪🏾 hope everybody reading this stays positive out there.

@galacticdollz 3 года назад

Fresco Stevens I hope your doing well too

@lukemoen5156 3 года назад

Man we gotta talk

@SuperBeasto303 3 года назад

I was the same bro, I got my GED last year now idk what to do .... I'm 27 lost as fuck

@andrewjackson414 3 года назад

Sounds like you were a little b with a little d. Hope you're doing good.

@ChromiumSud 2 года назад

Im the same way man hope everything is good my brother 😄

@bradleysims4494 4 года назад

appreciate this phil. i’m currently 17 and in college in the UK, no one seems to understand me and i feel out of place in the world. every day is a struggle and i just wish people could hear what we have to go through and try and be a bit more lenient or inclusive.

@Countcho 3 года назад

It feels like im in my own world and everyone else is in a separate world

@bradleysims4494 3 года назад

KyleTVProductions that’s why there needs to be more awareness, so people stop treating us like outsiders because we have this label attached to us. it doesn’t mean we are invalid just because we are disabled, it just means we need help.

@Dancestar1981 3 года назад

@@bradleysims4494 the neurotypical world makes us more disabled we struggle with some things but excel in others. We should be able to live our lives and follow our passions and not be forced to live other people’s expectations

@bradleysims4494 3 года назад

@@Dancestar1981 completely agree with this.

@dedpoptart 3 года назад

39 yo, diagnosed since childhood. Gotta find your center. Not a day goes by that I'm not from a different planet yet I find a way to communicate and enjoy the local inhabitants.

@morgzlavy5589 3 года назад

Ive been embarrassed to have autism so me even clicking on this video is a massive step for me i have really bad anxiety too so relationships and friendships are very hard to maintain i just keep myself to myself ive tried to take my own life too cos ive felt like im not accepted because of having the comdition im in the uk and i just feel so alone cos no one understands me not even my own family do im 22 years old and i struggle everyday my job is the only thing that keeps me going

@morgzlavy5589 3 года назад

@@enchanteddryad6500 ive been diagnosed as a child the diagnosis was accurate 😂

@aryanraina1076 3 года назад

Something imo would reccommend to do to help process thoughts and feelings is self enquiry - there are vids on yt explaining this, a sage called ramana maharshi explained it well. It's devoting time to questioning the sense of self we define ourselves with. The technique goes like this (how i do it); Be in a comfy position and whenever a thought (the i am-thought) arises, question it. Enquire "To whom are these thoughts occuring to", then ask "who am i?. Challenge thoughts regularly. "I" is who you are, yourself- the observer, and isn't connected to thoughts or sensations because they are temporary. Once you discriminate that you are not thoughts, body; identities we think are the "I- thought" you can better observe your life and actions and won't need to worry/suffer as you're just being yourself no need to be some "thing" or do some "thing", falsely identifying ourselves. I get anxious when i sometimes say something carelessly and offend someone but i try to observe, not react to feeling ,and then act on any problems or situations being stable. I still need to practice this though as i still get anxious, it helps. If i am struggling i don't get angry, i just look at the emotion let it pass, observe - not stressing. Good luck in life.

@andrewjackson414 3 года назад

Was posting this comment a massive step too?

@morgzlavy5589 3 года назад

@@andrewjackson414 yes it was i keep my autism to myself due to peoples reactions being not what i hoped

@andrewjackson414 3 года назад

@@morgzlavy5589 glad to hear it. Baby steps like Bill Murray

@sarahbishop3416 2 года назад

I am worried about the adults with autism that can’t work. From what I been hearing there are tons of them and homeless people with autism. Please cover this.

@juniormako6184 Год назад

@karinavejar912 Год назад

So sad! 😢

@GEMINI_THE_BES89 Год назад

🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯😞😞😞

@frog6054 Год назад

Huh, sometimes I thought I would be homeless because doing work and getting jobs is difficult and seems like it's possible it's going to be a reality 😢

@vitoriaalvesap Год назад

im just 23 years old and i'm so close of being homeless. the bills are acumulating and i live alone, cant pass interviews, my family pretends i dont exist ://

@devinevisionary 2 года назад

I skipped school too on the bus. Felt so weird and isolated . Lunch time was horrible. It was the bright lights for me couldn’t focus in class. I’m just upset because now that I look back I can tell my teachers knew something was wrong, but none of them did anything . It really saddens me how I never got the help and support I needed . I basically suffered through teenage years , never graduated dropped out . Today I still struggle a lot , learning to just be myself and let go . I’m getting better it just took a long dreadful time. I’m glad I found these vids

@LucianaIsBoss Год назад

If you don't already come with an IEP and a diagnosis the teachers don't care

@angelozuniga166 Год назад

@@LucianaIsBoss I hate IEP because instead of helping me they make me feel like I’m a moron who can’t do anything for myself

@UnicornUniverse333 Год назад

Ooof I'm so freaking sorry. I'm 38 and these past decade's filled with teachers, therapists, doctors...what a mindfuck this existence is, we deserved and deserve help and safety

@saramatthews7159 6 месяцев назад

I feel the same way you do young lady. I am a 39 year old black woman and have just realized how my parents/teachers/other relatives knew something was "off" with me, but never bothered to get me tested. As a result this life has been hell, leading me to contemplate and attempt suicide on multiple occasions. To be honest with you, it's a wonder I've survived this long.

@bridgetdraper5146 2 года назад

I deeply appreciate this man. I have been caring for my Autistic son for 24 years. My son is far more severe than this man. I thank ypu for this insight.

@nikobellic2138 2 года назад

Hi I'm sorry to hear that. I hope your son gets better and be a successful man someday. I'm also autistic and just turned 25. I've been unemployed and isolating myself for about 3 years now due to social anxiety and depression. I used to work at a supermarket and I thought I was doing alright for awhile but then one day I got told by the store manager that I was a huge burden and that everyone thinks I'm useless since I was terrible at communicating with my coworkers, and that hurt me so bad that I was kinda traumatized and have been unemployed since then. Being autistic is like a living hell but I think it's much tougher for the parents that have to take care of us aspies because I know how much my mom has been worried about me and I saw her cry so many times back when I was depressed and skipping high school everyday. I've been trying so hard to turn my life around these past few weeks and although I'm still not confident enough to take action and get a job, I think I'm getting there. I don't know the severity of your sons disability but hopefully everything gets better for him and he becomes independent someday so you can be free and have a happy life. Sorry for rambling and my poor English, I've been learning it since I quit my job but it's still not good lol I'm wishing you both the best!

@juniormako6184 Год назад

@sheilamoore9195 3 года назад

I work with people who have disability, I started off assisting with young children then later adults. A young man asked me how was he different than I. I asked him what was his disability? He said you have to remind me of things a lot. I told him you have to remind me of things a lot to. He smiled! I explained to him, not his difference but our difference is we learn things differently than others, but that's ok.

@kellymolenaar530 3 года назад

Love this!

@juniormako6184 Год назад

@autumn.breann 2 года назад

I am 23 years old and I was diagnosed with Autism at age 3. To this day, I am still struggling as an adult with this disability and I get frustrated because I have the hardest time making friends, keep eye contact, and get anxiety socializing with many people. I had to mask my symptoms, especially someone who is currently working at Disney mainly because no one will understand my disability. I am still having a hard time maintaining conversations, keeping eye contact, understanding sarcasms and tones, become sensitive to loud noises, difficulty regulating my emotions, and maintaining friends. It’s a blessing overall to have this disability and I will share my story to those struggling.

@IndigoChina 2 года назад

Do you think an early diagnosis made a difference to you in comparison to a late diagnosis? I made a video on this topic ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ELINTZkYsvk.html would love to hear what you think!

@liviwaslost Год назад

I was diagnose with autism and ADHD when I was 4 and it helped me a lot.

@chrisbab6553 Год назад

In what being diagnosticed with autism help it? I would be ashamed, all about fking genetics and the way you are born. Self improvement is a scam, you're gonna do it for f nothing, no results.

@doyoudigital Год назад

It'll get better

@dusyantraghav7805 9 месяцев назад

Please is there any way I can reach out to you?

@thenobleone-3384 3 года назад

Social Anxiety was a struggle when I was young. I do feel like over the yrs I've improved

@nightuniverse8314 3 года назад

Sameeeee

@david.a.vasquez8079 2 года назад

same

@nerimanuzuner8287 2 года назад

Great to hear it improves

@samanthajohnson6554 2 года назад

What improvements have you noticed?

@NateDumbout 2 года назад

That’s amazing

@pirhannayt6423 Год назад

As someone who has ADHD autism and dyslexia, nothing is impossible just don't stop believing in yourself I'm 19 I used to work as a personal trainer for about a year but didn't really like it, so I left and tried film I'm currently 4 months into my diploma and plan on continuing into my bachelor's. Everything you think you can't do is just you lying to yourself don't give up.

@ShadowSpectorHD 7 месяцев назад

Wow you listed all the disorders that I have

@anthonygreenfield123 Год назад

Being properly socialised at a young age is crucial.

@tyraodewale4920 Год назад

@Miloh this is a good question. A lot of our growth and development happens as adolescents. Hoping to find a case study on this.

@LifeisaBeautifulting 9 месяцев назад

What's your point? People are born with autism, has very little to do with socialization

@oliversoderberg299 4 месяца назад

I was and it made things like 110% worse for me because I am a master at masking being "normal" but it just ostracizes me more in the end.

@DevelopmentRobco 2 года назад

What a genuinely great and normal guy. Would never guess as with many he had autism. Some people just can't fit into this strange high paced society that developed so fast around us without considering a people first society. Autistic people aren't weird, the modern world is.

@mj6598 2 года назад

I realized this when I nearly died from a drug overdose. Jesus saved my life and I had an encounter with him. He healed my vision and revealed to me how corrupt/fallen this world is. His love has been my only source of peace. Accepting his gift of salvation is the only thing that has brought me true peace/joy in this life. When you become born again, God gives you the Holy Spirit and it makes life SO MUCH easier. He told me that church doesn’t make you a Christian, but you have to encounter him for yourself. Please consider ❤️

@juniormako6184 Год назад

@Gary-Seven-and-Isis-in-1968 Год назад

@@mj6598 Religion is the opium of the people.

@huckmarchant2226 2 года назад

I was diagnosed with autism when I was 9, I’m 23 now and I still am struggling to figure out my purpose in this world and struggling to find my own self. Growing up as an Asian American in an all white school was difficult as I was one of the only minorities and dealt with verbal racism/bullying that has lead to trauma and depression and anxiety in my early 20s. I would get upset or annoyed when a kid would say something racist to me and would keep my feelings to myself because I didn’t want to be the snitch kid. I vividly remember telling my parents that I hate my life at age 13 and started seeing a psychiatrist which didn’t really do much for me at such a young age. My sister died in a car crash in 2018 and nothing has ever been the same, she was only 16. I get flashblacks often of her funeral and everyone that showed up, it was the saddest day of my life. I didn’t really realize that I had been dealing with depression and anxiety my whole life, and now it’s hitting me like a freight train. Most days I have no motivation and I rarely want to socialize with my friends or do any activities. I’ve been on and off working part-time jobs these last few years and haven’t been able to stick with a job that I feel comfortable with. I feel awkward at times in social situation which definitely made some of the jobs I was working at harder where you have to interact with customers most of the time as well as relationships with co-workers. In 2020 I had a lot of suicidal thoughts and questioned whether I wanted to be alive. I started smoking marijuana a couple years ago and it has helped with my depression and anxiety to a certain extent. Now I want to try to quit and ease off of smoking because I sometimes I get more anxious from being high. I feel like there is a hole inside me that I can’t patch up. My 14 year old cousin recently tried to commit suicide because of her depression partly stemmed to my sisters death. I’ve had so much shit going on in my mind along with trying to figure out adulthood and getting a job/being independent. I’m starting to understand my autism more and am feeling a little better that I know there are other people in similar situations. I just hope I can find my path in life and just be more happy because right now I can’t find my happiness.

@shaunsamazingcontent9797 2 года назад

You’re really strong man

@shininglight68 7 месяцев назад

Hi You are doing the best you can 👏🏼 Try meditation and walks in nature. 💚

@ABade321 7 месяцев назад

Hang in there. Try to find a good therapist that gets you (not all therapists are good so if you don’t feel comfortable find a new one) and who can help you find strategies to cope and thrive that work for you. I’m sending positive vibes your way ❤

@teomesay7024 3 года назад

I wish they talked about this in school. High school was like hell for me especially since I went to three different schools. I had such anxiety about getting on the school bus I would either walk or not go at all. I did anything I could to avoid the cafeteria. I’m happy that there is more awareness for the younger kids so they don’t suffer as much as people like myself. I didn’t even really know what is was until 2018 my roommate said he had it and my curiosity made me Google it.

@frost1183 Год назад

I feel love for this man. Such a genuine good guy. He loves his son so much and I know he’s a great father.

@blankblank5524 3 года назад

Thanks so much,Phil.My son is 18, finished high school last year and was diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome when he was 9.He had bad depression and anxiety at 12, so we homeschooled him(distance education.)He had non-epileptic seizures at 16 due to stress and now has an autoimmune spinal condition.He has had years of therapy, still takes his antidepressant and is involved with a Social Group for young men on the spectrum.He loves it!He is working towards getting his driver’s license but it has been a long, hard road to get him to this point.We are very proud of him and very proud of you⭐️

@seanwollin1413 2 года назад

brought me to tears/chills. i feel i relate to your story immensely. I appreciate you brother.

@michellet71 6 лет назад

Thank you for sharing your story. My daughter was diagnosed at 11. We thought that was late, but after hearing your story it helps me to see how it can be so different for different people. Best wishes!

@Dancestar1981 3 года назад

I was diagnosed at 23 now 39 female Aspie

@nicolecheyn1337 3 года назад

@@Dancestar1981 have you heard of Dr alao matiluko a great herbalist dr...

@someperson4281 3 года назад

@@nicolecheyn1337 what in the actual fuck

@carolinepercy1216 2 года назад

@@someperson4281 ✌

@juniormako6184 Год назад

@hd_playerr9818 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing this video, i have high functioning autism and i have gotten worse since lockdown happened. I just started college and listening to this helped me a lot. Knowing someone has the same similarities as me

@LoisBaird Год назад

Thank you so much phil! I haven't heard someone describe what felt like my experience of school before. It was confusing for me and is so relieving to hear you give words to something I struggled with

@johannymanning3176 2 года назад

What a beautiful story. So happy you got help, and support. What a great dad you will continue to be!

@Chris-jo9sv Год назад

I'm 34 years old and I have always shown the signs of autism but haven't realized what it was until recently when my daughter was diagnosed with autism. I haven't been diagnosed but I'm trying to work up the courage to do so if my anxiety would let me. I've always had struggles with social situations, keeping my attention, anxiety, food anxiety, sensory problems both touching and hearing, how to handle my feelings which i think contributed to my IBS. I, too, suffered in school but managed to get by. It helps knowing what it could be and it helps that my daughter gets the help she needs so she doesn't suffer like I did. I have three daughters and two are twins who are almost 2. One of them is showing the early signs of autism and is already getting early intervention therapy. My wife is also going to college to be a behavior analyst and is currently a RBT who has been encouraging me to get tested so I can be diagnosed. Hearing this story helps me knowing I'm not alone because I've dealt with depression and thinking something was wrong with me.

@Bull427 Год назад

Other than that are you daughters healthy and happy?

@Chris-jo9sv Год назад

@@Bull427 yeah they are happy especially since we put my oldest in head start. My twins will be two in December and we're trying to get them in.

@Bull427 Год назад

@@Chris-jo9sv thank God I'm happy to know that

@baldemarsanchez2851 Год назад

Same here bro I’m scared to death and fear for my sons future I broke down twice today. It all makes sense now, when my wife’s family comes over I get overwhelmed with sound and interaction and have to hide in our room where it’s dark and quiet.

@Beastcustomhotwheels Год назад

GREAT testimony bro! Our family just discovered our 17 yr old has Autism and after I read about it my Jaw hit the floor as it sounded like my struggles. I took the self tests and I scored high on every test and I'm 50 yrs old. Wow imagine learning you thought all your struggles and pain over 50 yrs. Wasn't just caused by trauma, abandonment, drug use and imprisonment. Ya time to share my story...

@Realifesaiyan1 2 года назад

I’m not diagnosed, but I can relate to some of your experiences man. I dropped out because of my mental health and failing grades. I felt stupid, and I didn’t know what was wrong with me. I’ve learned to interact with people In a way after school which took years of adaptation. I’ve always seen social interactions as a learned behavior that I’ve gotten better with through repetition, I’ve seen this analytically which helped me create friendships after school. I adapt to each person and what I can read from them. I struggled with basic tasks growing up and never fit in. When my girl friend gives me an emotional response, I don’t recognize the emotion at times because I analyze the information it in a different way. I’m always learning. I’ve always excelled in arts and athletics and I get easily obsessed with things. Obsessed to the point it harms my health. I’ve come so far and I’ve finally found balance in my life. The journey is a bit different for every person, but we just have to stay positive through it all.

@juniormako6184 Год назад

@frost1183 Год назад

I love that he likes trains. That’s so wholesome and cool he found something he loved. I have things like that too. I don’t know if I have autism or not but I have adhd really bad and alooot of symptoms of autism. I always found comfort in my obsessions. One of those is horror and mysteries I get so into strange mysteries and it realm helps me when life is hard.

@amberriley7633 3 года назад

Thank you so much for sharing Phil, this is so insightful ♥️

@autismalamode 6 лет назад

Love your photography. Thank you for sharing your story.

@Gary-Seven-and-Isis-in-1968 2 года назад

Such a heart warming story, I'm so happy that things in life have worked out so well for him and his young family.

@juniormako6184 Год назад

@OtakuDYT Год назад

Thanks so much for this, interesting to see what others have been through, how they coped and what they learnt.

@vixikie Год назад

I am 27 years old and dropped out of school when I was 19 or something. It was not until I turned 25 I felt I was ready to seek help and now I am doing an internship two days a week, it is kind of like workplace training or something... It is a huge improvement and I feel proud of myself since I have just been at home since leaving school and been feeling down and anxious. I even travel by the bus to the internship which I have not done for 8 years or something since leaving school. I have always hate talking to people and struggled with anxiety but the internship is in a warehouse so you are around people but that is just good I guess even if I don't like talking to customers very much.

@youareenough94 Год назад

I've never been diagnosed, but my daughter has. In her, I see myself and I am so glad she will have someone who understands the weird looks and can help her see that she is wonderful as she is and doesn't have to hide behind a mask all her life.

@theumbrellacorporation1523 2 года назад

I was diagnosed with Autism at a very young age and my mother has been very supportive about it. She has helped me through a lot of very difficult times. Problems in my life include, being ridiculed and having divorced parents. Now my problems have been solved but they left a permanent scar in my heart. Even if I could choose, I still wish to be autistic. I am proud of my autism.

@JustinGarfield1 2 года назад

I graduated in a four year degree and really honestly struggled with jobs after college. The longest jobs I had was one at Tiffany and Company about ten years. That worked for me because I was so close to work, I could walk to it. I found what was making me suicidal for many years. Loud sounds etc you name it. I always got overstimulated and people looking at me like I was weird. I felt like a weirdo because I would shake and move my hands and jump. Got diagnosed and it helped me know, however I am still trying to find the job that works for me. Unfortunately if massage therapy school won't work, I am on my last stance. Which is security or janitorial work. Being a tall dark guy that looks masculine, people sort of roll their eyes if I tell them I am autistic. Anyway, thanks for sharing your story. Peace.

@juniormako6184 Год назад

@tamerajefferson7248 Год назад

Hello

@JustinGarfield1 Год назад

@@tamerajefferson7248 hi

@showerasmr5764 8 месяцев назад

Same here my man

@TheVillainsProjects 2 года назад

I wish you and yours the best Phil.

@neomiroberts6252 10 месяцев назад

My 2 year old got autism diagnosis she’s non verbal and watching this make me hopeful because I believe she’s going to be great person

@Epic-so3ek 8 месяцев назад

I have autism and all I can say is don't give into fear mongering (if you want advice, this is what I wish I could've said to my parents). They're just trying to sell you something. Most people with autism end up high functioning. Some end up geniuses like Alan Turing. Either way I don't think it causes any problems with empathy that you wouldn't find in someone in an average family. Many don't even have significant problems with empathy. Also I didn't learn to speak till like 3-4 and now no one can get me to shut up lol ;).

@schenkkohain 8 месяцев назад

Don’t sweat it. She is still very young.

@0ctoCraft 2 месяца назад

@@schenkkohain what do you mean ''don't sweat it''?

@schenkkohain 2 месяца назад

⁠@@0ctoCraft2 is young. A diagnosis can be made and should to get services started, but my kid was non verbal for a bit and then a few years later broke away from the poor diagnosis and is moving along in elementary school. Some struggles with speech, but sharp as a knife. I’m saying don’t fret and freak out about it. Just give it time. 2 is too young to start stressing.

@0ctoCraft 2 месяца назад

@@schenkkohain ok

@LittleRedRobyn Год назад

I have autism too and wow this example of riding the metro bus the whole time you're supposed to be in school... so relatable😅

@DASHI61 3 месяца назад

This was beautiful and was definitely needed for me today, it helped me feel a lot better about myself. I love and greatly appreciate the work Phil has done for the autism community and I wish him all the love and happiness he can possibly get.

@SanctifiedLady Год назад

Amazing well centered high functioning human being. ❤

@epic_life 3 года назад

You are a beautiful human. Thank you for sharing

@Katie-eb2nx Год назад

i would skip school for days to weeks at a time in high-school due to how severe my anxiety was when I would have to be around others and have to interact and from being bullied . I have a hard time as well going into public settings such as grocery stores /restaraunts etc. Because of how overwhelmed I get. I do feel people tend to believe all people just fit one category or stereotype but don't look at the bigger picture and realize it is a spectrum and every person is different

@RH-ww6tb 6 лет назад

Thank you for sharing. Wonderful story.

@mimusicaliz Год назад

My son was just diagnosed He has been struggling a lot. Your story touched my heart! It gives me hope for a successful future 😊

@libbahickssophia1613 Год назад

My 3 years old son was diagnosed with Mild Autism and had delay in growth and speech too 😢 I found Doctor isibor on youtube someone recommended his alternative Herbal healing which I tried and cured my son completely and improve his speech 💬😊

@DrDoom-wo8hb Год назад

I was recently diagnosed as being on the autism spectrum (high functioning autistic) a few weeks ago, and I am so conflicted. On the one hand I feel as if the fog has been lifted and I no longer need to beat myself up over my failures to maintain long-term employment (I worked in the wrong fields). On the other hand, given my struggles to maintain a relationship with someone, as well as debilitating anxiety, it's like I'm witnessing my own slow and painful death. Like there's no possibility that I can have a regular, fulfilling life at such a late age for diagnosis (mid-40s). This has led to a deep depression. I feel robbed of a life of clarity and fulfillment. I also feel resentment towards "mental health" professionals for ignoring my self-professed concerns dating back roughly a decade, while trying to pump me with anti-depressants and telling me it was just depression and anxiety disorders. The mental health community really doesn't GAF about Black patients/communities, but I digress. Furthermore, I'm starting to feel a palpable anger towards my parents for not seeing or giving a damn about my issues during childhood enough to seek help. I just feel like my life has been such a fucking lie, and now I want to live completely, freely, and unapologetically.

@MissSunshineindoors 2 года назад

Understanding people's emotions and facial/ body language cues is the part which I struggle with the most. I am very anxious and awkward and it upsets me when someone makes it overtly clear that they are angry with me because I don't recognise it leading up to that point. It comes as a shock out of nowhere for me as I don't expect people to treat me this way. Through when I reflect on their words and expressions before the direct outburst I see it and I feel very stupid for not picking up on this and it's this inability to read people which upsets me more than being yelled at

@samburns8856 6 месяцев назад

Look into The Arrowsmith School . The Non -Verbal Thinking really works, just take patience and time******

@kpayne507 Год назад

Thank you Phil. You have given me hope for my 25 yo son who's on the spectrum. Like you, he's on the higher end, works a full-time job, but struggles with establishing relationships. I hope someday he gets married and start a family. You have given me hope ❤

@paulfincher506 2 года назад

Hi Phil, Thank you for sharing your story. Best wishes.

@sarinalight7422 2 года назад

So Cool! I’m glad you were able to make your Dreams come True! I realize & I’m sorry to hear what you went through prior. Unfortunately I can relate as a Female diagnosed 14 yrs ago. Condolence in regards to your Mothers passing. Unfortunately I can relate to that as Well🙏🏼 Positive Vibes on Your Journey on this Planet. You Got This!

@NinaTorr7 Год назад

I am 23, i wasn't able to connect with anyone since high school, had a few temporary friends but nothing that lasted. I couldn't concentrate in school, would skip all the time, have panic attacks, i dropped out.. no other educational centers, jobs worked out.. here i am alone.. with no prospects, no money to seek therapy.. i am not even sure it's autism or adhd or what.. i just always thought it must be depression.. I don't know. But it's hard to live in a society that wasn't made for you

@tomohawkcloud Год назад

Did you dropout of highschool or college?

@NinaTorr7 Год назад

@@tomohawkcloud both. there are profession centered colleges that accept you without full school education where i live

@youngkey3051 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing your story. It’s so sad but it gives us hope….

@henriettaabeyta1457 2 года назад

I was overwhelmed in childhood by all the abuse Autistic people are forced to endure so I understand the difficulty. Even in Jr. high and High School people misunderstood my Autism enough to just tease me in several silent ways, until turning 29 I didn't really have a friend who knew how to help me with my basic issues.

@fefeknox Год назад

Thank you for sharing your story!

@asddfg9689 2 года назад

Dude all the best on your life

@aaronh1668 2 года назад

Thank you very much for sharing this video.

@Leny321 5 месяцев назад

This video means so much to me I feel so understood this is how I feel but I couldn’t put it into words.

@zacwaters9780 Год назад

Wow what an inspiration i have an autistic brother and this has helped me understand him better and help me know what to do to use this to his/our benifit 👍❤

@HarrietShearsmith 6 лет назад

Loved watching this, thanks for the fab video lovely x

@chunky2371 2 года назад

I am 32-year-old autism and I struggle all my life but she at school and I'm happy to hear somebody else like me so it's only me feel better now thank

@owenmarshalek9537 Год назад

I got diagnosed at 7 with high functioning autism. I can relate so well to this dude wow

@beautyw7755 2 года назад

I wonder how it will be for grandson he's just 12 years old. He love cooking shows and he's brilliant. God bless you young man You're very well spoken.

@amyschulmeister6359 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your story! You are awesome! You are very inspiring! I am on the autism spectrum also.

@idontcheckmynotifications7138 4 месяца назад

I'm in my 30s now and was diagnosed with ADHD 2 years ago. Now I'm being tested for autism a couple years later. My story is very similar to this person's. I just didn't have people around me to care back then to get me the help I needed. I struggle so bad everyday from it.

@myurbanbeauty Год назад

Thank you so much for sharing!!!

@user-dr7ok6jn5s 2 года назад

I don't know if I have autism or I'm just severely traumatized by my childhood but I can tell you I'm 25 and still having trouble socializing.

@gregchavez1534 3 года назад

I grew up in Prince George's County, Maryland from 9 years of age and like Phil, I also attended Eleanor Roosevelt High School in Greenbelt (there is indeed a long history of highly credentialed principals and vice-principals of questionable character at this august public school institution). Since then I've spent all but 5 years of my adult life in the area and I've been living and working in DC for the past 14 years. Very much unlike Phil, the possibility of being on the autism spectrum was not put before me until this year, 2020, just before my 47th birthday. I still don't know very much about it or what I should do next, but it somehow means a lot to me that Phil is doing well. Local boy done good, as they used to say. Thanks, Phil. Good luck to you.

@ultrasound914 3 года назад

The Maryland school system is complete ass

@Magda8811 11 месяцев назад

It’s good to know ppl with Asperger’s can live really well lifes, hopefully I’ll get there one day

@sweet_veganmomma4188 2 года назад

Your story gives me hope for the future of minority and female autistics but makes me mourn the loss of my high school years. I wasn’t ever seen. I’m ok now, successful and happily married so no current sadness. Just wanted to vocalize my truth. I’m so happy you were able to get help at such a young age and am grateful to you for openly spreading your message. Seeing a “normal appearing” handsome black man such as yourself talk about your autism experience is so incredibly eye opening to those who truly have no clue what autism is. I hope life now is treating you well and I wish you the best! Thank you again with the utmost respect and sincerity!

@jstyle8711 Год назад

aww he seems like a big sweet heart :)

@juliaevans9521 Год назад

Really enjoyed watching this video - to learn about the school's techniques in helping you. Also the introduction to new foods at a period of time - which I am doing at moment with help of a friend.

@amberriley7633 3 года назад

The school sounds amazing apart from its inability to teach students how to cope in a real world setting

@VariantAEC 3 года назад

Basically describing all schools...

@Rolando_Cueva 2 года назад

@@VariantAEC if only they taught kids how to do taxes, among other useful things.

@LilGeniusesinvestigations 10 месяцев назад

Simple autistic menu planning . Simple autistic app store

@LilGeniusesinvestigations 10 месяцев назад

@@Rolando_Cuevasimple job application do not email this person instead leave me a comment n your not in trouble. Missing kids I warned twitch community about this situation and I'm not on twitch and anyone have mapsters

@Darwaxion 2 года назад

I am 27, I live in Turkey and I haven’t been diagnosed. But I do believe that I have autism because wherever I have been I had very bad, terrible social relationships, even since the elementary school. I have almost always been bullied or alienated. My parents either refused to see and ignored or were not able relate my situation to autism. Now I realize that I might be autistic. I need help to be diagnosed…. Psychiatrists in Turkey do it only for the children… Please help

@charlottemackay9018 Год назад

thank you. im just now understanding im not alone.

@teabelton5139 2 года назад

Thx for sharing your story with me.

@thenobleone-3384 3 года назад

My problems got bad in Middle School I didn't have a lot friends. Had trouble connecting with others. I was socially awkward

@Oulaya96 3 года назад

My 3 year old his got autism, do you think I should take him to special school or main stream school

@amandacoleman4201 2 года назад

Same here!

@lonnieac3 2 года назад

Great listen! I can relate! Continued blessings!

@juniormako6184 Год назад

There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on RU-vid. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions

@schnitzelschnizel9448 Год назад

Thank you!

@Spookyghost16 3 года назад

I have autism myself in the mild stage I was diagnosed with it when I was about 3 and I feel like sometimes it’s a curse as a kid I was more social I had friends but when I started growing up and into middle and high school it became a challenge and the friends I had in elementary we stopped talking and went our separate ways and it was hard growing up was challenge as I got older and older I was more quiet timid and isolated I would always sit alone eating breakfast and lunch middle school and at times in high school getting messed with it was hard making new friends at that time it’s hard for me to maintain a conversation I never told anyone about it or talked about i would always keep it a secret sometimes i wish I never had autism it feels like a disease if there was a cure I would take the cure it’s sometimes a struggle to be living and coping with it i sometimes don’t see myself as autistic I see myself as a human being

@Chimp45 3 года назад

I went through the same thing, had toxic friends and cut them off after we were done with each other, socialable as hell but challenging because wasn’t able to make other friends for a while with bs of rumours about me, but what I’ve found is the more you socialise, the better you’ll get at it (eventually) because I took me till 13 to actually properly get a grasp on emotions, understanding empathy, and reading people, don’t lose hope just try to get yourself out there, if anything you should be proud your inheritance of genius is there it just needs to be brought out, and with telling people make sure it’s a significant other you’ve spent time with and can trust, and with friends who can also be trustworthy

@machuzzme3943 2 года назад

What you doing now? How were you in studies?

@machuzzme3943 2 года назад

My son 16 years ia on the spectrum. He is not emotional attached to us. He is very childish. Watch cartoon now also. He immature behavior with outsiders.. He is not good in studies as well.. Idk what to do

@Chimp45 2 года назад

@@machuzzme3943 for me music has been my thing since so I’ve become a sound engineer, and for my life now, I used all the negative energy I got from other people and invested in myself now I’m in gym with good friends

@Chimp45 2 года назад

@@machuzzme3943 it could be his development, it takes time for kids to mature especially with autism and by cartoons? Like anime? And immature behaviour? What specifically

@sandypierce2956 Год назад

Thank You for sharing

@tamerajefferson7248 Год назад

Wow!!I enjoyed listening to you sharing this insightful personal experience on the spectrum and I have learnt a lot.As for the patience,you are very right.I work at a training centre that cares for persons with autism in Ghana and I can really relate this story.I wish you the best of luck as you continue to share such xperiences to let others know more about autism.Thank you

@LilGeniusesinvestigations 10 месяцев назад

Temera Texas tn

@randydub6868 5 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing

@kyreargrett2345 2 года назад

I’m 24 years old I have made many of surface level friends but I usually keep to my self or ghost people cause I’m scared to reach out cause I’m always assuming they don’t like me I never considered I might be autistic until recently and it’s a very huge step. I have no clue how to hold conversations and have been studying people my hole life really

@yalelop428 2 года назад

Damn hit home especially being black male

@sanchezs7614 2 года назад

Okay people before you self diagnose yourself anything can be a mental health but you have to get a doctor who goes above and beyond to diagnose you and you have to open up as well. I was victimized as a child and this is the reason why i suffer from mental health but thanks to my doctor my mind has been at ease. When i turned 21 i had a break down and the doctor diagnosed me with something else after 1 hour of talking to like wtf.

@earthgirl7861 3 года назад

You are a shining stsr!

@TFordD Месяц назад

First couple seconds of the video I was already relieved, I pray to god that my son is like this

@BrownStain_Silver 4 месяца назад

You blew me away when you said you rode trains for 3 years. I live around DC and there have been many days where I didn't want to get off at my metro stop. I can understand that.

@essierewane8405 2 года назад

Wow this is so amazing. My son is 19, and yes it’s been a struggle and so complicated, but there is hope. It can only get better. With God all things are possible. It’s alright to be different, we just keep managing the situation

@essierewane8405 Год назад

@@juniormako6184 oh, thanks a lot for this I will go and check him out, although my son is verbal. We just need to work on social skills and behaviour

@essierewane8405 Год назад

@@juniormako6184 this account appears fake though……

@juniormako6184 Год назад

@@essierewane8405 how?

@juniormako6184 Год назад

@@essierewane8405 try dr Oyalo herbs and see

@LilGeniusesinvestigations 10 месяцев назад

@@essierewane8405non verbal characters Standupsters for miracle a Lisa or laura or a Dan might be having others picking out my son or Lydia Edith William David Griffin Sr Kent logan covell lemke lemeke Ellis stackhomeles Stackhouse Shoemaker Mills Marsha Mills crystal Wilson Dr Green Dr Isha iris Ringo is near Tyler in la

@markgeddes4411 Год назад

Such a great story thank you for sharing. Very good to hear that two of your pashions like photography and trains ended up to be your job. Myself been told i have autism but need another assessment. I too myself like photography, be my dream to travel the UK or abroad taking pictures of landscapes and seascapes, but having stress and anxiety dealing with the paperwork and the rest of it would be diffecult.

@dojadefend9103 3 года назад

although this company is cancelled i am really glad i watched this bc i can relate to lots of things you said. ty for for being open about ur experience with asd ❤️

@Syriariasha 3 года назад

Cancelled?

@VariantAEC 3 года назад

@@Syriariasha Cancel culture came for Autism Speaks before cancel culture was cool it seems. Some people are against the organization others for it. Ultimately many people I know who are Autistic don't lime this organization and before today the only thing I could find negative about it was their insistence that ASD was becoming a plague. 1 in 352 then in a about 7 years time it was 1 in 3 kids will have Autism. That is what really put ASD on the map those commercials. Other people cite short films which are taken *WAY* out of context. A particular point in their past (2006 and earlier) they apparently released films about lower functioning Autism individuals and the parents who care for them. In a single video one woman said she contemplated killing herself and her child because no schools were taking her seriously and it was her other daughter who wasn't with her in the car at the time that kept her from committing a heinous murder of her own daughter with ASD and suicide of herself via driving her car of a bridge. She said it would be better for her daughter not to go through that and of course the fact that she would drown with her is because she couldn't live without her child. Her daughter was within earshot of this in the frame during the interview (which is probably why people took it so harshly). It is a sad dark thought to have and had she gone through with it you wouldn't be hearing an argument from me, but she didn't. Her thought was driven by the fact that the schools weren't taking her seriously and weren't able to help her daughter excel. People have taken that single portion of one interview of a woman (possibly a single mother) who claimed to have a bad thought from more than 14 years ago and morphed that into a sweeping indictment of the entire organization as a whole and they also of course had nothing good to say about the woman who ultimately loves her Autistic child and is still fighting to get the best for her. Others have other reasons which I'm looking into like suing an Autistic child for wearing a T-shirt other stories exchanged out the T-shirt with a website dubbed NTspeaks and yet even more claim Autism Speaks is a hateful eugenicist organization that wishes to push electroshock therapy on ASD individuals as a "cure"... I haven't found anything, but hearsay from most of those more radical claims _at least so far._ Back to those interviews, many of them were misconstrued to a preposterous degree even though nothing remotely near as disturbing as that one woman's troubled thought has come out of those interviews ads and short stories/movies. Additionally so far as I can tell knowing what genes if any cause ASD symptoms could help easily diagnose those who slipped through the cracks like the gentleman above but again people have misconstrued that and have pushed a eugenicist angle which to be fair could happen in places where abortions are seen as totally fine. But now we tread in that territory of "my body my choice". Oof! Yeah, I can feel this comment getting memory-holed.

@juniormako6184 Год назад

@mierajay_6205 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your story ✨🫶🏾

@juniormako6184 Год назад

@AMadd3RHatt3R Год назад

Woooow!!! 🥲👏👏👏👏 Thank you!!! Thank you so much!!

@pureconfuzion 2 года назад

thanks for sharing

@thenewguy01omni27 18 дней назад

Thank you.

@CommittedtoCalm 7 месяцев назад

My heart breaks for you. Im married to ASD husband and so much of what you say is relatable. My number one piece of advice is always try to grow. Alarms on the phone helps my husband like "Check in on your kids" It works for him. Also, the photography sounds awesome! Both my husband and I are interested on photography. I LOVE YOUR STORY!

@LUCIFER.LUX666 5 лет назад

Awesome. Thanks for sharing your story. Just diagnosed with being on the spectrum. 🕯️💯

@nicolecheyn1337 3 года назад

There are cure out there...

@someperson4281 3 года назад

@@nicolecheyn1337 no there is not

@Oulaya96 3 года назад

@@someperson4281 what’s the cure??

@someperson4281 3 года назад

@@Oulaya96 there is no cure for autism

@someperson4281 3 года назад

@@Oulaya96 say if you were to magically cure someone from autism, they wouldn’t have a working mind

@elmhopesmp3321 2 года назад

So brave of him

@Keenan-qp2fo 8 месяцев назад

I've it since birth. But with a impulse control disorder. ICD. I'm 19 now and i watched this video as a recommendation from my Dad. Working on a GED to become a technician.