Your 💯 % RIGHT, my grandmother passed last year at 96 years old and has ALWAYS told me always to have your own, no matter what !! And she was married over 60 years and I been married 20 years this year that is my stand too, 🙏 but God bless the both of you and the children through life but anything can happen. 🙏💖
Jamaica is so beautiful it's hard to be mad at living anywhere. But that location is a lil rural for real. However the shape of the house looks so good and because its Hubby's House you may have to just see with him and live there even for a year. You might actually love it. Sidenote 2 VLOGS IN A DAY!!!!!! I feel spoilt!!!!
Just read your community post. Congrats on your upcoming nuptials. Wow! So much in one year. You are handling everything really well. I think you & hubby should purchase something together. I get that he wants to build something on the family land, but Ochi is where your business is. The money that he would be putting towards finishing that build he could put with you & you two buy something together hopefully in your desired location. I'm sure if you talk to him he will change his mind if he hasn't already.
Great videos cuz. Nice to see you, the girls and hubby are happy whilst working towards your goals. Great you have some support but a wise choice to continue your own ting as you planned. I know you've got this. Peace & love to you all xx
Girl u have a point,let him straighten out the land part b4 anything as it's not a good look here in Jamaica when it comes on to land issues ,ur right think smart.
Nice view from the house but can't do the countryside, My home is in St Ann also, but I live in the Urban area on the north coast also Ochi location is in the town area and in the Urban it's not really any countryside, Trelawny is way too country for me and I also definitely agree with not moving in, not because of the area but the reality of thinks that can happen if something ever to happens to him you will be out numbered with nothing plus surrounded by family.
Go with your gut instinct, I love country so I would be sold, but only once it’s built and I am married. There is talk by the WEF of a next pandemic and lockdowns, I know where I would rather my family to be once that happens, having wide open spaces for the kids to be able to play on acres of land and not be too restricted as well as growing our own food and not lining up being coughed on by people. At least you have two options. Two videos in one day that’s great 🥰 P.s I think you’ve answered your own concerns. Don’t be in a rush, weigh up the pros and cons and continue with your plans whether you’re married or not. And don’t worry, you will always have somewhere to go in a worse case scenario, I’m a phone call away and so would Mr. M be, but that is not going to happen.
Girl. U stick to your original plan as your girls are priority. Stay true to your independence... question: are you married as u referred to your partner/boyfriend/husband 😮. I'm confused... anyways not my business just keep on vlogging 😊
yes, I am definitely sticking to my plan. Lol, no we are not married. I deem him to be husband material, so I guess calling him my husband is my way of trying to manifest a marriage.
With the last part of the vlog, all you need to do is have your money put down. Hope for best but prepare for the worst because everything could actually be ok and to find a man that genuinely loves, cares for you and includes you is an amazing thing. And he seems to just want to provide for you and the kids. With family and land especially after ppl pass can definitely be a effed up situation so if you do move to Trelawny it is not wrong to sort out a contingency plan. Maybe Hubby can build it and rent it out and when the time is right you and him get something together.
You've already put the cart before the horse. All the questions you posed at the end of this vlog are valid but you should have posed them before you became pregnant with his child. Straight talk. There is no way he is on your level and he will never be in your level. Stick to your original plans. He needs you more than you need him. That is not a solid foundation for a woman of your calibre. Don't settle. You're too good. Peace.
Ah wah do some lonely and sad badmind sumabdy kmt.....Firstly not on her level in which way?? because she is not rich or famous she is just trying to make life, not because she comes from the uk....he has his OWN house clearly an ambitious and hard working man, she is renting!! Sash you don't need to live in trelawny but don't let anyone sway you and allow you to miss out on LOVE which many ppl search for ever to find. Some ppl have very strong opinions probably because of their own lived experiences, BAD ones.
@@1stlady543 Yes based on experience, but in old age, you reflect and learn lessons and so you try to impart those lessons on those younger than you, so they avoid the same tired mistakes. Yes, he has the foundations for a house, but clearly the house has not been worked on for years and it's not habitable. It's clear to see that it'll take years for him to complete at this rate, and there's only one bedroom. And yes, she's currently renting, but he's the one living with her right now. So she's in control. She's got herself together and in a few years she'll have surpassed him, and she'll have a 3 bed property, which she owns, that's all I'm saying and you know I'm right. Keep making excuses for these men whilst productive, progressive black women keep it moving.
