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A Distant Path to Forgiveness | Melissa Tate-Scruse | TEDxCharlotte 

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The old adage "Forgive and Forget" is impossible when you are repeatedly offended and/or victimized. How can you forgive and forget someone for hurting you if the offense keeps happening? I believe a key component of forgiveness is associated with memory and developing a new understanding of the trauma and the griefs associated with the trauma. Perhaps when understanding it differently, it releases the pinned up anger and resentment associated with the offense. *20 years of Mental Health Expertise with executive leadership and clinical supervision experience for over 15 years.
*Mental Health Educator and Trainer from elementary to doctorate level.
*Writer, Producer, Director of Mental Health-Related Media
*Thought-Provoking, Personable, and Relatable Public Speaker on various topic - Domestic Violence, Grief/Loss, Self Care
*Team Oriented Leader and Humble Servant-Leader This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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Комментарии : 52   
@becomingfreecc6961
@becomingfreecc6961 Год назад
God heard my prayers today and sent me to this TedTalk! Beautifully spoken and well received Dr. Melissa!!
@vcampbell598
@vcampbell598 Год назад
Thank you for your candor and WISDOM!
@MelissaDrMETS
@MelissaDrMETS Год назад
Thank you for watching!
@danielllawrence3586
@danielllawrence3586 Год назад
Thank you for your transparency, vulnerability and experience which will guide many through their life experiences. 🙏🏾💪🏾
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
❤️🙌🏾 thank you for watching!
@angelawaldon370
@angelawaldon370 Год назад
This message was loaded with tangible nuggets to ponder on. So much to unpack here, I will need multiple replays. Definitely a good share as well...Well done! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
Your support is so appreciated 💛
@teneeshiaboots
@teneeshiaboots Год назад
Thank you for this insightful invitation to listen to your story and search our own hearts. I felt like we were having coffee sitting across from each other. Truly masterful approach that left me empowered to do the work. Thank you for this path to forgiveness... Physical, emotional, and intellectual distance. ❤️
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
What a blessing! Thanks so much for watching and commenting ❤️
@krystalmorehead9366
@krystalmorehead9366 Год назад
Awesome! Thought provoking presentation! Physical, emotional, AND intellectual distance can help us toward a path of healing and a new perspective.
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
Thank you! ❤️
@diamonds4384
@diamonds4384 Год назад
Wow!!! There are so many great things you mentioned in this video. I needed to hear this 🙏🏿 I am going to lean into healing by creating distance and gaining understanding of the situation 🦋 SO many people need to hear this message. The world would be a much better place for it!
@MelissaDrMETS
@MelissaDrMETS Год назад
It is truly a blessing to hear that it touched you and provided you some clarity. Thanks so much for watching and perhaps sharing with others!
@barbaraeaves2453
@barbaraeaves2453 Год назад
I have known Melissa Tate-Scruse for many years. I have a book of hers and knew a bit about her past but.....to live it, heal from it and talk about it, what a powerful message and strong lady. This is turning darkness into light.
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
This is so sweet! Thank you, Barbara for not only supporting me, but for taking care of one of my most prized possessions 💕💕
@tigressnisha5283
@tigressnisha5283 Год назад
Just awesome Dr. Tate
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
Thank you 😊
@MegaJuju70
@MegaJuju70 Год назад
Thank you , such a great talk, and very inspiring.I'm going to approach the sticky notes in my head with a new sense of clarity.
@MelissaDrMETS
@MelissaDrMETS Год назад
Wonderful! Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts 🙂
@jacquettamurphy6559
@jacquettamurphy6559 Год назад
Dr. Tate-Scruse, this was amazing! I like the idea of "recover & rediscover" vs. forgive & forget. It gives a fresh perspective on your own personal journey to set healthy boundaries & protecting your peace, which is something I'm constantly trying to instill in myself. This concept should be a mini series. Thanks for sharing!
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment. I appreciate it more than you know!
@kirabear6919
@kirabear6919 Год назад
This was truly intense and heart tugging. This video is full of information that is life transforming. ❤❤❤ I’ve shared this video with all that felt who needed it and then some!
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
💕 Thank you for watching! I pray it brings you all the transformation you and others may need.
@hollythomas7052
@hollythomas7052 Год назад
Thank you for sharing your beautiful heart and brilliant mind with us, Melissa! As a fellow “Forest Gumper” 😊, this resonated with me. “Recover and rediscover” is something that I can apply to not just forgiving others, but myself as well.
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
Forest Gump is a TIMELESS fave! Tha k you for commenting sis
@1busymom
@1busymom Год назад
Amazing! Thank you for this.
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
Thanks for watching 💕 I hope it has been productive for you!
@chavaunawallace-cook8312
@chavaunawallace-cook8312 Год назад
INCREDIBLE!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
❤️🙌🏾
@pjdynomight
@pjdynomight Год назад
Wow I'm going to sit & think about this for a while. Great content!
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
Thank you sir!
@tiffanyclemons3688
@tiffanyclemons3688 Год назад
This was really good! I needed to hear this in this very moment of what I'm dealing with in my own personal life with family childhood trauma & trying to identify forgiving and distancing myself!!! Thank you Dr. Scruse! 🙌🏾
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
That's a timely blessing! Thanks for watching 💕
@latonyamsummers1
@latonyamsummers1 Год назад
Sister, you did it and did it well! I love your presentation style--personable, personal, with a skillful use of humor, and great use of presence of body. Thanks for this reframe on forgiving and forgetting.
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
Sis, you know this stage is a tough journey! Thank you for being a cheerleader
@kencandacesmith
@kencandacesmith Год назад
The breakdown on this was so good! Very thorough way to teach us understanding on forgiveness with peace, without necessarily forgetting. Great stuff!
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
❤️🙌🏾
@LNW8
@LNW8 8 месяцев назад
Beatiful message, sis, and well-executed. Kudos! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@jgarynewyork
@jgarynewyork Год назад
Thus was wonderful! Thank you
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
I appreciate you Fam!
@CashmereJones
@CashmereJones Год назад
This is so good!!! I have been on a path to forgiveness for a little over a year now and this resonated with me so much! 1) it confirms working with my therapist is guiding me in the right direction, 2) forgiveness has nothing to do with the other person’s actions. Thank you for this amazing talk ❤
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
Forgiveness is yours, sis! Stay the course 💕
@jeremiah9566
@jeremiah9566 Год назад
This was very insightful and inspiring!
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
I appreciate you taking a moment to watch AND comment. More than you know. Thank you!
@PbnJAMilah
@PbnJAMilah Год назад
Very well said ! This was helpful ❤️
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
❤️
@scottbartel8163
@scottbartel8163 Год назад
Great talk loved it.
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
Thank you ❤️
@rickyprice8423
@rickyprice8423 Год назад
Well Done!
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
Thanks for watching!
@SearchingForTimothy
@SearchingForTimothy Год назад
A new mantra “recover and rediscover” 🥹❤️ Taking physical, emotional, and intellectual distance.
@drmets
@drmets Год назад
Thanks so much! ❤️
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