A Father’s Life After Tragic Loss - Avremi Gourarie | Meaningful People #43

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TRIGGER WARNING - This episode contains conversations about mental health, eating disorder and suicide.
Avremi Gourarie is a prolific music publisher behind so much of the Jewish world's music. We discuss with him the life of his daughter Yocheved, her struggle with an eating disorder, depression and her heartbreaking recent death.
Yocheved was a kind, brilliant & thoughtful person. Loved by all and continues to have a tremendous impact in this world.
See Avremi's writing here:
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19 апр 2021

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Комментарии : 63

@rhondajoaquin2286 Год назад

Some day we will have a clear understanding of what this is and how to prevent these tragedies from happening and with all of my heart and soul it is your story and others like yours that will help us find the reason/cause of such debilitating illnesses that lead to such a tragic death. What a great father you are to your daughter in her time here on earth and now in her time with God in heaven.

@ShloimyZaltzman 3 года назад

Avremi is one of the most special people I know - Thank you so much for this beautiful and meaningful podcast!

@Louise-gg4mf 3 года назад

There is a 12 Step program similar to AA that addresses eating disorders. Very sad to hear of your loss and your daughter’s struggle.

@bsd613bh 3 года назад

amazing father and amazign daughter RIP Love you All!

@ohrtemimimbuffalo 3 года назад

what a brave and caring family of Yocheved a'h. Thank you N & Y for your efforts in using 'media' for the correct missions!

@Louise-gg4mf 2 года назад

Such courage and sensitivity in telling this heartbreaking account of your daughter’s illness as well as all the heroic measures taken to try to save her life. She had an amazing gift, a father who did everything he could in order to save her life. Thank you for sharing your story. 💕

@rberger4235 3 года назад

Guys in my humble opinion this episode and the previous one with Shloimy are the type you should consistently aim for.That is well known but not overly famous people who are candid with something new to share.

@MeaningfulPeople 3 года назад

We firmly believe everyone is meaningful. You may gravitate towards a certain type of person and others will gravitate to another. We will continue to try and be as diverse as possible. Love this feedback. Thanks!

@Ohsuzanna68 2 года назад

Thank you Avremi. I’ve been following your posts since reading the heartbreaking story about your daughter. The video of Yocheved singing Moon River was so touching, I wanted so much to tell you sorry I was for your loss. Sadly my 24 year old son Jacob took his own life yesterday in a most violent and traumatic way. I’m still trying to understand why. He seemed to be doing so well and had recently started his dream job as a hairstylist. He too struggled with severe depression, social anxiety and an eating disorder. The first time he tried to take his own life he was 17. We are grateful for the 7 extra years we had with him. Your daughter Yocheved and my son Jacob had sensitive hearts and were too good for this world. May you find comfort and solace one day ❤️ - from a fellow grieving parent in Wake Forest, North Carolina.

@MeaningfulPeople 2 года назад

We are so sorry for your loss. We notified Avremi to take a look at this post.

@julieta5376 2 года назад

Yes, Eds have the highest mortality rate among men and woman. Yocheved's story touched so many lives

@chanarifkylevovitz6412 3 года назад

Incredible interview!!!!!!

@exposurebyvideo1209 3 года назад

Wow ur so brave to share ur story this will definitely help&bring awareness in our communities May her neshuma have an עליה

@shlomosafdeye9730 3 года назад

Was a great conversation! I was going back and forth in my mind about commenting because it is such a sensitive topic. There was something Avremi said that I couldn’t agree more on was with our generation of raising children how certain influences or social media can be extremely harmful. I remember a few years ago watching a tv show called 13 reasons why and telling people this is the worst tv show they can have because anyone one having a struggle with something similar will start getting ideas. It’s a great interview and a lot we can learn and should learn

@avremig 3 года назад

See my daughters IG final post. She references this show.

@shlomosafdeye9730 3 года назад

Wow thank you for taking the time to respond to my comment. Just had a chance to read the post I think it’s extremely important of what we watch, read or listen to in today society something that can seem innocent “just a tv” can have harm. You are an amazing and well thought out person.

@chayalanadler1990 3 года назад

omg thanx for the warning

@mooshi8813 Год назад

Such an important podcast!

@leahweinberger9595 3 года назад

Amazing series! Thank you guys. Please interview Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein in the future.

@ilanaohayon5029 3 года назад

Yes!!!!

@xxxxxxx1128 3 года назад

Most what need to do is pray!!!

@pamreynolds6812 Год назад

Encourage to journal their emotions or thoughts

@yzar007 3 года назад

I think it would be helpful to put some links to resources for people looking for help.

@ion_iot Год назад

Only just started listening to the show. This was a tough first episode to pick. He is a remarkable person, very calm, measured, articulate. You chose a sensitive topic to discuss and on the whole, did a good job. I did feel that while your making little jokes was done to keep the mood light, which I understand, at times it wasn't appropriate and was a bit jarring. You have a man trying to discuss the death of his daughter; jokes aren't necessary. (Like when Avremi mentions he's not a professional, and someone made a silly joke how they are a pro, actually no, just joking).

@silkiesuzane5897 3 года назад

What's happening?, is social media, tv, is ruining US, and we are missing Emuna, we really need to walk with Torah. We very sorry for your lost. Shabbat Shalom🕯️🕯️🇮🇱

@markhorowitz6265 3 года назад

"Putting health before religion" is the wrong way to express it. Religion dictates and mandates that we keep someone alive even if that means chillul Shabbos... In fact it isn't called Chillul Shabbos at all. It is Shmiras Shabbos. In the words of one of the Gedolei Yisroel spoken to me about someone suffering from anorexia, "it is a Mitzvah D'Oraisa to feed them pork on Yom Kippur." The Torah never needs to be set aside because Hakadosh Boruch Hu, in His infinite wisdom, took every possible scenario into account.

@MeaningfulPeople 3 года назад

100% We think Avremi is saying the same thing as you, it just might have come out a bit differently.

@markhorowitz6265 3 года назад

I realized that when I watched it and never doubted it for a second but felt it needed to be made clear for those that may misconstrue the idea. I have had to drive Avremi’s point home for parents, sometimes by having Rabbonim call the family and write letters, so I have a small inkling of what this Tzaddik of a father was saying. This mental condition is horrific beyond words and sometimes, RL, there is absolutely nothing that can be done as the poor Neshama wastes away before the eyes of their parents.

@silkiesuzane5897 3 года назад

This father is in so much pain, we can't even imagine. We will never want to walk in his shoes. The healing is going to be very long, only Hashem, Torah and Time will do it.

@rivkaaaa 2 года назад

The way it is worded makes it applicable to all religions.

@eequalsmc2934 3 года назад

Can you bring on the show the founder of GUARD YOUR EYES

@eequalsmc2934 3 года назад

And amudim

@MeaningfulPeople 3 года назад

Amar’e would love this

@ivriyah8456 3 года назад

@@eequalsmc2934 they already interviewed Tzvi Gluck!

@binyominsternbuch1513 3 года назад

Can you interview meir k?

@byishai1 3 года назад

It's time for parents to realize that it's not "cool" to have technology in our homes. Although it can be used for good, we constantly see our children having negative influence from social media and watching movies and TV shows. Cut it out while you can and save yourself all the headaches later.

@ion_iot Год назад

This comment has nothing to do with a video on mental health And in fact shows a complete misunderstanding of mental health

@avremig Год назад

@@ion_iot sorry. Commenter is on point. Totally agree. Many books written that support this theory

@michellelansky4490 3 года назад

Health doesn't come before religion.....health is part of religion.....if youre abandoning 'health' for 'religion' someone is 'misexplaining' religion.

@avremig 3 года назад

Well put. Ty

@dovkann 3 года назад

Mazel tov on the promotion

@pamreynolds6812 Год назад

Alot of that control is because they dont feel they have control somewhere in their life. Thst they do not know how to tell

@yakgarf 3 года назад

Can you share a link to Avremis fb page and instagram account?

@avremig 3 года назад

facebook.com/avremig Instagram @agourarie

@pamreynolds6812 Год назад

Her pain I believe is indescribable. I suffered for so long. Attempted suicide when I was 9 . Always thought about it. Pleaded with Hashem to take me. Medication didnt work and I did not want to be around people especially with babies. The more I delved into Judaism as i grew older i came to terms with my pain and i know i will never attempt suicide. Again it sink so low .