Thank you SO much Ann. Writing this was a huge help in getting me through this. OK Doug, you aren't the one that went through this.... Hey, my Bro would get it. Now I know what folks mean when they say they talk to their loved ones. Through his entire life, Dick left me a blueprint, by actions, by deeds, by the things that count with me. Not just words. How extroadinarily lucky I am. Love you Dick