It’s the update we all wanted! A girl called into my show and said a guy flew her to Miami but she ruined the trip. Now it’s time for his side of the story! Oh boy
I am so glad he came on to tell his side of the story with A LOT more detail! He is soooo respectful and polite especially the foresight of messaging her mother about the flight delay AND her getting sick and returning home. He wanted better for a stranger than she wanted for herself.
We didn’t know his name or anything. He frankly never had to come on. She said in her interview he reached out to her first. Based on that alone, the very fact he was attracted to her dysfunction says he may not be too bright himself.
Some women always blame and find fault with the man. More Black men should stop protecting the image of dysfunctional women and tell the world what they are dealing with.
@@nicolea.7501 Dont make this a black man vs black women problem as if there arent womem of other races who have drinking problems. Tf is wrong with u people always making everything a gender war. Everyone can see thay this man is a good guy and she needs help! But his goodness has absolutey nothing to do with his race.
@@akimat418 I only saw this guys update video. I did not see her initial video or her update video. And it seems it was good we both didn’t waste our time, because from his response you can gather that she didn’t tell the complete story. But based on what he said, and the fact she is begging this man to give her a second chance you can go ahead and conclude she is indeed dysfunctional as they come.
😅 on broooo nem!!! Haha Im surprised he kept it so calm and cool. You know he telling the truth, because she didn't have anything negative to say about his demeanor. In fact, she wanted a second chance haha
Right, it's ashame because the sweetheart type men always get the wrong type woman then he won't treat the next woman so decent because of his experience
The problem with the woman is that she told that story to minimize from her drinking problem. She told the story as if she got drunk on a night out. She was drunk for like 2-3 days straight. She was on a binge.
@@Squeeky-Da-Don yes of course. Her side is all we had, she appeared to be apologetic and he never came in the chat to defend himself. All we had was her word. The first person is always “right” until we hear the other side.
@@Squeeky-Da-Don you literally just assumed that based on nothing. Lol. Any grown person who drinks until they end up in the hospital clearly has a problem idc how they try to explain it.
@@Squeeky-Da-Don and fyi she started her interview off by saying “I don’t want anyone to think I have a problem.” My first reaction when she said she ended up in the hospital was “nah you got a problem” because that behavior is not normal.
With all that, he remained a gentleman, and she should be appreciative because a man of lesser values could have easily taken advantage of her and the situation
He’s such a good guy to not leave her in Miami, get her back home, and to call her mother! She fumbled HARD! Some things are lessons that need to be learned. I pray she gets some serious help
But females don't like men who are to nice because y'all stop appreciating the small things we do. Never spend yo money a women till u married that how men did back in 1920
What some women especially blk women don't realize is when a guy is treating you in such respectful manner they genuinely want to be serious with you and take it to the next level, as a potential wife. These women have been so damaged that they don't realize this and take it for granted.
I’m glad we all can agree that buddy went above and beyond to make sure he didn’t leave her stranded. I’ve been in situations like this a few times and my heart won’t let me leave somebody stranded if I have the capacity to help. Even if they don’t deserve it.
He chose her. Maybe he will pick better the next go round. He is a man, so it should not be super hard for him to find a woman if he is all that he seems to be.
@Mama Tea you have issues too if you honestly think he has issues because he was "wayyy too 'patient'". I get having a women's back and all but you're making yourself look as foolish as the girl who got drunk in the first place.
He need to set up boundaries, she knew she forgot her phone before they was boarding, but didn’t say anything to make a moment. He kept on allowing her to disrespect him, which enables her to do this again. I’m a dude, so I don’t know about dudes. Yet chicks do not respect your time for some reason. You either have to correct that shid on initial meeting or dump them. That’s where this dude went wrong. She walked all over him from the initial meeting, and he allowed it.
He literally dodged a whole clip of bullets with this story. I know first hand dealing with someone that had a problem but didn’t wanna acknowledge it. It got bad a few times before I decided to completely cut the cord. I applaud him for seeing the signs and removing himself 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Awww she found a really, REALLY good man and immediately fumbled the damn ball. I hope this is a wake up call for her and she gets the help she truly needs!!!
She actually downplayed their entire situation. She said she ordered a drink and blacked out but in reality drunk an entire 5th of tequila in 20 mins… truly heartbreaking.
You notice in interrogations, the guilty usually skips A LOT of details and tries to speed through the story. Lionel recounted everything with impeccable detail. Thank you Kendra for bringing him back on, the next best thing would’ve been if they were both on the call at the same time 🤣
He's an incredible storyteller and a really good man! First of all, he didn't even have to go get her, or fly her to Miami to get her stuff when she's the reason they missed missed flight in the first place. He also didn't have to feed her, provide a room or take care of her, but he did. He even made sure her mother knew about where she was and what was going on. She needs to go get help! He's really a good man and I hope you finds someone that is deserving of him.
@@stud6414 In what year & country did this happen? I have to ask cuz, in this day & age, activities conducted in the public areas on public property in developed countries, especially commercial ones, are captured by surveillance to a reasonable extent. Plus, their law enforcement consult such records as & when exigent. Look, I'm likely telling you what you already know but just surprised that these cops didn't bother at all to make certain whether the accused was present at the scene or not. Doesn't make sense. There has to be more to this story that could give reason for such inaction. What about those r@pe examinations? Was any undertaken? What did the results say? What of the accused's own alibi? ... Also, what type of legal counsel did he have? Even a court-appointed lawyer would've pushed for that day's surveillance, at least, to be checked by the police detectives. What was the basis for his detainment? Was he already a criminal? Violated probation? Questions keep popping up, so I won't go on. Your scenario, prima facie, looks like a serious injustice & I'm surprised he didn't sue her as well. If not for anything, but that it should be on her record. He may not be the last one! As for this guy here; He had daylight on his side, human & surveillance witnesses, a separate room, etc. He was sensible, disciplined & kept his hands clean throughout. That kind of diabolical move wouldn't have worked for her if she'd tried it!
This man deserves a good woman. Despite all that went on this man was still respectful and a gentleman. I wish this man nothing but the best and blessings. She needs help big time.
He sounds like a gentleman. Paid for flights, room, food, boat tour and brunch. Didn’t care about replacing what he considered lost or gone. He didn’t even tell her she couldn’t drink just that he wouldn’t pay for it. She definitely fumbled the bag
I’m glad she ok because I promise her family was gonna think the worst about this young man if something would have happened…you can tell he’s a great guy ❤❤❤
Most men wouldn’t take advantage of her. Y’all just been conditioned to thing the majority of men are predatory. Most men are like him and would have just wanted to get far away as possible from that situation, especially nowadays when it’s so easy to be accused of sexual assault.
When he said, "it'll be a cold day in hell before I take her back", I fell out laughing 😂. That girl did more than fumble. This man showed so much patience.
He reminds me of the late actor Chadwick Boseman❤ he's definitely will make someone a good husband.. because he's so patient and caring. I truly hope real love finds him soon.
Has nothing to do with being goofy , we have no idea what’s she’s going through . I have so many alcoholics in my family and it has so much to do with mental health. Most people don’t have the proper insurance to get the help they need. Most places that are free do not pay their people well and are overcrowded with homeless people so people don’t get the help they need. We have to learn to show more empathy towards one another
I love how much of a gentleman he was in this whole situation. I appreciate her honesty and accountability to say she f'd up. Lesson learned on both parts. Wish them both the best
The sad part is she was too drunk to remember how bad it really was and embarrassed herself even more by coming here asking for help with a second chance 😬 Now all of her business is out there.
This guy right here is a complete gentleman. I pray that he doesn’t let this bad experience ruin him as a man. Please 🙏🏽 don’t lose your character just vet the woman better before traveling or going out. You are a good one for sure and kudos to you ❤
Shout out to Kendra for giving Lionel the space to tell his whole story uninterrupted, he's a good story teller. Homegirl find your local Alcoholics Anonymous and get some help before you delete yourself!
Kudos to him for coming on the show to give his side of the story. I definitely believe his version of the story over the nonsense she said happened. I also believe it was very wise of him to protect himself in contacting the mom and for also making sure she got back home safely. This could have gone badly for him had he not covered himself.
She already said she needed the date up. She just didn’t share all the details, they’re on the same side of things. They both said it was on her, he just told the rest of the parts she left out because it was probably embarrassing for her to share. It was enough to say, “I messed it up”, he didn’t have to air her out like that, but I’m not surprised lol that’s why he (like her) is looking for love on Kendra g. That’s a red flag in itself
@@lv2756actually he did need to share /“air” her out. People love talking about trash @$$ black men but never want to talk about the ones we as black women screw over. This is actually not uncommon with a lot of women (yes, including black women). One of my closest friends works in hospitality, she sees it all of the time with women and she said it’s getting even worse now.
@ms.coleman4535 that's exactly what I thought. Smart guy, he slowly and skillfully eased himself out of a bad situation, that could easily had gone very wrong for him, had she decided to "cry wolf" for any reason.
He deserves a medal for being a simp ok. I would’ve left that hoe high and dry. A woman would’ve done the same thing to a man and you would clown him captain no box getting save a hoe, so Idgaf about any rebuttal you come with
She seriously played herself by coming back to give “her side” of the story. I guess she didn’t count on him coming on to tell his side, but knowing how things really went down, she should’ve just taken the *L,* and faded off into the sunset. But no…she wants to turn into the “Alcoholic Stalker”. 🤦🏽♀️ I will say that he’s definitely more patient than I am, because the minute she came downstairs drunk, she would’ve been left standing right there in front of her house, by herself! He may have to end up changing his number…
I have 2 theories: One is that she thought he might come on and tell the story to look like she’s an alcoholic and she didn’t want that so she came down to fake hold herself accountable while not acknowledging her real problem which is her drinking trying to get ahead of it. That’s just my theory. Or she trying to get in contact with the dude to explain herself but because he blocked her she can’t do that and clearly he saw all he needed to see.
1. Considering she was drunk the entire time of the trip, she probably don’t remember all of the details. She just know she messed up. 2. I commend this gentleman. Although he knew he didn’t want a future with her, he still was making sure she was good. He fed her and kept communicating with her mom. He was concerned about her wellbeing. AND He was still kind and trying to do some type of activity with her. KUDOS TO YOU, SIR!!! ❤ SHE REALLY FUMBLED THIS BAG😮😢
She knew she messed up and probably felt it she put her pride to the side in front of thousands of people he would hear her out. It just shows how much of a great man he is if you ask me
@@Wesley-rn7ocyea but sounds like she’s a drinker & should know this. And KNEW there was a possibility that she embarrassed herself. At most, I would have asked him to tell me what happened lmao & told him that I understand he wants to leave me alone but I just want to learn from this & know what happened
I don't believe that. I think she did not expect that he would spill everything like he did because he was dumb enough to still go along with her that far so maybe she could still get him anyway. She may not remember all the details but she remembered or was told enough that she should know what the deal is AND also this is sure not the first event of her acting like this because people build up to this point. So she's been out with others and done similar before. Who was she drinking with prior to this to be passed out in the tub?@@Wesley-rn7oc
He didnt have to do anything.. she was disrespectful from the beginning. And women think he should still watch over her? That is not his woman.. she blew all of it. All he had to do was walk away..
How did this woman go to Miami with someone she doesn't know?! Thank goodness this guy was one of the good ones. He was too good to even make it to Miami knowing she was chaos from the start. Heaven forbid the woman for whatever reason does not make it; he would have been the only suspect and his life would be over. I hope he learned this really hard lesson!
Women tend to self sabotage situations when they feel like the guy is too good for them. Remember the lady who came on here trying to say the marine biologist investor was a liar?
I am exhausted listening to him tell the story, and he is not finished with the story. I can see why she wants a second chance. He jumped through so many hoops to make her happy.
She thought she DESERVES a second chance after my boy went above and beyond to protect her from herself on his watch and she was self sabotaging the whole trip. having an abundance mindset will free you from a lot of these problematic women before she gets you strung up in her mess! Kudos to you my boy.
Kendra appreciate you getting the guy's side of the story and not just blatantly believing the chick who was clearly LYING This happens way more than you think when you have ladies behaving foolishly but run to social media for validation and they are quick to drum up support from people who never stop to say "hey I wonder what the other side of the story is" Let this be a lesson to ALL..... women are quick to paint themselves as the victors or the victims in their own stories...seldom do they admit to being the villains
This man is one of the most decent men to appear on Kendra's show, if I had a sister or a single friend looking for a man and I had a friend like him I'd try and introduce them. His family or whoever raised him should be very proud. I loved how he made sure she got home safely but then ceased contact with her. Being respectful to a man or woman doesn't mean allowing yourself to be a doormat and this is something I say to young women too. The woman seems in denial about how far her drink problem has got, I watched her video when she told her version and I honestly assumed she doesn't drink and just had a few too many on her trip. . As a woman I tend to think there's no shortage of nice women for men to pick from, now I see the perspective from men that many of them run into the same problems that women do - selfishness, immaturity and irrationality! The fact she left her home without a phone, was already drink, was refusing to just wait at the gate for 45 minutes and didn't want to go on the boat tour but was happy to get drunk on his dime is embarassing. I hope she gets the help she needs!Lionel you're a true gentleman!
The fact that he said we're gonna go to Miami just so you can get your belongings...girl. I hope he finds a woman who will be all he needs her to be. He seems like a good guy...
