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A young woman tries to connect with her brother.
A LONG BESIDE is used with permission from Paul Marcus Wong. Learn more at paulmarcuswong....
Kate has returned to her family home in New Zealand, coming from her home and job in London. Making a stop before she arrives at her final destination, her brother Simon picks her up at the airport. Their pair of siblings were formerly close, but have grown more distant as grownups, as their lives have diverged.
Kate's stay with her brother is awkward, and the pair struggle to reconnect. But their conversations only reveal how little they have kept up with each other, as well as their different approaches to success in life. But as their differences assert themselves, a rift opens up between them, putting them farther apart from one another.
Written and directed by Paul Marcus Wong, this short family drama gracefully captures the distance that can happen when brothers and sisters grow up and grow apart. As grown-ups, these siblings have taken sharp turns away from one another. But they are never truly independent of one another, and their paths reflect and refract one another in comparison, altering their dynamic.
The storytelling -- from the observant naturalistic direction to the layered, emotionally astute writing -- is attuned to the inner lives and outer behavior of its characters, particularly Kate. Simon is laconic and awkward, while Kate chats volubly to cover up the awkwardness. Yet their past dynamic -- of the protective older sister and younger brother -- remains. We see their closeness directly in the sweet passages of home footage (with a younger Kate played by a young Thomasin Mackenzie.)
But in the present, that dynamic creates conflict, as Simon now finds himself in a difficult place in life, and Kate's protectiveness comes across as judgmental and condescending to him. Actors Lucy Suttor and Jack Sergent-Shadbolt play the siblings with sensitivity and understatement, and they both capture the awkwardness of their present relationship and the pull of their shared past.
They're able to see the faults and strengths of one another, and they also know just where their most sore and tender points are. When Kate pulls rank as the older sister after a night of Simon's partying, the resulting tension opens up a gap that past affection may not be able to cross.
Gently affecting and understated, A LONG BESIDE achieves a compelling relatability due to its understanding of how family history colors us, no matter how far we move in life. It also understands the suffering caused when family relationships put us in a "box," and the resulting roles don't allow for both growth and the struggle that enables it at times. But in the final scene and reveal, the crisp borders between these roles finally dissolve, and Kate and Simon do what siblings can do best for one another: accept and see the whole of who we are, with some teasing on the side.

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@CChrisS217
@CChrisS217 2 года назад
Yeah.....so real. My older sister and my story was the other way around. I was the one off to foreign lands. Going home was both a blessing and a curse. Unlike the video, we picked it up where we left off, but the quiet moments were the loudest. I was in one headspace and she was in another. Life at home moved on, but my memories were still there. Family bonds are the deepest, and I lost her in 2014....but we are still bonded, still connected, and always will be.....so yeah.....so real.
@paulabrown6840
@paulabrown6840 2 года назад
Your comment made me cry. I lost two of my brothers in the last two years...the bond never breaks and the memories endure. Best to you. 💛
@Purpleiris444
@Purpleiris444 2 года назад
So sorry to hear your losses to the both of you. Yes, memories do endure.
@nereahokanga6935
@nereahokanga6935 Год назад
This hits home. I'm 35, been working in the same place for 10 years and have nothing to show for it. My brother and sister are successful and think I have no direction in life because I recently fell on hard times. Been asking for their financial assistance just to get through some really hard times and now they are convinced I really don't know what I want in life. All I expect them to do is just love me and accept me where I am no matter how badly I'm doing. Afterall, hard times won't last forever if you're determined. I figured I'll stop asking for their help if I'm to maintain a good relationship. Love from Nairobi Kenya 🇰🇪
@migo-migo9503
@migo-migo9503 Год назад
Never give up and keep trying, even without help. There will be ups and downs in life and if we hold on long enough we'll be able to enjoy some good moments. It will come! Good luck!
@wamz9191
@wamz9191 7 месяцев назад
❤❤❤
@michelj.gaudet5048
@michelj.gaudet5048 2 года назад
I am 71. My sister is four years older. This really hit 'home' for me. Thank you.✨🤗✨
@The_Beast_666
@The_Beast_666 2 года назад
@Michel J. Gaudet God bless you both sir! May you grow ever closer to each other!
@lexibrowning7447
@lexibrowning7447 2 года назад
I hate that we can't connect with people until we know they're at our level or below it. And what even is a level?
@mandielou
@mandielou 2 года назад
That 'level' thing you mentioned, isn't a thing. You can connect with anyone you CHOOSE to connect with, so long it's mutual but even then, when it isn't, we can still empathize with everyone, at least in some way. We're so intrinsically made too be the same but beautifully different. Don't let society or politics put restraints on your beliefs, thoughts or sway your morals and values and keep you from truly experiencing life, with this narrow, narcissistic mindset, ideals. Basically don't allow yourself to be indoctrinated and brainwashed into believing lies. You don't know what a level is because there aren't any, unless you create them.
@lexibrowning7447
@lexibrowning7447 2 года назад
@@mandielou Right, that’s pretty much what I was saying offhand. The “what even is a level” is implying that it doesn’t really exist
@suraya1224
@suraya1224 Год назад
3 wks ago, I drove my brother to the airport. Just before we went, I lost my patience w/ him (similar lifestyle), &, frustrated w/ his jokes abt it, I snapped, "It's not funny! Don't u hv any self respect?" His face fell, & it was a silent, tense ride. I called him the following wk, & said "I'm sorry for what I said. I shdnt hv judged, it was a harsh thing to say." So this film felt very familiar.
@libratude9595
@libratude9595 2 года назад
I cried. This hit a little too close to home and my heart. Wonderful, wonderful film, portrayal and acting! 👏🎬
@DutchObserver
@DutchObserver 2 года назад
Beautiful script, excellent acting, solid camera work and editing! Definitely one of the gems among the short films.
@hcutter
@hcutter 2 года назад
"Yesterday, today, & tomorrow. No matter what happens, you will ALWAYS be my brother." 👫
@averagealf2337
@averagealf2337 2 года назад
this really feels near to me. My brother and I were only one year older but during our childhood and teenage life, we were so well connected. Now, sometimes I felt like he was a stranger to me, I moved in together with him but most of the time, he was with his friend.
@molliwilson5639
@molliwilson5639 Год назад
Sibling relationships can be very mysterious and complex
@vintagesupermarkets5210
@vintagesupermarkets5210 5 месяцев назад
This hit close to home, especially since an “I love you” was lacking. Made it all the more relatable.
@rosekaiotii1367
@rosekaiotii1367 Год назад
This one made me miss New Zealand so much. Dairy’s vodaphone, yellowbusses, mince pies, gettin on the piss, mum, those diamond road markings, roundabouts
@suraya1224
@suraya1224 Год назад
@Rose Kaiotii: I assumed it was Australia, & wondered why the accent was a little 'off' 😄. NZ is on my bucket list. p.s. " Getting on the piss"? Lol
@vintagesupermarkets5210
@vintagesupermarkets5210 5 месяцев назад
This Canadian would love to visit NZ again someday.
@jennifergannuscio6086
@jennifergannuscio6086 2 года назад
Ya I felt this! Once was so special in childhood ends up so completely alien. Sad as fkkk!
@tasha3757
@tasha3757 2 года назад
Nice to see a kiwi film! Love it. So much nostalgia in this. Loved the Demon drink, Tip Top/the dairy, the DBs, the Hurricanes vs Crusaders game... Kiwi classics!
@margkropf5541
@margkropf5541 2 года назад
I had no siblings and yet I totally related this film. Brilliant acting.
@gregsoul
@gregsoul 2 года назад
Happy to say my and my sisters connect really well.
@rito_amidst_abnegations
@rito_amidst_abnegations 2 года назад
we're all in this 'human' condition, together ♥️
@LifeInPink999
@LifeInPink999 Год назад
And from what ''condition'' do we suffer? If it's humanity I agree, at this point, we are just the biggest parasites on the Earth.
@molliwilson5639
@molliwilson5639 Год назад
Many of us don’t know why we are here.
@anilachar323
@anilachar323 2 года назад
Siblings will always have a care and concern for each other. Even if it doesn't show up visibly. (BTW, what exactly is a 'long beside'? Non Aussie here.)
@jime6739
@jime6739 2 года назад
Long Beside means girls are lousy at driving a wagon downhill, they will crash.
@natureboytom
@natureboytom 2 месяца назад
The world has changed too much, the hard times have engulfed so many of us. Life can be very difficult. My entire family has collapsed into a heap of sickness, death, anger & accidental suicide. God help us all. 🙏
@joebanks3698
@joebanks3698 2 года назад
Too often it's impossible to overcome the deleterious effect of time.
@vernonmontoya2449
@vernonmontoya2449 2 года назад
No matter how far we live apart, no matter how we have changed, there is always that bond I have with my brothers. This film hits home on that idea.
@HelloItsYou
@HelloItsYou 2 года назад
i miss my little brother
@mr.mrs.d.7015
@mr.mrs.d.7015 2 года назад
💔 and 💖 So sorry for your loss but happy you had him for a while
@hori166
@hori166 2 года назад
Brilliant, for all the reasons already mentioned! I've added this to my list of favorites.
@charliefoster3221
@charliefoster3221 2 года назад
She saved his bacon by not letting him drive, I am glad she mad him stay home.
@oHas1
@oHas1 3 месяца назад
Really good short movie. I like it 👍👍👍
@archstanton420
@archstanton420 2 года назад
HE SHOULD HAVE TOLD HER THAT HE LOVED HER BEFORE SHE GOT OUT OF THE CAR.....NEVER LET THEM LEAVE WITHOUT KNOWING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@The_Beast_666
@The_Beast_666 2 года назад
Great superb excellent out of this world film!
@Highvibethings
@Highvibethings 2 года назад
Wow! Crazy how specific this was to my own sibling dynamic.
@wplains
@wplains 2 года назад
She on a transatlantic flight and all she brings is a carry on? Is she staying for a weekend? 😂😂. Also, she’s unemployed and flies from Uk to Australia for a very short time and travels Business class? This is so unrealistic.
@MsMinoula
@MsMinoula 2 года назад
Maybe the tickets were bought before she was laid off? Or a members club discount? I'm not an expert in long-haul flights but buying last minute economy tickets will not necessarily be cheeper. That, or she lied about it, hence the carry-on.
@helentee9863
@helentee9863 Год назад
She didn't just have a carry-on)the bag was bigger than that), and she came over for a wedding at home (New Zealand),but spent only one night with her brother before going to where the wedding was to be held
@8petsAtHome2467
@8petsAtHome2467 Год назад
This is so relatable. Tough.
@elliottjones8354
@elliottjones8354 2 года назад
Really loved the music choices Minus the radio jumps
@Sebastian-lo3hn
@Sebastian-lo3hn 11 месяцев назад
I have yet to see a bad one of these....awesome, and so real.
@FIONA21ful
@FIONA21ful Год назад
This is me 357yrs on & still living away .. once you leave you never really fit back in.
@lcarole3131
@lcarole3131 5 месяцев назад
That was exquisite.
@hori166
@hori166 2 года назад
Thanks!
@slavenpuric3803
@slavenpuric3803 2 года назад
If you read Robert Musil's big novel "The Man Without Qualities", it's (to some degree) like Urlich and Agata...
@BeccaE
@BeccaE 2 года назад
I will have to check that out
@tjmmcd1
@tjmmcd1 5 месяцев назад
To paraphrase this video: As children, we see life as an open plate of unlimited possibilities. However, as we become adults, the truth becomes apparent. "They suck the life force out of us...and then we die"
@migo-migo9503
@migo-migo9503 Год назад
Great short! When was this filmed?
@laressa4994
@laressa4994 Год назад
That's not both of them struggling to connect. He's not even putting in an effort! (I've only watched the first half)
@hazzahdiss692
@hazzahdiss692 2 года назад
Nope not windy enough.
@demijour1234
@demijour1234 2 года назад
Did she come for one night? and left the next morning?? Society places this status on ppl and when you don't fulfill them then you are a failure. Maybe there is a hidden reason as to why someone is the way they are
@jonathanjones6657
@jonathanjones6657 2 года назад
Colors seem brighter when you’re around. dag
@paulg903
@paulg903 2 года назад
What's wrong with going out and getting pissed at 26?
@BeccaE
@BeccaE 2 года назад
I don’t think it’s really a problem unless it was every night but it seemed sad on his part that he wasn’t interested with her and him going out to eat for the evening he just wanted to hang with the guys when he can see them and do that any ol night.
@dthomas4566
@dthomas4566 3 месяца назад
Man it was so difficult to care about any of these characters 😢
@blueseaev
@blueseaev 2 года назад
A great example of the Kardashian sisters and their brother Rob 😂
@tanrose8645
@tanrose8645 2 года назад
LOVED it ❣️ Well done🌹👏👏 Blessings to ALL~🪄💫✨💖 ☮️🕊️ PLEASE Stay 'safe', everyone❣️ Blessed be ✨💫🌟🌛🌹🌜
@HelloItsYou
@HelloItsYou 2 года назад
Had the Cd of music the whole time
@paulabrown6840
@paulabrown6840 2 года назад
She gave it to him.
@tommytrinder.1226
@tommytrinder.1226 2 года назад
What team were the guys watching,the Warriors rugby team?.
@butterflyreflections
@butterflyreflections Год назад
Thomasin McKenzie!
@ginny709
@ginny709 2 года назад
good story..but to bad this was filmed with a shaky camera ..not my style of watching something that makes me dizzy....couldn't finish watching!
@molliwilson5639
@molliwilson5639 Год назад
No shaky camera . LOL
@cierapeace2693
@cierapeace2693 2 года назад
God loves ya
@thewolf4079
@thewolf4079 2 года назад
Dang ...... sad
@ziguirayou
@ziguirayou 2 года назад
So depressing...
@molliwilson5639
@molliwilson5639 Год назад
Life can be like that but right around the corner there is another beautiful moment… just wait for it
@albertchehade9916
@albertchehade9916 2 года назад
Nice :)
@TheWorstWarlock
@TheWorstWarlock 2 года назад
"Isn't everybody unemployed in the UK?" That's because Aussies have taken all the bloody bar jobs.
@paulg903
@paulg903 2 года назад
Nah, all the Aussies go to Canada and live on ski resorts
@pmowe
@pmowe 2 года назад
Kiwi
@prettylou
@prettylou 2 года назад
Interesting but why was he looking at her do creepily? Was uncomfortable to watch.
@margkropf5541
@margkropf5541 2 года назад
You Are the creep,man.
@prettylou
@prettylou 2 года назад
🥺
@DutchObserver
@DutchObserver 2 года назад
Jealousy, shame, a combination of the two?
@DutchObserver
@DutchObserver 2 года назад
@@margkropf5541 That was pretty uncalled for...
@mr.mrs.d.7015
@mr.mrs.d.7015 2 года назад
This comment reminds me of the sick people who thought they saw weiners in the shape of the Disney castles in the cartoons. Something wrong with your eyes. Lol
@missgaia12
@missgaia12 Год назад
The plot is not 100%. There are some pieces missing, like she gets there and sleeps for one night? Should've stayed in a hotel by the airport!! Haha Anyway.... The sister is the needy one, in my perspective. But movies are always fun. :)
@shakiellaachee7829
@shakiellaachee7829 Год назад
❤️❤️🥲
@ronanwalsh7024
@ronanwalsh7024 2 года назад
Gosh... I thought I was the only person who encountered these Oz slob wasters when I worked there.
@SamStone1964
@SamStone1964 2 года назад
Kiwi not Oz. Equal but different.
@naimulsattar7686
@naimulsattar7686 2 года назад
Good acting but i didnt like the story, actully there was nothing entertaining.
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