If a man got finessed by a gold digger, he deserved it for being shallow and going for some woman just for her looks. He’s buying what in his mind is attractive… there’s a name for that but we’re being polite and not saying it. A man who wants a good woman, won’t fall for that because he is wise and is using the right head to think with …his brain 🧠!
Facts…. when men complain about strippers & gold diggers it’s evident of the problem. They go after looks only as if that guarantees good character. Good for them.
Those men are low value. High value men do not like or pursue easy, loose women, especially those that sleep around. They value character, not just looks!
There are several points I often believe. 1. Men who typically want women to shoot their shot are ones who only want sex, nothing serious, or not confident, etc. 2. Ladies should know the difference between shooting your shot and being open/showing interest 3. Some men are reaping what they sowed for years by manipulating women and now they are being manipulated 4. Instead of these men trying to derail a message which is meant to help them, they should listen. God always sends a messenger to warn before destruction 5. Why on earth would any man want to build a life with a woman that’s only with him because he has money 6. Gold digger status seems to take a backseat when she’s fine. But the same way you got her is the same way you got to keep her.
Number three. I've been put through the wringer with manipulation tactics and being used for my body by men. I can't wait for their day of reckoning to come.
None of what you just said makes any sense, you sound like a woman with a Jezebel spirit, and I say that because you sound as if you have an axe 🪓 to grind with men for past hurt you received. You should ask God for forgiveness.
He wasn't lying either! My cousin will shoot her shot at a guy in a heartbeat. She is very sexually aggressive. Her brother always teases about how she man-handles all of her "victims". SMH
These dudes can have the best woman in the world but are so weak with their lower parts they'll lose that one good woman to chase after these vagabonds! However, as my mom always exhibited after my Daddy, she'll have a friend if she wanted him but she'll also be by herself with God and will still be the happiest woman on the planet....I'm there!!!
But what you did not say is that sex means more to a man than to a woman and some woman neglect their mans needs and think it's not a big deal. Busting a nut is like breathing for a man and some women can't understand this. So if a woman doesn't give him what he needs someone else will, everything you said is BS women need to stay fit and spice up the bedroom and maybe he won't look elsewhere facts 💯
If a man wants a woman to approach him, he lacks confidence. A confident man will approach whomever he's interested in and if she turns you down. Count it as a blessing King.
You started this sentence with nonsense because I don't believe any man WANTS a woman to approach him, that's something in your mind you're projecting. When a man and a woman meet there should be a mutual attraction 🧲 , regardless of who spoke to the other first, a wise person will consider facts and heed to good counsel regarding the individual before committing to something.
@cedricbradley8360 the nonsense is you thinking you know how every man thinks. Have you been under a rock or something? It's plenty of videos of men who'd rather have a woman approach them. Do your research before coming at me about my comment. I said wtf I said.
Tony, I appreciate your transparency. Therefore, I'll be transparent with you. I have shot my shot in the past because I was absolutely ignorant. I'm ashamed of it now. However, by the grace of God, your videos and a few others have saved my life. I got played all the time. Now, I have to rebuild my life.
I just recently shot my shot for the 1st time ever. It's bc thought soul mates and high attraction and he was moving far away. I guy i worked w for a short time
@Relis Betrel I thought that was what you were supposed to do. 🤦♀️It didn't even feel natural shooting my shot, ugh. It really is a turn-off for masculine men. The users will eat you alive. Hard lesson learned.
Tony is Absolutely Right! I've Never understood why looks challenged men & women Really think those Gorgeous men & women Want them 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ people get mad but it's the Truth Anyhow!
What you talked about at the ending of this video is something I've been struggling with understanding. Why men pass over amazing women for these loose booty 304s that don't truly love them for them but what they get from them. Never made sense to me ever. But I just remind myself if they look over me it's simply because they aren't my husband/life partner. Who/what you're attracted to is incredibly telling for where you are on your healing journey.
I totally agree, just like I’ve scratched my head wondering why women pass over good hearted men and run to the men with the most “swag” for example that does nothing but mistreat them and make single mothers out of them. Blessings to you!
I keep telling my sister this, she is always so ready to shoot her shot when she thinks a man is into her. If he ain't got the cojones to let you know he's interested, gon bout yo business and let him do the same. Stop the Desperate Debbie shenanigans
Everytime I would say something ain't right if you prefer a woman to approach first, some would side eye me. I kept saying we all get signs in life. Happy Thursday blessed tribe.
Things are reversing. All them years/decades men was playing women. And women was looking like fools. I’m not for an eye for eye or revenge either. I do believe in karma and them tables always turns.
True Tony. Sometimes it's not even the money but the attention they desire. I'm Growing and learning more about jezebel women so I want lose my marriage. I have to be honest as a man is easy sometimes to think with your pants instead of your head.
So true. Sadly it’s all because the roles in society have changed. Women are acting like men and vice versa. I embrace all my feminine energy and believe that what is for me will be for me. No need to waste energy finessing. So many men got finessed into relationships and lives that they don’t want because of their little head 🤷🏽♀️
Tony I can’t lie bro you have to be the most transparent man on RU-vid , you literally make me feel comfortable being human. There are thoughts that I have to myself that at times I question if it’s something wrong with me but it’s not , you make that clear
I was just thinking about the last part of your message this morning. It's confirmation, men are marrying Jezebels hoping that she will change just cause he married her. Men don't seem to want women that's God fearing and wife material.
Exactly. And wonder why it doesn't work. They don't want the women with little quirks they could learn to love, they want the fake. They expect women to look like models 24/7 and a real woman does not.
"Might even fry ya without seasoning" 😂 You keep it real. Some women, with deeper issues, will shoot their shot just for the pole not for his wallet. These are broken women who are seeking affection. How do I know this..? 🤷🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️ I thank God for Jesus and his delivering and healing power.
The Dukes of Hazzard, lol! I realized exactly what you were talking about when you spoke about Daisy with those extra short shorts and immediately started laughing. She worked the deputy every chance she got and quite a few bad guys as well. I totally understand the logic.
Tony, I’m very blunt about what I like and don’t like, if that man is unattractive, have kids, old, don’t have standards, morals or values I’m not interested; there’s more to the list. But most likely if the woman didn’t want you then like you said, she don’t want you now. Also hurting another human being intentionally for my own selfish gain goes against my moral code.
I’m not sure if I fully agree that if she didn’t want you in the past she doesn’t want you now. I only say that because sometimes that woman could mature and realize things differently over time but I also get the premise of this video. Tony definitely has my respect
I’ve been trying to get my daughter to look at Tony Gaskins videos forever! Yesterday she seen one of his reels and loved it! Now she’s been binge watching his videos! I just sent her this video! Look at God! TG is the truth he’s direct, he’s transparent and he just keeps it 💯 blessings Tony to you and the Queen 🙏🏾😀
Women can spot these types of women very easily and not all of these women are beautiful naturally. Makeup, surgery and many other great tools women can use for their advantage if they have diabolical ideas to pursue.
@@flydollronda1926 Right the women who are not humble will milk men of their wealth whether a regular man with an employment or wealthy man. Unfortunately, most men see the truth many years later.
@@ashleycbla yea just seeing and you're right some guys might get mad and lash out when they feel insecure. I tend to not need them I just want to spend time so when I pull away they start getting worried.
Man, the devil really works overtime to get Tony thinking like that, but it's true the 'fake' world out there will have you question yourself, unnecessarily. Great convo as usual!
Spoiler Alert: Nope! You don't attract anything. So, you mean to tell people that little kids attract pedophiles?! Get outta here with that! You can't take that statement and apply it across the board. You're just regurgitating what you heard someone else say. People are attracted to what they are attracted to because it's psychological. People's perspectives/psychological makeup or issues come from lots of different things. How they were raised, abused, the environment, finances, religion, political beliefs, culture, music etc.
Tony has a great sense of humor and has a very important message to share; plus it is the 💯truth. People can create a mess of their lives trying to live up with Joneses. You would wonder when is enough enough! 😢
Attraction is key if someone is approaching. Mutual attraction and I don’t see it wrong for a reasonable person who’s not thinking sexually to approach. It’s not wrong. And I know a few virgins that have approached and caught some good ones. Everyone isn’t evil or vindictive.
Absolutely💯!! There’s a lot of hopelessness in the world. Nowadays, people have become more desperate/needing validation/acknowledgement. These are insecurities within both men/women. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏽👑
Boo hoo men getting gamed by women!! Good job ladies .How long have men been doing this or worse to women?? I don't feel bad bit. Keep it up ladies! The nerve! Lol
Mr, Gaskins, I love ur calm voice and powerful messages. Yes, Sir! u are God sent. I love listening to u!! I can't go a day without ur amazing videos! Much love from the Netherlands! Be blessed Sir!
I've known this for years... I've seen so many men get played without realising what's happening to them. What's really shocking is that guys are only starting to figure this out...
@@dimedavispresentstalkyospit girl BYE. Nobody asked you. 😂 are you even in the blessed tribe? Obviously not. We don’t argue over here. We BLOCK AND DELETE. Better not say nothing slick to mr.gaskin either ! You gone be blockedTTTT
Once again, grateful for you sharing these videos. And I just want to say that respectfully, its ok if your hairline is fading. It's normal for men. May want to try to take a little more magnesium to hold on to what you got.
Tony, it really depends on a woman's values. If they get their values from social media & advertising, you don't want her because she will leave you if you can't give her the money she wants. I never preferred a tall man. I mean height did not matter to me. It was always the man's personality that mattered to me.
He did say 7 out of 10. That’s not all woman out of billions of women. Social media unfortunately doesn’t not show the minority of good men and women because it’s not entertaining to most people who watch tv.
Brother Gaskins they little butts know that already their also manipulative using their money to get that kind of woman because their saying they don’t want an “average” nice looking good woman they want the eye candy “average” girl who want their money they know what it is😆🤷🏽♀️
I def believe what u said “women who shoot their shot are mostly loose” i done seen it with my own eyes and dudes be stressing I want a woman to shoot her shot it’s a turn on & she ain’t scared..I’m like boy u just don’t know 🤣❗️
Every guy I'm attracted to studies me & plans out crazy tests on me. Unfortunately, I never pass, because my heart rules, not my mind. If I'm not interested, then my mind rules.
A men will speak to a women because of how she looks. I never heard a men say, she is ugly but let me talk to her. A women will say and often says he has no money but has potential let me date him. The reasons a women dated a men in high school got to be wayyy different once they are older. … A women can choose a men to date that has money but no looks. Just as the men chooses her for her looks. The dynamic between men and women is broken because women keep choosing as if they were in high school, “is he cute, or handsome” Of course there is women that will only date to take from good men, just as men will date women to get to the next level and leave them.
That part was interesting 😂 with the women shooting their shot, I did it once and hated it bc a friend told me I should. I felt like I started every conversation and on the third day I stopped talking to him. It felt unnatural yet I was a virgin at the time and was subtle.
That could be true also . I was at McDonald’s one day and this guy will not stop starring at me and when I looked at his finger he had a ring on.. then I am walking to my car at this guy is trying to hollar at me , but of course he wasn’t my type.. lol
