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I think it's soo disrespectful for a man to be liking other women's photos when he's in a relationship! Ladies, if your man is doing this, you need to get yourself a new man! 💯
My husband was doing this . When I found out and told him I don't like it and to stop doing it because he's a married man, He got defensive saying she's a friend from highschool and he don't see what the "big deal is". I told him not only is it disrespectful but it's also that's embarrassing for me as a woman to have my husband giving other women attention in that way. I told him I will not put up with it and don't do it again.
I feel you. It depends on the nature of the photo. My husband has facebook and has checked liked on many of female photos who are also my facebook friends. We know most of these women personally through our professions and church. These photos my husband checks "likes" are no where near dressing provacative or anything inappropriate. My husband and I discussed this. He said he checked "like" is because of the joy of the Lord she is expressing. And many of these women we both know are over comers of tribulations they have been through. And he is happy to see they are doing better with their lives. It is rare when he checks "like" on female photos. I'm grateful my husband is respectful towards me. The same is with me. I NEVER check "like" on a males photo. When I do it is family members. Other men I rarely check "like" on a man's photo is when he is posing with his wife, girlfriend, family or other people and when they have made an accomplishment in their lives. Whenever my husband puts a "thumbs up " emoji is for an encouragement because the woman has overcame an obstacle in something.
Yes you definitely can find out that the man is full of lust especially all those half naked women, they are following on FB. It lets you know if you are dealing with a grown man or "grown boy" I am so glad I have deactivated my Facebook account and I don't miss it, I am not going back on it, You definitely will have peace of mind.
agreed. if two people are in a serious commitment, there should be little to no social media activity...i.e. following, liking, commenting on the opposite sex's photos.
Keep praising God; waiting; learning; and preparing. It can be very discouraging; however we need to know this so that we can give the boot to the dum men/boys!!
Honestly its a turn off if a grown man 30+ has all those social medias.... Tell me why a 30+ man needs a fb, instagram, tik tok , whatsapp, AND more ??
men and women wasting so much time on Social Media...the woman with a big booty is just that ...a woman with a big booty ....she could have a nasty attitude etc ....same with men....all that glitters is not gold ..🙃
This shit killing me man. I love my girl she my bestfriend...i thought it was harmless...never even thought bout how it would affect her...fellas leave the pics alone...i don't want no one else!!!
This is why when I meet a man if he has social media, I watch him ! I don’t mention what I see but I take note and we don’t last more than 3 weeks. If we do last more than that I live to regret it. Believe this word ladies this is not to be played with...
I do the same thing I won't like them, follow them, or interact with them like a fan or female on some roster. I will just sit back and watch and observe cause your actions online vs offline will tell me all I need to know.
E White So true. That’s why we need to love ourselves, have self worth and respect for selves so we don’t accept anything that goes against our morals and beliefs.
So, whats uo with them girls that say I want a six foot guy, with hella money and a car and a deep voice, that isn't pure honest love. Everypne has types, everyone has their perfect man/women it just takes the right one.
Women are looking for what? Hahah women are looking for onlyfans. Women doesn’t love infact women doesn’t know what love is. Men are the ones looking for pure honest love. Women are all about what a man can do for them.
A lustful man is a man you do not need in your life. They will always be looking for the next best thing. He has 600 followers and he follows 2000 plus people and more than half of them are half nekkid women 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 run!
I just broke up with someone because of this. We went on a 5 day vacation and he posted all these pics and videos of himself that I took of him and not one of me and him. I brought it up to him and he said he want to keep his life private, meanwhile he posted 10 videos of our trip with none of me in it. When I brought it up he said he didn’t want to talk about it again. I brought it up again and he got defensive and I told him I know why he was doing it because he wants to be portrayed as single online and I wasn’t putting up with it. He always was adding someone new, liking pics and always active online. We met on instagram so why would it be any different. I’m glad I walked away! I won’t be hidden.
This happens to me. Almost to the T! It's so so hurtful. He says he wants his life private. But posts all the pics and videos that I take of him! He blocked me on fb. Then unblocked me. Hearting other girls pics but not mine. Then I asked him nicely who someone was and why he was putting hearts on her pics and he told me sorry it made you feel like there's something going on. There's not. But that's the thing. I didn't think that until he said it! And my red flag radar is going off like crazy. :/
@@badcoordinates it’s just a turn off and so childish. It just reminds me of something a young boy would do, these are grown men surfin social media to gawk at women as if they never seen them before.
Yes, protect him Lord. He's exposing all the dirty linen and allowing women to be set free from lies and bondages. Cover him under your precious blood from the fiery darts and arrows of the enemy. 🙏
I admit🤷🏾♀️ I judge people by what/who they are following. If he is following a whole bunch of big booty Judy's. RED FLAGS 🚩🚩🚩🚩 Turn OFF instantly🙅🏾♀️
If a man is taking photos...he has social media. Don't feel special that he's sending them to you. He's sending them also to Karen, Debbie, and Melissa too.
You are so right. I thought the video he sent me he made just for me. I found out he was on Tik Tok and saw the same video. I was upset and hurt...I no longer felt special. Social media is the devil.
This is so true! I was married to such a godly man that I had access to all of his social media, his phone, his email, etc. I pray to God I receive another one like him. RIP Mr. Schilling. 🙏
I don’t even like being friends with men I date on social media. It’s almost a guarantee that if I liked him before seeing is Instagram, I’ll dislike him once I see that he’s friends with too many IG models or too many women in general. Men think I’m petty for cutting them off for this. But it always bothered me and your message just confirmed what I knew in my spirit. Tony this message was everything!
Tony, you’re a beacon of light in our messed up world. I love how you said we need real relationships and real bonds in our society. Interesting how you said our society is being controlled by porn. Porn hides under layers and layers but so many involved in it. I also like how you said you don’t like viewing women who objectify themselves because of what it does to your spirit.
Yes social media is the devil, when u using it wrong. And I HAD a grown boy. We argued abt the same crap. Tried to make me think I was insecure cuz he wanted to continue to like female photos, and that’s just the beginning. But glad to say I woke up and moved on. I knew I wasn’t crazy. I felt it was wrong in my spirit and thank God for keeping my eyes open.
We didn’t either maybe 6/7mths. And at the end he was saying how he wanted to fix things and how he really liked me. I was gone mentally so by then I was gone physically.
Jelli jell I know this 55 year old man who use social media liking,flirting,IM and DM with women I had to remove myself from his circle, I’m not boosting his ego!
Yes girl I had this grown boy like pictures of women he knew! In their thongs bent over in camera I'm like so that's what you like? That is just the tip of the iceberg
I just ended it with a guy I was seeing for 4 months. He was always commenting on others women’s pics...but never mine. And these were not just regular pics...they were all seductive. I confronted him and he denied it! Really? He can have them...I’m done! Stay away from these men ladies!! Far away!!
The TRUTH shall set you free. Everything you said is true Tony. Ladies stop with the I’m not the jealous type because guess what you’re making it easier for him to cheat in peace.
Exactly. Too many women are worries abt “being his peace”. Meanwhile, he’s wreaking havoc bc you sitting there being peaceful when you need to put your foot down.
You can tell the grown boys on social media vs the grown men. They use the platform totally different & if you’re dating a man and find something disrespectful but receive no apology or removal of post? RUN sis, because that’s the same disrespect you’ll receive in real life.
Men make it seem like it’s no big deal with the likes on pictures that are inappropriate but I’ve always had an issue with that. If a man can’t respect your relationship and let the disrespectful behavior go then he’s definitely not the one. I’m at the point where I’m not allowing any men to waste my time. When red flags pop up and I bring it up but the disrespectful behavior continues I’m out. 🚩🙅🏾♀️
I've found this after telling my boyfriend I'm not comfortable with him following half naked IG women. I work as a model, and I've been that woman having her photos liked/commented on by taken men. It doesn't feel good for any of the women involved! Luckily my boyfriend immediately unfollowed these accounts - so please believe there are good men out there. Having standards does not make you 'insecure', it means you love yourself and know you deserve the best.
My bf did the same. He unfollowed most. He doesn’t like the sexy nekkid pics (I think bc he doesn’t want me to see) but he still likes their selfies? That’s wrong right? Am I overreacting bc now it’s only hot selfies?
Yea this topic is something everybody need to hear!! You got men who got 4000 and 5000 Facebook friends and majority of them are women they liking every picture and the worst part is the ♥️. The disrespect is out there in the open for everyone to see they all in the comments being thirsty and a lot of them are even married or in relationships. This $Cash App thing is now a new way for men to pay for sex. I ask myself do people with morals and values even exist anymore??
yes just broke up with someone after 8 months had enough of his disrespect. Liking and LOVING women everyday and young girls too! so pissed but should have listened to my intuition from the beginning.
I followed the IG of a guy who wanted to get to know me. He had an insane number of selfie posts and an insane number of posts of big booty women. I told him, "Your IG makes me wanna throw up". I unfollowed him and stopped dealing with him.
agnes poku whenever I see them with a bunch of selfies or videos of them just doing nothing but trying to look sexy in front of the camera I’m immediately turned off. I already know they’re just out here thirst trappin
I'm not the type to look into my mans phone. But the day I suspected something going on with my (now ex) husband so much was happening on social media and in text messages. He had secret apps etc but the issue was he was following men. I thought it was suspect to follow all these men working out I noticed the gym trainers were all gay, and he didnt even work out. Needless to say he was on the down low and it was an awful experience. Once I found out things got crazy, as I had discovered his secret and he never intended for that to happen. It's so sad because I recently seen him flirting with more woman online and they have no idea that he is a minister, divorced, or gay. I was a virgin when I married him. I just Thank The Most high for protection. Be careful and trust your intuition and the Holy Spirit.
The Treatment Room May God Almighty continue to cover you! It is well with you! He never leaves you nor forsake you even with all the hurtful and painful things we go through🙏🏽Stay blessed my sis!
Oh heavenly father please please please continue to cover, "the Gaskins family " with your blood & blessing. Keep them safe... Lord jesus bind those that even have a thought to do anything negative to this family.
This is so true. I’ve been dealing with this for 3 years. I finally broke it off with him two months ago. His response was you’re leaving me for liking women pictures on Instagram you’re insecure af. I’m so glad I made that decision because it’s literally a game for these grown boys.
you absolutely did the right thing, sis. those types of men are only there to waste your time! they are never serious about the relationship....else they wouldn't need to be following and liking photos of random women! actions and behavior say it all.
As a man, I can honestly say if you’ve never met those women in real life to asses them (if he said they’re just friends).. then you’ve made a great longterm decision. If I keep liking a girl’s pics, I’m subconsciously, signaling that I’m wishy washy about who I’m currently dating and not being intentional. Something I stopped doing after I was 25yrs old
This was the truth on here. Majority of the men I know especially over 40 on social media trying to see if they still got it. Posting pics of there body and sending them to the DM. These are men with good jobs/ careers but still living grown boy mentality.. Be Blessed!!
Agreed Tony, that you won't find too many men that are 100% single! I know firsthand that If a man you're dating says "You haven't seen me talking to or posted up with another woman online" yet he's liking other bare booty women's posts... that's a red flag!! You may not see his full activity, he may say he's single but that doesn't mean its true!! 🙌🏾
Ðemetria Ͼalvin They can hide thier activity online n dating apps. ive experienced that one for myself. he was talking to other women but was trying to be sneaky about it. 🤔🤔
Yes, I know some hide, living double, & triple lives. It's a shame, and then they insult your intelligence thinking you won't find out but if you pay close attention to their actions, you'll spot their inconsistencies.
I used to think that I could not ask any man to give me his codes because that was an invasion, but at the same time, I would always find my way in their social media because I could feel that they were up to something. Every single time I checked I would find trash. All cheaters. So nowadays and thanks to Tony, I know that I cannot accept any guy saying no to me reading his texts. I never had a problem with showing mine, and even believed that it was a wrong thing to ask, that it came out of my insecurities. Never again. Thank you Tony, I listen to you every day and I am learning so much about myself! Now I know that I will stay single and abstinent until the day I meet a real Man. Bless you!
I really feel that's why this pandemic was allowed to happen, we need to down and reflect on our lives and get back to the center. We are out of control, all morals are gone. Thank you.
Whoaaaaa buddy!!!! Tony is out here giving FREE GAME!!!! Dated a grown boy for 2 years- never gave me passwords and didn’t wanna post me. Thought we were building trust- whole time he had another woman- the ENTIRE TIME WE WERE TOGETHER!!! Ladies just follow your gut instincts- your not wrong.
Yupppppp. The guy I see says oh I don't like her she's trashy and desperate for attention. You're gorgeous and classy. Whatdya know.... he's liked every single pic last six months of her...even the spread eagle ones
Bro you know I agree with you 100% because I was doing it to my lady and I heard her so bad but I'm doing better I'm in social media go cuz it's nothing good out of it
They also have multiple accounts. Don't be fooled. Two brothers one married 40 yrs and one never married --both have multiple fb accts. Half with their pics, half without... Not what killed the opportunity, never made it far enough for that to be a problem. Guy crossed every line TG has ever mentioned!
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom for God, Tony. I am 17 years old and so glad i found your videos at this age, and I dont know what I would be like without your videos. I ordered a woman’s influence and I’ve been reading it ever since it got delivered. God bless you and your family!!!
Reina Huff so proud of you sis for taking in this info at such an early age. You are about to save yourself from so much heartache and foolishness as long as you put these lessons to use. God bless you, keep up the good work on self love ✨
I don’t usually comment but I’m so glad you touched on this. I’ve literally been thinking about this topic for the past month looking for answers because I felt like I was overreacting. This just confirms what I was feeling. God is definitely working through you.
34:40 I lived this. Before my husband died he went to the hospital a lot and I would have to get into his phone to update his social media so everybody could be aware. He never had a problem with me knowing his passwords.
A friend of mine was always complaining that her husband wouldn't check that he was in a relationship on Facebook. She was irritated but at the same time just also defending him to the point she got mad at me. I was trying to explain to her that people you follow on social media, especially Facebook where it's more so people you know represent your Social Circle. So when you refuse to put you're in a relationship or post pictures with your partner, it represents you being reluctant to tell the people in your Social Circle and pretty much most of the people you know about your spouse. That's not normal to feel the need to hide someone you're supposed to be proud of from the world
I found out that my ex was a dog checking his Instagram activities. A 40-year-old man lusting on fake butts and twerking girls. Thank you Lord for letting the man go
Hey Tony! Social media can say a lot about a person 🤔 I’m from the days where men used to approach a woman. I miss that era but those days are long gone sad to say for a larger majority . Now it’s dm 😒
but man havent changed at all, they just got worse. That's why you need to have standards and not allowing anyone in your life who doesnt bring love and material benefits
same....so many of us learn the hard way. i always tell other women to move on the minute you notice his true character....because regardless of what he's telling you, he's not serious about the relationship if he can't respect it.
i’m internally crying i want to cry but i feel myself suppressing it. thank u for this video it opened my eyes and gave me confirmation that my intuition is valid. my feelings are valid. i need to separate myself from this boy.
Typically men go back to the same place they met you. I've had a dude I dated lie he had social media and found his profile. Of course other red flags, but I cut it short. He barely made 2months in my life.
Me too. I just caught one in a lie that I found on social media. We weren't friends but I searched him anyway. The lie was small, but I was like nah...I'ma go ahead and terminate this lil relationship.
Y'all did right by leaving, because if lies about that, what else is he lying about. Think about it, for everyone else that will read this and think that it is petty.
Thanks for bringing this topic up . But it’s a topic much needed so many ppl have broken up and even lost their life because of social media it’s the # 1 cheating site , dating site, pornography site smh that’s why I got off years ago n happen about it. This is a trap it’s deceitful and stressful trying to see what he or she is doing not worth the stress my tho
I lost my husband to girls on Facebook , an dating sites . I HATEthat site. I am divorced and very lonely now . I wished there was NO such thing as social media . Thank. . you girls for destroying my life . I hope it happens to you one day . !!!
You forgot to blame your husband for his part in it was well. Both are to blame! He destroyed your life as well and I’ll never understand why women go along with this nonsense
You are the first man to finally tell the damn truth!! I’m so glad that there are men out there who know that SM definitely is more serious than what ppl try to make it
I’ve always stressed this & everyone has always tried to tell me I’m insecure or childish. But someone being honest about just not being ready is what I’d respect. Playing it off as if the women is insecure or embarrassing herself says a lot about you as a person because a like/ repost should never be that serious. Older men especially should not be that consumed into social media in a negative/disrespectful manner.
OMG, thanks so much Tony! You call those immature ‘boys’ out-in their 40’s, 50’s, 60’s, 70’s, still out there playing, ghosting, bread crumbing the women! It’s such a disgrace! Thanks for all you do to support us women and the men willing to listen and learn. God bless you and the family!
Thank you Tony. My relationship was just broken up tonight over social media. I was told I’m crazy for this very conversation. Bless you and your wife. I’m glad it’s still relationships out here putting God first. Very good advice.
It’s been 2 weeks and I keep thinking that it was my fault, maybe was overreacting. He commented on another girls video and the bad part is that he knew her. I asked him why he hurt me? And he responded “no one hurt me.. how I felt was based on myself”. But it’s disrespectful.. specially after catching him DM other females.
@@pamelabledsoe2635 Aww thank you! ❤️ I’m heart broken about it, but I know I deserve better. Now I am able to see the real him and this taught me a valuable lesson not to ignore the red flags!
I just caught my boyfriend liking 3 women's Facebook photos from the first months of our relationship and til now. He denied and lied at first about not knowing what he did. Then I'd show the screenshot. Then he downplayed it and said that he "knows" them and that those are just pictures 😣 after the arguments, he apologized. Then he said I'm crazy for digging through his past, even though the information I found was public. Sadly we live together and I am trying to leave although name is on lease and I'm trying to get out of the lease. He also called me out of my name 3 weeks ago. I'm just done with him...sad but it'll be better not living with him and always being under stress in the relationship.
Listen up!!! Anytime employers are checking social media as part of the interview/hiring process.... you know it's IMPORTANT and VERY RELEVANT! 😂👏🏽 I ask to see a man's social media and let them see mines in the early stages. I see too much of the wrong thing.... it's a wrap! This saves me a lot of time. I want to know what's in your head. Social media will definitely expose it! Thank you Mr. Gaskins... Be blessed!
Social media should be something that you use to keep in contact with family and close friends. It's not for your contact with the world. We are not to be of this world. How do I know we don't need social media? Because there was a point in time when we didn't even have it and relationships actually could last. Think about it...your grandmother did not have social media and she still had struggles with her own husband, so don't you think social media has amplified the relational struggles we have today?
Watching this made me unfollow so many pages that didn’t serve me on Social Media, if I want my future man to move right on social media I must do the same as well, this helped me to look at me for sure 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
I recently had to stop using IG i don’t follow any instagram models but for some reason i go to my discover page there’s basically naked women everywhere it’s like there forcing me to look at it. I felt like I started comparing women i met in person to these basically artificial women I’m seeing online. That stuff will basically almost desensitize you to the women in reality. For example if your looking at women basically naked that’s a 10 in your eyes a naked that’s a 5 or 6 in reality will do nothing for you
I'm a 50 year old man on tiktok married for over 10 years following my granddaughter. And women are following me on tiktok and I have no videos. I was like huh that weird. Now watching your video it all makes sense. I didn't realize the rabbit hole I was going down. Bless you for making this video for my eyes to be opened.
Social media can tell you a lot about a guy. I’ve gone on a guy’s SM and it’s riddled with porn or he’s heavily communicating and interacting with women who post provocative and hyper sexual tweets and pictures and it tells me everything I need to know.
If only many men think the way u do, where the woman doesnt have to tell the man what to do on his soc med, that would be awesome.keep preaching brother!
