A Man Loves It WHEN...! With Dr. John Gray (Full Interview) 

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As a 26 year old recovering from a heartbreak and even wondering if my ex is human sometimes lol, this was so great to read! I've since learned that I'm actually in love with myself and am working on forgiving my younger self for letting us be used and pouring into someone unworthy and completely loosing myself in the relationship. I love your motto, we women should be the ones being chased. I actually have taken up running at 5am 3-4x a week so I can remind myself to keep fit for these men to chase me😂🫶 I'm even seeing abs form and I feel so great most days now💖

Widowed at 30. After healing and grieving i wish I had put myself into positive social circles and put myself out there just to mingle. I'm 65, single and now socializing. I got stuck between sorrow and closure. Best wishes.😊

I go into a tailspin when my guy backs away. I get panicky and anxious when he pulls back after he’s been attentive. The natural thing is to wonder what the hell did I do to make him go away? Now I know through Dr. Gray that it’s hormonal, but it doesn’t take away the sting of rejection. When I listen to sermons about how God created women for men, I get confused, because He made us so incompatible and opposite of one another. It’s perplexing to say the least!

@@theresas.3808Focus on ‘what he’s doing for you’ not on ‘what he’s not doing’. And repeat ‘everything is ok’ ❤

@@theresas.3808and now you know, when he pulls away, he’s really in the feels 😊

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This. I’ve become super busy and my man has been much more committed and responsive. 🤷‍♀️

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Awww...Thank you Andrea! I hope someday I will! Much love! xo

Both genders could have relationships but there are so few options. Men would rather not date or have relationships if all they meet are masculine women. If a man has very low selfesteem he might enter into a relationship with a masculine woman but he will be the submissive one woman complain about. Millions of men have dropped out completely seeing nothing in it for them and only being complained about for not being feminine enough and when they are both are miserable. I see the conflict between modern women and males is a self regulating trend that limits societies that have gone off the deep end, fron replicating itself. US society is dying, there are fewer babies per woman than ever, 0.8children per women so in 1-2 generations the current breeding stock will be the very last living individuals of millions of years of family history of each generation successfully riaising a child that reproduces. Western society is harmful to the human race so dying out is a control mechanism that has been repeated for most empires that became more distructive and remote from the biology. Modern society denies biology. That used to be isolated to individual societies but now with instant communications and western social media invading the customs of almost all societies, all that are open to western social media are seeing dramatic drops in birth rates and marriages. Pandemics used to locally regulate population growth from exceeding the capabilities of the land and climate conditions to support a population but now this drop below replacement levels of child birth might be the last few generations of the human race that would give the earth a chance to recover. The assumption of the 3rd and 4th wave of feminism is that genders are the same but with different external plumbing has only been around 50 years but has created world wide changes in human behavior that denies biology. 35% of American males, 30 years of age are virgins, and only 4% of women are at the same age. That is a sure sign of population collapse. Whole populations of males are out of the dating and mating game not by choice. Surveys show that women estimate 80% of men are below average, which means few women will have successful relations or families. You can see that in the dramatic delay in marriage in 30 years going from the median age of marriage in the US was 22 for females and now it is 34. Those in opposite sex marriages in percentage of population has dropped from 89% in 1970 to 24% in 2000. 2 parent families with children are becoming rare, far less than replacement rates. Due to the influence on the entire world by US control of the internet, all societies with access to US social media are seeing population disruptions. The growth in population in the US is almost entirely first generation immigrants. Personally I moved from the US 22 years ago and found my new home had more traditional demographics like 1960 USA in 2000 but but with social media, from the US, in 22 years the marriages and child birth has dropped, and age of marriage has advances from 19 to 32 years of age, and includes only 31% of the population. The government has made it a priority to help young families, with grants for having a baby enough cash to buy a larger home, and 3 years of paid family leave but marriage rates keep falling among those connected to 24/7 social media and remain traditional levels of marriage at a young age in areas where there is no local internet access Most of this change in dating and mate selection has occured in the last 10 years, so the change is faster here than in the US. If you ever want a relationship you are going to have to search in that large segment of disenfranchised men who have been driven out of the dating and marriage market, and drop the masculinity. Stop trying to control everything and get your way all the time because it has not worked, and assume a more feminine behavior and view. Being alone and the problem solver naturally means becoming masculine, it was from necessity but can you drop it in order to form a healthy relationship with a man? Good luck but act fast because your sexual market value declines rapidly as women age and become harder edged, compative and competitive when men and women evolved to compliment each other is strengths and weaknesses. Go out now, any delay means lower odds of every having a complimentary partner who can solve many of the problems you had to assume being single. Men love to be needed and will take on any burden for their mate. If you can revert to your feminine long enough to attract a partner, you can return to your nature. It is not fun for women to take on what men do willingly for their mate.

Agreed! Single mom here too. 37 and feels a bit impossible but all you can do is keep your mind on goals (including relationships)

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Yes, he is! Thanks for watching Kay!

@@MichelleMarchantJohnson You're welcome 🤗

Does that mean you and husband split up ?

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Aww love makes the world go around and what better way to be helping us with these videos 💓

Aww.. Eva! You are so so sweet! I'm glad you enjoyed it! Much love!

Checkout Shera7 she will put you on your hypergamy journey. In her words if he's a 50/50 type of guy then he's not the right one. Don't try and change him instead get a new man and keep dating until you find the right target which is a man that gives to you if that's what's important to you. You can always say NO I don't believe in 50/50 financial relationships but it's easier to jus move on.

First of all women spend a lot of money wearing high heels make up getting everything beautiful for a man to enjoy our company unless I’m mistaken that is not free. If he wants 50-50 show up in yoga pants sneakers and no make up

50/50 is the amount each person makes. So if a bill is $100 and you don’t pay $50 each you pay 50% of each individual’s income.

@@subliminal2096 lol nope. Providers do not go 50/50.

@@khrisi9410 I want him to go 50-50 on what it took for me to look gorgeous to meet him including the high heels that I don’t wear for my health

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Leave him alone because he is interested in his girlfriend.

@@Rut-vi7iz I am and I feel much better too.

@Karla-yi5ld in my experience these guys are walking man child disasters. You can do sooo much better. I feel sorry for his girlfriend . You deserve the best. Block all contact and he will be off your mind sooner than you realize.❤️

Yes and continue walking until you reach the front door, open it and walk away.

You don't know someone unless you spend many hours in person doing a variety of activities with them. That's why long distance is hard. It costs a lot of money to achieve anything real.

I get You Danuta, I feel your every word, being in a similar long distance separated relationship with a very busy man. I feel your pain...

I understand your divine male connection 🤗

I hope you're not giving him your money. Because if you are, you are being duped, scammed and abused. If he is really a man who loves you, he will provide funds for you to be with him wherever he is. Anything less and he is BSing you.

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