and the of explaining those kinds of intrusive thoughts to a doctor would have been unbearable. I also would've have avoided talking about it as much as possible
And it's okay to be sexually attracted to people though! That's human nature, but unfortunately its completely possible for it to effect someones life if it's nonstop. It's okay to get professional help for it, don't go to the internet please.. people on the internet will say absolutely anything, because there is no consequences for what they say. It's sad he just wanted to live his life without struggling, and this is what happened when he tried to self medicate.. lesson is don't trust anyone on the internet about your body, see a physician, it could save your life.
I get what you want to say but it also isn't true... I don't NEED to drink coffee but I am and I enjoy it. As I but have any problem with heart, blood pressure or digestive system I can do it and it won't affect me negatively. But on the other hand makes me a little happier in the morning. :) You also can get all of the nutrients by having very plain and boring diet but why would you? Spices are nice.
Also along the same lines, if you wouldn't eat it or wipe your a*s with it, it belongs in the trash. That second one is in reference to toilet paper that has fallen on the bathroom floor, or in the toilet. That happened where I work, and someone just put it back where they found it, still wrinkly and half drenched in toilet water.
One problem is that it's really hard to get taken seriously when you want to talk with a medical professional about an excessive sex drive. It seems that you often just get told stuff like "other men wish they had that problem" as though you didn't just confide in them about something deeply personal that's clearly troubling you. I don't know whether that was the case for CC and whether that's the reason he resorted to this, but something like that can easily destroy any faith someone has in the entire field of medicine's ability to help them. Don't just laugh and dismiss it if someone tells you something like that. Because they had to overcome a lot of feelings of shame to even get that far, and they wouldn't have done that if there wasn't a problem. You want people to _seek_ care, not _avoid_ it, and by acting like that you're contributing enormously to the latter.
Aye. Mental disorder/illness often carry a lot of negative connotation with them, and so does going to a psychiatrist. But its just such a valuable field of medicine...
And, for Pete’s sake, if you do something that might have been a little unwise, just tell your medical team right away. Don’t make them do detective work that will delay your treatment. They will find out anyway.
Yes very medical but this case again makes me rub my eyes wondering yikes... and Why, but he explains it well then. I can only guess why a man would 'medical castrate?' himself for likely wrongful thoughts he feels he has?
Get a Latin primer. Latin is the also the language of lawyers and the courts. Latin used to be required to graduate from high school. Nurses need to learn Latin as well. It is truly useful to take a little time to learn even just one or two words per day. If learned gradually in that manner you can learn 400-800 words per year.
as soon as you said he had uncontrollable compulsive thoughts of a sexual nature any time he saw another person, I immediately knew 'CC' was experiencing intrusive thoughts and likely had OCD. OCD isn't just keeping your room super clean. it's so much more than that and is rated one of the most debilitating mental disorders
@@raven4k998 maybe mental health professionals and society at large should do a better job of making people aware of these conditions and their symptoms accurately. As someone with ocd and adhd, its not my fault that I only got diagnosed as an adult with both of these
@@rashinthamendis2376 Most definitely your fault or your parents.. You have access to decades of research on symptoms of what you're experiencing. It would be your fault that you can't connect the dots not the fault of doctors/science.
I like how the Ambulance that comes for every patient in every video, no matter what State, is from District of Colombia. Those guys really get around.
As someone with OCD, I have to sympathize with this guy, sounds like he was struggling with intrusive thoughts. I hope he was able to get therapy after this whole ordeal.
@@JamesterIsDivergentwhat? i imagine most of us with ocd that involves ourselves (like harm ocd) don't act on our intrusive thoughts, but are obviously very distressed by them and have compulsions to try to soothe it.
I once overdosed on calcium. I had bought a calcium supplement, which I realized later that the mg's were way to high. Then I took two tums, not realizing that Tums are just calcium. I can't remember everything I experienced, but I do remember terrible joint pain. Crazy enough, if you OD on calcium it actually causes calcium to be leached from your joints. It was pretty painful.
yeah you can over do anything becuase a deficiency is you not getting enough of something poisoning is when you get to much of something for example your body does use lead but the amount of lead in your body is a small amount because you do not need much to be healthy and as you know to much lead can cause lead poisoning calcium is the same if you take to much so you can over do it with anything your body needs if you get to much so know how much you need of in your body and do not overload your body with it
I’ve seen folks with intrusive thoughts like this in our ocd clinics. It’s important to remember that people with OCD thoughts like this, hate having these thoughts. They don’t enjoy the obsessions and often they feel fear or distress whenever they happen - not sexual desire or pleasure. I empathize so much.
Dr. Bernard’s explanation of the guy didn’t give me any reason to believe he had any mental health problems at all. What part of seeing a baddie at work and getting horny and having naughty thoughts about her is unnatural? When you teach guys that any attempt to flirt or secure a girlfriend is considered creepy and rapey, when you teach them that their natural drives are toxic and wrong, when you set up a work environment where simply breathing in a woman’s direction wrong can get you fired for sexual harassment, don’t be surprised when more and more stories like these surface.
I have this too. Its called primarily obsessive OCD. If you dont have a therapist, please find one as fast as you can, because it was ruining my life before i got one.
A urologist friend of mine once worked on a patient who performed mechanical autocastration, using a beet knife. He did need a bit of life saving surgery (you know, arterial bleeding and stuff), but in the end, his plan had worked.
I worked in behavioral health for23 years. We got an OCD patient once who was a chronic (self-pleasurer), literally obsessed to the point he did it dozens of times every day & the skin was falling off his parts (still didn't stop him, sadly). He was an OTR truck driver & also did it while driving which was horribly dangerous. We felt sorry for him. He was truly miserable and it was ruining his life & he was in danger of losing his CDL as well. They finally decided on Depo-Provera injections (female hormones) which reduced his nonstop urges and was doing much better and pretty satisfied with treatment after 6 months.
In my semi sheltered life I knew these people had to exist. But sometimes I wonder if it's a mix of upbringing because really I'm not sure if trauma could be why. But chemical and hormonal is something I never thought of
It sounds like he was having intrusive thoughts that were sexually violent. It's actually rather tragic that he felt he had no option but to try to research and self medicate. He knew he couldn't act on them and they were devastating his life, but if he sought help, then it sounds like he feared prosecution and persecution.
Yeah my best friend has "pure O" OCD and it's so sad. He's such a good person but he is constantly anxious that he's evil because of the intrusive thoughts.
@@sveinungjhaving those thoughts alone wouldn’t have got him committed unless flat out told them he was planning on acting on those thoughts and the doctor thought he was a threat , he would have just been medicated
@@sean5558 That is true, but the fear of it happening is real, especially when you don't have an explanation/understanding of why these thoughts are happening in the first place. A lot of medical professionals are also clueless about how intrusive thoughts work which can lead to some very painful and judgemental conversations on the way to getting proper help. It typically works out in the end, but it is absurdly difficult to take that first step.
That poor guy. He needed therapy, to talk through his feelings. Instead, he inflicted pain on himself! 😢 Fascinating video. Well balanced, educational, and not patronising! 👍
In case anyone was wondering at 4:01 in the video. The message that flashed by was; “I’m not giving any opinion about raw milk here. You cannot sell it in most places without getting blasted by some authority, but if you feel compelled to, please leave the longest possible comment about it.”
@@helenaconstantine omfg, so goes the dirt and forest I go hiking in!!! Omfg I sleep by bugs! Holy snikes! Sometimes I even get in creeks and streams!!! Why am I NOT dead yet?!!!
Its ridiculous that RU-vid forces its creators to adopt such a silly way of self-censoring to not get demonetized. Even medical terms are not okay if they have *aaaaaaanything* to do with sexual activity.
Works for some people, doesnt for others. It works for the less disturbing ones for me, but the ones comcerning death and gore, i cant let myself think about that or ill be filled with dread all night
I've struggled with intrusive thoughts my whole life and I'm glad you presented the patients OCD with respect and neutrality. Most people don't like to talk about their intrusive thoughts because they come from what the person experiencing them thinks of as the most taboo so there's a lot of self stigmatizing. There needs to be more awareness for what they are because having intrusive thoughts and not knowing is like constantly being held hostage by your own mind and believing it's because deep down you're a terrible person.
Intrusive thoughts can pop into mind at any time or linked to things as basic as switching on a light switch. They include things that the OCD sufferer finds repulsive and disgusting, such as harming others, paedophilic thoughts and visions of people dead/dying. All of which OCD sufferers virtually never do. However, you can see why a ritual may be done to try to alleviate these thoughts.
I understand the difference of resiliency due to having ocd or mental disorders, however the last part can be controlled with mindset. If you honestly believe it is wrong yet have intrusive thoughts but are able to stop it. It would mean that you are not a bad person. You may have the thought, but to have control is what makes an individual. Ive noticed with people i know that have conditions such as depression often blame themself in everything. Which leads to a cycle of rinse and repeat, medicine and theraphy may help. However mindset and how you view yourself goes a long way
My older brother is in the hospital following a heart attack. He was in better spirits when I sent him this video, with the message, "it could be worse". Thank you for your time in making these. My wife and I watch every month.❤
I have OCD and i really feel for this guy. I don't think I could ever bring myself to do something of this scale, but I understand the fear and distress with intrusive thoughts. I hope this guy has gotten the help he needs.
Yeah. It's actually good to see many comments on OCD and intrusive thoughts here. I lived for the first 22 years of my life absolutely unaware that they were a thing. I thought I was a freak and a monster who'd always have to hide his "real thoughts." And I was ashamed and alienated by that. I was afraid that I'd do something if I ever allowed myself the chance It did not even occur to me to look for any information on it. Then around 22, I actually spoke about it to an online friend (it's a lot easier to do something like that when you're just a handle on the internet), and it absolutely shocked me when they just told me, without any disgust or fear, that it sounds like intrusive thoughts, and immediately linked me to resources about it. That absolutely changed my life. Being able to put a name on it, seeing that it was a known and normal symptom of a known disorder, really made me feel absolutely redeemed. I was able to find help for it (I actually only realized I even had OCD from these symptoms, even if it is absolutely obvious in hindsight) and come to terms with the idea that these thoughts were not a reflection of me as a person, but a symptom. They became much more tolerable. Over time it allowed me to explain it to people close to me in terms that they easily understood and did not feel appalled by. It's been 10 and some years now and I am married to a person who is perfectly aware of my problems (which have become much less severe in any case) and accepts that without any judgement. I just hope that others can also come to understand that they do not need to be trapped by something like this.
@@goblinrat6119yes! It’s excellent that the awareness on intrusive thoughts and OCD seems great in these comments Often there’s that stereotype that OCD is washing your hands often, fear of germs and contamination, or lining things up perfectly While this can sometimes be true, I think intrusive thoughts, rumination, and obsession is more common Like the intrusive thoughts that this poor man was dealing with is very very common and typical in OCD It’s so important that this aspect of the disorder is made aware of, so sufferers don’t feel scared to come forward I’m so glad you were able to speak to the friend, it’s very important! I too have OCD, I was terrified when I was having these thoughts, but with googling, I found out what they were I now have a background in psychology
@@goodmorning2386 Well I've known people who were just that. Chronic hand washing OCD sufferers. Stereotypes are usually based on reality after all. The human race would end in two generations if everyone had OCD. It's a pretty weird alien genetic defect.
@@theworldisending22 Really? wow! never knew that!! Maybe you should go around telling everyone that crying isn't the only symptom of depression. People will think you're a genius!!!
One can't make up stuff like that. It's just mind boggling to me. This poor guy must have suffered massively to not come to the idea to just see a therapist first. This channel is like a crazy collection of darwin awards. I would have never thought of most of the stuff the people in these videos did to themselves.
That meme, "The doctors punching my balls as soon as I go under" f*cking KILLED me 😂😂😂 I love all the not so subtle imagery in this video and how hard you were trying to dance around saying certain words, even though they would've been medically accurate. Just shows how overreaching the RU-vid censors are 😂😂😂
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@@thatDUDEfromMAINE yeah, toothaches and related things are really unpleasant. I am getting over an infection now and it is horrible at first. Thankfully there is penicillin and other stuff. If you follow the doctors instructions the pain can noticeably decrease in 2 days but they recommend 10 days of antibiotics. These are not the one pill and you are done things my parents took. Medicine has changed so follow the doctor's instructions and don't stop taking the medication just because you feel a little better. You might have the infection come back as resistant to the antibiotic then you are screwed!! The idea is to get rid of as much of it as possible. Above all else don't put things into your body that were not intended to be there. Someone drank a jar of pickle juice and that was a big mistake too!
I agree. Glad to see some people still have sense. A lot of people with these kinds of thoughts/urges want to seek help and make a prevention plan but external shame and lack of resources hinders that. The people who think they should be refused help and just throw the ones who acted in their urges in prison are just showing they'd rather wait for someone to become a victim and punish the attacker than try to help the potential attacker before they do it.
Yes but a lot of people are already calling him a potential rapist and congratulating him for 'fixing himself' before attacking a woman. The poor guy sounds like he's just thoroughly screwed up with some sort of compulsive disorder.
Calcium chloride is also used for weight in tractor tires for better traction when pulling heavy loads. Also, it has a very low freezing point, so it doesn't need to be removed in winter. It is, however, highly corrosive to metal, so it can only be used in tube-type tires.
"At 2 month follow up, CC appeared to be in better spirits, with no more suprapubic pain, no more night sweats, and no more anxiety." I kinda expected 'no more testicles' lol
@@freezEwareThe lower testosterone might help a little, but the intrusive thoughts likely stem from a mental disorder. His first step should have been therapy. Even after this ordeal it's still his next step. If the problem is mental then find an expert and get treated. Even if you just suspect that it might be mental, it doesn't hurt to talk to an expert. It's a lot better than permanently injuring yourself or others.
@@freezEware hopefully someone referred him to a professional. whether it's OCD or maybe some hormonal issue causing hypersexuality, something is going on and it didnt have to come to injecting calcium chloride into himself
It’s crazy how isolating and scary mental health symptoms are till you see a psychiatrist and get a diagnosis and you realize there’s millions of other people like you out there people don’t understand why the diagnosis is so helpful and important to people gives you a reason why you’re feeling the way you do and a sense of normalcy
Sadly OCD is still highly misunderstood even among psychiatrists. My partner has OCD and when he tried to explain his intrusive thoughts, they just went “Huh, that’s weird, why would you have those.” ☹️
@@YuBeaceRight, when I explained my intrusive thoughts a doctor recommended that I get help for “dangerous thoughts.” Would NEVER act on my intrusive thoughts. Thought I was insane and dangerous until I learned I had OCD… was just absolutely petrified that I would act on my thoughts and was using compulsions to help. Four months of intensive inpatient care and ERP therapy (the correct treatment) and I’m feeling much much better than I was. INSANE how misunderstood OCD is- even in the medical community.
I've been very passionate about how the "intrusive thoughts" meme has created potential for more understanding of OCD but is also being used to wildly misrepresent what they are which can be a bad thing. People now think an intrusive thought is when you go to the store and suddenly get the urge to buy a big bottle of wine and get drunk or when you make an inappropriate joke or touch something you're not supposed to. None of those are really intrusive thoughts. I think most of us have experienced something of the sort, but a lot of people will look at you like you're insane or a bad person if you try to explain it. The "feeling like jumping" or "holding a knife and havign the thought of stabbing someone" are fairly common (though I don't know if they fit by the strict definition of the term), but people now think an intrusive thought is when you do something fun on an impulse instead of something highly distressing, so when someone explains their intrusive thoughts about murder, self-harm or the like, people still don't understand that they're unwanted thoughts and don't reflect the person in any way.
Yes! Knowing that it’s a medical thing you’re going through and not some “moral failing” is so freeing and reassuring. Speaking from experience with executive dysfunction/ADHD.
I would usually say that I dislike hospitals and doctor appointments, but I loved this channel so much that it made me change my mind. I've been binge watching this content and I can say: thank you for doing this for so many years, Dr. Bernard. Also, I find it amazing that the format hasn't changed, 'cause it's great.
Several years ago he started asking his subscribers for feedback, and I think the small critiques allowed his format to stay because he refined it so perfectly!
Yeah, RU-vid has been recommending this vlogging anesthesiologist and now I'll probably just die young because Im now too paranoid to ever go under for surgery again
as a man, this was incredibly painful to watch. why would someone ever do this to themselves? poor guy. edit: replies are proof that any comment can lead to a gender and sexuality argument
I wouldn't be surprised if the poor dude had pure O OCD - an anxiety disorder that causes the worst kind of intrusive thoughts, either about hurting yourself or others a lot of the time. My best friend struggled for years with it, and it took years of therapy and a bunch of meds, including an antipsychotic, to control the intrusive thoughts. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
it sounds like he was terrified he was going to grape somebody at some point, and took extreme self-sacrifical measures to make sure that never happens. its almost heroic in some way, he knew he was sick and he did his best to restrain himself against that sickness.
For those of who are wondering the freeze pause at 4:00 is “I'M NOT GIVING ANY OPINION ABOUT RAW MILK HERE YOU CANNOT SELL IT IN MOST PLACES WITHOUT GETTING BLASTED BY SOME AUTHORITY BUT IF YOU FEEL COMPELLED TO, PLEASE LEAVE THE LONGEST POSSIBLE COMMENT ABOUT IT”
A lot of people tend to think OCD is just when someone has the pet peeve of having something out of order or being a "clean freak". Its actually a physical issue in the brain where certain thoughts or thoughts patterns can get looped and these thoughts cause an overwhelming amount of anxiety. These thoughts can be anything and not something you consciously think of. The "C" in OCD stands for compulsion. Basically someone does a certain action that temporarily relieves the anxiety. As someone who has had OCD that involved intrusive sexual thoughts(straight or gay), it is a tremendous suffering to have to go through(especially in the case that I'm straight dude).
@@kyetes.866probably means it's quite distressing having compulsive gay thoughts while being straight. would be the same issue having compulsive straight thoughts if you were gay.
@@kyetes.866 Because he has intrusive thoughts that are homosexual in nature that he does not identify with. Imagine if you were 100% gay but your mind kept forcing you to think chicks were hot. That would be torture.
@@HTMLpopper I had the opposite happen, the compulsive behaviors are still going strong, but the intrusive thoughts I had back when I was going through puberty have become much rarer (to clarify, mine aren't sexual in nature, they mostly concerned religion - despite me not being a very religious person - as well as the incredably absurd and irrational fear that I might somehow summon a demon by accident)
Hey, Chubbyemu. I have OCD as well and it makes me so happy that you’re talking about it or something OCD adjacent. OCD is not just “Oh I gotta clean my house uwu”, it’s intrusive thoughts of every variety that disturb the mind because they are often what the patient wants to AVOID, not what they really want.
so you know what you have to do put cheese making ingredients In-between your legs directly into the pair like CC did just like he did it will help with your OCD
@@jmhemtp hey it helped him make a full recovery so he can confirm the memory's of the pain stop him from giving in to his ocd now so yes I can confirm it works
ocd is such a painful disorder. its not just being clean. i saw a reply to a comment that says “intrusive thoughts dont discriminate”, which is sadly correct. i have ocd and i cant describe how intense this disorder is.
Honestly, this is a very sad case and I do feel for him. The measures were obviously very drastic but this guy seemed to be struggling hard to do something like this.
It makes me sad how many people in these comments are not informed on OCD. I have OCD, my mother is an OCD therapist- OCD is not just being clean or a neat freak. OCD is unwanted, obsessive thoughts that lead to compulsions. One of these sub categories is very commonly hyper sexuality, sexuality, pedophilia, or sexual OCD. These are thoughts that a person does not want, but happen anyway so they often react with a compulsion. The reason this makes me think that he probably had OCD is he reacted to his own unwanted sexual thoughts by essentially castrating himself which would be considered a compulsion. Intrusive thoughts are often misunderstood and used in the wrong context compared to impulsive thoughts. Intrusive thoughts can be brutal, sexual, gory, intense unwanted thoughts. Impulsive thoughts are like- dying your hair or buying something. Intrusive is unwanted Impulsive is without thinking. People with intrusive thoughts do not normally act on them- let alone want them. Many obsess over their thoughts and find ways to continually act on compulsions. OCD is so wildly misunderstood and a HUGE stereotype. I hope someday the disorder is understood better than it is in the general population,
Unless something gets into the standardize education system, most of the populace of the country will be completely ignorant about it. Nutrition being a prime example (and one full of corruption here in the US). Sad fact of reality, and one that's unlikely to ever change in our lifetimes no matter how much we wish it did..
Where's the last place you remember seeing it? If we just retrace your steps, I bet we find your lost testicle in no time. Teamwork makes the dream work!! ✌️
Eight months ago back in November, I had epididymitis in my right testicle and I was in a lot of pain. I just remember thinking “I’m only 21 and I’m going to be walking around with one ball for the rest of my life.” They did an ultrasound on both my testicles and they also gave me some antibiotics. I thought that was pretty bad, however after hearing this story I don’t think that was really bad after all.
As a woman, I would also say it's not that bad too! I've never heard any girl praising or caring about that part of the body to be honest... And you can always get a prosthetic one and never tell a soul, we wouldn't know. It could be a different story when it comes to having children -maybe- but in that case it's just a matter of trying harder, which shouldn't be unpleasant after all. So cheer up ❤
@@Neerepha Genitals are very unattractive things anyway, regardless of sex or species. They can put in a prosthetic but most people don't bother. My Brother had one taken out at 19 because of cancer, he was O.K afterward I don't think it has ever bothered him.
I knew a kid who was missing one, in the youth rehabilitation system. He had an implant, but they called him the “Bionic Balls,” because this information somehow got out. He spent his youth in treatment and reform institutions, due to bullying and running away so he didn’t have to go to school. So happy for kids that there is anti-bullying curriculum today. I hope that kid is OK now and not still on the streets suffering from addiction because some people are so mean!
@@ericconnor8419 Well, I’d say genitals are “attractive,” but not for looks. That Your saying that makes me feel a lot better about the fact that my insurance won’t fix ugly hemorrhoids. A lot of people have things that make their genitals not pretty. One of my kids had a hydrocele (fluid in the testicle) and after his surgery, his testicles were very asymmetrical. The sac around them, I mean. It’s normal for genitals to look “weird.” But you’re right…those parts aren’t “pretty “ anyway.
i suffer from hypersexuality due to trauma and his circumstances are scarily familiar to me. im just thankful for the years of cbt (the therapy kind lmao, not the wikipedia article!) that prepared me for those thoughts and feelings in the workplace. i hope he got the support he needed for something so intimately upsetting in both the physical and mental sense. its hard to describe for people who arent used to it; but these kinds of thoughts and feelings can make you feel gross, uncomfortable. and in many cases when there are also societal gender norms in place, it can make you feel very predatory. like a monster or something.
@@squanchy666 thank you! Also this was a cruel revelation that RU-vid retroactively added in my username from around 2010 instead of having me make a new one 🤢
It’s soo sad to hear that this man felt soo low about himself for having his thoughts, shout out to him for realizing how bad they got and wanted to help himself before something bad happened. I hope he got actual help after that incident.
@@nothingboie7329 just keep praying and seeking Him. I used to be an athiest and hated the idea of religion. Start with the bible and prayer. He wants a personal relationship with you :)
Maybe in these videos your comment applies, but of course that is anti-survivorship bias, you only would hear that phrase tied to something bad, if something bad happened. Not like learning electromechanics on my own caused me to inject myself with cesium or whatever.
@@clayton8or I've stumbled onto you comment in my research of electromechanics and cesium. Finally I found what I was looking for! I shall inject myself with cesium, per your advice. Thank you! And, yes, you are right about survivorship bias.
@@clayton8or researching "electromechanics" is fundamentally different. the laws and physical properties and math around electromechanics are well documented, and reading a textbook on it would just be memorizing concepts. Other people have already come to these conclusions. This guy had looked up science papers and came to his OWN conclusion AND acted on it. The analogy would be like reading a few physics papers and coming to the conclusion that gravity is just magnetism
When a stupid or mentally ill person does their own research, that is when it always ends badly. An intelligent or educated person can research all day and never cross that threshold of idiocy and end up mutilating themselves.
Woo! Go clean butthole! Im realizing that, I am kinda comin up to that time in my life where I should get one. Mid 20's. Figure 30's I should have my first one? No noticeable issues, but I have (non-genetic) family members that have had different cancers. Heavens I don't want a bag.
@@jommydavi2197 this video is transphobic you really ought not to joke and make light of the situation here. EDIT HOW? Nearly half of all transwomen end up committing suicide and so many people are claiming it's a mental disorder!
I thought it was just going to be that a guy was holding something between his thighs because his hands were busy and that was all it took to cause weird shit to happen to his friendlies.
It sounds like he achieved his objective. I sympathise with the man because I know it can be extremely frustrating living with egodystonic sexual arousal. It's like Pure O OCD but worse because it's driven by testosterone. It's kind of like a food addiction, but worse because sexual arousal is taboo and acting on the powerful urges would hurt other people. You don't go to jail for buying and eating a dozen doughnuts.
"You don't go to jail for buying and eating eating a dozen donuts." Unless you are in Florida and a brain dead cop thinks that the glaze that fell from the donut is meth.
Word. I'm a recovering meat beater addict. It took me almost ten years to find someone who could help me, and not belittle me or the issue, and have an understanding of the problem. I think another reason sex addiction is downplayed to a normal sensation because people don't want to admit there's a problem (like how decades ago fewer people admit smoking and drinking can be a problem).
@@ravensthatflywiththenightm7319 Yeah. Wish I wasn't making that up. Look up donut glaze meth or something like that. Cop found a piece of glaze from a donut and said it was meth and arrested the dude. Just where everyone keeps their meth, out of a baggy and on the floor. Edit : He got a $37,500 settlement.
I have OCD (including thoughts of harming others) and I feel really bad for the guy. There's a difference between having intrusive thoughts and actually being a sexual predator (same with having thoughts of killing people and being homicidal), it sounds like he was the former.
@@BumboLooks Having OCD does not make someone evil. I cannot control the thoughts that pop into my head and greatly disturb me. By that standard you should call people with hand-washing OCD "evil" too.
@@matthewcrome5835 You are evil if you have OCD intrusive thoughts about hurting other people... Washing your hands until they bleed is merely self-harming...
Having ocd over germs is FAR LESS concerning than imagining killin someone….if someone is feeling things like that that’s tranatizing. Too many people are acting on it sadly
"Immune Privilege" heard that for the first time today. I didn't even know that kind of mechanism existed in the body. Wow nature is so smart! Thanks, doctor for making these informative videos.
God created this barrier for the fact that sperms are first made in puberty, unlike in females which ova r made during intrautrine life, and at puberty they only grow and mature thats why the immune system "cant see" the sperm during development in order to consider them self-antigens that also explains why men can still have kids at age 1717373 y.o while females can't thats also explain why old women have higher risk of giving birth to a child with diseases like dawn syndrome anyway.. go thank Allah for his creations
wow. didn't click on this video thinking that the subject of it would be suffering from intrusive thoughts from ocd. i've been living with it since i was ten. i'm twenty three now, and i'm very grateful that i have been fortunate enough to receive treatment for my compulsions and obsessions before they had an opportunity to become this severe. i feel heavily for these patients. life truly can be hell with this disease.
There used to be a food co-op in my neighborhood where you could get raw cow, goat and sheep milk. It was popular with the crunchy crowd as well as cheese-makers. The certification and health department issues got so complicated and expensive they had to stop in like 2009. Nowadays there are a couple of places you can still get it here in Oregon, but it's very, very rare.
Huh?!? He was "a good person" because injected stuff into his nuts, because of a fetish?!? I happen to be familiar with this utterly bizarre case, and there is a BUTTLOAD left out of this video (because it's not medically relevant... And would DEFINITELY get demonetized...) (Believe it or not) this is about a fetish "polycule" of gay furries, all obsessed with having oversized genitals, esp balls. And it ended with one (VERY suspicious, and even more avoidable) death, and another man permanently paralyzed... And NONE were "good people"- They ALL watched someone they claimed to "love", die very slowly, very preventably and did NOTHING. all because they were too fixated with their own fetishism. The full story is EXTREMELY fvcked up... (iirc there was a YT video called "Dylan and the Muscle-Pups" about the whole shitshow.)
Yeah, OCD is torture. I have it, its not that "oh i want this picture frame to be even and centered" thing everyone thinks they have, this is an absurdly frustrating thing to actually live with.
This episode honestly made my eyesight go a bit grey as if I was about to fain because my blood was struggling to get to my head because this made me feel so unwell.
i was having a REALLY rough day. watching this video sure put THAT into context. i am no longer having a bad day, thank you for reminding me just how bad it can get. WOW.
and the lesson here is, just because a guy might get cheese on his nob, it don't mean the ball sack is the right place to try making it,,, so if you buy a cheese making kit always follow the instructions 😁
